Worked with kids as a man, it's very easy to be defensive because you get a ton of side eye pretty much every day for very normal things, the lense people interpret you is very different than your female colleagues.i understand why but doesn't make it feel any better.
@MrLlamaSC oh absolutely, seen it plenty where people dig a hole for themselves because they feel they need to be defending themselves even when no one has been an aggressor yet simply for being in such a space.
@@MrLlamaSC Lots of suss stuff in that thread, for sure. But, as the parent of an aggressive autistic kid, I'm actually here for his original presentation of his ability to care for such a child. I've had a lot of caregivers say, "I'm great with high energy kids" and learned I couldn't trust that as an indicator that they would be able to handle my son.
@@stacyvlasits honestly, Ken sounds autistic himself. it would make sense with the wording, job history, and quirks. I'm autistic (asperger's diagnosis a long time ago) myself and do very well with my wife's nephew who is autistic. Ken could just be a shiftless loser, but you never know, he could be a great fit for the right kids.
The discussion is a bit weird but what I can tell you is I am a social worker and worked with kids of all ages and adults. In some situations it is mandatory have a male interacting with aggressive kids. You need a lot of mental and sometimes sadly also physical strenght. This is well known in this job.
I watched a TV documentary about a mom who was a lawyer but retired to take care of her kid, cause nobody wants to go near him. He is 6'6", 300lbs, autistic, extremely shy, and 99% of the time just hides from people and rocks back and forth. But 1% of the time he goes berserk, and screams, and attacks anyone in sight, including his mom.
@@todorsamardzhiev144 I had to take care of such a kid, you absolutely need males in such environement, not because he might be dangerous to others but for the safety of the kid first.
Social worker? I grew up in the foster care system. Social workers would be the last people I’d take advice from, right behind mob bosses and drug dealers.
Theres just one thing I find super weird in these kind of public social media conversation, im sorry but to me its not weird at all if people look at your PUBLIC PROFILE thats the entire reason a profile even exists at all, If you dont want strangers to see it that is COMPLETELY normal and that is EXACTLY why you can make your profile private. Public profile means yes I can go through your pictures because you post them publicly and you want people to see it and react to it. Why is it weird to look at the stuff you post in public in the hope of getting more views ? if you dont want anyone to see it then make it private and be happy that you get less views. You cant have both lol
I mean i see it both ways. Like yes it is public but dude also didn't really have reason to go looking through her profile. Maybe just a tad unnecessary.
@@MrLlamaSC Looking is ok, go commenting he did it and talk about the kid of another unkown person is whats creepy af. But to me the big red flag is the photo of the dude. Why? if you dont have the basic self awereness of knowing that picture is not appropiate to find a job, specially babysitting, then i dont want to think about how he deals with other important stuffs. I know some inmature adult like that and i would never hire them for anything lmao
I once watched a documentary about a guy who scammed his way into a school and taught the kids how to be a rock band and ended up taking them to a battle of the bands
Who is this big Llama? Starting all this drama? EDIT: Also, of COURSE they kicked you out of the group. You're using a Pete Davidson avatar instead of your real photo.
Hilarious. A microcosm of where we are as a human community. Thanks for sharing. This video still doesn't explain why diablo 4 is bad though. Maybe Ken has opinions? We'll never know now.
Yes, but it is your choice to have them be babysat. Trust is essential here, and you can't just discriminate against someone and then use your children as the excuse. Just be a rational skeptic, instead of making fragile assumptions.
@Celeborn93 I mean. I feel like we agree. What I'm saying is. If you see somebody. And you don't like the way the comb their hair. And feel like you should keep looking for a different babysitter . Trust your gut and keep looking.
@@jonathanrothmare3509 Right, i guess i just kinda feel like those are widely different things though, from the way you worded it in your op. But i get ya.
New D2R class confirmed: The teaching - sus - babysitter 💛 Can't wait to see the skilltree! Pretty sure, the main skill is gonna be "Unexpected diaper explosion" Well...ty for the holiday vibes...I guess? oO
If you don't want information or pictures to be seen don't make them public. If you make them public don't complain about people looking at it. Posting photos of your baby in a public space is borderline child abuse anyway depending on context.
@@MrLlamaSC This is actually the weird part to me -- he invited people to "do a background check", but when they did, he called them creeps. In my culture at least, acting overly defensive is a major red flag.
I was so confused when this popped up on my feed from MrLlamaSC amid all of my POE 2 videos... But, I'm here for it. Also if you need a male babysitter for any of your stashes, i am great with regal, exalted and divine orbs of all temperaments.
P.S. I do have a buddy who would work weekends as a hotel bellman up in Alaska in the summers on top of his full time salaried job because the tips were really good and it's easy work. Just work what that's worth.
I'm gonna have to butt in before I hear the rest of the story, but "Aggressive" kids is a real concern. I have friends in child care, two of which deal with autistic kids and special need kids and some of them get very physical. I've heard more than one horror story about being punched or elbowed in the face.
Aggression can be autism-spectrum, ODD, severe ADHD, or just poor upbringing, or a combination of any of those things. Finding someone willing to be in those situations can be rough, particularly if word gets around. And it may be that Ken encountered issues in the past where he described a kid and the parent took offense at the labeling; oddly enough, some parents would rather view their kids as 'aggressive' than one of those specific categories. I know this because I was one of them before I came around and got the kiddos properly diagnosed. That being said, private or not, that group should be doing a full vetting of anyone posting. IANAL but this sounds like a lawsuit waiting to happen to the mods if something were to go sideways. Now quit running around Amp'd and give us a HC run.
Legit if Ken has the skills of a full stack developer he needs to find a position that is not outsourced to India for $19 an hour vs 6 figures. Get with a DoD contractor that will sponsor your security clearance and get paid a deserving salary.
@@glorbog Well here we would also have to look at the data and make an informed decision. If (hypothetically) every survey and study show that there are far more man-on-woman violent crimes in the woods, than there are bear attacks, then yes. The most logical decision would be to choose the bear.
I dont get it. Did i miss something in the beginning? Is this the sotry of how Llama got a restraining order? Or is Evo looking for a better job? I guess everything is content.
Yeah. The first post was a bit blunt but kinda pragmatic. Perhaps English is his second language. But then he dug himself a suspicious hole like a gemmed Shako.
Man i was sitting here getting all mad, poor Ken just trying to make a living and everyone is out to get him for being some kind of creep.. And you kinda made it seem like you were agreeing with them and it was pissing me off 😂 great storytelling
Ashley is crazy. You post something online do be surprised when people click on it. Ashley is the crazy one here. And yes, some children are aggressive and angry and crazy. He is saying he is willing to work with all children. If you had a child like that you would know how hard it is to find someone to help. These Facebook crazies are annoying. Ashley thinks she knows everything because she can use LinkedIn…..
As someone in the field of special education we used to say aggressive behaviors, but now we state it as injurious behavior. Aggressive denotes intent, there isn't always intent to hurt. That said, if you have an aggressive autistic kid you aren't going to be offended, they know exactly what it's about.
Whats crazy to me is that you guys consider going to a public profile and look who the person is, is too much? Whats the point on having your facebook page public then?
If you are going to leave your kids with a stranger. I would like to have profile picture and that the profile has been checked. And that there are either recommendations from other people or that there has been some kinda control on this. I do not know how the system you guys have over there. But for me the profile is way to sus for me to use it.
this is better content than the D2R patches
more substance to it
Yes
i cant believe i was so invested in this story.
IT WAS LLAMA ALL ALONG!!!!!!!
As a Twitch streamer you're pretty much dealing with problematic babies full time anyway, may as well move into the lucrative world of babysitting.
Worked with kids as a man, it's very easy to be defensive because you get a ton of side eye pretty much every day for very normal things, the lense people interpret you is very different than your female colleagues.i understand why but doesn't make it feel any better.
I mean i get it. If I take my girls out by myself many people side eye me. But the way he presents himself sure could use some work lol
@MrLlamaSC oh absolutely, seen it plenty where people dig a hole for themselves because they feel they need to be defending themselves even when no one has been an aggressor yet simply for being in such a space.
@@MrLlamaSC Lots of suss stuff in that thread, for sure. But, as the parent of an aggressive autistic kid, I'm actually here for his original presentation of his ability to care for such a child. I've had a lot of caregivers say, "I'm great with high energy kids" and learned I couldn't trust that as an indicator that they would be able to handle my son.
@@stacyvlasits sounds like we found you your next babysitter 😂 I'll give Ken a call
@@stacyvlasits honestly, Ken sounds autistic himself. it would make sense with the wording, job history, and quirks. I'm autistic (asperger's diagnosis a long time ago) myself and do very well with my wife's nephew who is autistic. Ken could just be a shiftless loser, but you never know, he could be a great fit for the right kids.
The discussion is a bit weird but what I can tell you is I am a social worker and worked with kids of all ages and adults. In some situations it is mandatory have a male interacting with aggressive kids. You need a lot of mental and sometimes sadly also physical strenght. This is well known in this job.
As the parent of an aggressive, autistic kid, I'm 100% here for him saying it just the way he did. High confidence rating.
I watched a TV documentary about a mom who was a lawyer but retired to take care of her kid, cause nobody wants to go near him. He is 6'6", 300lbs, autistic, extremely shy, and 99% of the time just hides from people and rocks back and forth. But 1% of the time he goes berserk, and screams, and attacks anyone in sight, including his mom.
@@todorsamardzhiev144 I had to take care of such a kid, you absolutely need males in such environement, not because he might be dangerous to others but for the safety of the kid first.
Social worker? I grew up in the foster care system. Social workers would be the last people I’d take advice from, right behind mob bosses and drug dealers.
Real autism or just the everyone is autistic autism today? Do they say “high functioning”? Can he communicate?
the fact that mothers don't like their kids being called aggressive is why we have so many problematic children nowadays.
Is he discriminated? Perhaps. Is he sus? Definitely.
Theres just one thing I find super weird in these kind of public social media conversation, im sorry but to me its not weird at all if people look at your PUBLIC PROFILE thats the entire reason a profile even exists at all, If you dont want strangers to see it that is COMPLETELY normal and that is EXACTLY why you can make your profile private. Public profile means yes I can go through your pictures because you post them publicly and you want people to see it and react to it. Why is it weird to look at the stuff you post in public in the hope of getting more views ? if you dont want anyone to see it then make it private and be happy that you get less views. You cant have both lol
I mean i see it both ways. Like yes it is public but dude also didn't really have reason to go looking through her profile. Maybe just a tad unnecessary.
@@MrLlamaSC Looking is ok, go commenting he did it and talk about the kid of another unkown person is whats creepy af. But to me the big red flag is the photo of the dude. Why? if you dont have the basic self awereness of knowing that picture is not appropiate to find a job, specially babysitting, then i dont want to think about how he deals with other important stuffs. I know some inmature adult like that and i would never hire them for anything lmao
Just because someone is in public doesn't mean it's polite to stare at strangers. Unless they're celebrities.
I once watched a documentary about a guy who scammed his way into a school and taught the kids how to be a rock band and ended up taking them to a battle of the bands
Its a long way to the top if you wanna rockNroll
Facebook groups are some of the most unhinged places on the internet 😂
"Then he kicks me out of the group" 😂😂😂😂
You got to be picky when choosing mercs!
LMAO 🤣
I think most moms would prefer "agressive" to "violent and destructive" personally.
some kids are aggressive 🤷
yes, and so is Ken
Some people dont like the truth. They need softer words to describe negative things. weak people
Parents hate to hear their children arent perfect beings from heaven.
Sure. But there’s better ways to word things. If he was really a specialist in child care he’d know that.
My toddler punches people randomly then screams “I don’t know!” When you ask him why he did that. Kids are assholes sometimes.
Who is this big Llama? Starting all this drama?
EDIT: Also, of COURSE they kicked you out of the group. You're using a Pete Davidson avatar instead of your real photo.
Hilarious. A microcosm of where we are as a human community. Thanks for sharing. This video still doesn't explain why diablo 4 is bad though. Maybe Ken has opinions? We'll never know now.
I can try to hit Ken up privately and get his opinion
You should discriminate against anyone potentially babysitting your kids .. don't be sorry
It's your kids safety
Yes, but it is your choice to have them be babysat. Trust is essential here, and you can't just discriminate against someone and then use your children as the excuse.
Just be a rational skeptic, instead of making fragile assumptions.
@Celeborn93 I mean. I feel like we agree. What I'm saying is. If you see somebody. And you don't like the way the comb their hair. And feel like you should keep looking for a different babysitter . Trust your gut and keep looking.
@@jonathanrothmare3509 Right, i guess i just kinda feel like those are widely different things though, from the way you worded it in your op.
But i get ya.
@Celeborn93 we all protective bears! 🐻. 😂. Appreciate yah 🙏
Wtf was that ending 😂
I'm bad at editing okay
@@MrLlamaSCwe forgive you.
Llama was Ken all along.
I was just gonna say is Llama trolling as Ken?? Because with that abrupt ending he kind of made it out to seem that way…
I was waiting for the part where you burst out the wall in your ARPG character cosplay and slayed ken like a boss and took his loot.
Lol, this segment should be called "The Terror Zone"
Dude has more red flags than a military parade in the soviet union.
More red flags than a Chinese embassy
Llamas restraining orders ended around 2019
Im a dude who taught preschool and babysat for 5 years. That guy is VERY weird and off putting, I would not trust him with kids at all
New D2R class confirmed: The teaching - sus - babysitter 💛 Can't wait to see the skilltree! Pretty sure, the main skill is gonna be "Unexpected diaper explosion"
Well...ty for the holiday vibes...I guess? oO
3:52
Why is looking at a public profile "creeping" around?
I believe it is just the unnecessary "i looked through your photos." Like sure you CAN do it but why are you doing it?
@MrLlamaSC I mean, you *can* post private details to Facebook, but why would you?
The logic seems circular.
I'll never feel bad for "creeping" people profiles, it's 90% of what makes FB groups fun.
If you don't want information or pictures to be seen don't make them public. If you make them public don't complain about people looking at it. Posting photos of your baby in a public space is borderline child abuse anyway depending on context.
@@MrLlamaSC This is actually the weird part to me -- he invited people to "do a background check", but when they did, he called them creeps. In my culture at least, acting overly defensive is a major red flag.
Homeboy went from creepy in the beginning to commenting like a normal dude at the end.
I mean I don’t see a problem with a guy babysitting. Maybe I’m missing something…
I see a problem Llama trolling chat as Ken and taking other ppl's time. Not a huge world class problem, just annoyance.
Didn’t know Llama’s commentary content could be so enjoyable to watch. Llama you should start a Moist Crit1kal style series 😂
MrllamaDrama new series
It honestly sucks being singled out as a guy, but wow, what a way to paint a target on your own back.
Actual Llama Drama and Im here for it! 😂
Male stigma is horrible. Men are treated terribly in this society.
Classic Mr.Llama. The ending made me laugh until I cried. Thank you.
ROFL what a creep, don't hire that guy
gotta say it like it is, if the kid has aggression issue, he's aggressive
This was fantastic, more of this during down time would be great
I was so confused when this popped up on my feed from MrLlamaSC amid all of my POE 2 videos... But, I'm here for it. Also if you need a male babysitter for any of your stashes, i am great with regal, exalted and divine orbs of all temperaments.
It's actually hilarious how refreshing this is to hear. You're good at telling the story, too, bro
P.S. I do have a buddy who would work weekends as a hotel bellman up in Alaska in the summers on top of his full time salaried job because the tips were really good and it's easy work. Just work what that's worth.
Congratulations on coming out and congratulations on the new job
man... that shako drop at 5:55 ... didnt expect that
I'm gonna have to butt in before I hear the rest of the story, but "Aggressive" kids is a real concern. I have friends in child care, two of which deal with autistic kids and special need kids and some of them get very physical. I've heard more than one horror story about being punched or elbowed in the face.
It's like watching a modern Jane Austin novel about babysitting threads.
Aggression can be autism-spectrum, ODD, severe ADHD, or just poor upbringing, or a combination of any of those things. Finding someone willing to be in those situations can be rough, particularly if word gets around. And it may be that Ken encountered issues in the past where he described a kid and the parent took offense at the labeling; oddly enough, some parents would rather view their kids as 'aggressive' than one of those specific categories. I know this because I was one of them before I came around and got the kiddos properly diagnosed. That being said, private or not, that group should be doing a full vetting of anyone posting. IANAL but this sounds like a lawsuit waiting to happen to the mods if something were to go sideways. Now quit running around Amp'd and give us a HC run.
I enjoyed this far more than I care to admit
This is the ARPG content I need
llama drama, I am here for the tea
Not the video I was expecting, but absolutely riveting nonetheless.
Legit if Ken has the skills of a full stack developer he needs to find a position that is not outsourced to India for $19 an hour vs 6 figures. Get with a DoD contractor that will sponsor your security clearance and get paid a deserving salary.
Right??
The man posted this… in his Pajamas. I say, we get the firewood and put it to the test!
love the GTA Vice City thumbnail
Diablo kids grow up; get married, have no time for games: Diablo streamers: “will sit your kids for 200/hour.”
Merry Christmas everyone
Aggressive babies are a problem in some states.
💀 this was great. You should do more videos like this.
Father llama arc is good content!
I ain't hiring no dude babysitter I don't know personally. It's simply a probability thing.
What makes you think a woman wouldn't be a weirdo?
I get it, but it's stupid. You're literally saying "bear or man in the woods alone"
100%
@@glorbog Statistically
I agree with you. Although I work with children even I would be very hesitant to hire a man. Like you said just probability thing
@@glorbog Well here we would also have to look at the data and make an informed decision. If (hypothetically) every survey and study show that there are far more man-on-woman violent crimes in the woods, than there are bear attacks, then yes. The most logical decision would be to choose the bear.
dude is either selling him like a businessman or being creepy XD
llama gets weirder and weirder to be honest...
that ending was amazing. lmfao
I dont get it. Did i miss something in the beginning? Is this the sotry of how Llama got a restraining order? Or is Evo looking for a better job?
I guess everything is content.
Wow Ken said one nice thing about Naomi’s kid & suddenly she’s riding for Ken? That is crazy.
She stanned Ken hard
It wasn't that wierd until he started explaining himself 🚨 🚨 🚨
Yeah he started digging in those explanations
Yeah. The first post was a bit blunt but kinda pragmatic. Perhaps English is his second language. But then he dug himself a suspicious hole like a gemmed Shako.
Yeah, leave that group. Plan better so you do not need a urgent babysitter.
Man i was sitting here getting all mad, poor Ken just trying to make a living and everyone is out to get him for being some kind of creep.. And you kinda made it seem like you were agreeing with them and it was pissing me off 😂 great storytelling
Put him on a list!
If there arent any more riveting stories of the day from llama like this in the future, im unsubbing.
Nice and fun video. I used to babysit a kid who became an MMA fighter and bare knuckle fighter. And I am a dude so this was hilarious.
kids cry when their parents leave, what is he on about lmao
I thought this was going to be about babysitting chat.
This calls for a nanny cam at least.
Llama using his platform for good
Ashley is crazy. You post something online do be surprised when people click on it. Ashley is the crazy one here. And yes, some children are aggressive and angry and crazy. He is saying he is willing to work with all children. If you had a child like that you would know how hard it is to find someone to help. These Facebook crazies are annoying. Ashley thinks she knows everything because she can use LinkedIn…..
As someone in the field of special education we used to say aggressive behaviors, but now we state it as injurious behavior. Aggressive denotes intent, there isn't always intent to hurt. That said, if you have an aggressive autistic kid you aren't going to be offended, they know exactly what it's about.
Whats crazy to me is that you guys consider going to a public profile and look who the person is, is too much? Whats the point on having your facebook page public then?
If the profile was public what’s the issue? Make it private if you don’t want people to see.
More compelling lore than D4
Wait is Llama trolling as Ken?? Because with that abrupt ending he kind of made it out to seem that way…
Lol no I just posted myself after all that. Blue text is my account
@ haha no I figured and after reviewing the end I see the blue text lol
lol I loathe that I got vortexed into this drama, kenllama!
I have raised 8 kids. I would not let ken babysit and would not watch Ashley's kids. Both have issues.
Be extremely careful with guys who want access to your young children.
"verbage" is not a real word or how it's even pronounced. stop using it
haw is the wrong verbage
@@Bondokill lol fixed
This guy is just a male Adjutant.
My 5 year old is aggressive AF just saying
being parents is hilarious lol
Can't wait to buy the book!
This had me in tears!!
So you’re Ken. I sure hope not.
If you are going to leave your kids with a stranger. I would like to have profile picture and that the profile has been checked. And that there are either recommendations from other people or that there has been some kinda control on this. I do not know how the system you guys have over there. But for me the profile is way to sus for me to use it.
Little sheep, little sheep! Let me in!
Can't wait to see these texts on the next episode of to catch a predator!
Wild you trust people with your young children I could never trust anyone but my wife
Perfect end LMAO
Naomi is Ken's sleeper agent. I would check her too.
She joined team Ken with very little thought and just started throwing punches at everybody
Llama you absolute troll!!!!!!!!!! Lmao
Did Ken get a restraining order against him?
Things wild over there in parent land
Bro. Make more content like this.
Is this a new mod?
better story then d4
Where is diablo... what channel is this?
Ashley ate ngl