Your guest is too "arrogant" just because she stayed in Germany a few years. Staying in western world would not her a "class'. Singaporean generally is well travelled but we are down to earth and humble. Only the bottom people like to make comparison. This is first time i heard people comment SG is 井底之蛙！Still hold a stigma married angmo is "high" class..what a joke.😊
The conversation was interesting. Since I am from Switzerland, I am not quite sure whether I totally agree with the invited guest in this episode that the normal schools in Germany are that great. Did she attend an international school or a ’normal’ school? Has she not heard about the growing violence - and increasingly inability of students to read and write - in public schools across Germany, especially Berlin?
Diggitmagazine quote : "Singapore was one of the first countries to start globalizing in Asia, which gave it a head-start in becoming a core nation surrounded by (semi-) peripheries. The huge economic development I described above thus paved the way for Singapore to become a center in the capitalist world-system."
@@user-ug4je2zn5f is a well known fact that Singapore based its economy on the world , be it small or big economies, not only on one huge economy. Any relation we have with others is based on win win concept.
When a rose managed to grow from a hard concrete, you would not judge some damaged petals. You would graciously respect its tenacity. You would celebrate its will to reach the sun.
A 5 yo receiving an ipad as bday gift shows Singapore future not conducive for her kids? All our public schools uses ipad and laptop! We are living in a rapid moving digital world not typewriter era hello?!!! Yes it's obvious you don't fit in our world move out!!
@@MD196xmost Sporeans living in HDB are NOT poor. Go observe the P Banking queue, many are old folks holding large fixed deposits. Expats like this CEO may not has 500k , LOL.
You are right. In neighborhood schools, you will afraid your kids interacting with ah Beng ah Lian. But sometimes it is no better in elite schools. They can score straight As but inside how rotten they are we won't know.
Thank you for putting up this episode. I am Singaporean, had most of my education here, and while i may not fully agree with what your guest says - her perspective on Singaporeans are definitely quite narrow minded and biased, I do appreciate her perspective and her right to express her views. Sometimes (some) Singaporeans get very defensive when foreigners say anything critical about Singapore, but why can't a foreigner who has spent time in Singapore express critical views about Singapore, as long as it's done respectfully? As Singapore society matures I wish more Singaporeans are confident and humble enough to listen to and accept outside criticisms, so that we can progress and be better. So thanks again for putting this up, even though it may not earn you many popularity points!
Thanks for sharing. Singapore education is changing.. but parents are still lagging behind. School standards are directly related to parenting quality..😂
NOT evybody wants to be Somebody. We are happy to be ourselves. NOT everybody enjoys chasing the rainbow. When a child' parent is nobody, no kidnapper is interested. LOL
Thank you for your perspective. It's true that different backgrounds and upbringings shape our values in unique ways. It's important to respect and preserve our own values while also being open to understanding and appreciating those of others. Diversity is what makes our communities rich and vibrant. Let's continue to celebrate our differences while finding common ground.
Comparing Singapore to China is like comparing a durian with a durian plantation. What Singapore can produce in terms of talent cannot be compared to descendants of the Great China Literati intellectuals. Whereas, Singapore (to quote Lee Kuan Yew's words) are "descendants of farmers, shopkeepers from the Southern Provinces". What people don't know is that the thinking of the westerners have been baked into the dna of such southerners that to compete and surpass their achievements, we ought to know their strengths and weaknesses, understand their history, read their literature, understand their politics etc etc.
@drjennyli Jenny, the education system here in Singapore, unlike yours in mainland China; we emphasized more on the development and potential of the students. China's education system is a dog race mentality. Your guest can have her contrasting views, but by saying the Singapore education system is similar to mainland china is misleading and untrue.
@@johnchua9387 so you are saying meritocracy and elitism don’t exist in Singapore ? Then why parents still care about grades rather than unique character of kids? How come there are so many academic tuition Center in every single shopping mall? If every single school is good school, why real estate around so called “ branded” school cost way more ?
@drjennyli Meritocracy does exist in Singapore. That is how we maintain our cohesiveness and ensure all citizens, regardless of race, religion, or background, have an equal opportunity to improve their current living standards via education according to each citizen's learning ability. We do not have the關係systems generally practised in China, whether in school entrance or in any career entry or advancement, well, at least not in those establishments other than Mainland Chinese registered organizations . As far as elitism is concerned, it is those rich taitai or a very small amount of less educated (to me they are) so called rich man mentality. Elitism is flown upon in Singapore. That's why true blue rich Singaporeans are a quiet lot. With regards to your question on why parents do care about grade,; again, are a small minority of true blue Singaporeans family but with the influx of so many mainland Chinese ^new^ citizens, this grade caring mentality is rampant, the same as like comparing how rich they are between them That 炫富mentality runs deep in Mainland Chinese culture. So please, do not promote or spread this kind of ideology in our society. We do not advocate that. Remember, the majority of you guys are just 過客 using Singapore as a platform to escape China's oppressive governance. You may be the exception, but your parents are still very akin to your mother land. That is why the Mainland Chinese mentality is imbued into your systems. You can deny it, but it shows in your content interviews, especially those mainland Chinese interviews.
@@drjennyli Even in the USA and Australia, residential real estates cost more in good established sxhools, not just in Spore.Why did many study -Mamas come here with their kids for the sake of better education? PRC generally are far more competitive than locals. Just hear how your guest' tone talking Spore in a demeaning way said much of the character. A bloated frog will find her tummy burst into air when she blows too much hot air!
This woman behaves and sounded like 90s Singaporean attitude.. LMAO 🤣 let's forgive her still undergoing behavior changing from a third world MENTALITY To developed country.... Speechless... SO US 20YRS AGO
@@mic5391 Also don't forget there is another lady kena chopped into a few pieces in 2004 murder case in Singapore by a Singaporean uncle. So what's your point?
I agree with her. Singaporeans take things for granted. Children over protected hence not independent, some go overseas for tertiary education also need parents to go with them to settle down or even stay a few months there.
@@andrewlim4296My 4 kids went overseas for exchanged 6 months, I never accompanied them. For what? Their friends as far as I know also got no parent go there with them. Never heard of that. I do know parents go there esp (exchange in Europe or China) for holiday at the same visit the kids there.
Suggest that you go back to China and enjoy the love of the communist party! Long live president Xi! Please bring your family along as well. I love China.
如果说去新加坡或是欧美国家念书是想争取某些优势，然后回国更好找工作，我劝你还是别浪费这些钱了。 根据社会学家边燕杰的研究，在中国大部分的人都是靠关系获得工作，而且这种现象整体上一直在上升，尤其是现在Covid开放后的中国。人家去新加坡或是欧美国家念书，其目的是方便移民。一般在西方国家或新加坡找工作都是靠个人实力和才智而不是靠关系。 说到新加坡虽然国家小，人口只有6百万还少过苏州人口一个二线城市，但是它具有两所世界级的大学：NUS 和 NTU: (2025 QS World University Rankings) 1 Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) 2 Imperial College London 3 University of Oxford 4 Harvard University 5 University of Cambridge 6 Stanford University 7 ETH Zurich 8 National University of Singapore (NUS) 9 UCL 10 California Institute of Technology (Caltech) 11 University of Pennsylvania 12 University of California, Berkeley (UCB) 13 The University of Melbourne 14 Peking University 15 Nanyang Technological University, Singapore (NTU) 16 Cornell University 17 The University of Hong Kong 18 The University of Sydney 19 The University of New South Wales (UNSW Sydney) 20 Tsinghua University
非常好的視頻!
谢谢🙏🏻
資訊很好
很高興聽到外國人不同的觀點。 如果你說這個國家的任何壞話，這裡的很多人都會被冒犯。 雖然新加坡是一個偉大的國家，但它也有自己的問題。 許多當地人生活在一個小世界裡，與外界隔絕
Your guest is too "arrogant" just because she stayed in Germany a few years. Staying in western world would not her a "class'. Singaporean generally is well travelled but we are down to earth and humble. Only the bottom people like to make comparison. This is first time i heard people comment SG is 井底之蛙！Still hold a stigma married angmo is "high" class..what a joke.😊
@@drjennyli - only see a few Singaporeans , they think they know Singapore well. what a load of crap.
李光耀从来不相信西方试的民主能能带来社会进步，也不能用于新加坡。新加坡也被叫做‘奇迹之岛’，因为在独立的时候，没有人相信新加坡能够生存，更不可能建国。只有台湾愿意帮我门，只有以色列愿意帮我们建立国防，就连联合国都懒得理我们。外国人不知道新加坡历史，不知道我们是怎么走过来的，那是正常的。但是很多外国人只看到新加坡现在的辉煌，拿新加坡跟大国比，甚至还以白人优越和殖民时代的眼光来批评新加坡。新加坡是一个独特，不可能复制的国家， 但是人们还是经常拿新加坡和香港比，却不知道很多新加坡每天要面对的问题和挑战，是香港永远都不会有的。 所以连香港都不能比，怎么可能跟欧洲大国德国比呢？
有一个中国人曾经说过： 新加坡是最靠近天堂的地方。
我也有一个瑞士的客户，说新加坡是一个永远在建设中的国家。
新加坡年轻一代，是有点安逸，但是政府的危机感和其他的排名一样，是世界数一数二的。 我们不断的在以适合我们的方式来建设和改进，是为了生存，不是要建设一个天堂。
我不知道新加坡在五十年后还会不会存在，但是全世界的人都会永远记得，新加坡人靠自己的努力，勤奋，智慧，毅力和运气，创造了一个奇迹。
香港根本没办法跟新加坡比, 背靠中国庞大的市场做支撑, 生活物资源源不断从大陆运往香港, 军事有中国负责, 真是得天独厚的优势. 当年索罗斯要做空香港, 都是大陆出手相救.
新加坡除了比较有优势的地理位置, 真的是极度缺乏资源, 很不容易.
Long time since nobody has been Speaking like that... That kind of myopic mentality
谢谢你记得台湾和以色列曾帮助新加坡建立国防系統。連联合国都大小眼时这兩国的情义。(上帝会看见)
要了解一般中国人的想法，去看看那些在台湾政论节目留言的中国观众就容易明白了 ；不错，中国的确在3 -50年强大了，一般生活也改善了，但在修养上可跟不上啊 ？他们还是停留在中国就是天下，中国人很聪明，中国制度就是成功的並不接受批评 …… ！一提到新加坡，就是李家坡啊，屁小的国家啊，小国装老大或胆敢联美阻中等等 ！一幅高高在上的姿态，什至还说新加坡欠打 ？中国古人的智慧，修养呢 ？所以有些人的口气凭大，也就不意外了 ！！！😅
文革十年，有智慧修养的都被批鬥下来了。 剩下来的都是这些”战士”了。．
只以在新加坡居住几年光景所遇到的几则例子下定论，似乎过于草率，以偏概全。评论也显示她个人所处的圈子是十分狭小，相信不是住在组屋区，不了解新加坡人不认为住组屋是低人一等。假如德国有如她所描述的绝好，为何要來这里受罪？受不了她那种和白人一样看轻亚洲人的优越感。
从另一个角度来看她的说詞，觉得隐约间露出心底深处的自卑感去否定新加坡国民安居乐业的乌托邦生活，就如墙内人常调侃”新加坡也不过如此！”。
嘉宾分享自己的看法.
@@mic5391 间接地在说新加坡80%是穷人
@@mic5391 穷富标准也跟人而异。有位身价 us20M 的富人跟我说他不觉得富裕, 因为山外有山, 过了这座高山突然看到更多更高的山比他更富的人。😅所以个人素质修养更重要
我看过许多的中国人制作的视频，整体来我有一个感觉，中国人分3种，一种移民外国爱党国，天天以中国人身份自豪，还是在中国人圈里瞎混，
一种是批评中国，但自认客观，反党爱国，一种是恨不得把自己的中国人身份抹去，彻底融入当地。
但无论他们是偷渡移民，投资移民，技术移民，婚姻移民，他们都会对各国互相比较，寻找一个最适合移民的国家，好像逛超市一样，货比三家
即使最穷困的走线偷渡移民，他们都会选择美国，连葡萄牙，墨西哥，巴西都不考虑。
这本来也是无可厚非，但这些中国人有没有考虑过自己能为当地付出什么贡献吗？移民不是逛超市呀，更像是求职，当地国家也是要考虑你的能力
和家庭背景，还要考虑你的家庭成员会不会成为负担。
所以，中国人考虑过能为当地做出什么贡献吗？德国把这位嘉宾培养成材，然后她就溜了。😁
@@诚聘板主 其实那里人都一样·。将好听是吸引外来人才，讲不好听是经济难民 😅
嘉賓先把自己放在高点耒批評新加坡人才是问题的所在，別把你所处的高层小圈子所遇到的情況耒判斷一般普通的新加坡人，更別利用高傲的上海人耒扁低我們新加坡的学生的优势，我曾經在上海公干过，了解一般上海人那种自视过高人一等的心态。
中国的城市分三六九等，一线城市都是靠国家的政策和资源优先，上海不会因为水电从江浙走，人家给你加价，也不会时不时给上海的车加过路费，不会给上海的车来江浙加油要交更多的税，新加坡困难多了！
Egoistic to the maximum. Google her niche business..Zazazu.
共产主义社会，可是屋价又太高。我好羡慕哦。
我也在上海工作过， 在那不可谦虚，就可以生存。刚到那我用了在这里工作了十年的勤奋努工上进的方法，我是很幸苦的工作了三个月，过后我改变了工作方式，不在谦虚礼让也轻松的做确做出了很好的成绩，。。后来回来星自己创业至今己径27年了。。。我们新加坡人太单纯了不是没脑子。。。。
新加坡从水源，能源到粮食都有很大的危机感。你把新加坡比喻成温水煮青蛙完全是错误的，新加坡人的危机感估计是全世界最强的，和以色列的生存意识几乎是不相上下。新加坡人，尤其中高层人民对问题一清二楚，新加坡人只是不会和你掏心掏肺的表达。😁
是的，新加坡人的危机感是全世界最强之一！我在中国做生意超过30年，住过3年，给我留下最深刻的印象的是：中国社会没有危机感！从政府到百姓，各个都是认为是“厉害国”，是世界老大了，不可一世！
新加坡的政府，从不间断的提醒我们：新加坡是多么的脆弱！今天的一切可以瞬间消失！
刘小姐，妳怎么样看Tiktok 的新加坡CEO?他有世界观吗？新加坡国父有世界观吗？妳对新加坡人的看法太负面了。妳说的没错，新加坡人去中国没有优势。现在就算是中国人在国内也没有什么优势除非他有关系！
千辛万苦孟母三迁，最终的目标是把孩子送回中国发展🧐？
结果还说送去西方教育会更好的出路。脱不了崇洋媚外的思想 😅
@@MD196xshe is just an oppourtunist- nobody who aspires to be somebody, lol. Good riddance when she leaves for a bigger market, back to China.
新加坡籍币安新首席执行官邓伟政 曾是金管局高管
总结，这位外国女士就是一个在各国的寄居蟹， 寄人篱下的生活又没有谦虚的国际情商，到哪里都是惹人讨厌
yes, totally agreed with you, after watching the interview, she is just a typical rich expat coming to singapore. She has no soul.
这周的嘉宾还真敢说。如果说话前多点思维，多用点情商会更好。这种就是stereotype。用自己圈子的人来决定全新加坡人的思维。视野太狭窄了。
德国把这位嘉宾培养成材，结果她就溜了，去比较哪一个国家更适合她居住，中国人移民好像在逛超市，哪一家好她就去哪一家。完全不考虑为当地做出贡献。这就是中国人。
@@诚聘板主跟你说, 这个人去到哪里就抱怨到哪里。
@@andytan2537nothing wrong with her nationality but I think her personality will rub people the wrong way.
@@andytan2537i called her out for stereotyping and the last thing I want to do is to stereotype people based on nationality. So yes, I'm sure.
这是谁啊？奇怪怎么会在这里呢？
我看过许多的中国人制作的视频，整体来说我有一个感觉，中国人分3种，一种移民外国爱党国，天天以中国人身份自豪，还是在中国人圈里瞎混，一种是批评中国，但自认客观，反党爱国，一种是恨不得把自己的中国人身份抹去，彻底融入当地。
但无论他们是偷渡移民，投资移民，技术移民，婚姻移民，他们都会对各国互相比较，寻找一个最适合移民的国家，好像逛超市一样，货比三家，即使最穷困的走线偷渡移民，他们都会选择美国，连葡萄牙，墨西哥，巴西都不考虑。
这本来也是无可厚非，但这些中国人有没有考虑过自己能为当地付出什么贡献吗？移民不是逛超市呀，更像是求职，当地国家也是要考虑你的能力和家庭背景，还要考虑你的家庭成员会不会成为负担。
所以，中国人有考虑过能为当地做出什么贡献吗？德国把这位嘉宾培养成材，然后她就溜了。😁
中国人不是应该留在自己的国家把自己的国家改造的更好，更自由民主吗？
确实
以为国大说话声音就大
国情不一
靠的是智慧
不是土地有多大
大国這么厉害
还有這么多人来到這小国
从没听说过這里有人要去那落地生根
小院不能筑高牆
难道大院就须要吗
新加坡不適合移民，他们聪明 素质高 收入好，社区清洁 天气好。中国人学历再高也会被看不起，別去~千万别去。希望新加坡人对政府怒吼，別收任何新移民进小红点了。
@@梁琍-i4n 日本人，台湾人，香港人，欧美人，澳洲人，加拿大素质都不错，新加坡很欢迎
中国人来新加坡素质好的也有，她们应该知道问题出在哪里。
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@@诚聘板主 新加坡人民的肢体语言，对外人排斥，这很诚实。而且新加坡人爱国，国家大大好，所以从不移民。
@@梁琍-i4n 新加坡人是聪明的，知道接受什么样的移民对新加坡好，不是不接受移民，而是选择性的接受移民。
我想你结交朋友也不会乱七八糟的结交吧。
我给予中国人的劝告是不要移民外国爱党国，而且不要把自己的文化带来当地。而是设法融入当地文化。
法国人就比中国人理智多了，被采访的法国人说，你移民去别人的国家，当然是你必需做出更多的努力去融入当地，而不是希望当地来迁就你，这么简单的道理你不懂吗？
不要把自己的问题当成是所在国的问题。还有中国人党国抱团意识是会被全体拉后腿的，你应该了解中国人在外国的形象不是很正面吧，要有自知之明呀
看视频
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为何留在新加坡？
中國人等拿到新加坡公民之後自然就會走了！
刘静进的谈吐飘出一股村姑味，并不是她的黑皮肤让人误会她是农民。
很有趣的一期，我喜欢嘉宾的独立见解， 简洁易懂，百分百同意，特别是教育那方面。
The conversation was interesting. Since I am from Switzerland, I am not quite sure whether I totally agree with the invited guest in this episode that the normal schools in Germany are that great. Did she attend an international school or a ’normal’ school? Has she not heard about the growing violence - and increasingly inability of students to read and write - in public schools across Germany, especially Berlin?
I am not aware of this .
这毕竟只是个访问，她又不是在做什么考題，所以回答肯定不可能全方面。
大家要了解这支影片只是表达了受访者的个人观点，而这观点也是从她在新加坡的生活圈子得到了一个结论。我们虽然提出 counterargument, 但她的观点应该被尊重的。
如果客观地看待她回答，我得知她要表达的意思是如果拿亚洲的那种内卷的教育，尤其新加坡与中国，与西方比较多样化的教育做比较，亚洲更注重学术上的成绩而忽略了陪养世界观与对事物的那种好奇心吧！以这点来讨论的话，她其实漏掉把中国人也纳入井底之蛙了！因为他们比我们做得更卷，也更死板。她只提新加坡也是无意的，因为问题就是那样子的问。
如果拿国家大小讨论的话，她说的是事实。新加坡就只有那么大，机会只有那么多。但国家大也是问题。中国也因为那么大，那么多机会，反而导致了中国人无需出国门，也成了井底之蛙。她也默默承认了这点。如果你仔细听的话，她并没有把中国纳入出国发展的选择。只提到了西方社会美国，澳大利亚等。
最后，她不是一名对这方面的学者。就当作是纯属娱乐吧！
@@mic5391 所说属实👍
Diggitmagazine quote : "Singapore was one of the first countries to start globalizing in Asia, which gave it a head-start in becoming a core nation surrounded by (semi-) peripheries. The huge economic development I described above thus paved the way for Singapore to become a center in the capitalist world-system."
@@user-ug4je2zn5f is a well known fact that Singapore based its economy on the world , be it small or big economies, not only on one huge economy. Any relation we have with others is based on win win concept.
很客观，理智的分析，赞👍！
讲得很好,同意
When a rose managed to grow from a hard concrete, you would not judge some damaged petals. You would graciously respect its tenacity. You would celebrate its will to reach the sun.
对德国的教育制度只想做一点小小的纠正。首先在德国的教育制度是免费的，小学到大学都是免费的，德国公民的孩子或在德国有居留身份的孩子在德国享受免费教育，包括难民的孩子。在德国只分私立和公立学校，没有什么普通学校和精英学校之分。 德国的小学只有四年，中学分6年和8年或9年两种。6年的中学的毕业生不能直接升大学。8年的中学毕业生可以直接升大学。德国的大学是对全世界免费开放的。德国的小孩享受免费医疗到25岁(在没有工作的前提下)。像这位受访者的父母已离开德国了，她没有在德国的合法居留身份，但是想在德国读书，就只能自己花钱上私立学校，生活费也要自理。她的家庭在中国应该是富裕的。德国的私立学校是专门给那些读书没出息的在公立学校毕不了业的，但是家里比较有钱的学生上的。等于花钱买文凭。不是什么精英家庭的孩子才上得起的。德国政府的宗旨是所有的孩子可以接受好的教育不管他们的父母收入多少。在德国没有中考高考，小学中学只读半天书。学校的老师都是大学文凭还要有教师资格证书，是公务员。我的孩子很幸运可以在德国长大。上午读书下午有时间做功课还可以上兴趣爱好班，德国的老师也非常放松，上午上课下午批改作业。这种教育制度非常理想! 德国虽然是小国，但是德国是一个伟大的国家!
正确。我新加坡朋友就享受了德国的免费教育，得了硕士文凭，说了一口流利的德语，为当地做出了贡献。
德国的免费教育好像好像不限于公，居和难民，而是所有人。只要能考进和愿意在德国读，国外的人也免费。
新加坡小没有天然资源所以没有所谓的免费
拿新加坡来比较大小根本就是一个笑话。难道她来之前没看地图吗？全世界都知道我们只是一个小红点，但是会发光发热的地方😂😂😂
當然。雖然父母渴望孩子的成功是很自然的事情，但考慮我們灌輸給他們的價值觀也很重要。我們不應該只強調高位和財富等外在成就，而應該優先考慮培養善良、力量、愛心、樂於助人和謙遜等特質。透過關注這些特質，我們致力於培養全面發展的個人，他們不僅在自己的努力中表現出色，而且認識到同理心、同情心和包容性的重要性。這種方法培養了更積極和平衡的觀點，確保成功不僅以物質利益來衡量，還以個人成長及其對他人的正面影響來衡量。
那为什么你们大选一直讲拼经济
精英(elite)的定义就是在世界顶尖的大学里与各国尖子竞争而又能取得最优等成绩。
也就是说是属世界级別的人材。
不是个人自以为事“精英”就是精英的
很奇怪，在德国生活这么多年,应该被德国人白人看不起，中国人講话就是高傲，只是有一点成就，为什么还要耒新加坡找生活,
这位女士在另一次采访中被吐槽，再次挑战
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
生活在三个国家，但思想仍是井底之蛙
镀金的中国大村姑
Jenny的父亲让人感觉舒服多了。
应该是个人修养的原因。
谢谢☺️
Jenny 的父亲与叔叔，在谈话言语间才有体现中国精英思维的人
这女的就如从中国农村大姑讲话那样粗暴不得体
说来说去自己就是那个尖子, 把自己抬得好高,, 看不起普通人就对了！
I really appreciate your candour. Your views are insightful and fair.
嘉宾给人的感觉就是我是优质人种，我就是要更高更强更大!😅听她说话太压抑、可怕!人生的意义不只是成为人上人，说句不好听的话还是国人思维，并没有世界视野
我个人是这么觉得的。教育部所说的curriculum是一样的，但是许多家长会觉得环境不一样。
在名校，大家是抢着坐前排。因为接近老师，更好听课。大家都比较积极回答老师所发问的问题，或者会举手问老师问题。
而邻里学校，大家都抢着坐后排。因为可以偷玩手机，偷懒睡觉。当老师发问问题时，大家都是低头，不和老师对视。而当老师问大家还有什么问题时，基本上是不会有那么积极的反应，大家都等着下课。
不论是基因造就人才还是环境造就人才。由于基因不可逆转，那就只好由环境去塑造自己的孩子成才。这应该就是为什么有些家长会想把自己的孩子往名校送。
另一个要说的是，中国国内近年来是比较排斥海归的。不论妳在哪个国家读过书，就职于哪个外企，有一部份的面试官就是会故意刁难。
有可能是羡慕嫉妒恨，也有可能是出于爱国情绪，认为妳出国留学或为外企工作就是“卖国贼”。
有看过非你莫属的节目，就不难猜想到为什么那位上海在新加坡做到高管的职位却吃闭门羹。某种意义上，有没有可能是面试人员自己的不专业，刻意无理的打压？而非理性的去给予每一个参加面试的求职者一个相对的尊重。算是尊重大家的时间，而非以势压人。
就我所知,教育部刻意把大学成绩好的教师安排在邻里学校.但家长怎样看又是令一回事
新加坡公民才是新加坡国族的Everybody ，不是只Somebody 与Nobody ,
大白话是外国人只是Anybody . 随时新国政府都可取消其PR /居留权。
新加坡现任总理是普通鄰里学校的学生. 大学取得奖学金去美国留学。
这个人
从德国跑来这里封生活，还講到这样。以为是政府請他耒，呸呸。不自量力。
自卑與自大are two sides of the same coin.
Typical example of humble farmer girl from origin
特别好的一期， 嘉宾言语很真实，欧洲和亚洲的对比， 非常恰当， 可能伤害一些人，但这就是事实。
也许有些观众没有办法接受这个事实.
这人自认为自己很聪明，但是没有智慧。
新加坡国在短短五十多年就完成了孔圣与孙文的大同世界的高文明境界，与廉洁社会的文化。
中国有五千年历史都无法完成。
错。新加坡没有这样目空一切，眼高于顶。只有你，自己，才达你说得标准，
@@panda63725比的起有五千年历史文明的邻国就很好了
A 5 yo receiving an ipad as bday gift shows Singapore future not conducive for her kids? All our public schools uses ipad and laptop! We are living in a rapid moving digital world not typewriter era hello?!!! Yes it's obvious you don't fit in our world move out!!
How many parents are doing that? Don’t forget that according to her, the 80% of Singaporeans staying in HDB are poor people.
She’s a 🐸 in the well
@@MD196xmost Sporeans living in HDB are NOT poor. Go observe the P Banking queue, many are old folks holding large fixed deposits. Expats like this CEO may not has 500k , LOL.
更恐怖的是以为自己家的大池塘就是全世界了！
很多中国人来新加坡住了几年，就以为自己很懂的新加坡. 她一点都不接地气，她的生活圈子也很小.
She has the gift of the gap , a privileged background and full of herself !
感谢您分享您的想法，请尊重别人的视点. 谢谢🙏🏻
来宾见识及格局太小。。。見不到新加坡的深处。。应该去組屋住看看!
感觉就是一个普通的大陆妇女的三观啊
刚看完Keyu Jin在英国的采访。突然想起这个视频。两个都是海外长大的。形式上都是金鹰。内容差远了。
我建议嘉宾多看一些二大爷，公子时评，文昭，洛奇訪談等人的视频节目，如果你把孩子送回中国，估计你孩子改天会恨死你。这是我给予你的有用资讯。😁
拒绝接收全面的资讯是肯可怕的。
nothing wrong with the school is the background of the students you mix with
You are right. In neighborhood schools, you will afraid your kids interacting with ah Beng ah Lian. But sometimes it is no better in elite schools. They can score straight As but inside how rotten they are we won't know.
讲的有声有色.为什么不回去你们的强國
这期的感觉不太好
频道要有多样话的内容和嘉宾不同的看法.
@@drjennyli建议您以后访问一些有真正和新加坡人相处过一段很长时间的嘉宾。
@@MD196x 也不是的，我们需要了解一些短时间就下结论的人的看法。因为这是第一印象
@@诚聘板主 新加坡人是井底之蛙是第一印象？你问问国际公司这是不是事实🙏
我是说相对之下
青蛙跳不出的说法,是一个狭隘的说法, 国家的大小並不是决定于所谓的"井底之蛙"的论点,其实很多新加坡人都在国外打拼事业, 以人口的比例是比多数的大国还高,Tik Tok 总裁周受资是一个很好的例子, 而且新加坡是世界上一个资讯非常发达的国家之一, 怎么会跳不出去呢？😅
Thank you for putting up this episode. I am Singaporean, had most of my education here, and while i may not fully agree with what your guest says - her perspective on Singaporeans are definitely quite narrow minded and biased, I do appreciate her perspective and her right to express her views. Sometimes (some) Singaporeans get very defensive when foreigners say anything critical about Singapore, but why can't a foreigner who has spent time in Singapore express critical views about Singapore, as long as it's done respectfully? As Singapore society matures I wish more Singaporeans are confident and humble enough to listen to and accept outside criticisms, so that we can progress and be better. So thanks again for putting this up, even though it may not earn you many popularity points!
Thank you. Our channel strives to showcase diverse views and voices. We will continue to do so in the future. ☺️
As a Singaporean, this is a very mature and cultured comment! Kudos!
Agree with you .
在新加坡中學你的孩子不是頂尖你也沒有能力進去，小學你可以搬到頂尖小學附近但如果你的孩子沒有能力最終你會害死你孩子，問題是因為新加坡小祇有培養精英人才才不會浪費，你的看法一點都不全面 太可悲了 如果你是這麼強，你的孩子也強回去幫助你的國家強大吧，歐美正在欺負你的國家你還在追捧歐美
不认同嘉宾所讲，对我们新加坡一知半解，我是土生土长的新加坡人，孩子在这受高等教育，之后被派出到英国，美国，日本，香港金融机构服务，现回国了，是井底之蛙吗？
感谢您分享您的想法，请尊重别人的视点. 谢谢🙏🏻
大国心态是改不了的
Thanks for sharing.
Singapore education is changing.. but parents are still lagging behind. School standards are directly related to parenting quality..😂
Pls this woman behaves 20yrs our mentality... Should stay out of this episode wasted
有没有想到单从资讯接收这方面，新加坡已经比很多大国强得太多太多了？因为🈶️双语的接收能力，我们好比比别人多长了一对眼睛和一对耳朵。
如果一个国家很大，人民接收到的资讯不全面或是没能力接收某些资讯，这些人才更像井底之蛙吧！
说到比例，我们的留学生比例也很高好不好？即使没出国留学，我们的大学生很高的比例都会到国外去交流。
不能把你们的留学生拿来跟我们的非留学生比好不好？再说土生土长的新加坡人向往的是在国际公司上班，需要的是国际观而不是某大国的国内外。失礼了🙏🙏🙏
这是嘉宾自己的看法.
@@drjennyli非得这样把白说成黑才甘愿是吗？每每看到一些国家的人民因为种种原因只能接收到很片面或被漂白过的讯息，心里很替他们难过。真正井底之蛙是很可悲的好不好？可悲到不知道自己的处境还把别人称为井底之蛙，阿弥陀佛🙏🙏🙏
这个人从德国耒这里言古生活,說到好像政府請他耒这样。真丢臉，呸。
@@jeffreychua7144 新加坡培养的是具有国际视野的人才。如果要培养某大国需要的人才，这里的确是不适合🙏
这是很多中国人的心理话，政府要小心咯
Go to German internstional School. U can well afford it.
不认同最后那段话。虽然澳州地广人少、生活舒坦，但在世界地位上，无论是大学的ranking或就业机会，并不比新加坡强。另外，现时的美国社会腐败、经济衰退。你会选择在一个崛起的国家或正“沦陷·”的地方寻机会呢？另外，新加坡做高层如何会输给在大陆做高层的呢？对于各不同市场的了解，需要多加认识，那是必然的。但，做高层就一定是看战略、领导和商务管理技能，而不仅仅是对市场的了解而已。本人就被聘请过去上海做管理。
感谢您分享您的想法，请尊重别人的视点. 谢谢🙏🏻
嘉宾说得很中肯。If you are not somebody, you are nobody😅
NOT evybody wants to be Somebody. We are happy to be ourselves. NOT everybody enjoys chasing the rainbow.
When a child' parent is nobody, no kidnapper is interested. LOL
难道她不知道世界没有十全十美的国家。中国人心态
新加坡学校 syllabus 都一样可是环境所你所说的就很不同了
德国有如她所描述的绝好，为何要來这里受罪？Full of BS
嘉宾自己观点分享，不需要用脏话留言.
Values??? Different upbringing backgrounds definitely very different ....pls let us keep our own...tku
Thank you for your perspective. It's true that different backgrounds and upbringings shape our values in unique ways. It's important to respect and preserve our own values while also being open to understanding and appreciating those of others. Diversity is what makes our communities rich and vibrant. Let's continue to celebrate our differences while finding common ground.
如果一个社会只看重金钱、那实在是太可怕了😱
那你们大选还一堆人讲拼经济
世界这么大她为什么要来新加坡呢？
在中国与西方，都不接受她。
To be somebody here !! LoL.
为什么不能來？
新加坡面积如此之小，以至于很多新加坡人都会在周末前往邻国马来西亚的新山作为逃避现实的一种形式。
非常没水准的视频,尤其是来宾.讲话大声又快很不优雅,但我能理解,不是每个人都能拥有好的修养.
新加坡公民才是新加坡国族的Everybody ，不是只Somebody 与Nobody ,
大白话是外国人只是Anybody . 随时新国政府都可取消其PR /居留权。
Comparing Singapore to China is like comparing a durian with a durian plantation. What Singapore can produce in terms of talent cannot be compared to descendants of the Great China Literati intellectuals. Whereas, Singapore (to quote Lee Kuan Yew's words) are "descendants of farmers, shopkeepers from the Southern Provinces". What people don't know is that the thinking of the westerners have been baked into the dna of such southerners that to compete and surpass their achievements, we ought to know their strengths and weaknesses, understand their history, read their literature, understand their politics etc etc.
我把整个视频听完。虽然她说的话很多新加坡人听了不爽，但做为本土出生的新加坡人，我不反对她说的。
再听她自己是顶尖的, 她的兒子肯定也是顶尖的, 話可别说满了！
Can you be specific ? Thanks
她不是精英出生，她孩子也不是精英，只是有钱的普通头脑的庸俗人。
精英(elite)的定义就是在世界顶尖的大学里与各国尖子竞争而又能取得优等成绩。
大国心态是改不了的
All schools are good schools. The only difference is the home environment. 😏
Dr. Li, thanks for sharing this video & introduce this smart lady to the world. Support u. 👍🏻👍🏻
爱炫耀爱攀比是这些人的特性
这是妳的人有問题。
Sad to say that totally agree your point of view in SG. 😢
Coz your ignorant.
顶级学校的环境和同学群的背景对小朋友起很大的作用，所以人人都选名校
这是一个现实.
这不是绝对的，而且很可能起副作用，如果孩子本来就不是读书的料。如果搞出攀比心态会眼高手低。
Sad & tragic logic.
这就是所谓的名校，孩子考不好又怕丢脸所以买假文凭
更多优质联动～太棒了
谢谢
拜金有理，光棍无罪，自寻烦恼，活该倒霉。💪💪💪
没文化的想法,落后而且非常不入流. [请不要删我的贴!] [删了贴然后营造一副言论自由的Channel!~] It's not gracious at all. I'LL SCREESHOT IT.
還是中國人心態。Both of you really have no clue about Singapore. Disappointing episode.
Can you specify ?
@drjennyli Jenny, the education system here in Singapore, unlike yours in mainland China; we emphasized more on the development and potential of the students. China's education system is a dog race mentality. Your guest can have her contrasting views, but by saying the Singapore education system is similar to mainland china is misleading and untrue.
@@johnchua9387 so you are saying meritocracy and elitism don’t exist in Singapore ? Then why parents still care about grades rather than unique character of kids? How come there are so many academic tuition Center in every single shopping mall? If every single school is good school, why real estate around so called “ branded” school cost way more ?
@drjennyli Meritocracy does exist in Singapore. That is how we maintain our cohesiveness and ensure all citizens, regardless of race, religion, or background, have an equal opportunity to improve their current living standards via education according to each citizen's learning ability. We
do not have the關係systems generally practised in China, whether in school entrance or in any career entry or advancement, well, at least not in those establishments other than Mainland Chinese registered organizations . As far as elitism is concerned, it is those rich taitai or a very small amount of less educated (to me they are) so called rich man mentality. Elitism is flown upon in Singapore. That's why true blue rich Singaporeans are a quiet lot. With regards to your question on why parents do care about grade,; again, are a small minority of true blue Singaporeans family but with the influx of so many mainland Chinese ^new^ citizens, this grade caring mentality is rampant, the same as like comparing how rich they are between them That 炫富mentality runs deep in Mainland Chinese culture. So please, do not promote or spread this kind of ideology in our society. We do not advocate that. Remember, the majority of you guys are just 過客 using Singapore as a platform to escape China's oppressive governance. You may be the exception, but your parents are still very akin to your mother land. That is why the Mainland Chinese mentality is imbued into your systems. You can deny it, but it shows in your content interviews, especially those mainland Chinese interviews.
@@drjennyli Even in the USA and Australia, residential real estates cost more in good established sxhools, not just in Spore.Why did many study -Mamas come here with their kids for the sake of better education? PRC generally are far more competitive than locals. Just hear how your guest' tone talking Spore in a demeaning way said much of the character. A bloated frog will find her tummy burst into air when she blows too much hot air!
小小孩还是要小心谨慎。30多年前失踪的几个小孩到现在还知道在哪里、😢
你的脑袋里还停留在30年前。可悲啊！
机场好想24小时都在开。。。。。。滚吧
哈哈哈中國人就是中國人
This woman behaves and sounded like 90s Singaporean attitude.. LMAO 🤣 let's forgive her still undergoing behavior changing from a third world MENTALITY To developed country.... Speechless... SO US 20YRS AGO
这毕竟只是个访问，她又不是在做什么考題，所以回答肯定不可能全方面。
大家要了解这支影片只是表达了受访者的个人观点，而这观点也是从她在新加坡的生活圈子得到了一个结论。
其实生活只要活得开心，自在，有意义就好了。无需做那么多比较。无需活在别人的影子里。这也是我从我生活圈子里得到的结论。
她在新加坡的生活圈子到底有多大？ 大到可以扭曲事实？新加坡人很大的比例从小就一年两次出国见世面。求学过程更有很多从小学就跟学校出国交流，参加各种比赛好不好？大学更不要说了，除了covid期间不要说，很大比例的大学生都会去外国交流顺便旅游个大半年，怎么就成了井底之蛙了？即使不出国，新加坡人看的是各种平台各个国家的事实节目，怎的就成为井底之蛙了？？
@@MD196x 你说得没错，我也是土生土长的新加坡人，比她更了解我们的教育体系啊，生活方式与态度等。
但如果客观地看待，以她对新加坡教育那微薄的了解，我猜想她要表达的意思是如果拿亚洲的那种内卷的教育，尤其新加坡与中国，与西方比较多样化的教育做比较，亚洲更注重学术上的成绩而忽略了陪养世界观与对事物的那种好奇心吧！她也是无意的，因为问题就是那样子的问。
以这点来讨论的话，她其实漏掉把中国人也纳入井底之蛙了！因为它们比我们做得更卷，也更死板。
如果拿国家大小讨论的话，她说的是事实。新加坡就只有那么大，机会只有那么多。但国家大也是问题。中国也因为那么大，那么多机会，反而导致了中国人无需出国门，也成了井底之蛙。她也默默承认了这点。如果你仔细听的话，她并没有把中国纳入出国发展的选择。只提到了西方社会美国，澳大利亚等。
最后，她不是一名对这方面做考察的学者。就当作是纯属娱乐吧！
@@lecherhao86 人就是这样，你所说的是事实我能接受。亚洲的教育体系是时候要做改革了。是不是井底之蛙不是看国家的大小，是看人民接触到世界的机会多不多。
@@lecherhao86难道她不知道世界没有十全十美的国家。很多中国人的确是像她这样的心态
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頂尖=很累，而且是一輩子！
没有钱在新加坡生活很困难。当地人称之为“pek chek”。
西方人更開明、更平等！
Merlion mighty 🙂🙏
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有钱人的天堂，没钱人的……
这里不适合中国人😂
哈哈，新加坡现在有近半人口是妳们中国人哦😂😂😂😂
一直拿星国再来講😭
好奇怪的想法，
Foreigners should google about Huang Na, the 8 year old girl from China that was killed in Singapore in around 2002-2004.
@@mic5391 Also don't forget there is another lady kena chopped into a few pieces in 2004 murder case in Singapore by a Singaporean uncle. So what's your point?
Yes, and the girl was sexually assaulted and murdered by a malaysian !
这集嘉宾说得很有道理，但我相信新加坡人民应该很难听得进去。
频道要有多样化的声音和看法. 是的，也许有些观众没有办法接受，或者不愿意听.
新加坡人能接受新加坡并不完美，还有很大的进步空间。但是所言必须属实🙏
I agree with her. Singaporeans take things for granted. Children over protected hence not independent, some go overseas for tertiary education also need parents to go with them to settle down or even stay a few months there.
@@andrewlim4296 as what u had mentioned, some, one or two or three cases out of thousands? Anyway, I had never heard of this 😅
@@andrewlim4296My 4 kids went overseas for exchanged 6 months, I never accompanied them. For what? Their friends as far as I know also got no parent go there with them. Never heard of that. I do know parents go there esp (exchange in Europe or China) for holiday at the same visit the kids there.
那你们回中国吧
有钱人在讲话
新加坡小孩也可能被扮走
Suggest that you go back to China and enjoy the love of the communist party! Long live president Xi! Please bring your family along as well. I love China.
Can you be little more specific ? Thanks
‘新加坡什么都有了’？80%新加坡人住公屋HDB，又闷又小又贵，吃喝小贩中心，又热又挤又吵，外出挤公交车/地铁，挤爆。这就是80%一般新加坡人的生活。新加坡没有企业家，没有老板，都是打工企业职员，被西方、日本大企业雇佣，这也是他们一辈子的志愿，就算自己一生很成功了。造成他们只拜日本人，西方洋人。
住屋，飲食，交通，就业，环境这么差，卻有近一百万中国人挤在新加坡，为追求更美好的未來？
一百二十万中国人在马来西亚不愿意回去中国。
说年轻人要出去，刺激了很多人的小心脏啊，还是说讲华语的人不愿意接受指责😂
哪一个国家混不下去的年轻人不出走？
@@mic5391 说到重点了，新加坡人可以相对的在很多国家工作生活。要出走还要看人家要不要你🙏
10年后新加坡会是变成怎样？如果你有留意新加坡本地新闻报纸和电视新闻，每年新加坡大学生失业很高，比起各国甚至更惨。找工作竞争激烈找工很难，大学生毕业即失业不少见，满街都是，长期失业，年轻人很担心...。他们被逼当的士Grab司机，Panda送餐员，小贩，炒果条，鶏饭，杂菜饭，小贩中心砍生猪肉，捡破烂，小贩中心卖唱，侍应生，幸运一点就啃老族，父母须养他/她们一辈子... ...。学生年轻人失业、犯罪、吸毒问题、精神病... ...。新加坡跟西方国家越来越像，而最像就是澳洲。15岁男生持刀打抢7-11便利店。14岁男生进金店偷金饰被逮个正着，他说因为他欠8万赌债...。今年2023，部长尙木根被逼展开一个吸毒委员会... (最近国庆日，49名新加坡男子约会集体在圣淘沙吸毒被警方侦破，警方全岛扫荡，14岁和17岁男生贩毒，而最小吸毒者是14岁男生...)。5年任期，总统哈里玛整天都在电视推广精神病课题...不能叫精神病须改名心理卫生。因为新加坡很多骇人精神病凶杀案。
哦，那你别来，回去你 的国家，有些人就是嘴巴賤，唠叨不停，还死賴不走。
@@minlichan7587在新加坡有很多像牠這種自卑自大的馬來國的人！
我儿大学一毕业马上就有很多公司清他去上班了,那来的难找工作
我先生公司想请员工都请不到，请问你说大学生失业在哪里？大学生失业的应该是外国人吧，因为本地孩子越来越少了，所以怎么可能找不到工作？
9640大马犭句又是你？又是你包头国的拦叫会飞
如果说去新加坡或是欧美国家念书是想争取某些优势，然后回国更好找工作，我劝你还是别浪费这些钱了。
根据社会学家边燕杰的研究，在中国大部分的人都是靠关系获得工作，而且这种现象整体上一直在上升，尤其是现在Covid开放后的中国。人家去新加坡或是欧美国家念书，其目的是方便移民。一般在西方国家或新加坡找工作都是靠个人实力和才智而不是靠关系。
说到新加坡虽然国家小，人口只有6百万还少过苏州人口一个二线城市，但是它具有两所世界级的大学：NUS 和 NTU:
(2025 QS World University Rankings)
1 Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT)
2 Imperial College London
3 University of Oxford
4 Harvard University
5 University of Cambridge
6 Stanford University
7 ETH Zurich
8 National University of Singapore (NUS)
9 UCL
10 California Institute of Technology (Caltech)
11 University of Pennsylvania
12 University of California, Berkeley (UCB)
13 The University of Melbourne
14 Peking University
15 Nanyang Technological University, Singapore (NTU)
16 Cornell University
17 The University of Hong Kong
18 The University of Sydney
19 The University of New South Wales (UNSW Sydney)
20 Tsinghua University
感谢你的分享。这个话题确实很复杂，各国的就业市场和文化都有其独特的特点。关于在中国找工作的方式，关系网络在许多地方仍然扮演重要角色，但这并不代表所有人的努力和才华不会得到认可。
至于在新加坡或欧美国家学习的目的，很多人确实希望通过教育提升个人能力，开拓更广阔的职业发展空间。新加坡的高等教育体系尤其受到全球的认可，NUS和NTU等大学培养了许多优秀的人才。
每个国家和地区都有其独特的优势，选择在哪里学习和工作的决定是基于个人的目标和情况。希望大家能理性看待不同的观点，保持开放的心态，尊重每个人的选择和努力。