Getting THERAPY in FRONT of the WORLD 💔 PT2 | EZEE X NATALIE | UNSOLICITED TRUTH REACTION

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  • @JanayBarrett
    @JanayBarrett 2 роки тому +16

    That Wet and Dry analogy is 🔥🔥🔥

  • @MommyCici_
    @MommyCici_ 2 роки тому +7

    “Listen to understand, not reply.”
    That’s the biggest communication problem ..

  • @ARB500
    @ARB500 2 роки тому +18

    This was a great video from EXN and I loved your input Nikki. But IMO this is not something that is happening in real time in their relationship. I believe they are already in a good space. So they are now able to bring this to youtube for content and to show the more grown up direction they want the channel to go which I personally think is great.

  • @tlady7777
    @tlady7777 2 роки тому +61

    Natalie said in her past relationships she argued a lot too! I think Natalie has abandonment disorder traits because of her childhood and she needs individual therapy to work on her inner childhood trauma. If she works on that, I think her defensive side would become more tamed. I feel like Ezee needs to work on taking more action into doing for Natalie. She has become lazy in doing things for Nat. She either buys things or gets someone else to set it up. Nat wants effort. Think back to their Valentines day video. Ezee had Kiante set up everything and bought Nat a grill, Nat had the 5 senses gift. I think that is the comfortablilty Nat was talking about. If they both focused on those two areas the most, I think they will naturally get better.

    • @AshleyLewisGrey
      @AshleyLewisGrey 2 роки тому +2

      Agreed

    • @lashan3103
      @lashan3103 2 роки тому +2

      I was thinking that same thing but for both of them

    • @niqulusviii987
      @niqulusviii987 2 роки тому +6

      that part hit me too, childhood trauma is serious.

  • @blingp2596
    @blingp2596 2 роки тому +17

    This was such an eye opener, and it's funny how the person's body language when listening while their partner speaks can say alot about them. Without them being verbal, the movement of their body, how they sitting, facial expressions the way they running their eyes, you can tell alot. From my observation, I would suggest individual therapy and try to focus more on the things that trigger them and where that is coming from.

  • @meaniesmommy1306
    @meaniesmommy1306 2 роки тому +9

    I can’t imagine letting the world into my relationship. They are brave.

  • @alleydaprince
    @alleydaprince 2 роки тому +14

    They both need individual therapy. They gotta work on themselves imo. I want Ezee to get rid of her ego and start loving herself (everything about herself: hair, body etc). Natalie also has to remember that she's not in a "straight" relationship. She might also have some form of trauma that she needs to work on. That being said it's great that they love each other enough to seek help. I could be completely wrong tho 🤷🏽‍♀️ these are just my thoughts based on my observation and interpretation of things they've said. I wish them well.

  • @phDST1913
    @phDST1913 2 роки тому +6

    LOL. She wants the kitchen counter!! You are too funny but spot on!

  • @monetthart2011
    @monetthart2011 2 роки тому +3

    Ezee said in the love confession video...before she told her...she said..."I just want you to listen, one way of communicating IS LISTENIN"...they both said early on...these things...like Natalie says she doesnt WANT her to stop Courtin er ...Listen...listen...to each other

  • @sasoubwen5634
    @sasoubwen5634 2 роки тому +7

    I really like this one from Ezee/Natalie. Nikki is always on point. Shan is definitely the one. Loved it!!!

  • @tammym856
    @tammym856 2 роки тому +11

    Great reaction and your opinions were on point. Communication is so important and a must in every relationship. Now Ezee throw Nat on that counter. 😂

  • @MelanieC1124
    @MelanieC1124 2 роки тому +11

    I so appreciate how open, transparent, and vulnerable they both were. It speaks volumes about how they feel about each other that they're willing to do what it takes to fix what's not working rather than just giving up. That's half the battle.

    • @LaDiiNaya90
      @LaDiiNaya90 2 роки тому +1

      🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @brittanyhs3347
    @brittanyhs3347 2 роки тому +1

    "SHE WANTS THE KITCHEN COUNTER!!!!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @caramelcutie03
    @caramelcutie03 2 роки тому +7

    When Ezee brought up her family it threw me at first. I was like wow why would she bring them up but I got what she was saying as she continued. I took that she was saying that she wanted the same love, care, understanding and loyalty she gives to her family no questions asked to her as well. I don’t think she was taking shots at the family as I think some took it. The complement part makes sense. Yes Ezee could probably work on fully loving herself but know that your partner is attracted to you and you are desired matters too. Especially if they are having issues I get why she would feel that way because from what I’ve heard that desirability is one of the first things that changes in a relationship when things go south. It seems like for Natalie she just wants Ezee to do the things she was doing in the beginning. Which what they both want seems to effect the other. I learned a lot from their video. Things I could work on individually too before I get into a relationship and with friendships and family as well.

  • @CollegeCutie10
    @CollegeCutie10 2 роки тому +8

    That was a great analogy Shan provided about coming in wet.

  • @abcsoulchild9248
    @abcsoulchild9248 2 роки тому +3

    Overall, individual therapy is necessary in order for them to show up in the relationship in the way they require from each other.

  • @najellapril
    @najellapril 2 роки тому +5

    There's truly nothing I would want to add even if I wanted to say more there's no need to. You have hit the nail on the head. Being in a relationship w a straight woman hits different. Still in all in all relationships you got to put in the work.

  • @tamikaspearman9407
    @tamikaspearman9407 2 роки тому +14

    I’m with you the name calling and the way miscommunication turns into something that could have been solved through talking is a major turn off and 🚩 . I think they should also do therapy separately as well. Especially since they didn’t have the same upbringing.

    • @marnz2359
      @marnz2359 2 роки тому +7

      Totally agree.... for me name calling isn't necessary and isn't the most efficient form of communication... because you become bothered/upset/angry at the fact you're being called out your name. Individual therapy would deffo be beneficial

  • @jjmitch1411
    @jjmitch1411 2 роки тому +1

    I really like how you explained your points in this video. I think it’s a lot clearer than it was than the last video. Mainly the “choose when to be angry”. I agree so much

  • @shenikalashell
    @shenikalashell 2 роки тому +1

    Part 2 was good also. I just think once they put in the necessary work to fix these issues, they will be fine. And if a relationship is not for them then I'm pretty sure their friendship will still be there💖

  • @901indie
    @901indie 2 роки тому

    not the slakakakakakakslakakakak😂😂😂 but in all seriousness I always learn so much from this channel.

  • @ireneflorence2232
    @ireneflorence2232 2 роки тому +5

    I learned a lots through this video, Nikki adds sm value too,ur appreciated 😘

  • @michaelalpert8328
    @michaelalpert8328 2 роки тому +2

    One thing I think they did was not interrupting each other. It could be because Shan was there but it also could be because they’ve worked on that. I feel like past them would’ve interrupted each other but in the video they let each other have their turn speaking. To me it seems more like some thing they’ve worked on since it didn’t look like they wanted to interrupt each other. It really looked like they were listening to each other and absorbing what they were saying.

  • @marnz2359
    @marnz2359 2 роки тому +9

    Damnn Nikki you quick with it😅 haven't even finished PT1 yet so I'll be back later lool 😂but as I said I get so intrigued just listening to you talk I love how unbiased but fair you are with your opinions ❤

  • @JanayBarrett
    @JanayBarrett 2 роки тому +3

    I loved your reaction to the video, they both have work to do individually and would benefit from therapy.

  • @jillc9594
    @jillc9594 2 роки тому +2

    I enjoyed their video and your reaction to the video you were fair in your assessments of Ezee & Natalie. I'm also glad you broke this down into two parts. Relationships take effort and they have the additional element of moving in together. Hopefully they will continue to communicate and work on their relationship and grow as individuals and as a couple.

  • @lilianamaarthur1129
    @lilianamaarthur1129 2 роки тому +2

    I have learnt a lot with this session n ur contributions are well taken. Thank u Nikki

  • @christjumah4944
    @christjumah4944 2 роки тому +5

    Hi Nikki,wow this was so sight opening and helpful let me just say this was therapy for so many relationships,a lot of relationships are going through such and your reactions also gives insights in general if a person asked a"now if" it doesn't then you right away tackle on that.This was really helpful even for people that are not in relationships yet.
    Thank you.

  • @preciouspendelton4389
    @preciouspendelton4389 2 роки тому +3

    Yess I love your reaction to this me and you had the same thoughts when it came to alot of things...hopefully this really helps them and they put it to actions..
    I feel like alot of ppl took alot of things the wrong way....and was calling natalie all type of trash and gold diggers

  • @gentleladie07
    @gentleladie07 2 роки тому +1

    The kitchen counter 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MiszKaleionalani
    @MiszKaleionalani 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve seen a lot of people post that it’s Natalie’s past that makes her this way, but what if it’s Ezee. They’ve had 2 or 3 public break ups and whether they were all staged or not, all of them was Ezee shitting on Nat, publicly. I agree with the suggestions of what Nat should do. But I definitely see this more from Nat’s POV. Lastly, I really feel like their responses are really surface level.

  • @inthecommentspointingoutth4337
    @inthecommentspointingoutth4337 2 роки тому +8

    I'm just glad that people are calling Natalie out on her bs in they comments and i totally get where Ezee is coming from in every situation she brought up

    • @tlady7777
      @tlady7777 2 роки тому +1

      What BS are they saying?

  • @Diane33
    @Diane33 2 роки тому

    I loved this video ! I appreciate them doing what it in order to make their relationship work.
    Even if you're doing this privately, it is not easy to be vulnerable, open and admit your bad habits/behaviors in front of someone else.

  • @CollegeCutie10
    @CollegeCutie10 2 роки тому +3

    When it comes apology language I'm definitely accountability

  • @kimberlymassiah6662
    @kimberlymassiah6662 2 роки тому +2

    Not me feeling guilty because I've been M.I.A on the other hand I'm happy I can binge 😁😁😁

  • @dellaniegil
    @dellaniegil 2 роки тому

    That’s something new, learning apology language. You may not even realize your partner said sorry in their own ways.

  • @gentleladie07
    @gentleladie07 2 роки тому +1

    Always love your perspective on these types of videos and your laugh as well ☺️❤️

  • @djsmoothjackson630
    @djsmoothjackson630 2 роки тому

    Nikki I really love your reaction too this video an all your opinion through out the video . I truly have not much too say it I can relate to a lot of the same things Nat Nat n Ezee was talking about because I go through the same stuff with my hubby so I can definitely understand them both . Love u Nikki ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jaicalix4315
    @jaicalix4315 2 роки тому +12

    @8:55 you mention that you liked to be yelled @ 😭😭... If you gloss over a lot of Natalie’s pranks... She always likes to get Ezee in an aggressive mood... And you can tell she is Actually turned on by Ezee’s Aggression 👀... Now I know that it’s for filming purposes, but in their actual day to day... could that be the reason when the arguments are real that Ezee now withholds sex 🤷🏽‍♀️ till she feels she is heard...

    • @tlady7777
      @tlady7777 2 роки тому +9

      So I know for a FACT that Ezee can be real calm when mad cause on TWITCH live, I typed something to her (I am tlady777 on Twitch) and she got very somber with us and said she does that with Natalie and calmly waited until I was ready to move on with the TWITCH putting me on the spot. It was a very Jedi mind trick moment... I am a counselor for a living lmao! So if she can do that with strangers, I only image how she interacts with Natalie when she gets in an aggressive mood. So it leads me to believe Ezee has worked on how she responses to Nat. But I think you hit the nail on the head too that Nat likes aggressive sex and has condition herself for that to be a turn on.

    • @tlady7777
      @tlady7777 2 роки тому +1

      @CallMeTEE _ lmao yeah she had me squirming lol BUT have you noticed that since I told her that, she hasn't rapped really at all! When she has been on Twitch, she has been more engaged with her audience and a little more creative.
      Btw...if those are her Daddy vibes in the bedroom....DAMN!! I see too why Natalie gets turned on LOL

    • @tlady7777
      @tlady7777 2 роки тому +1

      @CallMeTEE _ go watch it again if it is still up... her whole body changed to, "I am in control and you have to do what I say" vibe - which to me is a very dominant daddy thing to do. Lol

    • @tlady7777
      @tlady7777 2 роки тому +1

      @CallMeTEE _ It was embarrassing, hot and funny at the same time 🤣

    • @jaicalix4315
      @jaicalix4315 2 роки тому +8

      @@tlady7777 ... I was reading comments on the actual video where folks were saying the lack of intimacy was due to Nat not being Gay... And I’m like clearly NAT IS INTO EZEE... has always been... Plus she is the one that seems to be complaining about the lack of it... I feel Ezee knows the power she possesses in that... we have all seen her turn Natalie on with a Clench of the Jaw

  • @caramelcutie03
    @caramelcutie03 2 роки тому +1

    I took Ezee wanting to move to Natalie was her feeling like it was going to be only what she isn’t doing right and that she wasn’t going to be heard or that it wasn’t that important. I do agree that it felt like also she was just ready for it to get off of her or out the hot seat. You can tell the both where in the hot seat so to speak, they felt a way when certain things were said. As in they both like that they were being backed by Shan on things that they have expressed before and wasn’t heard or validated on. I think them doing this was good so that they could hear each other out clearly.

  • @abcsoulchild9248
    @abcsoulchild9248 2 роки тому

    Yo Nikki this was great commentary 👏🏽 well done

  • @s.burt7010
    @s.burt7010 2 роки тому

    Great reaction video Nikki 🤎 it

  • @718mavrik09
    @718mavrik09 2 роки тому +3

    Someone needs to let Natalie and easy know that you are reacting to their videos secondly they need to point them in the direction of your reaction that this particular video I think it would be so helpful to them

  • @JanayBarrett
    @JanayBarrett 2 роки тому +4

    Not the same draws and bras 😂😂😂

  • @helenapoeira1981
    @helenapoeira1981 2 роки тому

    Hi Nikki...thanks for the double upload! ❤️🙏🏻

  • @purplebutterflikisses
    @purplebutterflikisses 2 роки тому

    This was good!! Nikki loved you reaction to this!!

  • @khrissy177
    @khrissy177 2 роки тому

    Love videos like these very educational, and give me something to work on.

  • @michaelalpert8328
    @michaelalpert8328 2 роки тому

    Nikki I would so watch if you made a video of you doing quizzes like love language quizzes and shit.

  • @bridgetoyeudo3355
    @bridgetoyeudo3355 2 роки тому

    i have been waiting for you since

  • @samuelmalinda7792
    @samuelmalinda7792 2 роки тому

    Sorry to bother you I'm your south african fan and i really need you to react to NASTY C LOST FILES VOLUME 2.0 and I CAN'T IMAGINE THAT PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!

  • @shenelle227
    @shenelle227 2 роки тому

    Ik they listed communication and comfortability as their main issues but I do see lack of accountability as one.Even in this video you can see signs on both parties where they do not take accountability for their toxic traits

  • @901indie
    @901indie 2 роки тому

    💯💯💯

  • @AshleyLewisGrey
    @AshleyLewisGrey 2 роки тому

    You’re right about dating straight women…dead on!!!!

  • @lisag1194
    @lisag1194 2 роки тому +1

    I wonder where we could find that quiz at cause I would like to take it

    • @jaicalix4315
      @jaicalix4315 2 роки тому +2

      I believe it’s on Shan’s website... I think if u go to her Instagram her site is in her bio

  • @tonyrobinson5228
    @tonyrobinson5228 2 роки тому +2

    Natalie has said that ezee was her best lover,,so she wants more sexy time,👏👏👏👏👏💯💯❤🤑🤑🤑

  • @mariettaseals2682
    @mariettaseals2682 2 роки тому

    Great video Nikki I enjoy it ❤

  • @keepinglifei0046
    @keepinglifei0046 2 роки тому +4

    I understand where you are coming from when it comes to straight women, but with that being said I also want to hear your opinion on dating bisexual women since there is a lot of biphobia within the lesbian community

  • @mrsmenard1
    @mrsmenard1 2 роки тому

    💚💚💚💚💚

  • @samuelmalinda7792
    @samuelmalinda7792 2 роки тому

    Come back to us it's been a minute
    Plus every one is a dope reactor till you react after 😎💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ChanelRyann
    @ChanelRyann 2 роки тому +7

    Maybe I’m misinterpreting but I feel E keeps expressing herself and all Natalie does is nod her head. She invalidates E’s feelings but expects E to not do the same to her. They both need individual therapy and the willingness to want to change for themselves so they can be better partners for each other.

  • @MadLaserGaming
    @MadLaserGaming 2 роки тому +4

    Can't treat somebody like daddy when they like 😜🤪😝🥸 all day lol

  • @andrewwilliams3389
    @andrewwilliams3389 2 роки тому +1

    29:29 what Nikki🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tdrayton
    @tdrayton 2 роки тому +1

    Beloved I don't think the word to use is unnegotiable...there are just some things you shouldn't do if you are trying to be a decent human..like not hitting or calling me out my name

  • @PNAT0217
    @PNAT0217 2 роки тому +10

    I think Natalie might be one of those people who has a hard shell, they find it difficult to apologize & cater to their s/o. Her actions speak more than her words. I was like that, so I see it in her. We will do any & everything for our person but verbally you take a hard stance with arguing & being soft (except for the bedroom). I wish Shan had pushed for Nat to work on her lack of empathy & sympathy through the therapy she already invests in because that's not an easy change to make. Her getting over things quicker than Ezee definitely may come from her past romantic relationships because men do tend to sweep shit under the rug w/o issues being resolved, where women tend to think this problem will still be here after the sex, so we're not sweeping it under 'til we get a handle on the issue. Tone sensitivity is weird to me, I get how people don't like to be yelled at but for me we're both gonna be yelling. I find it hard to believe that all Nat's previous relationship everyone adjusted their tone to suit her sensitivity 🤷🏾‍♀️. Now don't get me wrong I'm not taking sides but I saw more things from her end. Ezee & Nat cursing at each other, that can be a conscious effort made to stop that, that's really not necessary to get your points across. I even remember in an old video where Natalie said that Ezee said she couldn't imagine Nat being soft in a relationship. I'm glad they are doing therapy because they obviously want their relationship to move forward. Wishing them the best.

  • @MadLaserGaming
    @MadLaserGaming 2 роки тому +11

    I understand the catered emotion part but also ezee come off immature so she may only have a certain level of respect? For her possibly.

  • @michaelalpert8328
    @michaelalpert8328 2 роки тому

    Do you feel like Natalie rocking back and forth was a soothing mechanism or an anxious habit? I’m autistic so I struggle to read body language so i’m this case I can’t tell.

  • @courtneygreen8216
    @courtneygreen8216 2 роки тому

    🔥🤟🏻💙

  • @AV218_
    @AV218_ 2 роки тому

    I’m kinda like you Nikki. Half of what their issues were seemed childish. My tone? Lack of compliments? Lack of romance? Oof😮‍💨 idk if I’d have the patience 😭and maybe that’s a flaw on my part

  • @xiaalexisbrooklyn8545
    @xiaalexisbrooklyn8545 2 роки тому

    Ayyyeee 🤌🏾 🤌🏾

  • @yrich6556
    @yrich6556 2 роки тому

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @ajakeys2765
    @ajakeys2765 2 роки тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕

  • @ashleytorres8232
    @ashleytorres8232 2 роки тому

    You low key like to be yelled at 😂

  • @phDST1913
    @phDST1913 2 роки тому +5

    However, if only Ezee could be as specific as your interpretations Nikki. I can see where Natalie has to do a whole lot of translation even in this calm environment. I can't imagine the struggle to translate while emotions are high.

    • @jaicalix4315
      @jaicalix4315 2 роки тому +6

      You hit it on the nail... I was still waiting for Ezee to clarify a behavior versus an example... I think that’s where a lot of Ezee’s frustration comes from... not knowing how to verbalize what she feels

  • @lovejorita
    @lovejorita 2 роки тому

    😛💜💜💜💜

  • @lifeofdaja6725
    @lifeofdaja6725 2 роки тому

    Here

  • @pettysnation9719
    @pettysnation9719 2 роки тому

    Why Ezee bring up Natalie's family? Everyone who reacted to this video didn't acknowledge that. It was an edited part too but I could tell from Natalie's face expression she wasn't happy about it.