@@arthurdaly4753 he wouldn't be a simp, a simp is someone who holds a women to a high standard than everyone else, putting then on a pedestal, he talks about how shit she is in the song, he just wants ass so he deals with it, there's a difference.
It's disturbing how I just enjoyed this song at 14, but now at 26 I'm a bit surprised how it relates to my latest relationship... Well, damn. Got it now, cheers offspring
>I actually liked this song when I was a teenager >mfw I listen to this again at the age of 23 and realize that this describes my latest relationship almost to a tee Well, shit. Guess I’m in the same boat as you. No, I don’t want to talk about it.
Same, except I could ony remember the faint visual i had of a drunk lady showing up at a nervous guys' door XD Finally found it by googling the lyric "and then i took her back and made her dessert" XD
Where to a point I would have to agree with you, when you are finally out of tears then what do you do?? For me I realized that women like this exist, but cranking up the volume on my own attitude is what I do best in the end! And I honestly didn't NEED her and she apparently didn't want me either.....that was HER LOSS not mine in the end!
Hi, Jesus has died on the cross so that we (perhaps everyone) may be forgiven for our sins (perhaps more). Please accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life and no one comes to the Father except through him.🙏🙂
+Oli T opinion and fact are very different from one another. I stick to my previous comment. mainly because of the "the more you suffer, the more it shows you really care. right? yeah"
This song always tears me up inside (Yet it’s also a banger so I don’t know what to do with that). Nobody deserves to feel like this. My dudes, if you rationalize your abuse in any of these ways, I ask that you please don’t and recognize it for what it is. Respect yourselves enough to get out. This isn’t said nearly enough.
I know your comment is two years old, but having lived this song too many times...I want to leave a reply for other people who may be thinking as you do. If you wonder what keeps men in a relationship like this? Just listen to the verse with "Late at night, she knocks on my door..." Like he says, "Now, I know, I should say no..." But "its kinda hard when she's ready to go." The sad, hard truth? Many men love sex more than they love themselves.
@@Joseph-yt4ir With all due respect I think it's selling men short to pinpoint sex as the sole reason. It's definitely one part of it, but whether paid for or not it's easier than ever to get sex nowadays. People don't need these toxic relationships anymore if that's the goal. I believe people like this stay because they think it's what they deserve, so much more the not loving yourself side of it than just loving sex. Almost like a masochistic penance. I am very sorry to hear you relate directly. I have poor self-esteem myself but it more so manifests in sabotaging my chance at relationships, rather than keeping me in a bad one. But as miserable as I've felt I wouldn't really say it's as bad as what you and others have gone through. Take care. 🙏
@@bespectacledheroine7292I would also like to point out that a big factor (at least for me) is the idea of not being lonely and spending your life with someone, even if that someone treats you like utter dogshit. Like, dying is already one of my greatest fears, but the thought of dying alone with nobody to mourn me or remember me by is fucking terrifying, man.
Tay H in court, often times kids will go to the mother. This is because there is a track record of guys being abusive in a relationship, so often times guys will be seen as second class parents. Kinda like how women are always seen as hyper emotional when that is not the case for most women. So, because of this idea, most of the times when talking about an abusive relationship, people hear the word and assume that it’s happening to the girl and that’s why men are treated unfairly in a court case. This song finally talks about what it’s like for a guy to be in a abusive relationship.
Hey man! That describes me perfectly. Long blonde hair, I have a Zero skateboard purchased from CCS, chain wallet, I play guitar. Wish I could've been bore in the 80s to experience more of the 90s
People always complain they miss the 90s and its music and the whole scene, but do nothing to change that. I know for sure that I wanna change that, I want to break this era back, revive punk rock. Anyone feel me/support me?
You mean bring back rap etc...? There was a lot of good stuff back then, I'm a 90's kid and my favourite bands are from the 90's, but those bands are mostly still around... I don't really care if they're not as popular as they once were. There was also plenty of crap back then, let's not forget that, there was and always will be... But there's still good stuff around too, you just can't rely on what the media feeds you.
this song dropped when i was in 2nd grade, I was pulled out of the class room for bad behavior the teacher was yelling at me about to suspend me and in my head the whole time iwas singing this song not even listening to her, so when she asked what do i gota say about my self I replied "im just a sucker with no self esteem" she was so shocked she felt so bad and brought me in the class and i was now forever her favorite student
What a great band man almosg every song they've dobe has been 1st class.. this is prob my fave. This or the kids arent alright. Both masterpieces.. wish i got to see them live
I’m not going to say that I am a diehard 40-year-old that only listens to rock, I learned this song from guitar hero when I was eight and I’m turning 16 in a few months, this was one of the best songs I’ve ever had on the playlist and I’ve been listening to it ever since
I love the actual meaning behind this and I freakin love this band. I love the way the first few seconds then the first riff part with the guitar feels. It like fills me with this weird but confident feeling and it's awesome. I love these type of songs!
No this is punk, this is what knocked out Grunge, starting with Green Day's "Dookie", and then Weezer's "Weezer", The Offspring's "Smash" (this) The Smashing Pumpkins, Beck's Mellow Gold, Beastie Boys Ill Communication, and so on and so forth
Three of my favorite bands named in one comment forgetting a few, but I'll name the forgotten ones... Just cos RHCP Hmmm... Guess it was only the one, ok then...
I remember listening to this song when I was a kid and I didn't understand english, now the enthusiasm of the melodic line vs. the depressive lyrics amazed me.
Got dumped two days ago, she cheated on me for 2 months and said IT WAS MY fault we broke up... This song describes the realtionship perfectly... Threw a lot away to be with her.
Im 22 & me and all my friends grew up to all of the good rock from 60 all the way up until the present.. Our younger generations are in decent hands when it comes to rock none of it will ever be just forgotten.. & neither will kurt cobain
You know, I loved this band when I was just eight and I remember jamming to this... You never truly appreciate the lyrics until you've been in the situation this song is describing. Thanks for having my back after a breakup offspring :)
I've always liked this song but it was only recently that I could somewhat connect to its' message. A friend of mine quoted the lyric "The more you suffer, the more it means you really care". I came back and listened to this song afterward and everytime I think about this song I think about the past year or so of my life. There was a girl I liked who told me she liked me and we talked everyday. For the first time in years I had a semblance of self esteem. I moved back to my home state to ask her out and she got with somebody else instead. I could go into more detail but basically, she kept saying she liked me and wanted to hang out and even go out with me if she wasn't dating but I was treated more as an online therapist than anything else. Now whenever I hear this song, I think of her.
+MoodysReviews If it's any consolation, stumbling upon this comment is helping me get over my own sadness as well - I'm having a similar issue. Thanks for sharing and I feel your pain. It's screwed up how messed up a guy can get over a girl, but this is life and I just have to remember there's somebody else out there for me! :) This song's been really helping me out the past week.
It opens eyes that were widely closed. It contrasts the pride that drives you through life and that resignation that restricts to act because youre too proud from pain. Every day I wake up amongst dummies and I try to blend in rather than to change the world like I used to. I think that past and pain I feel are what hold me up. That is why pride is first amongst the sins. Because of the numbness and acceptance it triggers, while I used to like to smile from problems and kind of accepted them as life... And not something against it, you know what Im sayin?
i remember first discovering this song in early 2018. I consider it to be the gateway song that led me to where i am now. Although I sometimes wish i could experience hearing this for the first time one more time.
My local radio station used to play this song on loop when they were a modern rock station in the 90s Now they’re an “alt-rock” station and play this song on loop
This song is NOT meant to demean women, but it IS meant to tell some of us, regardless of gender, TO GROW A PAIR and not to concede to rotten relationships. Even as a gay man I totally know how this guy feels, these lyrics hit home and hit hard!
This song will always be legendary it’s literally called self esteem and all about a man that has such low confidence he puts up with this girls shit, definitely a good message for all men lol.
I like the edginess and fervor in the way this is song is played played. Nothing like some good old rock angst and anger. It's refreshing, and a good outlet!
Can't wait to see these guys at Camp Anarchy at end of May/beginning of June! I'm in my young teens and Camp Anarchy will be my 16th concert! Second time mosh pitting will be at this show!
r.i.p momma i wish i could have seen you again before i turn 18 but i will always hold you close in my heart, ill always think of you when i listen to the offspring. i love you. i wish they didn't tear us apart
verapamil07 empathy, and it just seems that there is one girl to many who seem to enjoy hurting man who love them, but oh well i guess it's a two way street...
OK I was born 5 years ago and I love these songs, not like the crappy songs I hear in my generation. I wish could rock in the 90's when music was actually good.
“I may be dumb, but I’m not a dweeb
I’m just a sucker with no self-esteem”
Always loved that lyric.
He’s a simp
@@arthurdaly4753 he wouldn't be a simp, a simp is someone who holds a women to a high standard than everyone else, putting then on a pedestal, he talks about how shit she is in the song, he just wants ass so he deals with it, there's a difference.
Amzina he’s getting walked all over
Sums me up
By far the best song to have the word "dweeb" in it.
No one sings "yeah" better than Dexter Holland. He puts conviction, angst, and vulnerability into that one little word, and it just goes for the gut.
schön gesagt man
It's disturbing how I just enjoyed this song at 14, but now at 26 I'm a bit surprised how it relates to my latest relationship... Well, damn. Got it now, cheers offspring
@@thuggedoutwhiteboy4203 find another one before it's too late.
@@thuggedoutwhiteboy4203 lmao 💀
@@thuggedoutwhiteboy4203 wtf?
It’s all fun and games till you take ur ex back😅
>I actually liked this song when I was a teenager
>mfw I listen to this again at the age of 23 and realize that this describes my latest relationship almost to a tee
Well, shit. Guess I’m in the same boat as you. No, I don’t want to talk about it.
FINALLY FOUND IT! All I could remember was the "la la lala LA" at the beginning and the "oh wayo yeah".
dat feeling bro 😁
Same
:`) dudeee
Same, except I could ony remember the faint visual i had of a drunk lady showing up at a nervous guys' door XD Finally found it by googling the lyric "and then i took her back and made her dessert" XD
Thought it was a song by nirvana
"I'm just a sucker with no self-esteem." Kicked me in my heart's groin honestly.
Benjamin Painter i like that line you used
When he screams "well I guess I should stick up for myself" I get goosebumbs. This song is a gift for anybody who's been through this sort of thing.
The offspring is a perfect example of how you can rock out and cry at the same time
For real
Where to a point I would have to agree with you, when you are finally out of tears then what do you do?? For me I realized that women like this exist, but cranking up the volume on my own attitude is what I do best in the end! And I honestly didn't NEED her and she apparently didn't want me either.....that was HER LOSS not mine in the end!
Hi, Jesus has died on the cross so that we (perhaps everyone) may be forgiven for our sins (perhaps more). Please accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life and no one comes to the Father except through him.🙏🙂
FRRRRRR
This comment section makes me feel old. I'm glad the kiddos enjoy it though. It's a relatable song even if you haven't been in the exact situation.
Feel ya. It's like, "what do you mean your dad showed you this song? Wait, its been how many years?!"
yeah! i havent been in this situation exactly but the first part of the song is relatable for me. Also im glad that people nowadays enjoy this!!
Am I the only one who thinks the lyrics of this song are outright genius?
+SnowFireBlues they're not really genius... I like The Offspring a lot but they steal so much shit from Nirvana...
+Oli T opinion and fact are very different from one another. I stick to my previous comment. mainly because of the "the more you suffer, the more it shows you really care. right? yeah"
+SnowFireBlues Yeah, well, I wouldn't call the lyrics a work of genius though..
+SnowFireBlues It's only genius to people who haven't realised this stuff already. but yeah it's pretty spot on
+SnowFireBlues all their songs, it took me till i was atleast 20 to realize what all this shit ment
Even though I am just a fetus, I really enjoy the Offspring and hate the music my generation plays such as Justin Bieber and Lady Gaga.
Im not even planned but I enjoy the Offsprings too....
Hate this music my generation plays as Zombie-ROlling-Stones and the Gaga-5
damnit guys im an egg in my unborn mother and i listen to this real shit none of that Kendrick Lamar and Justin Bieber or Katy Perry
who the fuck is Kendrick Lamar? I hate most modern music as well, but there are a few good bands out there
Indeed, thou art naught but a foetus
I hate music today can we have this back
Something about lyric videos are just so much better than the offcial music videos.
This song always tears me up inside (Yet it’s also a banger so I don’t know what to do with that). Nobody deserves to feel like this. My dudes, if you rationalize your abuse in any of these ways, I ask that you please don’t and recognize it for what it is. Respect yourselves enough to get out. This isn’t said nearly enough.
I know your comment is two years old, but having lived this song too many times...I want to leave a reply for other people who may be thinking as you do.
If you wonder what keeps men in a relationship like this? Just listen to the verse with "Late at night, she knocks on my door..." Like he says, "Now, I know, I should say no..." But "its kinda hard when she's ready to go." The sad, hard truth? Many men love sex more than they love themselves.
@@Joseph-yt4ir With all due respect I think it's selling men short to pinpoint sex as the sole reason. It's definitely one part of it, but whether paid for or not it's easier than ever to get sex nowadays. People don't need these toxic relationships anymore if that's the goal. I believe people like this stay because they think it's what they deserve, so much more the not loving yourself side of it than just loving sex. Almost like a masochistic penance.
I am very sorry to hear you relate directly. I have poor self-esteem myself but it more so manifests in sabotaging my chance at relationships, rather than keeping me in a bad one. But as miserable as I've felt I wouldn't really say it's as bad as what you and others have gone through. Take care. 🙏
@@bespectacledheroine7292I would also like to point out that a big factor (at least for me) is the idea of not being lonely and spending your life with someone, even if that someone treats you like utter dogshit.
Like, dying is already one of my greatest fears, but the thought of dying alone with nobody to mourn me or remember me by is fucking terrifying, man.
This song brings me joy because I know I'm not the only person who hates themself.
👍🏻
Yea, you’re not
@@kavaler1471 I can't do it
Pity party
Same
A man who stands for nothing, will fall for everything
~A man who died defending what he stood for
I know what thats from :D
Bran Mouch An apartheid state?
John Marston
And the chaps from WW2 look at Britain today and turn in their graves.
Malcolm X
still my fave offspring song!! damn it never gets old!!
+rene hernandez Yeay!
I am 54 years old and I can relate to the lyrics to this song. I remember me 25 years ago. I have a feeling I am not alone.
See my comment above! Never try to turn a stripper into a house wife? It's never going to happen, strippers with a heart of gold are a pipe dream!
Song explains me so perfectly one of my favorites.
my whole life is explained by this song.
+THE last Night death thats sad
***** Alpha as they get son.
Dude this song is actually hella depressing
AsianDriver WithContacts Not really. Depends on how you take it I guess.
This song shows that men are not always the abusers or cheaters in a relationship; when talking about a heterosexual relationship.
I mean...nobody said they were
Tay H in court, often times kids will go to the mother. This is because there is a track record of guys being abusive in a relationship, so often times guys will be seen as second class parents. Kinda like how women are always seen as hyper emotional when that is not the case for most women. So, because of this idea, most of the times when talking about an abusive relationship, people hear the word and assume that it’s happening to the girl and that’s why men are treated unfairly in a court case. This song finally talks about what it’s like for a guy to be in a abusive relationship.
Bobman9420 True, I'm a man who's been used n abused by women in the past whom I've dated
catsu what is that supposed to mean?
Gorillaz Bu aren't women more sensitive than men?
Hi i'm twelve and I listen to 90s music please praise me for being a special snowflake amongst children my age
ur not special
***** yeah ik
This comment sums up about 1/3 of UA-cam comments
I'm 11 bro u got good taste in music
sameee
The intro: When your drunk friends try to sing Bad Romance
Now I can't un see that
Hahaha wanted to see how someone could turn that into a joke
hitting the nail on the head lmao
I literally thought that sounded like bad romance too haha the drunk factor is so accurate
Mr. Silence lol
I love the part that says "Right? Yeah"(2:32) meaning that he has to ask people what´s right because of his low self esteem.
reptiliano what exactly is this song about
idk this was just a random ass comment lol
Miguel Ochoa if you have the lyrics in front of you and still dont know what its about, maybe you shouldnt be here.
Andrew maybe they dont speak english real well
Miguel Ochoa about a guy in love with a girl who cheats on him all the time
One of the first CD I bought.. this song was huge at the time.. I miss 90's punk rock.. skateboard, chain wallet, Vans and long hair
its alternative rock mate not punk rock
+Kleovoulos Panayi *I heard this song from Street Fighter II V.*
Hey man! That describes me perfectly. Long blonde hair, I have a Zero skateboard purchased from CCS, chain wallet, I play guitar. Wish I could've been bore in the 80s to experience more of the 90s
heh right to the point. vans, wallet chain, skateboard indeed but long hair? perhaps some country differences...
Marcin it was either shaved hair or long hair.. I had both but started with long. What country are you from? Myself from Canada.. Montreal
Years of listening to this and now I'm realizing how relatable the lyrics are
Just heard a car bumping this song outside my window this morning and now I wish I was in the car with them.
Mr Pringle omg lmfao hahah
Am I the only non 90's kid that grew up with this music n still listens to it??
I was 1 year off from the 90's but I still grew up with it from my parents always playing this stuff
+yorgishAMVs yess, exactly *high five
Rose Marie no you are not. No one cares that you hate Taylor Swift and ed sheeran
I was born in the 2000 so I listened to music when it was good, like this, AC/DC, Ozzy, ETC. I was raised around this sort of music. Just brilliant.
Going through old 90s songs...oh how I miss the 90s!
Sucks those were the best times in life gen Y
My ex stepdad show me this piece of art with 9 years, now im 20 and still listening
Greets from Argentinaaaa 🇦🇷
Glad we all are here still
One of the greatest piece of songs ever written and performed!!
People always complain they miss the 90s and its music and the whole scene, but do nothing to change that. I know for sure that I wanna change that, I want to break this era back, revive punk rock. Anyone feel me/support me?
Bring* omg
I feel ya. I'm trying to write punk music but it's hard. It always comes out as something sounding really upbeat and.... Weird....
in college I want to start a punk rock band
or at least find a punk rock band that needs a vocalist lol
You mean bring back rap etc...? There was a lot of good stuff back then, I'm a 90's kid and my favourite bands are from the 90's, but those bands are mostly still around... I don't really care if they're not as popular as they once were. There was also plenty of crap back then, let's not forget that, there was and always will be... But there's still good stuff around too, you just can't rely on what the media feeds you.
this song dropped when i was in 2nd grade, I was pulled out of the class room for bad behavior the teacher was yelling at me about to suspend me and in my head the whole time iwas singing this song not even listening to her, so when she asked what do i gota say about my self I replied "im just a sucker with no self esteem" she was so shocked she felt so bad and brought me in the class and i was now forever her favorite student
Out of everything in the world that didn't happen, this didn't happen the most
Yea you're full of shit.
I actually believe that
I don't know why it's so hard to believe for those 2 other guys haha? Lol its not like I was flying an airplane in 2nd grade lol
this song makes life easier lol
What a great band man almosg every song they've dobe has been 1st class.. this is prob my fave. This or the kids arent alright. Both masterpieces.. wish i got to see them live
Man, I wish I was able to enjoy the early 90s.
I was born in 1994! >.
SAME!
That is the early 90's...
Ha ! I partied with that sound when I was a college graduate at the time.
Well.. the downside I'm 40 now hehe
BadassHatman Yes, enjoy offspring when you are born 5 seconds ago xD
I was born too late as well. I wish I could have spent the 90's traveling around and listening to all the amazing 90's rock...
This song was stuck in my head for a year, felt so stupid when I told em how the chorus went, but im finally here, worth it 😆
This will forever be my favorite song to scream in my car, alone, looking like a fool and loving it!!!!!!
dude same
19MadMike95 glad I’m not the only one ;)
MandyG hahahhhahha
Car concert😊
I’m not going to say that I am a diehard 40-year-old that only listens to rock, I learned this song from guitar hero when I was eight and I’m turning 16 in a few months, this was one of the best songs I’ve ever had on the playlist and I’ve been listening to it ever since
I feel this.
georgea i feel it like I would a bayonet to the chest.. Same pain level too
so much love for the offspring :) remember hitting up the bmx trails with all there albums on cd with my retro portable cd player :)
This is pure gold.
It better, Platinum
William Godwin Osmium
Its actually copper.
kevin Rudd Rhodium
Lithium :D
The more you suffer,
the more it shows you really *care*
right??
Yeah!!
(Love this line, and I relate to it more than I'd like to admit!)
I’m 2 and I listen to all this 1840s music praise me and bow at my feet 👾
I want some of what you're smoking
YaBoiii Zmannn bowing
@@sdawn2005 someone got no se xd
@@thomas-carter no sex for a long time dear. You'd be surprised. Kind of over that now.
I love the bass in this song.
check out The Decline by Nofx, he just goes insane during the bridge and it's pretty rad through the whole song.
This song is my childhood! Oh yes memories of not caring man the late 90s and early early 00s was the time I remember as a child just great times.
Nina Flying cupcake Monster early zeros I know what a great time period
Omg, to hear this song so many years later make me feel am back again when i was 16 ❤😂
I love the actual meaning behind this and I freakin love this band.
I love the way the first few seconds then the first riff part with the guitar feels. It like fills me with this weird but confident feeling and it's awesome.
I love these type of songs!
This song really had the potential of becoming the new smells like teen spirit.
Arnom Leonam Smells Like Teen Spirit came out in 1991 or 1992, not 1994.
Arnom Leonam Ya I see what you mean.
Except you can understand all of the lyrics in this one and not make up your own. ^_^ I love Nirvana... but I have to look up half his lyrics.
No this is punk, this is what knocked out Grunge, starting with Green Day's "Dookie", and then Weezer's "Weezer", The Offspring's "Smash" (this) The Smashing Pumpkins, Beck's Mellow Gold, Beastie Boys Ill Communication, and so on and so forth
Twiztidguy seriously am i the only one who just gets what he is saying without looking for the lyrics even though its not even my native language
I think the Offspring, Green Day, and Nirvana are all cool grunge bands
I love green day but they are nowhere close to grunge.
where the fuck is bad religion?
Three of my favorite bands named in one comment forgetting a few, but I'll name the forgotten ones... Just cos
RHCP
Hmmm... Guess it was only the one, ok then...
***** I feel like the offspring is punk too. As is Green Day. Nirvana is definitely grunge though.
Nirvana invented grunge
I remember listening to this song when I was a kid and I didn't understand english, now the enthusiasm of the melodic line vs. the depressive lyrics amazed me.
The more you suffer, the more it shows you really care. Right? Yeah!
Genius.
There's never NOT a moment for Offspring
bakerXderek so true 👌
bakerXderek. CHEEAA 👌👌👌
bakerXderek I like you a bit more now, lol
Cheeeahhh!!
why your the coolest motovlogger
Until your comment
Got dumped two days ago, she cheated on me for 2 months and said IT WAS MY fault we broke up... This song describes the realtionship perfectly... Threw a lot away to be with her.
Fuck that crazy ass women manipulation bullshit.
Derik Barnhart you're so right
kick her butt bro!!! dont worry
Derik Barnhart
Woman logic.
Im 22 & me and all my friends grew up to all of the good rock from 60 all the way up until the present.. Our younger generations are in decent hands when it comes to rock none of it will ever be just forgotten.. & neither will kurt cobain
You know, I loved this band when I was just eight and I remember jamming to this... You never truly appreciate the lyrics until you've been in the situation this song is describing. Thanks for having my back after a breakup offspring :)
I've always liked this song but it was only recently that I could somewhat connect to its' message. A friend of mine quoted the lyric "The more you suffer, the more it means you really care". I came back and listened to this song afterward and everytime I think about this song I think about the past year or so of my life. There was a girl I liked who told me she liked me and we talked everyday. For the first time in years I had a semblance of self esteem. I moved back to my home state to ask her out and she got with somebody else instead. I could go into more detail but basically, she kept saying she liked me and wanted to hang out and even go out with me if she wasn't dating but I was treated more as an online therapist than anything else. Now whenever I hear this song, I think of her.
If you need to talk to someone. I'm here
+MoodysReviews If it's any consolation, stumbling upon this comment is helping me get over my own sadness as well - I'm having a similar issue. Thanks for sharing and I feel your pain. It's screwed up how messed up a guy can get over a girl, but this is life and I just have to remember there's somebody else out there for me! :) This song's been really helping me out the past week.
I'm having a similar thing but the girl lives 20 minutes away from me. I don't understand what I've done to deserve this.
ahh this is the songf that ruled my generation!!!!i cant stop singing!!!!!
It opens eyes that were widely closed. It contrasts the pride that drives you through life and that resignation that restricts to act because youre too proud from pain. Every day I wake up amongst dummies and I try to blend in rather than to change the world like I used to. I think that past and pain I feel are what hold me up. That is why pride is first amongst the sins. Because of the numbness and acceptance it triggers, while I used to like to smile from problems and kind of accepted them as life... And not something against it, you know what Im sayin?
And then I got this again and saw someone elses point of view.
ONE OF THE BEST '90s SONGS, J'ADORE, OH OUI!
I love playing the Offsprings at the bar. Rock in general, I love seeing older heads get a kick out of it.
Great music. I wish today's music could be like this.
Rhett-oe Link-oe a lot of today’s music IS like this or atleast similar. T Swift isn’t the only modern artist out there
GlitterTrollz, what on earth are you talking about? This type of music isn't prevalent at all nowadays? Marilyn Manson is da shit tough.
That's how I used to be last year.
You can find some really great modern rock music if you just open your eyes and stop complaining honey 😂
Shut the fuck up
Its the ideas you like
i remember first discovering this song in early 2018. I consider it to be the gateway song that led me to where i am now. Although I sometimes wish i could experience hearing this for the first time one more time.
I'd do anything to be able to go back and attend some awesome 90's concerts
Yeah, me too. It annoys me the thought that such a great era passed away and we are stuck here with all this crap music.
it sucks even worse being in 7th grade with this modern crap
***** Smh. It saddens me to see just how lazy the back-patters are. And they really think they're so cool.
I love this song.
My local radio station used to play this song on loop when they were a modern rock station in the 90s
Now they’re an “alt-rock” station and play this song on loop
Was listening to this in '94 still am in 2018!
This song is NOT meant to demean women, but it IS meant to tell some of us, regardless of gender, TO GROW A PAIR and not to concede to rotten relationships. Even as a gay man I totally know how this guy feels, these lyrics hit home and hit hard!
This song will always be legendary it’s literally called self esteem and all about a man that has such low confidence he puts up with this girls shit, definitely a good message for all men lol.
@@jamessolis4690 a good message for everyone*
Don't know, just wondered why the volume is so low.
When I found it I started thinking about the neighbours.
Did I do the right thing?
@@ArnoldvanKampen screw the neighbors, when I listen to the offspring so does the whole neighborhood
@@jamessolis4690 You're supposed to treat girls nice ;)
The bassline in this song sounds like In Bloom by Nirvana.
Not exactly...
I like how this band gives life lessons and advice in their songs.
When she's saying, oh that she wants only me. Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends.
Anyone else just love this line?
hell yeah! fucking genius!!!
Marcelo Brandao it’s called self deprecating humor. Calm down
Hahaha that's awesome
Umm I love all of their lines
"I know I should say no, but its kinda hard when she's ready to go"
even though I don't relate to any of these things in the song, I really liked it.
same. its just got a nice rhythm and tune.
+Taylor Britt it does, but I do relate too.
Carlos Jesus oh ;-;
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Listen very close to this song. It can save you from so much pain n' drama its almost unbelivable.
Love these lyrics. What a great song... could be the last three years of my life.
I LOVE THIS SONG so fun to sing to!!
too bad that there is no musik like this out there today....
There was no 'musik' like this when this song came out. But I know there is music that's like this now.
I was making a joke. He misspelled music. I was saying 'musik' doesn't exist, but music does.,
James Roberts hahaha musik is a swedish word for music so maybe he mixed up language then hehehe.. Music and musik is same :D
Happyday918
musik is also german
Right!!! I wish I was born back in the 90s in so young yet I love this music
That moment when the lyrics have more views than the actual music video.
It seems people take playing actual musical instruments is easy, it isn't.
We just want to how to sing a song.
@@zinnakatt8312 eh the lyrics were uploaded first. Nothing more
not anymore
Official video is one mil ahead rn
I like the edginess and fervor in the way this is song is played played. Nothing like some good old rock angst and anger. It's refreshing, and a good outlet!
Definitely favorite Offspring song.
I'm from Malaysia listening this song .. very2 memory for me 20 year ago..
90's kid's unite
I will grab the rings from green lantern as you will grab the lantern and we will bring classic rock back
90's kids I was born in 1991
BadassHatman Thresh? :o
I was born in 1998 so I grew up in the 90's for a about 1 year.
***** born in '98 is still 90's. You see the 9 before the 8?
Can't wait to see these guys at Camp Anarchy at end of May/beginning of June!
I'm in my young teens and Camp Anarchy will be my 16th concert! Second time mosh pitting will be at this show!
2019, and I’m still a sucker with no self esteem.
YVNG RVT same.
Me tooo
Me too that will change 4 us soon ;)
2020!
Yeah still no luck
This is a nice song to vibe to at 3 am when you have school
That’s exactly what I’m doing right now
Same but it's 1:40am
Me: “This song is kind of familiar did my dad used to listen to it a lot?”
*12 Seconds Later*
Also Me: “Oh yeeeeeaaaah, yeeeeeaaah, yeeeaaaah!”
My god i want to bleach my eyes
@@hatsux9727 u
i find all the good songs through my dad lol
@@hatsux9727 do it.
My dad got me into this before i listened to rap i thank him so much for that
Used to ski Alyeska in Alaska to this! Awesome jam skiing a 5000 vertical rocket run.....😀😀😀😀😀😀😝
i like this song:)
Du? hier? okay :)
***** ok
Pieter Pater ok
***** ok
Taylan Acar tamam
Man, I wish I grew up in the 1790's. >.
I don't think you do.
*Facepalm*
Ahahhahahahahaha i think you mean 1990 Ahahahah
Reyna Gray hahahahhah XD
James Cameron hahahhaha
great song but comments are edgy middle schoolers complaining about pop music and feeling god-tier because they listen to rock
Truth
how much u wanna bet that this is the first time u heard this song
+Minzork Are you related to a giraffe?
@Nathan Ayala Why the fuck would he bet on that?
-Insert Filthy Frank quote here-
I was a little too young to relate to the story, but ten year old me really loved the exuberance of the song.
I used to listen to this with my dad on the radio and i heard it today and i just had to search it up, this song is great
When he said " I'm just a sucker with no self esteem"
I felt that
gonna be awesome @ Rock im Park 2014!
and it was awesome
Oh how this brings back so many memories of High School!
r.i.p momma i wish i could have seen you again before i turn 18 but i will always hold you close in my heart, ill always think of you when i listen to the offspring. i love you. i wish they didn't tear us apart
shit this song got me right in the feels
Why , can you relate ?
verapamil07 empathy, and it just seems that there is one girl to many who seem to enjoy hurting man who love them, but oh well i guess it's a two way street...
*****
So much edge. Don't cut yourself.
*****
Oh then you should be fine.
Rawentron
true that man...true that
OK I was born 5 years ago and I love these songs, not like the crappy songs I hear in my generation. I wish could rock in the 90's when music was actually good.
So you're saying that you're 5 years old?
u should not be on you tube
Gabe Wehner
yeah, because a 5 yo can write like this ...
b_Unr34l
I think he was 5 when the song came out and was popular...
RIGHT ON MAN!! Spread the word to your shitty generation!
Love the drums in this song.
This song and lyrics are masterpiece
Hi, I'm thriteen and I love this tipe of music thanks of mi father & mother, I love them so much❤
I can't tell if you're being real or just masterfully facetious.
Yeah i can't tell if im going to get wooshed if i beast the fuck out of your comment, so imma not
Are you joking
shut the fuck up, you are not special
Started texting my ex because
"I'm just a sucker with no self esteem"
steven alvarado k babe.
steven alvarado Did you take her back and make her dessert?
steven alvarado Hm.. I understand ..
steven alvarado hahahhahahah we all do it once or twice
steven alvarado hahahhahahah we all do it once or twice
I love playing this album while I drive around town.
I will always remember the beginning of this song as the song I only got to hear the first part of before my mom changed the station.