Josh, I have searched all these self-proclaimed gurus. They just don't have the integrity or indepthness as your program does. Your ERM works, stages of relationship recovery works, and the masculinity framework are insane. It's like developing superpowers. I appreciate you so much, brother, for your God-given knowledge and for saving my life and marriage. ❤
What I’ve learned so far doing this every day through trial error and watching these videos the best advice I could say is just be yourself be comfortable around her. Don’t be nervous. Don’t ask for things if you go for something and she isn’t feeling it then cool be unfazed, just be masculine, but when she does open up, you better shut up and listen and validate her feelings all the way thru but not as a robot and also throw some humor in there don’t be too masculine where you’re not vulnerable with her tho my number one biggest struggle is not being nervous around her. That’s my hardest obstacle, but when I’m in public for work and sometimes I have to interact with women. I don’t get nervous at all I can make small talk, easily it just flows naturally for me, but not with my own girlfriend for some reason. I don’t understand that part for me I think it may be because I struggle being process focused, even though I’m using the process I seem to have a hard time, not focusing on the outcome too often.. I watch these videos all day long. That’s all I watch over and over drilling it into my head. Failure is not an option for me
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Well, you CARE about your girlfriend, right? That's a big difference between her and other women. I believe it's quite a good thing to have your own thing going on, like playing soccer with some friends or hiking or woodworking or whatever. Sometimes we get nervous simply because the girl is the only attention focus we have every time she's around.
Love the content…what to do when she A. Doesn’t respect your boundaries and B. You pass her tests consistently over and over for months and months and still no intimacy, no respect no affection no love but also no threat to leave or be with someone else.
I understand the no reactions part of the tests…. What about more simple tests? Are we supposed to just give in or do we disagree with her and push forward? This is the confusing part. This is in regards to more pleasant tests.
She either will or will not come back on her own. Binge watch these videos and try as much as possible to have a positive outlook. You make yourself a better person, and when you have the conversation about what went wrong and can identify how you drove her away you can address that and work on yourself. Worst case scenario is that she doesn’t come back and you’re still a better man. Best case scenario is that your marriage is repaired/reset and you’re STILL a better man.
My wife and i still live in the same house while undergoing divorce. I nade feel unsafe several years ago by beinging up diviece and sense then the wall came up and no sex. Cold as ice. We became roomates , went on vacations while always catering to her needs. Now we are ahing grandparents divorcing. Its very sad and scary for me. I tried to heal but no chance. She wants to go in her own at the age of 62.🎉How can i stop and heal this relationship or maybe just let her go. I still desire her .
You need to respect her space at first. She can't heal if you are still coming into her emotional space. I know this part is hard. Its supposed to be. Then I would go into the CLC type conversations I talk about on the channel
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Josh, I have searched all these self-proclaimed gurus. They just don't have the integrity or indepthness as your program does. Your ERM works, stages of relationship recovery works, and the masculinity framework are insane. It's like developing superpowers. I appreciate you so much, brother, for your God-given knowledge and for saving my life and marriage. ❤
I appreciate your kind words brother. I'm so glad I could help out. Keep developing those superpowers!
Thank you for the post, Josh. I want to get into your program but money is tight. I have learned a lot from watching these well-put-together videos.
Love that David. Cheers man
I wish I knew this before... Thank you Josh for talking about this because this is exactly what I was struggling with!
Better late than never!
What I’ve learned so far doing this every day through trial error and watching these videos the best advice I could say is just be yourself be comfortable around her. Don’t be nervous. Don’t ask for things if you go for something and she isn’t feeling it then cool be unfazed, just be masculine, but when she does open up, you better shut up and listen and validate her feelings all the way thru but not as a robot and also throw some humor in there don’t be too masculine where you’re not vulnerable with her tho my number one biggest struggle is not being nervous around her. That’s my hardest obstacle, but when I’m in public for work and sometimes I have to interact with women. I don’t get nervous at all I can make small talk, easily it just flows naturally for me, but not with my own girlfriend for some reason. I don’t understand that part for me I think it may be because I struggle being process focused, even though I’m using the process I seem to have a hard time, not focusing on the outcome too often.. I watch these videos all day long. That’s all I watch over and over drilling it into my head. Failure is not an option for me
Well, you CARE about your girlfriend, right? That's a big difference between her and other women.
I believe it's quite a good thing to have your own thing going on, like playing soccer with some friends or hiking or woodworking or whatever. Sometimes we get nervous simply because the girl is the only attention focus we have every time she's around.
Thanks for that bro. I needed to hear that solid advice.
Love that the videos are getting released so often! Other channels are slackiiiing tbh!
Consistency is key :-)
Excellent stuff!!
"Love these tests." I'm gonna start saying that to myself every morning until I'm completely unreactive. Thanks for another great video, Josh!
She only tests when she cares
What does validating her emotions and accepting them look like? How does that conversation go?
Love the content…what to do when she A. Doesn’t respect your boundaries and B. You pass her tests consistently over and over for months and months and still no intimacy, no respect no affection no love but also no threat to leave or be with someone else.
I understand the no reactions part of the tests…. What about more simple tests? Are we supposed to just give in or do we disagree with her and push forward? This is the confusing part. This is in regards to more pleasant tests.
Question: how do I ‘let her go’ and still refuse to cooperate with divorce ie. ‘fight for my marriage’ - without being accused of being controlling?
She either will or will not come back on her own. Binge watch these videos and try as much as possible to have a positive outlook.
You make yourself a better person, and when you have the conversation about what went wrong and can identify how you drove her away you can address that and work on yourself. Worst case scenario is that she doesn’t come back and you’re still a better man. Best case scenario is that your marriage is repaired/reset and you’re STILL a better man.
What if she says that I need to move on? she said this and went into no contact
My wife and i still live in the same house while undergoing divorce. I nade feel unsafe several years ago by beinging up diviece and sense then the wall came up and no sex. Cold as ice. We became roomates , went on vacations while always catering to her needs. Now we are ahing grandparents divorcing. Its very sad and scary for me. I tried to heal but no chance. She wants to go in her own at the age of 62.🎉How can i stop and heal this relationship or maybe just let her go. I still desire her .
You need to respect her space at first. She can't heal if you are still coming into her emotional space. I know this part is hard. Its supposed to be. Then I would go into the CLC type conversations I talk about on the channel
I have failed these tests. 😢
We all fail tests. Learn from them so you can recognize and pass them next time
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Haha first comment here!