You have to realise everybody you meet connects with you on the level they are capable of and already expanded to. Never allow other people’s thoughts and opinions to define who you are. If you weren’t needed here, you wouldn’t be here. We are all beautiful beings of love and light 🙏✌️💜✨
I came to this video, at 56 years old, I still fear rejection and that I am not worthy of love. Because I was neglected and abused by my mother when I was a child. I love the affirmations and the music 🎶 is beautiful ❤️
The first step is recognizing the problem and from where it comes. That’s where shadow work comes in. Thanks to neuroplasticity, we can literally rewire our brains and change the way we think, feel, and behave. Self-love is absolutely essential. Whatever love you feel the need to give to someone else, shower it onto your SELF first, until you know you are worthy of love and respect and appreciation. Only after you have filled your own cup, can you pour from it to someone else. I’m about to turn 54 and I have only been doing it for the past couple of years. I can’t believe how much happier and healthier and confident I am feeling. You can do this. ❤
I was rejected tons of times by women, i had fear friends, but we need to be strong in life, accomplish our goals, without the approvation of others ❤️ love from me to all of you
I'm rlly scared about asserting myself in whatever situations with people. In fear of rejection, I just stay low which I don't want to. I want to give people attention without worrying about flattering their ego. I want to give my desired person tons of affection without worrying about getting rejected. I know she won't reject me but I'm still scared.
I don't fear rejection. Sometimes being separated from those we thought we needed is for our hightest good. When we feel like we've been rejected in some way. We have to learn that It's for the best. That person no longer serves your life. He or she should no longer be there. Let It Go and learn not to take it personal. Move On!!! Move On!!
I couldn't agree with you more. I' ve come to realize that I am my own bff, other than my God, because I am the only one I am guaranteed to be with for the rest of MY life. And thank you so much for this recording. I guess I have been blinded to the fact that this is a limiting belief for me. 😎
I have asperger syndrome. Ever since childhood, I've gradually developed a fear of rejection from almost everyone because people yelled at me and never understood why I acted the way I acted. This session is perfect for me. Becoming my own authority and a truly powerful alpha male is my biggest goal in life right now. Do you have a version without binaural? Because I'd like to listen to this as much as possible, possibly 24 hours a day.
But isn't it about personal improvement? Pursue yourself, from the inside out. If you are happy with yourself, other people will be too. They are simply projections of your own thoughts. 🌹 Wish you all the best, I think you can do it. Ps. I had to get rid of my childhood fears too.. It is possible. Forever growing!
@@tinakovic2993 you are absolutely right in everything you said! I have grown SO MUCH since my original comment, and I can see the light at the end of tunnel. I'm not sure when exactly I will get out of the tunnel, but it will definitely happen this year!
You learn to fear rejection from being rejected by everyone and told why your not good enough when your treated like shit and no one loves you or cares it’s why I expect to be rejected because nothing has ever happened where I haven’t been or where I have ever been good enough people are jerks and I don’t even try with people anymore I wasn’t good enough for my family and I was only good enough to be abused raped beat up used bullied discarded of over and over so it’s actually a reality but I believe this music soothes the pain
Babe I've been through all them things too... Beat, raped and abused constantly through life now a big woman with no real friends... Just know i actually care and if I need a real friend inbox me cuz I understand x stay strong my Angel your a soldier for a reason x
This may sound callous, but honestly there is no reason to fear rejection unless it affects your power dynamic.Work is the best example. There you can negotiate or set boundaries.It isn’t personal. What others feel is a projection of their own reality, and usually everyone is so wrapped up in themselves, they honestly don’t think deeply about your reality. My mantra: It’s not about whether they like me, it’s about whether I like them. Are they worthy of my time and/or emotional energy? What are my intentions in this situation? We all have a desire to connect. So when you stay true to yourself you will connect with similar people.
I say every second my brain and heart and body feel safe from threat or attack or emotional hurt I felt what freedom from fear and what safety from being rejected feels like I may never be good enough for others but I can have many little moments leading up to my moment of death in safety and security by things like this music because I could die this second or many years from now I don’t know how long I have but I’m trying to take the seconds I’m still alive and at least be free from pain
I met a girl 20 yrs ago and was love bombed, I didn’t know what narcasist was, she took my confidence when she broke up with me,😢 2 yrs now still pine over her but trying to gain it back! I want the old me back full of confidence, happiness, carefree me!
My heart goes out to you - I’ve been there. It’s so so awful when people’s intentions are to bring you down and take away your confidence. What I learned and am still learning is to not give your power and energy away to people who did you dirty. Try to forgive yourself and forgive them. You didn’t know any better and you did the best you could. It is a learning experience. Forgiveness is not giving them another chance, it’s to break yourself free from the chains. Forgiveness is what gives you your power back and she’ll feel that you don’t have any hard feelings towards her and she’ll hate to feel you pull your energy back lol. What’s helping me is finding things I’m good at and keeping myself as busy as possible so we’re not sending as much energy to the narcissists. When you stop sending them pining energy, they will miss the attention you gave them and start to creep back into your life, BUT DON’T LET HER BACK IN if you want to maintain your dignity. I’m proud of you for being willing to overcome the fear of rejection - other women will love you and be healthier choices for you :)
The biggest fear of rejection we have is the fear of rejection of God , or our highest Self or our True Self. How could we possibly measure up to this? These are our highest states, somewhere we may have come from, but forgotten , and now its in the future or the past , yet always wants to make itself known to us in the NOW... so all of little lifes rejections are the training ground to learn to overcome this fear of rejection , so we are prepared to meet our higher Self ... it's here NOW, are we ready?
september Seven hi thankyou for asking and helping me clarify - even to myself again- God does not reject. God is all encompassing, uplifting , all embracing - its we who separate ourselves from God by having stories in our head - and these are all truly just stories , stories that create walls , divisions, fear and blocks. And the experience of these fears and blocks is the thought and feelings of rejection.
Yes! I know he has been thinking about it for a few years now, and twice he chose to run away, but he has been working on his fear of failure so once I arrive there, 2K miles away, he might want to dive in too quickly. I know we would be great together but we have never lived together before and I deserve to be romanced a bit, first. Right now it’s really a coin toss as to whether I would be able t lo resist him in any way but I told him I won’t build my hopes on breadcrumbs ever again. Thank you!❤
It's sad spending life on humans who are as Imperfect/ limited and have a small amount of knowledge compared to God. Best bet is praying to accept God loves n serves you wholeheartedly and eternally. Deep breathe. At least you find time to enjoy yourself sometimes. Power 2u brother
I feel like these messages are good for healing the fear of rejection and detaching from the need for approval but there is nothing in there to change the often irrational EXPECTANCY that we will be rejected. Is there something I can listen to that will change my subconscious expectancy to a positive one? I think this is very important because our expectancies influence the reality. I don't only want to be okay with being rejected, I want to learn to expect that I will be accepted instead of rejected.
Is there video to overcome REJECTION itself? Not the fear but the fact. Even as a child, I started to be rejected at schools, not the kids but the schools did not accept me
But 🤣 you wanna overcome rejection from happening that means you want everyone in this world to accept you and like you , which is not up to you . For example maybe I don't like you so why would I keep talking with you if I prefer someone else . When you overcome fear of rejection you don't see it as a problem anymore that has to be avoided and then you can be yourself take actions and enjoy . That's all you actually want in first place by wanting that approval from everyone else 😌
@@ms7HD I agree but I think it would stil be good to overcome the general expectancy to be rejected stemming from past experience. To just expect rather that we will be accepted instead of rejected. Being fine with rejection is a good thing but we all would also like to experience being accepted in our lives, right, because it's just a beautiful thing.
I don't open up about things because it seems like optimistic people, coaching professionals, religious fans, problems solvers, can't stand being bothered with facts of reality...like meritocracy is a myth.
From: The Gospel of Thomas, Logion 49: Subject: Sharing this reflection: 'I am nothing but I, and my mind and the things contained herein, are my only possessions. All that I have that is of worth is stored here, and what is stored here, I alone have stored until I choose what is of true worth and what is not'. Know yourself.
In my experience. People reject me cuz. Im more in to women then men. But i feel sorry for them cuz. Sometimes people dont know any better. The christian religion is the most hipocrita. Other religion are more open minded. More modern. More human. 😎👍👭👬👪👫😘💓💞
One week all kinds of video's of this channel and feel already difference in my life, met a so called friend yesterday who played with me in my worsed possible emotional time of my life...my self conciousness made her feeling so small, so see how shitty people need us feeling low and Keeps us there! My live has changed already...
+Vortex Success Can you please make a video for those struggling with Trichotillomania? In need of help; I have been struggling with it for 9+ years now... I just want to try everything before going on medicine. Thank you!
Can you make one for real REJECTION? Like applying for school (even kindergarden/elementary, jobs, making friends, finding love and be loved by parents. They are NOT fear but reality (fear of rejection is mostly apply to men in terms of getting women)
Why does it matter if something you feel okay or good about comes more ? It's not about what comes it's about how you feel about it . That's why you wants success cause it evokes positive emotions in you . If success felt like crap you wouldn't want it 🕵️
Here is a tip to know if you fear rejection: the body speaks and people who fear rejection tend to show specific physical traits. The body is usually very lean. Almost no fat. The ultimate proof that this subliminal is working would be to see a change in the physical body.
Hi sir, i will request for a video that will help people quite watching pornography and musterbation. I really really appreciate your help and you are life savers. Please make this one video on my request.
You have to realise everybody you meet connects with you on the level they are capable of and already expanded to. Never allow other people’s thoughts and opinions to define who you are. If you weren’t needed here, you wouldn’t be here. We are all beautiful beings of love and light 🙏✌️💜✨
Love this thank you
I so needed this tonight! Blessings everyone, and stay safe!
Thank You Brother
This comment with this video is gold with its fragnance
I came to this video, at 56 years old, I still fear rejection and that I am not worthy of love. Because I was neglected and abused by my mother when I was a child. I love the affirmations and the music 🎶 is beautiful ❤️
Hang in there, you are not alone! 💫🤗
The first step is recognizing the problem and from where it comes. That’s where shadow work comes in. Thanks to neuroplasticity, we can literally rewire our brains and change the way we think, feel, and behave. Self-love is absolutely essential. Whatever love you feel the need to give to someone else, shower it onto your SELF first, until you know you are worthy of love and respect and appreciation. Only after you have filled your own cup, can you pour from it to someone else.
I’m about to turn 54 and I have only been doing it for the past couple of years. I can’t believe how much happier and healthier and confident I am feeling.
You can do this. ❤
Try my affirmations for spirit and eft tapping. I'll make a vid for you. get the spirit of rejection right out of you.
I was rejected tons of times by women, i had fear friends, but we need to be strong in life, accomplish our goals, without the approvation of others ❤️ love from me to all of you
I'm rlly scared about asserting myself in whatever situations with people. In fear of rejection, I just stay low which I don't want to. I want to give people attention without worrying about flattering their ego. I want to give my desired person tons of affection without worrying about getting rejected. I know she won't reject me but I'm still scared.
Hope your doing better now.
The people who don’t like seeing you fearlessly living in confidence that life is good - examine that.
I don't fear rejection. Sometimes being separated from those we thought we needed is for our hightest good. When we feel like we've been rejected in some way. We have to learn that It's for the best. That person no longer serves your life. He or she should no longer be there. Let It Go and learn not to take it personal. Move On!!! Move On!!
I couldn't agree with you more. I' ve come to realize that I am my own bff, other than my God, because I am the only one I am guaranteed to be with for the rest of MY life.
And thank you so much for this recording. I guess I have been blinded to the fact that this is a limiting belief for me. 😎
I have asperger syndrome. Ever since childhood, I've gradually developed a fear of rejection from almost everyone because people yelled at me and never understood why I acted the way I acted. This session is perfect for me. Becoming my own authority and a truly powerful alpha male is my biggest goal in life right now. Do you have a version without binaural? Because I'd like to listen to this as much as possible, possibly 24 hours a day.
I've got Asperger Syndrome as well and can relate.
But isn't it about personal improvement? Pursue yourself, from the inside out. If you are happy with yourself, other people will be too. They are simply projections of your own thoughts. 🌹 Wish you all the best, I think you can do it.
Ps. I had to get rid of my childhood fears too.. It is possible. Forever growing!
I'm an Aspie as well. I hope this video has been helpful. I have just discovered it.
@@tinakovic2993 you are absolutely right in everything you said!
I have grown SO MUCH since my original comment, and I can see the light at the end of tunnel. I'm not sure when exactly I will get out of the tunnel, but it will definitely happen this year!
I feel the same way, but I was reject , because of my tactical learnings abilities and cleftlip and palate. We are going to make it.
You learn to fear rejection from being rejected by everyone and told why your not good enough when your treated like shit and no one loves you or cares it’s why I expect to be rejected because nothing has ever happened where I haven’t been or where I have ever been good enough people are jerks and I don’t even try with people anymore I wasn’t good enough for my family and I was only good enough to be abused raped beat up used bullied discarded of over and over so it’s actually a reality but I believe this music soothes the pain
Babe I've been through all them things too... Beat, raped and abused constantly through life now a big woman with no real friends... Just know i actually care and if I need a real friend inbox me cuz I understand x stay strong my Angel your a soldier for a reason x
This may sound callous, but honestly there is no reason to fear rejection unless it affects your power dynamic.Work is the best example. There you can negotiate or set boundaries.It isn’t personal.
What others feel is a projection of their own reality, and usually everyone is so wrapped up in themselves, they honestly don’t think deeply about your reality.
My mantra: It’s not about whether they like me, it’s about whether I like them. Are they worthy of my time and/or emotional energy? What are my intentions in this situation?
We all have a desire to connect. So when you stay true to yourself you will connect with similar people.
I love this, thank you
Thank you so much for this🙏🕊
I just got rejected myself, and I am scared to ask anyone out again, kinda starting to help!
I say every second my brain and heart and body feel safe from threat or attack or emotional hurt I felt what freedom from fear and what safety from being rejected feels like I may never be good enough for others but I can have many little moments leading up to my moment of death in safety and security by things like this music because I could die this second or many years from now I don’t know how long I have but I’m trying to take the seconds I’m still alive and at least be free from pain
I met a girl 20 yrs ago and was love bombed, I didn’t know what narcasist was, she took my confidence when she broke up with me,😢 2 yrs now still pine over her but trying to gain it back! I want the old me back full of confidence, happiness, carefree me!
My heart goes out to you - I’ve been there. It’s so so awful when people’s intentions are to bring you down and take away your confidence. What I learned and am still learning is to not give your power and energy away to people who did you dirty. Try to forgive yourself and forgive them. You didn’t know any better and you did the best you could. It is a learning experience. Forgiveness is not giving them another chance, it’s to break yourself free from the chains. Forgiveness is what gives you your power back and she’ll feel that you don’t have any hard feelings towards her and she’ll hate to feel you pull your energy back lol. What’s helping me is finding things I’m good at and keeping myself as busy as possible so we’re not sending as much energy to the narcissists. When you stop sending them pining energy, they will miss the attention you gave them and start to creep back into your life, BUT DON’T LET HER BACK IN if you want to maintain your dignity. I’m proud of you for being willing to overcome the fear of rejection - other women will love you and be healthier choices for you :)
The biggest fear of rejection we have is the fear of rejection of God , or our highest Self or our True Self. How could we possibly measure up to this? These are our highest states, somewhere we may have come from, but forgotten , and now its in the future or the past , yet always wants to make itself known to us in the NOW... so all of little lifes rejections are the training ground to learn to overcome this fear of rejection , so we are prepared to meet our higher Self ... it's here NOW, are we ready?
september Seven hi thankyou for asking and helping me clarify - even to myself again- God does not reject. God is all encompassing, uplifting , all embracing - its we who separate ourselves from God by having stories in our head - and
these are all truly just stories , stories that create walls , divisions, fear and blocks. And the experience of these fears and blocks is the thought and feelings of rejection.
Yes! I know he has been thinking about it for a few years now, and twice he chose to run away, but he has been working on his fear of failure so once I arrive there, 2K miles away, he might want to dive in too quickly.
I know we would be great together but we have never lived together before and I deserve to be romanced a bit, first.
Right now it’s really a coin toss as to whether I would be able t lo resist him in any way but I told him I won’t build my hopes on breadcrumbs ever again.
Thank you!❤
whether by listening to this can overcome the symptoms of avoidant personality disorder
I can relate to your comment Thomas. Can anyone answer this? Thank you!
I would like to know this app as well
It's sad spending life on humans who are as Imperfect/ limited and have a small amount of knowledge compared to God. Best bet is praying to accept God loves n serves you wholeheartedly and eternally. Deep breathe. At least you find time to enjoy yourself sometimes. Power 2u brother
I feel like these messages are good for healing the fear of rejection and detaching from the need for approval but there is nothing in there to change the often irrational EXPECTANCY that we will be rejected. Is there something I can listen to that will change my subconscious expectancy to a positive one? I think this is very important because our expectancies influence the reality. I don't only want to be okay with being rejected, I want to learn to expect that I will be accepted instead of rejected.
I think when you lose the fear of being rejected, you become more confident and you are less likely to be rejected. A virtuous spiral.
Let go of that thought process
Fear can be so overwhelming, sometimes we just want things perfect but what is perfect?.
Only 15 min in. Sounds pleasant, affirmations read positive.
Is there video to overcome REJECTION itself? Not the fear but the fact. Even as a child, I started to be rejected at schools, not the kids but the schools did not accept me
Please checkout my latest upload, that might be relevant to what you need.
But 🤣 you wanna overcome rejection from happening that means you want everyone in this world to accept you and like you , which is not up to you . For example maybe I don't like you so why would I keep talking with you if I prefer someone else .
When you overcome fear of rejection you don't see it as a problem anymore that has to be avoided and then you can be yourself take actions and enjoy . That's all you actually want in first place by wanting that approval from everyone else 😌
@@ms7HD I agree but I think it would stil be good to overcome the general expectancy to be rejected stemming from past experience. To just expect rather that we will be accepted instead of rejected. Being fine with rejection is a good thing but we all would also like to experience being accepted in our lives, right, because it's just a beautiful thing.
@@VortexSuccess Which video were you referring to?
I don't open up about things because it seems like optimistic people, coaching professionals, religious fans, problems solvers, can't stand being bothered with facts of reality...like meritocracy is a myth.
People never want to listen to what I have to say. Dismissed and rejected.
i want to lissen, tell me everything bro
Brilliant! Thank you Sistar! 🙏💛😇
From: The Gospel of Thomas, Logion 49:
Subject: Sharing this reflection:
'I am nothing but I, and my mind and the things contained herein, are my only possessions. All that I have that is of worth is stored here, and what is stored here, I alone have stored until I choose what is of true worth and what is not'. Know yourself.
In my experience. People reject me cuz. Im more in to women then men. But i feel sorry for them cuz. Sometimes people dont know any better. The christian religion is the most hipocrita. Other religion are more open minded. More modern. More human. 😎👍👭👬👪👫😘💓💞
One week all kinds of video's of this channel and feel already difference in my life, met a so called friend yesterday who played with me in my worsed possible emotional time of my life...my self conciousness made her feeling so small, so see how shitty people need us feeling low and Keeps us there! My live has changed already...
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I got rejected from myself
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Thank you.
is there any music therapy to deal with the symptoms of avoidant personality disorder
Hi thomas, there are a video about dealing with avoidant personality disorder here in the vortex success chaneel! ;)
+Vortex Success Can you please make a video for those struggling with Trichotillomania? In need of help; I have been struggling with it for 9+ years now... I just want to try everything before going on medicine. Thank you!
TheGlitterBlog Have you found something useful? I have this, too.
Very very good sound
Can you make one for real REJECTION? Like applying for school (even kindergarden/elementary, jobs, making friends, finding love and be loved by parents. They are NOT fear but reality (fear of rejection is mostly apply to men in terms of getting women)
Whatever you believe to be true about something (consciously or subconsciously), that something serves you in this exact way. ❤
Lol you are making rejection positive
What if it keeps coming more now
Why does it matter if something you feel okay or good about comes more ? It's not about what comes it's about how you feel about it . That's why you wants success cause it evokes positive emotions in you .
If success felt like crap you wouldn't want it 🕵️
Rejection is protection
Here is a tip to know if you fear rejection: the body speaks and people who fear rejection tend to show specific physical traits. The body is usually very lean. Almost no fat. The ultimate proof that this subliminal is working would be to see a change in the physical body.
Hi sir, i will request for a video that will help people quite watching pornography and musterbation. I really really appreciate your help and you are life savers. Please make this one video on my request.