Blighted Ovum/anembryonic Pregnancy at 10 weeks + TMI Miscarriage Story

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • Hi all.....I'm back with a video I NEVER thought I'd have to record but sadly that Isn't the case. After 3 healthy pregnancies and no history of any miscarriage we lost our pregnancy at 10 weeks and I'm here to share my story. I also go into detail about the process of a miscarriage so it will be TMI.
    Thank you to everyone who has supported us during this time and to the new subscribers brought over from our gender reveal video. I appreciate you and hope you stick around for more upcoming videos.
    Here's some of the material that has helped strengthened me during this time and I pray it does the same for you if your going through something like this.
    Maverick City Worship: • Promises (feat. Joe L ...
    Mama Natural Miscarriage Story: • My Journey to Pregnanc...
    Nerida Walker Sermons on Infertility and Miscarriage: • 11 Oct 2013 - Nerida W...
    Be blessed friends
    Love Jojo
    Join me on the gram! www.instagram....

КОМЕНТАРІ • 87

  • @kristenstacy3948
    @kristenstacy3948 3 роки тому +5

    I went through the same thing when I was 18 After wanting a baby for years. I'm 23 & I finally got my positive my first appointment is tomorrow I'm praying everythings okay. I done research & you have a 90% chance of having a live birth after a blighted ovum so dont worry you will get your little girl soon (:

  • @TheHipReview
    @TheHipReview 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for making this video. I am experiencing this now. I am 10 weeks 4 days and literally just found out. I am still waiting to hear back from the doctor on the next step. If it will be a D&C or if I should wait for it to pass naturally. My heart is broken, and dreams are shattered. I looked at the growth of embryo week after week, getting increasingly excited until I found out on my 1st ultrasound at 10 weeks 1 day that there was no baby, just an empty sac. I feel your pain. I am looking forward to trying again... Good luck, and sending baby dust your way.

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  2 роки тому +1

      Aw my heart goes out to you! I absolutely know that feeling of having the dream and expectations just fall apart. It’s earth shattering. I’m so sorry and so glad you found my video!

    • @kajalpandey4717
      @kajalpandey4717 Рік тому

      Have you concieved again?

    • @TheHipReview
      @TheHipReview 11 місяців тому

      Hi @@kajalpandey4717 . Sadly I suffered two more miscarriages after that. I found out after the last loss that I have PCOS, high testosterone, very low progesterone. My doctor put me on clomid and progesterone 200 mg, and I am waiting to see if I am pregnant this cycle. Thanks for checking up.

  • @sydneybaldwin3514
    @sydneybaldwin3514 2 роки тому +3

    I’m watching this in November having just gone through the same thing last night. I just wanted to thank you for making this video. You put into words exactly how I felt about the loss and about God and the miscarriage itself. It was my first pregnancy so when I described it being like Labor pains people have looked at me gone out but you have validated my experience, thank you. I am so sorry you went through this too

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  2 роки тому +1

      Aw this means the world to me. I’m so grateful that it can resonate with you and I’m sorry you had to go through it. I promise God is all over it though and sees your broken heart. He’s such a loving God, even though these circumstances can leave us confused and hurt…he ONLY has good for us. I worshiped a bunch throughout this season because I couldn’t understand why it happened but keep believing that God is good and still deserves my praise…even through the tears. Ya know the labor of it was pretty traumatizing to be honest because there’s immense grief surrounding it with Nothing to show for it, just pain. I’m virtually hugging you and completely understand it now. There’s always light at the end of tunnel friend! Allow yourself to grieve and keep smiling! Hugs

  • @Dennise7
    @Dennise7 3 роки тому +2

    What a courageous lady to share your story. As someone who has had 3 miscarriages this something that we do not talk about. I was in tears as I heard your story. My last miscarriage was a blighted ovum. Thank you for sharing. Much blessings.

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Omygoodness I’m so sorry you went through three miscarriages! It’s so hard on the heart!! Thank you for dropping in and for your support! It’s been such a treasure to connect with women who have had similar experiences. Thanks again!

  • @katelyn_farmwald
    @katelyn_farmwald 3 роки тому +6

    You’re amazing and so incredibly strong ❤️ I am so sorry for what you went through and your loss. Your vulnerability and trust in God is so inspiring. Believing and praying for that baby girl ❤️

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      That’s the sweetest thing Katelyn! Thank you for your kind words. It’s sometimes a tricky place to be in with being vulnerable but so good for the heart! Thank you lovey! Receiving those prayers and believing for a baby girl next!

  • @lainy.s.makeup1254
    @lainy.s.makeup1254 3 роки тому +3

    Oh I’m so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. I too have gone through a few miscarriages myself and I’ve found such comfort in sharing my story/connecting with other women. Wishing you all the best on your journey to conceive again, and I can’t wait to follow along!

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Aw thanks so much for stopping by! Isn’t it amazing to be able to connect through our experiences! I’m sorry you had to go through it more than once! It’s so hard on our hearts! Thanks so much for the sub!

  • @akt3079
    @akt3079 2 роки тому

    This gave me so much comfort. Going through this exact same miscarriage. Praying for you and blessings for this video. It's truly blessed me and my teen daughter to watch together to know others going through same thing

  • @Janiechang790
    @Janiechang790 2 роки тому +1

    Wow, I feel like we have the same story. It’s so nice for you to share. I have 3 healthy baby boys, and we were pregnant and I did sneak peak and found out it was a girl. I just lost her yesterday. It was also a lighted ovum pregnancy, one I never even heard of bc it never happened to me. Hearing your story helps me with mine too. In time maybe I will be blessed with a baby girl again.

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  2 роки тому +1

      Aw I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you because I absolutely felt this great loss too. It gets better with time and definitely stay hopeful that that precious baby girl is on her way! I just had mine two months ago and it’s such redemption!

  • @meganmoscoso4404
    @meganmoscoso4404 3 роки тому +2

    I hope and pray you'd have the baby girl that you want! Keep updating us so I could stick around!

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Thank you Megan! I most definitely will!

  • @kerryanneladynada568
    @kerryanneladynada568 3 роки тому +4

    God has a plan for you and your beautiful boys. His timing is always perfect. Peace and love.

  • @kellyfischer4380
    @kellyfischer4380 3 роки тому +2

    Love you Jo!! Thanks so much for sharing... You're a huge inspiration ❤ I miscarried my first baby too and could not believe how painful it was!! I threw up and almost passed out from the pain.. ended up going to the hospital because I wanted them to give me morphine or something to make it stop. By the time we got there it was over though. Wish I had known more about it... I believe you are helping others by sharing your story and especially your incredible healing ❤❤❤ I'm excited to see what God does next in your faith-filled life!! Arohanui my friend xxx

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Aw Kelly! I didn’t know that! Thank you for sharing! Aroha Nui is the sweetest thing to hear right now. I miss home so much and even more so with this experience. It’s so nice to hear from you and hope you and that beautiful babe are doing well! Much love friend!

    • @kellyfischer4380
      @kellyfischer4380 3 роки тому +1

      I can just imagine how much of a daily struggle it would be, being away from home right now and not even having the option of visiting makes it that much worse!! KIA KAHA!! It won't always be this way... so many unite with you in that prayer ❤

  • @Vegissaur
    @Vegissaur 3 роки тому +1

    It's been a little while since I've been on UA-cam but I just caught up on your videos and I just wanted to say that you are an inspiring woman of God. It's so easy to slip into the sadness but your uplifting spirit and your love for God made sure that you were able to see this moment through. You are an inspiration and I'm sure that we are all grateful to you for sharing your truth. Sending caring thoughts your way and prayers up above. ❤

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Aw this just warms my heart and makes me so open to sharing this journey (and more to come) I really appreciate your kind words! Thank you so much for your support and watching my videos. Means the world!

  • @shaneicecanady8903
    @shaneicecanady8903 3 роки тому +1

    This exact thing happen to me Thursday-Friday. You really have made me feel.❤️ Sorry for your loss !

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Aw virtual hug. I’m so sorry. It’s definitely not what I had planned but God is still good and that lil babe is coming for the both of us! Thanks for dropping by and again I’m sorry

  • @tymom9313
    @tymom9313 2 роки тому +1

    Oh my 100% on point! The hormonal emotions are so real!! I'm waiting for my body to start miscarring.
    I believe as much as we wanted this baby & we were so hopeful, God loved this baby more❤

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  2 роки тому +1

      Aw I’m so sorry. It’s such a raw emotional thing to go through and looking back I’m grateful because I can relate with women who have experienced the same thing. It’s definitely not easy.

  • @stumpl08
    @stumpl08 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. We just got the blighted ovum diagnosis. I am hoping to miscarry naturally, just waiting for my body to do what it needs to do. Your story and gratitude and hope is just what I was looking for. Thank you again for sharing.

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  Рік тому

      Aw I’m so sorry! It’s such a loss and takes time to process. Passing it was hard too but again I’m very grateful to be able to share my experience so I can be an encouragement to others. Take care of your heart and body while you walk this out.

  • @GlamburgerGlam
    @GlamburgerGlam 3 роки тому +1

    Oh my goodness, I just went and listened to that song and had myself a sweet time of worship. Thank you so much for sharing that!

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Right! Man I just met the Lord through this experience holding on tight to the worship music. I remember sitting in my boys pick up line balling my eyes out to Promises and I’m thinking “dang why didn’t I wear sunglasses today!” Haha.

  • @nicolaholgate7
    @nicolaholgate7 3 роки тому +1

    So so sorry for your loss Jo.Sending much Aroha and light to you,your Hubby and the Boys🙏🏻💞

  • @catalinaknapp9951
    @catalinaknapp9951 3 роки тому +2

    So very sorry Joanna, you are so strong!

  • @ashleyshurter4651
    @ashleyshurter4651 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️😢 so proud of how you’ve grown! You’re amazing!!

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Aw thanks girly...love how you always have my back!

  • @glamoleyes3010
    @glamoleyes3010 3 роки тому

    I'm so sorry about what you've had to go through. I'm glad you were able to talk about it because I believe it's important to normalize the things we go through as much as possible. You are a lovely, strong person. I hope you have all been able to stay healthy with everything going on and that you're recovering from this. 🤗🖤💠

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Aw your the sweetest and one of my greatest supports. Thanks for sticking with me...like I said the ups and downs...it builds such solid community. I’m really doing great now and feel happy to have this to look back on and remember the experience. It’s a good reminder to be grateful for the babies I do have. Thanks again!

    • @glamoleyes3010
      @glamoleyes3010 3 роки тому

      @@worthyyou923 I'm glad you are doing well and you do have some beautiful little fellas to keep you busy. You are young, there's still time for that little girl to come along. Maybe this just wasn't the right time. Either way it's great that you are willing to share. More happy times to come, I'm sure.

  • @maharamarie
    @maharamarie 3 роки тому +1

    Sending you all the love Jo, your strength is amazing and I really appreciate you xoxo

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      One of my number one supporters you are girly! I’ve been so blessed by your encouragement!

  • @alishacaez1426
    @alishacaez1426 3 роки тому

    Sorry for your loss praying that you all are able to conceive another bundle of joy

  • @barbararosebrook3813
    @barbararosebrook3813 3 роки тому

    Aww I'm so sorry Sending Prayers for Healing & Strength

  • @tifflovemyfamily2160
    @tifflovemyfamily2160 3 роки тому

    Oh I'm so sorry for your loss I just watched your gender reveal and commented I was happy for you, I decided to check out your channel and saw your update I'm so sorry to hear what happened, I also was pregnant in November and miscarried in December I also had a blighted ovum 😖 I'm currently back on my TTC journey for baby number 5 good luck to you 🙏

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Aw that’s so kind! Thank you for the support! I’m so sorry you experienced it too. Definitely not something I wish on anyone. Aaaaw we would’ve been due around the same time! Let me know when baby number 5 is on the horizon! Thanks again

    • @tifflovemyfamily2160
      @tifflovemyfamily2160 3 роки тому

      @@worthyyou923 I sure will 😊🙏

  • @Yalldidsay
    @Yalldidsay 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for teaching, I'd never heard of this before.

  • @nicolelaronde2730
    @nicolelaronde2730 3 роки тому +2

    I just had this in january and its not something thats easy to cope with or except and kinda blame yourself
    Im sry you went through this yourself as well hope you the best in the future and positivity

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you friend! It’s definitely not a nice experience but I’m confident it won’t happen again for the both of us! I’m so sorry to hear you went through it too. I understand about blaming yourself. That’s a process to come out of that frame of mind.

  • @sarennamechelle
    @sarennamechelle 3 роки тому

    So brave sharing your story. I know its not easy. Love ya girlie.

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Aw thanks lovey- it’s nice to get it out there and really have it for myself as well. Love you!

  • @brittanyprice6506
    @brittanyprice6506 3 роки тому +1

    Love this ❤️ so very thankful for you!

  • @tserafin100
    @tserafin100 2 роки тому +1

    You said everything I'm feeling right now.

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  2 роки тому

      I’m so sorry…the process is definitely something to get through but know you are absolutely not alone.

  • @juliepaglicawan7898
    @juliepaglicawan7898 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing. I am having a blighted ovum (We've know like at 6 wks) and now waiting for it to pass out. Its a sad thought but yes, this is something helpful.

  • @GlamburgerGlam
    @GlamburgerGlam 3 роки тому

    I am so sorry I am so late on watching this video, Jojo. You know I absolutely love you and have prayed for you through this process. I'm so glad you are able to get this out and find healing through it. I had something similar between my 2nd and 3rd boys. It was less than a week after I told everyone I was pregnant and I remember feeling so embarrassed that I would now have to tell everyone I wasn't. Isn't it strange that we do that to ourselves, as though it's somehow our fault or something to be embarrassed about? It was truly terrible. I was babysitting for the lady across the street. She had a 10 year old, a 10 month old and she was pregnant again and didn't even want to be, and here I was wanting a baby so bad and was miscarrying while watching her kids. That just felt like an extra blow to me at that moment. That was such a yucky time. But then, I got pregnant with Asher and I am so in love with that kid. I always think how if I had had the baby before him, I wouldn't have him! I can't even stand that thought, so I am so thankful that things worked out the way they did. God is so good, even in the midst of what feels horrible to us. Thank you for sharing your story, my sweet friend. I am sending you loads of love!

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Omygoodness the heart break and insecurity it brings! It’s completely rocked me on a lot of new levels I’ve never experienced! The embarrassment was real too! I was so embarrassed! I’m not anymore and in hindsight know that that was an invalid way to feel because everyone around me just loves me and was grieving with me but initially I was like “I feel like a moron!” Aw it’s so nice to look back on what was and thank the lord for what is! Our precious kids! I’m so grateful for my 3 boys. Man I love your support and am so grateful for this friendship! Love you!

    • @GlamburgerGlam
      @GlamburgerGlam 3 роки тому

      @@worthyyou923 I love you too!

  • @madijane1318
    @madijane1318 3 роки тому

    Love you! You're so strong, you got this!

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Naaaaaaw thank you sweet girl! Love you too!

  • @tywanapreston7783
    @tywanapreston7783 2 роки тому +1

    Listening to your story I see myself my every emotion was yours except I have 2 kids never had a miscarriage my kids were at school husband at work so I was alone at my appointment almost got in 2 accidents on my way home and after triple checking I had to have a D&C done at 11 weeks I wish I would’ve found out the gender ps I think you should keep your video up that’s a very special memory

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  2 роки тому

      Aw I’m so sorry you went through it too. I never thought it would ever be something I’d face- and definitely the most challenging and hard moments of my life. Onwards and upwards for us friends! Bring one them rainbow babes!

  • @Lifeoftay265
    @Lifeoftay265 3 роки тому +1

    God bless you...🙏❤.... You're very strong💪❤...

  • @bonnyflynn16
    @bonnyflynn16 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @FaeriannasVlogs
    @FaeriannasVlogs 3 роки тому

    Currently experiencing this. I was about 7 weeks but I started spotting, went to e.r. they sent me home after ultrasound said "maybe its too small to tell" but sac measured 5weeks, I hate that... "maybe its too soon/small". 3 days later another ultrasound... sac is deflated ☹
    We still named them, we still mourn a loss, we still want to try again but the fear of it happening again is saddening.
    I'm sorry you went through this too.

  • @pambull2790
    @pambull2790 3 роки тому +2

    So sorry I had one of those had all the symptoms and everything I was around the same 10 weeks then lost one at 20 weeks then a yr later had a normal pregnancy and he's now 24

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому +1

      Pam my heart breaks for you! That’s so hard experiencing losses more than once and at 20 weeks. That would’ve been so hard! This situation was all very confusing but I’m believing next pregnancy will be perfect! Thank you for your support and for stopping by!

  • @kgrayston
    @kgrayston 2 роки тому +1

    This happened to me in 2014, it was my first pregnancy and I knew she was a girl. God gave me the name Charlotte. I found out at nearly 10 weeks that my baby never grew. Two weeks later I had the miscarriage naturally. It was in the middle of the night at home and it was kind of beautiful because I’d never experienced labour before. I went on to have another immediate miscarriage and three beautiful healthy sons. I will never have a daughter on Earth and my heart will never get over that 💔 but when I was wrestling over my 3rd baby being a boy, God said to me loudly, “I know the plans I have for you, not you know the plans you have for me.” The grief is there about once a month though 😢

  • @ArmorsArrows
    @ArmorsArrows 3 роки тому +1

    I just went through the same thing. It is so hard. I plan to share my story on my channel soon. How are you doing now?

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Aw I’d love to watch your experience. I’m sorry you had to go through it too. Definitely not something I wanna relive but I am doing so much better now and looking forward to trying again. Thanks for stopping by!

  • @rebeccaraab1793
    @rebeccaraab1793 3 роки тому

    I’m so sorry!!! 😢🙏 I had a miscarriage as well, but I had to have a D&C.

    • @rebeccaraab1793
      @rebeccaraab1793 3 роки тому +1

      My suggestion is.. turn off comments on the gender reveal.

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      @@rebeccaraab1793 I never thought about that! Will do! Thank you

  • @kiransuleman7292
    @kiransuleman7292 3 роки тому

    Went through the same thing last Sunday. Feel exactly the same.

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Aw I’m so sorry...it’s such a strange heart breaking thing to go through and I’m so sorry you experienced it...

  • @zahedah80
    @zahedah80 3 роки тому

    I as wondering if a nipt would produce results with a blighted ovum.

  • @RS-ot5nh
    @RS-ot5nh 3 роки тому +1

    I'm seriously confused as to how you knew it was a girl so early?

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Truthfully I am too. I think personally that when I took the blood test it only picked up on my dna....although the gestational sac was measuring at 8 weeks so although no baby grew there could’ve been traces of female dna...I have no idea...

  • @zahedah80
    @zahedah80 3 роки тому

    I can relate to many of your feelings

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Aw I’m so happy to be able to connect with other ladies through this miscarriage! Im thankful you can relate because I didn’t want to come off as sounding heartless or ungrateful. It’s a very strange mix emotions to be thinking your carrying a baby and then be told your not...I still struggle to wrap my head around it!

  • @rebeccaowen287
    @rebeccaowen287 2 роки тому

    How did you find out it’s a girl when there would of been no fetal DNA detected if it was a blighted ovum?

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  2 роки тому

      Ya know I really don’t know. I personally think it was picking up on my own dna

  • @laurenpearsall3224
    @laurenpearsall3224 3 роки тому

    I know exactly how this feels I had a empty sac pregnancy didn't realise I was pregnant went for the scan and I was 17weeks but no baby just a empty sac 😢 so sorry for you lost x

    • @worthyyou923
      @worthyyou923  3 роки тому

      Aw that’s so sad! I’m so sorry! Thank you for your support. It’s definitely not an easy thing to go through

  • @jamiliemilichannel7220
    @jamiliemilichannel7220 3 роки тому

    Hai