The new supply has just gotten a person that is totally confused and using them for a rebound to fill a spot and void…. They can’t fill a void missing about another person…. The narcissist only leaves when they are found out. They have to be with someone that doesn’t know who they are because they are running from facing who they actually are. 🙁🙏
@@ljOB510 These people are human too…. Broken humans that are running from dealing with getting fixed. They do love but they don’t know what it is so their love is conflicting…. Trust me if you were a good person. I mean, a God fearing good person; they not only miss you; they are loosing it without you…. The problem is will they address their trauma? Will we address ours? This is why God allowed this union to happen especially if we are truly an empath…. I mean we all had some toxicity or we would not have been with that person. God wanted the narcissist and US to listen to HIM and heal! This experience was for us AND the narcissist…. The reason most of them won’t repent and change their ways is because they are always having another toxic person picking them up! Also, if we don’t do our part and heal and become closer to God and really be that light they will NOT fully understand what they missed. To them we will be just a weaker toxic person they were able to use…. Work on yourself. Grieve and heal and let God handle the rest. Study their behavior but look in the mirror on your path doing so. I wish you all well. Love you and I am praying for every soul on here. ❤️🙏
They need to stay connected to you, so that they have someone to abuse and destroy instead of the new supply, who is now paying the rent and pretending not to see that they are being used.
Exactly what they’re doing they need to keep you in the loop so they can have someone to project all that negativity onto they need that new situation to last as long as they can they can’t just go in doing all their bad behaviors right away and lose their new victim to soon!
OMG!!!! I lived this! It's Luke turned a blind eye to his obsession with me. The stalking and abuse the constant fight snd destruction of my property. Even when I called police on him, she stuck by him. He even abuses her. Yet everyone supports him. Now she's pregnant for him. Smh and swear she hit the jackpot.
I can honestly say, 14 plus months later and a divorce still not finalized, I could care less what my husband is doing with his coworker. I just want ALL ties severed. God Bless You Hario 🙏 for helping us heal ❤
@@ladyvirgo013 He’s got you! Don’t fret my sister. Listen to God! Believe in his word and just do your works. Accept whatever God’s will is… Remember our lesson here is about the spiritual battle that has taken place. Heal and put on the amor of God and you will be ready for whatever God’s plan is. Don’t worry about what your husband is doing…. He’s on his on path. He is dealing with his own issues that couldn’t allow him to be with you; not like he was…. Trust that the end will work for your good; whatever the end is…😊❤️🙏
We all have to remember that we were a source of supply for the Narc...yet we were abused and discarded if we didn't discard them first. That said, the new supply will experience the same fate. Be glad you survived. Out of sight, out of mind. Let them go and move on.
We gotta learn. We can’t let our kindness become a handicap, can’t let them turn our hearts into their playgrounds. It’s about breaking that cycle, knowing our worth, and refusing to settle for anything less than the real deal, the love that's genuine, unselfish, and unashamed of all its colors.
I gave him everything I had-my time, my efforts, my affection-and it always came with strings attached, like, “I’ll do this for you if you do that for me.” It was never unconditional, never real-it was all about his gain.
Thank you Hario for this video. Well I found out who the Narc really was and he got mad at me, stopped communicating with me. Found out he got married in December 2023. So he already had someone all along. Tells me his wife is secured and she can take care of herself and he needs someone to take care of him. He says his marriage is a partnership. If she so secured why is he asking me for money or bringing his problems to me? I dodged a huge bullet.
After getting a DV felony & 5 yrs probation cuz of me, the new supply is going to get it so bad!!! Ex narc doesn’t even want women, I found out about his closet. Hope you are doing so good Hario, you deserve it ♥️.
Omg I am SO HUMBLY GRATEFUL you’re making your shorter vids! You are the OG channel I started watching and helped me so much. I stopped watching because I really missed the shorter vids. ❤
I love how he ended the message " what makes them happy is to destroy you" just period. I love this message I really do. Don't spend ur time trying to make sense of the thoughts of someone who wanted to destroy you from the beginning
😂😂😂😂😂. I just love love love you Hario. I bust laughing every time I hear you talk about these devils. You talk about their evilness with passion. Thanks for all you do😘
@arrivalcoleman1794 Oooooh! Telling people makes you feel kinda crazy bc it's hard to believe someone would do something like that. It's like the "elephant in the room," BUT only you can see it! I've seen videos about it, but it's good knowing I'm not alone.. neither are you! ❤️
@arrivalcoleman1794 Yeah, you are not alone at all! This is exactly what they do. Its sad their chaotic tactics lack such creativity. 🙄 Come back here if you want to connect. I check my notifications. You are not alone, AND everything is working out for you in your favor. Never lose sight of this. Saying it out loud helps when you find yourself ruminating. What does not kill you makes you stronger. Never forget that! ❤️ 💪🏽
What? About if the new supply is just as bad as them, they both cheated together. They knew about me. They knew that we were married and moved right on it. Could he ever really love respect and be happy with her own and by the way. She is nothing like me😊
Your videos make me feel so good ! I thank you sir . Your words wakes me up mentally and let me know to put God first and love myself and everything you are saying is true ! I lived it .
My ex would offer me little gestures, things that seemed like love, but then it came attached with strings-more like a contract than a romance. If I picked up dinner, I better be ready to run a marathon of affection later. It was like, “Hey, I’ll only love you if it’s on the condition that you love me back a certain way.” Nothing was ever unconditional. The moment I stopped playing the game, it was like I faded from the picture, no longer useful, ya know? it felt like I was running a charity more than a relationship. I gave and gave, and honey, she was scooping from that pot like it was a buffet line. I’d be left empty, while he strutted around with my heart like it was a trophy. You can only pour from an empty cup for so long before the whole thing spills over, and trust me... I was swimming in a sea of disappointment, trying to stay afloat with promises that sank faster than my optimism.
When l met the new supply l hugged her cause really she didn't know l got away from this mess with my life now your turn and l joked with myself and said Lord she is going to call me one day and she did l blocked her immediately cause she was not going to use me to get at him when they argue
I've been in a 4 years narcissist abusive marriage. It has been crazy and evil turned my life upside down and roller-coaster everyday. Waste of time and money year after year. I had to deal with my husband, his mother and, his older brother being a narcissist and bipolar. I got fed up and decided to file for a divorce on Thursday morning September 5 2024.
If you want to see a movie about malignant psychopathic narcissist check out this movie called Lowlifes... especially the first 20 minutes. It's shows how we always judge normal ppl for not APPEARING perfect and thinking ppl who come off a certain way don't have bad intentions...
I’m sorry but this just doesn’t make sense. IF this is true why is she getting a totally different version of him.. why did he follow thru with their pregnancy but made me abort mine. She was pregnant 2 weeks into knowing him I got pregnant 6 months. They are now engaged in less than a year I was with him for 4 yrs it doesn’t make sense how they will get it worse if she’s getting treated better and it’s been almost a year. I just want some clarification from anyone thank you. I also did warn her about him which wss stupid but she hit back with he loves me it’s different
@KaylaHarmon-cp5bt Once the Honey Moon is over and him using her to make you jealous is over, it will all come crashing down and that is when you will see that she will get it worse. He has trapped her with a child and raised her higher than you, because she is going to get dropped either farther than you were. Narcissist love to build people up and have fun tearing them down. Be thankful you escaped without any serious attachments… Also never concern yourself with what a demon is doing, just be glad you don’t have to deal with such an evil being any longer. Also, DO NOT by any means accept any Hoover from him when things start to go wrong with them. His return will just be to take out all his anger on you… you will be blamed for everything wrong with him and their relationship.
I saw a YT video from a man named Leon ..he is also a recovering narcissistic! He good also ..he said that we taught them how to be a better narc with the next person. All the things we complained about and they learned how to deal with us! Trust me I get what you’re saying ..my ex narc ghosted me in October and come to find out he had moved in with a “new” supply. She said they have been together for 2 years but I had been with him for 5 years..lol! So she sold her house and moved into the new home he bought and they are engaged to be married next year…now mind you he just divorced the other lady in 2021! They need that ego boost of having someone …trust me you dodged a bullet !!! Hope this helps you !!
The new supply has just gotten a person that is totally confused and using them for a rebound to fill a spot and void…. They can’t fill a void missing about another person…. The narcissist only leaves when they are found out. They have to be with someone that doesn’t know who they are because they are running from facing who they actually are. 🙁🙏
Bingo!
100% Char!
@@ljOB510 These people are human too…. Broken humans that are running from dealing with getting fixed. They do love but they don’t know what it is so their love is conflicting…. Trust me if you were a good person. I mean, a God fearing good person; they not only miss you; they are loosing it without you…. The problem is will they address their trauma? Will we address ours? This is why God allowed this union to happen especially if we are truly an empath…. I mean we all had some toxicity or we would not have been with that person. God wanted the narcissist and US to listen to HIM and heal! This experience was for us AND the narcissist…. The reason most of them won’t repent and change their ways is because they are always having another toxic person picking them up! Also, if we don’t do our part and heal and become closer to God and really be that light they will NOT fully understand what they missed. To them we will be just a weaker toxic person they were able to use…. Work on yourself. Grieve and heal and let God handle the rest. Study their behavior but look in the mirror on your path doing so. I wish you all well. Love you and I am praying for every soul on here. ❤️🙏
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Misery loves company. These things are bad spirits guys. Trust that please.
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Absolutely 💯
Bad demons
They need to stay connected to you, so that they have someone to abuse and destroy instead of the new supply, who is now paying the rent and pretending not to see that they are being used.
Exactly
This comment is so accurate
Exactly what they’re doing they need to keep you in the loop so they can have someone to project all that negativity onto they need that new situation to last as long as they can they can’t just go in doing all their bad behaviors right away and lose their new victim to soon!
OMG!!!! I lived this! It's Luke turned a blind eye to his obsession with me. The stalking and abuse the constant fight snd destruction of my property. Even when I called police on him, she stuck by him. He even abuses her. Yet everyone supports him. Now she's pregnant for him. Smh and swear she hit the jackpot.
Very common scenario. Project their own evil on to the ex and form an alliance of 'us against the world' with the new supply.
We were new supply at one point.. see what we went through, they will 💯get it worse ..
I can honestly say, 14 plus months later and a divorce still not finalized, I could care less what my husband is doing with his coworker. I just want ALL ties severed. God Bless You Hario 🙏 for helping us heal ❤
Wishing you speedy and beneficial resolution to your divorce filing. It really does help not to be legally connected to the person any longer.
@@ladyvirgo013 God is in the works…. Just keep healing. God is and always has done his part. ❤️🙏
@@EmpathicCharWithBounderies amen🙏
@@templemanning6180 thank you 🙏
@@ladyvirgo013 He’s got you! Don’t fret my sister. Listen to God! Believe in his word and just do your works. Accept whatever God’s will is… Remember our lesson here is about the spiritual battle that has taken place. Heal and put on the amor of God and you will be ready for whatever God’s plan is. Don’t worry about what your husband is doing…. He’s on his on path. He is dealing with his own issues that couldn’t allow him to be with you; not like he was…. Trust that the end will work for your good; whatever the end is…😊❤️🙏
We all have to remember that we were a source of supply for the Narc...yet we were abused and discarded if we didn't discard them first. That said, the new supply will experience the same fate. Be glad you survived. Out of sight, out of mind. Let them go and move on.
pssst…. who cares.. NOT ME.. they, he, she or it “they can have & keep that wigga”🤣🤣
😂😂😂
We gotta learn. We can’t let our kindness become a handicap, can’t let them turn our hearts into their playgrounds. It’s about breaking that cycle, knowing our worth, and refusing to settle for anything less than the real deal, the love that's genuine, unselfish, and unashamed of all its colors.
I gave him everything I had-my time, my efforts, my affection-and it always came with strings attached, like, “I’ll do this for you if you do that for me.” It was never unconditional, never real-it was all about his gain.
I got a comment so personal.. but i’ll refrain. This video was perfect timing. Thank you.
-surviving empath
Thank you Hario for this video. Well I found out who the Narc really was and he got mad at me, stopped communicating with me. Found out he got married in December 2023. So he already had someone all along. Tells me his wife is secured and she can take care of herself and he needs someone to take care of him. He says his marriage is a partnership. If she so secured why is he asking me for money or bringing his problems to me? I dodged a huge bullet.
She vowed to destroy me when I busted her cheating. This is spot on. Wow!
Everyone...have a wonderful day..blessings and much love to you all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
After getting a DV felony & 5 yrs probation cuz of me, the new supply is going to get it so bad!!! Ex narc doesn’t even want women, I found out about his closet. Hope you are doing so good Hario, you deserve it ♥️.
Omg I am SO HUMBLY GRATEFUL you’re making your shorter vids! You are the OG channel I started watching and helped me so much. I stopped watching because I really missed the shorter vids. ❤
I love how he ended the message " what makes them happy is to destroy you" just period. I love this message I really do. Don't spend ur time trying to make sense of the thoughts of someone who wanted to destroy you from the beginning
You help me leave him 2.5 years ago!! Thank you!!! ❤
She's not rubbing his feet I heard ,boy her face is tore up swollen red ,bumps,missing tooth
😂😂😂😂😂. I just love love love you Hario. I bust laughing every time I hear you talk about these devils. You talk about their evilness with passion. Thanks for all you do😘
Who needs pleasures self respect is important , don't loose ur worth for making them feel good...good worth is good belonging one...that's it
I discarded him, and he got a new supply. They are getting married in August. Good luck, girl! Boy, BYE!
OMG!! Same situation with me but they are getting married next year !! If he makes it til then
@arrivalcoleman1794 Oooooh! Telling people makes you feel kinda crazy bc it's hard to believe someone would do something like that. It's like the "elephant in the room," BUT only you can see it! I've seen videos about it, but it's good knowing I'm not alone.. neither are you! ❤️
@@cierrabennett206 thank you !! Sometimes I do feel alone but getting on here and listening to the videos let’s me know I’m ok!
@arrivalcoleman1794 Yeah, you are not alone at all! This is exactly what they do. Its sad their chaotic tactics lack such creativity. 🙄 Come back here if you want to connect. I check my notifications. You are not alone, AND everything is working out for you in your favor. Never lose sight of this. Saying it out loud helps when you find yourself ruminating. What does not kill you makes you stronger. Never forget that! ❤️ 💪🏽
@@cierrabennett206 I’m just seeing this message but THANK YOU SO MUCH for your encouragement!
To get to the bottom of things, hold it accountable
What?
About if the new supply is just as bad as them, they both cheated together. They knew about me. They knew that we were married and moved right on it. Could he ever really love respect and be happy with her own and by the way. She is nothing like me😊
Your videos make me feel so good ! I thank you sir . Your words wakes me up mentally and let me know to put God first and love myself and everything you are saying is true ! I lived it .
My ex would offer me little gestures, things that seemed like love, but then it came attached with strings-more like a contract than a romance. If I picked up dinner, I better be ready to run a marathon of affection later. It was like, “Hey, I’ll only love you if it’s on the condition that you love me back a certain way.” Nothing was ever unconditional. The moment I stopped playing the game, it was like I faded from the picture, no longer useful, ya know? it felt like I was running a charity more than a relationship. I gave and gave, and honey, she was scooping from that pot like it was a buffet line. I’d be left empty, while he strutted around with my heart like it was a trophy. You can only pour from an empty cup for so long before the whole thing spills over, and trust me... I was swimming in a sea of disappointment, trying to stay afloat with promises that sank faster than my optimism.
When l met the new supply l hugged her cause really she didn't know l got away from this mess with my life now your turn and l joked with myself and said Lord she is going to call me one day and she did l blocked her immediately cause she was not going to use me to get at him when they argue
You're a legend Hario
Hello 👋 everyone 🎉Hario ovadtop keep up the good work 👏
Thanks for sharing this with us ❤❤❤
I've been in a 4 years narcissist abusive marriage. It has been crazy and evil turned my life upside down and roller-coaster everyday. Waste of time and money year after year. I had to deal with my husband, his mother and, his older brother being a narcissist and bipolar. I got fed up and decided to file for a divorce on Thursday morning September 5 2024.
Preach only God can change a Narc heart I never heard of a Narc until I met one but God i would rather live with a pet🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
So true!🤦🏻♂️💯‼️Thak you for your work and dedication 🙏🏼🫵🏻
thank you
So what if the new supply treats the narcissist like garbage? Are those the relationships that last with the narc?
If you want to see a movie about malignant psychopathic narcissist check out this movie called Lowlifes... especially the first 20 minutes. It's shows how we always judge normal ppl for not APPEARING perfect and thinking ppl who come off a certain way don't have bad intentions...
He includes too many of his own personal feelings 😂
After 28 years he chose her over me. He did marry her.
How long on average for narc to devalue and/or get bored of new supply from y'all experience?
2 to 4 months
About 3-4 months
I’m sorry but this just doesn’t make sense. IF this is true why is she getting a totally different version of him.. why did he follow thru with their pregnancy but made me abort mine. She was pregnant 2 weeks into knowing him I got pregnant 6 months. They are now engaged in less than a year I was with him for 4 yrs it doesn’t make sense how they will get it worse if she’s getting treated better and it’s been almost a year. I just want some clarification from anyone thank you. I also did warn her about him which wss stupid but she hit back with he loves me it’s different
@KaylaHarmon-cp5bt
Once the Honey Moon is over and him using her to make you jealous is over, it will all come crashing down and that is when you will see that she will get it worse.
He has trapped her with a child and raised her higher than you, because she is going to get dropped either farther than you were. Narcissist love to build people up and have fun tearing them down.
Be thankful you escaped without any serious attachments…
Also never concern yourself with what a demon is doing, just be glad you don’t have to deal with such an evil being any longer.
Also, DO NOT by any means accept any Hoover from him when things start to go wrong with them. His return will just be to take out all his anger on you… you will be blamed for everything wrong with him and their relationship.
I saw a YT video from a man named Leon ..he is also a recovering narcissistic! He good also ..he said that we taught them how to be a better narc with the next person. All the things we complained about and they learned how to deal with us! Trust me I get what you’re saying ..my ex narc ghosted me in October and come to find out he had moved in with a “new” supply. She said they have been together for 2 years but I had been with him for 5 years..lol! So she sold her house and moved into the new home he bought and they are engaged to be married next year…now mind you he just divorced the other lady in 2021! They need that ego boost of having someone …trust me you dodged a bullet !!! Hope this helps you !!