It's a tough journey that one must walk alone. Emotions are the most difficult things to deal with as a human and yet the most powerful force - elections, success/failure, war/peace - everything is decided by emotions. Toxic positivity is certainly a way to run yourself into the ground. True spirituality is about turning your core emotions as sweet and joyful as possible. Thank you Alexx.
I think so too. When we block emotions, they will manifest themselves in some way. In the form of an event, karma for another person, our illness, self-destruction, etc. etc. Energy does not disappear and transforms in a strange way (I mentioned the boss who manipulated me (he played a good father and then cheated) I didn't have the opportunity to tell him what I thought about him After all, he had a serious accident, although I didn't wish it on him. Sometimes I have the impression that "spiritual" people laugh at the emotional ones, I was practicing peace and mindfulness, which led me to depression. Why? Because I am not a calm person and never have been. For me, concentrating on buttoning my pants is torture:-) For me, telling someone:" you are a complete asshole"is a higher form of development than blocking and feeling something only within yourself :-) I know this from experience. Long enough to realize that it is not worth hiding either emotions or feelings. just express them in a way appropriate to the situation. my Twin scared me a lot, but it was also my fault because I felt warm, real feelings for him. He unconsciously sensed it, started chasing me and didn't think that he was distracting and bothering me. Since then, I've learned that no man is more important than me. These are my true feelings. 🙂in general I think that people suppress first of all the feeling of love for others. such is our competitive world.
Alexx you always give exact points to grab , I agree no more manipulation to the spirit ✌🏻🥳 thank you spirit of universe manifested in Alexx form 🥳 today is my spirit birthday in physical form 🎉
Didn't request it, openly but been waiting for this explanation for two years. Seemed like there for a while this phrase was popping up everywhere and was akin to a hell-worthy trespass on the journey, then suddenly people stopped referencing the topic like it just disappeared as a concern. So Thank You for covering this!
This was my first time hearing the phrase spiritual bypassing. It prompted me to read the original research by John Welwood. Let me see if I can articulate my thoughts. I went through an ego-degradation about three years ago due to a twin flame journey. Since then, I am honestly not bothered by most things that used to bother me. I tend to be incredibly grateful to the universe and try to see the good side of things. I feel physically ill and uncomfortable when I am around negative talk, gossip, etc. When my ego is triggered, I truly appreciate the folks in my life who use "spiritual bypassing" or "toxic positivity" to remind me to keep my ego in check. It helps me return to center quickly, not bottle it up. I understand why you made the video, but the original research seems to indicate that spiritual bypassing occurs when someone tries to use spirituality to "shore up a shaky sense of self," or when spirituality is used to compensate for loneliness or low self-esteem. Therefore, it seems like spiritual bypassing would mostly apply to those who have not had an ego degradation. I also feel like you do such a good job in your other videos of reminding us that all members of our soul family have different lessons to learn and it is not our responsibility to assume what another soul's journey is. This has helped me reign in any tendency to have toxic positivity with others but rather to try to understand what their ego is feeling and be supportive.
I've studied this for a very long time and in a nutshell spiritual bypassing is the inclination to use spirituality to bypass really looking at yourself, bypass self reflecting and bypass feeling real emotion.
thank you so much for explaining the meaning of ''we are all the same''!I finally get what you were saying in every video :))) And just now i understood that i truly believed/felt that all along but overanalizing and thinking that it shoult be more than that . Apart from that (or not), Acceptance of what it is the ultimate goal. And thank you for all your videos. You have a fantastic energy!
I see this SO MUCH from those who want to bypass 'reality' by claiming they're on a TF journey. I think the biggest differentiator here between bypassing and actually dealing with a TF, is whether their words and actions are authentic or if they're triggers. In my case, we were very close on an intimacy level almost all the time but when something triggered us, we denied it. This is much different than them being consistent in how they're acting, but us wanting them to be a TF so we rationalize it all in the hope it will magically happen. Even for me though, I had to just accept the way things are, and realize that the triggers and resulting separations are for us both to learn to heal from them, and to continue to grow and expand regardless. Would love to see a video going in depth about this topic specifically relating to TFs!
@wearethesamenergy just wanted to say i think the point you make about bringing non-attachment to our challenges in the 3D is so important. A lot of us seem to think if we just align with our energy in the 5D, this will all work itself out. I had a huge realization recently that once we align with that energy, we need to bring it to the 3D by facing these tough emotions and challenges head on without being attached to any particular outcome. Thanks again for talking about this!
lol, matey if someone is really on a twin flame journey then the universe will help them to work through any inner conflict.. it cannot be there for them to move forward.
@@andrewreis-t2hI hope so. Because after the initial healing phase, then anxiety and searching for information about TF I accepted reality but I still feel like I don't quite fit in. I can't make good choices so I do nothing except take care of my health🙃I've always followed where my intuition led me and it wasn't always nice things. So now I'm simply afraid to make any decisions. I look for excuses. Even guys in the army wanted to give me a job and I fucked up. Doesn't Univers know that you have to be gentle with women?😢( my intuition have ability to recognize people, not my lifepath)
Thank you for shining light into spiritual bypassing, I was experiencing an whirlwind of emotions because I kept ignoring my feelings/fears now I'm aware of them and feeling better to move on. I really would appreciate if you could talk about the mind/ thinking mind, because I got confused if I should listen to my toughts or not, sometimes it's non sense/ fear based thinking, but sometimes I get deeper insights and understandings that are really helpful and give me more sense 9f peace with a subject, but then I'm reminded about stillness and silence and get confused if it's "my ego" distracting me from going within and just being, I really need some light in this because most of my thoughts are conscious, I'm free from most of my pathological thinking most of the time without much effort, but not 100% free from them, if I'm feeling or avoiding to feel something they creep in, but in a much lighter way than before "my shift in consciousness" still I keep confused If am "not doing enough" meditation or just being for time enough.
@@Flufero23 yeah truthfully it’s one of my pet peeves I have several good friends who do it and I thought something was off with me but I prefer the authentic approach like if it’s raining on a day I have a picnic planned I say I’m disappointed not we need the rain
Just came from watching your other video on "No More Romance," and "5D Union with the Twin" and I have to ask, what's the difference between "I'd like to see my twin again, and I know I will at some point" but having no preference on it? Is it like... if you know that you are wearing a red shirt (akin to knowing that your twin will come back), you stop paying so much attention to the fact that you're wearing a red shirt?
I have a great example of this. I know that there are fires consuming Los angeles. In 2017 I was in Redding California involved in all of that chaotic wildfire stuff that was going on. People were losing their homes. A mile from me the subdivision was leveled. It was like apocalyptic. I had several friends who were not involved in the fires and who had no idea what they were talking about say things like I bet people are just really grateful to God that they're alive and I bet people are counting their blessings and I said actually know that's not true at all. People are angry. People are sad. People are crying and furious. Nobody is blessing the situation
Hi Alex, i stumbled upon an article on BPD limerence that was describing how real everything feels, especially if someone is imaginative/fantasy prone. If i had seen it during an earlier stage of my growth journey i would believe that was going on for me too regarding the twinflame journey. I dont question the benefits on myself and after ego degradation it honestly doesn't matter. BUT just because I am concerned about others I m wondering what if this is the case. What if you just healed while coming up with a philosophy and an amazing way of describing spirituality and it happened that your twin realised how amazing you are or watched your content and you kind of convinced him (not in a manipulative way of course but because you re gifted and influential)?? I m implying nothing is guaranteed regarding the other person and I m playing devil's advocate cause I am literally a lawyer. Also I m distrustful because I cant understand the "you re going to feel them, know what they feel etc " part. So I d be glad if you could elaborate on that. Thank you
can you please make a video about the female runner in TF. I'm a female runner and after 5 months of separation the breakup started to hit me so bad and as days passed it started getting worse and worse. at first when we separated I felt like everything is gonna be okay but after 5 months I realized what I've really lost. it was then when I knew the concept of TF. there are not so much information about the female runner out there
Good video. Now I understand " we are all the same". A good idea for a video for me is" what is 'push' energy'?. Is thinking about the twin push. Is watching videos push? Stay safe.💕🙏
I have a question ..... Why should anyone care to get together with their twin in 3D if their twin is already married?....Is inner balance is the ultimate goal then Y outer union is desired??....And if physiccal 3D union is not a must then why not caring or trying to manifest it wrong....Can the two twins go their own ways and live cordially and peacefully .is that an option...It would be kind of you to answer below this questuon...thank you
It can be peaceful but only when we are not with anybody else apart from the twin . I have tried dating a soulmate , tried getting physical with karmics and that is sooo exhausting . U literally feel drained and ur head spin offf . It’s not easy I guess but somewhere it’s also about removing the egoic pattern of “needing someone to not be lonely maybe “ ❤
Strange request here but I don’t know who else to ask and have been unable to find any information on it: I have a family member who I was very close to who passed away 10 years ago. A few years ago I met someone who I instantly connected to (and they to me as well) but in their eyes, all I see is this family member’s eyes/ same feeling of intense connection. I know this person couldn’t be a reincarnate since they were obviously alive at the same time. I’ve never experienced this before and would love to know what it is/ why it’s happening. Thank you if you’ve read this all and have any thoughts on it
with all due respect when i listen to your videos i never feel better or good about how you end them. its like a professor who has studied things so in depth that there is no room for mystery or love. what is the point of all of this? i was walking my dog and was thinking about your channel and the words flew out of my mouth - im not going to take that abuse anymore. sorry, its just nothing ever gets resolved. you send your highest vibrations they go off w your twin and you obviously come from money. you rarely discuss how the journey put you in a mental hospital. the fact is we want relationships. and we often want who we cannot have. and then we move on. but everyone who is doing the work deserves a happy ending. i do not mean a fairy tale. i mean manifesting the life we want. but we can be happy along the way. its a choice. yes we need to work on things but i am so over that. im ready for a relationship and with an intention and staying open it will happen. i do believe i have a twin but i have no idea what he is thinking about his future. and its none of my business unless he makes it so. its a gruel joke in a way. like a masochistic choice to bring this person in and go through it all. im like ok fine i get it. im stuck here so i figured out what i want and i will get it. we have control. you act like you are the only one who gets it snd produce these strange abusive videos and they dont really tell us anything in the end about being happy overall even w the ups and downs. you only like certain comments. im just over it. its my twins loss. we have to function in this reality and prepare for ascension. its not far away.
There is a lot to unpack in this comment. Identifying core wounds and beliefs could help you I think compartmentalize a starting point of self development here in 3D. Understanding your attachment style and how the 3D world functions in it's cause and effect for ego development. Breaking down this plane first might help pull back the layers so you can build a foundation to accept some of this complex teachings in 5D. She is a teacher of sorts but you chose the class. This subject sounds like it isn't what you expected. Free will. No need for judgment. You came here to heal on some level and she offers healing maybe with a bitter tasting medicine but you can chose what medicine is best for you. Your goal is to heal and grow remember. You do have a choice to be happy ...your words say you are not happy here. It was not her choice for you to be here.
I read this comment and wanted to say that you seem like you’re in deep pain and I want to show empathy because I get that and it’s hard….and/also, the feeling that her videos are abusive implies that she is seeking power and control (which is the core of all abusive behavior). Assuming you don’t know each other, why do you feel she’s trying to exert control over your experience? She has a perspective and believes she’s correct in her worldview of the TF journey…a lot of people do…it’s up to you to determine what resonates with your soul frequency while trying to leave space for spiritual humility in the process and ask yourself challenging questions when the energy she puts out triggers you. That to me is the whole point of the journey, to be real and authentic with yourself, for yourself, and by yourself. Be well.
@@bornthisway3360 wrong. tired of spiritual speak. i have been awake for a very long time. she cloaks everything she says in mystery. im done here. but thanks for the comments. everyone tells everyone what to do. its become an epidemic!
It's a tough journey that one must walk alone. Emotions are the most difficult things to deal with as a human and yet the most powerful force - elections, success/failure, war/peace - everything is decided by emotions. Toxic positivity is certainly a way to run yourself into the ground. True spirituality is about turning your core emotions as sweet and joyful as possible. Thank you Alexx.
Being spiritual is being AUTHENTIC 💗
I think so too. When we block emotions, they will manifest themselves in some way. In the form of an event, karma for another person, our illness, self-destruction, etc. etc. Energy does not disappear and transforms in a strange way (I mentioned the boss who manipulated me (he played a good father and then cheated) I didn't have the opportunity to tell him what I thought about him After all, he had a serious accident, although I didn't wish it on him. Sometimes I have the impression that "spiritual" people laugh at the emotional ones, I was practicing peace and mindfulness, which led me to depression. Why? Because I am not a calm person and never have been. For me, concentrating on buttoning my pants is torture:-) For me, telling someone:" you are a complete asshole"is a higher form of development than blocking and feeling something only within yourself :-) I know this from experience. Long enough to realize that it is not worth hiding either emotions or feelings. just express them in a way appropriate to the situation.
my Twin scared me a lot, but it was also my fault because I felt warm, real feelings for him. He unconsciously sensed it, started chasing me and didn't think that he was distracting and bothering me. Since then, I've learned that no man is more important than me. These are my true feelings. 🙂in general I think that people suppress first of all the feeling of love for others. such is our competitive world.
Alexx you always give exact points to grab , I agree no more manipulation to the spirit ✌🏻🥳
thank you spirit of universe manifested in Alexx form 🥳
today is my spirit birthday in physical form 🎉
Happy Birthday!
@ thank you!! 💚
Didn't request it, openly but been waiting for this explanation for two years. Seemed like there for a while this phrase was popping up everywhere and was akin to a hell-worthy trespass on the journey, then suddenly people stopped referencing the topic like it just disappeared as a concern. So Thank You for covering this!
This was my first time hearing the phrase spiritual bypassing. It prompted me to read the original research by John Welwood. Let me see if I can articulate my thoughts. I went through an ego-degradation about three years ago due to a twin flame journey. Since then, I am honestly not bothered by most things that used to bother me. I tend to be incredibly grateful to the universe and try to see the good side of things. I feel physically ill and uncomfortable when I am around negative talk, gossip, etc. When my ego is triggered, I truly appreciate the folks in my life who use "spiritual bypassing" or "toxic positivity" to remind me to keep my ego in check. It helps me return to center quickly, not bottle it up. I understand why you made the video, but the original research seems to indicate that spiritual bypassing occurs when someone tries to use spirituality to "shore up a shaky sense of self," or when spirituality is used to compensate for loneliness or low self-esteem. Therefore, it seems like spiritual bypassing would mostly apply to those who have not had an ego degradation. I also feel like you do such a good job in your other videos of reminding us that all members of our soul family have different lessons to learn and it is not our responsibility to assume what another soul's journey is. This has helped me reign in any tendency to have toxic positivity with others but rather to try to understand what their ego is feeling and be supportive.
I've studied this for a very long time and in a nutshell spiritual bypassing is the inclination to use spirituality to bypass really looking at yourself, bypass self reflecting and bypass feeling real emotion.
thank you so much for explaining the meaning of ''we are all the same''!I finally get what you were saying in every video :))) And just now i understood that i truly believed/felt that all along but overanalizing and thinking that it shoult be more than that . Apart from that (or not), Acceptance of what it is the ultimate goal. And thank you for all your videos. You have a fantastic energy!
Interesting perspective. Brought some clarity….
Hope you’re still safe from the fires!!!!
I see this SO MUCH from those who want to bypass 'reality' by claiming they're on a TF journey. I think the biggest differentiator here between bypassing and actually dealing with a TF, is whether their words and actions are authentic or if they're triggers. In my case, we were very close on an intimacy level almost all the time but when something triggered us, we denied it. This is much different than them being consistent in how they're acting, but us wanting them to be a TF so we rationalize it all in the hope it will magically happen. Even for me though, I had to just accept the way things are, and realize that the triggers and resulting separations are for us both to learn to heal from them, and to continue to grow and expand regardless. Would love to see a video going in depth about this topic specifically relating to TFs!
"Twin Flame as a Tool of Manipulation" video talks about it
@wearethesamenergy oh that's right, thanks! 😊
@wearethesamenergy just wanted to say i think the point you make about bringing non-attachment to our challenges in the 3D is so important. A lot of us seem to think if we just align with our energy in the 5D, this will all work itself out. I had a huge realization recently that once we align with that energy, we need to bring it to the 3D by facing these tough emotions and challenges head on without being attached to any particular outcome. Thanks again for talking about this!
lol, matey if someone is really on a twin flame journey then the universe will help them to work through any inner conflict.. it cannot be there for them to move forward.
@@andrewreis-t2hI hope so. Because after the initial healing phase, then anxiety and searching for information about TF I accepted reality but I still feel like I don't quite fit in. I can't make good choices so I do nothing except take care of my health🙃I've always followed where my intuition led me and it wasn't always nice things. So now I'm simply afraid to make any decisions. I look for excuses. Even guys in the army wanted to give me a job and I fucked up. Doesn't Univers know that you have to be gentle with women?😢( my intuition have ability to recognize people, not my lifepath)
Thank you for shining light into spiritual bypassing, I was experiencing an whirlwind of emotions because I kept ignoring my feelings/fears now I'm aware of them and feeling better to move on.
I really would appreciate if you could talk about the mind/ thinking mind, because I got confused if I should listen to my toughts or not, sometimes it's non sense/ fear based thinking, but sometimes I get deeper insights and understandings that are really helpful and give me more sense 9f peace with a subject, but then I'm reminded about stillness and silence and get confused if it's "my ego" distracting me from going within and just being, I really need some light in this because most of my thoughts are conscious, I'm free from most of my pathological thinking most of the time without much effort, but not 100% free from them, if I'm feeling or avoiding to feel something they creep in, but in a much lighter way than before "my shift in consciousness" still I keep confused If am "not doing enough" meditation or just being for time enough.
If folks say " I always try to see the good in people ", when talking about crooks, cons, toxic people, abusers, etc.
@@Flufero23 yeah truthfully it’s one of my pet peeves I have several good friends who do it and I thought something was off with me but I prefer the authentic approach like if it’s raining on a day I have a picnic planned I say I’m disappointed not we need the rain
Yes, please! Alexx, can you make the series of videos on Universal Laws? I do not know them and their meaning… Thx. ❤
As in scientific universal laws, magical universal laws, spiritual universal laws, Hermetic universal laws?
@ in fact, I even do not know the differences!
Being an identical twin on a twin flame journey where both counterparts are identical twins
I think a good example is the mirror effect: people use this to abuse you and say you abuse yourself
Thank you I was just wondering to myself yesterday what it is
Just came from watching your other video on "No More Romance," and "5D Union with the Twin" and I have to ask, what's the difference between "I'd like to see my twin again, and I know I will at some point" but having no preference on it?
Is it like... if you know that you are wearing a red shirt (akin to knowing that your twin will come back), you stop paying so much attention to the fact that you're wearing a red shirt?
Lol I like that example
I have a great example of this. I know that there are fires consuming Los angeles. In 2017 I was in Redding California involved in all of that chaotic wildfire stuff that was going on. People were losing their homes. A mile from me the subdivision was leveled. It was like apocalyptic. I had several friends who were not involved in the fires and who had no idea what they were talking about say things like I bet people are just really grateful to God that they're alive and I bet people are counting their blessings and I said actually know that's not true at all. People are angry. People are sad. People are crying and furious. Nobody is blessing the situation
Oops. 2018. B
Hi Alex, i stumbled upon an article on BPD limerence that was describing how real everything feels, especially if someone is imaginative/fantasy prone. If i had seen it during an earlier stage of my growth journey i would believe that was going on for me too regarding the twinflame journey. I dont question the benefits on myself and after ego degradation it honestly doesn't matter. BUT just because I am concerned about others I m wondering what if this is the case. What if you just healed while coming up with a philosophy and an amazing way of describing spirituality and it happened that your twin realised how amazing you are or watched your content and you kind of convinced him (not in a manipulative way of course but because you re gifted and influential)?? I m implying nothing is guaranteed regarding the other person and I m playing devil's advocate cause I am literally a lawyer. Also I m distrustful because I cant understand the "you re going to feel them, know what they feel etc " part. So I d be glad if you could elaborate on that. Thank you
can you please make a video about the female runner in TF. I'm a female runner and after 5 months of separation the breakup started to hit me so bad and as days passed it started getting worse and worse. at first when we separated I felt like everything is gonna be okay but after 5 months I realized what I've really lost. it was then when I knew the concept of TF. there are not so much information about the female runner out there
Your gender has absolutely nothing to do with a TF journey
Is there any way I can talk to you about your perspective? My runner is a female, and it's very difficult.
@@zaynstorm2518 Yes, if you have any questions you can ask me.
@@zaynstorm2518 Yes of course, if you have any questions you can ask me
There’s no way to find the silver lining in every situation. My spouse always did that and it irked my soul.
Good video. Now I understand " we are all the same". A good idea for a video for me is" what is 'push' energy'?. Is thinking about the twin push. Is watching videos push?
Stay safe.💕🙏
Yes it's on my list of videos to do
@@wearethesamenergy Great!
I have a question .....
Why should anyone care to get together with their twin in 3D if their twin is already married?....Is inner balance is the ultimate goal then Y outer union is desired??....And if physiccal 3D union is not a must then why not caring or trying to manifest it wrong....Can the two twins go their own ways and live cordially and peacefully
.is that an option...It would be kind of you to answer below this questuon...thank you
It can be peaceful but only when we are not with anybody else apart from the twin . I have tried dating a soulmate , tried getting physical with karmics and that is sooo exhausting . U literally feel drained and ur head spin offf . It’s not easy I guess but somewhere it’s also about removing the egoic pattern of “needing someone to not be lonely maybe “ ❤
Strange request here but I don’t know who else to ask and have been unable to find any information on it: I have a family member who I was very close to who passed away 10 years ago. A few years ago I met someone who I instantly connected to (and they to me as well) but in their eyes, all I see is this family member’s eyes/ same feeling of intense connection. I know this person couldn’t be a reincarnate since they were obviously alive at the same time. I’ve never experienced this before and would love to know what it is/ why it’s happening. Thank you if you’ve read this all and have any thoughts on it
Most likely another Soulmate! You may want to read my book
@ I will! Thank you for the reply
❤
Religion and spirituality are two different things!
with all due respect when i listen to your videos i never feel better or good about how you end them. its like a professor who has studied things so in depth that there is no room for mystery or love. what is the point of all of this? i was walking my dog and was thinking about your channel and the words flew out of my mouth - im not going to take that abuse anymore. sorry, its just nothing ever gets resolved. you send your highest vibrations they go off w your twin and you obviously come from money. you rarely discuss how the journey put you in a mental hospital. the fact is we want relationships. and we often want who we cannot have. and then we move on. but everyone who is doing the work deserves a happy ending. i do not mean a fairy tale. i mean manifesting the life we want. but we can be happy along the way. its a choice. yes we need to work on things but i am so over that. im ready for a relationship and with an intention and staying open it will happen. i do believe i have a twin but i have no idea what he is thinking about his future. and its none of my business unless he makes it so. its a gruel joke in a way. like a masochistic choice to bring this person in and go through it all. im like ok fine i get it. im stuck here so i figured out what i want and i will get it. we have control. you act like you are the only one who gets it snd produce these strange abusive videos and they dont really tell us anything in the end about being happy overall even w the ups and downs. you only like certain comments. im just over it. its my twins loss. we have to function in this reality and prepare for ascension. its not far away.
There is a lot to unpack in this comment. Identifying core wounds and beliefs could help you I think compartmentalize a starting point of self development here in 3D. Understanding your attachment style and how the 3D world functions in it's cause and effect for ego development. Breaking down this plane first might help pull back the layers so you can build a foundation to accept some of this complex teachings in 5D. She is a teacher of sorts but you chose the class. This subject sounds like it isn't what you expected. Free will. No need for judgment. You came here to heal on some level and she offers healing maybe with a bitter tasting medicine but you can chose what medicine is best for you. Your goal is to heal and grow remember. You do have a choice to be happy ...your words say you are not happy here. It was not her choice for you to be here.
I read this comment and wanted to say that you seem like you’re in deep pain and I want to show empathy because I get that and it’s hard….and/also, the feeling that her videos are abusive implies that she is seeking power and control (which is the core of all abusive behavior). Assuming you don’t know each other, why do you feel she’s trying to exert control over your experience? She has a perspective and believes she’s correct in her worldview of the TF journey…a lot of people do…it’s up to you to determine what resonates with your soul frequency while trying to leave space for spiritual humility in the process and ask yourself challenging questions when the energy she puts out triggers you. That to me is the whole point of the journey, to be real and authentic with yourself, for yourself, and by yourself. Be well.
@@bornthisway3360 wrong. tired of spiritual speak. i have been awake for a very long time. she cloaks everything she says in mystery. im done here. but thanks for the comments. everyone tells everyone what to do. its become an epidemic!
@@tsherrod7452 done here. she no longer resonates with me. thanks for the kind words.