Captain Anshuman Singh: बेटे के शादी के निर्णय पर माता-पिता को हो रहा अफसोस ? ABP LIVE

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  • कैप्टन अंशुमान सिंह को शहीद हुए 1 साल के करीब होने जा रहे हैं। शाहिद अंशुमन की पढ़ाई लिखाई कहां से हुई, कैसे वो आर्मी में गए , कैसे उनकी शादी हुई, कैसे शादी के लिए माने उनकी माता और पिता और शादी के बाद क्या-क्या वह वजह रहे जिससे अब उनकी मां की आंखों में आंसू हैं और पिता के कलेजे में दर्द है
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 222

  • @jhaadu
    @jhaadu Місяць тому +53

    Father ki communication skill & clearity of thoughts👍👍👌👌

  • @meerakushwaha4007
    @meerakushwaha4007 Місяць тому +23

    ये तो सभी जानते है कि कीर्ति चक्र या कोई भी पदक किसी को मिला हो तो उसका महत्व और सम्मान न दूसरा पति करेगा और न दूसरे पति से जन्मे बच्चे करेंगे तो ऐसे स्थिति में उस पदक को मां बाप के हवाले किया जाना चाहिए।ये हम आम भारतीयों की सरकार से प्रार्थना है।

    • @anilsinghal2312
      @anilsinghal2312 Місяць тому +2

      साथ ही सभी फौजियों को अपने एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को बना देना चाहिए जिससे आगे यह समस्या पैदा न हो।

  • @ushachahal1272
    @ushachahal1272 Місяць тому +53

    Parents rightful demand, salute!

    • @anilsinghal2312
      @anilsinghal2312 Місяць тому +2

      इनकी मांग अदालत से ही तय हो सकती है मीडिया से नहीं। इन्हें अदालत जाना चाहिए।

    • @shantadharmwan1954
      @shantadharmwan1954 Місяць тому

      Ñj ko khol le😊 mans 0​@@anilsinghal2312

  • @archishmanmishra
    @archishmanmishra Місяць тому +69

    कीर्ति चक्र माता पिता के पास रहना चाहिए

  • @TeacherIQ13
    @TeacherIQ13 Місяць тому +8

    बहुत भावुक पल है अंशुमन के माता-पिता जब बच्चे के बारे बताते हैं बहुत दुख होता है आप लोगों को भगवान दुख सहने की शक्ति दे

  • @brijeshpriya3827
    @brijeshpriya3827 Місяць тому +41

    पत्नी तो खुद इतनी लायक है यदि वह माँ होती तो या वाकई जरूरत मंद होती तो ही उसे मिलना चाहिए ।
    माता पिता का दर्जा पत्नी से कही ऊपर है वह भी ऐसी पत्नी जो सारी यादों को रिश्तेनातों को छोड़ कर चली जाए । ऐसे तो कोई माँ बाप अपने बच्चे को सेना में नहीं भेजना चाहेगे। वह तो भूलने की कोशिश करेगी लेकिन माँ तो जीने के लिए अपने बेटे को बारबार याद करना चाहेगी ।

    • @anilsinghal2312
      @anilsinghal2312 Місяць тому +1

      तब तो इस घटना से सबक लेते हुए सभी फौजियों को एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को बना देना चाहिए जिससे आगे ऐसा मसला न आये।

    • @user-oh2hi9jb2t
      @user-oh2hi9jb2t Місяць тому

      Fokat ka paisa

  • @mlnassociates9205
    @mlnassociates9205 Місяць тому +62

    This is the true story of all soldiers, as long as a soldier is alive, he faithfully performs his duties towards his wife, parents, country, society and everyone. But as soon as he becomes a martyr, taking advantage of the military NOK rules, his wife runs away with all the money with someone else, unfortunately his elderly parents neither get any kind of military aid nor any financial support. After losing their son, parents of a martyr have to spend entire life in dreadful condition 😊

    • @DimasaKing
      @DimasaKing Місяць тому +4

      Who runs away with a widow in our society. Please enlighten. I in last 40 yrs have not seen a single case.
      Rather I have seen multiple cases where the inlaws have made widows life hell after demise of the son.
      NOK is not mandated by army but is nominated by by serving soldiers themselves.
      And it's totally incorrect that parents do not get any financial benefits.
      Please try to find out what is the legal provision on hindu marriage act and also religious significance of marriage in respective religions society. You will get your answer y a husband nominates his wife/ kids as NOK.

    • @DimasaKing
      @DimasaKing Місяць тому +4

      Here the case is similar to what's happening with widow of Late Major Ashish from haryana.
      Wife the legal NOK as nominated by the Soldier himself received the entitled compensation and the parents received there share of compensation.
      Now the parents compensation is less then that of the NOKs . Whole story revolves around money.
      In this particular case , uncle ji in many interview has said he would like the widow of Captain Anshuman to marry his younger brother 😮. Y?? The money remains within their reach.

    • @Blowgger
      @Blowgger Місяць тому +1

      Wife ran away.. she has saved herself from these leeches! these greedy parents (in fact shame in name of parenthood) are eating pension from government. Army didn't dump them after retirement as army cannot dump Anshumans widow. They got fat exgratia of 65 lacs bahu got 85 so they want to control her money (may be her work also). These cringe parents wanted to marry her with younger son it seems, you know why. Why parents should get any money when they are already receiving pension? They were not dependents on son. These people raise sons as fat paycheque and nothing else. They should be booked for defaming and harassing martyrs widow. She has taken her rights over her husband's earning, have they given her share of inheritance? Cannot believe for few lacs people can stoop so low that insult that great man's sacrifice.

    • @11MohitSharma
      @11MohitSharma Місяць тому +6

      Here is a post
      For context, my dad is a Lieutenant Colonel in the Indian army, currently posted in high altitude.
      There have been lots of opinions about the actions of the parents and wife of Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous), I will help clear the same.
      I have seen the video and discussed the same with my dad, and here is what I know:
      The will, or the NoK(next of kin) is filled out by the officer, and he may choose to name spouse or parents as NoK. My father has chosen my mother as NoK, and by extension me and my brother.
      Next, the Army Insurance Fund. The split is decided by, again, the officer, which in this case was 50|50. In my dad's case is 70/30. So, of a total of around 1.1~ Cr, my mom gets around 78 and my grandma the rest(grandfather has passed away, was in the Air Force).
      In this case, the state government released a fund of 50 Lac for the family, of which, the split was 35(wife), and 15(parents).
      As Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous) decided to keep his wife as NoK, 60% of the pension and the Kirti Chakra goes to the wife.
      So, because there is a sheer mockery of the deceased brave heart's heroism on the internet, here is the split up of what everyone is getting.
      Parents: 1/2 Army Insurance Fund + 15 Lac(state govt)
      Wife: 1/2 Army Insurance Fund + 35 Lac(state govt) + 60% pension + Kirti Chakra
      How the wife decides to use HER money is up to her, as HER husband signed the NoK.
      Stop with the moral policing. We do not know how her in laws treat her.
      Also, is it not strange that the parents have met and have talked about Rahul Gandhi so much? Is it not strange they keep talking about Agni veer? Their son was a Commissioned Officer, not an Agni veer, then why so shortly after his death, instead of mourning for their lost son, they are getting involved in politics?
      Why are they arguing with their son's choice? Why are they questioning their son's partner?
      It is a sheer mockery of Captain Anshuman Singh(Kirti Chakra, posthumous) and his supreme sacrifice.
      I rest my case.
      Jai Hind.
      Also they keep saying she was only married for 5 months, but in the interview she said that their relationship was 8 years old. She knew the parents only for 5 months. They would not have treated her nicely after their son’s death. Living with them would have felt like torture. So, her leaving them is correct decision.
      About the money, She deserves it as she had her whole life planned out with Anshuman, when he is not there she must have felt so lost in life. In such situations, people can get depressed and working is also very hard with everything going through your mind. So, it is fair to have money for necessities. And the parents got money as well so they are also not being treated unfairly. They are just angry that some outsider woman is benefitting from their son’s death(typical mentality of selfish people).
      I think its still too early to reach a conclusion but the way his parents are talking as if they are really normal and it doesn't look like their son has passed away, especially the body language of his father Why discuss all these personal matters in media when your son just died?

    • @DimasaKing
      @DimasaKing Місяць тому

      @@11MohitSharma that's how u kill a conversation. 👏👏👏

  • @kumargaurav8695
    @kumargaurav8695 Місяць тому +10

    sab ladkiya or unke maa baap aise hi hain aajkal.. मतलबी, स्वार्थी और सिर्फ अधिकार कोई जिम्मेदारी नहीं

  • @ritesh2023
    @ritesh2023 Місяць тому +23

    Brave father.... 🫡

  • @PushpaKumari-vl2it
    @PushpaKumari-vl2it Місяць тому +39

    कृति चक्र माता पिता को वापस करो।

  • @manmohanchandola5886
    @manmohanchandola5886 Місяць тому +16

    सरकार को ऐसी घटनाओं से सबक लेकर नये सिरे से सोचने समझने और स्वार्थी,अन्यायपूर्ण,अव्यवहारिक, अत्याचार, और भेदभावपूर्ण स्थिति से बचा जाए।
    पत्नी अर्द्धांगिनी बनीं रहे तो कोई समस्या नहीं है।
    समस्या एकाधिकार के स्वत्ताधिकार कारण
    नेक्स्ट आफ किन प्रतिशत और पदक आदि में अभाव प्रभाव स्पष्ट हो।

    • @anilsinghal2312
      @anilsinghal2312 Місяць тому

      आगे से सभी फौजियों को अपने एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को बना देना चाहिए जिससे यह समस्या आये ही नहीं।

  • @SurendraSingh-lr5ec
    @SurendraSingh-lr5ec Місяць тому +7

    काश ऐसे मां बाप भगवान के रुप में है।

  • @RajeshSingh-py3ii
    @RajeshSingh-py3ii Місяць тому +8

    Aise mabap milna muskil hai es duniya me itne ache father to bhagwan hai

  • @nabanitamedhi389
    @nabanitamedhi389 Місяць тому +4

    Salute to his parents. Father is so thoughtful and very logical and looked into all aspects for his son's education. Like father, like son .
    How can parents keep silent when thihave devoted so much for their son .
    Parents took so much efforts along with his son , they must all have equal rights.
    Father is not demanding for money, but he wants his sons memories,the medal as a momento of his son.

  • @abhijitingle5660
    @abhijitingle5660 Місяць тому +15

    Salute to maturity of parents 🫡

  • @keshavgupta7471
    @keshavgupta7471 Місяць тому +12

    पेरेंट्स को मेडिकल मिलनी चाहिए और पैसे का बंटवारा 50 -50 में होना चाहिए ,शादी तो वो करेंगी ही उनके मा बाप करवाएंगे जरूर इसमें कोई दो राय नही है और करनी भी चाहिए ,इतनी लंबी जिंदगी ऐसे कटती भी नही😊

  • @harishhalabe1622
    @harishhalabe1622 Місяць тому +6

    शहीद अंशुमन की पत्नी को सिर्फ
    इस बात को ठंडे दिमाग से सोचकर समझना चाहिए कि अंशुमन पहले एक
    मां, पिता का बेटा हैं। पति बाद में ।
    उस मां की जगह तुम होती तो कैसा
    महसूस होता ये सोचे बस।

  • @Rajuyadav-zr7tf
    @Rajuyadav-zr7tf Місяць тому +8

    Respect for him❤🙏🙏🙏
    Captain Ansuman Singh 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @laxmithakur1
    @laxmithakur1 Місяць тому +4

    Salute to his parents❤......Samriti ko is mushkil ghadi m in laws se at least pyar se pesh aana chahiye ....jb wo keh rhi hai ki past bhulna chahti h to fir wo patti bhi to past m tha ...us se related property or kirti chkkr bhi past hi huye na ... to fir ye sb kyu rkh rhi hai sath m.......5mhine ki biwi aaj 26 saal se paal rhe parents se jyada hqqdaar ho gyi...this is so heartbreaking😢

  • @nabanitamedhi389
    @nabanitamedhi389 Місяць тому +5

    Simple parents, rich in-laws.

  • @shobhabajpai6024
    @shobhabajpai6024 Місяць тому +5

    Respect Anshuman, his parents and his widow.
    Let's think If he has been alive where would his awards been displayed, of course in his home.

  • @Kaur.brar23
    @Kaur.brar23 Місяць тому +9

    App ko and apke bate nu salute aa ji

  • @SunisthaBhadauriya
    @SunisthaBhadauriya Місяць тому +4

    पता नहीं मुझे बार -बार ऐसा क्यों लग रहा है कि सब कुछ वैसा है नहीं जैसा दिख रहा है, माँ-बाप को दर्द तो बेहद होगा लेकिन मुझे लगा रहा है कि पिता जी बहुत चालाकी से बात कर रहे हैं, एक वीडियो में मैंने देखा कि माँ कुछ बोलने चली तो उनको हाथ लगा के मना कर दिया।

    • @psingh1999
      @psingh1999 Місяць тому

      जरुरत से ज्यादा दिमाग चलता है कभी कभी

  • @rudrakashjoshi802
    @rudrakashjoshi802 Місяць тому +7

    Jis pita ka beskaamti heera chala gaya uske liye dhan daulat mitti ke barabar hai. Bahut bura laga parents ko dekh kar 😔

  • @khushbookumari8396
    @khushbookumari8396 Місяць тому +12

    Kaas mere bhi saas ssur aise hote wo to bas touch me rahne ki baat kar rhi h spirit ji touch me rahti to unhe bhi do ma baap ka pyar aur saath milta

  • @kunjbiharitiwari7588
    @kunjbiharitiwari7588 Місяць тому +28

    यह कोई बड़ी बात नहीं है आजकल लगभग 75% शादीशुदा औरतों के कुंवारे बॉयफ्रेंड होते हैं

  • @VenuSingh-vz2yd
    @VenuSingh-vz2yd Місяць тому +7

    What must Anshuman be thinking from above where ever he is. .........Seeing all this going on ........One statement from him could silence them all................😢

  • @TeacherIQ13
    @TeacherIQ13 Місяць тому +1

    मम्मी का बेटे के लिए दर्द एक मम्मी ही समक्ष सकती है मां ने बहुत मेहनत की जिस तरह बेटे ने दूसरे की जान बचाई और अपनी जान दे दी वैसे ही पापा भी सही कह रहे कि 50.50 होना चाहिए दूसरों के लिए ‌भी आवाज उठा रहे हैं ‌

  • @jacklitt5099
    @jacklitt5099 Місяць тому +3

    Mother is truthful. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @AnilKumar-mg1fn
    @AnilKumar-mg1fn Місяць тому +4

    काश आप उस दिन माना कर देती तो आज इस दोहरय में ना रहते आज ये लड़की आपकी बहू नहीं होती

  • @shobhasachwani7773
    @shobhasachwani7773 Місяць тому +2

    Very touching interview

  • @user-vo3oq2ix6b
    @user-vo3oq2ix6b Місяць тому

    इंडियन आर्मी का बब्बर शेर शहीद कैप्टन भाई अंशूमान सिंह जी देवरिया

  • @davidlynn5594
    @davidlynn5594 Місяць тому

    Anshuman Father Sahib Is Just Simply Put Brilliant. He Has Guided His Three Kids To Become Doctors.

  • @RupeshKumar-ry8cm
    @RupeshKumar-ry8cm Місяць тому +3

    Maa pita ke sath nyay hona chahiye 😢

  • @saritasingh884
    @saritasingh884 Місяць тому +2

    I have a great respect for Anshuman's Parent. In my view, major financial aid should go to parents as they have raise their child. Wife has no children and why she cannot earn for herself provided that she is an NITian and an independent girl. Wife do need emotional support and that's why she should not cut ties with her in-laws. It is easy to raise a child but it is difficult to raise a bright child who can sacrifice himself for a nation.

  • @AddictedScreen
    @AddictedScreen Місяць тому +2

    Leave her alone, you people can't even imagine what she is going through right now.

    • @saritasingh884
      @saritasingh884 Місяць тому +1

      that's why she left all Anshuman's cloth in jhola instead of suitcase. Why she has no respect for Anshuman??

  • @damantijoshi2422
    @damantijoshi2422 Місяць тому

    माँ बाप के दिल को एसे तोड़ दिया जैसे शीशा टूट जाता है दूध गिर गया उसे कोई उठा नहीं सकता शहीद बेटे का दर्द मरते दम तक रहेगा आखिर अंशुमान के शहीद हो जाने पर ये महाभारत कब बन्द होगा ये समाचार सुनते देखते कान पक गये दिल में दर्द होता हैं मां बाप बीबी का ऐसा बर्ताव अंशुमान शहीद की आत्मा को बहुत दुःख मिलेगा अंशुमान अमर रहे ऊँ शान्ति

  • @Pammi956
    @Pammi956 Місяць тому +1

    Jo interview le usko yeh jankari bhi nhi.. Ki kya baat krni hai, Dr anshumaan bahut hi intelligent the ❤

  • @shubhamsoni2058
    @shubhamsoni2058 Місяць тому +2

    His father his a good orator

  • @Sud.thakur
    @Sud.thakur Місяць тому +2

    He was exceptionally well talented

  • @meerakushwaha4007
    @meerakushwaha4007 Місяць тому +3

    आर्मी को अपने नियमो में संशोधन करना चाहिए।अगर किसी की भी बहू ससुराल वाले घर छोड़कर खुद चली जाती है और किसी और से शादी कर लेती हैं तो ऐसे सिचुएशन में उसे पहले पति से मिलने वाले सरकारी अधिकार छीन लेनी चाहिए।

    • @anilsinghal2312
      @anilsinghal2312 Місяць тому

      इससे अच्छा तो सभी फौजियों को अपने एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को ही बना देना चाहिए जिससे आगे यह समस्या पैदा ही न हो।

  • @murtidevi3655
    @murtidevi3655 Місяць тому

    बहुत अच्छी सोच है आपकी

  • @foramparikh5725
    @foramparikh5725 Місяць тому +1

    Siyachin glacier are very dangerous post . He must be our brave captain. Jai Hind. Soldier die even due to weather without any combat situation

  • @debashisdebnath1527
    @debashisdebnath1527 Місяць тому

    Reporter vi bahut accha sa report kiya salute sir for your honesty to show the real story.

  • @poshansharma7778
    @poshansharma7778 Місяць тому +1

    जो भी बात है, मिलकर सुलझाइए कृपया।

  • @azraakram5599
    @azraakram5599 Місяць тому +1

    🙏🤲iam very to mum 😢 dad Allah give peace very sad 😭

  • @paremsharama585
    @paremsharama585 Місяць тому +2

    Nahi aer appki apni bety hoty toh app bhi yei kertay

  • @princeraja3369
    @princeraja3369 Місяць тому +2

    Yyai sab khuch Anushman kay Maa Baap ko milna chahyai.

  • @surabhi6373
    @surabhi6373 Місяць тому

    शहीद के माता पिता और पत्नी को सरकार से जो भी मान सम्मान, राशि मिलता है उस पर गहन चर्चा करके सुधार करना जरूरी है। यह भावनात्मक मामला है इस पर विवेकपूर्ण चर्चा करके निर्णय लिया जाए।

  • @dilipkumargoud8368
    @dilipkumargoud8368 Місяць тому +1

    Public sector ONGC में यह नियम है की सर्विस के दौरान अगर कर्मी की मृत्यु हो जाती है तो कंपनी द्वारा दी जानेवाली राशि में से एक नियत प्रतिशत माता पिता को देने का प्रावधान है । अगर माता पिता लेने से इंकार करते है तो पूर्ण राशि मृतक की पत्नी को दे दिया जाता है ।
    ऐसा नियम सेना या सेंट्रल गवर्नमेंट में अगर नही है तो आश्चर्य की बात है । इस पर संशोधन करना चाहिए ।

    • @anilsinghal2312
      @anilsinghal2312 Місяць тому

      क्यों न सभी फौजी अपने एनओके कालम में अपना उत्तराधिकारी अपने माँ बाप को ही बना दें जिससे समस्या पैदा ही न हो।

  • @sprasad4947
    @sprasad4947 Місяць тому +2

    Mata pita or wife ko 50%50%melna chahiye

  • @champachoubey5303
    @champachoubey5303 Місяць тому +1

    Anshumaan ke matapita ki bate sun kar etna dukh hota hai, rona aa jata hai, ku unki bahu aisa kar rahi hai, dono ki haalat kitni kharab hai, dono kitne dukhit hai, par us ladki ko koi fark nahi pad raha hai, Bhagwan unke parent ko shakti de aur bete ke yaado ke sahare wo jinda rahe, sab ladkiya aise nahi hoti hai, bad luck tha unke parent ka ki unko aise ladki milli, mujhe lagta hai ki kaise anshuman laut ke aajaye, aur us ladki ki kartut ko dekhe, par wah sab dekh raha hai, ak din us ladki ko uski kiye ki saza bhagwan jarur dega, ak maa ki aakho me etna aashu diya hai, jis maa ne usko janam de ksr paal posh kar, etne bade post me khada kiya tha, jiske badolat aj wah etna respect usko mil raha hai, aur maa baap ko khun ke aashu rona pad raha hai.

  • @santoshdubey1119
    @santoshdubey1119 Місяць тому +10

    Ladki ne sahi decision liya...uske saamne poora future tha...

    • @sumanvishway860
      @sumanvishway860 Місяць тому +7

      So no need of any respect or atleast some heart for the grieving parents. She's an Opportunist...

    • @ausmani2278
      @ausmani2278 Місяць тому +2

      Bhai, khuda na khasta tumharay budhapay may koi tumhay pani denay wala na hua tab pata chalega future kya hota hai samaj kya hota hai.

  • @kikimontreal1
    @kikimontreal1 Місяць тому +9

    These selfish parents should leave that poor widow alone! Shameful!

    • @harshitsingh7035
      @harshitsingh7035 Місяць тому +2

      Vo ma baap paisa nahi mang rahe ...
      Vo kitri chakra ki baat kar rahe h.।।
      Vo ladaki ab 5 carore rupaye milenge.. Kirti chakra ki pension aur army pension mila k usko har maheene 1 lakh.. Uper milegi

    • @deepakbisht8145
      @deepakbisht8145 Місяць тому +2

      @@harshitsingh7035 Bhai Paisa nahi chahte to wo Rahul Gandhi ko approach nahi karte ...greedy ho gaye hai maa baap ...

    • @tanmaynagar7447
      @tanmaynagar7447 Місяць тому +2

      ​@@deepakbisht8145Vo khud gye nhi unhe bulaya gya tha
      Pta nhi ho to apna muh band kre

    • @deepakbisht8145
      @deepakbisht8145 Місяць тому +3

      ​@@tanmaynagar7447 kyu Rahul Gandhi ko sapna aaya bulane kaaa...Rahul ko rajneeti chalani hai usko to mudda chahiye...khuch to Kiya hoga inhone tabhi bulaya unko nahi to sabko to nahi bulate
      .isko jaana hi maana jayega...ek baat or aap personal mat ho ...apna views do shaalinta se

    • @relex922
      @relex922 Місяць тому

      ​@@deepakbisht8145 Ary wife ka srif husband k honours par hi haq hota h kya...husband ki basic responsibility b hoti h unpa par b haq ni h kya wife ....

  • @avhilash
    @avhilash Місяць тому +3

    this is the reason parents are against love marriage because they dont know anything about the girl, her family

  • @ramchandrayadav8037
    @ramchandrayadav8037 Місяць тому +3

    Hm logo ke sath bhi ese hua ek bhai tha

  • @onlineaakashvani6145
    @onlineaakashvani6145 Місяць тому +3

    Change rule next of kin

  • @keshavgupta7471
    @keshavgupta7471 Місяць тому +1

    Reform तो होनी ही चाहिए,सरकार को ध्यान देना चाहिए

  • @NeemaTiwari-xg5qv
    @NeemaTiwari-xg5qv Місяць тому

    Dhnay hai maji aap❤

  • @user-jb1ys4ou5h
    @user-jb1ys4ou5h Місяць тому +1

    Etne Sajjan mata pita hain tabhi bahu ne ye sab kar diya kirti chakra mata pita ko milna chahiye bahu young hain saadi to karegi ek din ,to kayda kahta hain chakra enko mile , jo kuch milta hain bahu ko wah esliye ki saath rahte hain sab puri family par ,niyat badal jaye to niyam to bane

  • @vinoddevi5246
    @vinoddevi5246 Місяць тому +1

    शानदार

  • @rajganesh165
    @rajganesh165 Місяць тому +20

    Maa baap ko 80% or wife ko 20 % milna chahiye

    • @anilsinghal2312
      @anilsinghal2312 Місяць тому +4

      शहीद मेजर ने अपने फार्म में जिसे उत्तराधिकारी बनाया है सेना कानून उसे ही देगी। सैनिकों को चाहिए कि अपने फार्म में अपनी पत्नी की जगह माँ बाप का नाम लिखें जिससे सेना मुआवजा राशि उन्हें दे दे।

    • @RahulKumar-mo6ngRAHUL
      @RahulKumar-mo6ngRAHUL Місяць тому

      ​@@anilsinghal2312no anshuman ke bache hote tab wife is right ✅

    • @ayushisrivastava8154
      @ayushisrivastava8154 Місяць тому +2

      ​@@RahulKumar-mo6ngRAHUL q bhai unhone khud apne wife ko choose Kiya iska mtlb vo jante the ki inke parents selfish hae n vo ladki 8 Saal se relationship me the to Acha kahasa time spend Kiya yh loh kuch din ke bad mar jayege aur usne shadi hi nhe ki tab???

    • @PrinceyV-pt1d
      @PrinceyV-pt1d Місяць тому

      ​@@ayushisrivastava8154Engineer hai woh ladki....beautiful bhi hai...dusre shadi karli phir...

    • @india50760
      @india50760 Місяць тому

      @@PrinceyV-pt1d anpadho pta nahi ho to har chij mai mat ghusso. Shahid ki jo vidhwa wife hain agar wo dusri shadi karengi to unko milne wali pension bhi band ho jayegi. Sadak pe la do vidwa ko katora le kar. Tab tumko chain pdega. Aur jo bujurg ye nanga naach kar rahe hai wo already govt retired person hai. Unko pension milti hai sarkari. Well developed hai. 1 beta aur 1 beti bhi hai. Fir tamasha bana rakha hai.

  • @rickyyt1183
    @rickyyt1183 Місяць тому

    E bate sun kar aashu aa gye😢

  • @Dippyraturi
    @Dippyraturi Місяць тому +2

    Ma baap ko ma baap ki tarh rhna chahiye jiss ldki ne itne Saal diye kya usko dukh nhi ho raha sabka dukh brabr hai ma baap ko bhi smjhna chahiye

    • @ManpreetSingh-jx2li
      @ManpreetSingh-jx2li Місяць тому

      Itne saal nhi bro. Just 5 months 😅. They don't want compensation. They just want that they should have also got the privilege to touch and see the kirti chakra.

  • @india50760
    @india50760 Місяць тому +9

    Vo bujurg pita already govt retired person hai. Aur uski pension hai. Rule ye kehta hai jab aap ek pension le rahe hai to aap dusri pension nahi le sakte. Kitni chhi chha le than macha rakhi hai media walo ne. Hadd hai. Bujurg mata pita already sampann family hai. Fir bhi sara drama paiso ke liye hai. Wife agar sab kuch unlogo ke naam kar de to koi problem nahi. Agar apna hissa maang le to saare aa jate hai nanga naach karne. Sab paiso ka mamla hai babu bhaiya.. jabki ye sahi baat hai vidwa agar dusri sadi karegi to pension band ho jayegi to isme itna nanga naach karne ki kya jarurat. Ab ek vidwa apna itna haq bhi nahi le sakti. Kuch mat do usko. Sadak pe katora le kar beekh maangne pe majboor kar do. Aakhir samaaj ko patniyo se duamani hai. Samaaj patniyo ko kuch nahi dena chahta.

    • @pratibhashukla6637
      @pratibhashukla6637 Місяць тому

      Aap saas ho saas hi rahogi 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @india50760
      @india50760 Місяць тому

      @@pratibhashukla6637 🤨aapne mera comment sahi se read nahi kiya.

  • @user-wh2tm6iz8e
    @user-wh2tm6iz8e Місяць тому +13

    कोई दिक्कत नही तो बहू भाग गयी सब वही ले गयी ये बाते क्यू और शादी के बाद पत्नी ही हकदार होती है तभी पत्नी को बुलाया ना वर्ना मां बाप को ही बुलाते कानुनन बीबी का हक होता है और मां बाप को दिक्कत भी नहीं होनी चाहिये ऐसे हक लेके ही सास भी गृहस्थही करती है पती घर सब पर बीबी का हक होता है

    • @komal_thakur5749
      @komal_thakur5749 Місяць тому +9

      They didn't not saying anything for 1 year... but now she changed the permanent address of Ayushman.... his parents are alive their home should be the permanent address in the documents of Ayushman but the girl changed that to her mayka address. She has literally changed his identity... this thing hurt his parents most that's why they want some changes in policies . Ayushman Gurdaspur k kaise ho gye ?
      Bacche ki Identity parents se hoti h aur wife ki husband se.

    • @anilsinghal2312
      @anilsinghal2312 Місяць тому

      इस मसले को इन्हें अदालत ले जाना चाहिए। मीडिया में जग हसांयी से कुछ हासिल नहीं होना।​@@komal_thakur5749

    • @deepakbisht8145
      @deepakbisht8145 Місяць тому

      ​@@komal_thakur5749Paisa chahiye inko bas ...asal dukh hota bete kaa to yee nichta nahi karte...

    • @vaideheesingh2550
      @vaideheesingh2550 Місяць тому +4

      Ha wife hakdaar hoti hai..lakin agar ye ladki dusri shaadi kr leti h or apni us family me Shahid ka kirti chakra le jaati h ..or jahir si baat us parivaar k liye kirti chakra ki koi value nahi hogi ...na hone wale bacche us se koi proud mahshosh krenge...waha us ki koi value nahi hogi ...or agar yahi kirti chakra unke home town ya Ghar me bhi rahega to aane wali pidhiya us se inpire hongi ...Kai generation tak yaad rakha jaata h k hamare khaandaan me koi Shahid hua tha...ha agar wife sasuraal se Judi rahti h to wife rakhe other wise wife ko ye samman Shahid k mata pita ko de dena chahiye..kyuki us samman k sath maa baap ki kya feeling hongi ye wahi samjh sakte h ...sirf paisa hi sab kuchh nahi hota ..hamare yaha to dur k gaon me koi Shahid hota h to us gaon se gujrane pr fakr hota h ..wife ko bhi bada Dil rakh k ye sochana chahiye

    • @deepakbisht8145
      @deepakbisht8145 Місяць тому +2

      @@vaideheesingh2550 aap kaise bol rehe hai koi value nahi hogi ...wo award kisi value ka mohtaaj nahi hai ...or wo apne pati se pyaar kerti hai to wo uski value bhi rakhagi ...

  • @sehajpartap.756
    @sehajpartap.756 Місяць тому

    smriti mam she is very nice person and vah bahut ache hain ji kush aisa vaisa logon ko unke bare mein nahi kahana chahie unki image ke bare mein kisi ko koi hak nhin kuch kehne ka ji

  • @rishitachandra7816
    @rishitachandra7816 Місяць тому +3

    Patni ka hak tab hota hai jab vah Apne Pati ke sahid ho jaane ke bad mein Apne Pati ke ghar mein hi rahe nahin to pura pura hak uske man baap ka hi hota hai kyunki 9 mahine uski man ne apne pet mein rakha h or 20-22 sal Tak pala bhi hai padhaayaa likhaya bhi hai bahut aankhon mein sapne bhi sajae hain ummiden bhi thi Jo Bahu ke Ghar se chale jaane se unki sari ummiden khatm ho gai vah bhi itne acche man baap kahate Hain ham Bahu ki shaadi karenge are kuchh nahin to kam se kam is dukh ki ghadi mein unke sath kuchh din to rahti lekin nahin is padhi likhi Bahu ne unko tutate hue ko aur jyada tod Diya😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @divyarai8030
      @divyarai8030 Місяць тому

      agar uske ma bap ladki ko tang krke use ghar se bhaga de tab kya krwaeyega tu ?

  • @sukhwantkaur4780
    @sukhwantkaur4780 Місяць тому +1

    Maa baap da dukh deka nahi ja reha 🙏very sorry

  • @VijayYadav-ie7od
    @VijayYadav-ie7od Місяць тому +1

    Kirti chakra aayushman bhai ke Mata pita ke pass rahana chahie kyunki unhen bahut Sundar baten rakh rahe hain bahut pratishthit log hai un Jaise logon Ko itna dhaar hai Jaise

  • @paremsharama585
    @paremsharama585 Місяць тому +1

    Aer smrity shadhi kerty hai tohus ke jakahmbar toh jayege per nishan toh reh hi jayegi ha appke jakham bharee bhi nahi per gali gali main charcha o rahi hai ye u ki shadat ka apman hai

  • @paremsharama585
    @paremsharama585 Місяць тому +1

    Bat kirty chaker tak nahi hai maje lata hai bat paiso ki hai

  • @alimony4golddiggers
    @alimony4golddiggers Місяць тому +1

    I will message to my cousin brother who is in army so that he can change the benefits and salary to his mother's account. So that he again can share this message to someone. This is very dark and easy business for women to loot men and run away.

  • @saniaali9028
    @saniaali9028 Місяць тому

    I AM WITH PARENTS

  • @vlogs_718
    @vlogs_718 Місяць тому +1

    Mujhe to yahi dekhkar Rona a Gaya ki jis man ne janm Diya vah man piche chal rahi hai aur jisse kuchh hi sal pahle shaadi Hui vah aage chal rahi hai aur Samman bhi usko hi Diya

    • @terry-bi7ei
      @terry-bi7ei Місяць тому

      Look at his mother how fearful she was when receiving kirti chakra award and daughter in law had no manner to get her involved or have eve contact with brave lady who raised that brave man.

  • @terry-bi7ei
    @terry-bi7ei Місяць тому

    As it says betty bachaio betty paraio betty ko sansakar siakho . (Save the girls educate the girls raise the girls with moral value as important to have strong better society.

  • @vaishaliniit
    @vaishaliniit Місяць тому +4

    Shameful topic to see more people's personal life is more important news for channels.

  • @apurvajaya1993
    @apurvajaya1993 Місяць тому +1

    Sir aap ache se ripash kariye

  • @user-jb1ys4ou5h
    @user-jb1ys4ou5h Місяць тому

    Weldon sir aapko

  • @dm8780
    @dm8780 Місяць тому

    At the time of joining army, the soldier is unmarried and he chooses to writes the name of NOK. After marriage when part 2 order is published then automatically the name of nok changes and spouce becomes nok in the army.

  • @ausmani2278
    @ausmani2278 Місяць тому +11

    Shaheed Anshuman ke pita ji ko aab sabre kar lena chahiye. Dono parivaro ki sonch our sanskar may bahut fark lagta hai. Unko apney bate ke yaad may foundation ya hospital ki taraf dhyan de our crowd funding site say sahyog le.

  • @AnkitSingh-fs2sl
    @AnkitSingh-fs2sl Місяць тому +2

    Mujhe kya mai to gay hun. Meri to shaadi bhi legal nhi hai😢😅

  • @thelogical1700
    @thelogical1700 Місяць тому +1

    samazik sansthae aage aye, aur ek maa ki bhi iksha puri karwae...samazik sansthae ya sarkar k directions me, anshuman ka medal aur jo bhi ho, parents k yahan kuch din, unke didar k lea vayastha karen aur fir vspas vo medal madam ko samman sahit vapas kia jaa sakta hai....

  • @elmagunda
    @elmagunda Місяць тому

    7:50
    19:16
    21:58
    26:11

  • @Wonderview256
    @Wonderview256 Місяць тому

    Parents 😢

  • @ashasawhney5207
    @ashasawhney5207 Місяць тому +1

    😢😢😢

  • @neetuawasthi9274
    @neetuawasthi9274 Місяць тому +2

    Love marriage thi aur ma ko to doctor bahu chahiye usme ye pita retired hai Plus inke ek aur beta hai upper se vakypatuta me shrestya hai.aur inhe aur kya chahiye sabhi log samajh sakte hai

    • @Cradaver
      @Cradaver Місяць тому +1

      Inhe chahiye ki ladki aise na chali jaye or baat bhi na kare .. block na kare . Atleast bata de ki ab aage rishta rakhna hai ya nhi

    • @mania8158
      @mania8158 Місяць тому

      @@Cradaverkuch toh kiya hoga Jo ladki ne block kar diya

    • @Cradaver
      @Cradaver Місяць тому

      @@mania8158 ye hi bata de kyu kiya.. his parents are begging and asking what mistake they did that girl is giving them such punishment...

  • @neelamsahi6164
    @neelamsahi6164 Місяць тому

    Maa baap sabse upar hai unka brabari koi kr nahi sakta

  • @debashisdebnath1527
    @debashisdebnath1527 Місяць тому

    😢😢😢😢

  • @neelamsahi6164
    @neelamsahi6164 Місяць тому

    Maa k brabri koireesta nhi h

  • @ashok5591
    @ashok5591 Місяць тому

    News people are these days taking time with a particular family, not having the time to question the in-laws?

  • @kumkumsingh6480
    @kumkumsingh6480 Місяць тому

    Dominance chahiye in parents ko apni bahu pr completely.
    Shameless parents

  • @kumkumsingh6480
    @kumkumsingh6480 Місяць тому +1

    Ye buddha bahut selfish and cunning h.. bechari us ladki k piche hi pad gya h haath dhoo kr k

  • @paremsharama585
    @paremsharama585 Місяць тому

    Jabhum beti ke ma bap banker schatay ai th amari soch or hoty haisocho aer smirty purani yadh leke aheitoh kya wo neq life suru ker pyegi bha ana wor kitana apman janak hai

  • @foodie_panda
    @foodie_panda Місяць тому

    I really feel she should return kirti chakra to her in laws

  • @amanthakur1987
    @amanthakur1987 Місяць тому

    Anshuman ka Kirti chakra wahi hona chahiye jahan Anshuman rehta tha.....wahi uski asal jagah hai.....

  • @santoshmalik7556
    @santoshmalik7556 Місяць тому

    क्या लड़के की शादी होने के बाद बेटा माँ बाप का नही रहता सारा अधिकार औरत का ही होता है क्या उनका जन्म देना पालना पढ़ाना सर्विस लगवाना शादी करना यहाँ तक ही माँ बाप का अधिकार है क्या इस बात को हम जानते भी हैं समझते भी हैं की शादी के बाद पत्नी का अधिकार होता है परन्तु इतना भी नही कि जब कोई परेशानी आ जाए या जैसे अंशु की शहादत पर देश रो रहा है उसके माता पिता का रो रो कर बुरा हाल है वे कहते हैं कि हमे पैसा नहीं अपने बेटे की का सरकार द्वारा दिया गया सम्मानित कीर्ति चक्र चाहिए हमारी भी अंशु की पत्नी से रिक्वेस्ट है कि अगर आपने दूसरी शादी करनी है तो शोक से करे पर उनके बेटे की आखरी nishainl उन्हे दे jawe v3n i

  • @MotiurRohman-j6c
    @MotiurRohman-j6c Місяць тому +1

    5 mahine wali biwi ko ye hok nahi hai kirti chakra khud rakkhe

  • @sarladevi-dg2qt
    @sarladevi-dg2qt Місяць тому

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @andmanilifevlogs7985
    @andmanilifevlogs7985 Місяць тому

    Pita ki aankhon m kitni chamak or samman h apne shaheed bete ke liye ,jo jeevan bhar rahega us saaman chakra ka bivi kya kregi btao kuchh samay baad uska dusra pati hoga ,bchhe honge unke parivar ka naya daamad hoga vo us chakra ka kya samman krenge kisi kone m pade rahega ,agar abhi unki yaado ko bhulna chahti hai aage bdna chahti hai to us chakra se to jeevan bhar yaad rahega to kya vo us samman mo dekhegi bhi bilkul nahi kregi