Anal Sex 101: How To Try Anal Sex

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  • @davidellis279
    @davidellis279 8 місяців тому +61

    What a lovely sensible couple talking about a really sensitive subject in a way we can all understand,some couples like the idea others don’t but at least we all now know we’re not the only ones interested in this.

  • @hvxcolors396
    @hvxcolors396 8 місяців тому +16

    People heavily in love with each other sometimes want to come as close as possible to each other. Anal can be part of that urge to 'melt together'. It doesn't have to be something for later in the relationship. or just because you saw it in a movie.

  • @Jstreamssr
    @Jstreamssr 9 місяців тому +27

    I admire a couple being open to talk about a subject that so many people find dirty to taboo. I've experienced it a couple times (giving) and me and my partner both enjoyed it.

    • @davidockley2987
      @davidockley2987 9 місяців тому +3

      "my partner and I"* grammar

    • @johnrusso6169
      @johnrusso6169 8 місяців тому +6

      Yes, it's actually for both. I personally love it.

    • @dipu2061
      @dipu2061 3 місяці тому

      ❤​@@johnrusso6169

  • @bradleya.wright4072
    @bradleya.wright4072 Рік тому +65

    After listening to you both about this subject I feel better about myself.

  • @LinusNwadike
    @LinusNwadike 4 місяці тому +8

    It's really pleasurable I tried with my partner and now she enjoys it more than the normal one

  • @michaelmcduff2263
    @michaelmcduff2263 2 місяці тому +21

    It's the most intimate thing two people can do with each other.

    • @Virjunior01
      @Virjunior01 2 місяці тому +6

      I'd argue there's more, but that's very different

    • @steveellerbee7605
      @steveellerbee7605 Місяць тому

      😊😊​@@Virjunior01😮 3:33 😅😮😮😢🎉😢😮😮😮😢😢😢so 😅😮😅😅😅😅😅😮 4:04 😅😢😢🎉😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😢😮😢😢😢😮😢😢😢🎉🎉😮die 😅😮😅😅😮😅😮😮😮😅😅😅😮😮😮😅😅 4:58 4:59 4:59 5:01 😅😊😅😅

    • @Gamerda69
      @Gamerda69 Місяць тому

      ​@@Virjunior01Exactly. Anal sex is just one of th intimate things a couple can do.

  • @richardsalinas2033
    @richardsalinas2033 Рік тому +7

    I believe if your in truly in love with a certain person as long as your not hurting the person don,t think there anything wrong with what ever you do with your love one
    i your bedroom.

  • @fredfear7107
    @fredfear7107 Рік тому +40

    Living in Europe in my 20s (1970s) it was often an option.
    Always considered fun.

  • @pickels5184
    @pickels5184 Рік тому +70

    Girls either love it or they don't

    • @JC-qg4sh
      @JC-qg4sh 3 місяці тому

      They love it, but it has to be done correctly, very gently and slow and patiently and with plenty of lube and absolutely open communication between the two👍👍

    • @sammyhood6914
      @sammyhood6914 2 місяці тому +2

      😂

  • @lightningdt1
    @lightningdt1 Рік тому +27

    First time watching, you guys are great!

  • @davidellis279
    @davidellis279 Рік тому +19

    I think both of you have to be into this sort of thing,taking about it before hand and then proceed very slowly if you both agree to try it and of course lubrication is a must and plenty of it.

  • @CharlesBrown-q8q
    @CharlesBrown-q8q 4 місяці тому +5

    To me its the most intimate of feelings, I feel so close to my partner. I do admit there is the taboo factor too.

  • @jasonbrown4841
    @jasonbrown4841 11 місяців тому +30

    Great video. - good tips! My ex-wife and current wife both enjoyed it. Its fun to explore with different lubs but we enjoy liquid coconut oil the most. A bit messy and feels awesome!

  • @LDM662
    @LDM662 Рік тому +58

    You'd be surprised at the number of women who like it

    • @sierra141
      @sierra141 Рік тому +8

      Well as a TGirl myself its always expected 💋

    • @KpxUrz5745
      @KpxUrz5745 10 місяців тому +2

      I would be surprised, because I've never met one.

    • @LDM662
      @LDM662 10 місяців тому +7

      @@KpxUrz5745 I sure have, One woman I had preferred it over anything.

    • @DanishKhan-xd2yh
      @DanishKhan-xd2yh 6 місяців тому

      ​@@sierra141hy🎉

    • @MustangsTrainsMowers
      @MustangsTrainsMowers 14 днів тому

      Must be a lot of them who won’t share an Interest in that type of adventure until you’re in the bedroom. My first girlfriend definitely wasn’t interested in doing that.

  • @peterphillips8857
    @peterphillips8857 Рік тому +28

    As long as my partner enjoys it that's fine by me as long as all precautions taken before and after she's happy 😊 I'm happy

  • @reshanasukwah6537
    @reshanasukwah6537 Рік тому +14

    😂😂😂how did i even come across this video 😂😂 ... sometimes i wonder if UA-cam n my mine have some connections 😅

  • @TheAffrojutty
    @TheAffrojutty Рік тому +32

    It’s HOT!! Both giving and receiving ✌️

  • @susanisaacs7487
    @susanisaacs7487 Рік тому +38

    Very informative and interesting. Thank you so much❤

  • @stuka97
    @stuka97 Рік тому +60

    This is something new? Just about every girlfriend I've had in the past were more than willing to explore this and after all why not!

    • @angurisloud
      @angurisloud Рік тому

      No, not at all - cultures thousands of years ago were into anal. It's not called "greek" for nothing...

    • @NUMMEHARBEN
      @NUMMEHARBEN 9 місяців тому

      How old are you? 20-30, 30-40 etc. I think it could be a generation difference. I am 60-70 and first time having anal sex with my c-k in a woman was when I was over 50 and the youngest woman 42. I have been bringing up this rather quick in the later relations and it worked rather well. I also mentioned to them that I also like if they do some kind of anal to me very easy and that made them doing that to.

    • @AntjeRoestenburg
      @AntjeRoestenburg 9 місяців тому +5

      Tried once, never (ever) again

    • @mamabear-x7u
      @mamabear-x7u 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@AntjeRoestenburg was it painful? Did you use lube? Haven't tried yet coz my hole soo tight already😢 and I HATE PAIN

    • @AntjeRoestenburg
      @AntjeRoestenburg 2 місяці тому +1

      @@mamabear-x7u I found it very painful and unpleasant 😕

  • @johnduffy6546
    @johnduffy6546 5 місяців тому +7

    A very nice tutorial.... Thank you

  • @shcade8926
    @shcade8926 Рік тому +42

    “Just a poop filled world” I’m dying 😂😂👍🏼

  • @babuzzard6470
    @babuzzard6470 3 місяці тому +6

    You can get pregnant, where do you think politicians come from!😂🇦🇺

  • @CoralynnMurray
    @CoralynnMurray Рік тому +30

    Great information and I loved the bloopers at the end. 😂

    • @_Lazare
      @_Lazare 9 місяців тому

      Lol

    • @IsmailKiroglu-o4r
      @IsmailKiroglu-o4r 5 місяців тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤Helo baby you beauthiful ❤❤❤❤Uuuufff Uuuufff baby you beauthiful ❤❤❤❤

    • @svenlarsen4876
      @svenlarsen4876 4 місяці тому +1

      Don't worry those bloopers wash off 😂

  • @nickhardy8300
    @nickhardy8300 Рік тому +5

    I love it. Male or Female.

    • @yaolo97
      @yaolo97 Рік тому

      Are you bisex?

  • @mzaccagnini7179
    @mzaccagnini7179 Рік тому +19

    I've always liked it . But there is a stigma about it. You just have to be open minded.

  • @quintlouis4697
    @quintlouis4697 9 місяців тому +6

    Backdoor, that's the only word my missz will accept,and us kiwi couple love it 👌

  • @MargieBates-o5i
    @MargieBates-o5i Рік тому +9

    It’s very pleasurable

  • @leonidasspyropoulos849
    @leonidasspyropoulos849 Рік тому +10

    You are a lovely couple. You make everything feel normal. Thank you.

  • @paulclairethomas1344
    @paulclairethomas1344 10 місяців тому +3

    If it is consensual, approached with consideration, all participants are aware of the task involved and well "prepared" What is there not to like and enjoy..?
    You will never know until you indulge yourselves.. Get the "stigma" out of your head..

    • @1Whitetail
      @1Whitetail 4 місяці тому

      Sounds like you guys like it, my wife loves it.

  • @niladrimukherjee2098
    @niladrimukherjee2098 Рік тому +17

    Ok Lady & Gentleman let me put it very straight - DO U PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH ? Expecting a straight answer 🙂

    • @GodfridahKamwenda-it7er
      @GodfridahKamwenda-it7er Рік тому

      It's just for money monitoring on UA-cam don't believe everything on social medias 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

    • @NUMMEHARBEN
      @NUMMEHARBEN 9 місяців тому +6

      I can see how they talk and react that they obviously are doing it.

    • @1Whitetail
      @1Whitetail 4 місяці тому +2

      Answer is yes... often

  • @deannaseabolt5441
    @deannaseabolt5441 10 місяців тому +11

    I love it so much !!

  • @aroorsinghdhillonmaluwalia6500
    @aroorsinghdhillonmaluwalia6500 Рік тому +10

    Very good information. Thanks.

  • @richardhankla6887
    @richardhankla6887 Рік тому +14

    Fantastic class...

  • @rodneymorris2695
    @rodneymorris2695 2 роки тому +43

    Very informative thank you

  • @adrianminks5328
    @adrianminks5328 9 місяців тому +7

    Pretty informative👌😎 thank you.

  • @RichardGray-f1q
    @RichardGray-f1q 8 місяців тому +2

    I would like to try anything one's but she doesn't like it we want do it anymore!

  • @frlocs2naturalstyle
    @frlocs2naturalstyle Рік тому +11

    There is nothing better...

  • @jacquelinewood5023
    @jacquelinewood5023 10 місяців тому +6

    I have DEFINITELY missed the intrigue wagon on this topic. I have tried it before. Unfortunately for my rear, with the wrong partner. However I personally have never been interested in it. It just doesn’t appeal to me in the slightest. If my partner wanted to try, I would be willing but everything about it turns me off. To each their own, it’s just not my thing.

    • @shanelogan1518
      @shanelogan1518 10 місяців тому

      That’s too bad. I find that all of my partners have enjoyed it but I always started with a little rimming and made it a part of our routine first. Next you may insert a finger after some rimming that was slightly penetrating of the anus. After she was comfortable with regular fingering during doggy, I would ask if she would like to try my penis. Lots of lube and going slow, never had any problems.

  • @alickak8346
    @alickak8346 Рік тому +13

    Fantastic Information but still cant do it..and will never

    • @joseluisamador8731
      @joseluisamador8731 3 місяці тому +1

      Porque? Solo se vive una vez en la vida disfrutala experimenta con alguien que te guíe si no te gusta la experiencia pues lo tiras ya

    • @wanadnanmuhamad2820
      @wanadnanmuhamad2820 8 днів тому

      You are righteous people

  • @markjenner7199
    @markjenner7199 Рік тому +12

    A case of turning the other cheek😂

  • @TimeTraveller3256
    @TimeTraveller3256 Рік тому +5

    Meamd my girlfriend watched this amd had amazing fun

  • @akadirnilavane2861
    @akadirnilavane2861 Рік тому +18

    Useful information!

    • @vanessaandxander
      @vanessaandxander  Рік тому +2

      Glad to hear that!

    • @ascott4606
      @ascott4606 Рік тому +2

      How do you get the traffic cone out....asking for a friend 🤔 (I'm joking, we used a flared base parking cone) 😄

  • @Kevingrandison-o5w
    @Kevingrandison-o5w 11 місяців тому +7

    It feels great

  • @moneyMilli-r4y
    @moneyMilli-r4y Рік тому +9

    It is amazing

  • @epcservices6018
    @epcservices6018 Рік тому +8

    Coconut oil & condom very useful.

    • @1972hermanoben
      @1972hermanoben 3 місяці тому +3

      Oils and condoms aren’t a good pairing - latex or polyisoprene condoms are much more susceptible to damage and even breakage when used with oil - go for water-based lubes instead. What’s more, they’re usually less likely to irritate and cause adverse reactions or aggravate existing conditions such as thrush etc.

  • @peterdecaro1004
    @peterdecaro1004 5 місяців тому +2

    Is this something like a colonoscopy…
    Go get prepared should we drink that solution to clean out the whole system like u do in a colonoscopy..
    Ok got it 10w40. Lots of it
    I
    No gold medals …for this event none..I’m very disappointed.

  • @rustysilk685
    @rustysilk685 Рік тому +12

    European woman like are more into it

  • @jeanswigeart6791
    @jeanswigeart6791 Рік тому +11

    ❤....its not for everyone ...but the ones that do it ...❤ it ...its kinda like avocado s some people like them ...and others hate them and others have never tried it...😂

  • @JOHN-ly6yp
    @JOHN-ly6yp Рік тому +5

    I have found many women very curious about this through mutual understanding and patience it could be done with any woman I have never had a complaint all these times what out a condom I get mud on my turtle but there's always soap and water

  • @neilbeech4093
    @neilbeech4093 Рік тому +10

    My parents never explained sex to me

  • @spicyhotpepper
    @spicyhotpepper 4 місяці тому +8

    I am still leery….

    • @spicyhotpepper
      @spicyhotpepper Місяць тому

      Yet I find myself willing to try this. Who knew.

  • @RuafMichael
    @RuafMichael Рік тому +7

    thanks this helped me so much!

  • @ronaldovilar3849
    @ronaldovilar3849 Рік тому +5

    Boa tarde !! Ronaldo, do Rio de janeiro Brasil 🇧🇷

  • @strothermartin5368
    @strothermartin5368 Рік тому +6

    Up the One Way street!😭

  • @kthx1138
    @kthx1138 8 місяців тому +2

    Do it in the shower, so if there's any "cleanup on aisle 9", you're already in the clean space with soap and water to wash that shit down the drain!

  • @Krystallynn-rc2mp
    @Krystallynn-rc2mp 4 місяці тому +1

    Interested… I juu it st need to get into it
    Intriguing

  • @dondanny5557
    @dondanny5557 9 місяців тому +9

    Do enema first!

  • @brendachristy1813
    @brendachristy1813 Рік тому +8

    Very curious.

    • @vanessaandxander
      @vanessaandxander  Рік тому +2

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    • @blackj7549
      @blackj7549 Рік тому

      Hello beautiful can I get to know you sweetie?

    • @IsmailKiroglu-o4r
      @IsmailKiroglu-o4r 5 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤Helo baby you beauthiful ❤❤Uuuufff Uuuufff baby you ❤❤❤

  • @toddoakes458
    @toddoakes458 Рік тому +8

    Good advice thanks todd

  • @StarlaHope-od3ix
    @StarlaHope-od3ix Рік тому +2

    Wtf!!! What a recommendation 😭

  • @JoshPoracky
    @JoshPoracky 2 місяці тому

    Awesome!!!

  • @T_sexc
    @T_sexc 3 місяці тому

    I cant believe how many ppl have it regularly and its still going to take some time for me...we never last long enough...yeah, i havent gotten past the pinky 🤷

  • @wilkifrog6
    @wilkifrog6 Рік тому +9

    I love to rim them. I do that every time

  • @desmondbeckforf6245
    @desmondbeckforf6245 2 роки тому +18

    Love it

  • @cdrg.d.giampietrousnret7048
    @cdrg.d.giampietrousnret7048 Рік тому +3

    A Must Need

  • @G3MIE
    @G3MIE 3 роки тому +33

    I would think it's more pleasure for the male then the female due to zones in that area.

  • @roywilliams5115
    @roywilliams5115 3 місяці тому

    It's amazing

  • @samsungtap4183
    @samsungtap4183 Рік тому +15

    It's great if you want to hear your partner whimper like a dog if that's your thing great but don't look over your shoulder you just might turn into a pillar of salt !

  • @ezrataylor8602
    @ezrataylor8602 2 роки тому +9

    thanks for this

  • @cheriecrettol1620
    @cheriecrettol1620 Рік тому +5

    Im a RN. Enough said

    • @NUMMEHARBEN
      @NUMMEHARBEN 9 місяців тому +1

      RN?

    • @Mark-wm1tj
      @Mark-wm1tj 6 місяців тому

      She's really nasty 😢 O-Yeah

    • @albertchen8378
      @albertchen8378 3 місяці тому

      @@NUMMEHARBENRegistered Nurse 👩‍⚕️, but she’s not giving any specific opinion on whether she concurs. There’s implication that she doesn’t, possibly considering 🤔 she may have dealt with cases gone wrong 😑😖.

  • @MercyAragon-ck6jj
    @MercyAragon-ck6jj 2 роки тому +13

    Back door hahahaahh

  • @arunagunawardana4142
    @arunagunawardana4142 Рік тому +4

    I likt try it. Please help me..

  • @nasa_sidthesciencekid3105
    @nasa_sidthesciencekid3105 Рік тому +6

    To each is own but 😳

  • @patrickconnolly2654
    @patrickconnolly2654 3 місяці тому +1

    The lizard brain overrides the "romantic " mind. How to make this fact. Pretty.

  • @LoveAlwaysWins333
    @LoveAlwaysWins333 3 роки тому +10

    What does fluid bonded mean?

    • @vanessaandxander
      @vanessaandxander  3 роки тому +19

      Hi Candace! Great question. Being fluid bonded basically means you're in a committed relationship where you've actively discussed and decided not to use barrier protection, and thus share bodily fluids like semen, saliva, blood, and ejaculate.

    • @fattfish9517
      @fattfish9517 Рік тому

      @@vanessaandxander whats the difference between semen and ejaculate

    • @richardthenryvideos
      @richardthenryvideos Рік тому +2

      ​@@vanessaandxandershould just stick with marriage

  • @jerryhardesty9993
    @jerryhardesty9993 Рік тому +6

    oral to start out is always the deal maker! she said!!!!!

  • @mikelowrey5275
    @mikelowrey5275 Рік тому +4

    Cool videoclip

  • @markrich7693
    @markrich7693 Рік тому +2

    Can I practice first

  • @pasttime8450
    @pasttime8450 19 днів тому

    Completely agree

  • @DavidPerez-oj2dv
    @DavidPerez-oj2dv Рік тому +3

    OH, I FORGOT LUBE

  • @gregmiller5037
    @gregmiller5037 Рік тому +9

    I love it.

  • @xaviercarrizales4705
    @xaviercarrizales4705 Рік тому +6

    Love to try it again but need to find a woman that likes it

  • @JohnnyWiggins-s8p
    @JohnnyWiggins-s8p Рік тому

    I like learn more about the video here alot

  • @laurancetikale626
    @laurancetikale626 Рік тому +12

    I love it

  • @freddiescott1465
    @freddiescott1465 Рік тому +2

    Amazing Love it

  • @elijahbrooks783
    @elijahbrooks783 Рік тому +13

    My girlfriend let me do twice ,anything to please your partner but it's still sadomy

    • @joegiunta2106
      @joegiunta2106 Рік тому

      Anal sex will send you to HELL for eternity, and the demons in Hell will torture your rectum with spires we weep what we sow!

    • @lakmeister
      @lakmeister Рік тому

      Sodomy

    • @sarahann530
      @sarahann530 Рік тому +1

      I hope it was worth going to hell for . Eternal torture for unmarried sexual deviance.

    • @reedkwize1
      @reedkwize1 Рік тому +1

      @@sarahann530 please stop! What happens behind closed doors between consenting adults is no one else’s business. Sodomy is wrong if it’s forced (sexual assault)!!!

    • @extremeknucklehead3637
      @extremeknucklehead3637 Рік тому +6

      @@sarahann530 Those men wearing dresses who told you that must have hell ablaze for at least a few thousand years now, from all the little boys & girls they have brutalized at the very alters you worship at🤦‍♀🤦

  • @greggrowe7048
    @greggrowe7048 Рік тому +7

    Can be amazing ... can be nasty. Know when it's good to go but expect occasional ... ahh problems.

  • @panscentralexpresspresents4733
    @panscentralexpresspresents4733 3 роки тому +15

    The word : mmmmmm

  • @alanskidadomdom3748
    @alanskidadomdom3748 Рік тому +18

    absolutely fascinating video - I've never heard of 'anal sex' before, but I would have thought a demonstration would have been beneficial. Because it is educational, and would have been done in the best possible taste, UA-cam would have let it through. (the nice lady said you cannot get pregnant doing this - is that true for women?)

    • @extremeknucklehead3637
      @extremeknucklehead3637 Рік тому +15

      "the nice lady said you cannot get pregnant doing this - is that true for women?"
      You Sir WIN the internet for the WHOLE WEEK!!

    • @VimalKumar-vw8pb
      @VimalKumar-vw8pb Рік тому

      1😊a`

    • @coldacre
      @coldacre 10 місяців тому +3

      they should have demonstrated this on youtube?? 🤣🤣

  • @joemcateer6398
    @joemcateer6398 2 роки тому +9

    I didn't hear you talk about lubrication

  • @writeract-p5z
    @writeract-p5z Рік тому +14

    I would try it with my husband to be only

    • @blackj7549
      @blackj7549 Рік тому

      Can you please try me sweetie?

    • @kjererrt7804
      @kjererrt7804 Рік тому

      @@babarnadeem6090 no one wanna talk to you.

    • @kjererrt7804
      @kjererrt7804 Рік тому

      @@blackj7549 your mum wanna try you.

    • @moniquetv5414
      @moniquetv5414 Рік тому +5

      Yes, after marriage 😊😊

  • @RaphaelMeku
    @RaphaelMeku 3 місяці тому

    Have you both tried this

  • @sudiptapurkayastha5524
    @sudiptapurkayastha5524 Рік тому +8

    Great way☝️

  • @jeffearnest3269
    @jeffearnest3269 Місяць тому

    Sounds like fun

  • @extremeknucklehead3637
    @extremeknucklehead3637 Рік тому +6

    Something tells me this video's gonna be a pain in the ass!!

  • @donnah164
    @donnah164 5 місяців тому

    I have nails! I want to try to do this to my male partner the finger/but I don’t like the thought of getting poop under my nails. or that I might lose an acrylic nail inside of him or scratch him! Thanks for your information

  • @sunnyjim369
    @sunnyjim369 Рік тому +8

    Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @GeorgeBreen-f1u
    @GeorgeBreen-f1u 9 місяців тому

    FANTASTIC

  • @josephayemi4499
    @josephayemi4499 Рік тому +1

    Want to really try it but but worry how she'll feel it

  • @jesse75
    @jesse75 Рік тому +14

    Sorry. I'd rather be at the snack bar than out house.