5 Shocking Bembe Culture Practices You Never Knew
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- Опубліковано 28 гру 2024
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In this episode of Emo Talk Show, we dive into the untold truths and controversial aspects of Bembe culture that often go unspoken. We explore the lack of sex education and how this gap leads adolescents to rush into marriage, sometimes without understanding the full implications. We also discuss the significant challenges young girls face in marriage, where they are expected to take care of not only their husbands but also all their in-laws, often at the expense of their own well-being.
Additionally, we tackle the sensitive topic of bride price and the reality of parental greed that can place enormous pressure on young couples. We also bring attention to the fact that many young men are thrust into marriage without the necessary skills and training to become effective husbands and fathers, leading to strained relationships and unfulfilled expectations.
This conversation is a candid look at the cultural dynamics that shape the lives of many in the Bembe community and beyond. Join us as we shed light on these critical issues and advocate for change.
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I have just come across this blog for the first time, and I appreciate your talk. I am Mubembe. I visited back home after getting married, I was shocked to see how our Babembe men give first priority to their relatives than their wives. I wished Babembe young men would be taught what it means to get married and the place that one's wife should take into their lives. My wife, my first priority. God first, my wife second and then my relatives will come. Keep the conversation on.
Thank you for sharing that! I hope young men see this comment!
Amen thank you for holding your wife / your rib in high regard 🤍
12:11 You have to maintain the BRAND! 😂😂
Funniest part of the whole EP. Lots of truth in it though
I been waiting 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙈🙈🙈
Topics nzuri sana, big up 🙌🏽🙌🏽💯❤️
Asante! Karibu Tena
CONGO QUEEN 🎉
What an interesting topic, very insightful to see a different prospect of the bembe culture.
Glad you enjoyed it!
We're all responsible for what's happening in our community. Us ba Bondo, need to come together and educate our young men and women as to what our traditions are and have been. We can't change our traditions just for the simple fact that we are in the USA. Yes, we can integrate with the new customs, but we can't give up our own.
Definitely
But that is the backward culture causing societal problems
Asante sana kwa kuchakachua Mada nzuri sana.
Asante dada Tulia kwa kuendelea kupambana kwa sababu ya jamii.
Asante pia kumualika Aloise.
Nimependa!
Asante sana!
Finally it's out 💪🏾
Hope you enjoyed it.
Mwakole manga babu chwa ❤😊
Cwakanya
Vyote alivyo ongea Congo Queen ni kweli anajua kuongea❤
That’s true my sister ❤
I don’t speak this language but I understand it , I salut her mind if African women would stand on like this we can do much in this country and do more in our own .❤️
Iyo ni kweli wazazi wetu hawa wafunzi😂kaka zetu kuwa na self control
Mumlete uyu tena
Kweli hehhh?!
@@emotalkshow ndioo, anafaa sana.
Thank you, ladies, for sharing your insights on marriage issues within our community. It's crucial for parents to instill in both their sons and daughters an understanding of their gender roles before marriage. Men should embrace their roles as providers, leaders, and protectors, while women should recognize their roles as homemakers and nurturers. Problems arise when individuals enter marriage without grasping these responsibilities. Taking the time to truly know a partner before marriage is essential. We all play a role in selecting the right partner and being prepared for the commitments that marriage entails.
Couldn’t say it better…marriage is the foundation of any community so this is a topics that requires much discussion. thanks for tuning in.
You guys pushing it babembe is only option