I might be wrong saying this but this is my personal opinion! Please donot share your marriage issues to public when it can be mend.. this will be more harmful to your relationship and marriage!! He cannot be in your control but YOU can control You.. therefore do right things... From a concerned viewer
Yea you're absolutely right... something's need to be kept private and taken care of privately coz lots of relationship are broken these days who shows their lives constantly on social media...
If you have problem with him, leave him or sort things out in PRIVATE. But don't exploit him publicly. Every individual has a right to privacy, so respect his privacy as well. This is a big red flag to me.
Nabam I agree with you, marriage is not easy, it's tough. And yes the effort needs to be put up from both the sides. When one partner is low the other needs to back up and vice versa. ❤
Not bashing…but those who watch k drama n dream all Korean guy is lovey dovey. Nop sis wake-up from the dream . They are horrible to be get married. With personal experience…my sister got married and her life is in misery…I have stay with them my sis is naïve she didn’t told me anything about them but when I started seeing him …he always on bad mood without any reason and believe my sister to understand him without any explanation, what she have done . She’s didn’t share anything with our parents ….because of hype of so called Korean drama love story. He himself says we all are great pretender. I hope and pray you never go through like my sis . Stay strong..my sis is staying with him for their babies. Please take your time before giving birth….they will show you different types of faces when you give birth… grumpy mood is just beginning watch out . Stay strong
Nabam, I’m getting more and more impressed by you! You’re handling life so maturely. Tip: working out when you feel down is brilliant as it makes you think of something else even if halfheartedly + will get you back to being fit. Try to walk a lot, if you can. And let him work through his mood, talk to him when he’s back to normal and ask him what he’d like you to do for him when he’s down. Good luck! BTW, thank you for those shots of the dogs 😍
It happens each and every marriage life, life goes ups and downs... be patient and wait, he'll be okay, Love u both❤i knw u r a strong woman, keep smiling 😊
You can talk to professional marriage counselors who have seen hundreds if not thousands of cases. They will spot the problem and provide a solution. If one counselor doesn't work, you can go to the next. Friends, family and the internet may not provide the best advice because these people have limited knowledge and every case is unique.
Probably he is too stress may be office work dealing with clients and all . Bhaiya did lose his weight . May be coz of that he is too exhausted . Its oaky di he wilk be fine just give him some space & you too take care of your mental health . 😊♥️
I hope u see the pattern in his mood swings and let it not affect you. Once or twice in a while is ohk but having it every week is not healthy for long term. Maybe you guys can sit down and talk about it, like one to one interaction. Just saying so that both of you can thrive in a healthy relationship. 😊
it is very bad, first u married to another country man. Now rather resolving these matters with each other u are making videos like this. will we solve this for u? no. so use ur brain resolve these matter in between.
@@Lily_telli i don't like it,i just advice her. Ur man is ur representative vice versa, if u r showing him bad means u r also bad. If u don't like him ,first resolve it. If not just divorce. Don't dance in between
@@tanmayvarshney9200 She didn’t say anything bad about him; she just shared how it feels when things are upsetting. She talked about how women should be strong. Don’t you get the point? Oh my gosh, don’t tell me you want to marry him.
Didi ap bhi job krke khud ko busy rakho tab itna farak nhi parega uska mood swings se. Mra khayal se ap uspe jyada emotionally dependent hogya isliye aise ho rha hai. Keep yourself busy. Take care 💗 Lot's of love from Arunachal Pradesh ❤
Pls dont take it wrong but if someone's partner doesnt communicate, gives silent treatment and its affecting the other person mentally over and over again its not healthy. Please take care of yourself and put yourself first😊
Yes... According to psychology of humans at first Humans in Early stages have Sense of curiosity,Sense of strangers thing,Sense of excitement which overshadow the potential issues and reality...After getting known to each other these is the later stage where Sense of Curiosity,Stranger thing, Excitement,Busy in Something..ends so at first what we see good conversation may not find at last...But there are some friends and partners who will continue to have good conversation even in later stages...Those are the people with Commitment, Compatibility, Communication, Adaptability,Emotional intimacy....These happens in friendship and relationships...just Accept it nabam thank you for sharing this with your channel you shows the respect that your viewers have to know what is the marriage in reality...we are all with you don't let down....♥️
I feel you di but don’t feel sad but share this with your family dear it’s not good to share in public because nazar is real be strong di but share with your family and all ha do be strong
You said it, it’s “hard” like a rock. Married couples are like one soul in two bodies. If one person is suffering the other one automatically starts showing the same symptoms. Take care Di ❤
Didi I can understand that you are going through a lot, but stay strong 🔥. And in my opinion it's better not to share every little detail of your relationship publicly, which might hurt your partner... communication with your partner is the key!!
Aate you need to do GYM .aate when jiju cool down ask him what worries ,sometimes we need some private space. Mood off mai deker achanahi laga care kro khud ko or jiju ka b
You’re such a strong lady! ❤️ Marriage is not a bed of roses and it’s okay you’ll get it through that rough patches in marriage is only a lesson for partners to understand his/her partner. ❤ it’s okay everyone has their own bad days and its normal sis!
Ate , i jst wanna say ki whatever problems u might be facing right now, it will eventually fade away. So i hope u stay positive as always🤗✨❤️ ....and may god bless kim jiju and u both🫶🏻
Yes plz I can’t stress this enough that how important it is to focus on yourself. When you focus on you and bettering yourself everything nice attracts automatically to you. And I get that your partners mood directly affects yours but at the end of the day they are their own person and you’ve to let them deal with their shit on their own unless they ask for help ofc
God bless you sister i wish everything is getting well soon how heard to be painful because you leave everything, family, parents , relatives only for him one of hardest things is you are in another country 😢😢😢
Ate apko...sayad Kim jiju boring lag raha hoga dhere².. ate lardka log asey hi hotei hain... duniya me sirf 10%3 % hi acha or loyal hotei hain 🙆 ate karaf mat pana mere iss baat par 🥹
Hope Kim feels better and you both make up with a romantic dinner... Never let the Romance in your marriage die !.. Take care of yourself Nabam and get your health back on the right track 😊
N isSometimes aap apki Blog bana teh samai usko bhi bhat karne dijiye, taki aur ghul mil sake ,usko bhi aacha lagenge shayad, vo bhi apki life of part Hena..!
Dear nabum sister apko koun dussra country mein marriage karne ko bola tha aap aise bhi bohut pyari hai smart hai ....sach boloon bohut loss lgta hai apko dekke jo bhi ho god bless both of you 😊
Toh kya 2nd ya 3rd ya 4th main shadi 😅kare nabam ? And so funny 🤣 itna sab kuch taunt marne ka badh god bless you bolta hai 😂 ? Tumlog god god bolke 2nd 3rd maiki chala jao She’s very happy 😃 you don’t need to advice her she’s having her best life tum Arunachal main bet bet thik se comments karte raho
Sachmey bohut taklif hota hai jab apka partner ka moob off hota, pata nhi chalta ki kyu kya kab kese kiski wajah mood off hojata hai aur 2 3 days kliye baat karna baan kar deta hai hum se...
Aapna arunachal me hi shaadi karna hai jitna k pop hai utna aapna yaha bhi hai enjoying karne jaga bhi bahot hai Bollywood gaana sunkar mazaa le sakta hai aapna yaha . Jo bhi ho apne to apne hotey hai 😊
Sister set your mind positively and jab dukh hoga jor jor se gaana gao. Atcha lagega. My best friend just recently arrived Mexico to stay with her Husband. Meet her if possible, she’s so full of positive energy and very Bindass. I will share you their restaurant name, its Everest curry house, with Indian and Nepal flag in the restaurant. It’s in Blvd Marin Centro-downtown, Cabo San Lucas, Baja California Sur. Uska nam Priya hai ha😊
M a newly married too. My mom is Nabam too. Sending you hugs & lots of love. Sis stay strong m sure it will be hard for you in a foreign land away from family & relatives. Sometimes men are moody and so are we, it’s better to give space to each other and not depend emotionally too much on your partner. The best is you can continue to keep loving yourself more & work on yourself. Loving yourself is really beneficial overall & for the relationship.
Very true i can’t understand your feelings…samajh saktai (maan kharab aur din kharab aur mentally disturb hojane wala baat jo aapne sahi kaha) lekin aap jiju ka behaviour se maan chota mat kijiye…woh thik hojayega kuch overthink kar raha hoga. Take care and stay happy always 🫶🏻❤️
Keep going.... Keep working out for ur own betterment... nobody is going to help u better than u.... Trust in God for ur life's journey & Never give up...
Just don't be blind with love stay gurded all the time it will save you from any possible heartaches ...work on yourself not to impress him but khud atcha feel hoga...if possible don't put too much about private things on internet talk with your family but not here.
Its a good decision that you are going to focus on yourself. Keep yourself busy and focus your thinking on how to be more beautiful. By doing so, gradually he will start focusing on you. Because he will notice that you are changing and he will try to game up his magic to attract you back.
Even I have this sudde mood swing problem want to b isolated n lonely around people....cook him nice food , give him space when he seems ok talk to him calmly n ya let him talk u just hold ur patience...... My mummy always advice me this when u r married n if either u or ur spouse going through a tough phase u only need to do is having patience n heart to heart communication
I might be wrong saying this but this is my personal opinion! Please donot share your marriage issues to public when it can be mend.. this will be more harmful to your relationship and marriage!! He cannot be in your control but YOU can control You.. therefore do right things... From a concerned viewer
sharing lessens your burden
@@BobMarley-ic8ol yeah maybe to your family, friends, relatives !! Not public.!
Yea you're absolutely right... something's need to be kept private and taken care of privately coz lots of relationship are broken these days who shows their lives constantly on social media...
I agree
Probably a manufactured drama for views.
Someone in the internet once said "Getting married is easy, being married is hard, but staying married is beautiful."
Stay strong guys.
If you have problem with him, leave him or sort things out in PRIVATE. But don't exploit him publicly. Every individual has a right to privacy, so respect his privacy as well.
This is a big red flag to me.
Tell him to stop computer or give councelling.
These gamers without proper sleep can create mental un stability.
Tell him to practice yoga also .
Nabam when he cools down. Ask him what worries him. Live and let live ❤Some time we need space😘 Just trust god everything will be fine. God bless 😇
Nabam I agree with you, marriage is not easy, it's tough. And yes the effort needs to be put up from both the sides. When one partner is low the other needs to back up and vice versa. ❤
Not bashing…but those who watch k drama n dream all Korean guy is lovey dovey. Nop sis wake-up from the dream . They are horrible to be get married. With personal experience…my sister got married and her life is in misery…I have stay with them my sis is naïve she didn’t told me anything about them but when I started seeing him …he always on bad mood without any reason and believe my sister to understand him without any explanation, what she have done . She’s didn’t share anything with our parents ….because of hype of so called Korean drama love story. He himself says we all are great pretender. I hope and pray you never go through like my sis . Stay strong..my sis is staying with him for their babies. Please take your time before giving birth….they will show you different types of faces when you give birth… grumpy mood is just beginning watch out . Stay strong
Nabam, I’m getting more and more impressed by you! You’re handling life so maturely.
Tip: working out when you feel down is brilliant as it makes you think of something else even if halfheartedly + will get you back to being fit.
Try to walk a lot, if you can. And let him work through his mood, talk to him when he’s back to normal and ask him what he’d like you to do for him when he’s down. Good luck!
BTW, thank you for those shots of the dogs 😍
We must think 1000 times before fixing our mind to settle down from all angles. We should always listen to our parent's advice first.
You better try to understand their culture.. Spend some quality time with his family especially parents...
I feels ur inside felling ....i know u missing ur family vry hard on this suitation....
It happens each and every marriage life, life goes ups and downs... be patient and wait, he'll be okay, Love u both❤i knw u r a strong woman, keep smiling 😊
You can talk to professional marriage counselors who have seen hundreds if not thousands of cases. They will spot the problem and provide a solution. If one counselor doesn't work, you can go to the next. Friends, family and the internet may not provide the best advice because these people have limited knowledge and every case is unique.
Probably he is too stress may be office work dealing with clients and all . Bhaiya did lose his weight . May be coz of that he is too exhausted . Its oaky di he wilk be fine just give him some space & you too take care of your mental health . 😊♥️
I hope u see the pattern in his mood swings and let it not affect you. Once or twice in a while is ohk but having it every week is not healthy for long term. Maybe you guys can sit down and talk about it, like one to one interaction. Just saying so that both of you can thrive in a healthy relationship. 😊
it is very bad, first u married to another country man. Now rather resolving these matters with each other u are making videos like this. will we solve this for u? no. so use ur brain resolve these matter in between.
Yes, we can’t solve the problem. You taunt her and somehow you like it and still give her advice don’t you? 😅
@@Lily_telli i don't like it,i just advice her.
Ur man is ur representative vice versa, if u r showing him bad means u r also bad.
If u don't like him ,first resolve it. If not just divorce. Don't dance in between
@@tanmayvarshney9200 She didn’t say anything bad about him; she just shared how it feels when things are upsetting. She talked about how women should be strong. Don’t you get the point? Oh my gosh, don’t tell me you want to marry him.
Didi ap bhi job krke khud ko busy rakho tab itna farak nhi parega uska mood swings se. Mra khayal se ap uspe jyada emotionally dependent hogya isliye aise ho rha hai. Keep yourself busy. Take care 💗 Lot's of love from Arunachal Pradesh ❤
Women sometimes over expect things from men
For woman , may her man is her world but ain't applicable for vice versa
You have become very healthy..when our physique becomes like that we look more like aunty..
Pls dont take it wrong but if someone's partner doesnt communicate, gives silent treatment and its affecting the other person mentally over and over again its not healthy. Please take care of yourself and put yourself first😊
Yes... According to psychology of humans at first Humans in Early stages have Sense of curiosity,Sense of strangers thing,Sense of excitement which overshadow the potential issues and reality...After getting known to each other these is the later stage where Sense of Curiosity,Stranger thing, Excitement,Busy in Something..ends so at first what we see good conversation may not find at last...But there are some friends and partners who will continue to have good conversation even in later stages...Those are the people with Commitment, Compatibility, Communication, Adaptability,Emotional intimacy....These happens in friendship and relationships...just Accept it nabam thank you for sharing this with your channel you shows the respect that your viewers have to know what is the marriage in reality...we are all with you don't let down....♥️
I feel you di but don’t feel sad but share this with your family dear it’s not good to share in public because nazar is real be strong di but share with your family and all ha do be strong
Soldier Soldier meethi batein bol kar ushme toh Bobby deol h Sunny deol nhi😂😂🤣🤣🤣
You said it, it’s “hard” like a rock. Married couples are like one soul in two bodies. If one person is suffering the other one automatically starts showing the same symptoms.
Take care Di ❤
Marriage is not easy when you marry someone from different country because of kdrama/k-pop fantasy....now suffer.
Didi I can understand that you are going through a lot, but stay strong 🔥. And in my opinion it's better not to share every little detail of your relationship publicly, which might hurt your partner... communication with your partner is the key!!
Aate you need to do GYM .aate when jiju cool down ask him what worries ,sometimes we need some private space. Mood off mai deker achanahi laga care kro khud ko or jiju ka b
you try to learn Korean culture and everything will ok
You’re such a strong lady! ❤️ Marriage is not a bed of roses and it’s okay you’ll get it through that rough patches in marriage is only a lesson for partners to understand his/her partner. ❤ it’s okay everyone has their own bad days and its normal sis!
1:29 can someone tell me the name of this song...😅
Ate , i jst wanna say ki whatever problems u might be facing right now, it will eventually fade away. So i hope u stay positive as always🤗✨❤️ ....and may god bless kim jiju and u both🫶🏻
Soldier soldier song meh Sunny ka bhai Bobby tha 😝
Yes plz I can’t stress this enough that how important it is to focus on yourself. When you focus on you and bettering yourself everything nice attracts automatically to you. And I get that your partners mood directly affects yours but at the end of the day they are their own person and you’ve to let them deal with their shit on their own unless they ask for help ofc
You are gaining weight because you are stress and you are having anxiety attack... Please take care
Hope kim jiju is fine 😢 really sad to you like this Di
Apki nature itni happy nature but aj aise Dekhi ki dil dhuk gayi 😢😢😢 sending you lots of love
have u thought, you might be 1st arunachalee in mexico😏.
Yes she is i think 😅
COMMUNICATION and Emotional intelligence is the key to healthy marriage life
Kim Jiju acha se nahin sone ke karan mood off hota hoga
God bless you sister i wish everything is getting well soon how heard to be painful because you leave everything, family, parents , relatives only for him one of hardest things is you are in another country 😢😢😢
Ate apko...sayad Kim jiju boring lag raha hoga dhere².. ate lardka log asey hi hotei hain... duniya me sirf 10%3 % hi acha or loyal hotei hain 🙆 ate karaf mat pana mere iss baat par 🥹
Didi Sunny Deol nahi Bobby Deol 😂
Yea tho Kam hai,..koi koi shaadi sudha log haar din WWE Wrestling kertae ek dusre k sath,...
Take care❤
Don't like and Don't trust what this guy said is WhatsApp he just want to take all your money and he is asking your bank account so don't trust it
Please be a strong averting is good good okay 🙏😊😊😊😊😊🌹
Kuch nahi sister time do ❤im from itanagar
hows ur mental health now ( in %)❤
Dear if he arguing for small things then there is crack formed in your marriage life....
Hope Kim feels better and you both make up with a romantic dinner... Never let the Romance in your marriage die !.. Take care of yourself Nabam and get your health back on the right track 😊
Always remember that life is not a bed of roses
hi didi and jiju, aap dono ki shaadi 100 years tak chalegi. GOD has confirmed it. 100 %
Gahori mongso aru pona apung khuwa b mood thik hoijabo
What is the name of this Mexican song u use ??
Di don't worry jiju ka mood ko thora time dedo.... let it be stay healthy ❤❤❤❤ lots of love from arunachal
Sister what is your real name?..
Give him little space and focus on yourself ❣️❣️❣️❣️
N isSometimes aap apki Blog bana teh samai usko bhi bhat karne dijiye, taki aur ghul mil sake ,usko bhi aacha lagenge shayad, vo bhi apki life of part Hena..!
Dear nabum sister apko koun dussra country mein marriage karne ko bola tha aap aise bhi bohut pyari hai smart hai ....sach boloon bohut loss lgta hai apko dekke jo bhi ho god bless both of you 😊
Toh kya 2nd ya 3rd ya 4th main shadi 😅kare nabam ? And so funny 🤣 itna sab kuch taunt marne ka badh god bless you bolta hai 😂 ? Tumlog god god bolke 2nd 3rd maiki chala jao
She’s very happy 😃 you don’t need to advice her she’s having her best life tum Arunachal main bet bet thik se comments karte raho
Lots of love from me di❤.A silent viewer ,Hope u will win in life and overcome everything💓.
Sachmey bohut taklif hota hai jab apka partner ka moob off hota, pata nhi chalta ki kyu kya kab kese kiski wajah mood off hojata hai aur 2 3 days kliye baat karna baan kar deta hai hum se...
Ba moi apunar vlogs saw bur apunar vlogs sai val laga
Kurung kumey bi jaya karu auntie ji
Aapna arunachal me hi shaadi karna hai jitna k pop hai utna aapna yaha bhi hai enjoying karne jaga bhi bahot hai Bollywood gaana sunkar mazaa le sakta hai aapna yaha . Jo bhi ho apne to apne hotey hai 😊
Please apna advice apna please pas rakho 😂 apna Arunachali me shaadi karo seems 😅
@@Lily_telli bahar ka dunya dekh ne mein acha ho sakta hai per aapna wala feel aapko apna hi jaga se acha koi or nai 😊
@@sian4480 Even if you marry your own people, it’s not necessary for everyone to have the same thoughts. I think she’s happy 😃
Every cloud has a silver lining.
Sisi... Dil bada karke rahiye. Jindagi bohot lambi hai apas me ekdusre se pyar or izzat se rehna hai tabhi life achii se kategi.
it is hard & a good relationship will always have fights ❤ stay bless both of you & miss you 🤍🤍🤍
U r looking so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
OMG...I didn't notice you too much healthy 😂 love from Nagaland ❤
Sister set your mind positively and jab dukh hoga jor jor se gaana gao. Atcha lagega. My best friend just recently arrived Mexico to stay with her Husband. Meet her if possible, she’s so full of positive energy and very Bindass. I will share you their restaurant name, its Everest curry house, with Indian and Nepal flag in the restaurant. It’s in Blvd Marin Centro-downtown, Cabo San Lucas, Baja California Sur. Uska nam Priya hai ha😊
I’m worried for you dii❤😢
Aap dono kiya profession mein ho?
Aare jab ap jese log har din jagra karne lak jao geh tho ,hum sab ka kiya hoga 😢🙏
Exactly marriage is not an easy 😞
M a newly married too. My mom is Nabam too. Sending you hugs & lots of love. Sis stay strong m sure it will be hard for you in a foreign land away from family & relatives. Sometimes men are moody and so are we, it’s better to give space to each other and not depend emotionally too much on your partner. The best is you can continue to keep loving yourself more & work on yourself. Loving yourself is really beneficial overall & for the relationship.
Hope everything will be fine ❤
Very true i can’t understand your feelings…samajh saktai (maan kharab aur din kharab aur mentally disturb hojane wala baat jo aapne sahi kaha) lekin aap jiju ka behaviour se maan chota mat kijiye…woh thik hojayega kuch overthink kar raha hoga. Take care and stay happy always 🫶🏻❤️
Keep going.... Keep working out for ur own betterment... nobody is going to help u better than u.... Trust in God for ur life's journey & Never give up...
Baccha bana lo sab thik ho jaiga.
I like people like you not hiding behind the media
Plz go for hormones tested !!the stress in ur marriage might have messed with ur horses which lead to weight gain.plz take my word seriously
Just don't be blind with love stay gurded all the time it will
save you from any possible heartaches ...work on yourself not to impress him but khud atcha feel hoga...if possible
don't put too much about
private things on internet talk
with your family but not here.
Yes it is hard but it is also part of life... So just go with the flow
Ghar ghar ki kahani hai, everything will be Allright.
We love you jiju ❤❤ and di also ❤❤
Up n down hotai he hai stay strong n love each other ❤
Don’t worry .. everything will be ok,part of life
I agreed with you.. marriage is not easy but..stay strong
Usko samjhna chahiye beauty standard wagarah sab bakwas hai usko v shape face chahiye aapki ek dam patlli body chahiye wagarah wagarah
You are a brave girl 🥹 I almost teared up towards the end
Be strong my girl
Kia game khlta h😂😂❤
❤❤
I think you should plan for a baby
That's a symptom of divorce be prepared for yourself lady
😢😢😢
Stay strong didi❤
Its a good decision that you are going to focus on yourself. Keep yourself busy and focus your thinking on how to be more beautiful. By doing so, gradually he will start focusing on you. Because he will notice that you are changing and he will try to game up his magic to attract you back.
I like your feeling😊keep it up
Both of you Stay Strong ✌🏻
Even I have this sudde mood swing problem want to b isolated n lonely around people....cook him nice food , give him space when he seems ok talk to him calmly n ya let him talk u just hold ur patience...... My mummy always advice me this when u r married n if either u or ur spouse going through a tough phase u only need to do is having patience n heart to heart communication
❤❤❤
Beautiful 😍sympathy😥
Seems like he's cheating