Classic Divorce Court- Goodman VS. Reynolds: Constantly Criticized
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- Опубліковано 19 вер 2024
- A husband believes that women should strive for perfection and should always follow their man. Do his rules actually expose his own imperfections? Find out on the next Divorce Court with Judge Lynn Toler.
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I hate how people pick out their favorite parts of the bible and ignore the rest.
Me too
I also find it amusing, its called selective bible thumping.
Hana Mashida that part!!!
LIISSSSTTTTTEEEENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN PREACH HANA
That is what has been happening since the colonizers brought the Bible. Only verses that siding
"I CAN'T COOK. BUT YOU SHOULD SEE MY BANK ACCOUNT." Judge Lynn got the BAG SECURE.
Run baby run
AND HER HUSBAND IS NOT COMPLAINING ABOUT HER NOT COOKING! HE’S PROBABLY COOKING, LOL MEN CAN COOK TOO!
Who wants to be constantly critizied in their own home ? YOU'RE HER MAN NOT HER FATHER!!!!
Dwahn Denson this guy is a nut job
@@stilljocelyn4166 😀💯
I couldn't and KNEW someone EXACTLY like that and couldn't even lead🙄🙄🙄🙄
Dwahn Denson
Agreed" a weak example of a ture Christian man you don't demand correct action" you demonstrate it PERIOD 😱
more like a drill sergeant
Since they BOTH have full time jobs outside the home, I'm just wondering how many days a week was he preparing for HER a Home-cooked meal from the heart?
Right!
Probably NOT ONE meal.. he seems like the type to sit around complaining and waiting on her to cook
thank you!
Not one meal because he would have to have a heart first.
@@guardiana85 well said
Men like him don't change because they don't listen. She doesn't need a ring she needs some running shoes
😂 yes!
Say that!
Hahahah
Exactly
I read your comment and immediately heard that old chorus, "traveling shoes Lord! Got on my traveling shoes."
“You can’t be the master of the house, you gotta be the MAN of the house!
Masters has slaves and we don’t do that anymore”
that statement was said by the judge and I applaud 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
AMEN. Deep🙄🤔🤗
@@sharoneh8929
She shouldn’t marry him at all
i HOPE SHE RAN AWAY FROM HIM FINISHED HER DEGREE AND NEVER LOOKED BACK. HE S TOO HUMORLESS AND RIGID TO APPRECIATE HER WORTH
Yea she needs to run and never look back smh
I was thinking the same thing and I’m only 5 minutes in. I thought I was prejudging him. Let me finish watching though. 🤔
I’m back again. She need to run fast as hell.
Right She Need To RUNNNNN‼️
The way she said you should see my bank account made shiver. Cause sis knows she's a gem and ain't NOBODY gone play in her face🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
He’s the kind of man who a parent hopes and prays that their daughter will never fall for.
Agreed. Can't believe the judge said he is a good dude. Would she hook him up with her child? Wtf? Does she have blinders on.
😂😂😂
@@alyssag.5758 Thenhudge's calling him a good dude took me by surprise too. Maybe that became a requirement of the show and is why she quit the show?
@@alyssag.5758 m
So true
Leaders don't force people to follow. They invite them on a journey.
✊🏽
If he was such a perfectionist, he'd do the work himself.
He's just miserable 😑
This is the one! Smh 🤦🏽♀️
Kay W He’s got those “ wait til we get home” vibes.. he doesn’t have the capacity to be challenged. That’s dangerous!
He wants 2 be catered 2 since he thinks he's some kind of "leader".
With no sense of humor
🤣😂
“To me marriage started in the heart”.. Maybe you should have married her before expecting all that “extra” in the bedroom.. Which BTW is NOT Biblical to sleep with her before marriage.. since we are talking Bible..
💯💯💯 they soo quick to preach but can’t follow their preaching 😂
Yup these dudes show up with the Bible in one hand and their D in the other hand.
That's what I thought it's clear he doesn't know his biblical role!
Let the church say AMEN!
Amen. Living in true Holiness is what God wants. True Holiness is not shacking.
He's not ready to be married to a human being.
Agreed. His expectations are insane. She works, goes to school, cooks, cleans, and he's still not HAPPY. Girl, run. He's impossible.
😂😂😂😂
Those words "human being" so true cuz he doesnt want to treat her like one
Exactly! What he wants is a robot.
Rosie the Robot from the Jetsons is more his speed
His salary is not large enough for what he's asking for. They are in a 50/50 relationship and he wants a woman to fulfill stay at home wife duties.
Maybe he should read the bible and not just skip to the parts that he likes!
@Brian Wright Jesus is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. 🙏🕊
@@alexvensel5730 Amen, Amen,Amen🙏🏿👏🏾
Desairee Matherly
"SPOT ON" Fact😱👏
It's all bad fiction made to control people.
Amen
He goes to church? LMAO Doesn't the bible say not to live together before marriage? These bible thumpers kill me lol
Exactly. Hypocrites
@Navaeh Devansha Trinity Genesis and Ephesians: therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be one with his wife. (Paraphrasing; don't remember it exactly)
Yup they shouldn't be shacking up
I can’t 😂🤣😭💀
Not all people that go to church is converted yet to the church rules. But it's a good thing to acknowledge God as creator n hence there's room for futures change. Going to church is heading I the right direction.
Her duties BEFORE MARRIAGE?! WTF?!!!!! Skip him sis
I wonder what they’ll be after marriage? I’m willing to bet her life will be ten times worse.
Man said skip LOLLLL yesssss
Cadillac Deville EXACTLY!!! I thought I was trippin tripping !!!!
I CAN'T STAND HIM!!!!
@@tanjitamiko6387 lollll me too
This episode alone is a perfect example of why it's going to be so hard to let judge Lynn go😭😭😭
Never marry this joker! He’s a control freak who is not fun and you will always feel unworthy and unhappy. She deserves way better!!
Agreed. Can't believe the judge thought he was a good dude 😯
She has 3 kids & refuses to wear her natural hair. Who is gonna want her?
Your wrong they need room to grow give it some time please
@@lamar8701 nah no way, you can see he wasn't listening.
She really does
She's way too smart for him. He feels she is too good for him and all that inferiority complex translates in him trying to control and belittle her. He needs to compensate for that complex and, not being able to find that 'leader' position out there in the world, he tries to find someone to give orders to in his home.
I believe he is also a security supervisor. Not that it helps.
Great point. I’ve expected this treatment as well. At first, I would not allow myself to think this why I was being treated this way; didn’t want to believe he really did not like my shine.
Amen
@@bla8545ughhh a fake wanna be cop. I’m also in security I know his type
Tolerism 101 for today " A True Leader doesn't need to ask anyone to follow him they are going places others would like to be"!!!! Judge Lynn Toler
Exactly!
This women is everything!!
Truly a magical and meaningful moment!
So deep!! She was on point with that!!
I came here to comment on that. How wise is this woman?
Whew, she broke it down! She is absolutely amazing. He’s a horrible listener and imperfect perfectionist. He has a warped sense of what a man is, what husband is, and what a leader is. Judge keeps showing him and his girl keep pleading to him, and he just don’t get it. Makes sense that he’s still not married. Hopefully he changes.
This woman needs to run and run fast. I'm annoyed with him and I don't have to live with him. It kills me when someone expect perfection and they aren't anything to write home about themselves.
Write home about! I would not take the pen out my bag for this b.... What's wrong with her. Any male that got you jumping rope this hard should have signed a contract long time.
@@sullivancountydays 😄😄 🖊
Can't believe the judge said he was a good dude 😯 He's so critical of her and selfish. Girl, run.🏃♀️ This ain't it.
You nailed it he is always a critic and not in a constructive way...He thinks he is perfect a a far cry from it...
@@sullivancountydays she doesn't look like a female dog 🐕 to me 👀🧐🤔
This guy is a scammer with his church proposal. Perform wife duties before being a wife? And she got to work too and help him do his husband duty to PROVIDE? Run hun....
He's insecure & intimidated by her. He does tht because it makes him feel better about his inconsistencies & flaws. Leave his silly ass alone.🚶🏽♀️
Right
I see no lie here,st88 facts.
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PLEASE!!!!
😂 I’m dead
This man said he expects her to attempt perfection! Run, sis! Run! 😩
Sis run... He is a control freak!! He seems so rigid, uptight and boring
Her mistake was moving that craziness in her home! Y’all be trying to put a crown on a man that won’t even give you his name-dumb.
RC Blakes calls them clowns wearing a crown. I called them hobo sexuals
Ooooo...she schhhhhooooled him on Ephesians. Love when people try to act like the authority knowing they only read two verses and then someone like judge Lynn comes along and fully calls your bluff...bye!
Yesss!!!!!!
Yes indeed
Yes, Judge Lynn put him in his place!
Actually if you read it she was completely wrong
Actually she got it completely right, I looked it up
Boy bye!!! I don’t know who he thinks he is!!! I’d run so fast outta that situation!!! Because it’s not a relationship!! Cook from the heart !!! What does that even mean??? You love from the heart sir !!! Not cook ... not clean.... not parent a grown woman!!! And not follow your lead ... because you don’t have a clue how to lead ... your selfish and ignorant grow up ... Whew I’m frustrated with him
Cant believe she wants to marry him. Putting a ring on it doesn't make it better
Yep, they'll be back.
I don’t understand these relationships, I guess it’s immaturity. They’re always doing paybacks. It’s like all you talking to someone, I’m gonna do the same. Like yo just leave
“I can’t cook but you should see my bank account” - Judge Lynn Toler aka Living Legend
She works full time and is a nursing student plus have 3 kids, he excepting too damn much. Because once she gets that rn license that lil personal trainer money aint gonna cut it.
He gonna really be insecure because he will figure she will meet her equal and go running off into the sunset.
He's just a jerk fr
I worked full time was in school & I cook great & keep a house clean. I have 3 kids & 25yrs marriage. I had no excuse not to cook cuz I work or was in school. I took care my kids. So one already married off. Nothing is impossible. Standing 12hr shift & in school. I didn't complain about anything. My spouse works also.
@@MamiOf3kids good for you
not everyone wants that life
@@MamiOf3kids it’s always a perfect one but trust you will break life is not like that...sheesh
This man is out of his mind lol.. He said he's the head of the house and follows God's order but won't even marry this girl ! 🤔. God didn't call a boyfriend or fiance to be the head of a woman. LOL.. And being the head does not mean be domineering and controlling. You're supposed to be a SERVANT-LEADER. Watching this makes me thank God for having a spouse who isn't critical and leads with love. Nobody wants to be in a house with a critical person. Men or women. Judge gave them good advice!
My dear, RUN! This young lady is working very hard to level up herself. The young man is not. He would rather focus his shortcomings on his lady rather than work hard on himself.
she was dropping jewels for real in this episode! i just read the whole chapter myself. judge toler is super dope and super wise.
THE ONLY THING THIS FOOL SEES IS ERRORS. NO POSITIVES EXIST IN HIS WORLD. RUN
when he said he could go on all day about what's wrong with her. She should have just walked out then. SO GLAD SHE MOVED OUT & I HOPE SHE LEFT HIS ASS FOR GOOD! dummy
Judge Toler told this Woman the TRUTH and she did it in Such A Beautiful Way Much Respect to her!!!!!
I can't cook. But you should see my bank account. Judge toler, I want to be like you when I grow up!!!!!
You should be the best you not
I can't cook but you should see my bank account.- Judge Lynn Toler
I think she shouldn't marry him at all.
Peace of mind! She shouldn’t marry him!
Judge got me with “ I can’t cook; but you should see my Bank Account!”
This Ninja wants to command and control. Ain’t nobody got time for that! He wants to elevate himself by denigrating her. This woman ain’t having it. Get ghost girl! And leave him in the dust!
Haha! Preach!!!!
I’ve watched a lot of Judge Lynn’s videos but this one... she went all in and I loved every word that she said!
"HATE" has 4 letters, so does "LOVE" "ENEMIES" has 7, so does "FRIENDS" "LYING" has 5, so does "TRUTH" "WRONG has 5, so does "RIGHT" "HURT" has 4, so does "HEAL" life is a double edged sword, you can choose the "POSITIVE" over "NEGATIVE"
*NEGATIVE* has 8 letters, so does *POSITIVE* but I chose "POSITIVE" over "NEGATIVE"
I love your comments
But who's to say what's negative or positive?
Deep 💯
@@starisesun7692 you know if you got good sense.
"MASTERS HAVE SLAVES.... WE DON'T DO THAT ANYMORE"
It hurts the most, when the person who made you feel So Special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today..😪
A classic Narc!!
Story of my life😪
@@sony-hq4yo I love you.
So flipping true or when they tell u ur different and a month later u argue and now ur a typical Female.
@@sony-hq4yo sorry to hear that love
He's a complainer!!! Run Honey, and let him find that perfect female. And good luck with that because once you get her she will no longer be perfect because she will be with you.
Absolutely LOVED Judge Toler's advice! She's right--a lot of these dudes use the "submit to your husband" scripture as an excuse to control their wives, ignore their needs AND opinions, and take away their freedom/autonomy. It's crazy to me. Being critical of her weight isn't being a leader, it's been a bully and making her feel low. Hopefully she DOESN'T marry him because there are plenty of guys out there that will respect her as an individual and a partner, but if she does... LAWD I hope the Judge's words sunk in.
Exactly
Does he cook dinner for her? Does he help clean the house? She works and goes to school and has children . She's lucky he didn't marry her.
I miss these types of couples. "Everyday" people trying to learn how to make a marriage work. No cheating, no social media issues, no ratchetness.
He’s very ratchet
The ratchedness comes along in about 20years when SHE wakes up. I know personally.
He is PATHETIC what are you talking about ?? This type of man breaks a woman
This isn’t an everyday type of couple. He’s controlling and cannot be satisfied with anything she does.
THE 5 PRINCIPLES OF MARRIAGE:
LOVE HER!
LOVE HER!
LOVE HER!
NURTURE HER!
CHERISH HER!
I dated a guy like this. It was super off putting. All the head leader talk just screamed insecurity to me. Judge is right; you dont need to tell me to follow you if you’re a leader.
He was so embarrassed when judge try him to explain what submission was
She may not cook you the best meal, but at least she can cook you a decent meal.
His attitude to “me follow her?” Oh that was super rude and I’ll run like the wind!! But I don’t agree with these “traditional” roles in the first place. If my husband tried that crap with me, I’d tell him to leave.
I LOVE JUDGE LYNN TOLER!!❤ She's not only a Judge, she's also a Marriage Counselor, Friend, Therapist, All Wrapped Up into One!!!🙌🏾 😊 ❤
PREACHER, TEACHER, ETC.
i absolutely cannot believe judge lynn let him get off so lightly when he was the Literal definition of holier-than-thou
Unsuccessful people just hate, blame and complain you'll never succeed.
Yes
Yes
No matter what she does it will never be good enough for him. He’s insecure and his emotions are regulated by putting her down and controlling her. She needs to “Run-for-the-hills, it’s only going to get worse!
Seriously I'm a bible teacher and I kept questioning where he got that information. The judge said it perfectly: A master has slaves, a MAN has a relationship. He's dead wrong and I feel bad for her, that's no way to live.
He had me at “common law marriage” baby bye... no such thing you shacking in SIN!
This guy has one verse in the Bible engrained lol nothing else 😭 he won’t listen or learn anything else that doesn’t suit his need
Facts. He knows the verse that the man is the head but lives together before marriage and has 2 kids outside of marriage LOL. You can't just pick and chose scriptures LOL
Most men in the church LOVE that one sentence and one sentence only. They want women to do everything in the household while they do very little.
Chinds93 studies have shown that married women increase cleaning by 7 hours daily - I tell you, men who capitalise one this verse are LAZY and unGod fearing.
A beautiful Judge full of compassion an WISDOM💙
I don't understand why she's here. You need to run the man want a slave not a partner. He reckons he's perfect and she need to chnage everything.
I can't blv she said I've had worse.
Never tell him that.
Girl keep it moving. His constant criticism will break down your self-esteem. He will never change.
Everything in his letter of expectation is expectations of a wife - why is she trying to do that before the ring? 😕
She's desperate for the wrong man.
Exactly my thoughts
I'd be so gone!! I have no idea why she's putting up with that mess.
HE NEVER ONCE SAID HE LOVED HER OR EVEN MENTIONED ANYTHING HE LIKED ABOUT HER
That's how the relationship be ended if he really did Love her for her accept who she is and all her flaws no matter what.
You what's funny? These guys are so conceited that they really have no idea how to make a woman feel good in or out of the bedroom. It's all about her doing 'her' job for him. Who can be spontaneous in bed with such a bore? Please!!
Don't blame your woman from disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from her.
Women expect a lot from men too but I believe he is doing too much.
Exactly! Say no to marriage! Noone meets anyones expectation.
It’s so sad that so many of these men out here want a mother instead of a wife, instead of a warrior, instead of someone that’s a partner, the mother of your children, a queen. We are not your mothers ! All these men out here are getting it twisted and have no example to Levi to know how to protect his woman know how to lead as a man and protect his household.
Damn he couldn't even interpret what the lady said correctly so you know he's miss interpreting the bible and not only that, he doesn't even know it well enough to lead. I really dislike men who uses the bible as a method to control women. Honey you're better off by yourself. He's not gonna improve. I've seen his type several times over
Another trait of a narcissist is they don't listen and whatever you say to them their mental illness rewords things, ads words to it to make it seem like you are attacking them. I live in a small town where just about every female is being subjected to biblical manipulation. Their husbands and boyfriends were not allow them to engage with me because I would wake their asses up!!! The same way that I have my own home, my own car, my own money, my own stocks etc they could do the very same thing and their mates don't want them to know that!
Something wrong with him.
@@bla8545 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao my husband thinks if I cook food and I mess it up that wasn't from the heart but he still eat 😂
Wow she spoke truth about being a leader,, I'm definitely making mental notes
I wish Judge Toler was my auntee. I love her in everyway, escpecially the God in her! 💖💖
On my one part I wouldn't marry him. He's more of a master than a man. Too damn demanding!!!! 🤨
He’s beyond demanding, he’s insecure and immature! It’s a reflection of how he was raised! His parents or who ever was in charge of him screwed him up! She’s stupid ass hell for even putting up with this fool masquerading as a man!
Agreed. way too selfish.
He sure did forget the most important part of studying which is "lean not unto YOUR OWN understanding"
I’d be running away from this one!! He’s too controlling.
"Like I tell you to do it??" Did he really say that???? I'm mama, grandma and greatGrand ma. This man would be running out of my house screaming for help. Get out of here with that arrogant, caveman, ignorant, abusive B.S.
when Judge LT started quoting the bible.. I felt that
Dang that judge is on another level of intelligence.
I love love love Judge Toler!!! Her wisdom is sooooo good!!!!!!
How is he expecting perfection and the size of his head and hairline are off 🤔
Theeeeeee Audacity 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Forgive me Father 🤦🏿
A single mother knows how to be strong, even when she feels weak, there were those days she feels like giving up, but won't, she keeps going for the love for her kids is strong.
Single mother thats it
Child!!!!! Id get rid of him quick! There is no way my ideal man is someone who criticizes my every effort. Who thinks being the head of a home is “ women should be seen, not heard” boy bye! Good luck with that!
She is sadly mistaken if she thinks her patience will manifest the man she seeks. This dude is one word away from being emotionally abusive! RUN RUN RUN RUN!
He has lost his mind!!!
Must have been attached to his hair 🤭
Exactly
@@opulence_prime 🤣🤣🤣
Ughhhhhh. 3 min in this fool expect perfection ain’t even earned it
Judge Lynn can read situations so well I love this show
Lovely content. Whoever is reading God will take away the pain, anxiety and unpleasant memories Dont lose faith and hope in God.
Thank you the encouragement was timely
I needed this right now. 😢
This sounds just like my moms boyfriend
My mom boyfreind has so many cockroaches in his house you can't even shit without 5 of them looking at you, he has snakes,frogs, his house is dusty, I dont even eat unless its takeout because he has so many dead roaches all over his was clean dishes. So my mom deep cleans his house bottom to top. She use bleach alot and other clean products to get the roaches to stop, Which they have stop, there wasnt alot of roaches out as before. But her boyfriend hates the smell of bleach so he tells her, NO YOU'RE DOING IT ALL WRONG, I GOT SOME ROACH TRAPS TO STOP THEM. And im just like the traps are for if you seen 4 roaches in your house th pastt week not if you seen 45 roaches the past week you need to get the house sprayed.
My mom also does the cooking. Ever since we moved in about 7 months he always ask her whats for dinner and when she starts to cook he like, NO YOU'RE DOING IT ALL WRONG YOU HAVE TO DO THIS AND THAT FIRST, THIS LOOKS BRUNT. And he gets off way earlier than my mom. And he only cooked 4 times since we've been there we usually have take out 5 times a week cause he is to lazy to cook and my mom works 2 jobs so shes tired but she tries to cook and figure out whats for dinner. She also packs his lunch for him to take for work, cause he to lazy to get up on time to pack his own and doesnt know how to go to the store to get something to eat.
She also has 2 sons at our old house that just grads. And she has to pay the bill, get the mail, make sure there is food in the house, and she also has some business up there. So when she is doing those thing he thinks she cheating because he wants her to be home at a certain time.
He just using her as a house wife
And im pretty sure he has
Peter pan disorder and he bipolar ALOT
Your Mom sounds like an enabler... Selfless and loving she deserves better
Is she still with him. That sounds exhausting!
Sounds like She doing Tew much. They still together Married. I hope all is well
Her face at the end told it all.She wanted out and Judge Lynn didn't save her.😥
She did. She told her the best thing she could have done was moved out
She needed to save herself. She went there for a marriage from him. Why did she even bother?
I don’t watch for the divorces , I just love the judge words of wisdom if she is wise one more time
The engagement video made me cringe
This Beautiful Judge is well seasoned I love how she handled this, facts knowledge an love. Thank you for this message... ❤️
There are so many men with narcassistic traits out here.
He has All the Tendencies 💯💯💯
U can’t be the master u gotta be the man 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amazing a letter of expectations but yet he hasn't shown her anything then him being like her father.
Right! He couldn’t find the list because he know he wasn’t doing anything on it
This was so educational and inspirational. Thank you. This woman has her own strenght and the Judges advice and wisdom was spot on. I will share this episode far and beyond.
His wife is not a Child; stop treating like a child. Dear Husband: Do the house cleaning yourself and also cook for yourself. This is 2020 not 1620.
If I'm cleaning and cooking myself.... whats the point of the women exactly? I understand 50/50 but you didn't even say that.
spythe companionship? Someone yo love and care for you when you’re old and dying
@@kingneef8354 EXACTLY
Females really think dudes just want to hang around them like they're homies.
@@spytheidiot male.
@@spythehahahah nope.
It’s always the men who go barely passed high school, low paid job, no prospects.