Some of yall are showing yall racism.. real bad 🤭 I love everybody, not sorry ✌🏾 EDIT for the ones who choose not to understand 🤦🏾♀️ this comment is referring to some of the people in the COMMENT SECTION, black AND white!! NOT the stylists in the video.
@@Mineo77-op4bu I don't seem to recall saying that all braids work on all hair types... 🤔.. although, I haven't found many we couldn't handle in our shop.
@@shanel2011I did and it's false. It all depends on the handling. If you purposely braid tight, anyone will lose hair regardless of what hair type you have. That's why almost every colored woman and men that does "protective hairstyles" have major hair lose.
@@ashash1338 and that’s why i said certain braid STYLES are not meant for certain hair types. really small knotless braids cause too much hair build and up and shedding and this usually gets matted in low density hair. Look it up. Look around. Plenty of proof. Styles like this can be recreated with less tension but that can’t be said for EVERY style. All depending on scalp sensitivity and hair density.
That because you are a decent person. If your laughing at a child's pain there is something wrong with you! You want to prove a point do it with an adult that can defend themselves. Also, if those ppl are hairstylest and doing it for the money, say goodbye to your client! 🙁
@brittjohnson7908 It doesn’t have to hurt. That’s the thing. I’ve done it numerous times and it never hurts them. Also, the comments were completely different than they would have been had the girl been a little black girl.. that’s sad.
One of my friends braided my hair at a party. She said she’d never braided “white” hair before and thought it would be fun. We were drinking, laughing and having a good time. She did great! She never once made my scalp hurt! I’m not tender headed but I feel like even if I was, it shouldn’t hurt! At all!
This was a girl's reaction in the kid's shelter. After she saw my hair was bone straight naturally after it air dried she begged to let her braid it. After she saw how tender headed I was she was beyond excited to "practice braiding straight hair and figuring out how to braid it without hurting your scalp!"
Because she was your friend. These hose get REAL gelly. I bet your friend was pretty and had real hair. If she wasn't she would LOVE to pull your hair out, like the first commenter.
Some hairdressers think that you have to pull tighter on Caucasian hair in order for the braid to stay in place. In actual reality, you only have to have damp hair, so that it will shrink into a tighter braid. pulling that tight on any hair type will eventually lead the hair loss. I noticed that you use a different technique and that you’re holding the braid with your fingers and they’re trying to use brute force to keep the braid tight.
The second lady is jerking it like that because she is trying to hurt the girl. Shes grinning like a maniac the whole time. In the full video she is taunting her the whole time too. She knows damn well it doesnt need to be that tight she is trying to hurt her because she doesnt think white girls should have braids
Ya, my mama always braided me and my sister's hair damp. Just French braids to keep it tidy and untangled, but I thought that was common knowledge. Doing your hair might not always feel good but it shouldn't be painful. Noone should be enjoying another person's pain.
It’s so nice hearing women defend these poor children 😭 like the comments broke my heart, imagine her reading those comments so thank you for being a voice for the little ones ❤
I don’t get what funny or see a problem. Braids hurt. You want them deal with it. just like all the little black kids do. I cried when I got mine done too. I lived
Getting a laugh from a child showing pain is disgusting. I was braided by a friend's mom when I was maybe 9yo and she immediately reevaluated her method of pulling when she realized my hair was so gentle. I didn't complain because I was just going with it but bless her for treating me with kindness and for not ripping my hair out!
She’s laughing with the parents who are making jokes. Don’t feed into any narrative without audio or full context. The woman is an African braider and most folk are fine in her chair. Some have extremely sensitive scalp like that child. But she was asked if it was ok to keep going, and she said yes. She wanted braids and the braider is trying to do a good job that lasts. Not everything is nefarious, these short clips have people creating vile narratives slandering innocent folk
This is how the average balck grill childhood is. Maybe if ylal didn't didn't to copy black ppl so bad you wouldn't have to learn the hard way. There should be no reason you're getting hairstyles that work better on afro textured hair
My elderly (white) mother in law was in the hospital for a long time and struggled with bed head, painful knots, and brushing. It embarrassed her, the way it looked. Her nurse (Jamaican) asked if she could braid her hair. It helped a lot and my mother in law felt beautiful. I asked if it hurt and she said “no, it felt loving.” ❤
My Grandaughter who is non black gets her hair braided from a black hairdresser and my Granddaughter LOVES HER!!!! She is so good with my baby girl I LOVE AND TRUST HER WITH MY REASON FOR BREATHING!!❤❤❤ Real hairdressers don't do this!!!
Thank you so much for saying this! My mixed daughter used to get teased about being tender-headed, until I took her somewhere else. Now she gets to feel as beautiful as she is and has other women treat her as such! ❤❤❤
@@Ave_Satana666 actually… she’s spent so much time using a hair straightener and dye that her hair is significantly damaged. I’ve never treated my hair so when she’s asking me how to fix it, I don’t know what to say. I advised her to lay off the styling for a bit and use some leave in conditioners, but I don’t even know if I’m right. Any advice? Genuinely.
@@SarahPriceMoore legit it got me through my sat them dumb asses think I'm the next Albert Einstein I'm bout to go to yale. Who gives a fuck about a ox ford comma? Me. Lmao.
@@SarahPriceMoore bro I thought my life was over then a.i dropped an now I'm bout to go to yale shits like a movie. But ion got no romantic love interest shits rough fr. Gotta be a Adam Sandler movie. Fr.
Iam white, with unruly thick hair and over sixty, have always wanted my hair braided ( to tame it ) . It has always fascinated me how talented you all our with your hair and I enjoy watching your videos on UA-cam . I was hopeless braiding my daughters hair . I did guess some children found the experience painful but the end result was beautiful and amazing.
oh my god this makes me so sad. these poor kids just wanted to look cute and theyre being tortured and mocked... anyone who laughs at these kids in pain are disgusting and seriously need to stay away from any other humans because you cannot laugh at any kids in pain no matter what and still say you're not an absolute danger to society. idc what u believe or what u think but u are not human if u watch these kids cry and turn red with pain and tell them to suck it up, laugh or even tell the braiders to go harder
@@djnkazI don't get it why they are so rude. What's wrong with white girl having braids. Braids are not race thing everybody use them. Are they intentionally trying to hurt that girl.
Ppl think that you have to braid tight for it to hold up but you dont. And the ppl that have been getting their hair braided for years and say "you have to just take the pain" are same ones walking around without an edge to be found on their head.
I went to a Jamaican place my friend told me about . The lady was mad like she was going back and forth with the owner that she didn’t wanna do my hair I could tell by her body language. And when she was doing my hair she was literally pulling my hair out I wanted to leave but they were like we will take the money now and she let me know that she wouldn’t give me the money back if I changed my mind . It was horrible
I remember very vividly the day that sent me into a spiral of hating my hair which is 3a it was short and a boy at school had stuck gum in it and instead of cutting all my hair really short or one strand being really short my mom decided her and my granny would take me to a salon and the woman there was told what my mom wanted to even my hair and to get rid of it right.. well when she told my granny she'll go grab the money she forgot it in the car the woman was detangled my hair from the scalp down yanking at it and called me nappy headed and that my mom must have just neglected me first she didn't trim the gum she ruined my hair on purpose second she just insulted me as a child for my curls and third she threatened how she should have just called cps for how neglectful my mom was of my hair like she didn't bring me to a salon to fix the issue and didn't wanna tangle the gum worse I'm there. That woman should have known seeing she herself had a fro that hair isn't just unkept cause it's short and curly and to not belittle a little girl over hair texture! Took so many years but I love my hair now btw.@@djnkaz
My friend is a born and raised Jamaican from Jamaica and she doesn’t care one bit about who or why wants braids lol I respect that people have different opinions but taking offence to these things is mostly a North American thing I’m told.
@@djnkaz I was coming here to say the same thing! It's hard to see a professional do somebody like this and the 2nd lady had to have been trying to hurt that girl. It doesn't need to be that tight white ppl have different hair there isn't no give or curl to have to work out like that so all that pressure is just straight on the scalp and is serving no real purpose and if she is doing everybody hair like that then none of her clients have a single edge, they got that hair line receding on every client. I ain't never seen nobody have to put their back into a set of braids like that... but anyway I'm just glad to hear fm a professional professional that would treat any & everyone that sat in her seat with kindness and respect. Thank you so much for showing that!❤
@@djnkazI'm surprised you're shocked. Black hairstylists have been doing this forever to white girls. I'm mixed race, black grandad, but I'm super pale, so because I looked white with frizzy hair they'd treat me like crap. A LOT of little girls get their hair braided while on holiday because its easier to maintain with all the swimming in pools and the salt water ocean, but for some reason only black people can have braids and they used it to torture little girls, make it as miserable as they can as tight as they can and as PAINFUL as they possibly can. Most of the ones who do this nonsense are jealous and extremely racist. And openly say racist sh!t while doing it. And then they play victim when called out. It's EVIL. And the comments show how OPENLY racist the black community is. They're all telling these stylists to do even worse and make them regret ever wanting braids and make it so bad they'll NEVER get it done again. Imagine if white stylist's were screwing over black women and little girls just for wanting blonde and straight hair, there would be riots in the streets and their lives would be in danger! I had my hair braided so badly just like the second one and my mother wasn't willing to take it out straight away, she thought I was being oversensitive. I was in so much agony I barely slept and the next morning and I woke up sobbing and an absolute MESS. the front of my hair was all snapped away and it was so tight I had literal SCABS ALL OVER my skull. It was the worst headache I'd ever had. The damage took WEEKS to heal and my hair took YEARS to fix. And the front has always been super brittle since and never fixed itself. It's been 20 years. This is straight up child abuse and a violent assault. These women KNOW what they're doing and are PURPOSELY trying to hurt little girls because they're white. They're purposely injuring them and trying to destroy their hair. Which is so stupid because all they're doing is costing themselves money. Because these mothers will warn EVERYONE they know that you're a psycho and NEVER go to you. Nobody hates on black hair more than black people. But yet they blame it entirely on white women and are extremely bitter and jealous. I went to a black stylist as an adult, wanted to support a new business that had just opened, and she tried to destroy my hair. Oh and my nails. This ISN'T just braiding. They're doing it across the board. But it's racist to call it out. So it's ignored and keeps happening. Personally I'm sick of it and wouldn't risk myself again. My best friend had her wedding ruined after a black hairstylist PURPOSELY sewed in her hair extensions FAR too tightly and OBVIOUSLY she couldn't take them out and have it redone in time. So she spent her wedding crying in agony and her honeymoon in agony with scabs and ripped out chunks of hair. She was marrying an African guy and they REALLY didn't like that. They kept making snide comments the entire time about black men daring to marry white women. They ripped apart everything about her. After all his African female relatives saw her and the damage on her wedding day they were LIVID. Because THEY had recommended this place. They didn't even consider they'd treat her differently. They all went over to the salon the day after the wedding and kicked up a HUGE fuss. They got her money back along with the cost of having it undone. They're a huge influence in their community and let's just say the salon no longer had many customers left. It was shut down under 3 months later. Since then they do her hair if she wants extensions in. Most of the stylist's just seem jealous and bitter. They hate their hair and hate that you have something they want. So they try destroying it purposely. I know people who were kids in the 2000s who have PERMANENT bald patches in their hair BECAUSE of BRAID'S! I know girls who had so much damage and literal RIPS in their SCALP from the assault that had to have ALL of their hair SHAVED OFF to treat it! Some of these "women" are absolute RACIST MONSTERS. Complete and utter animals using their skill to abuse innocent children because of their skin colour. Something they have ZERO control over. I have frizzy hair and I really could have done with their help because white stylist's only see me as white and don't understand that my hair ISN'T as white. 😂 They never injured me and I always left looking great. But I'd love to have had help on how to actually care for my natural curls. Instead I just always do a beach wave blow out. 😂 Black people complain that their businesses feel limited to the black community, which obviously limits success. BUT then they also whine if white people support them. So WHAT do you want!?! ☠️🤡☠️🤦♀️🙅🤷♀️🤣 Black people like to monopolise racism and claim that they're the only ones who can suffer it but in reality they're the ONLY ONES still being OPENLY racist. My black African grandfather married my white Irish grandmother and black guys killed HER for marrying a black man and daring to have children. I've genuinely never actually heard anything racist from my white family. But I HAVE heard LOTS of racism from blacks and poc. And I HAVE suffered from the physical abuses of racist blacks and poc. Because I'm too white. While they call Megan markles kids black... ☠️🤡☠️🤦♀️🤯🤷♀️🤣
Or y’all need to Understand that certainly braids are not meant for y’all. And instead Of feeling entitled to people culture, and wanna call out racism when the reason comes out. Like what’s not hard for yall to understand? CERTAIN BRAIDS ARE NOT MENT FOR YALL HAIE TEXURE, no one trying to hurt these kids.
@@Hellolock A very asinine remark to make. "Culture" oh please nothing belongs to a certain race, and there is no racism in my comment. Even if those were white ladies braiding them babies hair I'd say the same thing. This has nothing to do with culture or race it has everything to do with how experienced the stylist are in their work. At least learn the historical origin of some of these braids name before you open your trap, cuz you sound uneducated and naive.
@@Hellolocklol. There are several white and Asian cultures that have worn tight braids for centuries. You’re just shit at braiding and don’t know how to do them on other kinds of hair besides your own
@@Hellolock your lack of knowledge in braids and how to deliver satisfactory results has nothing to do with hair texture. Rather its Box, Cornrows, Milkmaid or Dutch. I've seen it done on all hair type. So rather then word vomiting blanket statement that not all can wear a certain braid I'd advise you to up your game and sharpen your technique. You sound stupid with your culture appropriate signaling mambo jumbo.
Yeah and you would think that people would respect that she puts her life in danger for Americans. We can't even show her respect instead we purposely pull her hair with a smile on your face. Really people do better.
Me too whenever I braid a nonblack person’s hair they always praise me for the fact that it didn’t hurt and I tell them “If it hurts then the braider just doesn’t like you.”
I’ve been getting my hair braided all of my life. That’s 44yrs. There has never been a time when it didn’t hurt. Some people are just tender headed, my daughter is the same. Even when it doesn’t hurt as bad, my scalp turns red and literally radiates heats.
@@Msd4-13 That has nothing to do with my comment. Yes some people are tender headed however if I’m braiding someone’s hair and they tell me “wow this is the first time I’ve ever braided my hair and there’s no pain” that means something.
@@kyleelovesyoutubee Yes she is. Coming from experience it is immediately obvious Caucasian hair doesn’t stretch and have curl retention. Why would anyone be pulling it that tight ??
Idk.. she didn’t have to snatch down on her hair like that.. I braid a many of heads and never have to do anything of the sort.. seems intentional and unnecessary 🤷🏾♀️ if not then she should retire.
She never thought she would get an opportunity to rip and pull and tug on a white girls hair & probably getting paid to do so. She took advantage of her situation. It’s so obvious after just now watching the whole video.
@GhettoBaebee someone who speaks another language and not from where we are from she's not intentionally doing that. We have to remember we are all raised differently and raised in different timelines
I’ve had black girls braid my hair and it never hurt, it actually felt good. One time when it was too tight at the end my friend said to me “you need to tell me if it hurts! It’s not supposed to cause PAIN” nothing but respect for people who can braid because I cannot even do a french braid. I don’t understand why these woman are trying to hurt these little girls, their mommas money is just as green as everyone else’s and spends the same. Wouldn’t you want them to come back??
These women are not trying to hurt these girls. Y’all wonder why we don’t want y’all to wear our cultural braids. She’s braiding hair like how your supposed to, their hair can’t handle the braids. Simple as that. Y’all need to stop trying to be victims of shit that doesn’t happen
The braiders in the video are Africans and trust me they braid tight as hell!! It’s because they have really good grip. Ive got my hair braided by African Americans and it doesn’t hurt that much. But gurllll, the Africans was braiding my scalp inn!! The style lasted linger that way but to me it isn’t healthy. Also I would like to assume that bc most African Americans do not like white people wearing braid styles like this, they probably refuse to do their hair where as Africans do nit see a problem with it 🤷🏽♀️
I had my hair done twice as a child and the babysitter hit me when I moved and they were so tight and it hurt so bad, my mom had to undo them and my aunt did one time and said I looked like a poodle.
I’ll never forget when I was 14, I paid a girl to do two braids and she hocked up and spit in my hair while doing it, I jumped up and it was on!!! After that I have only had people who I trust mess with my hair or my childrens hair. Ish be wild! Treat people better!
Naw that’s vile!!! Oh my god I’m so sorry you experienced that she don’t deserve to be in a position touching peoples hair or people at all being unstable like that
We were in a temporary group home housing, I have always been the “Gothic Punk Rock” aesthetic so I was an outcast, a few girls called me a “Freak”, but when she offered to fix my two French braids I thought we were good & I even gave her $10! I sat down and she sat in a chair above me, we were both from Philadelphia and I thought we were getting along and I heard her and felt it🤢 I jumped up and at first I was shook… But I was No Punk and we fought….. I was so embarrassed. And grossed out. I have curly hair and I remembered having to wash my hair and not having curl cream or leave in conditioner so it was frizzy all week until I was approved to go home with my dad….. I’m 37 now, and that has always stuck with me! I am weird about who I let do my hair, and I tell my kids the same thing! I am not sure why anyone would want to hurt someone else, or embarrass another person, Why can’t we treat people as individuals, treat them the way they treat you?! Bless yous❤️
I legit got braids in Jamaica to keep my hair from getting tangled and destroyed from salt water, as I struggled to remember to comb it. Kept my hair off my neck too. The lady never hurt my scalp, never tugged beyond what was needed and was the sweetest woman ever. These women scare me
Then you are lucky but the most hairdressers are NOT used to white peoples straight hair. When curly hair is being braided it needs to EXTRA EXTRA tight or else it will start to frizz after a few days. Yall are blaming these braiders but know nothing about black hair bro i'm so tired of this shit. And the second Lady asked the child in the i live if she wanted to stop but she said no.
@@levl0p285the second woman is hurting that girl on purpose. There is absolutely no reason for her to be pulling that hard. She is hurting that child on purpose and she is cruel
I used to be friends with a lady who did braids and she asked me to come over to help with her newborn while she was dealing with a client. I did this pretty often since she didn’t really have anyone else to help her out and y’all know these hairstyles can take awhile to do. My friend had this poor lady in tears, bawling her eyes out while getting her hair done in box braids. I’d watched her do hair long enough to know something was off because I’d never seen her make a woman cry like that before. After that lady left, I asked my friend what was up because it just felt too weird not to say something. Her response was just “no offense but I’m sick of you white women taking our hairstyles”. That right there told me she was doing it on purpose, purposely hurting this poor woman because she was white and getting what my friend considered a poc ONLY hairstyle. Yet, she didn’t have a problem taking her money.
I hope you aren't her friend anymore, and frankly, I'd tell people not to go to her. Clearly she will hurt someone. Hopefully that child won't grow up with the same hatred.
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As someone who is white but does have curly hair imagine some kids wanted their hair braided because they have curly hair and then they're hair gets treated like this. I couldn't imagine how much that would hurt like it's not always the hair type sometimes it's the person handling the clients hair Edit: also i have a kinda coily curly hair type btw
Braiding hair tight isn't braiding hair. I've been braiding both types of hair for years including toddlers with out all of that. Some people have sensitive scalp and some are scared. Put people at ease. If it's tight ease up. You have to check in to make sure they're comfortable. Hair could you neat without being to uncomfortable to have in.
I had braids done in ethiopia, it didn't hurt at all... It just took like 4 hours with 3 ladies and 2 bunches of extra hair. The braids were perfect for 4 to 6 weeks. No headache, no hairloss. ❤
En faite ce n'est pas tout le monde, moi je suis allée me coiffer chez une dame africaine et j'avais demandé de pas serrer les tresse et elle a fait tout le contraire sur mes cheveux 😭😭😭😭, du coup je suis ressorti avec une tête avec des tresse trop serrer et quand je lui est dit ça elle m'a dit qu'elle ne serrais pas 😭😭😭😭, Et bien sûr je suis aussi une noir mais des Antilles.
My mom sent me to my neighbor’s house to do my hair, and I am just wavy. This woman pulled my hair so hard I was practically in tears, and I was about 8 at the time. I had to ask for pain meds when I got back to the house because I was in so much pain. And she didn’t even braid my hair; she was just pulling my hair so hard. Literally. Stop being tough on people’s hair no matter the texture. Gotta be gentle. So true. I agree with you.
I hate to say this but in my own experience most black women that have braided my hair have been so rough that they were actually pulling out hair. I finally found a braided that was good with braiding my hair even though I am a Latina. And this woman told me that they were doing it in purpose because they didn’t want me to have the braids in my hair and hoped that I’d take it out if it hurt too bad and wouldn’t come back
I’m white, but I remember I would sometimes get my hair braided while on vacation. One when I was on a trip I met a girl, she had braids (she was black) and we became best friends for the trip, and I wanted to go get my hair braided to match. It was so much fun we walked around like we were so cool with our matching braids. And I’ve gotten my hair braided multiple times when I was a smaller child and it never hurt even when I kept them in for like 2 weeks.
@@HellolockYou need help, like actually need help. You need to seek Jesus and have him remove all the hatred from your heart. Cultures are meant to be APPRECIATED just like this woman was saying, she was appreciating her braids and wanted some as well. You’re very sick and seem to have a victim complex. Seek Jesus, AMEN 🙏
@@HellolockWay to be racist. Braids don’t belong to JUST YOU they belong to everyone. You also missed that they became FRIENDS and enjoyed the matching braids.
@@JustaTadmentallyunwell. no one was racist, y’all need to stop throwing that word around when yall get yall feelings hurt. Yall are not oppressed, and we do own our cultural hairstyles. Braids was created by Africans, I also never said I won all braids. Yall need to stop acting dense, and stop acting like box braids and any other AA/African braids doesn’t belong to us. Yall love to claim everything so let us have our culture without yall always feeling entitled to it.
My lil cousin had her hair done by one of these ladies and ANOTHER braider ran up on them and said get your devil finger off that child hair. Literally smacked her hands away from my cousin's head, chased her off and took over for free. Said some of the aunties at the beach doing braids would purposefully braid the lil white girls heads so tight that it scalped them or theire scalps would swell so bad it would almost swallow the braids. They ask and make aure the lil kid is going home in a day or two so nothing will be done about it. She got a juicy tip from my uncle of course. Was just shocked that someone would that on purpose
Thank you Cosmologist right here 🙋♀️ braids shouldn't be that painful. If so the person braiding your hair don't know what they are doing. And just because their braids are pretty don't mean they know how to braid. Because 1. If it's this painful that means they're pulling your hair 2. Your hair coming out with the braid. Edges in particular 🤦♀️
Racist for no reason. They act like it was African culture only and no one else can appreciate the creativity and beauty part of those cultures Edit: not reading through all the replies on here anymore because I don't have the time to, finals is coming up and I have a ton of work to do Edit #2: I read this back and it sounds racist af lmao, let me clarify on this, when I stated "they act like its African culture only" I mean there are a bunch of people who can have the hairstyle who aren't specifically part of that culture, (I didn't want to say its black culture so I said African but that mightve sounded more racist sorry yall) 4 months laters- I find this video again
I remember seeing a video of a white girl getting braids for cheer and ppl were saying it was karma for culturally appropriating "black ppl hair"..., it was DUTCH brains...
@@Cat-Tastrophe2I don't get it why they are so rude. What's wrong with white girl having braids. Braids are not race thing everybody use them. Are they intentionally trying to hurt that girl.
Thank you sister for being brave enough to call out wrong! Their racism is stupid because they ruined a whole client pool! Clients are money and efforts of mouth and the best look gets your client book filled!!? What's the point?
@@Mineo77-op4bu Or they can do whatever the hell they want with their hair, no? I dont see BP stopping perms and silk presses to get straight hair despite all the damage. Just stop it.
@@Savedbygracethroughfaith_7 : And how are Blk braiders supposed to know that, genius, as they don't have experience working with Caucasian hair? USE SOME COMMON SENSE.
We as Black, African & Caribbean people need to DECIDE to do the right things. For God is watching & karma comes back full force!! Never have I seen good braiders do this. Good braiders can braid their OWN hair and others without pain!! And to intentionally hurt a child of ANY race is a criminal act. Me and others have braided hair of Black, White, Asian, Indian and mixed with no issues. Spritz the straight hair with water to keep it tidy. Curly hair I like to braid without the extension--only natural hair. It grows faster and the fake hair will not damage the natural curls. Ask any Black man who gets his hair braided or locs. His braider is not rough and does not pull as she braids.
Please speak up if they are braiding too tight. My cousin braided my hair once. She was very heavy handed. I told her 3 times that she was braiding too tight. I kindly said thank you, and got out of there with one half braid done.
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Idk about african gair, but most other hair can't take that level of tightness... there's a reason ballet dancers sometimes start going bald due to how tightly they tie their hair
Braiding should be love. I was the only white girl on my track team and was so grateful my teammates braided my hair cause they wanted me to feel cared for and belonging. I learned that day how important, loving and spiritually generous braiding should be. ❤
I learned how to braid at a Renaissance fair. At the fairs they braid so many different styles and textures of hair. They also braid on adults and children. The leader of this group uses and teaches a method of braiding that puts the tension on the hair and not on the scalp… it was a completely painless experience for myself and every single person sitting in the tent. I really think it’s a technique thing. People need to stop pitting themselves against each other over braids. Braids have been worn by humans for thousands of years across all different cultures. Intentionally making a kid suffer or getting joy out of them suffering because somebody’s pulling their hair is honestly rude and suspect af… some of y’all should really reevaluate yourselves
That first baby is in so much pain but she’s trying to be so strong. The second woman was intentionally pulling tightly but while the first one doesn’t look to be doing it intentionally, that little girl’s face was all the proof she needed to know she was being too damn heavy handed.
I was in pageants as a small tot. My mom got me the sew ins because I liked to wear the long hair after the whole thing was over for awhile. Felt like a queen. The artist/braider who worked on me was an angel. She always asked me if I was comfy and brought me candy sometimes. I still work with her, beautiful lady and she can turn out some hair. No matter the hair texture, she can do it.
It's not even my hair being braided, and it makes my head hurt, watching this lady pull and tug on that little girl's hair to braid it. While tears are running down her face. That's cruel
The media says this is not only okay- that the little girl deserves it because of her skin color. When I was a kid we were working towards never judging people by their appearance but by their character. Then they did away with all that and said it’s fine bc it’s going in the opposite direction it once did.
This reminds me of the time I was one of like. Three white folks working at a daycare that was mostly black and latino, and one of the little girls with 4c hair asked if she could try braiding my (at the time, barely wavy bc I didn’t take care of my curls) hair. She was struggling so hard and when I told her (gently) that she was hurting my head, I remember her stopping and going “why doesn’t it braid right?? The twists don’t stay in!” And I had to explain that her hair was so so so much finer than mine, and her curls are what helped her braids stay in, and that I didn’t have any of that. I think she pouted at me about it 😭
@user-ex8xf9fr7u it was literally just a cute story that was similar to the content of the video, but in a much more wholesome context. The little ones came from an area where there just weren’t many white folks living so it’s not like they’d have had much of a chance to try to braid white hair. They were like four. They’re like. Allowed to discover things.
@user-ex8xf9fr7u also how. Is this pick me, woke, racist, or Karen. Like are you just throwing words at the screen. Is it just like. Mind-blowing that I got hired to work for the daycare? Do you think it’s pick me to explain to the girls why their hair can do twists but mine can’t? Is it racist that I realized I wouldn’t be caring for many white kids and so I did some cursory research on types of curly hair while I was at the job? Is it woke to you to let two little girls harmlessly play with my hair while I was supervising their class? Am I a Karen for… fuck I don’t even know man. Telling a cute story, I guess. You are a tar pit.
My aunt Laurie used to braid my hair.. my cousins are all mixed(white and african) she would braid tight but she absolutely never hurt us. She was such a cool woman. Man, I miss her ❤
I, a mixed black girl, once got braids at a stylist my African dad recommended. I know braids can be tight but the amount of strain on my scalp was insane. When they were taken out, I had so many broken hairs and fall out that when my hair was wetted it matted in the shower and I had to cut my hair to a bob. Refused so cut my hair for years to grow it all back
A black lady braided my hair once and she was so sweet. My mom was afraid i couldnt handle it but she was very gentle. She put a ton of beads in it for me too. I loved it. Then i went to my daddys for the weekend and he took them all out and i cried.
I braid my sons hair like this, he has silky straight blonde hair, he loves it. He asks me to braid his hair. You can get nice, clean, tight enough braids without causing pain. These people are nuts.
The second lady was my mom 😭 Sometimes I felt like she was purposely braiding my hair extremely tight to hurt me. And when I’d tell her, she’d be like “you’re just tender headed. I’m barely touching you” 🥲
im glad stuff like this is being pointed out, i don’t know when it became normalized to just be rude and hate on others but it needs to stop. i hope we can normalize being decent and respectful people to create a better society for future generations. if this behavior doesn’t stop now imagine how it’s gonna be in the future, i don’t want that for my future children 😕
When I was around six year old I remember my mom and grandma asking how I wanted my hair done, and I always admired box braids, goddess braids that I’d see on tv. I thought it was so beautiful and intricate. They laughed at me, telling me “that’s only for black people” like ughhhh I knew it was wrong, even at six year old. It breaks my heart when people preach all day about inclusivity yet those are the same people gatekeeping. I always wanted a sister, we could braid each others hair.i got two brothers and that’s okay too.
Well if you want box braids get them, but don’t be surprised if the experience, the end result and the consequences on your hair aren’t what you expect. Also trust me as a black who did get box braids when I was younger they were so painful for me
Box braids can cause damage to all hair types if they are pulled too tightly. In general, people without textured hair (curly) should not used box braids long-term because they cause too much tension for non-texured hair and cause balding and damage the hair. Please. Don't box braid. There are other variations designed for non-textured hair types.
That's really sad they laughed at you, I had a teacher in middle school, white, was the only one to tell me shit when I had box braids, I actually got kicked out of school for those braids, I refused to remove them 😂 I'm too tired to write the whole story, but I did write it on Quora. I would say get those braids, but like the other comment, be aware, ppl don't mind their business and might have something ugly to say, it's weird cause back in 95,96 that wasn't an issue, but now ppl have used social media as a tool to divide, I'd say, you never know anymore.
Whenever I was a little girl my family took a trip to the Bahamas and a beautiful black woman braided the side of my hair with those kind of braids and at the end would be and she took such good care of me and I can’t wait until I can save up enough money to take a trip there again.❤😊
A lot of the stylist are mad that it's a white person when white people have had braids forever as well. Someone did this to me once. The best revenge was I never made a peep or made a face. I was grown though. Also... my hair was fine afterwards. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. They obviously think black women with braids are beautiful and just want to do the hairstyle as well. Stop hating embrace people that love you reject the ones that don't. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Especially these types of braids. Of course certain hairstyles are better or worse for certain hair types but braids like these… literally anyone can wear it and it’s beneficial for the hair
EXACTLY! The ppl in the comments need to stop projecting racism onto these kids who are innocent. They saw a style that they thought was pretty & now it’s etched in their brain that someone is punishing them for liking it.. & these same mfs be complaining about how we as black women aren’t seen as desirable, and “nobody likes us,” yet, they sure love to humiliate anybody who DOES like our styles!
I’ll say it since no one ever told you how history plays out, no tf we don’t mayo and the rest of the plain gang out here with braids fire several reasons smh. First of being, it has always been our form hair culture, they stole from us back then as they still do to this day. Referring to Nords and Sweds who were the labor force to our oppression is really sad to give grace to. Second, we can barely where our hair in the schools let alone the work force without it being considered unprofessional while they go around with whole scriptures on they face. Remember that when someone calls u what u are, 🦝
@@rogue5557don’t you think by saying “mayo” and “plain gang” you’re adding to the hate though? It actually is just hair and the culture and history deserves respect but honestly, if you’re mean (racist, actually) like this in USA 2024 then you have personal issues. Get Well Soon!
Honestly as a very light daughter of a black woman. Wear your hair in whatever style you like. Some people wait for an opportunity to hate on white women. Experienced it my whole life
FRRRRR!!!! they be like “non black ppl hair gonna fall out because it’s not meant for your hair type” NAHH B this what y’all are doing to those girls with nothing but hate envy and rage in your hearts.
This has nothing to do with US media or y’all race war. This braider is an African woman in Europe and they are known to do it tightly it has nothing to do with hate or any vile scenario constantly in American minds. They braid for tourists, mostly white, but they just braid how they always braid and they are simply trying to do a job that lasts or they will come back the next day with loose braids. The stylist was laughing because the child's parents were chatting and joking with her. She was the one that asked the child if she wanted to cease the braiding but the girl just wanted braids so asked her to keep going. Stop feeding into narratives based on tiktok clips without context
So it’s only racism because they’re white…..yet it’s not racism for all the millions of black kids who got their hair pulled and braided tightly by other black braiders? This is nothing new. Most black/ African kids have experienced exactly what these young girls went through and even worse… It’s insane how everyone is so obsessed with race and finding racism…
Finally I’ve found an intelligent and beautiful woman who doesn’t discriminate against white people or any skin color in general ❤these days you can never go without seeing people hate on white people just because of what their ancestors did YEARS ago🤦🏾♀️and the fact that they think that just because they’re black they get to do whatever they want smh🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️thank you again for showing compassion to those who deserve it😊😇❤️( I started a war in my comments💀)
Thank you for the nice compliments 🥹🫶🏾 I definitely believe in doing the right thing no matter what. And I agree, what our ancestors endured was the worse form of hatred one can experience, but no sense in doing what the white ancestors did by taking it out on innocent people who, hopefully, aren’t contributing to the hatred that is racism. Just praying for a better world 😞 🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
@@djnkaz yeah and as a white girl I can confidentially say in most cases the white ppl who are racist aren't the ones willing or wanting to try or wear braids. So these people really just be hurting allies when they do this🤦♀️ And as a queer woman I like hate how the internet has decided what's best for minorities is to gatekeep our cultures cause obviously the answer to discrimination and segregation is doing it some more🤣 It's good to see people are waking up from all this madness tho because it's just doing more harm then good for all parties involved.
@Glasses thank you for adding to the conversation. No one is trying to erase history, we are simply trying to get past it and hopefully make things better. My argument, as mentioned, is the fact that grown adults were laughing at, mocking and asking for the braids to be tighter on the child simply because she is white. Yes, little black girls experience braiders who braid tightly as well but the comments are a complete 180! You have people in the comments going to bat, telling the stylist to stop braiding so tightly standing up for the little black girl. The same people laughing and saying braid tighter in reference to the white girl would be the ones yelling and having a fit if it were a little black girl. That’s all I’m saying.
Thank you for calling them out! I had extensions years ago and the lady braided my hair so tight you could see the rows of scabs in between the braids! I was hardly 18 and in pain for weeks! I had no idea at the time and gave a big tip too! So ty! 👏
I'm white and my neighbor used to braid mine all the time, I loved it. I was a busy mom and braiding meant I could skip a few days between washes for my super oily hair. She moved and I found another lady willing to braid it for me. She charged me 100 bucks and I had to take them out the same night, and even then I lost a lot of hair. I later found out she said, Bet that white pos won't be back! I honestly think she was pissed I was getting braids
A lot of braiders are heavy handed. Or they believe in tightness = neatness. I'm tender headed, and it hurts to comb my hair sometimes. Been going to one braider for the past 4 years, and my hair has thrived ever since. No headaches, no tears, no painkillers. Lol
As a black girl, I have trauma from braiding hair so much that I had a small phobia towards hair salons. I had to learn to braid my own hair cause others doing it always put me in pain
@@nickeni3050 So sorry about what you went through 🙏 I completely understand you. I hated hair salons as a kid. The braiders didn't take my pain seriously. So I begged my mum to let me cut off all my hair. She listened. Didn't go to a hair salon after that, up until university🤣
yk our generation is fucked if ppl laugh ☹️ its genuinely not funny, im brown myself, never had braids, but genuinely please can ppl js grow up? whats so funny abt a girl sweating/crying in pain like srsly mate??
This is absolutely absurd… I used to practice Braids on my best friends hair in middle school and she was white and her shit did not look like that😂😂😂😂😂 n her hair never got matted n fell out💯💯
@djnkaz because it has happened it can also happen to black which is why some choose low maintenance styles with or without weaves. It really depends. Not every one has strong hair.
I had a roommate from Belize that used to braid my hair when I lived in South Florida. Never once was it uncomfortable. Not once did it hurt. And her braids were super tight.
Elle serrer la tresse mais elle ne tirait pas sur les cheveux comme montre la vidéo là elle tire sur les cheveux, moi je suis aussi une noir qui tresses mais des Antilles Guyane
Some of yall are showing yall racism.. real bad 🤭 I love everybody, not sorry ✌🏾
EDIT for the ones who choose not to understand 🤦🏾♀️ this comment is referring to some of the people in the COMMENT SECTION, black AND white!! NOT the stylists in the video.
How are they showing racism
@@Donald.Tump_2024 gotta read through the comments, I can’t remember them all. But racism is still so very prevalent it’s sad.
@djnkaz it goes both ways but that it does for evrything
@@Donald.Tump_2024the hair dresser bc there white and she's black and she braiding it mad tight
@@rileygibson-uv9ho how is that racist😭
A seasoned braider, can braid all textures, without PAIN, and do it effectively.... WITH COMPASSION!
You do know that certain braids aren't suitable for all hair types?
@Mineo77-op4bu exactly nd then they cry when it hurts, it hurts on black women, it'll hurt on u 😭
@@Mineo77-op4bu I don't seem to recall saying that all braids work on all hair types... 🤔.. although, I haven't found many we couldn't handle in our shop.
@Mineo77-op4bu so pull on the hair and hurt them on purpose? You're crazy
@@Mineo77-op4buBraids are for any hair type y’all act like it’s made for black hair.. it was done in ancient times please.
I’ll say it once and I say it again! A good braider will know how to snatch your hair without hurting you. Ain’t no doubt about it.
yes but not all kinds of briads are meant for every texture. they will cause breakage and matting.
@@shanel2011not true.
@@YTDBD00 try your luck 🫶🏽🫶🏽
@@shanel2011I did and it's false. It all depends on the handling. If you purposely braid tight, anyone will lose hair regardless of what hair type you have. That's why almost every colored woman and men that does "protective hairstyles" have major hair lose.
@@ashash1338 and that’s why i said certain braid STYLES are not meant for certain hair types. really small knotless braids cause too much hair build and up and shedding and this usually gets matted in low density hair. Look it up. Look around. Plenty of proof. Styles like this can be recreated with less tension but that can’t be said for EVERY style. All depending on scalp sensitivity and hair density.
That because you are a decent person. If your laughing at a child's pain there is something wrong with you! You want to prove a point do it with an adult that can defend themselves. Also, if those ppl are hairstylest and doing it for the money, say goodbye to your client! 🙁
Thank you. Just very sad all around I could cry for those girls 🥺😞
Frr 😢
Why would you cry for them it's a hair style you wanted, don't complain when it hurts hell id laugh too 😆 you asked for it you got it
@brittjohnson7908 It doesn’t have to hurt. That’s the thing. I’ve done it numerous times and it never hurts them. Also, the comments were completely different than they would have been had the girl been a little black girl.. that’s sad.
@@brittjohnson7908 still it's not funny watching someone go through pain while you just sit back on your couch laughing about it
One of my friends braided my hair at a party. She said she’d never braided “white” hair before and thought it would be fun. We were drinking, laughing and having a good time. She did great! She never once made my scalp hurt! I’m not tender headed but I feel like even if I was, it shouldn’t hurt! At all!
We don’t care
This was a girl's reaction in the kid's shelter. After she saw my hair was bone straight naturally after it air dried she begged to let her braid it. After she saw how tender headed I was she was beyond excited to "practice braiding straight hair and figuring out how to braid it without hurting your scalp!"
@@RockLee-q1gwhy you being rude she’s just sharing a story
Because she was your friend. These hose get REAL gelly. I bet your friend was pretty and had real hair. If she wasn't she would LOVE to pull your hair out, like the first commenter.
She wasn't braiding tight this child isn't used to this I believe eacaise of it not being done all the time she may be alil tender headed
Some hairdressers think that you have to pull tighter on Caucasian hair in order for the braid to stay in place. In actual reality, you only have to have damp hair, so that it will shrink into a tighter braid. pulling that tight on any hair type will eventually lead the hair loss. I noticed that you use a different technique and that you’re holding the braid with your fingers and they’re trying to use brute force to keep the braid tight.
RIGHT?! Unwashed wet hair on white people will braid easier. All that force is unnecessary 😢
The second lady is jerking it like that because she is trying to hurt the girl. Shes grinning like a maniac the whole time. In the full video she is taunting her the whole time too. She knows damn well it doesnt need to be that tight she is trying to hurt her because she doesnt think white girls should have braids
Yeah, Caucasian hair does many things better when wet.
This is what I think happend to will smith's wife she don't have Alapicia she just wore her braids to tight. Went bald.
Ya, my mama always braided me and my sister's hair damp. Just French braids to keep it tidy and untangled, but I thought that was common knowledge. Doing your hair might not always feel good but it shouldn't be painful. Noone should be enjoying another person's pain.
As a licensed hairstylist, i could NEVER hurt my client!! Hell nah!
I mean getting braids hurt.. it’s the fact that they are clearly causing the pain on purpose.
Okay……?
And it's a child
@@Kingj2real yes i can see that.
Like i said im a hairstylist, im aware of how braiding works and feels.
If you think about it, braiding someone’s hair super tight just because of the color of their skin, is racist.
IKR!!
It certainly is.
Exactly like it's not that big of a deal. Be honored they love your styles 😭😭
Nope.
@@marjoriethomas1681 what?
I think the second one just genuinely wanted to hurt her and make sure she dont get braids again
Nah I tried to do my friends hair once and it was so slippery that I had to do this 😅
@@StormStorm1000girl foh with that victim mentality! You was never a slave and no one alive owned any. NEXT
@@StormStorm1000please stop trying to blame the current folks for what our ancestors went trough. Share the history but move on like the rest have!
@@StormStorm1000okay so you’re 100?
@@StormStorm1000 wow your OLD apparently
Agreeing to braid someone’s hair just to intentionally hurt them to prove a point is evil. They are literal kids
who is purposely hurting these kids?
@@kailaadanaithe bitch yanking the child’s head back by her hair.
@@kailaadanaithe ppl who are braiding
@@boysthatslay : They should stop getting their hair braided.
@@Mineo77-op4bu That’s the parents choice tho why take it out on the poor child
It’s so nice hearing women defend these poor children 😭 like the comments broke my heart, imagine her reading those comments so thank you for being a voice for the little ones ❤
Girl 😂
@@Sungsolo777what’s so funny?
Please say, "stop! You're pulling my hair." I'm so sorry this happened to you.😮
I don’t get what funny or see a problem. Braids hurt. You want them deal with it. just like all the little black kids do. I cried when I got mine done too. I lived
Girl just cause someone had you struggling does not mean that everyone need to go through the same struggle when it's unnesscary. @@doxoxo779
That person who said braid tighter, is sick🤢😡
Fr get a life 😡
Ikr it's disgusting
Getting a laugh from a child showing pain is disgusting. I was braided by a friend's mom when I was maybe 9yo and she immediately reevaluated her method of pulling when she realized my hair was so gentle. I didn't complain because I was just going with it but bless her for treating me with kindness and for not ripping my hair out!
She’s laughing with the parents who are making jokes. Don’t feed into any narrative without audio or full context. The woman is an African braider and most folk are fine in her chair. Some have extremely sensitive scalp like that child. But she was asked if it was ok to keep going, and she said yes. She wanted braids and the braider is trying to do a good job that lasts. Not everything is nefarious, these short clips have people creating vile narratives slandering innocent folk
This is how the average balck grill childhood is. Maybe if ylal didn't didn't to copy black ppl so bad you wouldn't have to learn the hard way. There should be no reason you're getting hairstyles that work better on afro textured hair
@@kaska1123 Yeah I would refuse to keep braiding if I saw a child in that much pain while branding her hair. Don't care what the mom says.
thats unhealed pain, bc they feel they had to endure pain, they enjoy watching others go through the same
@kaska1123 but you also assumed that the comment is talking about the braided. She very well could've been talking about the comments.
My elderly (white) mother in law was in the hospital for a long time and struggled with bed head, painful knots, and brushing. It embarrassed her, the way it looked. Her nurse (Jamaican) asked if she could braid her hair. It helped a lot and my mother in law felt beautiful. I asked if it hurt and she said “no, it felt loving.” ❤
When my sister was dying a braided her hair as well . When someone is bedridden it’s painful for it to get tangled.
When I was in the hospital with GBS, my sweet husband combed and braided my hair. One single braid down the back of my neck. Saved my hair.
All such sweet stories .
This is so sweet ❤
My Grandaughter who is non black gets her hair braided from a black hairdresser and my Granddaughter LOVES HER!!!! She is so good with my baby girl I LOVE AND TRUST HER WITH MY REASON FOR BREATHING!!❤❤❤ Real hairdressers don't do this!!!
Thank you so much for saying this! My mixed daughter used to get teased about being tender-headed, until I took her somewhere else. Now she gets to feel as beautiful as she is and has other women treat her as such! ❤❤❤
You are the best mom ever.
Any more questions?
@@Ave_Satana666 actually… she’s spent so much time using a hair straightener and dye that her hair is significantly damaged. I’ve never treated my hair so when she’s asking me how to fix it, I don’t know what to say. I advised her to lay off the styling for a bit and use some leave in conditioners, but I don’t even know if I’m right. Any advice? Genuinely.
@@SarahPriceMoore legit it got me through my sat them dumb asses think I'm the next Albert Einstein I'm bout to go to yale. Who gives a fuck about a ox ford comma? Me. Lmao.
@@SarahPriceMoore bro I thought my life was over then a.i dropped an now I'm bout to go to yale shits like a movie. But ion got no romantic love interest shits rough fr. Gotta be a Adam Sandler movie. Fr.
Iam white, with unruly thick hair and over sixty, have always wanted my hair braided ( to tame it ) . It has always fascinated me how talented you all our with your hair and I enjoy watching your videos on UA-cam . I was hopeless braiding my daughters hair . I did guess some children found the experience painful but the end result was beautiful and amazing.
"Braid tighter" is absolutely insane!
People are sick.
I think it was funny llol
Girl you stupid why in the hell tell them to braid tighter now what if they braid your hair tight then what you so stupid
It was hilarious 😂😂I was in the live
@@arijj8629 me tooooo ctfu😭😭💀💀
oh my god this makes me so sad. these poor kids just wanted to look cute and theyre being tortured and mocked... anyone who laughs at these kids in pain are disgusting and seriously need to stay away from any other humans because you cannot laugh at any kids in pain no matter what and still say you're not an absolute danger to society. idc what u believe or what u think but u are not human if u watch these kids cry and turn red with pain and tell them to suck it up, laugh or even tell the braiders to go harder
Yes definitely have to be a sick individual to wish harm on someone and to laugh at their pain 🥺 especially kids ☹️🙏🏾❤️❤️
@@djnkazI don't get it why they are so rude.
What's wrong with white girl having braids.
Braids are not race thing everybody use them.
Are they intentionally trying to hurt that girl.
Having 2 See her pale ass raw scalp is not cute 💀
lmao oh well dont get briads
@@Calistaaaaaaaababylmao well dont be racist to white people
Ppl think that you have to braid tight for it to hold up but you dont. And the ppl that have been getting their hair braided for years and say "you have to just take the pain" are same ones walking around without an edge to be found on their head.
Yea that’s true… braiding too tightly is DEF what leads to alopecia 😩😞😞😞
frfr
Lies I have all my hair and I still have a sensitive scalp that hurts when I get it braided
@@TyraBanks-gn4wf where is the lie?
Good thing you clowns don’t own businesses that do this then failure
BRO, THE BABIES FACE JUST MELTS MY HEART!!!!
I went to a Jamaican place my friend told me about . The lady was mad like she was going back and forth with the owner that she didn’t wanna do my hair I could tell by her body language. And when she was doing my hair she was literally pulling my hair out I wanted to leave but they were like we will take the money now and she let me know that she wouldn’t give me the money back if I changed my mind . It was horrible
Oh wow 😮 that’s so sad like why didn’t she just refuse u if it was that serious smh people can be so cruel it’s horrible.
I would be like uh fucka you.....bye
You should've left
I remember very vividly the day that sent me into a spiral of hating my hair which is 3a it was short and a boy at school had stuck gum in it and instead of cutting all my hair really short or one strand being really short my mom decided her and my granny would take me to a salon and the woman there was told what my mom wanted to even my hair and to get rid of it right.. well when she told my granny she'll go grab the money she forgot it in the car the woman was detangled my hair from the scalp down yanking at it and called me nappy headed and that my mom must have just neglected me first she didn't trim the gum she ruined my hair on purpose second she just insulted me as a child for my curls and third she threatened how she should have just called cps for how neglectful my mom was of my hair like she didn't bring me to a salon to fix the issue and didn't wanna tangle the gum worse I'm there. That woman should have known seeing she herself had a fro that hair isn't just unkept cause it's short and curly and to not belittle a little girl over hair texture! Took so many years but I love my hair now btw.@@djnkaz
My friend is a born and raised Jamaican from Jamaica and she doesn’t care one bit about who or why wants braids lol I respect that people have different opinions but taking offence to these things is mostly a North American thing I’m told.
That's very sad to see. But I love that you're so careful with everyone's hair.
Thank you soooo much beautiful 🥹🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@djnkaz I was coming here to say the same thing! It's hard to see a professional do somebody like this and the 2nd lady had to have been trying to hurt that girl. It doesn't need to be that tight white ppl have different hair there isn't no give or curl to have to work out like that so all that pressure is just straight on the scalp and is serving no real purpose and if she is doing everybody hair like that then none of her clients have a single edge, they got that hair line receding on every client. I ain't never seen nobody have to put their back into a set of braids like that... but anyway I'm just glad to hear fm a professional professional that would treat any & everyone that sat in her seat with kindness and respect. Thank you so much for showing that!❤
@@djnkazI'm surprised you're shocked. Black hairstylists have been doing this forever to white girls. I'm mixed race, black grandad, but I'm super pale, so because I looked white with frizzy hair they'd treat me like crap. A LOT of little girls get their hair braided while on holiday because its easier to maintain with all the swimming in pools and the salt water ocean, but for some reason only black people can have braids and they used it to torture little girls, make it as miserable as they can as tight as they can and as PAINFUL as they possibly can. Most of the ones who do this nonsense are jealous and extremely racist. And openly say racist sh!t while doing it. And then they play victim when called out. It's EVIL. And the comments show how OPENLY racist the black community is. They're all telling these stylists to do even worse and make them regret ever wanting braids and make it so bad they'll NEVER get it done again. Imagine if white stylist's were screwing over black women and little girls just for wanting blonde and straight hair, there would be riots in the streets and their lives would be in danger! I had my hair braided so badly just like the second one and my mother wasn't willing to take it out straight away, she thought I was being oversensitive. I was in so much agony I barely slept and the next morning and I woke up sobbing and an absolute MESS. the front of my hair was all snapped away and it was so tight I had literal SCABS ALL OVER my skull. It was the worst headache I'd ever had. The damage took WEEKS to heal and my hair took YEARS to fix. And the front has always been super brittle since and never fixed itself. It's been 20 years. This is straight up child abuse and a violent assault. These women KNOW what they're doing and are PURPOSELY trying to hurt little girls because they're white. They're purposely injuring them and trying to destroy their hair. Which is so stupid because all they're doing is costing themselves money. Because these mothers will warn EVERYONE they know that you're a psycho and NEVER go to you. Nobody hates on black hair more than black people. But yet they blame it entirely on white women and are extremely bitter and jealous. I went to a black stylist as an adult, wanted to support a new business that had just opened, and she tried to destroy my hair. Oh and my nails. This ISN'T just braiding. They're doing it across the board. But it's racist to call it out. So it's ignored and keeps happening. Personally I'm sick of it and wouldn't risk myself again. My best friend had her wedding ruined after a black hairstylist PURPOSELY sewed in her hair extensions FAR too tightly and OBVIOUSLY she couldn't take them out and have it redone in time. So she spent her wedding crying in agony and her honeymoon in agony with scabs and ripped out chunks of hair. She was marrying an African guy and they REALLY didn't like that. They kept making snide comments the entire time about black men daring to marry white women. They ripped apart everything about her. After all his African female relatives saw her and the damage on her wedding day they were LIVID. Because THEY had recommended this place. They didn't even consider they'd treat her differently. They all went over to the salon the day after the wedding and kicked up a HUGE fuss. They got her money back along with the cost of having it undone. They're a huge influence in their community and let's just say the salon no longer had many customers left. It was shut down under 3 months later. Since then they do her hair if she wants extensions in. Most of the stylist's just seem jealous and bitter. They hate their hair and hate that you have something they want. So they try destroying it purposely. I know people who were kids in the 2000s who have PERMANENT bald patches in their hair BECAUSE of BRAID'S! I know girls who had so much damage and literal RIPS in their SCALP from the assault that had to have ALL of their hair SHAVED OFF to treat it! Some of these "women" are absolute RACIST MONSTERS. Complete and utter animals using their skill to abuse innocent children because of their skin colour. Something they have ZERO control over. I have frizzy hair and I really could have done with their help because white stylist's only see me as white and don't understand that my hair ISN'T as white. 😂 They never injured me and I always left looking great. But I'd love to have had help on how to actually care for my natural curls. Instead I just always do a beach wave blow out. 😂 Black people complain that their businesses feel limited to the black community, which obviously limits success. BUT then they also whine if white people support them. So WHAT do you want!?! ☠️🤡☠️🤦♀️🙅🤷♀️🤣 Black people like to monopolise racism and claim that they're the only ones who can suffer it but in reality they're the ONLY ONES still being OPENLY racist. My black African grandfather married my white Irish grandmother and black guys killed HER for marrying a black man and daring to have children. I've genuinely never actually heard anything racist from my white family. But I HAVE heard LOTS of racism from blacks and poc. And I HAVE suffered from the physical abuses of racist blacks and poc. Because I'm too white. While they call Megan markles kids black... ☠️🤡☠️🤦♀️🤯🤷♀️🤣
Can you please trademark a t-shirt that says "y'all need to be better people and try again, bye!" I will definitely wear it everywhere!
I’m digging that 😍🤭🥰
@@djnkaz LOL for real for real just let me know and I will buy it 💖
THE LAST ONE SEEMED ON PURPOSE 😭
lol good
Thank you! Only a true professional knows how much tension all type hair need for a beautiful braided hair without hurting the client.
Or y’all need to
Understand that certainly braids are not meant for y’all. And instead
Of feeling entitled to people culture, and wanna call out racism when the reason comes out. Like what’s not hard for yall to understand? CERTAIN BRAIDS ARE NOT MENT FOR YALL HAIE TEXURE, no one trying to hurt these kids.
@@Hellolock A very asinine remark to make. "Culture" oh please nothing belongs to a certain race, and there is no racism in my comment. Even if those were white ladies braiding them babies hair I'd say the same thing. This has nothing to do with culture or race it has everything to do with how experienced the stylist are in their work. At least learn the historical origin of some of these braids name before you open your trap, cuz you sound uneducated and naive.
@@Hellolock save yourself the bs. You sound naive and uneducated.
@@Hellolocklol. There are several white and Asian cultures that have worn tight braids for centuries. You’re just shit at braiding and don’t know how to do them on other kinds of hair besides your own
@@Hellolock your lack of knowledge in braids and how to deliver satisfactory results has nothing to do with hair texture. Rather its Box, Cornrows, Milkmaid or Dutch. I've seen it done on all hair type. So rather then word vomiting blanket statement that not all can wear a certain braid I'd advise you to up your game and sharpen your technique. You sound stupid with your culture appropriate signaling mambo jumbo.
“Yall need to be better people and try again BYE” is pure gold
❤ fr! Be better. Do better ❤
Oh i died at it 😂😂 great and gave me a good chuckle
2nd lil girl was a soldier, she tried so hard not to cry🙏🏾😭
😂😂
Realll😂❤
Yeah and you would think that people would respect that she puts her life in danger for Americans. We can't even show her respect instead we purposely pull her hair with a smile on your face. Really people do better.
@@TinaCraft-hc9qsI’m sorry but who the hell is putting their life in danger
As a black girl with family who suffers from hair loss because of this I learned as I got older that braids shouldn’t hurt
The second girl was being put through that pain on purpose.
I agree with what u are saying.
Me too whenever I braid a nonblack person’s hair they always praise me for the fact that it didn’t hurt and I tell them “If it hurts then the braider just doesn’t like you.”
@@hellokenize7019you sound like a broken record repeating the same bs we’ve heard over and over by everyone who’s undereducated lol.
@@hellokenize7019didn't ask.
@@hellokenize7019 that doesn’t mean braiding has to hurt darling 😄
I’ve been getting my hair braided all of my life. That’s 44yrs. There has never been a time when it didn’t hurt. Some people are just tender headed, my daughter is the same. Even when it doesn’t hurt as bad, my scalp turns red and literally radiates heats.
@@Msd4-13 That has nothing to do with my comment. Yes some people are tender headed however if I’m braiding someone’s hair and they tell me “wow this is the first time I’ve ever braided my hair and there’s no pain” that means something.
That second lady is intentionally hurting that girl.
@@kyleelovesyoutubee Yes she is. Coming from experience it is immediately obvious Caucasian hair doesn’t stretch and have curl retention. Why would anyone be pulling it that tight ??
Idk.. she didn’t have to snatch down on her hair like that.. I braid a many of heads and never have to do anything of the sort.. seems intentional and unnecessary 🤷🏾♀️ if not then she should retire.
She never thought she would get an opportunity to rip and pull and tug on a white girls hair & probably getting paid to do so. She took advantage of her situation. It’s so obvious after just now watching the whole video.
@GhettoBaebee someone who speaks another language and not from where we are from she's not intentionally doing that. We have to remember we are all raised differently and raised in different timelines
The second one looks likes an African lady who for one already braids tight af for no fkn reason. I couldn't imagine... but yea ppl are disgusting...
I love what you said. "Be better people and try again" seriously thats my new motto
Let's put it on a shirt!
@@ninarodriguez6158 I would wear that shirt
Bro said “BRAID TIGHTER”😭
I’ve had black girls braid my hair and it never hurt, it actually felt good. One time when it was too tight at the end my friend said to me “you need to tell me if it hurts! It’s not supposed to cause PAIN” nothing but respect for people who can braid because I cannot even do a french braid. I don’t understand why these woman are trying to hurt these little girls, their mommas money is just as green as everyone else’s and spends the same. Wouldn’t you want them to come back??
These women are not trying to hurt these girls. Y’all wonder why we don’t want y’all to wear our cultural braids. She’s braiding hair like how your supposed to, their hair can’t handle the braids. Simple as that. Y’all need to stop trying to be victims of shit that doesn’t happen
The braiders in the video are Africans and trust me they braid tight as hell!! It’s because they have really good grip. Ive got my hair braided by African Americans and it doesn’t hurt that much. But gurllll, the Africans was braiding my scalp inn!! The style lasted linger that way but to me it isn’t healthy. Also I would like to assume that bc most African Americans do not like white people wearing braid styles like this, they probably refuse to do their hair where as Africans do nit see a problem with it 🤷🏽♀️
Sry for paragraph
I think they're kinda racist? Idk
I had my hair done twice as a child and the babysitter hit me when I moved and they were so tight and it hurt so bad, my mom had to undo them and my aunt did one time and said I looked like a poodle.
I’ll never forget when I was 14, I paid a girl to do two braids and she hocked up and spit in my hair while doing it, I jumped up and it was on!!! After that I have only had people who I trust mess with my hair or my childrens hair. Ish be wild! Treat people better!
Naw that’s vile!!! Oh my god I’m so sorry you experienced that she don’t deserve to be in a position touching peoples hair or people at all being unstable like that
That’s weird 🙁 disgusting experience 🤢
I'm so sorry that happened to you.
We were in a temporary group home housing, I have always been the “Gothic Punk Rock” aesthetic so I was an outcast, a few girls called me a “Freak”, but when she offered to fix my two French braids I thought we were good & I even gave her $10! I sat down and she sat in a chair above me, we were both from Philadelphia and I thought we were getting along and I heard her and felt it🤢 I jumped up and at first I was shook… But I was No Punk and we fought….. I was so embarrassed. And grossed out. I have curly hair and I remembered having to wash my hair and not having curl cream or leave in conditioner so it was frizzy all week until I was approved to go home with my dad….. I’m 37 now, and that has always stuck with me! I am weird about who I let do my hair, and I tell my kids the same thing! I am not sure why anyone would want to hurt someone else, or embarrass another person, Why can’t we treat people as individuals, treat them the way they treat you?! Bless yous❤️
@@coliedeekenzoyou have an amazing way with words. I enjoyed reading your comment.
I'm sorry that happened to u. Yes, that was vile.
It’s crazy how people think this is an only black people culture. When White Vikings back then wore braids 💀
I’m not saying like it’s a bad thing. Everyone should be able to wear any hair styles!
I legit got braids in Jamaica to keep my hair from getting tangled and destroyed from salt water, as I struggled to remember to comb it. Kept my hair off my neck too.
The lady never hurt my scalp, never tugged beyond what was needed and was the sweetest woman ever. These women scare me
Then you are lucky but the most hairdressers are NOT used to white peoples straight hair.
When curly hair is being braided it needs to EXTRA EXTRA tight or else it will start to frizz after a few days.
Yall are blaming these braiders but know nothing about black hair bro i'm so tired of this shit.
And the second Lady asked the child in the i
live if she wanted to stop but she said no.
Culture vulture
They are evil
@@tiffany8946 They are not evil you just dont have any context .
@@levl0p285the second woman is hurting that girl on purpose. There is absolutely no reason for her to be pulling that hard. She is hurting that child on purpose and she is cruel
I used to be friends with a lady who did braids and she asked me to come over to help with her newborn while she was dealing with a client. I did this pretty often since she didn’t really have anyone else to help her out and y’all know these hairstyles can take awhile to do. My friend had this poor lady in tears, bawling her eyes out while getting her hair done in box braids. I’d watched her do hair long enough to know something was off because I’d never seen her make a woman cry like that before. After that lady left, I asked my friend what was up because it just felt too weird not to say something. Her response was just “no offense but I’m sick of you white women taking our hairstyles”. That right there told me she was doing it on purpose, purposely hurting this poor woman because she was white and getting what my friend considered a poc ONLY hairstyle. Yet, she didn’t have a problem taking her money.
Holy hell!! Not cool!!
hope you told her to eff herself & never saw her again. if not, you're a part of the problem.
I hope you never watched her kid again!
I hope you aren't her friend anymore, and frankly, I'd tell people not to go to her. Clearly she will hurt someone. Hopefully that child won't grow up with the same hatred.
Bro what? How are white people taking black styles and black people didn't even make braids
I had my hair braided at a cosmetology school, and the students did a great job--with NO pain.
That means they either did ur hair loose asf, ur not tender headed or it could’ve been the type of braids u got
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They didnt do it right then
That first looked like she was just trying to do a good, neat job. If she was hurting the girl, it wasn't on purpose.
I agree
Nah some people just enjoy hurting kids, anyone who openly says something like that should be jailed
This here ↑
People so damaged they can't even have empathy for CHILDREN! SMH
This is what’s scary
Or just jaded
That’s sooo true!!!!
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Not right, but whos fault is that?
Yea it's sad fr😢😢
As someone who is white but does have curly hair imagine some kids wanted their hair braided because they have curly hair and then they're hair gets treated like this. I couldn't imagine how much that would hurt like it's not always the hair type sometimes it's the person handling the clients hair
Edit: also i have a kinda coily curly hair type btw
Beauty is pain this is what us sistas go through to look beautiful plus we're used to it we've been getting out hair braided since babies
@@kanyegang2810stop acting like you're special. Different textures of hair require different tension. Don't be obtuse.
@@kanyegang2810yall hair is tough like sheep hair, white girls got that soft hair
@@Real_Life_Is_More_Importantfrrr
@@JustSendMeLocationOur hair is not even tough we are just used to the torture
Braiding hair tight isn't braiding hair. I've been braiding both types of hair for years including toddlers with out all of that. Some people have sensitive scalp and some are scared. Put people at ease. If it's tight ease up. You have to check in to make sure they're comfortable. Hair could you neat without being to uncomfortable to have in.
I had braids done in ethiopia, it didn't hurt at all... It just took like 4 hours with 3 ladies and 2 bunches of extra hair. The braids were perfect for 4 to 6 weeks. No headache, no hairloss. ❤
En faite ce n'est pas tout le monde, moi je suis allée me coiffer chez une dame africaine et j'avais demandé de pas serrer les tresse et elle a fait tout le contraire sur mes cheveux 😭😭😭😭, du coup je suis ressorti avec une tête avec des tresse trop serrer et quand je lui est dit ça elle m'a dit qu'elle ne serrais pas 😭😭😭😭, Et bien sûr je suis aussi une noir mais des Antilles.
My mom sent me to my neighbor’s house to do my hair, and I am just wavy. This woman pulled my hair so hard I was practically in tears, and I was about 8 at the time. I had to ask for pain meds when I got back to the house because I was in so much pain. And she didn’t even braid my hair; she was just pulling my hair so hard. Literally. Stop being tough on people’s hair no matter the texture. Gotta be gentle. So true. I agree with you.
Gentle No matter what texture? Not possible with my 4c but thanks for the advice 😂
@@doxoxo779 As in it hurts to brush your hair?
@@lethalprincess2087yes bro my whole scalp be lifting with my hair 😂
I hate to say this but in my own experience most black women that have braided my hair have been so rough that they were actually pulling out hair. I finally found a braided that was good with braiding my hair even though I am a Latina. And this woman told me that they were doing it in purpose because they didn’t want me to have the braids in my hair and hoped that I’d take it out if it hurt too bad and wouldn’t come back
That’s just so silly to me cuz why even do it in the first place if you don’t want them to have it smh 🙄 people can be so horrible it’s sad 😒 ❤️❤️❤️
I am getting my hair braided soon. Idk where to find someone who doesn’t pull. Even my mom worked rough with my hair
They lies yall tell😂 If you love our culture so much, you would know alot of black people braid tight. It's not secret admosity.
or maybe dont get braids girl 😭😭💀
@@arijj8629
But do yall understand in the second clip that women is dead ahh laughing shes doing that on purpose thats some bs that us showing some racism 😢
I’ve gotten my hair braided and it didn’t hurt at all and I was there for hours!! The only thing that hurt was my ass😂😂
👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 as it should be 🥹
I’m white, but I remember I would sometimes get my hair braided while on vacation. One when I was on a trip I met a girl, she had braids (she was black) and we became best friends for the trip, and I wanted to go get my hair braided to match. It was so much fun we walked around like we were so cool with our matching braids.
And I’ve gotten my hair braided multiple times when I was a smaller child and it never hurt even when I kept them in for like 2 weeks.
I like that y’all flex culture appropriation. Yall want to be included in everything we got, but can’t do the same when it’s yall turn.
@@HellolockYou need help, like actually need help. You need to seek Jesus and have him remove all the hatred from your heart. Cultures are meant to be APPRECIATED just like this woman was saying, she was appreciating her braids and wanted some as well. You’re very sick and seem to have a victim complex. Seek Jesus, AMEN 🙏
@@HellolockWay to be racist. Braids don’t belong to JUST YOU they belong to everyone. You also missed that they became FRIENDS and enjoyed the matching braids.
@@JustaTadmentallyunwell. no one was racist, y’all need to stop throwing that word around when yall get yall feelings hurt. Yall are not oppressed, and we do own our cultural hairstyles. Braids was created by Africans, I also never said I won all braids. Yall need to stop acting dense, and stop acting like box braids and any other AA/African braids doesn’t belong to us. Yall love to claim everything so let us have our culture without yall always feeling entitled to it.
@@Hellolock broskie I was 7 years old I wasn’t thinking of culture or race. I just saw pretty hair and wanted to match with a friend
My lil cousin had her hair done by one of these ladies and ANOTHER braider ran up on them and said get your devil finger off that child hair. Literally smacked her hands away from my cousin's head, chased her off and took over for free. Said some of the aunties at the beach doing braids would purposefully braid the lil white girls heads so tight that it scalped them or theire scalps would swell so bad it would almost swallow the braids. They ask and make aure the lil kid is going home in a day or two so nothing will be done about it.
She got a juicy tip from my uncle of course. Was just shocked that someone would that on purpose
omg that's horrible why would they even do that to kids???
And then those same people love to use these lies to cover their own abusive/hateful/racist behavior
@@tad4364 yeah and I hate it when people do that. Like NOTHING excuses abusive behavior
Thank you Cosmologist right here 🙋♀️ braids shouldn't be that painful. If so the person braiding your hair don't know what they are doing. And just because their braids are pretty don't mean they know how to braid. Because 1. If it's this painful that means they're pulling your hair 2. Your hair coming out with the braid. Edges in particular 🤦♀️
Racist for no reason. They act like it was African culture only and no one else can appreciate the creativity and beauty part of those cultures
Edit: not reading through all the replies on here anymore because I don't have the time to, finals is coming up and I have a ton of work to do
Edit #2: I read this back and it sounds racist af lmao, let me clarify on this, when I stated "they act like its African culture only" I mean there are a bunch of people who can have the hairstyle who aren't specifically part of that culture, (I didn't want to say its black culture so I said African but that mightve sounded more racist sorry yall)
4 months laters- I find this video again
When you search nordic braids it is literally this
@@Cat-Tastrophe2 I like your pfp
@@I_LoveHorses55 tyy, I found a random cat on google because it was cute
I remember seeing a video of a white girl getting braids for cheer and ppl were saying it was karma for culturally appropriating "black ppl hair"..., it was DUTCH brains...
@@Cat-Tastrophe2I don't get it why they are so rude.
What's wrong with white girl having braids.
Braids are not race thing everybody use them.
Are they intentionally trying to hurt that girl.
Thank you sister for being brave enough to call out wrong! Their racism is stupid because they ruined a whole client pool! Clients are money and efforts of mouth and the best look gets your client book filled!!? What's the point?
Maybe WP should stop getting their hair braided like BP then. Their hair is too thin.
@@Mineo77-op4buWow...just, wow. All a person has to do is wet the hair. COMMON SENSE GOES A LONG WAY.
IF YOU DO NOT LOVE WHITE WOMEN (OR CHILDREN) YOU ARE NOT A CHILD OF ADONAI THE FATHER.
YOU WILL NOT ENTER THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN.
MATTHEW 3:2
@@Mineo77-op4bu Or they can do whatever the hell they want with their hair, no? I dont see BP stopping perms and silk presses to get straight hair despite all the damage. Just stop it.
@@Savedbygracethroughfaith_7 : And how are Blk braiders supposed to know that, genius, as they don't have experience working with Caucasian hair? USE SOME COMMON SENSE.
We as Black, African & Caribbean people need to DECIDE to do the right things. For God is watching & karma comes back full force!! Never have I seen good braiders do this. Good braiders can braid their OWN hair and others without pain!! And to intentionally hurt a child of ANY race is a criminal act. Me and others have braided hair of Black, White, Asian, Indian and mixed with no issues. Spritz the straight hair with water to keep it tidy. Curly hair I like to braid without the extension--only natural hair. It grows faster and the fake hair will not damage the natural curls. Ask any Black man who gets his hair braided or locs. His braider is not rough and does not pull as she braids.
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I'm sure those being malicious are AA or others born in America who have adopted the ridiculous mindset many have.
That’s what they get for trying to get a style for black people
Well said. It was definitely on purpose.
@@Brooklynlife1000it isnt cuz if she dont braid like that it will come lose
Please speak up if they are braiding too tight. My cousin braided my hair once. She was very heavy handed. I told her 3 times that she was braiding too tight. I kindly said thank you, and got out of there with one half braid done.
You are right. Expose these devilish behavior. People needs to be kinder to each other.
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First girl trying to be tuff so she didn't seem rude. Thank you so much for making the correct point!! ❤
Who allows ANYONE to hurt their child like that?! Insanity!
Idk about african gair, but most other hair can't take that level of tightness... there's a reason ballet dancers sometimes start going bald due to how tightly they tie their hair
African braiders don’t play 😭 got my hair snatched a few years ago
🤣🤭🥰 they don’t play I can agree but jeez 😖
Faxx 😂😂 And she's an underhanded braider too? There isn't any peace for anyone getting their hair done in that chair
@@jaylynjohnson2899I PEEPED THATTT
Braiding should be love. I was the only white girl on my track team and was so grateful my teammates braided my hair cause they wanted me to feel cared for and belonging. I learned that day how important, loving and spiritually generous braiding should be. ❤
I learned how to braid at a Renaissance fair. At the fairs they braid so many different styles and textures of hair. They also braid on adults and children. The leader of this group uses and teaches a method of braiding that puts the tension on the hair and not on the scalp… it was a completely painless experience for myself and every single person sitting in the tent. I really think it’s a technique thing. People need to stop pitting themselves against each other over braids. Braids have been worn by humans for thousands of years across all different cultures. Intentionally making a kid suffer or getting joy out of them suffering because somebody’s pulling their hair is honestly rude and suspect af… some of y’all should really reevaluate yourselves
I honestly believe that so many black women suffer from alopecia from wearing tight braids and weave over the years.
That first baby is in so much pain but she’s trying to be so strong. The second woman was intentionally pulling tightly but while the first one doesn’t look to be doing it intentionally, that little girl’s face was all the proof she needed to know she was being too damn heavy handed.
First one doesn't look like its tight
I feel so bad for these poor girls especially the 2nd one 😢
nobody cares
@@melanin_666calm down, no one asked
@@melanin_666maybe you don’t , but you should . You wouldn’t like it if someone was intentionally hurting you while doing your hair. It’s wrong
I was in pageants as a small tot.
My mom got me the sew ins because I liked to wear the long hair after the whole thing was over for awhile. Felt like a queen.
The artist/braider who worked on me was an angel. She always asked me if I was comfy and brought me candy sometimes. I still work with her, beautiful lady and she can turn out some hair. No matter the hair texture, she can do it.
It's not even my hair being braided, and it makes my head hurt, watching this lady pull and tug on that little girl's hair to braid it. While tears are running down her face. That's cruel
The media says this is not only okay- that the little girl deserves it because of her skin color. When I was a kid we were working towards never judging people by their appearance but by their character. Then they did away with all that and said it’s fine bc it’s going in the opposite direction it once did.
How old are you?
When I was growing up everyone had their hair braided. It only seems like it became a problem when COVID hit
Are you generationX ?
@@rosiemarie3417so many problems came with covid 😐
Bro I know it’s crazy who is out here being racist to a little girl. Like what
This reminds me of the time I was one of like. Three white folks working at a daycare that was mostly black and latino, and one of the little girls with 4c hair asked if she could try braiding my (at the time, barely wavy bc I didn’t take care of my curls) hair. She was struggling so hard and when I told her (gently) that she was hurting my head, I remember her stopping and going “why doesn’t it braid right?? The twists don’t stay in!” And I had to explain that her hair was so so so much finer than mine, and her curls are what helped her braids stay in, and that I didn’t have any of that. I think she pouted at me about it 😭
THATS SO WHOLESOME! My gg has 4c hair but I just have some curls and it’s so fun to hear her complain about how slippery my hair is 😂😂
@@Chris-lv5uc Wholesome?
@@CloudHeadycause it’s a little kid finding out about different people 😂 it’s funny and wholesome
@user-ex8xf9fr7u it was literally just a cute story that was similar to the content of the video, but in a much more wholesome context. The little ones came from an area where there just weren’t many white folks living so it’s not like they’d have had much of a chance to try to braid white hair. They were like four. They’re like. Allowed to discover things.
@user-ex8xf9fr7u also how. Is this pick me, woke, racist, or Karen. Like are you just throwing words at the screen. Is it just like. Mind-blowing that I got hired to work for the daycare? Do you think it’s pick me to explain to the girls why their hair can do twists but mine can’t? Is it racist that I realized I wouldn’t be caring for many white kids and so I did some cursory research on types of curly hair while I was at the job? Is it woke to you to let two little girls harmlessly play with my hair while I was supervising their class? Am I a Karen for… fuck I don’t even know man. Telling a cute story, I guess.
You are a tar pit.
My aunt Laurie used to braid my hair.. my cousins are all mixed(white and african) she would braid tight but she absolutely never hurt us. She was such a cool woman. Man, I miss her ❤
"Braid tighter" is disgusting she's just a kid man
I, a mixed black girl, once got braids at a stylist my African dad recommended. I know braids can be tight but the amount of strain on my scalp was insane. When they were taken out, I had so many broken hairs and fall out that when my hair was wetted it matted in the shower and I had to cut my hair to a bob. Refused so cut my hair for years to grow it all back
Damn sista 🥲
A black lady braided my hair once and she was so sweet. My mom was afraid i couldnt handle it but she was very gentle. She put a ton of beads in it for me too. I loved it. Then i went to my daddys for the weekend and he took them all out and i cried.
He should of left them alone. I bet they were beautiful. ❤
@MusaKitty thank you ❤ I certainly thought so.
@@notsorry3631why did he take it all out?
@@CrazyAshleyDollFan he said it was dirty but the reality is that he's a racist
I braid my sons hair like this, he has silky straight blonde hair, he loves it. He asks me to braid his hair. You can get nice, clean, tight enough braids without causing pain. These people are nuts.
If it was a black girl then it will be a whole different thing😭😭😭
The second lady was my mom 😭
Sometimes I felt like she was purposely braiding my hair extremely tight to hurt me. And when I’d tell her, she’d be like “you’re just tender headed. I’m barely touching you” 🥲
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Mine too when I was little. I remember my head would be yanked back like that and my eyes would be pulled squinty
Is she literally your mom or do you mean that she just acts like her.
Why does ur Bio says Gods broken daughter are you disrespecting the Lord?….
im glad stuff like this is being pointed out, i don’t know when it became normalized to just be rude and hate on others but it needs to stop. i hope we can normalize being decent and respectful people to create a better society for future generations. if this behavior doesn’t stop now imagine how it’s gonna be in the future, i don’t want that for my future children 😕
If it hurts, no matter what race you are, leave the chair. Your stylist shouldn't be harming you
I saw NOTHING funny. I don't know Miss Karma but I do know Mr. Payback and I know he comes knocking when least expected.😢
Just for not saying "white people can't get braids." You deserve a follow
That’s you trying to hide the idea of “it’s just hair” it’s not.
Thats you saying that any Black hair stylist would say that.?
@@desukitten8978can you explain what you mean cuz i might be misunderstanding.
When I was around six year old I remember my mom and grandma asking how I wanted my hair done, and I always admired box braids, goddess braids that I’d see on tv. I thought it was so beautiful and intricate. They laughed at me, telling me “that’s only for black people” like ughhhh I knew it was wrong, even at six year old. It breaks my heart when people preach all day about inclusivity yet those are the same people gatekeeping. I always wanted a sister, we could braid each others hair.i got two brothers and that’s okay too.
Cry about it Karen
Well if you want box braids get them, but don’t be surprised if the experience, the end result and the consequences on your hair aren’t what you expect. Also trust me as a black who did get box braids when I was younger they were so painful for me
Box braids can cause damage to all hair types if they are pulled too tightly. In general, people without textured hair (curly) should not used box braids long-term because they cause too much tension for non-texured hair and cause balding and damage the hair. Please. Don't box braid. There are other variations designed for non-textured hair types.
That's really sad they laughed at you, I had a teacher in middle school, white, was the only one to tell me shit when I had box braids, I actually got kicked out of school for those braids, I refused to remove them 😂 I'm too tired to write the whole story, but I did write it on Quora. I would say get those braids, but like the other comment, be aware, ppl don't mind their business and might have something ugly to say, it's weird cause back in 95,96 that wasn't an issue, but now ppl have used social media as a tool to divide, I'd say, you never know anymore.
@@Fressica_Rabbithike it wasn’t a issue back in the day. Because y’all hated it our hair.
The Second Lady is 100% trying to humiliate and hurt that poor kid. Taking your anger and insecurities out on a kid is disgusting
YALL DONT BRAID TIGHT,YO KIDS FOREHEAD WILL BE BIG LIKE JOJO SIWA.
ANYWAY
Jojo'nt do Dr**s or you will turn from 💕🌸🌺 to 🕳️💀🖤 like jojo siwa
The first girl was trying so hard to keep it together 😭😭
Whenever I was a little girl my family took a trip to the Bahamas and a beautiful black woman braided the side of my hair with those kind of braids and at the end would be and she took such good care of me and I can’t wait until I can save up enough money to take a trip there again.❤😊
And just want to add about how beautiful the ocean was with extremely Clearwater and white sand.
A lot of the stylist are mad that it's a white person when white people have had braids forever as well. Someone did this to me once. The best revenge was I never made a peep or made a face. I was grown though. Also... my hair was fine afterwards. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. They obviously think black women with braids are beautiful and just want to do the hairstyle as well. Stop hating embrace people that love you reject the ones that don't. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Especially these types of braids. Of course certain hairstyles are better or worse for certain hair types but braids like these… literally anyone can wear it and it’s beneficial for the hair
EXACTLY! The ppl in the comments need to stop projecting racism onto these kids who are innocent. They saw a style that they thought was pretty & now it’s etched in their brain that someone is punishing them for liking it.. & these same mfs be complaining about how we as black women aren’t seen as desirable, and “nobody likes us,” yet, they sure love to humiliate anybody who DOES like our styles!
I’ll say it since no one ever told you how history plays out, no tf we don’t mayo and the rest of the plain gang out here with braids fire several reasons smh. First of being, it has always been our form hair culture, they stole from us back then as they still do to this day. Referring to Nords and Sweds who were the labor force to our oppression is really sad to give grace to. Second, we can barely where our hair in the schools let alone the work force without it being considered unprofessional while they go around with whole scriptures on they face. Remember that when someone calls u what u are, 🦝
@@rogue5557don’t you think by saying “mayo” and “plain gang” you’re adding to the hate though? It actually is just hair and the culture and history deserves respect but honestly, if you’re mean (racist, actually) like this in USA 2024 then you have personal issues. Get Well Soon!
Honestly as a very light daughter of a black woman. Wear your hair in whatever style you like. Some people wait for an opportunity to hate on white women. Experienced it my whole life
As soon as I saw this vid my anger kicked in I feel disgusted to at that women pulling that poor little girls scalp
FRRRRR!!!! they be like “non black ppl hair gonna fall out because it’s not meant for your hair type”
NAHH B this what y’all are doing to those girls with nothing but hate envy and rage in your hearts.
Right, knowing damn well with that flat iron hissing liiikkeee...😂😂😂
@@NONIMNO😂😂
This has nothing to do with US media or y’all race war. This braider is an African woman in Europe and they are known to do it tightly it has nothing to do with hate or any vile scenario constantly in American minds. They braid for tourists, mostly white, but they just braid how they always braid and they are simply trying to do a job that lasts or they will come back the next day with loose braids. The stylist was laughing because the child's parents were chatting and joking with her. She was the one that asked the child if she wanted to cease the braiding but the girl just wanted braids so asked her to keep going. Stop feeding into narratives based on tiktok clips without context
So it’s only racism because they’re white…..yet it’s not racism for all the millions of black kids who got their hair pulled and braided tightly by other black braiders? This is nothing new. Most black/ African kids have experienced exactly what these young girls went through and even worse…
It’s insane how everyone is so obsessed with race and finding racism…
Finally I’ve found an intelligent and beautiful woman who doesn’t discriminate against white people or any skin color in general ❤these days you can never go without seeing people hate on white people just because of what their ancestors did YEARS ago🤦🏾♀️and the fact that they think that just because they’re black they get to do whatever they want smh🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️thank you again for showing compassion to those who deserve it😊😇❤️( I started a war in my comments💀)
Thank you for the nice compliments 🥹🫶🏾 I definitely believe in doing the right thing no matter what. And I agree, what our ancestors endured was the worse form of hatred one can experience, but no sense in doing what the white ancestors did by taking it out on innocent people who, hopefully, aren’t contributing to the hatred that is racism. Just praying for a better world 😞 🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
@@djnkaz I 100% agree with you, and I also pray for a better world where we can all get along no matter the race🥹🫶🏽❤️❤️❤️
@@djnkaz yeah and as a white girl I can confidentially say in most cases the white ppl who are racist aren't the ones willing or wanting to try or wear braids. So these people really just be hurting allies when they do this🤦♀️ And as a queer woman I like hate how the internet has decided what's best for minorities is to gatekeep our cultures cause obviously the answer to discrimination and segregation is doing it some more🤣 It's good to see people are waking up from all this madness tho because it's just doing more harm then good for all parties involved.
Such a bs and dishonest take that you mix a little half truth in to make your rhetoric seem entirely valid.
@Glasses thank you for adding to the conversation. No one is trying to erase history, we are simply trying to get past it and hopefully make things better. My argument, as mentioned, is the fact that grown adults were laughing at, mocking and asking for the braids to be tighter on the child simply because she is white. Yes, little black girls experience braiders who braid tightly as well but the comments are a complete 180! You have people in the comments going to bat, telling the stylist to stop braiding so tightly standing up for the little black girl. The same people laughing and saying braid tighter in reference to the white girl would be the ones yelling and having a fit if it were a little black girl. That’s all I’m saying.
Thank you for calling them out! I had extensions years ago and the lady braided my hair so tight you could see the rows of scabs in between the braids! I was hardly 18 and in pain for weeks! I had no idea at the time and gave a big tip too! So ty! 👏
See her laughing....have to believe they are pulling her hair intentionally....could it be racism.... torture.... charges of snuse????
People brushed off that I felt bad for that baby girl I said I would take the braids out for her too people were making fun of her
I'm white and my neighbor used to braid mine all the time, I loved it. I was a busy mom and braiding meant I could skip a few days between washes for my super oily hair. She moved and I found another lady willing to braid it for me. She charged me 100 bucks and I had to take them out the same night, and even then I lost a lot of hair. I later found out she said, Bet that white pos won't be back! I honestly think she was pissed I was getting braids
Wow that's terrible. Some people are racist and it's acceptable in some parts of society
It's so disgusting
Good for you
@@g.r.michigan5332 ??
A lot of braiders are heavy handed. Or they believe in tightness = neatness.
I'm tender headed, and it hurts to comb my hair sometimes. Been going to one braider for the past 4 years, and my hair has thrived ever since. No headaches, no tears, no painkillers. Lol
As a black girl, I have trauma from braiding hair so much that I had a small phobia towards hair salons. I had to learn to braid my own hair cause others doing it always put me in pain
@@nickeni3050 So sorry about what you went through 🙏
I completely understand you. I hated hair salons as a kid. The braiders didn't take my pain seriously. So I begged my mum to let me cut off all my hair. She listened. Didn't go to a hair salon after that, up until university🤣
@@MarieAnnAdae Unfortunately I love long hair so through out my highschool till uni, I mostly put it in a bun
You're right about heavy handed braiders. I'm heavy handed as well but I know how to manage my strength.
yk our generation is fucked if ppl laugh ☹️ its genuinely not funny, im brown myself, never had braids, but genuinely please can ppl js grow up? whats so funny abt a girl sweating/crying in pain like srsly mate??
This is absolutely absurd… I used to practice Braids on my best friends hair in middle school and she was white and her shit did not look like that😂😂😂😂😂 n her hair never got matted n fell out💯💯
Yessss!!! Cuz why is that a misconception 🤦🏾♀️
@djnkaz because it has happened it can also happen to black which is why some choose low maintenance styles with or without weaves. It really depends. Not every one has strong hair.
Yeah cuz you weren’t trying to hurt her
@@Iloveamerica465it is because she wasn’t braid tight so many black people get the same redness from Braiders.
Those are babies and they never deserve hate period 😢❤❤❤
I had a roommate from Belize that used to braid my hair when I lived in South Florida. Never once was it uncomfortable. Not once did it hurt. And her braids were super tight.
Elle serrer la tresse mais elle ne tirait pas sur les cheveux comme montre la vidéo là elle tire sur les cheveux, moi je suis aussi une noir qui tresses mais des Antilles Guyane
Oh my gosh wtf is wrong with these people this Is sick