This video really helped me. I’m going through a painful breakup at the moment and now spend most of my free time alone. I work five days a week and my friends are all in relationships, so they spend their weekends with their partners. I had my first Friday night alone in a while and cried my eyes out. Your video has helped me change my way of thinking about being on my own, that I can romanticise the little things. I’m sure my next Friday won’t be as painful
i've spent most of my life alone, and the only things i find worse alone are 1) risky situations (being female and adventurous) 2) nightclubs (because everyone goes in groups of friends so you can't join in; you can dance, but there's no singles to talk to) 3) eating out - go with someone else, you talk a lot and it lasts hours; go alone and you gobble it up in ten minutes, which at eating-out prices is a total waste. Holidays, exhibitions, films etc you get so used to doing what you want to do when you want to do it that you become completely un-pair-able!!! Dreadfully set in your ways! Going on holiday with other people or to museums especially is the worst, or travelling. Also, long term single people tend to study a lot more and be more academic and have more intense areas of interest, eg classical music they'll go to lots of concerts and play an instrument or something; you get a lot more focussed. People in couples or with children will say 'i like films' but they mean they saw Shrek 33 last year, or 'i like classical music' and mean they have a Bach CD, or 'i like cooking' and mean they get takeaway. Don't get me wrong, i'd swap in a minute, but they are so boring to talk to unless you too have grandchildren's birth stories to swap with them. (Men vary less, but men bore me rigid.) You don't have together-fun, but you just don't know what the single-fun is tbh. Cycling for instance, days out - not to kids' places like families or overpriced attractions but really wild or romantic (gothic sense eg castles) or trad (eg gorgeous train journey to quain town) type places. Swimming and sport: i go swimming alone, i used to go to theatre a lot when i lived in london. Everything's an adventure on your own. There's more excitement. It's better for different emotions, not so deep perhaps but more vivid sometimes. Spontaneity: literally say, right i'm going to make up my mind to do something this minute and just do it. Only say no if it's a crap idea. I'm going to go to the gym. For a long walk to that mountain. Cycle to the next town. Buy five random vegetables and make a meal out of them. Buy a manga series part one and read it. Just go. That kind of freedom, you never get again. No waiting for agreement, going 'oh but they won't like it', planning ahead: all gone. Pandemic makes single life more rubbish than it does family or couple, but it's still there.
Having a parter is about sharing your time and life together, but that doesn't mean that you should depend on that person. Take time, that's the only way you can heal your wounds, get to know yourself more, love you own company and then what is meant to be it will be. In my case I stood with my boyfriend for four years, we were going to get married, we had everything planned but one day he told me that he didn't love me and he got tired of me, I guess everything happens for a reason. now Im 29 years old (that happened to me when I was 25) and I feel like that was the best thing that ever happened to me. Im still single, focusing on myself and learning and growing more. Don't worry princess, you are strong, you're going to be just fine!
You make life look so effortless, so simple, and so full of little things that make every day worth of living. Thank you for making me wanna live my life in a better calming way.
I have been through a lot of bad experiences in my life which made me more inclined to spend my time alone with peace. Thought i was the only one who prefers living alone and spending quality time with myself. This video made me believe that i am not the only one who prefers finding joy in her own company!! Thank u so much for making this video. Lots of love from India❤❤❤❤❤
Очень мило!!! Очень душевно!!! Да просто уютно и замечательно. Я смотрютвас перед сном!!! И сплю потом как младенец. Такая спокойная атмосфера!!! Просто супер!!!
несколько дней назад наткнулась на этот чудесный канал и уже не могу перестать смотреть! видео такие спокойные, уютные, теплые - прямо насыщают спокойствием, очень расслабляют. а эти милые котики уже в моем сердечке! 🥰
Love this video! Taking a bath without worrying about the time! The cats patiently waiting for you to come out after your bath is precious! Pizza looked simple and delicious! Thanks for sharing the recipe! Appreciate your videos here in Savannah, GA USA! ❤️🌺🌹
Очаровательные кошки! С ними в доме уютно и весело! Все гонятся за модой и иновацией а у вас атмосферно и самобытно🥰видео наполнены тёплом и уютом! Я подсела на ваши видео❤️
I always have been a “people person” and I hated to be alone. Then Covid hit and forced me to do so. I was so lonely and sad at first, but little by little I started to enjoy my own company and find beauty in it. Your videos make me appreciate it even more. Thank you so much ❤️
Your Vlogs are so awesome, I started remembering to take it slower and put a ritualistic vibe to everything that I do. Just now, I cleaned the entire kitchen and washed the dishes with intent and meditative focus, and it feels great! Greetings from the US.
Today is friday i saw this vd yesterday and i decide to enjoy my friday night like u i tried the pizza and it was so good i like it a lot, thank u for posting this🌼🌼🌼
Dear Choki, your peaceful Homelife reflects such calm also charm: ghee I love your cats ♥️ They are so intelligent 👏i am always interested in your homecooked meals. You are a very wise young lady. .Mary Canada 🇨🇦
I was super anxious and depressed yesterday! Today is Friday and I am gonna do something special for myself ❤️ it’s important to love ourselves no matter what! ❤️
みなさんこんばんは🍊ついに明日は金曜日だ✨
こんばんは！Chokiさん♡
華の金曜日、るんるんです
やっとの金曜日ですね✨
いつも金曜ロードショー何かな?って気にしちゃいます😊
こんばんは🌙*.｡！
早くに見れてめっちゃ嬉しいです！
中間の真っ最中だけど午前中で帰れるので華金です👀
Please Turkish SUB🙏
This video really helped me. I’m going through a painful breakup at the moment and now spend most of my free time alone. I work five days a week and my friends are all in relationships, so they spend their weekends with their partners. I had my first Friday night alone in a while and cried my eyes out. Your video has helped me change my way of thinking about being on my own, that I can romanticise the little things. I’m sure my next Friday won’t be as painful
i've spent most of my life alone, and the only things i find worse alone are 1) risky situations (being female and adventurous) 2) nightclubs (because everyone goes in groups of friends so you can't join in; you can dance, but there's no singles to talk to) 3) eating out - go with someone else, you talk a lot and it lasts hours; go alone and you gobble it up in ten minutes, which at eating-out prices is a total waste. Holidays, exhibitions, films etc you get so used to doing what you want to do when you want to do it that you become completely un-pair-able!!! Dreadfully set in your ways! Going on holiday with other people or to museums especially is the worst, or travelling. Also, long term single people tend to study a lot more and be more academic and have more intense areas of interest, eg classical music they'll go to lots of concerts and play an instrument or something; you get a lot more focussed. People in couples or with children will say 'i like films' but they mean they saw Shrek 33 last year, or 'i like classical music' and mean they have a Bach CD, or 'i like cooking' and mean they get takeaway. Don't get me wrong, i'd swap in a minute, but they are so boring to talk to unless you too have grandchildren's birth stories to swap with them. (Men vary less, but men bore me rigid.) You don't have together-fun, but you just don't know what the single-fun is tbh. Cycling for instance, days out - not to kids' places like families or overpriced attractions but really wild or romantic (gothic sense eg castles) or trad (eg gorgeous train journey to quain town) type places. Swimming and sport: i go swimming alone, i used to go to theatre a lot when i lived in london. Everything's an adventure on your own. There's more excitement. It's better for different emotions, not so deep perhaps but more vivid sometimes. Spontaneity: literally say, right i'm going to make up my mind to do something this minute and just do it. Only say no if it's a crap idea. I'm going to go to the gym. For a long walk to that mountain. Cycle to the next town. Buy five random vegetables and make a meal out of them. Buy a manga series part one and read it. Just go. That kind of freedom, you never get again. No waiting for agreement, going 'oh but they won't like it', planning ahead: all gone. Pandemic makes single life more rubbish than it does family or couple, but it's still there.
Having a parter is about sharing your time and life together, but that doesn't mean that you should depend on that person. Take time, that's the only way you can heal your wounds, get to know yourself more, love you own company and then what is meant to be it will be. In my case I stood with my boyfriend for four years, we were going to get married, we had everything planned but one day he told me that he didn't love me and he got tired of me, I guess everything happens for a reason. now Im 29 years old (that happened to me when I was 25) and I feel like that was the best thing that ever happened to me. Im still single, focusing on myself and learning and growing more. Don't worry princess, you are strong, you're going to be just fine!
Sending you lots of love 💕
Wao great strong women ❤
Are u okay now .....?!
昨日Twitterで
「他人に感謝をしてばかりで誰よりも自分のために頑張ってくれている自分に対する感謝を忘れてしまう」
という言葉を見つけました。
金曜日を1週間頑張って生きた私に感謝をつたえる日にしてみるのもありですね✨
すごくいい言葉ですね
グッときました☺️
あ。それいいですね！
自分のことも大事にしたいよね。
I wish someday I could live alone ✨
Same here
It just such a fascinating thing
Isn't it?
💗🌷
色んなひとの生活風景をUA-camで見られる時代になって、ミニマリストとか1度は憧れちゃったりもするんだけど
ちょきさんの動画に帰ってくると、好きなものに沢山囲まれて過ごす家って心地いいなって思う
人生の半分の25年を摂食障害と戦ってきました。今、何とか回復しています。休職中にchokiさんの動画に出会い、プーさんのトーストやシチューなどをマネして作って、食べることの恐怖を少しずつ取り除くことが出来ました。ありがとうございます。
よく似ています😥
私も回復出来ましたが体重が増えちゃったので運動などで頑張って減らしていこうと思ってます✨
真似て作って幸せな日をたくさん一緒につくりましょうね🥰🥰
わたしも…気づけば人生の半分以上だ。
過の方ですが、チョキさんのように丁寧に作ってみると普通に食べれる自分に会えました🎵
直らなくてもいいから、少しでも症状が落ち着くと嬉しいですよね。
私もです！食に関して雑に扱っていたけど、丁寧に作ったりするうちにちゃんと食べれるようになりました。
💛💛🇲🇦🇲🇦
25年…辛かったな…頑張ったな…敬意に値する
You make life look so effortless, so simple, and so full of little things that make every day worth of living. Thank you for making me wanna live my life in a better calming way.
The cats are waiting for their owner in front of the bath room! It’s so cute🥰
Your videos are such a delight for introverts! So comforting!
I have been through a lot of bad experiences in my life which made me more inclined to spend my time alone with peace. Thought i was the only one who prefers living alone and spending quality time with myself. This video made me believe that i am not the only one who prefers finding joy in her own company!! Thank u so much for making this video. Lots of love from India❤❤❤❤❤
お風呂の前で待ってる猫ちゃん、虫を追いかける猫ちゃん、映画を一緒に見る猫ちゃん、どれも愛おしすぎる
お風呂を待ってる猫ちゃんズ可愛すぎる🥺
So calm! So peaceful! Remember to always appreciate the simple things in life ❤️
Очень мило!!! Очень душевно!!! Да просто уютно и замечательно. Я смотрютвас перед сном!!! И сплю потом как младенец. Такая спокойная атмосфера!!! Просто супер!!!
this is so calming and cozy, it reminds me of how much I love alone time. I want this kind of peace in my life.
Релакс. Просто смотрю, чтобы получить удовольствие от умиротворения в каждой минуте выложенного видео
несколько дней назад наткнулась на этот чудесный канал и уже не могу перестать смотреть! видео такие спокойные, уютные, теплые - прямо насыщают спокойствием, очень расслабляют. а эти милые котики уже в моем сердечке! 🥰
Chokiさん😭全てではなくても動画再投稿してくださりありがとうございます😭本当にありがとうございます。行き詰まった時、癒しが欲しい時、もちろん普段からも楽しませてもらいます😌🤍Chokiさんも猫ちゃん達も体調にお気をつけてください💐
Que mal , tu situación
Yo también la pasó asi
Одиночество в какой-то степени прекрасно и полезно.
Choki,Спасибо за тёплое видео, очень греет душу перед сном.🦊
روسياااااااا
كنسل اعرف انك ما فهمت😂✌
18歳です。一人暮らしを始めて1ヶ月半経ちました。大学で友達が全然出来ない上に1人の夜は寂しくてお母さんに電話したいけど、無理言って自分から決めた一人暮らしなのでまだ耐えようと思ってます。この動画を見てると落ち着きます！ありがとうございます。
大学4年の者ですが、今の新1、2年生の子たちはこの環境の中、ほんとうによく頑張っているなあと見てて思います！😌✨
新しい生活や人間関係をつくることは誰だって馴染むのにエネルギー使いますよね🍀
(ましてや今のせわしない世の中ですし、)
お母さんに電話、全然いいと思いますよ？
ほかにもchokiさんの動画を見ることだったり、好きなことでたくさんエネルギー充電しましょ✌️
いきなり長文失礼しました💭
私も大学の半分は友達できなかったけど、最終的には出会うことができました。
焦らないで大丈夫だし、親は心配してるだろうから、親のためにも電話してあげて欲しいな。
昔の作品がまた見られるようになってる、、、ちょき様、、🥺
いつも私たちを救ってくれてありがとう。
猫ちゃんたちがお風呂の間、扉の前で待ってるの、可愛すぎる🥰
Nothing like a relaxing care free night for yourself. Have a nice week.
Сегодня я почти весь день смотрю ваши видео ✨💞😊
Моя душа теперь спокойнее !!!
Вы помогаете людям своей добротой и искренностью.
Благодарю 💐
いつもより、モフモフの子🐱の登場シーンが多い気がしてなんだか嬉しい☺️
チョキさんの映す日々が本当に素敵で温かくて…こんな生活を送るのが私の将来の夢です！！！
今週もあと1日頑張れそうです✌️
Love this video! Taking a bath without worrying about the time! The cats patiently waiting for you to come out after your bath is precious! Pizza looked simple and delicious! Thanks for sharing the recipe! Appreciate your videos here in Savannah, GA USA! ❤️🌺🌹
ayeee i’m watching from atlanta! nice to see others from georgia that love choki’s vids! 😁
My daily routine is filled with a lot of stress and your videos teach me how to make my life better, thank you, Choki!
Очаровательные кошки! С ними в доме уютно и весело! Все гонятся за модой и иновацией а у вас атмосферно и самобытно🥰видео наполнены тёплом и уютом! Я подсела на ваши видео❤️
前の動画が復活してる…😢😢😢😢嬉しくて泣きそう…
秋冬の動画がたまらなく好きです💕
Very happy because the up was faster, yes I also know that Choki must be busy, thank you for always taking the time for us😊💚🌼
Not alone, with cats🌙✨
Спасибо за теплоту души, мир и покой!!!🌺
I love that your cats are such a big part of your life.
chokiさんが私の1番の癒しです、、🐈
These videos are great. "Ice cream at night tastes even better because of how guilty you feel" I feel so seen! 🤣
I always have been a “people person” and I hated to be alone. Then Covid hit and forced me to do so. I was so lonely and sad at first, but little by little I started to enjoy my own company and find beauty in it. Your videos make me appreciate it even more. Thank you so much ❤️
I started watching Choki's videos when I was lonely . And it really warms your heart💓 .
お風呂場の前で待つ、猫さん達が愛おしい。。
いつも、癒しをありがとうございます😊
I love Friday nights at home in autumn / winter.
quality life makes everything better.
woah the vibes literally changed. i really like this one. it feels more attractive. love you Choki! 🥰
ちょきさんのお部屋に憧れて少しずつ模様替え中です✨
本当に素敵です。
いつも癒しをありがとうございます😊
お風呂から出るのを待ってる猫が、かわいすぎる
本当に素敵な暮らしをされてるな〜
Спасибо Вам за вдохновение!😊 Уютно у вас!🌷
橙色の雰囲気が素敵...
なんて丁寧な暮らし…
I'd wish to live with this vibes so much, this takes out my anxiety, thank you c:
Your Vlogs are so awesome, I started remembering to take it slower and put a ritualistic vibe to everything that I do. Just now, I cleaned the entire kitchen and washed the dishes with intent and meditative focus, and it feels great! Greetings from the US.
Коты просто чудесные и необычные !!!!
You can always make alone times special such enjoyable. ☀️
Seems so peaceful. The kitties are precious. Thank u for sharing!😇
Chokiさん、過去の動画再アップ本当に本当にありがとうございます😭どの時のChokiさんも大好きです。これからも大切に大切にひとつひとつの動画を観ていこうって思います。
Me encanta este video, vivir solo y estar con uno mismo se siente como una paz increíble, obvio aún mas bonito si hay gatos de por medio.
Очень уютная и спокойная атмосфера, что-то родное чувствую
プシュっと缶を開けて飲む、それだけでも週末迎えた喜びに満たされてましたが、フレッシュジュースのカクテル、もう作るしかない❗
ちょきさんはいつも私の精神がやばい時を知ってるの？ってくらい心の支えが欲しいタイミングで動画を出してくれる...
毎回これからも頑張ろうって気持ちにさせてくれます。本当に大好きです。応援してます🌷
chokiさんの動画、ここ1年以上ずっと観てたので消えちゃったの悲しいです、、、。
chokiさんの動画を観て自分に優しく、正直になって勉強がんばって私は今大学生です。毎日楽しいです。
このチャンネルと出逢えて良かった。
本当に。
栗を一生懸命むいている秋の会の動画が好きで何度も見てました。
セカンドチャンネルとかで、再アップしてほしいな…と切に思っています。
再生リストの方に少し過去動画が再アップされてましたよ！！(`;ω;´)栗のやつあった気がします☺︎違かったらすみません🙇♀️
@@まるちゃんはうす-p4y なるほど！ありがとうございます🙏
大好きなクレームブリュレの動画が無いのが悲しすぎますが、、、(´･･`)
動画がこっそり戻ってきていらっしゃる……！！！Chokiさん動画ライフが大復活しました、ありがとうございます😭😭😭😭😭
モノひとつひとつが放つ空気感が好き
結婚したばかりでお料理や整頓、普段の生活を豊かに感じるには何が必要なんだろうと思いながらUA-camを開いていたら、chokiさんの動画に辿り着き気が付けばチャンネル登録をして全ての動画を観ていました⭐️
自然、四季、レトロ、食材、動物を愛して丁寧に接し、自分を大切にされている姿がとても素敵で、観ていると私も自分の生活を大切に出来る様になって来ました。急いでいる時でもchokiさんの動画を観てしまいます！
こんな美しいチャンネルを見つけることが出来て嬉しいです♡chokiさんの言葉は心に響きます、良い事も悪い事もあって人生だけどそれを受け止めた上でどうすれば楽しい毎日を送れるか…そんな事を自分なりに考え見つめ直せる、素晴らしい動画です。これからも応援しておりますので、ご自分のペースで頑張ってくださいね♡楽しみにしています。
Today is friday i saw this vd yesterday and i decide to enjoy my friday night like u i tried the pizza and it was so good i like it a lot, thank u for posting this🌼🌼🌼
Добрый вечер Choki 🤗
Какая же радость смотреть на котиков ,как они ждали вас около ванной😃👍🏼💝🐱
I love Friday night and Saturday Night the most in a week 💙💙
I agree :))
Милое напоминание о том, как как необходимо ценить и проживать каждую секунду своей жизни ..
chokiさんの動画、落ち着いた雰囲気ですごく好きです！夜見ると穏やかな気持ちで眠りにつけます……😴
chokiさんの料理やねこちゃん、花…撮るもの全てが素敵すぎて、、写真集とかレシピ本とかあったら欲しいくらい😂💕
أحب هذا النوع من الفيديوهات لأنها تشعرني بالهدوء والسلام 🌱🌷 شكراً لك.
واخيرا تعليق عربي 🤩😍
ピザの具がポンポン増える編集可愛い🧡
ずっと待ってました🥺
嬉しい
動画があがってるのを知った瞬間
気持ちが一気に明るくなります🥲
文字を通してChokiさんの気持ちが知れて、話をしてる気分になれて嬉しいです☺︎
動画から温もりが伝わってきます
That 🦐 & avocado pizza looks so delicious!! I like how you added mayo with Ketchup for the pizza sauce. Your videos are very calming and relaxing ❤️
大好きなチョキさんが大好きなコナンの映画観てくれてるのが凄く嬉しい😊✨
お風呂を待つニャンコにチョキさんへの愛を感じたけど
それよりチョキのお尻でカミフミしてるニャンコを日常として受け入れてるチョキ✨さんのニャンコへの愛も感じた😂
とにかく癒やされた🍒ありがとうございます✨
一度いなくなっていた作品、再び会えることができて、とても嬉しいです😊
あたたかな作品、ありがとう☆
It feels good and inspiring to see this kind of routine.
え!!めちゃめちゃ早く見れた😭
いま動物看護の専門学校に通い始めて看護だから獣医学も学ぶし一人暮らしも初めてだから心もボロボロですが安心感のある動画に癒されました…もう少しと言っても2年ですが頑張りたいと思います
I just love how aesthetically pleasant this is to watch!
such a solid, beautiful vibe. I watched this on a Monday night dreaming of Friday freedoms. merci!!! 🍕🍹🍹🍹🐱🐱🐱
Dear Choki, your peaceful Homelife reflects such calm also charm: ghee I love your cats ♥️
They are so intelligent 👏i am always interested in your homecooked meals.
You are a very wise young lady.
.Mary Canada 🇨🇦
I love staying home whenever I can. I love my house. Your cats are to cute!! Love your videos 😊
「丁寧に生活する。」それって、きっとこういうこと。
段ボールを噛んでペッてやるのが好きな子もいれば、そのペッて落ちた段ボールで遊ぶのが好きな子もいる☺️
それぞれの愛らしさがたくさん収められてて、猫好きとしていつも本当にたのしく見ています💘
本当にchokiさんの暮らしの世界観が好きです！のりもふえきのりなのもすごく好きです！癒されます✨
チョキさんの動画を観て癒されて
しかも明日は金曜…最高の流れです✨
This is so healing. Thank you so much for your videos.
明日の金曜ロードショーはアラジンだ✨
不意打ちのchokiさんの動画は幸せすぎる！！！
明日アラジンなんだ😍いいなあ、、✨✨
だらしない生活が続いたりなんとなく不安で落ち着かない気持ちの時はいつもchokiさんの動画に助けられています🐱いつもありがとう☺️☺️
Всегда с огромным удовольствием смотрю Ваши выпуски! Спасибо за Ваш труд! Видно как Вы стараетесь и с какой любовью ведёте свой канал!
Согласна с Вами!
Классный вечер, у вас очень уютно.
簡単なのにこんなおしゃれカクテルがつくれるなんて素敵です🍷
いつもchokiさんがピザを作る工程を見ていると本当に食べたくなります🍕
あと、アイスを掬うスプーンが金色なんてお洒落でより一層アイスが美味しそうですね🎵
your content makes me calm. I love you,Choki
Очень холеные коты, просто красавцы, так мило в уютной домашней атмосфере
УЮТНО , РАЗМЕРЕННО , НЕСПЕШНО... ! УДИВЛЯЮСЬ ЕЕ СИЛЕ , УМУ И САМОДОСТАТОЧНОСТИ !!! 😊😊😊
Nada como viver só!😍maior paz.
何もしてなくともとかく賑やかな日常の中で、優しく佇んでいる花のようなChokiさんのチャンネルが、大好きです💕
Спасибо за прекрасное душевное видео, наконец-то с вами я поборола бессоницу! Кошки ваш оберег))
間あまり開かずにChokiさんの動画嬉しい♪ そしてまた、コナンくん💛 癒しをありがとうございます。
I was super anxious and depressed yesterday! Today is Friday and I am gonna do something special for myself ❤️ it’s important to love ourselves no matter what! ❤️
Chokiさん、動画を再公開して下さってありがとうございます✨本当に、本当に、ありがとうございます…！！！
i love this video and the aesthetics, so calming and relaxing to watch especially after a day of work ~