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आप ग्रूप बनाने की बात कर रहे थे उसकी लिंक भी शेयर कीजीए हम जूड़ना चाहते हमारे यहां बिशनोई जिन गावो मे रहते है वहा हर तीन गांवो के बिच एक गौसाला है जिन मे आवारा पशूओं को रखने की वयवस्ता है और हम भी बोहोत योगदान करते है लेकिन हमारे यहां जानवरों का डाक्टर नहीं है जिससे की हम जानवरो का ईलाज करवा सकें
And it's fine.....he doing it a great thing ... doesn't make everyone obligated to speak up. People have their own way to deal with grief and shame its subjective...... kindly don't compare
Bahut himmat chaiye ye sab sabke samne kahne ki, isi bahane apna dil bhi halka hua, or kisi ka bhala bhi jarror hoga, aap khush rahen, sab khush rahen, yahi Prarthana hai meri, mere Ram Ji se, Jai Siya Ram bhai. 🙏
Your authenticity is infectious! Truth oozes out from you with such simplicity & spontaneity. As it is rightly said...TRUTH HURTS BUT IT SETS YOU FREE आपको देखकर/सुनकर बस कृतज्ञता, सम्मान और प्रेम की भावना ही उमड़ती है। Loads of gratitude, respect & love to you!
Aw, thanks Deepti! It does indeed set you free. So many times we think, ki unhen pata lag jaayega jo woh kya sochenge. Earlier I used to think...yaar, they will judge me. Now, I feel, that some may...but a lot will relate, and those are the only ones i should care about. And that's not just liberating, but empowering.
Sir you are a strong man no one can say by looking at your eyes that you have gone through so much, i respect what you are doing for innocent animals🙏🏻
Bhai U r so positive U remained positive And.... U r spreading positivity U r a winner U chose to react to ur situation so differently I can relate to ur situation It was so hard for me Eshwar did help me to come out of all tricky situations My relatives aunt Uncles etc almost convinced me that I was no better than a bootpolish wala or chaiwala Though They took great care of their own kids I try to avoid bad memories but they keep coming back But... I promised to myself that I will be a good father I proved it with the help of Ramji
sir ajj samvedana to jataneka matlab nehin banega , but i promise that , main ek responsible bhai,beta aur baap banunga.... ajj ye sikh mere life ke valuse main add hogeye.. ajj apse connected feel hua.. main samay ko thanks kehena chahta hun ki kabhi app ki batt sun pai...
Hamare soceity ko aap jaise logo ki zaroorat hai. Taki aane wali generation aise baton ko samjhe naki family ki katputli ban ke rahe. Zindagi ko samjhe aur khush rahe apne liye,dusron ke liye nahi
Thank you so much for coming out in the open about this issue. I too was raised in a dysfuntional family. Unfortunately, in India, mothers take advantage of the fact that society will always support them as it is believed that a mother can never harm her child. My mother treated me like a step-child, not only allowing her elder daughters to abuse me but also joined them. They made me feel unwanted all the time saying they wish I was never born, did not let me father spend any money on me for my education\ marriage, rather took all the money that I earned, made me feel guilty for anything wrong in their lives.
You r just like me. At the age of 34 I went no contact after being drained emotionally and financially. Difference is just that I get beaten up by my younger brothers last time at age of 32.
It takes a lot of courage to talk with honesty, many have to lead such lives ……. Sad that some adults do more harm because for their imperfections ! Kudos to you !!!
पता नही की इस बहुत बड़े और महत्वपूर्ण सबक पर क्या प्रतिक्रिया दूं ।मगर इतना कहना चाहूंगा की ऐसा कही हद तक मेरे घर में भी हुआ है ।बताना तो चाहते हूं मगर मुझमें वो हिम्मत नहीं है जो आप में है रोबिन भाई । आपकी दीदी जहा भी रहे खुश रहे यही दुआ है । धन्यवाद रोबिन भाई इस सबक के लिए ।कुछ बदलाव तो ज़रूर आएगा ।🙏
Yes sir Mere motherinlaw & sisterinlaw i ne mujhe ,mere husband ko bhi gilt mahsus kara kar Parivar se Akela Kar Diya ,samaj mein Bura banaa Diya aur Hamen Dhokha dekar Hamara hak Puri Tarah Se Chin liya. Lekin Aaj Vahi log Wapas Humse Sampark Rakhna Chahte Hain Jo Ab Ham Nahin Chahte
Ab vo buddhe ho gaye hai isliye tumse contact karna chahte hai...aise log kabhi nai sudharte... Jaise hi unke sath rehne lag jao vaise hi rang badal jata hai
Suno sister......agr Tumhari Mother-in-law itni hi buri hoti to bachpan me Tumhare husband ko khila pila kr or us ki Potty susu saaf kr ke or itna bada kr ke tumhare husband ko tumhe sirf pyar or isk baaji krne ke liye tumhe nhi deti smjhe aap.... Apni jimedariyo ko smjho conditions bure hote log nhi.... Log bhi conditions ke sath badl jate h..... Ek baat tum khud apne aap se puchna...... Ki kya tum wo sab kuch apne Mother-in-law ko de payi ho.... Jo ki tum apni maa ke liye dekhna cahate ho.... I mean apni bhabhi se........ Jimedari se bhago nhi unhe tan man se pura kro khud ache bne rho baad me dekho kese tumhe sab log... Kitna bahr ke pyar dege..... And wo galat bhi hoge to unhe apni galti ka ehsaas tumhari aachaiye se ho jaye ga...... God bless you 👍👍
V well expressed Its time maa k charnon mein swarg generation...wakes up fr their own good. Parentening is skill denied to almost all the indian parent...
Your nice one jo apny dukh taklif se sikh kr ladkr dusro ko sikhaty sach m wo ak powerfull insaan hota ..mai manti pain bhut h khena bhut kuch andar jaise samunder h ye whi samjh sakta h jis pr bitaa ho baki sabkly bacvas hsi..kher soryy tum ab thik ho bhehn jha wo shi jgha h thik rhyge or maa baap ki jb bnati ni to becho ko bhut servive krna pdta h ..puri family bekhr jati h fr bhar jao wha b pyar ni bhar bethy h log taklif deny kly dont be emotinol jo tum kaM kry acha h god bless you.. hum sikhny ke bad b kise se kuch na kuch shikhty h waise same he hai baat mere life ki b but thodi se alg..pr jo hai bhgwan h usy upr kuch b ni ❤... mai manti hu jo hota hai humre achy kly sikhany kly...❤
Thank you so much sir. I needed to hear this. My mom have always used me for her emotional need just to take out all of that aggression. I am suffering now
Being a girl in a similar kind of situation, I would say that your father was equally responsible for your sister's demise. It's a man's duty to keep her wife happy. When a wife is not happy in a marriage she is badly stuck because she can't go out and tell her pain to anyone in the society including her parents ( I am talking about the social strata in which an unmarried/divorced daughter is a stigma/burden on the parents). A wounded woman ends up bleeding on her children who are the eyewitnesses of what's happening in the house. The girl child loses her faith in marriage and goes into depression eventually. So my msg to men: if you are married to someone stay emotionally available in the relationship. My msg to women: if you're not happy in a relationship please LEAVE for the sake of your future kids 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Sorry yaar. Loneliness ek epidemic sa ho gaya hai. Na sun-ne waale milte hain, naa samajhne waale. Bas satane waale na milen, to phir bhi kaam chala rehta hai
Wonderful and the family manipulation is completely true.... Lets understand the manipulation and not react adversly but anyhow we have to choose ourselves 1st beyond anything and everything and not be the victims and destroy ourselves....
After 60 years , I realized how my mother was treated by her parents emotionally used / abused. She started to do the same with the oldest daughter too. No love, care , emotional bond. But we sing happy Mother’s Day song . I do not get it.
Yes sir I too am going thru the same being a girl I can understand the pain...it's very sickening to the gut and yes we need no enemies we become our own enemies😢😢😢😢...
Sir I can't explain how much your words are impacting. You're so different. Kal tak me khud ko weird maanta tha. Aaj pata lag raha hai ke me akela esa nahi hun Aapki soch bahot upar hai. Shayad koi samaj paaye isse. Agar koi mujhse puchega ke jannat kidhar hai toh me bataaunga ke ek aadmi hai jinka naam Robin Sharma hai jo yahin iss jagaah ko jannat bana rahe hai.
Sorry not true. All the wise people like Buddha, Guru Nanak Dev ji, Jesus and so many more went through a lot of pain to but they forgave and decided to leave the past in the past and lived in the moment. We must do this to. Carrying this baggage is like you will never be able to run away because the weight is so heavy. But if you keep looking behind you, you miss what's happening in front. Drop that bag and before you forgive others forgive yourself. No human is perfect so mistakes happen and if God is giving us another morning for a new chance we should accept it. I send this message in love, I to have been hurt and talk from experience. I pray all my extended family on this chat can drop the weight they carry and spread their wings and fly because every second we have is another chance to live🙏
@@satvinderkaur983Rightly said, It is all about awareness and willingness to overcome the beaten path. It is a life long practice that can really help you to an extent, but will it heal your inner self, that is a matter of personal experience
Thanks, Robin Sir! And, Well, most of the 90s kids are still facing the same thing... "Age ho gayi hai, Shadi karo, Tum jo kar rahe ho apne career me, usse tumhara kuch nahi hoga, self employed jaisi koi cheej ni hoti, 9-5 job karo, Govt job ki preparation karo, Jo hum keh rahe hain wo karo, and in the end kehte hain ki humne tumhe kabhi kuch karne se roka ni hai."... We need to understand that parents bhi insan hain and galti kar sakte hain, So even if it's hard to convince them, but don't wait for their approval... mann me aaye wo karo, sun lo unki but karo apni... Because nobody knows you better than yourself.
@@bullseye6969 narcissism is not related to one gender, both of my parents are narcissist Mother is a overt narcissist and father is a covert narcissist Although you are right Narcissism is more likely developed in females than males
@@piku8700 again I said nobody talks about "female" narcissism. That does not mean it's gender specific in fact male narcissist are more prevalent also its been talked about openly specifically about male quite frequently and also its been linked to males. But there are also female narcissists.
@@bullseye6969 I agree with you I think Mostly it's because we all glorify females and society always considers female as a victim without knowing the reality
@@arushisharma32 Huh! APJ Abdul Kalam in his Wings of Fire said, "Your children come through you but not from you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts" They can never understand this!
@@arushisharma32 Haa. I surely will. When I quoted these lines to my mom.....Phir acche se gaaliya mili khane ko. Loose Motions ho gye ek dm 😶 She was like baap na bno hmare chaar kitabein pdh ke. I was like..... It's hopeless. Jhelte rho bs!
या वही बोल सकता है जिसमें ये गहराई से सहा हो। लाइफ कॉम्प्रोमाइज और सैक्रीफाइस का नाम है। जब तक लोग इस थियोरी पे चलते रहेंगे, जीवन बर्बाद होते रहेंगे। मै शादी करना नहीं चाहता या चाहती लेकिन में अपने पैरेंट्स की खुशी के लिए कर रहा हूं या रही हूं। जब आप ऐसा या सिमिलर कोई स्टेप लेते हो तब आप अपने लिए क्राइम करते हो और उस क्राइम में अपने पैरेंट्स को भी शामिल करते हो।
@@harshadk3240 Bhai Mai aapki bat se sehmaht Hun par Puri bat se Nahi agar aap smaj Mai raho ge to nastik ko expect sirf sanatan karta hai or mahjab Nahi jab unki population yada ho Jaye gi ya to unka mahjab sabikar karna pade GA ya Marna or dharm par chalta kon hai Jo tum dharm ko jimedar dehra rhe ho kuritya smaj Mai hai dharm Mai Nahi .
Not every human should be a parent. Maine bhi decide kiya hai ki agar main apne ko andar se heal nahi kr paaya, agar main apne andar ki desparations ko khaatam nahi kar paaya to apne pichhli generation ki taarah apne complexes ko aage nahi bhejunga. Kyun kisi se shaadi krke uski zindagi khraaab karni aaur kyun aage bacchhon ki bhi zindagi kharaab karni.
I want to Express my pain ....mere papa hamesha mere saath misbehave karte hai ....main study krti hu..part time job aur government job ki preparation.....magar mere ghar ke financial condition bht kharab hai .... unhone zabardasti mujhse mere sare paise le liye emotional drama karke aur bole ki main wapas de dunga ..one year ke baad jab maine pucha mere paise ke bare me ...than he abused me ..and forcefully asked me to leave the house .....wo ab hamesha mujhse kehte hai bht hi abusing way me ki ghar se nikal jao..taki wo society me bol sake meri beti characterless h ...islye kisike saath bhag gayi...pura blame v mujhpr aa jaye aur unhe paise v nai lautane parenge...saath hi saath unpr meri shadi karwane ka jo pressure hai usase v chutkara mil jayega.....qk shadi karwane me toh father ko paise kharch karne hote hai....wo sirf merese Paisa lena chahte hai...dene ke liye toh ek koudi v kharch n kare ....aisa ni hai ki paise ni hai..actually intention hi ni ...extremely cheap minded person he is....but my mother always supports me ..that's why I'm able to survive here ....
Please take care of yourself bahut si ladkiyon ko ghar se bhag jane ko majboor kiya jata hai bo unse kabhi baag hi ni karte. Apni ego aur baaton ko le ke chalte hai par mene bhi yahi socha hai hum kyu bhage hum ladenge
Take care yourself time hamesha ek jaisa nahi hota apna aur apni ma ka khyal rakhhe... Koi ek to hoga jo aapko pasand krta hoga jeevan me bahut mahenat kro raste khul jayenge... I am thankful by my family but while I listen to the story about this... Then I feel low... I am worried about all the girls who are in pain... God keeps giving strength to all girls which have issues about this.
Sbko lgta hai maa baap ki kbhi galti nhi hoti lekin kaise wo apne baccho ko irritate hurt or negative krte rehte hai ye wo hi smjh skte he jo ise salo saal sehte rehte hai.....har baar bacche galat nhi hote.....kbhi kbhi wo bahar walo ko apna alag bhagwan jaisa roop dikhate hai or hote rakshas hai
U r absolutely right. Mere parents b insaan k besh me rehne waale rakshas hai. Ghar k andar rakshas aur ghar k bahar sadhu santh jaise behave karte hai. Jaise k kisi ko bura karne k baare me pata hi na ho. Saakshath Bhagwan.
*Deeply touched by this message and himmat chahiye to convey it publicly, I think it is very much essential to bring out this guilt factor to be discussed as it eats up many people from inside and they end up sacrificing their life, And it is more common than we may think...yet it shouldn't be a norm*
Thank you. That's the reason I talked about it. A lot of us have similar experiences and we all stuff then down. I think a few of us have to initiate sharing deeply personal experiences so normalize having a dialog about these problems.
@@peepalfarm certainly! And also as few people take the lead as you have taken other people would get the confidence who are on the borderline of thought process wondering whether to talk about it or not...
@@peepalfarm It's miracle that I gave up idea of ending my life. My mother and brother always make me feel guilty for what I am. I am a reputed foreign law school 🎓 but still has no right gave a look into full mirror. I was not allowed to keep the door of my room closed (unlatched). My brother used to barge the room anytime. Woman has no right to have privacy. I belong to progressive Hindu family who are double faced people. I ran away from home after brother beat me up when I took a stand after crossing 40 yrs. Police helped me in this. Still family members call me and trying make me feel guilty. How a brother and a mother kill the personality of a woman to utilize her!
This happens with good children mostly. We always think that it is our responsibility to keep parents happy always and forget about ourself but when we realise parents don't even care what we have done for them then things start getting messed up.
Yes .... U r right... Fir bhi log kahte he ki bachhe ma bap ki dekhbal nahi krte... Jb ki ma bap itne jiddi ho jate he ki kuch samajhna hi nahi chahte. . Sach kahu to mujhe to nafrat he in dono shabdo se bhi or riste se bhi
Finally.. Someone talked about this.. Its so deep that almost everyone is suffering from this. Parents logic is that children are there to fulfill their dreams or carry their emotional baggage. And this goes on generation by generation.
Exactly what I'm feeling right now, I'm studying so hard to get a job so I can move out from this house. 🙁 I might probably never return that's the level of suffocation I feel here.
My bf always tried to make me realize this, that I should think about myself too, but everytime I would brush it off, but now I understand what he was trying to tell from the past so many days
@@abhinavpandey840 there are many things apar from this my friend...... focusing on career which we want to choose but not choosing because of family or anything there are so many things like this
बच्चों को इस दुनिया मे लाने का फैसला माँ बाप का होता है मैं जब तक बच्चे पैदा नहीं करूँगा जब तक मैं उनको अच्छा भविष्य ना दे सकूँ या फिर मैं बच्चा गोद ले लू ये सही रहेगा
Ha lekin family ke dawab ki wajah se frustrated hoker kisi ko paida karna bina kisi wajah se sahi nhi hai khud seh lo lekin dusri zindgi barbaad mat karo jab apko itni samjh hai
Ha lekin family ke dawab ki wajah se frustrated hoker kisi ko paida Krna bina kisi wajah ke sahi nhi hai khud seh lo lekin dusri zindgi barbaad mat karo jab apko itni samjh hai
Reading comments I can see I had a great childhood.... I studied science because I liked it and I was interested in computers.... family did all to support me... my brother enjoyed commerce and he did that... we married when we wanted and were ready and to girls we wanted to... Same with kids we had them when we were ready.... Parents supported us..... now we support them
my dear sir this confirmity as displayed in ur words is the cancer of Indian families which in turn has brought our nation to its knees.....kab tak apne aap se jhooth bolte rahoge, at least appreciate this peepal farm guy unequivocally for not pushing the problems under the capret and pretend to be happy......sorry 4 being harsh but we need to learn how 2 be honest with ourselves......
@@123rocker0071987 par achhi baat h na ki unki zindagi achhi chal rhi hh...kuch logo ki sach me hoti h achhi ...air kuch logo ki bachpan se kharab....environment bhot matter karta h
You should read more about narcissistic parents and parents with Cluster B disorders. It is the responsibility of parents to raise kids. It is not the responsibility of children to raise their parents. Wish you a healthy and happy future!
My mother too suffers from cluster b personality disorder which destroyed my life, still is. My brother committed suicide because of it. My father deserted when we were too young when he could not take her abuse any more. I didn't her disorder until recently, but I have stuck with her for life as she manipulated me financially, emotionally, and socially that now even my husband and children are facing the consequences of it. Let this be a lesson. If your parent is not behaving normally, find out the reason and if it is cluster b, get out ASAP. Save yourself. They'll never change. Don't worry about society. If you're stuck noone will ever help you. Get out!!!
So damne true, I'm loving with Narcissist father and yeah my life is ruined cause of him But I'm trying and hopefully will get much better And that line.... I feel it
Ek video mein Robin ji ne kaha tha, ki loog unhe Robin sir bolte hain jo unhe bilkul acha nahi lagta. Agar koi unhe guruji ya kuch aur shabd se bulaye toh acha lagega.
It was so courageous of you to share this. We all suffer from some sort of pangs in life, which is so deep shit and can’t be resolved but still have to put a fake smiling face and carry on with life.
Haan Yaar, and that takes a toll on us...and I find it ridiculous that we all do it to pretend to be "normal" ... but asal normal to bahar hi nahi aata as everyone pretends to be okay!
Im so sorry for your loss. I lost my own sister to suicide. Its something i could never get over completely. Perhaps your sister was a victim of severe depression as well. My therapist told me recently, no one thinks or plans for suicide unless there is depression or other mental illness. Its sociological factors that affect us psychologically... But the decision to end her life must have happened because she couldn't see a way out.. This is what depression does to us. You are an inspiration for all of us, bhai.
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What happened to yr sister@ Robin bhai
Absolutely true!And this guilt is very draining. Thanks .
आप ग्रूप बनाने की बात कर रहे थे उसकी लिंक भी शेयर कीजीए हम जूड़ना चाहते हमारे यहां बिशनोई जिन गावो मे रहते है वहा हर तीन गांवो के बिच एक गौसाला है जिन मे आवारा पशूओं को रखने की वयवस्ता है और हम भी बोहोत योगदान करते है लेकिन हमारे यहां जानवरों का डाक्टर नहीं है जिससे की हम जानवरो का ईलाज करवा सकें
Bahut sahi aur badia baat ki aapne.
Main To jina chahta hoo mere Ghar wale bus paisa ke sath hai
Heal before having children so your children don’t have to heal from having you as parents
सही है मैडम
माँ बाप अगर सुलझे हुए नही होंगे तो बच्चों को उनका अज्ञान झेलना पड़ता है और जब तक बच्चे खुद सुलझते नही है तब तक बहोत वक्त निकल चुका होता है।
Wow... great thought devushka
Hi
Well said!
@my opinion hi
he is so courageous to talk about imperfections in his life. other UA-camrs fake happiness n create a so called perfect life
And it's fine.....he doing it a great thing ... doesn't make everyone obligated to speak up. People have their own way to deal with grief and shame its subjective...... kindly don't compare
@@Balabalarewell said dear. A good reminder for me. Thanks
You had a tough childhood,but you have brought happiness and comfort in the life of many living beings, and gave them a new life.
:) thank you! I try and now it's good to have a whole family at peepal farm dedicated to the same cause.
That "unknown" sent chills down my spine.
Strength to you and your family, Robinji.
😔 thank you🙏🏽
आपने पारिवारिक संबंधों व जीवन की परिस्थितियों का बहुत सटीक आकलन प्रस्तुत किया और उसको बोलने की हिम्मत जुटाई इसके लिए आपका धन्यवाद🙏👍
मैं भगवान से प्रार्थना करता हूँ कि आपकी दीदी ये वीडियो देख कर आपसे मिलने आ जाये।
She died how can she come back.
@@PriyankaKumari-qj8tj no body knows...
She's gone
@@jafree95 but she wrote like ki meri maut ka zimmedar koi nahi hai baki pata nhi jo gaya sach use hi pata hoga...
@@PriyankaKumari-qj8tj hope one day she will be back... I keep always hope
Bahut himmat chaiye ye sab sabke samne kahne ki, isi bahane apna dil bhi halka hua, or kisi ka bhala bhi jarror hoga, aap khush rahen, sab khush rahen, yahi Prarthana hai meri, mere Ram Ji se, Jai Siya Ram bhai. 🙏
आपकी कहानी सुन के बहोत दुःख हुआ 🥺😣🙏🏻📿
बहोत सारा प्यार भाई आपके ओर आपकी बहन के लिए ❤️🥺
Your authenticity is infectious!
Truth oozes out from you with such simplicity & spontaneity.
As it is rightly said...TRUTH HURTS BUT IT SETS YOU FREE
आपको देखकर/सुनकर बस कृतज्ञता, सम्मान और प्रेम की भावना ही उमड़ती है।
Loads of gratitude, respect & love to you!
Aw, thanks Deepti! It does indeed set you free. So many times we think, ki unhen pata lag jaayega jo woh kya sochenge. Earlier I used to think...yaar, they will judge me. Now, I feel, that some may...but a lot will relate, and those are the only ones i should care about. And that's not just liberating, but empowering.
@@peepalfarm Thanks for responding dearest Robin!
And you well said that, it is also empowering!
This society made so called normal life norms making us empty from inside and hats of to u sir to talk about this.
Thanks for sharing brother. I hope wherever ur sister is she is in peace. The world need more people like you.
Thank you, @ROBHIN Sir, for opening up about your journey. It's heartwarming to see your resilience and positivity even in tough times.
I'm really sorry to hear about your story, but the bright side is you are now helping so many souls with your organization.
Sir you are a strong man no one can say by looking at your eyes that you have gone through so much, i respect what you are doing for innocent animals🙏🏻
Bhai
U r so positive U remained positive
And.... U r spreading positivity
U r a winner U chose to react to ur situation so differently
I can relate to ur situation
It was so hard for me
Eshwar did help me to come out of all tricky situations
My relatives aunt Uncles etc almost convinced me that I was no better than a bootpolish wala or chaiwala
Though They took great care of their own kids
I try to avoid bad memories but they keep coming back
But... I promised to myself that I will be a good father
I proved it with the help of Ramji
sir ajj samvedana to jataneka matlab nehin banega , but i promise that , main ek responsible bhai,beta aur baap banunga.... ajj ye sikh mere life ke valuse main add hogeye..
ajj apse connected feel hua.. main samay ko thanks kehena chahta hun ki kabhi app ki batt sun pai...
Je baat! So so good to hear that bud! Aasha kartey hai aapsey aur bhi log inspire hongey. 😊
Thanks 🙂
Hamare soceity ko aap jaise logo ki zaroorat hai. Taki aane wali generation aise baton ko samjhe naki family ki katputli ban ke rahe. Zindagi ko samjhe aur khush rahe apne liye,dusron ke liye nahi
Sir your maturity level is so high.
Thank you so much for coming out in the open about this issue. I too was raised in a dysfuntional family. Unfortunately, in India, mothers take advantage of the fact that society will always support them as it is believed that a mother can never harm her child. My mother treated me like a step-child, not only allowing her elder daughters to abuse me but also joined them. They made me feel unwanted all the time saying they wish I was never born, did not let me father spend any money on me for my education\ marriage, rather took all the money that I earned, made me feel guilty for anything wrong in their lives.
You r just like me. At the age of 34 I went no contact after being drained emotionally and financially. Difference is just that I get beaten up by my younger brothers last time at age of 32.
It takes a lot of courage to talk with honesty, many have to lead such lives ……. Sad that some adults do more harm because for their imperfections ! Kudos to you !!!
Apki awz mai jo takleef main feel ki main bayan nahi kar sakti aap apki family itne takleef se guzry main khud ko rone se ruk nai pai
You are a good fighter. May God bless you.
U r so brave..that u have told everything
बहुत बहुत आभार, जो आपने ये मुद्दा उठाया ! यहां सबको बस, अपनी पड़ी है.....😔
पता नही की इस बहुत बड़े और महत्वपूर्ण सबक पर क्या प्रतिक्रिया दूं ।मगर इतना कहना चाहूंगा की ऐसा कही हद तक मेरे घर में भी हुआ है ।बताना तो चाहते हूं मगर मुझमें वो हिम्मत नहीं है जो आप में है रोबिन भाई ।
आपकी दीदी जहा भी रहे खुश रहे यही दुआ है ।
धन्यवाद रोबिन भाई इस सबक के लिए ।कुछ बदलाव तो ज़रूर आएगा ।🙏
Sir aap itne acchhe insan kaise bane main aaj samjh paya 😢🥹🙏 Aap humesha swasth rahein or apne kam ko aage badha payein yahi manokamna hai🙏🥹
Me kafi prabhavit hun Robin se . Ideal man.
Just to address this issue needs lots of courage 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Prabu ki 100% kirpa hai apke upar...
Yes sir Mere motherinlaw & sisterinlaw i ne mujhe ,mere husband ko bhi gilt mahsus kara kar Parivar se Akela Kar Diya ,samaj mein Bura banaa Diya aur Hamen Dhokha dekar Hamara hak Puri Tarah Se Chin liya. Lekin Aaj Vahi log Wapas Humse Sampark Rakhna Chahte Hain Jo Ab Ham Nahin Chahte
Ab vo buddhe ho gaye hai isliye tumse contact karna chahte hai...aise log kabhi nai sudharte... Jaise hi unke sath rehne lag jao vaise hi rang badal jata hai
Forgive but never forget
Ese log apne matlb se fir se aa jate h. Bitter h but true h
क्षमा विरष्य भूषणम।
Suno sister......agr Tumhari Mother-in-law itni hi buri hoti to bachpan me Tumhare husband ko khila pila kr or us ki Potty susu saaf kr ke or itna bada kr ke tumhare husband ko tumhe sirf pyar or isk baaji krne ke liye tumhe nhi deti smjhe aap.... Apni jimedariyo ko smjho conditions bure hote log nhi.... Log bhi conditions ke sath badl jate h..... Ek baat tum khud apne aap se puchna...... Ki kya tum wo sab kuch apne Mother-in-law ko de payi ho.... Jo ki tum apni maa ke liye dekhna cahate ho.... I mean apni bhabhi se........ Jimedari se bhago nhi unhe tan man se pura kro khud ache bne rho baad me dekho kese tumhe sab log... Kitna bahr ke pyar dege..... And wo galat bhi hoge to unhe apni galti ka ehsaas tumhari aachaiye se ho jaye ga...... God bless you 👍👍
Thank you for sharing this 💜. Ghar wale sach mein Jane anjane guilty feel karate hai 😢
Best understanding brother 👏👏👏💫
Thank you for bringing awareness to the world !!
Ye saari baat bolne or loogo ko samjhane ke liye bhot himmat or sahas chaiye ❤
V well expressed
Its time maa k charnon mein swarg generation...wakes up fr their own good.
Parentening is skill denied to almost all the indian parent...
Your nice one jo apny dukh taklif se sikh kr ladkr dusro ko sikhaty sach m wo ak powerfull insaan hota ..mai manti pain bhut h khena bhut kuch andar jaise samunder h ye whi samjh sakta h jis pr bitaa ho baki sabkly bacvas hsi..kher soryy tum ab thik ho bhehn jha wo shi jgha h thik rhyge or maa baap ki jb bnati ni to becho ko bhut servive krna pdta h ..puri family bekhr jati h fr bhar jao wha b pyar ni bhar bethy h log taklif deny kly dont be emotinol jo tum kaM kry acha h god bless you.. hum sikhny ke bad b kise se kuch na kuch shikhty h waise same he hai baat mere life ki b but thodi se alg..pr jo hai bhgwan h usy upr kuch b ni ❤... mai manti hu jo hota hai humre achy kly sikhany kly...❤
पहली बार मुझे आपके प्रति सम्मान महसूस हो रहा है।
These are the major side effects of re marriage. But your story taught a heart touching lesson bro
In bacho ka ful jarour milaga ma bhi yahi kaam karta hu thanks robin ji
Thank you so much sir. I needed to hear this. My mom have always used me for her emotional need just to take out all of that aggression. I am suffering now
Kaash Mera b Bhai apke jitna accha hota ❤️❤️❤️❤️ . Aap bhot courageous ho . Hats off to you bro
Very sensitive , bold and honest video. Thank you, Robinji
Being a girl in a similar kind of situation, I would say that your father was equally responsible for your sister's demise. It's a man's duty to keep her wife happy. When a wife is not happy in a marriage she is badly stuck because she can't go out and tell her pain to anyone in the society including her parents ( I am talking about the social strata in which an unmarried/divorced daughter is a stigma/burden on the parents). A wounded woman ends up bleeding on her children who are the eyewitnesses of what's happening in the house. The girl child loses her faith in marriage and goes into depression eventually.
So my msg to men: if you are married to someone stay emotionally available in the relationship.
My msg to women: if you're not happy in a relationship please LEAVE for the sake of your future kids 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Really really true.
All r Masquerading in this earthly world.
High emotional intelligence hai bhai apka saluting you🫡🫡
दुःख यही तो है कि कोई किसी का दुःख समझता ही नहीं साहब
You are brave. So happy to hear all this from you boldly
This vedio is hertmelting ❣️🥺
More love to peepalfarm ❣️
I am also very alone and emotionally stranded even after supporting my family..
Sorry yaar. Loneliness ek epidemic sa ho gaya hai. Na sun-ne waale milte hain, naa samajhne waale. Bas satane waale na milen, to phir bhi kaam chala rehta hai
Sir apne mere zindgi kh di.
Thank you so much for sharing this.
Love❤you so much sir..... 🙏🙏
Thank you Robin bhaiya❤🌻
Thanx for raising this topic...it feels like hell
Thankyou!❤
-From a Sister.
Wonderful and the family manipulation is completely true.... Lets understand the manipulation and not react adversly but anyhow we have to choose ourselves 1st beyond anything and everything and not be the victims and destroy ourselves....
Indian parents have high expectation and they always want sacrifice.
U r a real fighter,...... lot of love ❤
After 60 years , I realized how my mother was treated by her parents emotionally used / abused. She started to do the same with the oldest daughter too. No love, care , emotional bond. But we sing happy Mother’s Day song . I do not get it.
Thank you for the message🌱
Yes sir I too am going thru the same being a girl I can understand the pain...it's very sickening to the gut and yes we need no enemies we become our own enemies😢😢😢😢...
Sir I can't explain how much your words are impacting. You're so different. Kal tak me khud ko weird maanta tha. Aaj pata lag raha hai ke me akela esa nahi hun
Aapki soch bahot upar hai. Shayad koi samaj paaye isse. Agar koi mujhse puchega ke jannat kidhar hai toh me bataaunga ke ek aadmi hai jinka naam Robin Sharma hai jo yahin iss jagaah ko jannat bana rahe hai.
Thanks brother.... I am speechless 🙏
Robin, we love you. 💕
Thank you so much for sharin' ur experience, it's a guidance.
I salute you for Speaking about it
I admire your courage to be honest!
Sach kaha aapne ty so much 🙏🏻
Well said but family doesn't understand
Always they try to we have(mine) to feel guilt...
Ankee kholne k liye dhynabaad....
A bad childhood is like a cage which never sets you free, even if you fly like a bird in sky
Exactly
Sorry not true. All the wise people like Buddha, Guru Nanak Dev ji, Jesus and so many more went through a lot of pain to but they forgave and decided to leave the past in the past and lived in the moment. We must do this to. Carrying this baggage is like you will never be able to run away because the weight is so heavy. But if you keep looking behind you, you miss what's happening in front. Drop that bag and before you forgive others forgive yourself. No human is perfect so mistakes happen and if God is giving us another morning for a new chance we should accept it. I send this message in love, I to have been hurt and talk from experience.
I pray all my extended family on this chat can drop the weight they carry and spread their wings and fly because every second we have is another chance to live🙏
@@satvinderkaur983but unless we get correct guidance
@@satvinderkaur983Rightly said, It is all about awareness and willingness to overcome the beaten path. It is a life long practice that can really help you to an extent, but will it heal your inner self, that is a matter of personal experience
Children are brought up trained to be exploited, especially, girls. Life has been so painful to share. No relief anywhere
Thanks, Robin Sir! And, Well, most of the 90s kids are still facing the same thing... "Age ho gayi hai, Shadi karo, Tum jo kar rahe ho apne career me, usse tumhara kuch nahi hoga, self employed jaisi koi cheej ni hoti, 9-5 job karo, Govt job ki preparation karo, Jo hum keh rahe hain wo karo, and in the end kehte hain ki humne tumhe kabhi kuch karne se roka ni hai."... We need to understand that parents bhi insan hain and galti kar sakte hain, So even if it's hard to convince them, but don't wait for their approval... mann me aaye wo karo, sun lo unki but karo apni... Because nobody knows you better than yourself.
Exactly!
Yes 🙏
I agreee u said absolutely correct thing👍
Bahut shi baat kahi bhai 🙌🏻
Yes ... very true
Emotional blackmail, manipulation, humiliation, Gaslighting, aggressive behaviour and the list goes on....😭
Narcissism in one word
Nobody talks about female narcissism in family.
@@bullseye6969 narcissism is not related to one gender, both of my parents are narcissist
Mother is a overt narcissist and father is a covert narcissist
Although you are right
Narcissism is more likely developed in females than males
@@piku8700 again I said nobody talks about "female" narcissism. That does not mean it's gender specific in fact male narcissist are more prevalent also its been talked about openly specifically about male quite frequently and also its been linked to males.
But there are also female narcissists.
@@bullseye6969 I agree with you
I think Mostly it's because we all glorify females and society always considers female as a victim without knowing the reality
Elon Musk said in an interview “My children didn’t choose to be born, I chose to have children. They owe me nothing, I owe them everything.”
Indian Parents are just opposite.....
Unfortunately!
@@vishalrathour2673 Ye log toh bolte hei. Ke Hum Bhagwaan se Khud poochke aaye hei ke aise family mei janam lenge. Matlab kuch bhi.
@@arushisharma32 Huh! APJ Abdul Kalam in his Wings of Fire said, "Your children come through you but not from you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts"
They can never understand this!
@@vishalrathour2673 It was taken from a Poem on Children written by a Lebanese Writer. You should read the Whole Poem. Its really Good
@@arushisharma32 Haa. I surely will.
When I quoted these lines to my mom.....Phir acche se gaaliya mili khane ko. Loose Motions ho gye ek dm 😶
She was like baap na bno hmare chaar kitabein pdh ke.
I was like..... It's hopeless. Jhelte rho bs!
ये वो ही बोल सकता हैं जिनसे वास्तविकता में जीना सीख लिया हो।
सही कहा. पर वास्तविकता मे हम ज्यादातर इंडियन्स को आता काहा हे. बस झूट की चादर ओढे जी रहे हे खोकले संस्कार, आदर्श, जात , धर्म की चपेट मे.
Ya shayad jise zindagi ne puri tarah se tod dia ho
या वही बोल सकता है जिसमें ये गहराई से सहा हो। लाइफ कॉम्प्रोमाइज और सैक्रीफाइस का नाम है। जब तक लोग इस थियोरी पे चलते रहेंगे, जीवन बर्बाद होते रहेंगे। मै शादी करना नहीं चाहता या चाहती लेकिन में अपने पैरेंट्स की खुशी के लिए कर रहा हूं या रही हूं। जब आप ऐसा या सिमिलर कोई स्टेप लेते हो तब आप अपने लिए क्राइम करते हो और उस क्राइम में अपने पैरेंट्स को भी शामिल करते हो।
@@kuls43 👍👍👍
@@harshadk3240 Bhai Mai aapki bat se sehmaht Hun par Puri bat se Nahi agar aap smaj Mai raho ge to nastik ko expect sirf sanatan karta hai or mahjab Nahi jab unki population yada ho Jaye gi ya to unka mahjab sabikar karna pade GA ya Marna or dharm par chalta kon hai Jo tum dharm ko jimedar dehra rhe ho kuritya smaj Mai hai dharm Mai Nahi .
Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves a child.
Kya baat boli hai bhai!!
क्या बात, क्या बात ! Original है ? या कहिं से lift ?
True 100%
True
So true
Not every human should be a parent. Maine bhi decide kiya hai ki agar main apne ko andar se heal nahi kr paaya, agar main apne andar ki desparations ko khaatam nahi kar paaya to apne pichhli generation ki taarah apne complexes ko aage nahi bhejunga. Kyun kisi se shaadi krke uski zindagi khraaab karni aaur kyun aage bacchhon ki bhi zindagi kharaab karni.
Salute bro!👍
I want to Express my pain ....mere papa hamesha mere saath misbehave karte hai ....main study krti hu..part time job aur government job ki preparation.....magar mere ghar ke financial condition bht kharab hai .... unhone zabardasti mujhse mere sare paise le liye emotional drama karke aur bole ki main wapas de dunga ..one year ke baad jab maine pucha mere paise ke bare me ...than he abused me ..and forcefully asked me to leave the house .....wo ab hamesha mujhse kehte hai bht hi abusing way me ki ghar se nikal jao..taki wo society me bol sake meri beti characterless h ...islye kisike saath bhag gayi...pura blame v mujhpr aa jaye aur unhe paise v nai lautane parenge...saath hi saath unpr meri shadi karwane ka jo pressure hai usase v chutkara mil jayega.....qk shadi karwane me toh father ko paise kharch karne hote hai....wo sirf merese Paisa lena chahte hai...dene ke liye toh ek koudi v kharch n kare ....aisa ni hai ki paise ni hai..actually intention hi ni ...extremely cheap minded person he is....but my mother always supports me ..that's why I'm able to survive here ....
Please take care of yourself bahut si ladkiyon ko ghar se bhag jane ko majboor kiya jata hai bo unse kabhi baag hi ni karte. Apni ego aur baaton ko le ke chalte hai par mene bhi yahi socha hai hum kyu bhage hum ladenge
@@SmallSteps-wk2up you're right
Amazed by your strength. May you have a wonderful life ahead.
Mere Sath bhi same chij Hai Mere father bhi bahut toxic ha. 😢
Take care yourself time hamesha ek jaisa nahi hota apna aur apni ma ka khyal rakhhe... Koi ek to hoga jo aapko pasand krta hoga jeevan me bahut mahenat kro raste khul jayenge... I am thankful by my family but while I listen to the story about this... Then I feel low... I am worried about all the girls who are in pain... God keeps giving strength to all girls which have issues about this.
Sbko lgta hai maa baap ki kbhi galti nhi hoti lekin kaise wo apne baccho ko irritate hurt or negative krte rehte hai ye wo hi smjh skte he jo ise salo saal sehte rehte hai.....har baar bacche galat nhi hote.....kbhi kbhi wo bahar walo ko apna alag bhagwan jaisa roop dikhate hai or hote rakshas hai
Sahi bole ap ...bacho ko inse niklna hoga
U r absolutely right. Mere parents b insaan k besh me rehne waale rakshas hai. Ghar k andar rakshas aur ghar k bahar sadhu santh jaise behave karte hai. Jaise k kisi ko bura karne k baare me pata hi na ho. Saakshath Bhagwan.
Sahi kaha mere maa baap bhi aise hi hai or abhi bhi mis behave karte hai
Same here
My parents are narcissist both parents
Wow .... Unhone Jo Kiya so kiya agar aap bade ho gaye ho to aapna rasta chun lo... Aur achey parents ban jao
*Deeply touched by this message and himmat chahiye to convey it publicly, I think it is very much essential to bring out this guilt factor to be discussed as it eats up many people from inside and they end up sacrificing their life, And it is more common than we may think...yet it shouldn't be a norm*
Thank you. That's the reason I talked about it. A lot of us have similar experiences and we all stuff then down. I think a few of us have to initiate sharing deeply personal experiences so normalize having a dialog about these problems.
@@peepalfarm certainly! And also as few people take the lead as you have taken other people would get the confidence who are on the borderline of thought process wondering whether to talk about it or not...
I agree with you completely
@@peepalfarm It's miracle that I gave up idea of ending my life. My mother and brother always make me feel guilty for what I am. I am a reputed foreign law school 🎓 but still has no right gave a look into full mirror. I was not allowed to keep the door of my room closed (unlatched). My brother used to barge the room anytime. Woman has no right to have privacy. I belong to progressive Hindu family who are double faced people. I ran away from home after brother beat me up when I took a stand after crossing 40 yrs. Police helped me in this. Still family members call me and trying make me feel guilty. How a brother and a mother kill the personality of a woman to utilize her!
Bhut vishsl dil h aapka
3:11 _"ऐसी मुसीबतें हर किसी के साथ किसी-न-किसी रँग रूप में होती ही हैं; पर हम फिर भी परदे डालते रहते हैं"_
आपका बहुत-२ धन्यवाद यह साँझा करने के लिए!
बहूत दिनों बाद किसी सुलझे हुए इंसान को सुन रहा हु ऐसा लगा। 👍
Thank you Omkar ji🙏🏽
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne
@@peepalfarm sayad m apko hi dundh rha tha.
बहुत सुलझे हुए 👍👍
@@raveenduhan4866 ऐसे लोग पूरी दुनिया में हो तो कितना अच्छा होगा 🙏 🙏 🙏
This happens with good children mostly. We always think that it is our responsibility to keep parents happy always and forget about ourself but when we realise parents don't even care what we have done for them then things start getting messed up.
I know exactly how this feels 😭😭😭😭
100% true🥺
Rt
Yes .... U r right... Fir bhi log kahte he ki bachhe ma bap ki dekhbal nahi krte... Jb ki ma bap itne jiddi ho jate he ki kuch samajhna hi nahi chahte. . Sach kahu to mujhe to nafrat he in dono shabdo se bhi or riste se bhi
👍👍
This is the dark reality of our parents and parenting
Finally.. Someone talked about this.. Its so deep that almost everyone is suffering from this. Parents logic is that children are there to fulfill their dreams or carry their emotional baggage. And this goes on generation by generation.
Are you kashmiri ?
Really
Yrue
All parents do this for us good life
@@vikassharma7520 not all are lyk this
Exactly what I'm feeling right now,
I'm studying so hard to get a job so I can move out from this house. 🙁 I might probably never return that's the level of suffocation I feel here.
Same
@@pallavisinha1004 you will get rid of the day you get married
@@rvn7218 it will become worse , you have to face same thing in some other unknown house .
@@pallavisinha1004 it's better to Get a job and move out ASAP and marry the person who understands you. Life would be much easier then I guess 🤔
Are you preparing for govt job
If you are then i can you man
My bf always tried to make me realize this, that I should think about myself too, but everytime I would brush it off, but now I understand what he was trying to tell from the past so many days
He is real love
Never let him go
@@raghavdixit6832 what do you mean , run away from home?
@@abhinavpandey840 there are many things apar from this my friend...... focusing on career which we want to choose but not choosing because of family or anything there are so many things like this
Girl are you in just 3 rd std ? And have a bf?
I wish all the 90's kids heal and live a guilt free life
He is honest with his feelings. It take guts
आसान नहीं होता अपने घर की निजी बातों को सार्वजनिक करना पर आपने किया, सिर्फ दूसरों की भलाई के लिए ...🙏👏👏👏
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@@peepalfarm real himmatwala havent seen another 1 like u in my lifetime!
Sir I almost cried after listening this. Mai vo didi hu jo apni iss "normal" life ko badalne mae lagi hu. Aasha hai badal lungi jaldi he!
Realising that change is needed itself is the start of change.Good luck.
@@simaraman05 thank you so much!
Allah aapki madad kare. AAMIN
@@afsarshaikh7086 Shukriya
I m male so I can't understand what u think.
But I am very much supportor of "Survival of the Fittest".
Choose it or loss it.
आपकी अभी तक कि जिंदगी बहुत संघर्ष पूर्ण रहा
शुक्रिया हमसे साझा करने के लिए, बहुत कुछ सिखने को मिला आपसे।
Hi
Seriously yaar, this is so true. Mothers are not always right.
And family is not always there to protect you ..
Be good and find good people, and you'll have your real family
बच्चों को इस दुनिया मे लाने का फैसला माँ बाप का होता है मैं जब तक बच्चे पैदा नहीं करूँगा जब तक मैं उनको अच्छा भविष्य ना दे सकूँ या फिर मैं बच्चा गोद ले लू ये सही रहेगा
Your thinking is good
paida na karo tab bhi family dimag kha jaygi
Ha lekin family ke dawab ki wajah se frustrated hoker kisi ko paida karna bina kisi wajah se sahi nhi hai khud seh lo lekin dusri zindgi barbaad mat karo jab apko itni samjh hai
Ha lekin family ke dawab ki wajah se frustrated hoker kisi ko paida Krna bina kisi wajah ke sahi nhi hai khud seh lo lekin dusri zindgi barbaad mat karo jab apko itni samjh hai
@@ankurmbd9570 kisko bol rahe ho agar mujhe hai to bhai sahab ..i just pointed out some facts ,,,not talkin abt me
Reading comments I can see I had a great childhood.... I studied science because I liked it and I was interested in computers.... family did all to support me... my brother enjoyed commerce and he did that... we married when we wanted and were ready and to girls we wanted to... Same with kids we had them when we were ready.... Parents supported us..... now we support them
my dear sir this confirmity as displayed in ur words is the cancer of Indian families which in turn has brought our nation to its knees.....kab tak apne aap se jhooth bolte rahoge, at least appreciate this peepal farm guy unequivocally for not pushing the problems under the capret and pretend to be happy......sorry 4 being harsh but we need to learn how 2 be honest with ourselves......
@@123rocker0071987 par achhi baat h na ki unki zindagi achhi chal rhi hh...kuch logo ki sach me hoti h achhi ...air kuch logo ki bachpan se kharab....environment bhot matter karta h
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@@123rocker0071987 Or you could be wrong
Good parents are blessing..
You should read more about narcissistic parents and parents with Cluster B disorders.
It is the responsibility of parents to raise kids. It is not the responsibility of children to raise their parents.
Wish you a healthy and happy future!
Thanks Nitya! That's a great line and I will look those up.
What is cluster B disorder?
My mother too suffers from cluster b personality disorder which destroyed my life, still is. My brother committed suicide because of it. My father deserted when we were too young when he could not take her abuse any more. I didn't her disorder until recently, but I have stuck with her for life as she manipulated me financially, emotionally, and socially that now even my husband and children are facing the consequences of it. Let this be a lesson. If your parent is not behaving normally, find out the reason and if it is cluster b, get out ASAP. Save yourself. They'll never change. Don't worry about society. If you're stuck noone will ever help you. Get out!!!
True
So damne true,
I'm loving with Narcissist father and yeah my life is ruined cause of him
But I'm trying and hopefully will get much better
And that line.... I feel it
And for this reason I just want to cut off all the relationship with my toxic family.
Sorry to hear that
but assa hota nhi hai specially for girls
@@bhartisatyaias4512she should not cut off completely, just keep some distance
Don’t do this. Just try to avoid
Bhut badi baat bhi aap bhut saral aur sidhe sabdo m samhja dete ho ..robin sir 🙏.. thanks for giving us a life lesson...
Ek video mein Robin ji ne kaha tha, ki loog unhe Robin sir bolte hain jo unhe bilkul acha nahi lagta.
Agar koi unhe guruji ya kuch aur shabd se bulaye toh acha lagega.
Toh aap Robin ya Robin guruji, ya Robin ji ya kuch aur bol sakte ho toh acha rahega 🙏🙏
Bahut badi baat kehdi aapne
It takes courage to share such personal things ....you earned my respect 👍
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Nothing is personal . If every body accepts every one with love nothing becomes personal.
"Mothers are not always right"
It was so courageous of you to share this. We all suffer from some sort of pangs in life, which is so deep shit and can’t be resolved but still have to put a fake smiling face and carry on with life.
Haan Yaar, and that takes a toll on us...and I find it ridiculous that we all do it to pretend to be "normal" ... but asal normal to bahar hi nahi aata as everyone pretends to be okay!
@@peepalfarm true😭
Im so sorry for your loss. I lost my own sister to suicide. Its something i could never get over completely. Perhaps your sister was a victim of severe depression as well. My therapist told me recently, no one thinks or plans for suicide unless there is depression or other mental illness. Its sociological factors that affect us psychologically... But the decision to end her life must have happened because she couldn't see a way out.. This is what depression does to us. You are an inspiration for all of us, bhai.
I've been through it and there's a WAY OUT
@Jehangir Hussain
Yes
Same