BOUNDARIES | in my 30s ft. Claudine

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  • Опубліковано 27 гру 2024

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  • @joan_kim
    @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +124

    throwback to 365 🖤

    • @reseich22
      @reseich22 9 місяців тому +2

      @joanday2 I'm hoping for part 3. love you both so much... 30 minutes is always not enough when you're with Claudine 😢😅😊

  • @jo.e8
    @jo.e8 9 місяців тому +72

    Seeing you guys reminisce on 365 is so wholesome, you both have come a long way - have a joanday yall 🫶🏼

  • @tani95k
    @tani95k 9 місяців тому +21

    Dear Joan, thank u for making this series of vlogs, I'm 29 years old & this series can really help me feel less lonely. I was also thrilled to see Claudine after years. Among your friends, I truly had a special fondness for her. wishing you continued success in your endeavors. 💕

  • @josephjlzt8662
    @josephjlzt8662 9 місяців тому +37

    Your vlog with Claudine in that hill, watching sunset was my favourite vlog of yours. I think it was in 2017. There’s something very comforting about her. I wish her happiness

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +6

      Ahh one of my favorite episodes 🖤

  • @isabel_368
    @isabel_368 9 місяців тому +6

    It’s always so healing to see friends come back on, especially Claudine. The conversations are so deep and very fulfilling. Thank you for your content joan, 365 and beyond has been amazing growing experience.

  • @Fabiannysblog
    @Fabiannysblog 9 місяців тому +15

    I’m 29, probably 30th in Korean age 😅 so I wanna say I appreciated this episode very much. The part when Claudine talked about her ex-friend really got me. I when through a similar situation last year and spent almost 7 months to heal from it, and I thought I was being weird for feeling the way I felt. I cried the first time I saw her personally, almost 5 months after our separation, and couldn’t exactly explain why. That experience took me through a journey to know myself better, and now, I can speak out my boundaries without being harsh, and that was possible because I know now, what bothers me, what doesn’t, what I can live with, and without. Thank you Joan for this series ❤️

  • @killerstorm16
    @killerstorm16 9 місяців тому +11

    Thank you so making this series. As someone who is around the same age and a long time follower since joanday 365f it feels like we are growing up together. Hitting our 30s definitely requires more “mature” content like this!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +3

      Aww, thanks for watching🖤

  • @noraflower8167
    @noraflower8167 9 місяців тому +29

    Oh now my Monday has a meaning thanks for this video ✨ and I’m so happy to see you with Claudine again!!❤️

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +4

      Hehe hope you enjoy this episode🖤

  • @astrolatry
    @astrolatry 9 місяців тому +2

    It is such a gift to have watched your friendship over all these years! I remember when you and Claudine MET and here you are all these years later!! What a beautiful thing. Thanks for this, always, Joan!

  • @diceydc7039
    @diceydc7039 6 місяців тому +1

    I've just watched this series backward from the episode with Eddy since last night. Love them! Definitely remind me a lot back then when i watched your daily vlog. Just make sure you make yourself happy and fulfilling❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @gindokki
    @gindokki 9 місяців тому +12

    What an unexpected treat! A new upload always boosts my mood - and it’s SOO good to hear from and see Claudine again! Throwback to 365 indeed ❤
    Such an important episode /conversation that really becomes so important as you get older. Also I’m loving both of your outfits so much!!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      🫶🏻🖤

  • @callmegrecia
    @callmegrecia 9 місяців тому +12

    So happy to see Claudine back!! Loving this series❤️

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe thanks for watching 🖤

  • @chescag7547
    @chescag7547 6 місяців тому

    What a breath of fresh air to see a familiar face! Truly missing the good old joanday circa 16-17. The wisdom youve shared in Joan's previous videos still lingers in my mind. I love you Claudine!!!

  • @jayparnesto
    @jayparnesto 9 місяців тому +1

    I super love this topic so much because this theme of BOUNDARIES has existed in my life since end of last year and so relatable for sure! Thank you guys ❤ love your vlogs til this day Joan!!

  • @kelseylelei
    @kelseylelei 5 місяців тому

    i turned 20 this year and watching this made me feel a lot more at ease when it comes to not needing to diminish my own values for the sake of someone else. so often feel like I'm "doing too much" or cause more problems for myself bc I don't want to let things slide that everyone else does so hearing this made me feel so much more sane and less critical of myself :))) thank you joan & claudine

  • @Hans-bf7mv
    @Hans-bf7mv 7 місяців тому

    This is probably my fave episode from the series. Love to see Claudine again! She's so intellectual and eloquent.

  • @geekdiggy
    @geekdiggy 9 місяців тому

    12:00 relatable. a buddy i grew up with started to really become entrenched in some pretty extreme beliefs over the course of about 4 years, and it led to a lot of arguments between he and i. around here we're brought up with a certain reverence and care for our environment and the people around us, especially our elders, and his new beliefs were an abandonment of that, which became hard for me and some others to reconcile. his wife suffered the most. i haven't heard from him since january 6th 2021, and i guess he did me the favor of not having to break up with him as a friend. his life is fine from what i hear, but it's sad seeing what spending too much time on the internet did to him.

  • @lifeofglorienne
    @lifeofglorienne 9 місяців тому

    Very intentional with everything, 언니!! Love it how everything perfectly ends at exactly 30:00 🫶🏼🎀💯

  • @qwert___op
    @qwert___op 9 місяців тому +3

    Oh my gosh 30 minutes flies so fast…! I want to watch more 😂 Thank you for your hard work Joan. I always love to see your vlogs, instagram posts, whatever you post!❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe thanks for the support!!

  • @kenneseyl2819
    @kenneseyl2819 9 місяців тому +10

    i love all these girl talks ! 😭💕✨👍 keep them coming plzzz!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      Yay! Glad you are enjoying this new series. I'm having fun filming/editing them🖤

  • @daisymerolling_99
    @daisymerolling_99 9 місяців тому +2

    I relate to Claudine sooo much. I'm also really bad at saying no and working on this right now.
    I also went through friendship breakups. Those were people that I knew for a long time but it either became toxic or we just weren't compatible anymore. Learning to accept that is really tough. I still think about it sometimes but I know that it was better this way. L
    Thanks for the episode ❤

  • @Chemoni7090
    @Chemoni7090 9 місяців тому +3

    Joan, I love your 30s series! I’ve been enjoying them and really appreciate you creating it. 30s is the best! Cheers

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Thank you!! Cheers to us 🖤

  • @hchung155
    @hchung155 9 місяців тому

    AHH love to see you guys reunited! Loving all these guests so far :-) I wish this was a weekly thing! Please invite Christian, Corey, or Alex!!

  • @tonikinsella
    @tonikinsella 8 місяців тому

    Joan looks at her friends with such love, it's so cute. I adore your friendships

  • @christina4465
    @christina4465 9 місяців тому +1

    It was great to see Claudine again and she sure is thriving! This does remind me of the 365 days like many other people have mentioned. As we become older, boundaries matter more. This topic was great to discuss with Claudine and I hope she stops by on your channel as often as she can, Joan. Thank you, thank you for a meaningful discussion, Joan and Claudine! 🤔💭👏🏻🥰💝💕🩷

  • @todayis_Rachaa
    @todayis_Rachaa 9 місяців тому +2

    I know that I am also in my 30s, but watching two episodes so far has made me learn a lot and add lessons to my thirties as well . SO , Thank you and looking forward to the next topic with your guest ❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      Aww, thank you! Glad you are enjoying these🖤

  • @Samantha-to5xz
    @Samantha-to5xz 9 місяців тому +1

    OHHH CLAUDINEEEE! Its been such a long time since I last saw her on your videos 😍 so great to see both of you shared your own thoughts on the topics. It makes me realise Im not the only person who feel what Claudine felt with her friend. Another great video Joan! ❤ Im so excited for the next episode already !

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe thanks for watching! Brainstorming for episode 3!! Hehe

  • @cy24
    @cy24 9 місяців тому +2

    Always great to see the two of you together.

  • @Annettely
    @Annettely 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for uploading these podcasts lately. Your talks with Claudine were my fav videos 🖤 Love having a bicultural unnie in Korea sharing insight on some relatable experiences ✨

  • @richasaju6328
    @richasaju6328 9 місяців тому +1

    So happy to see you guys together and I loved the boundaries episode🥰

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe thanks for watching🖤

  • @peggyg4725
    @peggyg4725 9 місяців тому

    I’m so moved when I heard that you said that you were not ready for vlogging again because you thought that your life is not that interesting yet. You really care so much about the quality of your vlog, which makes you one of the most valuable content creators, in my personal humble opinion. Don’t think too much though, and just go for it and just follow your heart. I do hope that I can see more from you soon. Love from New York❤

  • @annastells
    @annastells 9 місяців тому

    I just turned 31 and this series is so cute and i love growing and learning with you too

  • @Someone-pn1bb
    @Someone-pn1bb 9 місяців тому +4

    Miss you joan, happy you're back 😊❤😊❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe thanks for watching🖤

  • @imlauragobbi
    @imlauragobbi 9 місяців тому +2

    claudine laugh is one of the most beautiful things i’ve ever heard.. it’s a real life laugh lol !!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      ☺️☺️☺️

  • @_dearsharon
    @_dearsharon 9 місяців тому

    love this podcast style series! can't wait for the next 🖤

  • @daianaanamaria532
    @daianaanamaria532 9 місяців тому

    I should have guessed it was gonna be with Claudine when you posted the poll😂 Glad to see you reunited ❤ Nice episode as well 🌸

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      Aww! I thought it would be a nice surprise because she is based in NYC. Hope you enjoyed the episode 🖤

  • @ladylady5498
    @ladylady5498 9 місяців тому +2

    Yay glad to see you both 😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤ Joan with ❤🎉❤❤ Claudine
    We have missed you both

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      🫶🏻🖤

  • @bychaimaaa5335
    @bychaimaaa5335 9 місяців тому +3

    Ur vlogs were never boring
    I’ll always gladly, happily, comfortably watch your vlogs even if you are just sitting at home doing nothing 😅

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Thank you for the support🖤

  • @kylepanda2647
    @kylepanda2647 9 місяців тому +3

    Finally my fave duo!❤❤❤❤

  • @julieXdairyXtwenty
    @julieXdairyXtwenty 9 місяців тому +2

    Welcome back Joan! We miss ya ~

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe hiii :)🖤

  • @cysia1893
    @cysia1893 9 місяців тому +6

    LONG TIME NO SEEEEE CLAUDINEEEEE MISS YOU!!!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      SHE'S THE BEST!!🖤

  • @Lawrencedimayuga
    @Lawrencedimayuga 9 місяців тому +2

    Yay back with Claudineee✨

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      Yayayy🖤

  • @pamhan
    @pamhan 9 місяців тому +2

    So happy Claudine still wear her red lipstick 💄❤️

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      Our classy lady🖤

  • @merveshenme417
    @merveshenme417 9 місяців тому +1

    So good to see Claudine! So lovely!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      🖤🖤🖤

  • @Mayan_heart123
    @Mayan_heart123 9 місяців тому

    Im 37 yrs old and i promise i will be watching all of your "in my 30s" future episodes..

  • @viviantifaugh4241
    @viviantifaugh4241 9 місяців тому +1

    so happy to see claudine!!! love her 💘

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      🖤🖤🖤

  • @ci310
    @ci310 8 місяців тому

    looked up to Claudine then and still do now (currently in my mid 20s) enjoyed this lots 👍

  • @RZTree
    @RZTree 2 місяці тому

    this one had me starting big conversations with my friends too

  • @geekdiggy
    @geekdiggy 9 місяців тому

    i missed claudine. when she moved to new york i was actually kinda bummed because she was one of the things i enjoyed most about your earlier vlogs (especially the one where she chopped her hair).

  • @itslo_k
    @itslo_k 9 місяців тому

    Joan! I would love to see you have an episode with Hana! Her Heart to Hana videos remind me of these chats :)

  • @ferbs54
    @ferbs54 9 місяців тому +2

    (1) Mucho congrats on another interesting episode, Joan! I think Claudine will turn out to be one of the most thoughtful and well-spoken guests that you will ever have. (2) I would be curious to wear a heart-rate monitor myself just to see the results after watching Joan model some fashion hauls! 😂 (3) I love when Joan uses coarse language! "Tough sh_t"...we certainly never heard THAT on Joanday 365! (4) Trust me, saying "NO" gets a lot easier as you grow older, and your time becomes ever more precious! You'll see! (5) I myself have had to unfriend a few people due to their obnoxious political stances. In these divisive times here in the U.S., it's become increasingly common, I have a feeling. (6) Joan, I think you did a great job at keeping your private life out of the 365 vlogs. I know I had SO many questions that I wished to ask you back then...and even now! (7) That really IS a beautiful top that Claudine was wearing! (8) Looking forward to episode #3! 😘

  • @ashleybchoi
    @ashleybchoi 9 місяців тому +3

    MY GIRLSSSSS 🥹🖤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      my favorite girls 🖤

  • @miniminjinihope
    @miniminjinihope 9 місяців тому

    I watched your 365 vlogs since day 1, i do miss your friends too, joan 😭

  • @ranaam5951
    @ranaam5951 9 місяців тому +1

    I love this series ❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Thank you🖤

  • @therealsirenayasmin
    @therealsirenayasmin 9 місяців тому +1

    this was so good to watch!!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for watching!!

  • @chamenchamen8171
    @chamenchamen8171 8 місяців тому

    Claudine was and still is my favorite. 🤩

  • @itsgivingbougie
    @itsgivingbougie 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow this was a fun watch!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe thanks for watching🖤

  • @narakalyan4212
    @narakalyan4212 7 місяців тому

    Does anyone know where Joan’s jeans in this are from, it’s so perfect

  • @kimmytlw
    @kimmytlw 9 місяців тому +2

    Yasss my favourite pair. ❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      🖤🖤🖤

  • @gemma9667
    @gemma9667 9 місяців тому

    does anyone know where the couch is from? its beautiful

  • @Mel-oc7pi
    @Mel-oc7pi 8 місяців тому

    damn claudine has a way with words describing friendship break ups

  • @gracefullimage
    @gracefullimage 9 місяців тому +1

    It's definitely weird--hard agree with you Joan LOL

  • @nupsy711
    @nupsy711 9 місяців тому +5

    OMG YAS CLAUDINE

    • @nupsy711
      @nupsy711 9 місяців тому

      Comment first, watch later 😂

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe hii! Hope you enjoy this one :)

  • @GSabatini_1981
    @GSabatini_1981 9 місяців тому

    Hope to see Eddie in one of your episodes. That will be the ultimate OG reunion.

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Ahh og! That would be fun!

  • @deoy5
    @deoy5 9 місяців тому

    Hoping to see Edward on this series too!

  • @ladywadu4931
    @ladywadu4931 9 місяців тому +2

    OMG, miss you Claudine

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      We always miss Claudine!!

  • @cristal.carrillo
    @cristal.carrillo 8 місяців тому

    In love with this serious as a person in her thirties lol

  • @chicatwigz
    @chicatwigz 9 місяців тому

    Need more Claudine content ❤

  • @indahsri5073
    @indahsri5073 9 місяців тому

    I really like this conversation

  • @bhawanapokhrel1165
    @bhawanapokhrel1165 9 місяців тому +1

    OMFG CLAUDINE 🥹🫶

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Reunited🖤

  • @samanthajungkim8653
    @samanthajungkim8653 9 місяців тому

    Joan! need to fix left-right sound, could we balance it? When I use earphones ~ claudia is on the left and you are on the right. Just sharing feedback to help you on ur next video!

  • @llcooldown
    @llcooldown 9 місяців тому +1

    \ love this, thank you /

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Thank youuu🖤

  • @DesignerSwift
    @DesignerSwift 9 місяців тому

    Missed Claudine~!!

  • @lostgirlwanted025
    @lostgirlwanted025 9 місяців тому +2

    Red lipstick ❤ Cloudine

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      Our classy lady 💋🖤

  • @crystaltan7947
    @crystaltan7947 9 місяців тому +1

    OH HI CLAUDINE 👋🏻

  • @hiddlemafiddle
    @hiddlemafiddle 9 місяців тому

    Claudine!!!! I love

  • @ShimoFatani
    @ShimoFatani 9 місяців тому

    CLAUDINE 💓💓💓

  • @jigglypuff9165
    @jigglypuff9165 9 місяців тому

    Just turned 30 and surprisingly it’s not as awful as I thought it would be.

  • @aarontheabc
    @aarontheabc 8 місяців тому

    💙💙💙

  • @kiraraamber
    @kiraraamber 9 місяців тому +1

    Claudine ❤❤❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      She's back in Seoul 🖤

    • @kiraraamber
      @kiraraamber 9 місяців тому

      @@joan_kim I hope can see more Claudine in your upcoming vlog or tiktok 😍

  • @anuddda
    @anuddda 9 місяців тому +1

    i missed u joan ❤

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      🖤🖤🖤

  • @sharoonkim
    @sharoonkim 9 місяців тому +6

    Ummm yes. @Chad, your only girl friends being all your exes is definitely weird

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂

  • @yolimaandreaperezhiguera5592
    @yolimaandreaperezhiguera5592 9 місяців тому +1

    👏👏👏💗💗

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      🖤🖤🖤

  • @dingortega80
    @dingortega80 9 місяців тому +2

    With Claudine???? Claudine!?!?

    • @dingortega80
      @dingortega80 9 місяців тому

      By the way this series is amazing Joan!

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      Hehe thanks for watching!! And yes, with THE Claudine🖤

  • @inesteixeira2901
    @inesteixeira2901 9 місяців тому +3

    stfu i missed claudine so much :(

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому +1

      sameee 🖤

  • @emilypham898
    @emilypham898 8 місяців тому

    please invite Kindacool unnie, that’ll be fun🥰

  • @abdullahbaguffah4898
    @abdullahbaguffah4898 9 місяців тому +1

    رمضان كريم
    Ramadhan kareem

  • @allenparriesgado
    @allenparriesgado 9 місяців тому

    I don't know your friend 😂

  • @maloualvarez
    @maloualvarez 9 місяців тому

    Jojo 👌☺️🇺🇸🔇🎤🎧🎼🎶🏆👑

  • @snsdsupremacy
    @snsdsupremacy Місяць тому

    how come i just see this now. i missed claudine!! 🥹🤧

  • @erinounette
    @erinounette 9 місяців тому +2

    OG joanday🤟🏻🤟🏻

    • @joan_kim
      @joan_kim  9 місяців тому

      Hehe 🫶🏻