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  • @thandiwejambawa7827
    @thandiwejambawa7827 3 роки тому +177

    Powerful. A lady by the name Fumi. Met and married her husband at the age 40. Started a UA-cam channel at 45. Got pregnant at 48 and gave birth at 49. Her channel grew from 50k to 200k subscribers in less than 2 months. Now she is working with big brands. Delay is not denial. We all have our time

    • @tumainirichard5678
      @tumainirichard5678 3 роки тому +3

      Quite an inspiration

    • @mookhodlamini1521
      @mookhodlamini1521 3 роки тому

      She's amazing.

    • @Bro-dr3ou
      @Bro-dr3ou 3 роки тому +7

      “There are decades where nothing happens; There are weeks where decades happen” -Vladimir Lenin

    • @dikolizaskk5847
      @dikolizaskk5847 3 роки тому

      So true Just told my son that

    • @annamarymabwe7420
      @annamarymabwe7420 2 роки тому +1

      Wow u also follow fumi desalu vold she is jus awesome

  • @millymashile
    @millymashile 3 роки тому +187

    We are all on our own journey. Never look at others lives, it’s a trap. I graduated at 30 & my second qualification at 33. As you said, stay in your lane! It works

    • @pholile8010
      @pholile8010 3 роки тому +12

      I was crying listening to this,your comment brought me healing..I've been studying for the past 9years but don't even have a degree yet...indeed we all have our own journey...It's so sad though

    • @johntapiwa8532
      @johntapiwa8532 3 роки тому +6

      I have two degrees one in business administration another one in law still unemployed and really frustrated!

    • @pholile8010
      @pholile8010 3 роки тому

      @@johntapiwa8532 Hope you find one soon

    • @SiyahMhlambi
      @SiyahMhlambi 3 роки тому +2

      It's great noticing when everyone graduated and still has a positive outlook towards the future

    • @tebogotebogo8004
      @tebogotebogo8004 3 роки тому +2

      @@johntapiwa8532 Stay positive my brother, sometimes God The Almighty wants you to know Him better & then that will be happening soon. But if you don't know Him in Jesus name; your breakthrough might be delayed further & further. Stay positive and know that He's our master. Keep well

  • @asekhoeza1971
    @asekhoeza1971 3 роки тому +147

    I can relate alot💔💔
    I'm currently unemployed. ..Completed my studies in Internal Auditing last year because of not getting anything not even an internship💔I decided to go back to school again to further more. ..Honestly speaking I'm no longer enjoying school anymore. ..I'm frustrated bcz my siblings & mom are looking up to me for them to live a better life...But here I am everyday. It hurts💔
    But I trust God, He shall eventually open doors for me. ..Thank you my brother for sharing your story, I've learnt alot👏🏾👏🏾❤

    • @theglen85
      @theglen85 3 роки тому +15

      I'm just glad you are not just sitting... I lost my job last year after being an international flight attendant for over 12 years...since I'm a graduate aswell, I honestly didn't think I would be out of work for so long, in my head by Feb/March I'd be employed... Wow... Some days are low and others I'm hopeful!.. Just like you, I'm trusting God

    • @kaalinashiwa5992
      @kaalinashiwa5992 3 роки тому +10

      The fact that you are trying hard, you have already conquered....I pray that you get a job and remember God works in many ways.. bless you

    • @theglen85
      @theglen85 3 роки тому +1

      @@kaalinashiwa5992 amen

    • @pamelamashego1644
      @pamelamashego1644 3 роки тому +1

      Try applying thru agents

    • @asekhoeza1971
      @asekhoeza1971 3 роки тому

      @@pamelamashego1644 how can I do that sis?🙏🏽

  • @benevolence5521
    @benevolence5521 3 роки тому +19

    These are the stories that television won’t broadcast. We need the youth to speak up like this man. Many people are depressed and can’t afford to go to therapy due to unemployment and then alcohol becomes therapy😢
    Oh lord we thank you for this man’s testimony , your children need your divine intervention Heavenly Father🥺😞

  • @lusbethdyasi185
    @lusbethdyasi185 3 роки тому +39

    You're telling a story of many young black adults, qualified but nothing happening. Depression and hopelessness. Yhoooo Modimo. May the Lord's face shine on us

  • @axolendzimane139
    @axolendzimane139 3 роки тому +24

    God sets your pace. I relate so much with your story. I failed twice in high school that's when my depression started. I finished high school at the age of 21 years. My classmates used to make fun of me and would be painful but I studied hard and kept trusting in God and God listened to my prayers. 22 years I started my 1st yr varsity Nd now I am 31 years old this year and I am finishing a Masters degree. I've received so many scholarships and awards for academic excellence. What I keep telling myself is that it's not me it can only be God. God rewrites our stories we just need to trust in him.

  • @simelubuhlempofu5787
    @simelubuhlempofu5787 3 роки тому +18

    Having a relationship with God at a young age is a great foundation 🙌🙏❤️

  • @constancefaithful1451
    @constancefaithful1451 3 роки тому +44

    I remember after matric i went to study instrument engineering i would pass one module per semester until my family you have been studying for too long with no results to show, i ended up not. Finishing my course i stayed at home depressed and started applying for a different course they rejected me for good 8 years, i taught iam cursed, i stopped praying, 2019 my husband applied for me without my knowledge, i was so shocked to receive a message that i have been accepted at the University, the next message was nsfas has funded me, i was so surprised i never taught i would study. Ever again coz i was counting my age, i was 34 years 2020 when i started studying, this is my second year and i have been passing all my modules with distinction. WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT I THE LORD WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN. iam grateful to my husband for not giving up on me, because I have already given up on myself

    • @ntombihlatshwayo8414
      @ntombihlatshwayo8414 Рік тому +1

      What a testimony 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @constancefaithful1451
      @constancefaithful1451 Рік тому +2

      @@ntombihlatshwayo8414 I have graduated this April i got my qualification with distinction, caumlade praise Jehova

  • @thobieuiko8906
    @thobieuiko8906 3 роки тому +25

    Ive been to TUT for 2 years, failed both those years from 2014 to 2015, 2016 took a gap year, 2017 gave it another chance at DUT, did a foundation course got funded, did my first year smooth, second year smooth. 3rd year Covid hit, lost my bursary due to the N+2 rule, couldn't pay for accommodation, I failed my 3rd year. This year Im taking it one day at a time. God really pulled up for me and Im 27 this year still doing my 3rd year proud. Ive never in my entire life compared my self with my peers cause we are not the same and God has different plans for all of us. Stay in prayer and never give up on your dreams.

    • @Kusanagi7618
      @Kusanagi7618 3 роки тому

      What's a foundation course?

    • @thobieuiko8906
      @thobieuiko8906 3 роки тому +1

      @@Kusanagi7618 Its an augmentation or bridging course. But for us we were put in one class room with Photography students, Jewellery design, interior design, fine art and graphic design. We learn a little bit of everything. You dont decide you wanna do foundation, you just get accepted for it, before you start first year (not everyone though, some lucky students are accepted for first year right away) Im not sure what it takes to be put there, but I was one of the students who they felt I needed to start at a foundation phase.

    • @Kusanagi7618
      @Kusanagi7618 3 роки тому

      @@thobieuiko8906 ohh okay, that's cool

  • @ikakhoza81
    @ikakhoza81 3 роки тому +40

    "Not everyone wants to you see you flourish" You hit the nail on the head there. Keep inspiring and sharing your story.

  • @armandojohanna6000
    @armandojohanna6000 3 роки тому +13

    Woow its very true nothing good without a relationship with God Jesus Christ especially in our youth i will 41 nextmonth i understand this brother very well🇳🇦

  • @mologadi-acceptedinthebelo2923
    @mologadi-acceptedinthebelo2923 3 роки тому +22

    Parents warned us about friends. I easily trust people. I used to overshare. It worked against me. I have decided to keep my distance and love them from far. I relate so much. Protect your energies guys 😭😭😭😭

  • @dailythoughts6575
    @dailythoughts6575 3 роки тому +9

    Every-time I feel like giving-up, I have this imagination that what if this is a test and God and the angels are watching and saying ‘what will he do? will he give up or stand in faith’ ...
    We must ask for strength not for an easy life.

  • @karabog7460
    @karabog7460 3 роки тому +11

    That's so true, having your OWN relationship with God is so important. It's what get you through those times that the church is not around you. Grateful for your testimony brother, may God continue to bless you 🤍

  • @resh_137
    @resh_137 3 роки тому +29

    I wish I could calk to Siyabonga in person. I only completed my undergrad at 26. Prior to that I had spent 4 years pursuing a different course, struggling with one module, ended up being excluded by the institution and also told not to return. Starting over is not as bad as it seems, Rejection is God's projection and protection. Run your own race, do not be bothered with what is happening to the left or right of you. Keep your focus on Jesus Christ (The Good Shepard) he will not lead you astray. Never give up, to give up is to say no to your destiny...
    2 Corinthians 10:11-13 and Matthew 6:3-6

    • @pholile8010
      @pholile8010 3 роки тому +3

      I'm still in a journey like yours and its so painful.I have been studying for the past 9 years,i keep starting over,its tiring.I believe in God like I have fully surrendered my life to Him,but yeah life's been like that.I first got into varsity in 2014 and up to this day Im still trying to get a degree.I wish to know how things are with you now,I could really use some motivation cz somedays like today,I honestly feel like I will never get out of the wilderness😭

    • @SiyahMhlambi
      @SiyahMhlambi 3 роки тому

      It's really inspiring seeing everyone who is happy about graduating at any age without setting goals filled with pressure ❤️

    • @nomathembakhoza2892
      @nomathembakhoza2892 3 роки тому

      I was in a similar situation...

    • @nomathembakhoza2892
      @nomathembakhoza2892 3 роки тому

      @@pholile8010 i am aslo in a similar situation...

    • @motso5121
      @motso5121 3 роки тому +1

      @@pholile8010 I totally understand how you feel my dear. I was in varsity for 8 years, got excluded 3 times. I can't find words to express just how heartbreaking it was to even think about it. Eventually in 2016 I graduated. But before I went up that stage I told GOD that I am going up on that stage not just for a mere degree but to celebrate His faithfulness throughout those years.
      Listen love do not be discouraged as hard as it is, These years have been preparing you for something greater than you think.
      Be faithful in seeking GOD though this situation, it's not about how you compare with those around you but It's about how you hold on to your Maker even when people have given up on you. When you seem like you are behind. I'm telling you hold on, call on GOD in JESUS' Name. This is preparing you for years ahead.
      Think of Joseph in the Bible, he lost his freedom and ended up in a dungeon for years just because he shared his dream with his brothers.
      But guess what, those years were preparing him for the throne, but he didn't know at the time.
      Same with you dear, you will make it in life not just in varsity but make sure that however long or humiliating this process may be, trust in GOD through it all.
      My heart goes out to you because I know exactly how you are feeling.
      Well, today I am certainly a different version of me. Definitely more resilient and hard to crack coz I know where my Strength lies; in GOD.
      I am doing well in my career to GOD be the glory, but more than that I am in the process of helping many others going through discouraging situations. So this whole experience was preparing me for my calling in life which is beyond the degree.
      So soldier on. Greatness is especially tested when there's one there to applaud you. This is your moment.
      May GOD strengthen you through this in JESUS Name. You will come out victorious and certainly better. I love you

  • @olethabethe4538
    @olethabethe4538 3 роки тому +15

    Comparison is a thief of joy

  • @pasekawahakgiba5659
    @pasekawahakgiba5659 3 роки тому +13

    Well done Siya my brother. I am so happy that you made and that you are being a motivator to others. I have struggled in my my life also and I came from a poor family in the Vaal. We lived at Sonderwater when it was still an informal settlement. Today things have changed i live in one of Northen Jhb suburbs, I have a family, we deive good cars and I managed to build a house for my mother in a better location. I suffered in many ways through poverty and many forms of abuse but today I am able to motivate others.

    • @SiyahMhlambi
      @SiyahMhlambi 3 роки тому

      It's beautiful how you became the best version of yourself

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi426 3 роки тому +3

    I got emotional when he spoke about fasting 🥺. A great young man who God has something for him.

  • @itumelengramokgopa8994
    @itumelengramokgopa8994 3 роки тому +10

    I'm only 23 but I feel like my life is wasted. I tried committing suicide but failed... When I got pregnant I found my purpose to live again but my son was stillborn at 36 weeks... I literally saw my life crumbling right in front of me... I started a UA-cam channel to keep my mind busy but it's really been hard.... A lot has happened in life I'm so tired😭

  • @Techguy_babyboy
    @Techguy_babyboy 3 роки тому +5

    GOD BLESS YOU BRO ,WE LOVE YOU AND WISH YOU ALL THE BEST MY MAN

  • @sikhumbuzobulose6748
    @sikhumbuzobulose6748 3 роки тому +6

    God has carried you through brother, through your trials and tribulations and here you are Siyabona you've stayed in your lane and conquered, God has truly given you the edge to overcome!

  • @happyhappiness7858
    @happyhappiness7858 3 роки тому +4

    Wow thank you brother for sharing I pray that God direct and you will prosper. U made people not feel alone you gave us hope through your story.

  • @tumainirichard5678
    @tumainirichard5678 3 роки тому +6

    Most of us go through the same thing bro... only God will save us let's have faith in him.

  • @reabetswerakobo
    @reabetswerakobo 3 роки тому +3

    On a verge of completing my diploma currently unemployed..what you going through is exactly what I go through on a daily basis..but I always push myself to pray and read the Word..its the only thing that keeps me sane..stay strong my brother..God has a purpose for all of us..your story is inspirational

  • @nicoledube3077
    @nicoledube3077 3 роки тому +7

    Amen my Brother keep holding on to God he will lift you up. He loves you

  • @DipaloJenkinsMoshoette
    @DipaloJenkinsMoshoette 3 роки тому +3

    If God says YES, NOBODY can say NO. I can't wait for the day God says YES to you my brother ❤.
    Your time is coming, believe that.

  • @tutsy7612
    @tutsy7612 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks for sharing your story. So many of us are lost but don't want to admit it to anyone. I pray that God will go ahead of you and bless whatever you do

    • @SiyahMhlambi
      @SiyahMhlambi 3 роки тому +1

      It's really difficult admitting when you're in the dark🤞🏾🤞🏾

  • @nelago__
    @nelago__ 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your testimony! You are a powerhouse. Always remember that God is still in the business of miracles and He will bless you abundantly! Remain positive, faithful and hopeful. You are destined for greatness! Sending you strength and light 🙏🏾

  • @Mayite345
    @Mayite345 3 роки тому +8

    True, I'm starting to really analyze the value of relationships, people's energy and how that impacts me. Energy is everything.

  • @newbono716
    @newbono716 3 роки тому +6

    Truth my brother may our Father bless your heart and soul. 🙌😍🤗🤗🤗

  • @katutaetoo7931
    @katutaetoo7931 3 роки тому +2

    This is encouraging Brother, Wishing you all the best👏👏👌💪

  • @lesegokgomotso3147
    @lesegokgomotso3147 3 роки тому +2

    "For I know the plans I have for you" declared the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future"

  • @duduzilesibanda6789
    @duduzilesibanda6789 3 роки тому +7

    We all have to learn to talk more to God than people be blessed continuosly brother

  • @kgaogelosamuelmatsepane7235
    @kgaogelosamuelmatsepane7235 3 роки тому +3

    Your life story is almost the same as mine and I'm glad that we both made it through regardless of all the odds🙌🙌🙌✔✔👌👌

  • @motlatsokholofelo1120
    @motlatsokholofelo1120 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Siya... Let us stay on our lane and run our own Race.. Let's not forget that Our God said, He will make it happen at the right time 😍🙏

  • @no_prisoners1
    @no_prisoners1 3 роки тому +5

    I'm 29 on my second qualification. Rock bottom had to happen for this to even be a thought. Hang in there. ♥️

  • @mahlatsihlongwane5866
    @mahlatsihlongwane5866 3 роки тому +4

    I can definitely relate to what you are saying and it resonates with me. I'm glad that there are young men like you who can learn from their short comings, stand up, dust yourself off and return with a positive perspective on life lessons. Your story is relevant to all ages because some realise very late in life that they should have listened to those with more wisdom and insight. Having said that, it's never too late to rectify past mishaps. Thank you👊

  • @williamshakur8715
    @williamshakur8715 3 роки тому +7

    Is so sad 😭😭😭 I feel shame for this generation we are approaching 4th industrial revolution no more jobs this generation will suffer lots of depression

  • @pheladi6989
    @pheladi6989 Рік тому

    Thank You. We all needed to hear this. May you stay blessed youngman

  • @pheladi6989
    @pheladi6989 Рік тому

    Thank You. We all needed to hear this. May you stay blessed youngman❤

  • @lindaniblackmogul6643
    @lindaniblackmogul6643 Рік тому +1

    I failed my first year , i started 2 businesses and they failed now im unemployed but im keeping on hope i know God has a greater purpose for my life

  • @janetncheka6843
    @janetncheka6843 Рік тому

    Lovely testimony. Very inspiring. The Lord will take you to high heights son. Stay focused .

  • @kabelomokgotho3375
    @kabelomokgotho3375 3 роки тому +1

    You speaking out is inspiring. Blessed brother man. 🙏 maaaaaaan✊🏾

  • @khananiwiseman1709
    @khananiwiseman1709 3 роки тому +16

    May God bless u and bro, many of us are going through this, we r just silent 😭😭

    • @desireeletsoalo4324
      @desireeletsoalo4324 3 роки тому +3

      We just keeping a blind eye life isn't fair sometimes

    • @khananiwiseman1709
      @khananiwiseman1709 3 роки тому +3

      @@desireeletsoalo4324 yes, it's worse when we keep within ourselves thinking we have it under control

    • @desireeletsoalo4324
      @desireeletsoalo4324 3 роки тому +2

      @@khananiwiseman1709 true that

  • @lebogangphefo7013
    @lebogangphefo7013 3 роки тому +5

    Well done my son keep it up

  • @nobuhlekhumalo1903
    @nobuhlekhumalo1903 3 роки тому +3

    He has spiritual wisdom...

  • @thokozaniskosana1022
    @thokozaniskosana1022 3 роки тому +14

    Most situations you won't believe until it happens to you

  • @keamohetswekhalane3217
    @keamohetswekhalane3217 3 роки тому +22

    😢 Jesus Christ rewrites stories... It hurts when he delays your journey or redirects you... But it's always for our good...

  • @mthembuhleziphie7869
    @mthembuhleziphie7869 3 роки тому +3

    I can relate 💔 unemployed with a teaching degree is not easy at all

  • @DanDaddyD
    @DanDaddyD 3 роки тому +3

    You got a future ahead bro. Don't give up

  • @onthegoodsideco
    @onthegoodsideco 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for telling this story.

  • @zodwaphindile4601
    @zodwaphindile4601 3 роки тому +1

    This is Powerful!❤☺🙏🖤

  • @kanyisasnombo2542
    @kanyisasnombo2542 3 роки тому

    👏👏👏👏👏you have seen the light my bother.

  • @Deep_House_Freaks
    @Deep_House_Freaks 3 роки тому +2

    CENTTWINZ TV Please before the season ends, please call Solly Mankga. Please!!!

  • @effiemasuku
    @effiemasuku Рік тому

    I agree with you telling everyone your plan's totally wrong even family members. instead of telling people tell God.

  • @michellemasehla1545
    @michellemasehla1545 3 роки тому +11

    Also unemployed with a Diploma, it's not easy at all😭💔

    • @perfectmoments01
      @perfectmoments01 3 роки тому +3

      Please share your Instagram handle, I'll share a post (via DM) from a company that's looking for 20 customer service agents.

    • @conventionalfusion6416
      @conventionalfusion6416 3 роки тому +1

      @@perfectmoments01 mduduzisilinda

    • @perfectmoments01
      @perfectmoments01 3 роки тому

      @Leepile Taunyane done.

    • @perfectmoments01
      @perfectmoments01 3 роки тому

      @@conventionalfusion6416 done

  • @ndhlovulegacypictures1879
    @ndhlovulegacypictures1879 3 роки тому +3

    A cursed turned to blessing! Not everybody want to see you flourish! From now, I will keep my mouth shut regarding my plans!

  • @nomvulairene4177
    @nomvulairene4177 3 роки тому +1

    Much love mkhaya ❤️❤️

  • @DanDaddyD
    @DanDaddyD 3 роки тому +2

    Your story is touching bro😭😭😭

  • @kunoongavirue
    @kunoongavirue 3 роки тому +2

    I can relate 😭 I’m in the same situation I’ve a diploma and even getting unpaid INTENSHIP it’s not easy 🥺
    🇳🇦

  • @guguncube2308
    @guguncube2308 2 роки тому

    Life is not race my friend we all have a beginning and an end in-between find what makes you happy

  • @Prophetoffaith
    @Prophetoffaith 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing channel

  • @thokozaniskosana1022
    @thokozaniskosana1022 3 роки тому +4

    God is alive

  • @nawfkidd
    @nawfkidd Рік тому

    Thank You

  • @nompumelelombalenhle1627
    @nompumelelombalenhle1627 2 роки тому

    What a mighty God 🙌

  • @conventionalfusion6416
    @conventionalfusion6416 3 роки тому +5

    I have Diploma in ICT, but jobs dololo😢😢😢

    • @thabomokwana967
      @thabomokwana967 3 роки тому +2

      act like you don't have it and channel your energy like some of us who don't have any formal qualification, but the grace of God gave me a spiritual eye to see an opportunity and grab it.... not once or twice... more than 5-10 times and I thank God for that.

    • @yolandamagxwalisa9108
      @yolandamagxwalisa9108 Рік тому

      ​@@thabomokwana967 can you please explain what u saying?😔

  • @INFJ_9
    @INFJ_9 3 роки тому +5

    Move in silence

    • @xolanimothopeng1194
      @xolanimothopeng1194 3 роки тому +2

      Words I live by, only a small group of people know what’s going on in my life and I keep it that way.

  • @advmabasa6270
    @advmabasa6270 3 роки тому +1

    Your story is so similar to mine🤔😢

  • @ndhlovulegacypictures1879
    @ndhlovulegacypictures1879 3 роки тому

    Painful!😡😢

  • @magugumvuyane2051
    @magugumvuyane2051 3 роки тому

    I used to school with this guy in town view high school

  • @yemuraimlambo8719
    @yemuraimlambo8719 3 роки тому +1

    Mmm