Honestly everytime she tells it I really wish the worst for them. I sincerely hope the karma ruins their life. To get her locked up into an institution after doing that to her. No way they seein anything but hell 😭
This was a wholesome moment but nothing annoys me more then the insane misuse and spam of the word parasocial in any comment section with any relation to ludwig.
@@Trash0000 The misuse of the word 'parasocial' is not a big deal. At the end of the day, nothing good can come from watching a stranger who will never know you for hours on end (especially if they're as big as Lud and QT, where there's almost no chance of having your chat messages read). It's a vice, a thing people use to escape the harshness of reality. The furtherment of discouraging the act of sitting at home, watching strangers entertain you for hours of your life as opposed to going outside and making real experiences is only a good thing.
@@tyleranderson3178 I mean yea that would make sense in a situation where the girl is drunk and wants to sleep with a stranger. A hug for your long time boyfriend tho? doesnt make sense for me but im from sweden so might be som cultural thing?
I could enjoy anything these two did. They're a great combo act. Like Tina Fey and Amy Poehler. Or even Tina Fey and Alex Guarnischelli ("Beat Bobby Flay," episode ""Fey Vs. Flay": they worked to get into Bobby's head and succeeded).
the classic luls of the first half followed by a small crying sesh in the middle. it's helpful to hear people's experiences, coming from a society where inpatient and mental health support isn't a thing, it can make dealing with issues extremely difficult. i hope for everyone reading this that better times are coming your way.
As a person who has been in a mental hospital 2x, that was surreal for me to hear yours and Maya’s experiences about it. I just wanted to thank y’all for talking about it.
As someone who lost their mom when I was young, making jokes is really the only way to cope. Like it’s such an awful thing and I miss and love my mom so much, but making jokes about it makes it feel a little less awful
Idk if you will ever see this but thanks for being open to talk about mental health on stream because if some people find out you went to a hospital they treat you kinda weird and you both kinda normalized it to an extent
QT’s story about her insane ex in high school oh my GOD. I cant imagine getting everything ready to meet my boyfriend at a park only to be humiliated by his friends and then HOSPITALIZED. Wow
my dad died almost 2 months ago now and I'm 22. I really appreciate what QT said about how she copes, not everyone does it that way but to me that's the healthiest way to go about it. I love my dad more than I will ever love anyone also
When I was in university I was nearly admitted to a psych ward which was total overkill for my situation. I was depressed, yeah, but I wasn't self-harming or a danger to myself or others. I needed a consultation with a psychiatrist and for some reason there just wasn't a facility to talk to one without being committed. Eventually I found out that my university had a psychiatrist on staff that multiple people had neglected to tell me about, and that helped me be okay. There are definitely people who need extra help, but bluntly shoving everyone with a mood disorder into the one box doesn't work.
I have been seriously dealing with similar issues as far as, "where do I go, what do I do? Recently college graduated, and this was a great thing to watch, realizing that a lot of people from 18+ are feeling similar things as well , love yall. Thank you.
I'm 25 working a dead end job and never went to college, wondering if life is just trying to get the bois together to play games after work everyday until I die lmao
@@larine4459 honestly bro, I think life ultimately is just about having fun, if hanging with the boys and playing games is that, the that’s life brother, stay strong
I know this video is old, but you don't need to lose weight QT. You are perfect and beautiful the way you are. Lud loves you for the person you are, not the person you're not. Peace and love to you and I wish many, many years of happiness.
That talk about the guys all going agh damn to each other about the 7 year breakup is so accurate. As a man there's nothing I want more than a sympathetic sigh rather than a bunch of supportive words lol.
@@purplenutria1351 I think you completely missed the point. I think your macho andy's should try a supportive sigh. Dudes who are bad with emotions do what you said. Dudes who are good with emotions start off the described way, then make sure their boy is ok. You need to either find better friends or understand that you're in the gutter of emotions.
@@musicdude1540 i thinki you missed my point, not all man like to talk deep obout feelings all the time, everything have the time and place. no, dudes are not a colective, people have their own feelings and ways to deal with that. no, i have a very supportive group, im a psychologist specialized cognitive behavioral psychotherapy, and 2 of my friends are psychologyst also, one of them also specialized in Gestalt psycotherapy. whe undertand feelings are diferent for each person and comunication is something you cant blame to others if youre not willing to share
WTF y'all are soft I want my mates to be like "bro f**K that b**th let's get some beers and see if we can't get you a random" they'll get clowned relentlessly for Tryna have an emotional chat with me 😂
This is why I prefer the company of women over men. When my bff killed herself, those supportive sighs and distraction beers were not enough. My guy friends give me complete silence whenever I even mentioned her name. They never even suggested they wanted to hear about her. Sometimes ignoring emotions is not an option for some of us. Like I get it. If that's what you need as a bro, I'll give you that. But bros should be sensitive to what other bros need and when they need more direct emotional expression. And they tend not to be.
this is quite inspiring and beautiful, i got some intense anxiety and freak out about everything and hearing about how you both have been through the ringer one way or another and are still going strong rn (at least from behind the screen) is incredibly helpful and makes me feel like I can do it too
Ok, super late, but QTs stay in the mental hospital could have EASILY been avoided if anyone would have questioned the behavior of the boys in this story! Like why were his friends there? Why were they throwing trash at her? I would not think they cleaned the place before the ambulance/ cops arrived. Why was she running from him (abandoning her car)? Really shitty work of all the grown ups involved...
Thank you for sharing your story about your mom. It resonated so much with me. I lost my mom 6 years ago, when I was 22. I had just got my own appartment and really needed her. But she was in the middle of cancer treatment and I was fighting with her all the time because she wasn't taking care of herself and almost didn't do the surgery. I feel really bad for mourning her and the relationship we could've had and that I got PTSD because of everything, because I think that it's worse for children who loose their moms. So thank you again for sharing ❤️
As a dude that was lucky enough to have a best friend at 5 that I still hang with to this day (24) I am fookin lucky cause the dudes helped me get through a lot of shit and i've been able to actually express stuff my parents never really were able to.
Her theory sounds completely illogical however. She has the idea that raw fear is somehow a less pressing feeling than feeling stressed, and that Maslow's hierarchy justifies that, which it isn't, and which it doesn't. Maslow's hierarchy is not about which needs are "superior", it's about the natural evolution of needs as a society modernises.
@@m_uz1244 I think the idea is that horror movies tap into the “safety” section of the needs, which is a more basic and therefore more powerful motivation than esteem, which is a common source of anxiety. If you’re afraid, your motivation to feel safe will override the motivation you have to feel liked, or competent, or whatever higher-order thought is causing you anxiety, since Maslow’s theory is that you need to satisfy all the motivations in a lower stage in order for motivations in the next stage to arise
@@alex7435 Yes, exactly. What she's missing however is that the need to feel safe is not any lesser than the pain of anxiety. She isn't helping herself, just redirecting everything to a different place.
It’s so nice to hear these 2 talk openly and honestly about their experiences, at the very least will help some of us gain some perspective and let us know we’re not alone
Thank you guys for talking about your mental health and the like! I've been struggling recently and felt really alone. I just made the change to college and am struggling to keep up with the work. To know that even the people that I look up to as functioning adults struggle makes me feel better about my situation :)
Just finding out qt was Mormon. Although that is no longer a name my religion is referred to as I am a part of that religion. Just think it’s so weird how so many streamers and youtubers grew up as 1
23:30 a lot of rehab places are trash though, basically jail cells. in florida they can throw you in naked or in a paper robe with no 2 inch plastic mattress for 24 hours.
I've seen parts of this clip before but now that I saw that she asked Lud for a hug after she asked for him to disclose the name of his dong. So he is fully in his rights to deprive her of a hug.
wtf was QT's highschool story, that's so traumatizing jeeezzz
That’s lacrosse players for ya
made me angry and sad, the thing that comforted me is knowing that she is probably more successful than every single one of those bullies
Honestly everytime she tells it I really wish the worst for them. I sincerely hope the karma ruins their life. To get her locked up into an institution after doing that to her. No way they seein anything but hell 😭
I was in shockkkkkk
Dude for sure those if those fuckers see qt now they would just say “oh it’s because your boyfriend is famous” line to cope
Chat noting when the ring was lost and helping them find it was the most wholesome parasocial moment.
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@@Clickscap 5:58
This was a wholesome moment but nothing annoys me more then the insane misuse and spam of the word parasocial in any comment section with any relation to ludwig.
That was awesome
@@Trash0000 The misuse of the word 'parasocial' is not a big deal. At the end of the day, nothing good can come from watching a stranger who will never know you for hours on end (especially if they're as big as Lud and QT, where there's almost no chance of having your chat messages read). It's a vice, a thing people use to escape the harshness of reality. The furtherment of discouraging the act of sitting at home, watching strangers entertain you for hours of your life as opposed to going outside and making real experiences is only a good thing.
Ludwig still won't touch QT if she's drunk
Gentleman of the highest caliber
LMAO all facts here
why wont he touch her?
@@emilwallin1176 You can’t legally consent if you’re drunk. It’s actually really cool of him to think about that
@@tyleranderson3178 I mean yea that would make sense in a situation where the girl is drunk and wants to sleep with a stranger.
A hug for your long time boyfriend tho? doesnt make sense for me but im from sweden so might be som cultural thing?
QT and Maya are such a great combo
I could enjoy anything these two did. They're a great combo act. Like Tina Fey and Amy Poehler. Or even Tina Fey and Alex Guarnischelli ("Beat Bobby Flay," episode ""Fey Vs. Flay": they worked to get into Bobby's head and succeeded).
Especially wined up.
They low-key give off sister vibes idk why lmao
they should make a podcast
I love seeing a mother spending time with her daughter.
the classic luls of the first half followed by a small crying sesh in the middle. it's helpful to hear people's experiences, coming from a society where inpatient and mental health support isn't a thing, it can make dealing with issues extremely difficult.
i hope for everyone reading this that better times are coming your way.
yo
Awesome msg stranger on the internet, thank you and we all need this more than ever these days
crying on main, at 5am - classic. Only (almost) 2 years late to the party lol
Missed a chance to call it the "most beautifully transparent Q&A Ever"
Holy shit man, both of them went through hell in high school
As a person who has been in a mental hospital 2x, that was surreal for me to hear yours and Maya’s experiences about it. I just wanted to thank y’all for talking about it.
As someone who lost their mom when I was young, making jokes is really the only way to cope. Like it’s such an awful thing and I miss and love my mom so much, but making jokes about it makes it feel a little less awful
It was kinda funny when she wipes her finger and pulls the ring off she looks at her finger like "fuck where's my ring."
Idk if you will ever see this but thanks for being open to talk about mental health on stream because if some people find out you went to a hospital they treat you kinda weird and you both kinda normalized it to an extent
QT’s story about her insane ex in high school oh my GOD. I cant imagine getting everything ready to meet my boyfriend at a park only to be humiliated by his friends and then HOSPITALIZED. Wow
the genesis of wine about it
This was the birth of Wine About It
this is the most "i'm so fed up with my numerous children" barrel of wine ive ever seen
my dad died almost 2 months ago now and I'm 22. I really appreciate what QT said about how she copes, not everyone does it that way but to me that's the healthiest way to go about it. I love my dad more than I will ever love anyone also
Qt talking about how she deals with the death of her mom is exactly how I go through it
it isnt a QT stream without wine
someone in chat said maxmoefoe to qt in the black wig. absolutely
I thought the same thing and was waiting to see it in chat
When I was in university I was nearly admitted to a psych ward which was total overkill for my situation. I was depressed, yeah, but I wasn't self-harming or a danger to myself or others. I needed a consultation with a psychiatrist and for some reason there just wasn't a facility to talk to one without being committed. Eventually I found out that my university had a psychiatrist on staff that multiple people had neglected to tell me about, and that helped me be okay.
There are definitely people who need extra help, but bluntly shoving everyone with a mood disorder into the one box doesn't work.
OG Wine About It
Loved the honest and funny answers from Qt. And wtf Maya just lost a ring , threw up and washed her phone in one stream. POG
I have been seriously dealing with similar issues as far as,
"where do I go, what do I do? Recently college graduated, and this was a great thing to watch, realizing that a lot of people from 18+ are feeling similar things as well , love yall. Thank you.
Yea you aint alone. It's a weird world! Just try things and see what sticks. Good luck :)
I'm 25 working a dead end job and never went to college, wondering if life is just trying to get the bois together to play games after work everyday until I die lmao
@@larine4459 honestly bro, I think life ultimately is just about having fun, if hanging with the boys and playing games is that, the that’s life brother, stay strong
The moral of the lost ring is to recycle
I know this video is old, but you don't need to lose weight QT. You are perfect and beautiful the way you are. Lud loves you for the person you are, not the person you're not. Peace and love to you and I wish many, many years of happiness.
THE INTRO IS SO FUNNY BECAUSE MY MOM HAS A FRIEND NAMED MERIDITH AND SHE ALWAYS SAYS STUFF LIKE 0:50
The chat saying "How much do you bench Pussy?" to Maya so fuckin funny after the What do you love about men? Question.
wine about it ep 1
I miss Wine About It so I’m rewatching this. I hope Maya and Qt come back and continue the podcast. I hope everything will get better and clear out.
Like half this video is:
"Spoiler: Everyone is also crazy, so it's not abnormal"
And that's kinda great.
That talk about the guys all going agh damn to each other about the 7 year breakup is so accurate. As a man there's nothing I want more than a sympathetic sigh rather than a bunch of supportive words lol.
i think some people are just bad with emotions, my group of friends is full of macho andys and everyone is supportive, just not over supportive
@@purplenutria1351 I think you completely missed the point. I think your macho andy's should try a supportive sigh. Dudes who are bad with emotions do what you said. Dudes who are good with emotions start off the described way, then make sure their boy is ok.
You need to either find better friends or understand that you're in the gutter of emotions.
@@musicdude1540 i thinki you missed my point, not all man like to talk deep obout feelings all the time, everything have the time and place.
no, dudes are not a colective, people have their own feelings and ways to deal with that.
no, i have a very supportive group, im a psychologist
specialized cognitive behavioral psychotherapy, and 2 of my friends are psychologyst also, one of them also specialized in Gestalt psycotherapy.
whe undertand feelings are diferent for each person and comunication is something you cant blame to others if youre not willing to share
WTF y'all are soft I want my mates to be like "bro f**K that b**th let's get some beers and see if we can't get you a random" they'll get clowned relentlessly for Tryna have an emotional chat with me 😂
This is why I prefer the company of women over men. When my bff killed herself, those supportive sighs and distraction beers were not enough. My guy friends give me complete silence whenever I even mentioned her name. They never even suggested they wanted to hear about her. Sometimes ignoring emotions is not an option for some of us. Like I get it. If that's what you need as a bro, I'll give you that. But bros should be sensitive to what other bros need and when they need more direct emotional expression. And they tend not to be.
No shot Ludwig looks that Goated with a Wig.
Pilot episode for Wine about it be like
I'm so glad you're doing Wine About It now... You two are hilarious and talk about such important subjects and your takes are so good.
this is quite inspiring and beautiful, i got some intense anxiety and freak out about everything and hearing about how you both have been through the ringer one way or another and are still going strong rn (at least from behind the screen) is incredibly helpful and makes me feel like I can do it too
Ok, super late, but QTs stay in the mental hospital could have EASILY been avoided if anyone would have questioned the behavior of the boys in this story! Like why were his friends there? Why were they throwing trash at her? I would not think they cleaned the place before the ambulance/ cops arrived. Why was she running from him (abandoning her car)? Really shitty work of all the grown ups involved...
so this was basically wine about it episode 0! loved it, surprised i missed it until today
godd. I never knew that American high schoolers had the worst life. that truly sucks.
Thank you for sharing your mental health experiences. I admire both of you and it was refreshing to hear!!
Maya describing catharsis without knowing it is hilarious
Im boutta cry 😢 i thought this was gunna be a normal video. Im going through it rn and this shit kinda hit too hard
Thank you for sharing your story about your mom. It resonated so much with me.
I lost my mom 6 years ago, when I was 22. I had just got my own appartment and really needed her. But she was in the middle of cancer treatment and I was fighting with her all the time because she wasn't taking care of herself and almost didn't do the surgery.
I feel really bad for mourning her and the relationship we could've had and that I got PTSD because of everything, because I think that it's worse for children who loose their moms.
So thank you again for sharing ❤️
Who’s here checking this because of Miz and Maya situation?
what happened between them?
@@willow990 no details but they both agreed to break up, miz said he’s not gonna stream for a long time
@@Xade117 miz said about 2 weeks break not a long time lol
qts story sounds like some 13 reasons why shit . im glad she is ok now
Damn they weren't lying Sadge
First unofficial Wine about it
the first wine about it :o
The QT song thing is fucken brutal.... most fucked up thing I've heard all day!
even a 50 person wedding seems like a LOT of people, 200 is just insane - at that point you are just have people there that you haven't even met
men as a species?????
i love the wine about it pilot
"Hopefully my boyfriend will give me a sub"
Same dude. I could go for a philly cheese steak right now.
As a dude that was lucky enough to have a best friend at 5 that I still hang with to this day (24) I am fookin lucky cause the dudes helped me get through a lot of shit and i've been able to actually express stuff my parents never really were able to.
This whole girl talk was craaaazy... I'm a guy, but I felt included 😅
4:30 ...well...not anymore lol
Oof
~3:00 she's talking about Maslow's hierarchy. Something to Google if you're interested in psychology
Her theory sounds completely illogical however. She has the idea that raw fear is somehow a less pressing feeling than feeling stressed, and that Maslow's hierarchy justifies that, which it isn't, and which it doesn't. Maslow's hierarchy is not about which needs are "superior", it's about the natural evolution of needs as a society modernises.
@@m_uz1244 I think the idea is that horror movies tap into the “safety” section of the needs, which is a more basic and therefore more powerful motivation than esteem, which is a common source of anxiety.
If you’re afraid, your motivation to feel safe will override the motivation you have to feel liked, or competent, or whatever higher-order thought is causing you anxiety, since Maslow’s theory is that you need to satisfy all the motivations in a lower stage in order for motivations in the next stage to arise
@@alex7435 Yes, exactly. What she's missing however is that the need to feel safe is not any lesser than the pain of anxiety. She isn't helping herself, just redirecting everything to a different place.
As someone who also has OCD it’s really surprising and nice to hear someone talking about having it
loved listening to the deep conversations you guys were having :)
The egirl rejects look different here /j
This is literally the same story as the latest wine about it
omg i feel so safe listening to them talk about mental health.
QT got me over here bawling my eyes out
Teenagers are cruel as f**k. What the hell was that story?
Qt is quickly becoming my favorite person
What's the outro music? Hope somebody reads it this year....
I GOT HOOOOOOOOOES
It’s so nice to hear these 2 talk openly and honestly about their experiences, at the very least will help some of us gain some perspective and let us know we’re not alone
This really is the first episode of wine about it huh
Honestly really amazing to know that Qt has someone that supports her and understands her old spiraling
Thank you guys for talking about your mental health and the like! I've been struggling recently and felt really alone. I just made the change to college and am struggling to keep up with the work. To know that even the people that I look up to as functioning adults struggle makes me feel better about my situation :)
Just finding out qt was Mormon. Although that is no longer a name my religion is referred to as I am a part of that religion. Just think it’s so weird how so many streamers and youtubers grew up as 1
this is really my favorite stream with QT and Maya
hey qt and Maya
Why do QT’s stories make me so sad :(
21:08 QT, that is so unforgivably cruel and I’m so sorry it happened to you. You’re fantastic. High School is BS. ❤❤❤❤
These are so awesome, I really hope they don't call it off now that Maya and Miz aren't in a relationship
I can't believe QT went through all of that sounds absolutely awful
oh fuck
i laughed @ a joke sum1 made on twitch
im in a parasocial relationship
help me
I feel like if they lock me in a place with nothing to do for 24 hours I'll just sleep and feel more depressed
I hate that qt thinks shes so fat and needs to lose 20lbs, she looks like a VERY healthy weight, skinny even, id say
I can't watch chat, they're just annoying.
Genuinely most interesting thing iv'e seen all day
Thank you so much for being so open about mental health, it rlly does help me normalize my own issues and others too I feel
Man Qt’s senior year story got me fucked up, people are fucking shitty sometimes damn
That was so terribly hard to listen to. Its so unfortunate that you had to go through all that shit.
QT with the brown wig looks so much like my sister, its unsettling. My sister isn't nearly this funny
I get a lil uncomfortable about dead parents jokes but I find them honestly so much more funny than I should Bc its so taboo in conversation
Can't believe they pinpointed the moment she lost her ring
I love the band in the thumbnail they should make some more music.
23:30 a lot of rehab places are trash though, basically jail cells. in florida they can throw you in naked or in a paper robe with no 2 inch plastic mattress for 24 hours.
I've seen parts of this clip before but now that I saw that she asked Lud for a hug after she asked for him to disclose the name of his dong. So he is fully in his rights to deprive her of a hug.
people through garbage at qt literally makes me wanna cry
The reason I came to this channel was lud, and the reason I stayed was that it made me feel better about my mental health
soon as men were mentioned chat got so offended lmao
It’s so crazy that individually on stream I think they’re the same height/size but seeing them sat next to each other QT is so powerful
That Qt story is fucked it should totally be a movie
Jfc chat is cancer. Two women opening up about their mental health journeys and people keep spamming that they should move on.
QT's life is a Dharr Man video
Qt with the first wig looks like ying yang lady from psych
Love watching this while being sad