Hitting Rock Bottom: The Gift of Losing it All | Sal Costa | TEDxCollingwood

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  • @KMCF4
    @KMCF4 2 роки тому +268

    Wherever you are at the stage of your life, if you come across this video, I’m sure what you are going/went through is not easy. The fact that we are able to watch this video and reading my comment, it’s already a blessing compare to the other unfortunates. Stay strong, stay positive. Life always comes around better, because there is nothing can be worse than a rock bottom. Positive vibe ⭐️

    • @RojerGarcia.
      @RojerGarcia. 6 місяців тому

      Thank you! I’m going to try my best to

  • @bigoleboogers
    @bigoleboogers 2 роки тому +93

    “it’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything” - tyler durden.

  • @tasnimnaz7109
    @tasnimnaz7109 2 роки тому +126

    I've hit rock bottom in life. I'm unemployed, and all my friends have started their career. My marriage has hit rocky grounds because of how useless I've become. I'm trying to claw my way out of this hopelessness. I just hope it's not too late.

    • @magiclampboogiesdown9717
      @magiclampboogiesdown9717 2 роки тому +15

      It’s never too late hold on and fight. You’re tougher and stronger than you ever realize!

    • @TheTUTUMYSTER
      @TheTUTUMYSTER Рік тому +3

      How’s it going bro??!!

    • @Vuedanto
      @Vuedanto Рік тому +1

      Just hope.

    • @WoWdespair
      @WoWdespair Рік тому +1

      Yep in same boat

    • @aw33
      @aw33 Рік тому +3

      I’m just reading this 7 months later. I hope you’re still fighting the good fight. This is his hard and I can relate sooo much!
      Xoxoxo

  • @renn7187
    @renn7187 Рік тому +51

    I have hit rock bottom, I had everything going right 7 months back but i have lost everything. Now i am clinging on to whatever little I have got with me and working on getting myself back up again, its tough but there is no other way.

    • @ther3alenso
      @ther3alenso Рік тому

      😢 same here… hope you’re doing better

    • @CoachCee
      @CoachCee Рік тому

      @renn7187 rooting for you in 2023.

    • @AttainTheGrain
      @AttainTheGrain Рік тому +1

      How’s it going brother?

  • @workinprogress49
    @workinprogress49 Рік тому +20

    Every time I feel like I’ve hit bottom, the floor seems to sink lower.

  • @wild5337
    @wild5337 Рік тому +25

    I’ve lost it all, the beginning of 2022 I was making $5k a month, driving a brand new Mercedes Benz, had all the toys and luxuries of life, and then starting in November I began a dark descent into losing everything I worked so hard for. I’m bankrupt and have to pay bills in a week with no way to do it, started a job and lost it due to my health declining, I’m not sure what to do, I’m starting to lose hope of things ever getting better, I’ve lost my friends, my daughter is being kept from me so I can’t see her, how much more pain do I have to endure before I can feel what happiness is again? I have nothing else to lose. I hope anybody and everybody that takes the time to read this or watch this video, gets whatever their looking for and can make a comeback. I’m not so sure my story will end the same.

    • @eluap71
      @eluap71 Рік тому +4

      I’m not gonna lie, all of this sounds absolutely awful! I know this may be hard to hear in light of all that you’re going through, but things are going to get better. I remember hearing the story of a millionaire that lost everything and was still encouraged because he knew if he had it in him to make a million once, he could make it again. Also, A reminder that even though money is necessary it does not guarantee happiness. Sharing your story here is a huge step towards the light. All you need is the faith of a mustard seed- just water it every day with gratitude for what you still have. Also show up for yourself and don’t allow negative thoughts to take over you. There are better days ahead and one day you will look back on this time as a powerful lesson that made you fight for the amazing life you eventually will have. Be blessed❤

    • @wild5337
      @wild5337 Рік тому +8

      @@eluap71 thank you for your kind words, and you’re absolutely right! Since I wrote that comment things have started to get better, one day at a time.

    • @MrEdoTense
      @MrEdoTense Рік тому +1

      @@wild5337 omg thank
      God! I’m glad to hear you’re doing better now.. I hope everything continues to get better and you come to a beautiful place in life

    • @wild5337
      @wild5337 Рік тому +1

      @@MrEdoTense thank you so much :)

    • @llawlient10
      @llawlient10 3 місяці тому

      How are you brother now?

  • @letstalkbusiness_
    @letstalkbusiness_ Рік тому +19

    im 16, a junior in high school. my girlfriend of 7 months broke my heart right after my mom left me and my dad, i can barely wake up for school, i can barely eat, i keep getting my heartbroken, i cant make my car payments, i barely can find motivation at all. i pray that things will turn around for me and for everyone here. we’re all gonna make it.

    • @a.c.2659
      @a.c.2659 11 місяців тому

      7 months… not a short time how have you been doing

    • @Senjie_insane
      @Senjie_insane Місяць тому +1

      Man 6 months for me same situation

    • @Senjie_insane
      @Senjie_insane Місяць тому +1

      I just turned 17

  • @BigJimWTheMayor
    @BigJimWTheMayor 4 роки тому +45

    I'm so very proud of my friend Sal.. Bravo

  • @showcasesportsnextgen9028
    @showcasesportsnextgen9028 3 роки тому +47

    I’ve been here in the darkness for far too long
    I haven’t given in but I’m no longer strong
    I want so badly to live in joy again
    I’ve lost so much, show me God, let me win

    • @stavshimoni2430
      @stavshimoni2430 2 роки тому +2

      Same here
      😔

    • @risingcode3909
      @risingcode3909 Рік тому

      that's the spirit! things can only get better from rock bottom and that is a fact. Worse has no power aftet that, it's defeated. It all starts with a decision that as long as you want to get better you will

  • @amansaxena5825
    @amansaxena5825 Рік тому +10

    I m 27 years old, my girl friiend just broke up with me after 7 years of long relationship with me. I m also unemployed right now decided to prepare for masters in computer science in a country among all the enginners here in India. I also failed to qualify in one of the exams which I had. I am at rock bottom right now and there is a tough road ahead and i hope i will be getting admitted to one of the best institution ahead in India.
    Writing this just so that whenever I fell rock bottom again i come here to see how far i did come after this. Best of luck to you too whoever is reading this. I know it is tough out there to be better than what u are right now but this is what we ever wanted to be the better version of all of us! 😊

  • @PNdimZ
    @PNdimZ 17 днів тому +2

    I'm here because I just hit rock bottom and I'm trying to stand back up

  • @emmy16661
    @emmy16661 2 роки тому +12

    I met you multiple times at your shows, I’m a huge supporter of you and I love you so much. I’m so sorry as a fan we never knew you were hurting so much🖤 you’re an amazing, beautiful inspirational human!

  • @avgamespot6264
    @avgamespot6264 4 роки тому +78

    I had it all money car job and the girl I wanted lost it all in just a month literally and it’s crazy how I felt rn I’m just trynna get thru it will be back exact a year from now on see ya later

  • @orchidearts
    @orchidearts 28 днів тому

    Thank you so much!!

  • @brenttaber1721
    @brenttaber1721 Місяць тому +1

    Great song

  • @lavinialucas3631
    @lavinialucas3631 3 роки тому +8

    wow. that's all I can say.
    when you look at your favorite musician/celebrity at all, you think that they are happy doing what they are doing. I watched a lot of videos of Sal on MDD and I always thought he was happy. that's interesting, know how people feel about something. that's why I watched it. one of my best decisions.

  • @kounouzqueen1202
    @kounouzqueen1202 Рік тому +6

    The fact that I lost everything in my life and everything is hard right now.. And really don't know what to do.. Specially that today was the worst when I knew that I lost even the little things and little hopes it's just heart broken... Why? Idk... It's just hard that you lost every dream and every goal

    • @ayopollo
      @ayopollo Рік тому

      Right here with you bro.

    • @orvillelim2461
      @orvillelim2461 11 місяців тому

      I hope everything goes well by now

  • @josueguay
    @josueguay 4 роки тому +6

    You are such an inspiration for me in musician aspect, I really appreciate whit my whole life your music you make the person who I am now, I overpassed the depression and sadness whit your lyrics and chords. I never thought you reach that point in your life now I understand why music can heal in all aspects
    Thanks Sal

  • @WalidtheNoematicsguy
    @WalidtheNoematicsguy Рік тому +1

    I have hit rock bottom. Lost job, which was paying so well, now in debt. I am trying to do good, but for months, i am not able to !! I got another job, which paid less, but i still took up, and that was bad, and i left !! I don't know i am just losing faith !! I have been positive for so long, but now i have reached breaking point !! 😢😢😢

  • @MeghanAir-pb6tz
    @MeghanAir-pb6tz 2 місяці тому

    Last 4 years have been the toughest...I lost everything- career, love, ambitions. Now I am trying to stick together the pieces of the puzzle of my life. It appears very difficult but now or never. Hopefully one day I will be in a better position than this.

  • @gbpstudios
    @gbpstudios Рік тому +2

    I keep telling myself I love my life but i’ve definitely hit rock bottom. about 2 months ago I got kicked out and me and my first girlfriend broke up the same day. i’m a boxer and lost my 2nd fight in a row 2 weeks later. i’ve been loosing my passion to fight. I don’t know what my passion is anymore. trying to make ends meet by working this job and now they’re cutting back my hours and i have a feeling this isn’t where i’m met to be. i keep making mistakes that i don’t want to make, and feel deep sadness everytime people tell me that they see something special in me they don’t see in anyone else because of how i carry myself, i feel like a fraud sometimes. i’ve already hit a rock bottom before in 8th grade (im 19 years old now) when i tried to commit suicide, my dad started making money when i was in 3rd grade and isolated me by putting me in a private school with only 20 kids in my class where i’d only go 2 days a week to get my homework and turn it in. haven’t had a recess sense 2nd grade or went trick or treating, felt like i had an unfulfilling child hood and i’m struggling to find fun in things, in 8th grade i became super depressed and wanted to end it all, my dad caught me in the act and dropped to the floor, this made me never want to commit suicide again because of the way i saw my dad, it put a lot of trauma on me, more then i like to admit. but i can’t ignore the fact i feel like i’m going down the same slope, i’m struggling to find fun in things, i don’t know how to anymore. i hope eventually i find the beauty in life, sometimes i just want to quit. i feel like if i go back to my parents house i’m going to fall into depression again, i’ve been sleeping in my car and staying with my grandparents when I can, life is hard, but i’m going to keep going. i’ve quit my weed addiction because i was smoking up to 3 blunts a day to get rid of the pain. dealing with this sober is the route i have to take, pray for me, i want to make it in this life and be fulfilled, at this point im just thanking god for the ability to breath.

    • @IshaanGupta-fq3tl
      @IshaanGupta-fq3tl 11 місяців тому

      Keep care of yourself brother things will change definitely

  • @Iamrichannor
    @Iamrichannor 2 роки тому +1

    Goosebumps all over me right now, this video is me

  • @gcode365gg
    @gcode365gg Рік тому +1

    Theres no testimony without a test fight through the pain and trust god that he has better plans for you in due time 🙏🏼

  • @exploretheworld2474
    @exploretheworld2474 2 роки тому +8

    Apparently rock bottom has a basement.

  • @aimeevices
    @aimeevices 2 роки тому

    Feeling very low and didn’t know I needed to hear your opening song. I love guitar. Music for and from the heart.

  • @olgamoraiti
    @olgamoraiti Рік тому

    You just gave me so much courage... Thank you 🙏

  • @Dennisskater55
    @Dennisskater55 3 роки тому +4

    Song was amazing

  • @magiclampboogiesdown9717
    @magiclampboogiesdown9717 2 роки тому +5

    Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the face. - Mike Tyson

  • @anro1924
    @anro1924 3 роки тому +3

    I LOVE THIS SONG❤️🙌🏼❤️

  • @waytiiwaytiprem5221
    @waytiiwaytiprem5221 2 роки тому +5

    Been in rock bottom for 3 years now. I just wrote this because I made another ridiculous unforced mistake

  • @lemmychibuye2346
    @lemmychibuye2346 3 роки тому +8

    Stay strong..and keep believing in yourself

  • @chrisloyd88
    @chrisloyd88 День тому

    I’m about to lose everything no car no money eviction coming in a couple weeks crack addiction past year tried everything rehab NA AA all the As counseling job after job family tried to help friends tried to help and maybe losing anything will make some kind of difference I really don’t know…7 days sober today and hoping for an 8th, don’t know what’s going to happen in the future but I’m pretty sure I will be in the streets in a couple weeks. About to hit my current rock bottom paralyzed everyday from depression and anxiety harder and harder to get up and do anything. Friends and family starting to ignore my cries for help, because no one wants to deal with a drug addict. Just want to do this comment maybe someone can give me good advice. ❤

  • @dikshya_kharka_chetry
    @dikshya_kharka_chetry 12 днів тому

  • @supreemcourt9181
    @supreemcourt9181 3 роки тому +4

    Is there where the movie Soul got it’s idea from??
    Truth be told, I find it kinda scary to finally hit the point of your dreams and it doesn’t feel as great as u thought

  • @t.wagner8385
    @t.wagner8385 Рік тому +2

    I am at rock bottom as we speak. Its difficult, but i know better times are coming. 3:31

  • @Jacob_EstateAgent
    @Jacob_EstateAgent Рік тому +1

    I have hit rock bottom, lost a high paying job , to learn computer programming just to find out Its not my cup of tea ,
    Lost both my parents , got divorced because iam poor ,
    Right now working in a bare minimum wage job,
    Just hoping for this dark tunnel to end .

    • @wild5337
      @wild5337 Рік тому +1

      I hope things get better for you and I’m sure they will. I’m in the same boat except I’m unemployed and about to be completely bankrupt with lots of debt with seemingly no way out.

    • @pocheuear4509
      @pocheuear4509 Рік тому +1

      I hope you are doing good now, same situation here.

    • @Jacob_EstateAgent
      @Jacob_EstateAgent 11 місяців тому

      @@wild5337 how are you doing now mate .

    • @wild5337
      @wild5337 11 місяців тому

      @@Jacob_EstateAgent doing a bit better, up to my neck still in debt but I’ve figured some things out and made some progress. Thought my life was over but things do get better with time and hard work. I hope things are going better for you!

    • @sumiedisplay
      @sumiedisplay 7 місяців тому

      hope you’re doing better

  • @eryluria3554
    @eryluria3554 4 роки тому

    I’m crying

  • @joselinawilliams8603
    @joselinawilliams8603 Рік тому

    I hit rock bottom 2021 I haven’t gotten out of it I’m now 26 still waiting for my medical license to activated I just wanna be happy again I can’t take this anymore idk it’s seems their no way out I ask god why take my families&friends life why didn’t u take my life what am I doing right God.

  • @ancienttones7423
    @ancienttones7423 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you this really helps

  • @marathearoldan320
    @marathearoldan320 Рік тому

    At rock bottom right now. I just wanna give up.

  • @MamaBasics101
    @MamaBasics101 2 роки тому

    💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @sylkeveldhuis7499
    @sylkeveldhuis7499 4 роки тому +6

    I know understand the name "My Darkest Days"

  • @collin.grant1
    @collin.grant1 2 роки тому

    So I came across this video and my name is Collin Grant and it’s called collingwood and I couldn’t help but think I’m supposed to see this video cause I’m totally at rock bottom.

    • @drich8806
      @drich8806 2 роки тому

      I hope things are improving Collin

  • @DatBikerDude
    @DatBikerDude 2 роки тому +5

    Sorrt but wtf does this have to do with hitting rock bottom...

    • @roberttruman8444
      @roberttruman8444 Рік тому

      I dunno. Sounded like 15 minutes of Californian self indulgent 'surfer dude' speak to me. Jesus give this guy a doobie and an acoustic guitar, STAT!

  • @MamaBasics101
    @MamaBasics101 2 роки тому

    Strong beautiful message 🙏

  • @marianascorpion4722
    @marianascorpion4722 2 роки тому

    Lyrics?

  • @amulyakhatter
    @amulyakhatter Рік тому

    Wtf i thought this would be a Ted talk not some local song promo

  • @neutralbs2995
    @neutralbs2995 3 роки тому

    me in 2015

  • @matthewcloke7901
    @matthewcloke7901 7 місяців тому

    There is no rock bottom.

  • @banyarling
    @banyarling 3 роки тому +3

    Who?

    • @nin7283
      @nin7283 3 роки тому +3

      he was actually kinda famous in the rock industry

  • @aisra9439
    @aisra9439 4 роки тому +16

    This is not useful

  • @dickie_white
    @dickie_white 5 місяців тому

    the only problem is, most people suffering live in dread of reaching rock bottom.