How I Applied for the Divorce ❤️

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  • @queenscotia769
    @queenscotia769 3 дні тому +18

    One question is Why did you get married and have children if you were already aware of your sexuality . ?

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +9

      My Ex was also aware of my sexuality,
      And I feel Madly in love with her,
      I was on cloud 9 but it all started to go wrong 10yrs later.
      I stayed in the relationship for the sake of my children.
      The marriage totally broke down after 36 yrs of marriage.

    • @marylynch951
      @marylynch951 2 дні тому +2

      My exact thoughts

    • @marcusgeorge9318
      @marcusgeorge9318 2 години тому

      Very small minded of you. You don't even know the difference between gender and sexually.

    • @peterknight7987
      @peterknight7987 Годину тому

      Life is not that black and white!

  • @leannevigus
    @leannevigus 3 дні тому +14

    Hi, April I am so happy for you. I wish I had your strength to do what you do. Instead, I sit back and shut myself out from the world. Watching you really does help me April and you also make me laugh a lot too I love your different fashion every single day something new. If I keep watching you. 1 day I will have the courage to be as strong as you.❤

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +8

      I am sure that you already have that strength within you and one day you will act upon it ❤️💋❤️

  • @sheilacarter7875
    @sheilacarter7875 3 дні тому +12

    April l listened to you, but l would like to say that there are two sides to every story.You may be happy but looking at it from a womans side it must have been devastating for your wife.All those years living a lie,l am not being unkind but as l said l feel for your wife.l take it she knew you were a cross dresser she must have felt let down. Why is it always years down the line when things like this come out.I hope she finds happiness she deserves it.l am just looking at it from a womans angle.

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +3

      Yes Sheila you are right there are two sides to every story and you have only heard my side of what happened.
      But my wife watches my UA-cam channel and you may have noticed that she hasn’t made any comments about what I have told you all, and there is a very good reason for that,
      Because I have told the truth.
      My wife was aware of my gay side & crossdressing before we got married and they were “NOT” the reason for the failure of our marriage.
      You are right about hoping that she finds happiness in a future relationship,
      💋💋

    • @sheilacarter7875
      @sheilacarter7875 3 дні тому +4

      @@april3039 l wasn't insinuating tbat you weren't telling the truth, l was looking at it from a womans angle.I somehow don't think she would comment on your channel.about your marriage.Anyway as you say she watches l wish her nothing but lots of happiness in the future and you too.

  • @carnettaferrie315
    @carnettaferrie315 3 дні тому +6

    Your kids are great to you lovely you be how you want to be❤

  • @karyne826
    @karyne826 3 години тому

    You’re such a happy vivacious person April. You definitely made the right decision for you. You have your boys and you’re living your best life. Perfect.

  • @peterknight7987
    @peterknight7987 Годину тому

    Its so great to see your living your life as your true self

  • @lornahyde262
    @lornahyde262 3 дні тому +4

    Ahh I'm glad it was settled xx the only person we hurt is ourselves

  • @RandomLifeProductions
    @RandomLifeProductions 2 дні тому +5

    I think it must have been hard on your ex wife. She was probably in love with you and in denial…. She may not have been able to accept this. Love and emotion are a difficult thing especially in relationships. Please be kind to her, it will take time for her to process it.

  • @elainefletcher7787
    @elainefletcher7787 3 дні тому +10

    You have such a lovely understanding family April. ❤️

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +2

      Hi Elaine this is the first chance that I have had today to check my messages
      I hope that you have had the good weather that we had this morning.
      Weather has changed now and we did have a little rain 🌧️ about an hour ago.
      All my Love April ❤️❤️

    • @elainefletcher7787
      @elainefletcher7787 3 дні тому +1

      @@april3039 Hi April, yes it's been nice here but the temperature is starting to drop again. Have enjoyed watching your videos today. Thankyou for shareing them. ❤️🌹

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +1

      @elainefletcher7787
      My Pleasure Elaine
      ❤️❤️

  • @TraceyCooper-b9i
    @TraceyCooper-b9i Годину тому

    so good having such understanding children x

  • @claregribbon2198
    @claregribbon2198 3 дні тому +7

    Your family have all been so understanding and supportive April, your very lucky,xx

  • @juliathomas6512
    @juliathomas6512 3 дні тому +6

    Life moves forward. Wish you all the happiness you deserve April.🌷🐞🌷

  • @ritap13236
    @ritap13236 3 дні тому +7

    Well done to have the courage to be the person you want to be. Some people cant even make a small change and you have started a new chapter ✨😊

  • @kash7585
    @kash7585 3 дні тому +13

    It sounds like she wanted you to beg her to work things out. She got a big surprise when you did it on the computer that night. Glad you’re happy now. ❤

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +7

      Yes she thought that everything would revert back to normal, but how wrong was she 💋💋

    • @kash7585
      @kash7585 3 дні тому

      @@april3039 you showed her! So happy you’re FREE! ❤️❤️

    • @aro8046
      @aro8046 2 дні тому

      ​@@april3039. Absolutely good for You!❤❤ xx

  • @jeanettedickson2789
    @jeanettedickson2789 День тому +1

    Hi April you did the right thing I wish I had the strength that you have but never mind but I am so happy for you April ❤

  • @ITSALLWITHINYOU
    @ITSALLWITHINYOU День тому +1

    living authentically is the best feeling...

  • @Alisonuk
    @Alisonuk 2 дні тому +2

    Your kids are brilliant. So much love and support. Xx

  • @donnablackman3954
    @donnablackman3954 3 дні тому +8

    Wish you the best❤ long as your happy go for it ❤

  • @maryansharm5296
    @maryansharm5296 3 дні тому +4

    I love and support you in everything you wish to do. You brighten my life dear April. Who cares if someone wants to identify as a man, a woman, or even a hedgehog. Be free darling! Enjoy what you have missed for so long.
    (From a Sudbury lady of indeterminate age.)

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +1

      🤣😂👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @janeyjane5675
    @janeyjane5675 3 дні тому +5

    You are such an amazing lady April and it must have taken enormous courage to tell those closest to you. You are truly blessed with a wonderful, supportive family and they are lucky to have you in their lives. Sending love x

  • @holliethomson6147
    @holliethomson6147 2 дні тому +2

    Bless your beautiful heart April ❤ they say things happen for a reason and now you’re truly happy, living your best life the way you want too. Fantastic ❤xxx😊

  • @angelaredman3373
    @angelaredman3373 3 дні тому +8

    I wish you all of the luck in the world. BE HAPPY sweetheart 💕 xxxx

  • @ClareCheckley-qn6qm
    @ClareCheckley-qn6qm 3 дні тому +5

    I would lovecyou as my friend April.. I admire you so much x

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +3

      Clare I already consider you to be my special friend ❤️❤️

    • @ClareCheckley-qn6qm
      @ClareCheckley-qn6qm 3 дні тому +2

      @@april3039 that is so lovely.. thankyou ❤️

  • @kimcollins2050
    @kimcollins2050 3 дні тому +6

    April ❤ l think your son was good knowing he just wants you to be happy you are still his dad nothing changed the same with your daughter!! it was the best thing your wife done asking for divorce bet she's sorry now you can now be yourself April suits you such a gorgeous loving lovely lady ❤❤❤xxx

  • @janetteheni-bear5991
    @janetteheni-bear5991 22 години тому

    You have climbed the highest mountain now you can see the view.
    Good luck for your future April...
    We all deserve a little happiness.

  • @paulwalker1793
    @paulwalker1793 3 дні тому +5

    You're a lucky fella. With you're family

  • @annabellesapphire
    @annabellesapphire 3 дні тому +6

    It's always unsettling when your folks are falling out, my parents got divorced when I was 9, my life was never the same, awful abusive step father 👎 as long as your folks love you, that's all that matters 💞💞💞

  • @juliek7071
    @juliek7071 3 дні тому +5

    Hi April, I haven't had time to watch your videos yet but I will tonight. Hope you're having a beautiful Sunday. Give the boys a big hug from me. And have a blessed day. Julie

  • @meljones7871
    @meljones7871 3 дні тому +2

    Great story April, the situation came back and bit her on the bum so to speak. So pleased you are living the life you want now. Lots of love Always to you and your boys 💞xxx

  • @brendasanderson2793
    @brendasanderson2793 3 дні тому +3

    Glad your happier now what was meant to be was meant to be life goes on 😊

  • @joannesberkshirescenes2099
    @joannesberkshirescenes2099 2 дні тому +1

    Your wife sounds controlling which is abusive. Every time you arrange to go round to fix her car etc how it’s always on her terms. You are best rid of a toxic person like her

    • @marylynch951
      @marylynch951 2 дні тому +3

      I wouldn't say controlling
      Very very hurt

  • @christinesimpkin570
    @christinesimpkin570 2 дні тому +1

    You are a very courageous person, April..
    It's not easy going through a divorce on your own...i know that from experience.
    I wish you all the love and light 🕯️ possible in your life ❣️
    You are very special 👌✨🩷

  • @VehiclesvsfordDEEP
    @VehiclesvsfordDEEP 2 дні тому +1

    I'm so proud of you April. Your two children are very happy for you and already know. That will be your dream to be who you want to be. Happy ending for you. So pleased for you ❤❤❤

  • @Gently225
    @Gently225 3 дні тому +3

    Your son and daughter sound great, Your very brave.

  • @janisrowland9361
    @janisrowland9361 3 дні тому +4

    It can be very hard to get out of a marriage or relationship so happy that you did and so proud of you cos you over come all the ifs and buts and now you have become april very happy you did cos can see how happy you are ❤❤❤❤❤❤😅

  • @lisaalderman841
    @lisaalderman841 3 дні тому +2

    April we all have to choose our path it's not easy one wrong turn and we've blown it well.youve chose the right one are bless ya enjoy youre journey don't ever give up you're so courageous so brave and so lucky hold on to all that have excepted you for what you are you're personality and beauty shines through godlove ya enjoy every moment best wishes ❤xxcc

  • @SadiaKhan-ef7kv
    @SadiaKhan-ef7kv 3 дні тому +2

    Hi April, I'm genuinely really happy for you, I hope you find someone, to spend the rest of your life with. Fingers crossed, you are a really lovely, beautiful and classy lady.

  • @karenallen5768
    @karenallen5768 3 дні тому +4

    Hi April as you have invited us into your world and have spoken openly about your divorce. With respect therefore, could you clarify if the issue for your wife blowing up at you, and as you seem to regard your ex wife in a bad light did it involve your cross dressing and therefore April?

    • @marylynch951
      @marylynch951 2 дні тому +1

      Agree 💯

    • @april3039
      @april3039  2 дні тому

      No this had nothing to do with April ❤️❤️

  • @lealou8907
    @lealou8907 День тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ElliotAlderson-uv7rv
    @ElliotAlderson-uv7rv 3 дні тому +2

    Brave april takes some courage better than living a lie well done love Mary xxx

  • @pingpong9514
    @pingpong9514 3 дні тому +1

    You're truly amazing! Not everyone has the courage or strength to be who they really are. Ur an inspiration to many who fear to take that step.
    Thank you for sharing ur journey with us😊❤

  • @sheila2595
    @sheila2595 3 дні тому +3

    Hi April. If your wife hadn't asked for a divorce would you have stayed in the marriage?

  • @paulwalker1793
    @paulwalker1793 3 дні тому +2

    You're so happy that's great. But how's you're ex wife. Has she moved on and found happiness

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому +2

      No she is still very bitter, but hopefully she will find someone else to share her life with 💋💋

  • @suzanneemery2971
    @suzanneemery2971 3 дні тому +2

    I love seeing your tummy April,im jealous mine isnt like yours,you are very lucky everyone excepts your sexuality,love you lots Suzy,xx

    • @april3039
      @april3039  3 дні тому

      Thank you 😊
      ❤️❤️

  • @annabellesapphire
    @annabellesapphire 3 дні тому +3

    Would you consider getting married again April? Seeing my mother go through 2 divorces and the stress, cost etc I have never married because I find it all a bit scary if it goes wrong 😱
    Blessings to all, Snoopy and Sooty 💕

    • @april3039
      @april3039  2 дні тому +1

      A very good question & I don’t know that I would as it’s been a roller coaster of emotions, not all good ones.
      I will most certainly find a new partner to share my life and love with but not sure that I would want or need to get married again ❤️

  • @LaraineCampbell
    @LaraineCampbell 3 дні тому +1

    Enjoyed ur story. I never comment on anyones marriage. Long as your happy now xx

  • @susangodfrey7724
    @susangodfrey7724 3 дні тому +1

  • @claytonbrown8231
    @claytonbrown8231 3 дні тому +1

    💞💞🤗🤗💋💋good for you April

  • @elainefletcher7787
    @elainefletcher7787 3 дні тому +4

    Hi April. ❤❤❤

  • @lynneconnor5024
    @lynneconnor5024 2 дні тому

    You have been so much you beautiful lady you are U ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @valval2685
    @valval2685 3 дні тому +1

    Looking goid april x

  • @LHP069
    @LHP069 3 дні тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @Skye-hy5sw
    @Skye-hy5sw 2 дні тому +1

    I'm so pleased for you April. Make the rest of your life, the best of your life 🩷🙌🩷