GUYS ANSWER *UNCOMFORTABLE* QUESTIONS girls are too afraid to ask | ep. 17
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- Опубліковано 28 чер 2024
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segments:
0:00- intro
1:00- green flags/ turn ons in a girl
3:16- red flags/ turn offs in a girl
4:17- does body hair matter?
6:14- how much time does it take for a guy to move on?
7:51- does height matter?
8:57- does weight matter?
10:59- should guys pay on the first date?
12:09- thoughts about periods?
12:56- how often to guys get horny?
13:49- do guys daydream about girls?
15:47- looks or personality?
17:09- girls making the first move?
17:46- thoughts on ANIMAL movie?
19:58- how to know if a guy has crush on you?
20:45- guy 'bestfriends'
21:48- how to catch guys attention
22:33- what clothes do guys find attractive?
23:05- how does it feel if a girl proposes you?
23:49- extrovert or introvert girls?
24:42- how important is it for girls to be friends with your guy friends?
25:37- why do guys ghost/play hard to get?
27:40- does body count matter?
28:42- boys locker room
29:04- do guys get feeling for other girls when they're in relationship?
30:58- boys message for all girls
32:54- outro
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The man who himself is overweight,thinks that girl should be slim or if she is overweight,she should reduce weight…..
These 3 need to lower their bar cz they themselves look like trash!
Yeah seems like they've never looked in the mirror
Moti girls 🤮🤢
To be sure,that same standard applies to women when it comes to height,and yet that is not an issue.
These guys should be worried about their receding hairlines
Yaar i was about to say this 🤣🤣🤣
BAHAHAHA
😂😂😂
Bruh why everyone in this comment section choosing voilence😂
😂 that’s so true omg
Someone said, “if indian women started having standards, then it would be impossible for a lot of men to find a life partner.” I just can’t agree more. pls just stand up for yourselves, no one else will literally how long will we keep hearing men say bullshit like this and be okay with it.
who's that someone and please have standards yaar you aren't doing any favours to anyone and stop saying generalising Indian women by your paragraph I can see you are a 14 year old living in fantasy
@@aniketpathak7842 you come from a very high place of privilege if you gen think most women have standards also why are you as a man speaking on what we do and don’t 😭😭 lmao the only woman willing to talk to you is your mother worry about never having a wife or husband
Butthurt
@@aniketpathak7842Why should we even do favours to Indian men like you
@@Iamgoingtobethebiggeststar please study hard grammar
when you thought ugly dudes were more sensible and were green flags but then you end up watching this video…..All the three are different shades of red
😂😂😂😂😂
😭😭😭😭 riyalll
Do good guys even exist😭
@@unforgettxxle hote toh hai... But kya do good girls do exist..... Hum toh bad mai bhi adjust kar le 😭👉👈
@@Mehulbhatt01 all good girls have fallen for red flags and have gone blind👩🦯
I thought I was the only one who doesn't like this episode at all but after reading the comments I'm happy and I'm not alone
Ykw these guys are speaking truth atleast we know the reality thanks to them😂
And inki khud ki partners toh trauma me hi rehne wali hai😂
Not everything is like it how seems in kdrama 😂😭 that's the reality
the only uncomfortable person here was Advika🙂🙃
nah bro me too i am with her
Include me in this 😭😭😭
The guy with the hat is biggest red flag ...30 minutes of honesty is enough to know
Hes annoying
As i girl , at some point in this video i felt exploited . Idk , if i'm overly sensitive or everyone else did too ?
it's everyone don't worry
Same
But the harsh truth and realuty is no matter how unreasonable the video is and their thoughts are
But this is the average personality and thinking of boys/men if genZ nowadays
@@sariyosha_avanti wmen are also same. its two way street
@@sariyosha_avanti why r u painting every Gen z men in the same...I'm also a Gen z man and during the video I was like 'inko to laat padni chahiye'...there r many guys out their like these people are but they are probably 20-30%...when that Indian version of andrew tate (forgot his name) was making toxic videos about girls and giving crap advises to boys, boys only came in support of girls and heavily criticized him...almost every prominent male creator made video correcting him and I was going through comment section of those videos, there were few females only but we boys were defending u guys like nothing else...but I've seen many public reactions videos about Indian girl's preferences and the most common answer were "bad boys"...so here u go...the bad boys in this videos...khud galat ladko ke saath relationship mein aa jaati hain aur baaki jo achche ladke hain unka majak bana deti hain...fir baad mein roti hain...I personally experienced this...in my college I was almost sidelined just because of my calm nature...btw remaining 60-70% good Gen z boys disown these guys...these guys do not belong to our manverse...🙂
Sodhi is red carpet not just a red flag.
His way of thinking is so toxic.
can i ask why? pura video dekh liya but mujhe to nhi lga toxic
@@divyaa4459 just see how many people are agree with me... see the likes..
I am giving you why he is red carpet...just because he didn't like the girl after chatting he just ghosted her. Initially you are liking everything and then she didn't do the things as you expect. So without telling her and making realise her mistake He wants another option
@@divyaa4459 may be that girl wants to be serious. He just didn't care about other sentiments and emotions.
Typical Playboy characteristics
Savage
@@user-np7hx4nj2ioh yeah you're right
And the question remains "Where do guys get the audacity?". Advika ily but I am sorry, i was disgusted throughout the episode.
True...I agree
grow up baby girl ...at the end of the day u all will run after a wealthy boy no mater his weight , and learn to respect judging on looks is not good
@@doctorsahab4749 Are you alright princess? I never said anything about anyone's appearance. I just found their mentality very ugly and quite presumptuous.
…Then why bother watching a video about boys being honest, when you don’t even have a tolerance for their perspective. ?
It’s Hypocritical to yearn to dig about boys’ honesty, only to call them Red Flags later on, since you find them twisted in the head, in-fact it’s you people (true for visa-versa in cases guys do the same to girls) are the twisted to dig into their feelings and make a joke out of it, …. Imagine what would the female suicide rates be.. if men started to Do the SAME to girls.
Most Men won’t do it, do you know why, because we are wired to become gentle for women, until they cross a Man’s line.
As the middle guy said “Not all boys are same” and this is more true for guys, because guys have been facing the world and it’s expectations for far longer and at greater intensity than MOST Girls
Why? If you are watching men being interviewed you need to be ready that something you might not agree. Either deal with differences like us men or be a misandrist for life.
Thank god i haven't met a guy like Sodhi yet
Pure red flag
Dikh rahe sab jhaat barabar baat kr rahe ladki chahiye Chand barobar. 😂
Correct 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Right 😂😂😂
Lol you should be a poet , especially this kind😂😂
After listening to this discussion, it's concluded that I'm not gonna get married in this life 😂😂😂😂😂😂coz of man's preference 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
itna scene nahi hota didi ladko ka yes good character and looks matter but yesab jo bolrahe he fashion sense, music sense , etc etc nahi hota aisa utna , they are not representing all boys but only themselves
This podcast shows Akshaj is purest green flag!❤
Exactly
That's why advika choose him
@@bhargabdeka9139 they are besties..
Disagree 🫢
@@KashishKadyan no they aren't they literally confirmed it on instagram that they're dating
It's always the bald guys 🗿.. I'm like "Go look at the mirror first "
😂😂
Unko koi bhav nhi deta isiliye fake show off
Takle toh aapke papa bhi ho sakte hai?
Trust me, agar ladki bahut successful ho na log ghanta kuch nhi dekhenge. Body weight, height, hair, looks, introvertness shyness and other shitty things. Trust me you just need someone who inspires you always. And you both grow together.
Hahahsha ladki mai ni ye toh har gender include LGBTQ in this..... Unme bhi if you successful then your these things doesn't matter MUCH! thoda thoda bhaut toh karti hai....
Well said ....the truth.....! Mtlb mujhe aisi cheed mchti ki un logo ki ....kamine greedy people .
sidha reject bina kuch dekhe , becoz women earning more than u meaning a hell of life
@@doctorsahab4749
Chacha uthiye thoda purani soch se. Women bass apni par aa jaye na, bass men ki Tarah opportunities nhi milti unhe. Mujhe tog yakeen nhi ho raha aap Jaise log abhi bhi exist karte hai jo women ko support karne ki bajaye unse jalte hai. Kyuki aapko pta hai na shayad, agar aap Compete karne lage toh women aage nikalne ki puri ability rakhti hai.
Bade ho jayiye bhaiya, duniya bahut badi hai. Soch badi kijiye apni. Aur apne Maa behan biwi ki growth me madad kijiye bajay aise wahiyat comments karne ke.
no idts physical attraction thing should also be there bro
That guy said ki ladke ka dil bhot masoom hota hai bhai tum mujhe toh kahi se masoom nhi dikh rhe ho
As if sari ladkiya masoom hai
Exactly and i was like ki haa bhai sabse toxic , pervert or dusht to ham ladkiyan hi hoti h na.....
Bhai dekho to bol kaun raha h .
@@foodyskitchen 😅
Akshaj-man
The other two- boys
fr fr
Just cuz he speaks English and has a deeper voice. The other two were gr8 and unfiltered
Advika was traumatized fr😂😭
This is the most realistic video on this topic out there, 95% of the men think this way, these guys are brutally honest and didn't care if they'll be judged
And that is not something to be proud of. Utterly disgusting periodt.
well then 95% men surely need to change themselves
And men say
“Ladki honi chahiye aur zinda honi chahiye”
What’s appalling to me is, that these 2 fellows ( the ones sitting far apart ) who have the audacity to set such high standards for themselves when it comes to choosing a girl without even realising that they literally will not be any girls last choice even, scratch that, they won’t be a choice at all.
Exactly broo 😭 no girl with standards would choose them
Do all the guys think like this 🤔 and for the brown hoodie guy, bandi sensitive b nae no, pay b khudi kare ku k tum job nae karte, din bhar gaali de, height b khud se lambi, dude are u sure u want a girl? 😂
naah most guys are not like him
@izoldics i am not a simp , i myself would take up a high value tall beautiful and slim girl who is beautiful insidr also
But most guys dont have the standards , to demand such things thats why I am telling
sodhi is such a red flag. condolences for his future girlfriend/wife
fr
Facts.
Lol i was thinking the same😂
From a boys POV, I think he was just being honest whereas the pink guy was being a try hard
Fr4rrrr
Akshaj is the most greenest flag ❤ every girl deserves a akshaj in her life ...😊
This podcast made me feel so glad that im a bisexual who’s mostly into girls ffs if I had male friends like these id be scared for my life lmao. Advika as someone who has followed you for a long time, how do you not find this offensive? Can we pls have more girls invited on this show the Mitali episode was so wholesome and this is just…well
half way though it i paused and was like i'm bi i have options apart from men 😭
After watching this video I've realised that my boyfriend is literally a green forest 😭😭
naah he is normal , these guys are very bad
I am traumatized in ways I cannot explain, in their own words they'd like girls to make first move and all they want to be is princesses.
You should really think about the friendships you have
I support splitting money on first date aur jb serious relationship ho Jaye tb toh sb apna hi h
nah didn’t pass the vibe check (except akshaj sir tho)
Y'all hating on someone on the basis of a 30 mins video is so immature. He was just being honest with the way he feels, atleast he didn't sugarcoat himself. Not everything you see online is real and the way they are.
Awwwwwwww
Who tf cares? Who are they? Wtf?
They were the most top questions bro. These guys fucked up the top questions
a summary of a book is enough to know about the whole book
Toh ab bio data dekhe ya wo bhi kafi nhi h?
It made me realise how therkie boys can be
maat sochke aise didi , ye rare case he mostly boys aisa nahi hote chooosey, and horny types
bhai everytime i watch these videos guys like sodhi scare me, all the men I'm scared of are like him. why would i want a partner who makes me feel like that
the fact that they don't even realize how ignorant they are blows my mind like are do you even understand or know women
Samee!I feel scared 🥲
@@UrmixD naaah idts ham aise hite he unke basis pe baki boys ko mat samajhne , we are kind hearted mostly
Big red flags these guys are... Condolences to their girlfriends...bhagwaan kare inko kabhi koi bndi na date kre
The fact that this is the most honest answers to awkward questions
"Ladki hona chahiye aur zinda hona chaiye hai"
Ye kis ladke ne kaha tha re 😂😂
Yaha to ek ladki jitna nhi mangti usse jyada ladko ne maand liya😂😂
I was thinking the same😂😂
@izoldics kyu rehne de women bhi to meme tha meme kaha rehne Diya aur ye dialogue to ladke khud comment mai maarte hai 🤣🤣🤣
Kyu ladke na mange aur video bahut sahi bana hai
@@Sidhumoosewala__55 mango na humne kb kaha bilkul mango ho is lyk ki de skte ho to mango bhi
Stay happy stay bless❤️
@@thakursahab8064 haa wahi to mang Raha hai video me kyu sab ladkiya roo Rahi hai comment section me 😂
100 rupee kamate nhi hai par 100 demands hai ladki se lol
Aur tum ladkiyo ka kitna demand hota hai apna bhi dekha hai tum log to 10 rs bhi nahi kamate
Seriously the moment they started talking about weight I was like yrr seriously 😳
I am completely on advika's side if someone is happy please let them be who are you to judge him or her
if a guy is skinny or another one is like he has an aesthetic body whom will u choose?😊
@@txnush-ed it absolutely depends upon our bond and how he treats me
@@studybeans00 exacty it alwys depends on the amount of respect a boy give us it never depends on body wieght etc. We girls gernally donot think about it
@@Miss.koala-0001 no one likes fat boys... Shut it yaar... Obviously those are not primary things, but fitness is literally important... Atleast he should try... If he doesn't succeed, that's okay... If he doesn't try, that's bad for his health and by consequence, the health of my upcoming generations... This is such a normal expectation... If you remove all these other criteria, what will you judge on? Respect? 80% people are respectful... How do you choose then? Money? You may think that... I am mostly self sufficient...
These were my views... So according to me it's okay for boys to hold similar criteria 😅
Aur ek a gyi motape ki excuse dene🤡
Exactly!! You never know dusre insaan pe kya beet rha hoga!!
Maybe that person is more mentally & emotionally involved & invested with you !!
Now you're ghosting that person!!
Jo bhi hain confront kro yrr !!
What if woh insaan jyada close hogya, jyada attached hogya ho!!!
askhit is good guy its true he worried about a girl need to tell i like his view on this but sodhi is wrong he had confort and tell that girl nonbodies know what somebody comfort is about it every one has different living
thank you for making this video got alot of knoweldge
I hope I never find a guy like Sodhi
u wont find didi he is rare case bad guy
Akshaj your accent is just mindblowing!!! 👼so pleasant to hear man💆♀♥
Bhai sodi ka sara motivation instagram se hh....while being in a relationship i realised how different my man is❤
Anyone noticed ki advika akshaj ko hmesha. AAP krke bolti hai aur baki dono ko tera tum aise 😂 ❣️
😂😂😂
I like the fact that they're honest
This was the funniest 😂
Loved it 🫶🦕))
Oooo bhaiiiii honeymoon period 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I dont understand why girls are hating sodhi??...as a girl i like his honesty...
Remember: red flags seems more greener than real green flag at 1st...
Lmao that's so true...
I guess they are using that animal movie question as benchmark...
Otherwise I don't think he said anything objectionable (till 19 minutes... Haven't watched after that)...
Yeah, he also said about weight... But honestly I don't disagree with that... He just didn't communicate properly I think... People hardly care if you are slightly overweight....
He only meant it about obesity... But honestly, I guess he should not have been that honest...
Basically as my brother once put it... Upto a point, chubbiness is likable... After that certain point, start thinking about your health... However u look, there is always some dumb boy ready to fall for you... So dating is never gonna be as problematic as health concerns...
ahh that's beautiful. very true and insightful.
How can u not say he is a red flag like bro is in delulu just watched for 7 min. Like bro bich Wale bande k alava dono ko hoor ki pariyaa chahiye jabki khud personality to h hi ni 😂
Dimag kharab hai kya Tera behen??
Sodhi is a honest person ig he answered all the questions honestly and thats so good🤌🏻
Ha ha Instagram se😂😂😂😂
To be very honest, I genuinely loved the video. I really appreciate the different views and how they were conveyed in a good way. Like I really enjoyed watching it.❤❤
Akshaj and advika were suppressing their laugh for the whole time.
Why everyone is calling that Sodhi guy a red flag ??? He answered every question genuinely and being a girl l didn’t find anything wrong with the answers…yeah l may disagree on some of the thoughts but that doesn’t mean the person is a red flag….everyone has their own preferences…not a big deal….
True bro I mean I found some of his answers genuine and some were like off and if use samjhaya jae and if he would fall into true love he'll understand himself.
Ye Sodhi wala sabkuch humesha bohot mazedaaarrr rehta hai!!🤣❤️
Sahi main bhai 😂😂😂
Firstly make yourself capable enough to answer this question 🙃
The most mature one between all of them was Akshaj. Really kudos to him.
Sukrit is such a mature and decent boy every girl want that type of bf or husband
Sodhi needs therapy fr
Funnniest till nowwww, loved it
don't get inspired by us 👍🏾(this was necessary after all that bs)
Body positivity and all was the best thing to happen in universe untill some people normalised obesity in the name of body positivity.
Like bro we get it that you feel beautiful and happy with how you look but you need to atleast accept that you're unhealthy until it gets too late.
Being a girl I 100% agree with sodi on this point.
Real
The title should have been "girls answering uncomfortable questions guys are afraid to ask" i like advika's pov much better even though she is asking the questions . But still, we are all individuals having different opinions and we should listen to open up and know there is NOT just A SINGLE PERSPECTIVE and take what serves us , not what anyone else says.✨
Was waiting for this episode from the day you asked questions on Instagram.....
Sodhi is an honest guy bhai... Body positivity vala logic to mera bhi same h... Bnda mufat h bura nhi
Akshaj you are very decent and a very gentlemen such good person you are❤❤
Honest and true podcast, and with different types of people's opinions it was a good topic.
Centre guy seems vry mature and sensible!
theek hai lekin state k naam se username kyun rakhaa hai ? :)
@@realnikolatesla ... Toh aapne konsa real name rkha h apna! 👀
@@jammu_kashmir3970 me b jammu kashmir se hoon aur mera reall naam nikolaa teslaaa hai 😋
@@jammu_kashmir3970 mera riyal hai :)
The way Advika said to Akshaj, "sirf ek din move on ke liye, that's like next level" was so sarcastic lmaooo
Too all those calling Sodi a red flag, just stop it. He’s one of the nicest guys that I know, maybe his way of saying things and communicating is too blunt and may not be suitable by your standards but that doesn’t justify shaming his personality based solely on this video.
sodhi bhai asli id se ao na...akshaj bhaiya ka phone hijack krne se kya hoga😆🤣
If you're uploading a video on the internet people are going to have opinions. If Sodi can say such toxic things and have so many opinions on women and their bodies then we can also express our opinions about him.
@@alinagala4972video hi upload na kri hoti ya to comment section off krdo na Bhai.
@@alinagala4972tu padhai kr Gyan Mt de toxic saala kya h isme toxic uski marzi kuch bhi bole tere baap ka kya jaata h apna kaam kr
Agreed but there is a way of putting things out especially in public and you guys have a vast audience so I think things should be said in a manner right
The most honest podcast evr 😅🙌
This sodi guy is a red forest
The last thing about crying in front of friends. kya faayda hai doston ka if ye basic need they don't fulfill. i hope ppl's friendships' improve in this aspect, the aspect of utter emotional vulnerability, especially mens'. you don't have to fight your internal battles alone, and lock them up so tight inside, dear men. you just need to find the right ppl.
Lagta hai sodhi ka kabhi insensitive larkyon se pala ni para ajtk😂ronay beth jana tha
Whatever they said , i think (wish) every should be this honest on first dates
The only Green flag in the Podcast is AKSHAJ❤ this podcast convinced me to not trust boys😅I am okay as single
Good for us
@@aspirant9845 100% good for you
@@AaryaMishra-uh3ojtrust me sister 💯 have high standards no matter what if you choose to date , even if you don't get a guy according to your standards no need to settle yourself for less .These type of guys will exploit you if you marry or date them.
- from a girl to a girl 🤝
@@sunset-olaf1606 💗💗true
why u assuming all girls on behalf of them unhone kahan bhi tha all boys are nto same , khuko toh matke jaise the aur chaiye aachi sundar ladki
Sodhi is not a red flag, he is just being brutally honest!!!😂❤
Ya he is honest and thus it proves that he's a red flag..
So can you live in a fake relationship?@@sargamagarwal13
🫨 honesty ke upar b thode standards rakhooo ☠️😂
Sahi to bolra tha 😮
This was sooo entertaining 💝 request for role reversals in the next podcasttt 🎉🎉
Pink wale ki arrange marriage hogi sidhi c baat..uski kabhi 1st date se aage baat hi ni chli
Sidhe ladake ko aesa bolo
@@jinalvaghelabts4115 dikhne me below average he + talku he gf kaise banjaegi bro uski
@@vishalfgm par ladaka jo dusare vala he usase achha he
@@jinalvaghelabts4115 yes behaviour wise maybe but looks also matter
@@vishalfgm not for all
Sodhi was really honest...and that's what the whole motive was of this video
I love the rawness of this video 😂
That was nice, sabke apne apne opinions hote hai so it’s better not to generalize any opinion. Not all men are same , yes somethings are def common but you just can’t generalize without talking and uk… just like that not all women are same so yeah.
Nice podcast guys ❤
I love watching your content everyday i study and in reward i watch your one video ❤
If being real is a red flag then girls u need to grow up every man can't be fictional as you see in dramas and stories if u guys want everything so perfect so make sure you are doing it to
I love sodhi being a mofat myself i know people always criticise you for not having chikni chupdi jubann ❤
bolna to nahi chahiye par inhone khud ki shakal dekhi nahi hai kya
😂
At last what only matter is how much you love the other person... After that nothing's matter. 💗
I freaking love how that Sodhi guy was practical and honest with his opinions, his girl is damn lucky to have a sorted partner; that's how humans think! Life isn't an ott or tv show where everything is perfect and scripted, one has to be grounded and reslistic rather than being in a bubble
realistic*
Just because someone is honest , doesn’t make them good or green flags for all !
Period .
That what was the motive of this video to let people know what they think or prefer so that we can have our own judgements in our head not for particular person but definitely the thought process
And I’m surprise how someone who is just writing their view or what they thought about this video in the comment makes them being judgemental or feminist !
There was definitely few good points in each three of them but together with some red one too ..
I really appreciate how each one of them have clarity and answers them according to situation
Every individual....is different.So let the mindset should he open to accept....and that takes time ...maturity.
Amazing podcast. It was so funny throughout the video 😂
I feel sorry for you advika that you had to go through this
Sodhi i wish you meet someone with 4.5 height
Gatiya insaan
Epic fun episode 😂😂 sodhi and sukrit both are super fun ❤
Loved this podcast. Everybody's openions were genuine. Would love if the next podcast would be the opposite. Great podcast guys love You Akshaj Advika Sodhi and Mr honeymoon phase Satvik. Loved it ❤❤❤🎉
Good idea, let’s reverse this in the next episode🥸
@@2SidesofaCoinplzz plzz sure...
Sodhi is the best cuz he is real n clear in his mind
At the end these bodily characteristics won’t help to grow and keep the relationship safe. It’s the understanding, respect, love and care that actually matters. When there is an argument or fight it’s mutual understanding and love that will keep the bond intact not the height, weight, colour and hair. It’s that simple
Bata dena is always better to make other person know why this relationship did not work out for both parties.
Akshaj ...his humour is too good ❤
Waiting for deepest darkest secrets as well
26:16 that question advikaa, its so true guys do that all the time
I also used to like a girl in my coaching I wanted her to be my gf but the day she started liking me I started ghosting her because in general you like something untill you get it
@@dhruvmehta2986 dont make her fell same about all boys , sabka aise nahi hota mein toh nahi hi karta
This podcast was justt amazingggg!!🤣 so freaking funnyy
Bich wala samajhdar hai!
So raw podcast. Funny too😊