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  • @CynfulExotics
    @CynfulExotics 6 років тому +985

    I didn't date until I was 28 years old. I was the one that no guy ever showed interest in and I got to see everyone younger than me date and get married. I always felt something was wrong with me but then out of no where my future husband showed up when I was done with looking for "the one." I'm 33 now and have been married 4 years in December 13th! Don't ever give up ladies and gentlemen!

    • @Mysteriousheadlines
      @Mysteriousheadlines 6 років тому +59

      Cyn Pet Vlogs this is such an inspiring story. Thank you for sharing. I am 23 and never been on a date before or had a serious boyfriend. I wonder when I will find someone of if it will happen but I trust god has it all in control. Your story truly made me smile and believe that it can happen for me.

    • @CynfulExotics
      @CynfulExotics 6 років тому +28

      Aww so glad my story helped. It really does happen when you think it won't and in the most oddest of places!

    • @ledaswan9964
      @ledaswan9964 6 років тому +4

      I want updates! :)

    • @ivylouise418
      @ivylouise418 6 років тому

      😊

    • @suesheification
      @suesheification 6 років тому +26

      Cyn Pet Vlogs same except he never showed up for me. Now I'm 38 an accepting the fact that ill probably be alone for ever. Don't tell me i wont because I've heard it all before. Now its just a question of how do i make my life meaningful despite this.

  • @jacqueline.musumece
    @jacqueline.musumece 6 років тому +589

    I am 29 years old and I have not had a boyfriend or a date or a kiss. Lizzie, you have no idea how much i need a friend like you to talk about all that.

    • @jacqueline.musumece
      @jacqueline.musumece 6 років тому +9

      Keylow 89. Thank you for your understanding. I would like we can be friends.

    • @livelife1422
      @livelife1422 6 років тому +10

      Keylow 89 I'm 18 and I'm not allowed to date, but tbh I'm just not ready

    • @jesuslovesyou534
      @jesuslovesyou534 6 років тому +20

      Jacqueline Jacqueline I just turned 30....im a woman, a very good lookin one for what people say, and just like u, still havent find my man.... but takin into account that it was right in my twenties when a ton of challenges faced me and my family......then it is just a natural consequence of that......now everythin is estabilizing a lil more......so now i can hopefully have time for that aspect of my life.....however, i can tell u that GODs Love, will always make u feel absolutely complete.....so that when we look or find ur man, we r sure we acrually are in love with him, and not just with the void he fills......God Bless u and all the best from Monterrey, Mex! :)

    • @ChristheCEO1
      @ChristheCEO1 6 років тому +1

      Jesus Loves You God does not exist

    • @still_becoming
      @still_becoming 5 років тому

      29 too and I never had a serious boyfriend ! We can talk if you wish

  • @cindybeatty4596
    @cindybeatty4596 4 роки тому +146

    I'm 52 yrs old and I met my fiance about 4 years ago when I stopped looking for "Mr. Right". Unfortunately, he died last year and my heart was broken. I don't believe I'll ever meet another man like him. He was honestly, my soulmate. 😞

    • @dilawarhussain5109
      @dilawarhussain5109 4 роки тому +11

      I'm so really sorry

    • @AbrielDelaney
      @AbrielDelaney 3 роки тому +9

      Babe 😞. I am so sorry for your loss. Trust that he is guiding you and assisting you in aligning with someone who will fulfill you once more. Just hold on. ❤️

    • @katie.2130
      @katie.2130 3 роки тому +7

      I’m so sorry for your loss❤️ Know that the universe and God have a beautiful plan for you and everything will turn out fine💕

    • @southsidegamer5611
      @southsidegamer5611 2 роки тому +9

      I'm so sorry Cindy

    • @laureltarbis8097
      @laureltarbis8097 3 місяці тому

      ​@@dilawarhussain5109I am truly sorry

  • @exoticowl5564
    @exoticowl5564 6 років тому +601

    I hope your future husband is as sweet and kind hearted as you are 😁😊

    • @alyssarose3880
      @alyssarose3880 5 років тому +3

      So kind hearted to want people to feel sorry for you. OKKKKK

    • @curisoul4661
      @curisoul4661 4 роки тому

      💯💯💯

    • @ookipuki
      @ookipuki 4 роки тому +15

      @@alyssarose3880 what are you even talking about ?

    • @thatskai3070
      @thatskai3070 4 роки тому +7

      Alyssa Rose rude

    • @martinmedina9174
      @martinmedina9174 4 роки тому +3

      Her future husband is gonna have to be blind unfortunately

  • @JeremyJenner
    @JeremyJenner 6 років тому +491

    I fully relate- I'm nearly 22 and I've never been kissed, had sex or been in a relationship. Honestly, there's nothing wrong with it. Society needs to get over the stigma it has against virginity/celibacy. People's love lives shouldn't be anyone else's business but our own. Thanks for sharing your story Lizzie.

  • @MyHellothere123
    @MyHellothere123 6 років тому +275

    Hey Lizzie, I can relate dangerously close to this lol. I'm 27 and never dated or had a girlfriend yet. All my brothers have dated/are dating and it does make me feel bad from time to time. Sometimes I wonder if it'll ever happen for me. But for what it's worth I would totally date you.

  • @MAGNUM05
    @MAGNUM05 6 років тому +307

    Any man would be very lucky to have such a sweet loving and caring person like you

    • @BaAZiGar
      @BaAZiGar 5 років тому +7

      MAGNUM05 ...would you hook her up with a brother or cousin of yours?

    • @crystalbeth1400
      @crystalbeth1400 5 років тому +13

      Doubt you’ll get a response seeing as you replied to a year old comment basically suggesting the OP would not. Why? I would set her up for sure. Hell I’d set her up with myself if she was gay and interested.

    • @eringittins6032
      @eringittins6032 4 роки тому +9

      Men prefer unkind and mean women that treat them badly; because they love the "chase."

    • @curisoul4661
      @curisoul4661 4 роки тому +2

      Either that or they like being a narcissist to us ! I don’t want that

    • @user-mt4em9gz8c
      @user-mt4em9gz8c 4 роки тому +10

      @@eringittins6032 As a guy, that's dumb as hell. Also, I have such a huge crush on Lizzie and it'd be awesome if I could date her :)

  • @mstarburst
    @mstarburst 6 років тому +33

    I've been single my whole life, I've never even tried dating as I knew no man would ever find me attractive. It's been difficult and upsetting at times, but I decided it's easier to just accept my place in this world, it is what it is.

    • @cattrickie
      @cattrickie 3 роки тому +10

      you will find somebody someday! and even if you don't, your dating life does not define who you are

  • @camdentown2949
    @camdentown2949 6 років тому +67

    Guys if you never dated someone, it's totally fineee!! It's your choice, just be patient! (:
    I'll share with you one of my fav quote about relationships:" So plant your own gardens and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers."

    • @the_lost_archivist3751
      @the_lost_archivist3751 4 роки тому +1

      I think that’s a lovely way to go about it!

    • @Pax00Imperium
      @Pax00Imperium 3 роки тому +1

      Beautiful.
      The saying I made for myself is..."Remember to give yourself the love that you seek to have from another."
      The one you shared reminds me as well of...finding the eternal moments in life where happiness exists and to treasure the little things. And to treat yourself well.
      Heh, took a while for the ripple you caused to hit my shore but I thought I'd send my own back ;)

    • @bornwithoutconsentobviously
      @bornwithoutconsentobviously 2 роки тому +2

      For some people it’s not a choice, it’s just because no one wants to date them.
      As for myself.

    • @laracroftvideos
      @laracroftvideos Рік тому +3

      @@bornwithoutconsentobviously THANK YOU. Also, I get that people mean well when they say stuff like “just work on yourself, you don’t need anyone to feel complete” and that’s all nice and true, but the fact of the matter is life IS easier when you have someone you love (and they love you back) by your side. Sure, we all came into this world and will leave it alone, but the desire to find another human being to give love to and receive affection from is so hard-wired and natural to us that to be deprived of it does kinda lead to feeling a bit empty and like life is a lot harder than it has to be. If you’re fortunate enough to meet someone, have that connection, and it’s shared by both of you-it’s so incredibly powerful and rewarding. I’ll stop the rant here, but yeah, living alone has its dark and gloomy moments and I’m not too fond of romanticizing it.

  • @kairussell7372
    @kairussell7372 6 років тому +60

    If I could get one date with Lizzie it would be a dream come true... I've had a crush on her ever since I first laid eyes on her. Such a beautiful human being inside and out! Who ever is lucky enough to share his life with you Lizzie better treat you like an angel because you deserve nothing less.

    • @basicpenguin3844
      @basicpenguin3844 4 роки тому +12

      Aww thats so cute. Hit her up!

    • @Denzz2
      @Denzz2 Рік тому

      She's ugly.

    • @Denzz2
      @Denzz2 Рік тому

      95 percent of women are more attractive then her. You're into anorexia, fish eyes, giant teeth, and disproportionate body and face? You are a weirdo.

    • @cimmerianfable
      @cimmerianfable 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Denzz2 And you still fall into that rare category of remaining 5% 💀

  • @rosevanille317
    @rosevanille317 6 років тому +92

    I am almost 25, I never had a boyfriend. Never kissed. Never held hands. For so many reasons, both personal and familial...
    I was never in a rush to find "the one", but time flies SO FAST sometimes I am afraid I will get old without knowing love.
    I already feel like I have missed on so much things in my life... Sometimes it makes me sad.
    Other times, I wonder if love is even a thing for me. Just picturing myself in love feels odd, like I am undatable.
    Anway I really love that you talked about that and oh I wish I had a friend like you.
    Take care

    • @garyallen1473
      @garyallen1473 4 роки тому +2

      Lizzy is a great inspiration for me, and none of us are undatable, it just takes some of us reaching a different age or time in our lives when the stars just align in the right way for us. I used to get sad too, thinking everyone else had kids but me, everyone had everything else but me, and all I did was work and watch TV every day. Now I just learned to love the life I have and if that means no kids and being alone I have come to accept that and am still happy. Love is a thing for you, don't give up, just enjoy yourself and let things happen for you while you are living your best life.

    • @rudy1999
      @rudy1999 4 роки тому

      Did u find bf? It has been 2 years now

  • @jellybean8040
    @jellybean8040 6 років тому +145

    Lizzy, I love you and i have followed you for many years. I am 65 yrs young and would like to give you some advice. When i was 32 I gave up looking for that special one.Once I stopped looking it happened😍.It was amazing ,unexpected. My point is , you will find him when you least expect. He is the man of my dreams,really. We have been married 32 yrs with two grown boys. I was blessed and you will also. You have a great heart and one day he will be there like it was for me. God Bless You... 💖 Julie

    • @skindare9808
      @skindare9808 5 років тому +4

      You are not young

    • @crystalbeth1400
      @crystalbeth1400 5 років тому +23

      Skindare why did you feel the need to post this? Your life must be very empty :(

    • @skindare9808
      @skindare9808 5 років тому +4

      @@crystalbeth1400 What is wrong with what I said? We get old, thats the truth, thats Life, and then we die. So its ridiculous to say that Im 90 years YOUNG

    • @basicpenguin3844
      @basicpenguin3844 4 роки тому +11

      @@skindare9808 its humour bro.

    • @ShahW
      @ShahW 4 роки тому +1

      @CVK lmao I agree 😂

  • @nightsky0402
    @nightsky0402 6 років тому +200

    I am 20 and never dated with anyone, also got rejected by a guy that I loved deeply.I was always the person that loved deeply and cared deeply but it never came back to me. Then I realized If God loves me, cares about me, why would I put a person instead of Lord's love. Now I am feeling loved and cared... Feel God's love and be thankful for it.

    • @fatimazamba4613
      @fatimazamba4613 6 років тому +2

      nightsky0402 ❤❤

    • @bambiii4417
      @bambiii4417 6 років тому +3

      nightsky0402 your so supportive an god bless you!

    • @cyberdegradation7801
      @cyberdegradation7801 6 років тому +2

      So Are you dating now?

    • @nightsky0402
      @nightsky0402 6 років тому +4

      No I am not dating :)

    • @Elong.
      @Elong. 6 років тому +4

      God will guide you to someone special:)

  • @Lava_Girl-
    @Lava_Girl- 6 років тому +81

    I have a disability and it kept me from doing so much until I met you..thankyou 💖

    • @dominoesseven
      @dominoesseven 6 років тому +1

      hey are you gonna make youtube videos soon?

    • @Lava_Girl-
      @Lava_Girl- 6 років тому

      Awesome Animations 101 Thankyou 💖

    • @Lungele
      @Lungele 6 років тому

      Lava Girl okay...

  • @loslosxoxo8345
    @loslosxoxo8345 6 років тому +22

    My sister is still single right now and shes 30 this year, she have suitors before but she never settle to a guy she don't like. A lot was saying she would grow old alone because of her standards but she always reply that if its the plan of the Lord let it be than to fall into wrong situations ( cheating husbands, Lazy partners, and become battered wife) She said any woman don't need man to ratify their existence.

    • @dinaamjad9854
      @dinaamjad9854 5 років тому +5

      Mix Fab your sister has a very nice mindest. Respect

  • @donbeck5109
    @donbeck5109 3 роки тому +16

    I had to learn the hard way that if I cant be happy with me, no one else can. You can't expect someone else to be your source of happiness. That is what I had to learn. I ruined a lot of potential relationships because I put the burden on them to make me happy. So, you, Lizzie, have your priorities in order, and you are a personal inspiration to me. Thank you 😊

    • @sleepyskorpion
      @sleepyskorpion 3 роки тому

      i found out the hard way that finding love can be one of the worst things that can happen, i almost committed suicide after mine went bad and was literally depressed about it for almost 2 decades, fuck love, im going solo for the rest of my life

    • @rosie6
      @rosie6 Рік тому

      @@sleepyskorpion damn sorry dude hope ur doing better ❤

  • @AuraCAP
    @AuraCAP 6 років тому +19

    The way I found my fiancé was when I gave up on everything.
    I stopped looking for answers,
    I stopped looking for hope (In all senses of the matter)
    Then she showed up....and everything made sense. We became such close friends.. then soulmates SO quickly.. They were my other half.
    I RELAXED about not finding love... and allowed for space for my heart to grow. Because I let my heart grow, I was able to breathe.. and it all felt natural.
    Also I feel like when you loose your keys and you stop looking... they show up right in front of you in seconds! It's a perception thing... They're there. You just have to stop and allow yourself to just "be". It'll all work out

  • @KaylaTalksBooks
    @KaylaTalksBooks 6 років тому +56

    I can relate to this so much. I'm gonna be 24 in a couple of days and I've dated but I've never had a serious relationship. It kind of makes me feel like crap about myself a lot of the time. Especially with my brother and sister always being in relationships, and my brothers four years younger than me. I'm also so resentful of my friends and family who are in relationships, I try to be supportive but it sucks when it's not happening to me. I'm trying to work on worrying about bettering myself and not focusing on finding a significant other now. I like to think when it's meant to happen it will happen.

    • @Jenks-xo2xj
      @Jenks-xo2xj 6 років тому +1

      24 is so young! don't stress about it, theres someone out there for everyone, and if not there is still friends and family for support and love. my advice would be the exact thing you are doing, focus on yourself! live life and enjoy it while you are completely untied from anyone, and have a ton of fun! work on yourself, do things for you and be selfish about that, take yourself on dates and treat yourself to gifts. I never had any guys interested in me and I was totally down until I did that, and I was so fucking happy and so much fun, and as a silver lining though more men became interested in me, and now I look back it was because I was happy and confident and was living free. (ovb the men being attracted thing was NOT the main goal and was certainly not the reason I did that) take care, sorry for rambling lol

  • @FrankieEm
    @FrankieEm 6 років тому +119

    Ohhhhhh, Lizzie. They're never going to stop calling you cute. Trust me. I'm 36, but only 4'7" tall and I'm still called cute. I have pituitary dwarfism, which just means I'm teeny tiny, but fully proportionate. I'm a halfling, really. I have halflingism. More Hobbit than anything, without the hairy feet. Anyway, I wanted to thank you for sharing this. I've only had one serious relationship my whole life and it was forced. I wanted to love him, because loving myself was so much harder. 18 years later, I'm still single and still having a hard time loving myself and this is why I can't find anyone. I'm working hard on it. The truth is, the HONEST TO GOD TRUTH is, we've already found that "perfect someone." It's ourselves and we need to love ourselves the way we want someone else to. Only when we do that will be ready to meet the other half. Love you!

    • @adrianaavila8853
      @adrianaavila8853 6 років тому +5

      Thank you so much for sharing your story. I love this platform where all these different people can meet each other virtually online and learn from each other.

    • @jacqueline.musumece
      @jacqueline.musumece 6 років тому +1

      I Did My Best. I would like we can be friends and talk about all this things. I am from Argentina. Kisses!

    • @pineappletv625
      @pineappletv625 5 років тому +1

      I Did My Best U just said one of the most important things... I am 16 and although I’m still young I sometimes get jealous at people who already have boyfriends and I want the same for me.
      U just opened my eyes. I believe it is true that u have to be confident about ur self first and truly find out who you are before u can have a serious relationship. Also to just stop looking is a good idea i guess

    • @johnsmitty8709
      @johnsmitty8709 5 років тому

      Why dont girls like being called cute its a huge compliment.

    • @garyallen1473
      @garyallen1473 4 роки тому

      Cute is just cute, and if someone uses it as an endearing term they are trying to be complimentary, they just don't know what to appropriately say. Glad you don't have hairy feet, that would not be cute.

  • @realityorfiction
    @realityorfiction 4 роки тому +18

    reading the comments makes me feel like im not all that alone in my lack of experience.

  • @moniuk2405
    @moniuk2405 6 років тому +271

    I loooove the fact that you are spiritual and mention God without feeling ashamed of! God bless you Lizzy!

    • @Berrypancakes229
      @Berrypancakes229 6 років тому +6

      I have a personal relationship with God. I don't see god as a spiritual thing. he's real. everyone knows who god is, but lacks a relationship and a personal relationship with him. Better then religion and spiritual. its real.

    • @moniuk2405
      @moniuk2405 6 років тому

      Diana good for you!

    • @sobo2
      @sobo2 6 років тому +5

      Yes, he's real. He is soo real.

    • @maryannpapandrea3086
      @maryannpapandrea3086 6 років тому

      Monica Leijssenaar I

    • @CS-op3vu
      @CS-op3vu 6 років тому

      Some Body Are you being sarcastic or what?

  • @suesheification
    @suesheification 6 років тому +6

    Men are impossible to please anyway. They aren't worth the hassle. I'm 38. Not ugly not pretty completely average in every way. I've been used and thrown away so many times I've decided to give up dating all together. And its so much better than putting yourself out there and getting constantly let down. And yes i feel resentment about it everyday. But im allowed to feel they way i feel. Its possible i will always be alone and I've accepted that. This video is great and so important. Sounds like you've made peace with your situation.

  • @Sunflower_Cats
    @Sunflower_Cats 6 років тому +18

    Lizzie, never give up on love. Love can manifest in so many different ways. We all want that special love. And few are lucky to have it. You are a blessed woman.

  • @xqueenx1319
    @xqueenx1319 6 років тому +44

    You deserve all the good that comes to you! You have a wonderful and positive attitude that inspires me!

  • @digitalic3
    @digitalic3 6 років тому +22

    I pray for my future wife too. I made all the same mistakes. God's timing is perfect, where I get in trouble is when I'm impatient or trying to stay in control. I also have a health condition and have had some success, and I find myself questioning the girls intentions. So far I've stuck out over and over. If you want what you never had, do what you've never done. For me that means loving myself, trusting God, and being patient.

    • @connieconnie7507
      @connieconnie7507 4 роки тому +2

      Yes be patient..I'm sure God has a good wife waiting for you in the future

  • @user-pf7th4gd2l
    @user-pf7th4gd2l 4 роки тому +53

    Your husband will be a lucky man.
    You have such an amazing personality.

  • @kerry00
    @kerry00 6 років тому +31

    I didn't have my first date until my 30's. As soon as I saw him, I knew I'd end up marrying him. We've been together 6 years and married 2.
    You're still young, you have plenty of time. As soon as I stopped looking for that special someone, he turned up.
    You're such an amazing person! Your future husband is going to be a very lucky guy. Much love x x

  • @katie4623
    @katie4623 6 років тому +22

    It's hard to find someone who will stick with you long term. I don't know how anyone gets married. They make it look so easy but it's not that easy to find a partner.

  • @egyptianqueen4007
    @egyptianqueen4007 4 роки тому +7

    I think we need to stop feeding people this lie about everyone will someday find their soulmate when that is just not realistic. It does nothing but cause people to get disappointed when they don't find their partner. Some people will die alone and that is a fact.

  • @huh_rinii
    @huh_rinii 4 роки тому +33

    is it just me or does she have a really nice voice?

    • @the_lost_archivist3751
      @the_lost_archivist3751 4 роки тому +5

      I love listening to her voice! She sounds very kind and gentle

    • @Aqua.man045
      @Aqua.man045 4 роки тому +5

      Sounds like Eugenia cooney

    • @wildcatz123
      @wildcatz123 3 роки тому

      Absolutely

    • @consc306
      @consc306 3 роки тому +1

      She does

    • @mikes7446
      @mikes7446 3 місяці тому +1

      She has a beautiful soul is what really matters and it's rare in humanity

  • @crittert7828
    @crittert7828 6 років тому +14

    To be so young you're more centered & mature than 90% of the folks I know - and their in their 60's🎈

  • @AAC4808
    @AAC4808 4 роки тому +67

    I’m 27 and have never dated! There are a lot more of us than people seem to think 😅

  • @demarcusroberts7024
    @demarcusroberts7024 6 років тому +4

    Lizzie - you rock and the way you allow everyday people into your life ( like the real deal, not scripted life) helps more people than you will ever know. You are an inspiration because you chose to be inspiring!!

  • @mustie3682
    @mustie3682 6 років тому +14

    I know it's been said a lot, but you're such a big inspiration to me and a lot of people who look up to you. Thank you for being here

  • @ljezebel1
    @ljezebel1 6 років тому +2

    Just ordered your book Lizzie!!! Can't wait to read it! Love you!!

  • @AnimeSpotlight
    @AnimeSpotlight 6 років тому +1

    I love your optimism so much! Whenever I have a bad day and see your videos and photos it brightens my day immediately. I'm so glad you exist. I look up to you and hope I can become as awesome and self aware as you are. ❤️

  • @fruchtkoerberl
    @fruchtkoerberl 6 років тому +5

    It's beautiful how she builds amazing connections with people simply by opening up about her fears, feelings of shame and so on. We all feel you and love you and are incredibly grateful that you exist. Keep shining!

  • @user-ob9qb4cd7m
    @user-ob9qb4cd7m 6 років тому +8

    I felt so much suddenness in your voice.. Darling, you're inspiring and awesome! So the ONE for you will absolutely be special and unique like u. He must share the same sense of humanity that u have and the same shining and glowing personality

  • @lizquandt
    @lizquandt 6 років тому

    Thank you for being so open, honest, and vulnerable, Lizzie! I have a disease that affects my energy and appearance (and thus confidence), and it's often disheartening watching what everyone else is experiencing. There's a special person out there for you, and he'll be here when the time is just right! 💜💜

  • @MademoiselleGigi24
    @MademoiselleGigi24 6 років тому +1

    Lizzie you are so inspiring, I'm sure you hear that a lot, but you are truly brave to share these experiences and feelings you have. Thank you for being so brave while many of us struggle with the same feelings and insecurities. I look up to you and I think you are amazing!

  • @moda-sanghua9530
    @moda-sanghua9530 6 років тому +5

    This may be the first time I wrote a comment in your channel, but not the first time watching videos you posted. You’re beyond incredible, dear. Love isn’t about a right or a wrong person, it’s about making the right decision with someone you share the world with all the time. And dear, your world, your perception, your UA-cam videos, infinitely filled with passion, confidence, empathy and happiness shall collide soon with an equally amazing world belonging to him, that “prince charming” you mentioned. Oh I’m also 28, lol tnx for reminding me...

  • @anatrevino3320
    @anatrevino3320 6 років тому +116

    "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart." -Psalm 37:4 ESV

    • @kaymuziya2534
      @kaymuziya2534 4 роки тому +2

      Amen,

    • @144heartx
      @144heartx 4 роки тому +1

      Amen :)

    • @geraldinereilly5931
      @geraldinereilly5931 4 роки тому

      @@kaymuziya2534 untrue. Unfortunately 😔

    • @geraldinereilly5931
      @geraldinereilly5931 4 роки тому

      @MARY HARTMAN, MARY HARTMAN 47 now. Not true. God left me single. Trust is great until it doesn't amount to anything and then it hurts😟

    • @user-zc9ek2gg6k
      @user-zc9ek2gg6k 3 місяці тому

      God is trash

  • @stephenharrington2793
    @stephenharrington2793 3 місяці тому +2

    I came across Lizzies video "Be nice, Please" about a half hour ago. I genuinely tried to go past it to something else, but I watched it anyway. WOW!! Just fuckin' WOW!! That video moved me. I hadn't ever heard of Lizzie, didn't know any of the back story behind that vid, I watched it, and just on its own merits, that was one of the top ten most powerfully moving things I've encountered in my 67 years. Thank you...You are truly an amazing person.

  • @lakshmisymonerae8414
    @lakshmisymonerae8414 4 роки тому +14

    I’m 28 too and I feel like this is such a strange transition! We’re still technically young but thinking more long term and on a more serious level. The tolerance for shallow interactions is low so going into new situations the mindset is totally different than it was when we were younger.

  • @KiraPlayer1
    @KiraPlayer1 6 років тому +5

    Thank you for sharing this Lizzie, you're so inspirational. You've just helped me by watching this video. We all have to be patient and someday our prince will come. Btw I love your hair :3

  • @tomstanely
    @tomstanely 6 років тому +8

    Here's the thing. There are things that people like to believe are true and there is reality. Everyone wants to believe that there's someone out there for everyone. But it's not true. My 2 older siblings aren't married. And they're above 40 years old. Never had children. It's not like something is wrong with them or anything. One of them is even a doctor and gets a really good income. But he still hasn't found his life partner.
    Whether people like to believe it or not, looks do matter. Your physical body does matter. It's not only about personality. And hey, what if someone looks unattractive and has an unattractive personality at the same time? Yep. That would suck.

    • @maribeltavera9533
      @maribeltavera9533 6 років тому +1

      admit that you are different, you were chosen ugliest person in the world, but you have money..so buy somebody

  • @yaraqashou9093
    @yaraqashou9093 6 років тому +1

    Ilysm Lizzie you're a big inspiration and you have no idea how you gave me hope every single time I was about to give up I'm so grateful ♥

  • @thynguyen911
    @thynguyen911 6 років тому +1

    It's like you've been living in my brain and just revealed my thoughts to the world! I'm 21 years old and I have never had a serious relationship. I have a best friend at the same age who hasn't dated before either and she just has a boyfriend recently and that makes me so happy for her and at the same time pitiful to myself. You're such an inspiration Lizzie and I'm truly grateful that you chose to share your thoughts to us and omg THANK YOU!!!!!

  • @Bruh-dn2wg
    @Bruh-dn2wg 6 років тому +6

    I'm at the age where all my friends like to date and I feel left out but I know one day I'll find the right guy who will actually love me for who I am and maybe I wont find them but they'll find me. Lizzie, ur doing good in this world and u inspire people so keep going.

  • @krismurphy6266
    @krismurphy6266 6 років тому +12

    Girl... it will come when it is meant to be. I hate that saying, but it's so true. You are an amazing soul and you WILL attract amazing things.

  • @arianathekitty9165
    @arianathekitty9165 6 років тому +2

    Im ipnotized by your eye makeup i love it 😣💖 and thanks for this video it *really* helps

  • @garyallen1473
    @garyallen1473 4 роки тому +1

    In high school I was bullied and didn't even go to prom or anything, it wasn't until college that I was able to gain a fraction of the confidence that you have and begin to go out socially. You are amazing.

  • @wildcatz123
    @wildcatz123 3 роки тому +3

    Okay let's be honest here, who WOULDN'T date Lizzie? Rhetorical question. Anyone who would even get the PRIVELEGE to be with such a strong, sweet, caring, INDEPENDENT woman would likely be the luckiest person in the world.

  • @westindiesgalfruits2335
    @westindiesgalfruits2335 4 роки тому +5

    You get prettier and prettier each video baby girl ♥️♥️

  • @charc6310
    @charc6310 5 років тому +1

    Thank you so much for being such an inspiration. You are so strong and beautiful. I gave up on dating when I was 23, I was diagnosed with a chronic condition and I slumped into a depression. I felt like I died and it took me a few years to realize I need to fight and live again. God helped me see that I am loved no matter what and I have purpose. So, here I am, no longer bedbound, focusing on bettering myself and dating a wonderful man who truly loves me which I’m truly thankful for but our world should not revolve around a guy. It starts with loving ourselves and loving God. We need more people like you in this world. God bless you.

  • @joshkahn9600
    @joshkahn9600 6 років тому +2

    Thanks for opening up to us Lizzie. I've felt the same way countless times. Your sweet heartfelt honesty helped more than you know.

  • @miusr65
    @miusr65 6 років тому +5

    How does it feel to be so inspirational for so many people around the world? It is funny how many people used to insult you for your condition but they will never know how life-changing your words and existence are for us!

  • @jayen5751
    @jayen5751 5 років тому +3

    I was 25 when I first started dating, there is no timeline when it is your life, you do you girl xxx

  • @samgutierrez5155
    @samgutierrez5155 4 роки тому

    God bless you Lizzie! You are such an inspiration to all of us! Merry Christmas!!! 🎁🎄

  • @rosanafabre6840
    @rosanafabre6840 4 місяці тому

    Hello Lizzie, recently I started following you on social networks and I love this video. It was so nice to hear from you!!! Many blessings for you, you’re a beautiful and wonderful being. You are inspiration!!

  • @calliopedanere3070
    @calliopedanere3070 6 років тому +3

    Thank you for opening up ❤️ you are such an inspiration 👏🏽

  • @avocadotigress3986
    @avocadotigress3986 6 років тому +5

    Your beautiful Lizzie, don't let anyone tell you wrong! Stay true to your self!

  • @sethwats01
    @sethwats01 6 років тому

    Lizzie, I love this soooooooo much! I've been struggling with this myself, and I love hearing your advice. You always know how to say the right things!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @adrianaavila8853
    @adrianaavila8853 6 років тому +3

    Lizzie I love you.

  • @liamodonovan8883
    @liamodonovan8883 6 років тому +11

    anyone that gets a chance to date you would be a very lucky person you are so sweet and kind hearted and incredibly intersting i love you so much

  • @TheNiloticEmpress
    @TheNiloticEmpress 5 років тому +4

    You are not alone..look at all the comments below,not everyone dates..finding the right person to date is not easy for most people so don’t think it’s only you!

  • @Soviet19171
    @Soviet19171 4 роки тому +2

    This helps me a lot, I get very down on myself for "not being good enough." for anyone. but this is a wonderful message and it helps me to keep going! Thank you!

  • @suzannemorgado6465
    @suzannemorgado6465 3 роки тому +1

    You have such an incredible personnality! I really enjoy listening to your videos. So are so genuine and beautiful, really!! Keep taking care of yourself xx

  • @lawra89
    @lawra89 6 років тому +8

    It's so easy to get impatient with God... I've never had a serious relationship and I'm 27....or dated. I get jealous of relationships on social media (cutting down has really helped me). I don't feel like I have to have a man to validate myself like I used to though. You're very inspirational, thanks for sharing.

  • @lizbethquintero545
    @lizbethquintero545 6 років тому +11

    Hi Lizzie,
    I would like to thank you for sharing this part of your life with us. If this is of any help to you, I would also like to share that I am also 28 and I have not had an actual boyfriend. I have not dated much -in fact- I began "dating" just last year. I'm constantly being rejected and I too am the only one of my friends and cousins who has not had a boyfriend yet. At this point in my life, I too have stopped yearning for that special someone and I am learning to simply be happy. I too have faith in my God that he has a plan for me and that when I am ready he will bring a love into my life. Many hugs to you! Take care. :)

  • @JessicaRodriguez-xy8ys
    @JessicaRodriguez-xy8ys 6 років тому

    This is an absolutely amazing and beautiful video. Lizzie you are awesome, and you have the right attitude. I am so happy that your life continues to go in such wonderful directions. And thank you for bringing encouragement to others. Everyone has there own unique challenges to face and I find you so inspiring and enjoyable.

  • @williameudy633
    @williameudy633 6 років тому +8

    Praying for you and your future husband. I know he’ll be the happiest man on earth.

  • @sooshi2724
    @sooshi2724 4 роки тому +3

    Such a pure and good hearted individual

  • @heatherthomas4988
    @heatherthomas4988 6 років тому +2

    this video is awesome I appreciate your honesty and I wanted you to know that I can relate and this video helped me in a lot of ways in my life. thank you Lizzy

  • @nonieky
    @nonieky 6 років тому

    You're so wise. I got goose bumps. what you said at the end is so relatable.

  • @bayanibrahim1418
    @bayanibrahim1418 6 років тому +14

    God her energy is so positive she's gorgeous

  • @Mysteriousheadlines
    @Mysteriousheadlines 6 років тому +6

    I can totally relate Lizzie! I just turned 23 a month ago and I have never been on a date or had a boyfriend before. I felt just like you in high school watching all my friends go on dates and have boyfriends. I wanted it but I was never asked on a date and I never had enough guts to ask someone out. In college I was so focused on school and meeting and making new friends as I was in a whole new state. I never dated anyone and yet again I watched my friends go on dates and have boyfriends. I have now been out of college for over a year and I often think about how I really want a boyfriend. My brother has been dating his girlfriend for six years. She was his first real girlfriend and they have stayed together and will probably get married soon. This sometimes makes me feel bad about myself. But the other hand I do believe that God is planning this all for me. He knows who he wants me to meet and when. There is a reason he is keeping me from dating and that some day I will meet him and God's vision will become clear. I don't know when that day is but I continue to pray and trust God.

  • @humansworld7260
    @humansworld7260 6 років тому +1

    you are so amazing! Such a beautiful human being! love your heart

  • @tonir9444
    @tonir9444 5 років тому

    Lizzie your a blessing! And a GOD sent! You are gaining sooooo much wisdom. There is a time and seasom for EVERYTHING!Im 40 and have been in relationships but had been through alot of heartache. All that stuff we've been through will only make us better n stronger. You are Awesome!!! God Bless!

  • @daelenecloete5852
    @daelenecloete5852 6 років тому +3

    You are such an inspiration Lizzie! ❤

  • @Nirosha101
    @Nirosha101 6 років тому +4

    Lizzie you sound so mature....I love it. ..I don't understand the whole obsession with dating especially amongst teens and people who are not even ready for marriage. I liked what you said about praying for a husband and hoping to meet him whenever the time is right.....people who start dating early end up going thru heartbreaks and a lot of wasted time...I'm 28 too and have never had a bf, and I'm glad I've spent a lot of my quality time with friends who I'm still in touch with vs with bfs who would have been my exes and basically strangers at this point...so basically dating in my opinion is a huge waste of time until one is ready for a lifelong commitment/marriage ❤️😊😊😊

    • @ShockResistor
      @ShockResistor 3 місяці тому

      Dating helps you learn what you like and dislike in a partner. It's practice for handling conflict and such. Lessons learned dating are valuable. I'm in my 40's, not a traditionalist, never married, am friends with my ex's for many yrs.

    • @207humanity
      @207humanity 3 місяці тому

      @@ShockResistorI agree that dating might help with things such as preparing to handle conflicts with another person but then again, you don’t need to be in a romantic relationship necessarily to learn valuable social skills. I do know my likes and dislikes very well, despite not having ever been in a committed long-term relationship. Also, I’ve observed how there’s people who have so much dating and relationship experience who suck at relationships of any kind. They never seem to learn from their mistakes.

  • @puya5240
    @puya5240 5 років тому +1

    I love this video. You're a wonderful person for being so real and honest.

  • @ladym491
    @ladym491 6 років тому

    I truly admire how humble and kind you are.

  • @sophieturner_95
    @sophieturner_95 Рік тому +3

    Reading these comments make me feel less alone. I'm 27 and never even been on a date before..glad I'm not the only one. Sometimes I feel like I'll be alone forever 😔

    • @rosie6
      @rosie6 Рік тому

      You will find them love❤ try to go in dates and just put yourself out there, you never know xxx

    • @cimmerianfable
      @cimmerianfable 3 місяці тому

      Oneday we all will die anyway, so why are you so scared of being alone? Aren't we all alone to begin with? Even loneliness is not forever.

  • @babtech
    @babtech 6 років тому +9

    Lizzie, if I were single, I would be very interested in you. Not because you are a celebrity, and not because of sympathy from your story, but because you are genuinely appealing. Especially in close-up, like this video. Your friends say you are a "cute" and "adorable" girl. I say you are a sexy, mature woman.
    I know hypotheticals can't help your feelings much. But I am married, so it is all I have to offer. Just the promise that I would definitely be interested in you, in that situation.

  • @meganzajac478
    @meganzajac478 6 років тому

    Loved that you opened up and shared this video! Your perspective and outlook is so positive and inspirational. You are so deserving of that special someone and the right one will come along when you least expect it. ♥

  • @gabbylafleurdamazonie
    @gabbylafleurdamazonie 6 років тому +1

    Hi Lizzie! I'm happy you shared your story. I know exactly how you feel. I hope you get to find someone as amazing as you are! I'll keep you in my prayers as I pray for my husband as well! Xo

  • @KassandraBelt
    @KassandraBelt 4 роки тому +7

    You’re personality is cute and adorable. You’re beautiful!🥰

  • @fender5247
    @fender5247 4 роки тому +3

    I can relate to your story I’m 38 and I’ve never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl before some of my family told me I was too ugly or too stupid to have a girlfriend it has took me many years to overcome that thank you so much for sharing your life with us you are such a inspiration God bless you Lizzie and thank you

  • @BlackDogBlues4961
    @BlackDogBlues4961 6 років тому +2

    Lizzie, you are a beautiful person. Bought your book on audible, but haven't listened to it yet. Love will find you when you least expect it.

  • @CinthyaRudder
    @CinthyaRudder 6 років тому

    I wish I lived in a world full of Lizzie’s. You are a special human being that brings me comfort and peace through little videos like this one. Thanks so much. I love you!!!!

  • @MaryAnnSweetAngel
    @MaryAnnSweetAngel 6 років тому +26

    I'm in my 20s but i have never been in a relationship or dated , but im okay with it. ^_^

  • @rosier1135
    @rosier1135 6 років тому +7

    I had a friend that was much less attractive than me but I would hang with her because she had an amazing personality. The guys would ask her out much more often than me. Even though I liked her very much, I still considered my self much more prettier than her but I lacked personality. Later on, my friend help me to develop better personality and confidence. I had to learn how to do that but for her, it was natural and the guys knew that. She's got married first with a very handsome guy.

    • @unfortunatelyunfortunate
      @unfortunatelyunfortunate 2 роки тому +1

      She was most likely prettier than you then.

    • @monkeybearmax
      @monkeybearmax 2 роки тому

      @@unfortunatelyunfortunate don’t be daft. Lots of pretty people never get married

  • @jutta3378
    @jutta3378 4 роки тому +2

    You're going to meet your soul mate when you're ready for it, Lizzie. Many young people feel under pressure to do the same things as their peers at a certain age. That sometimes leads to people settling for a partner that isn't right for them. You're only 28 - you're still so young!!! And maybe you feel a little scared of giving your heart but believe me, when you're ready for it love will come to you. It took me a very very long time to find my lovely man (at a time when I had given up on ever meeting someone) but it was so worth waiting for this amazing person - you just can't put a timeline on matters of the heart. I'm looking forward to seeing a video of your wedding some day!

  • @isaure9861
    @isaure9861 6 років тому +2

    Lizzie! This video came EXACTLY at the right time for me. Don't know how you did it but God bless your beautiful soul and words of wisdom - keep me in your prayers! And I'll keep you in mine :)

  • @crystalmae2250
    @crystalmae2250 6 років тому +6

    Wow I feel your pain I'm 21 and I have never had a boyfriend. I've never even been on a date with a guy that's how lame my life is. I've also had to watch my brother and sister with their significant other and it's hard and depressing but thank you for this message I needed it. I really hope you and I find are true love one day.

  • @kamillasilva7302
    @kamillasilva7302 6 років тому +5

    Thank you for the message Lizzie!! You described my feelings, it was like it was me talking to myself. hahaha One day we gonna find someone! God really knows the right time for everything. By the way, I'm 27 and my birthday is in a month. Kisses and hugs from Brazil!!!

  • @rahbertpat3993
    @rahbertpat3993 6 років тому

    Your voice is super comforting. Its positive and uplifting.

  • @ladyliberty8105
    @ladyliberty8105 6 років тому

    I love you so much Lizzie!! You are a role model to me and always help me to remember my inner beauty and worth, and what really matters. I always get so caught up with comparing myself to other girls and not appreciating myself. I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 23 now. I'm not sure I ever will date, but now I feel like it's okay. Its okay to be different, and it's okay if no one else sees the beauty in me, as long as I know it for myself, and see the beauty within others.. that makes me feel beautiful. So Thank you Lizzie for your beautiful light and courage! You are such an inspiration to me!

  • @alyaamousa5415
    @alyaamousa5415 6 років тому +91

    You have pretty eyes and I love your hair 😍😍

    • @alyssarose3880
      @alyssarose3880 5 років тому +1

      Pretty eyes?

    • @bestever9178
      @bestever9178 5 років тому +2

      @@alyssarose3880 Lol this is the ugliest part of her.

    • @alyssarose3880
      @alyssarose3880 5 років тому +2

      @@bestever9178 loll. People.lying to make themselves feel better.

    • @totobytote
      @totobytote 5 років тому +11

      @@alyssarose3880 when you love someone, everything about them is beautiful :) we love her, that's all.

    • @bcrichrob
      @bcrichrob 5 років тому +13

      @@bestever9178 That is a totally shitty thing to post.She's probably more ok with herself than you.The cruelty of people never ceases to amaze me....