Madison Bailey on Finding LOVE and Life With Borderline Personality Disorder | Full Interview

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  • @zainarose4093
    @zainarose4093 4 роки тому +1994

    I swear madi is the sweetest and I could honestly see her being a zendaya

    • @julianed5586
      @julianed5586 4 роки тому +61

      brooo they`d be a power couple tho

    • @NellieLynnDaveah
      @NellieLynnDaveah 4 роки тому +141

      i feel like they’d be such good friends. they could like star in a movie together as twins

    • @freysmoon9365
      @freysmoon9365 4 роки тому +25

      I totally agree they both have such good vibes they would make a great duo

    • @marianabasilio2124
      @marianabasilio2124 4 роки тому +20

      No shes maddie 🤙

    • @chadurena6356
      @chadurena6356 3 роки тому

      @@julianed5586 FRFR

  • @elisemcgann
    @elisemcgann 4 роки тому +1192

    “fine madison, be gay” is the funniest thing i’ve ever heard

  • @gilimundel1044
    @gilimundel1044 4 роки тому +1094

    In the best way possible this felt like two girlfriends chatting in a supportive way Not intrusive or exploitative

  • @djboo7779
    @djboo7779 4 роки тому +433

    Whenever Mariah is the subject of the convo Maddison’s face just GLOWS this is so cute omfg

  • @Amanda-ly5gx
    @Amanda-ly5gx 4 роки тому +879

    This interviewer is the best! She’s so kind. Great job ❤️

  • @kaydencedixon8531
    @kaydencedixon8531 4 роки тому +493

    idk why but i love the energy of the lady interviewing her like she is my favorite interviewer😂

  • @zainarose4093
    @zainarose4093 4 роки тому +492

    The way she talks about Mariah is so adorable I want someone to love me like tht

  • @marianamarimarimariana3973
    @marianamarimarimariana3973 3 роки тому +250

    She is actually such an emotional person in such a cute way it’s beautiful to see how things touch her deep down in her heart

  • @souslocean778
    @souslocean778 3 роки тому +149

    This interviewer is the best, she is so sweet and compassionate, and she actually really cares about the person she is talking to, I love her !

    • @that_evermore_stan
      @that_evermore_stan Рік тому +1

      Yeah and she’s not asking uncomfortable and rude questions. One of the most respectful interviews I’ve ever seen

  • @willowtree666
    @willowtree666 3 роки тому +231

    i had no idea that she has bpd, but it’s nice to know that someone else is going through the same things and is able to do amazing thjngs

  • @maddyrae2613
    @maddyrae2613 4 роки тому +425

    To be clear, bisexual and straight people can also be attracted to transgender people. Pansexual means someone’s gender has no influence in your attraction to them. Bisexual people feel different types or levels of attraction to different genders. Regardless these labels don’t really matter that much just love who you love :)

    • @julia-kv2gv
      @julia-kv2gv 4 роки тому +26

      i would like to point out that the gender of the person is something that is in the attraction factor for bi ppl, and they don't exclude nb ppl :))
      have a nice day!!

    • @emilymundin3458
      @emilymundin3458 4 роки тому +4

      Thank you for this! I was looking for this comment

    • @lanaystarks4975
      @lanaystarks4975 4 роки тому +7

      It depends on that person tho, like for example. So my friend is trans, she was born a male but when she was a male she liked girls so she was straight. When she transitioned into a woman, she still liked girls. So that means she is a lesbian. It depends on what the persons sexuality was before they transitioned

    • @kiyab3802
      @kiyab3802 3 роки тому +4

      @@lanaystarks4975 she’s biologically straight

    • @sarahvaisey2657
      @sarahvaisey2657 3 роки тому +1

      that’s what i came here to comment

  • @brunareis5379
    @brunareis5379 4 роки тому +390

    She looks so happy talking about Mariah ♥️♥️♥️

  • @Alicia-vq8jg
    @Alicia-vq8jg 4 роки тому +135

    It’s literally so amazing that she’s even talking about having bpd..I was misdiagnosed a few years ago and lost all of “best friends” .Honestly I’m so impressed and this gives me so much faith in humanity.

  • @kassidyavila8465
    @kassidyavila8465 4 роки тому +411

    is it just me or does madi sound like ariana grande especially when she laughs orrrr

  • @elisemcgann
    @elisemcgann 4 роки тому +71

    that interviewer has to be the nicest person on the planet

  • @lewisdegnan5926
    @lewisdegnan5926 4 роки тому +175

    She’s so beautiful and talented I would die to meet her and her cast mates

  • @anna-zy3sb
    @anna-zy3sb 3 роки тому +33

    The interviewer is literally the cutest person ever. I love madi so much

  • @iknewyouweretrouble.4510
    @iknewyouweretrouble.4510 4 роки тому +511

    just wanna point out that bisexuality does not exclude trans people. trans women are women. trans men are men. plus, the definition of bisexuality is being attracted to more than 1 gender, not just males & females.

    • @samiapple9889
      @samiapple9889 4 роки тому +71

      But most bisexual people aren’t comfortable dating/having sex with trans people. That’s not transphobic, it’s just a distinction

    • @avew6448
      @avew6448 4 роки тому +53

      nah, pansexual means you like ALL people. Including people that don't have a gender. y'know?

    • @nmoomoo
      @nmoomoo 4 роки тому +28

      Lanay Starks it can actually. So the difference between pan and bi is kind of what the actual person makes. Like I identify more with Bi but would date non-binary people. The thing with pansexual is that they don’t care or pay attention to gender and sex. With bisexuality like someone already mentioned it’s the attraction to more than one gender.

    • @iknewyouweretrouble.4510
      @iknewyouweretrouble.4510 4 роки тому +36

      @@samiapple9889 please check your facts. what u are saying is far from the truth. u are implying (i hope unintentionally) that most bi people are transphobic which is kind of ignorant. as i said before trans women are women & trans men are men so anyone who doesn't treat them as such is being transphobic, not just having a preference.

    • @CaliforniaGirl49
      @CaliforniaGirl49 4 роки тому +8

      Ave W I think it’s more of not caring of ones gender or gender identity. So they like someone for personality and who they are rather than gender or sex

  • @nimanwozo1332
    @nimanwozo1332 4 роки тому +60

    Omg when she said she might be in love, I’ve never felt sm joy wow❤️ I love her and Mariah sm

  • @elisemcgann
    @elisemcgann 4 роки тому +22

    i will never get over how PRETTY she is and genuinely kind. i love her dynamic with the interviewer

  • @lukas0693
    @lukas0693 4 роки тому +53

    She seems like such a kind and genuine person, I want to give her a hug 🥺💖

  • @alexlesane4219
    @alexlesane4219 3 роки тому +22

    I’m pansexual and I have BPD too! It’s nice to hear and know about a celeb I can relate to on more than one thing. She’s so beautiful and seems so sweet.

  • @charlim9023
    @charlim9023 4 роки тому +119

    She seems to be the cutest person ever🥺❤️

  • @theashaya3965
    @theashaya3965 3 роки тому +121

    I'm sorry and truly do not mean to spread any sort of negativity here, she seems like a very nice and down to earth person, i grew up with a mother with bpd and so I have been on the receiving end of someone with this disorder all my life.
    Be weary please. If you are a young person that has been diagnosed with BPD please please do not rule out therapy, especially if you plan on having kids one day. If you have bpd, you may not realise how you affect those around you. If you aren't getting therapy for yourself, do it for those you love, please!! i am only thinking if my mother had read this comment when she was younger that it might have all panned out very differently.
    This is really not a good example to follow and I urge you to not follow in Madison's footsteps regarding this particular aspect of the interview.

    • @mcaitlyns
      @mcaitlyns 3 роки тому

      G22g

    • @abbeyjohnson9051
      @abbeyjohnson9051 3 роки тому +7

      I agree. I used to have it, but don’t think I have it anymore because I went to therapy & use DBT skills & it really helped.

    • @ellybelly08
      @ellybelly08 3 роки тому +8

      yesss!! if you have bpd please please try to seek therapy if you are able too, it trully helps most of us be better and not hurt the people we adore🤍😭

    • @silverxlightningx262
      @silverxlightningx262 3 роки тому +2

      yes, thank you. having a mother with bpd can be so traumatic i can't put it into words.

    • @imaweird001
      @imaweird001 2 роки тому

      As someone who also has a mother with bpd and Currently am only 14 having to deal with her behaviours I 100% agree!

  • @jules_1d935
    @jules_1d935 3 роки тому +29

    this is the cutest interview i’ve ever seen

  • @Makavelimoon
    @Makavelimoon 3 роки тому +8

    I really like the interviewer, she was very amicable and personable. She asked questions as if she was a friend which made the interview very easy going. The conversation flowed so well.

  • @DiegoOspina86
    @DiegoOspina86 4 роки тому +99

    That's a adorable person, and a warrior.

  • @rrvvjjrr9194
    @rrvvjjrr9194 4 роки тому +65

    People who ship her and Rudy in real life need to see this

  • @lanaystarks4975
    @lanaystarks4975 4 роки тому +38

    The way how Madison came out to her mom is how everyone should come out to their parents. That made me die

  • @KTM2016cheerleaders
    @KTM2016cheerleaders 4 роки тому +21

    For the bi babies! Bi as a label does not exclude genders! Transphobic people who identify as bi exclude genders!! This is a pretty old view.
    Now days bi normally means that you like 2 or more genders. (And gender does play a role in your attraction.)
    Pan normally means that you are attracted to people regardless of their gender. (Attracted to the person without gender playing a role in your attraction)

  • @al3x1aa_
    @al3x1aa_ 4 роки тому +14

    If I ever met Madison Bailey, I would burst out crying.

  • @dorinha4866
    @dorinha4866 3 роки тому +79

    madison seems like a lovely person and if no therapy or meds is working for her then thats great but as someone who lives closely with someone that has BPD i dont think it should be encouraged for people with BPD to just not go to therapy or see a psychiatrist. its a VERY complicated thing to deal with, including for the people around someone w BPD. so i dont think madison is a good example to follow, if you have BPD or think you might have it please please please go see a doctor or a therapist, she might be an isolated case but it helps most people a lot.

    • @Wxtst.3
      @Wxtst.3 3 роки тому +2

      Agree 100%

    • @shanluann6417
      @shanluann6417 3 роки тому +2

      Totally agree!

    • @allies9788
      @allies9788 3 роки тому +4

      I agree as well. People with BPD have a notoriously hard time forming long-term positive relationships with others, including/especially therapists. It's already hard enough to get someone with BPD to go to therapy and work on getting better, so for someone so young and uneducated to encourage to try to work on things inside yourself is really irresponsible and I hope she stops.

    • @Emma-nv7nz
      @Emma-nv7nz 3 роки тому +1

      Well said! As someone with BPD, I agree

    • @torilayson1857
      @torilayson1857 3 роки тому +2

      @@allies9788 if you don’t have BPD don’t make a fucking comment! So toxic

  • @miahowles5450
    @miahowles5450 4 роки тому +32

    i love her so much!! she deserves all the happiness in the world❤️i’m so happy for her and mariah!!

  • @isabel-qr9lh
    @isabel-qr9lh 4 роки тому +17

    this is literally the cutest interview ever 🥺❤️

  • @keirashayden916
    @keirashayden916 4 роки тому +29

    Ahhh I love her. Shes honestly the most amazing person and the sweetest. I would love to see her sing around the fire with the pogues.

  • @phoebedolin9
    @phoebedolin9 4 роки тому +13

    This is the sweetest thing in the world. Love is real

  • @leabeu1191
    @leabeu1191 4 роки тому +24

    She’s the cutest & she and Mariah are so cute together 🥺😍

  • @ceceliaspiegel446
    @ceceliaspiegel446 3 роки тому +15

    this interviewer IS IT.

  • @Anna-fm1if
    @Anna-fm1if 3 роки тому +5

    I like that the interview took time to research things about Madison instead of just asking her “what’s your sexuality” or something like that.

  • @alannashea6344
    @alannashea6344 4 роки тому +54

    She’s too cute! Hope she is happy and healthy ❤️

  • @samiapple9889
    @samiapple9889 4 роки тому +12

    Wow...she is, and I cannot stress this enough, adorable

  • @jessicashearer8326
    @jessicashearer8326 3 роки тому +39

    She seems like a sweet girl, but as a young celebrity she sounds like she’s demoting therapy? Sorry but Dealing with mental health by not getting help is not the answer. I hope she decides to get help in the future when she needs it or educate herself more on BPD before giving public interviews. Her mental health and yours is important!

    • @carlie4964
      @carlie4964 3 роки тому +8

      She does seem sweet but I noticed that too, she also spread the misconception that bisexual people exclude trans people so she goes by pan instead... which is not true, she really should not have said that especially during an interview

    • @raindropsonroses3919
      @raindropsonroses3919 3 роки тому +3

      Im a mental health nurse. A lot of people with BPD, (or EUPD as we call it in Europe) are very cautious about therapy etc. Their lives are very tumultuous and trust can be difficult for them. What I’m trying to say is that while dangerous, it’s not Madelyn’s fault that she has these beliefs therefore we have to be careful not to blame

    • @jessicashearer8326
      @jessicashearer8326 3 роки тому

      @@raindropsonroses3919 thanks for the kind reply and I’m sure you have seen a lot. I also work in the mental health field in the USA and didn’t mean to come off like I was blaming her - but I think as a person on a public platform she has more responsibility to either promote BPD/mental health/therapy in a positive way or not. I guess what I was trying to say was I was very disappointed that someone who has the power to influence others lives used this interview to discourage therapy and described how she has no clear intention to educate herself on the disorder. At the very least this would be important to encourage others who might be struggling. But again we both know these beliefs are common with people who struggle with BPD and I hope and wish she will change her stance one day and get the help she needs and encourage others to do the same. Neglecting your mental health it is not something a public figure should be promoting, but I guess ignorance is bliss.

    • @raindropsonroses3919
      @raindropsonroses3919 3 роки тому +2

      @@jessicashearer8326 ah fantastic :) I could tell from your original comment that you may work in the mental health field ,as your empathy for those with BPD was evident. I do agree and would stress for anyone watching this video to take the experiences of others with a grain of salt. Everyone is unique and therapy (especially DBT) and medication has been shown to have more positive effects for BPD than a lack therefore. People have to do their own objective research and not allow one subjective opinion to influence them.

    • @jessicashearer8326
      @jessicashearer8326 3 роки тому +1

      @@raindropsonroses3919 aww thanks for saying that ☺️

  • @alii3210
    @alii3210 Рік тому +1

    this is the cutest interview and the best 🥺🥺❤️

  • @delrey874
    @delrey874 4 роки тому +49

    She's so cute.

  • @jshah8343
    @jshah8343 3 роки тому +4

    she is just soo sweettttt and cute
    " i think m in love" 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋

  • @kluna-ox3vo
    @kluna-ox3vo 4 роки тому +32

    I was about to say that is not Madison baliey, but I really thinking about Baliee Madison.

  • @bianeyygarciaaa1459
    @bianeyygarciaaa1459 4 роки тому +40

    ugh i love her 🥺♥️.

  • @kathrynvictoria9157
    @kathrynvictoria9157 4 роки тому +9

    My favourite person ever!! Not only as an actress but a person💕!!

  • @alexandraelizabeth6423
    @alexandraelizabeth6423 4 роки тому +16

    omg we love this pan sexual girl w borderline representation! same sis! i feel so seen

  • @ariellaclaire793
    @ariellaclaire793 3 роки тому +16

    am i the only one who didnt knew she was pansexual bc i thought she was bi and before i even knew she came out i was pansexual and i was like WAIT WHATTT but im rlly happy we share thst 😊

  • @yuvashreeharidoss7496
    @yuvashreeharidoss7496 3 роки тому +3

    "I just needed another word than crazy" That is exactly why I wanted to be diagnosed. And people hate me for wanting to be diagnosed !!!

  • @elisemcgann
    @elisemcgann 4 роки тому +11

    did anyone else see the platform 9 3/4 sign in the interviewer’s room? we love a harry potter stan

  • @Nicole-ee6dw
    @Nicole-ee6dw 4 роки тому +12

    she is so beautiful, literally looks like she has a snapchat filter on at all times🥺🥺💓

  • @Benjji
    @Benjji 3 роки тому +8

    her personality is so pretty

  • @jasmineft7569
    @jasmineft7569 3 роки тому +1

    This interview felt good :)

  • @sclmb
    @sclmb Рік тому

    I like both of these ladies! They seem so honest and present.

  • @teacrncic5387
    @teacrncic5387 4 роки тому +10

    Why was this so wholesome omg🥰

  • @juliaoliveira1857
    @juliaoliveira1857 3 роки тому +4

    madison is the sweetest person that i know

  • @millygallagher2164
    @millygallagher2164 4 роки тому +7

    They are the cutest people on the planet I’m crying

  • @Breezys-Series
    @Breezys-Series 4 роки тому +18

    Awwwwwwww she seems like such an awesome person I love her

  • @anjiemeza8878
    @anjiemeza8878 4 роки тому +21

    Madison Bailey is gorgeous!!🥺🤩🥰

  • @Duhitzmarina1
    @Duhitzmarina1 3 роки тому +4

    She is honestly the cutest

  • @naomireider2799
    @naomireider2799 3 роки тому +1

    I also have BPD and this gives me so much hope

  • @steevinie
    @steevinie 3 роки тому +4

    Not even 10 seconds in and Madis already making me tear up🥺

  • @darci7937
    @darci7937 4 роки тому +3

    madison seems like the sweetest person

  • @multi.hope1
    @multi.hope1 3 роки тому +3

    She's beautiful and a sweetheart and a sunlight

  • @abzzzrae
    @abzzzrae 3 роки тому +1

    I relate to so much of what she says, a lot of people can’t keep up with how much you change with bpd

  • @CaliforniaGirl49
    @CaliforniaGirl49 4 роки тому +4

    They both seem like good friends awe

  • @Toujourscroireensoi
    @Toujourscroireensoi 4 роки тому +5

    beautiful interview

  • @Joyful477
    @Joyful477 4 роки тому +8

    I love this :) makes me feel pride to love without bounds 😭💗

  • @rlsn_
    @rlsn_ 3 роки тому +4

    she is so perfect personality wise and looks too

  • @luananishikawa8199
    @luananishikawa8199 4 роки тому +5

    She deserves the whole world 🤧🥰

  • @rahafasad2291
    @rahafasad2291 4 роки тому +12

    I love Madison so much 🥰 I wish her all the happiness in the world ❤️❤️❤️
    I love her and Mariah together, they’re so cute 🥺💔🥰❣️😍❤️

  • @heidiperez3417
    @heidiperez3417 4 роки тому +25

    Kudos to you for talking about your diagnosis! BPD is no joke! You are still young but as you grow older and go through the trials and tribulations of life, it will be very beneficial for you to learn some coping skills. I spent many years in and out of therapy and felt like a science project for the counselors, so I get where you are coming from regarding therapy. You can buy DBT books online and learn skills from the comfort of your own home.😊 This definitely helped me, along with the right medication. Wishing you all the best! And thank you for bringing this illness to the forefront. 🙏❤

  • @elisemcgann
    @elisemcgann 4 роки тому +12

    i feel like madison and mariah were meant to find eachother

  • @lauren6809
    @lauren6809 4 роки тому +4

    she's such an amazing person

  • @alexandraelizabeth6423
    @alexandraelizabeth6423 4 роки тому +8

    but 2 b clear bisexual is not actually a non-inclusive term. trans men are men and trans women are women. and bisexual includes the entire gender spectrum for that matter anyway. even non-binary or agender and all other forms of gender and sex.

    • @KTM2016cheerleaders
      @KTM2016cheerleaders 4 роки тому

      Jeri, Jeri, Quite Contrary What do you mean by this? Why do you feel that bi excludes trans? Just curious! Would love to chat❤️

  • @Kyshalise
    @Kyshalise 3 роки тому +2

    She’s so sweet!!!

  • @rainbowfartcat1583
    @rainbowfartcat1583 4 роки тому +10

    I love this

  • @jasminaklaumunzner
    @jasminaklaumunzner Рік тому +1

    I love her she’s so sweet and caring just love able 🥰

  • @littlelou3532
    @littlelou3532 3 роки тому +5

    Hi I'm bpd and have been for years I would like to know how people stop the weigh gain of meds because that dosnt help the situation

    • @daeshareis5850
      @daeshareis5850 3 роки тому

      You might need to change your meds or take another medication that counter acts that... talk to your doctor

    • @littlelou3532
      @littlelou3532 3 роки тому

      @@daeshareis5850 thankyou I did and was put on metformin

  • @lilyannajoyrama
    @lilyannajoyrama 3 роки тому +7

    we just know mariah watches this in her spare time

  • @jwilson8631
    @jwilson8631 4 роки тому +8

    anyone know where her necklace might be from? :) xo

  • @leahwilson8982
    @leahwilson8982 Місяць тому

    I had no idea she had borderline! I have it too and it makes me feel so much more comfortable with myself

  • @gregorypic1947
    @gregorypic1947 3 роки тому +1

    This interviewer is really good

  • @NellieLynnDaveah
    @NellieLynnDaveah 4 роки тому +5

    i ship her and mariah sooooo hard

  • @shelbydriscoll9219
    @shelbydriscoll9219 3 роки тому +1

    I was diagnosed with bpd four years ago...

  • @whyisgamora848
    @whyisgamora848 2 роки тому +1

    her laugh istg 😭💗💗💗

  • @__...__...__
    @__...__...__ 4 роки тому +5

    *She is too beautiful!* 😍🥺

  • @eleanorswanson4734
    @eleanorswanson4734 4 роки тому +31

    That was to personal I felt like I was intruding on her life (not that I’m complaining lol)

  • @skylateodosio4749
    @skylateodosio4749 4 роки тому +8

    I love you Madison 🇿🇦💞💞you are amazing

  • @poppielongmore1986
    @poppielongmore1986 4 роки тому +3

    her laugh is so cute💕🤩

  • @valroe7034
    @valroe7034 4 роки тому +1

    AHHHH I LOVE THIS

  • @evelyncarmichael8255
    @evelyncarmichael8255 3 роки тому +3

    this is a genuine question to anyone who wants to answer. but i am a Christian and cannot support the LGBTQ+ community. that doesn't mean i hate anyone in it or that i treat anyone differently. i love lgbtq+ community members and i will be friends with literally anyone and everyone. i know there have been too many Christians who have treated LGBTQ+ people with disrespect and treating them like they are this terrible human being (which is totally wrong). i think a straight person is just the same as a gay person. everyone is equally sinful (unless it's like murder because there are greater sins but being gay is not one of those). i believe everyone struggles with their own sin but that doesn't mean we should treat others differently. so my question is, even though i don't support the LGBTQ+ community but i still love them and treat them the same, would y'all not want to be friends with me? does it turn y'all away to be friends with people like me simply because we don't support the lgbtq community? i will treat everyone the same and i respect everyone as human being but i cannot back down on my beliefs. i genuinely want to be friends with anyone who is willing to be friends with me. so i hope that it doesn't turn y'all away when i say i don't support the community. much love 💕

    • @st4rsholl0w
      @st4rsholl0w 2 роки тому +3

      no hate. Im an asexual they/them lesbian. if we met and you told me you didnt support me for who i truly am, and ESPECIALLY if you told me loving who i love makes you uncomfy... i wouldnt want to be friends with you. i wouldnt be comfortable telling you about my crush, introducing you to my s/o if i had one. so yea, learn to accept ppl for they are 😃 religion literally hsd nothing to do witj it either lol so yea

  • @phillipemuyambo2354
    @phillipemuyambo2354 3 роки тому

    I love her honesty and she is being herself by not caring about other haters opinions. I respect that 👌👍😁

  • @dimitrianaaaaaaa
    @dimitrianaaaaaaa 4 роки тому +2

    I just adore her

  • @Amanda-ly5gx
    @Amanda-ly5gx 4 роки тому +8

    She is so cute and loving ❤️

  • @Julia-zm1po
    @Julia-zm1po 4 роки тому +11

    Love the BPD rep!

  • @Ms.Me123
    @Ms.Me123 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your medical health diagnosis.

  • @sioglloyd_04
    @sioglloyd_04 4 роки тому +1

    Madison is sooo sweet