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  • @amyvaughn3790
    @amyvaughn3790 Рік тому +37

    Hey Tara, thank you for sharing, I have been a RN for 25 years and from seeing many things, I can definitely tell you quality of life far outweighs quantity!! Prayers for y’all!

    • @mollyjane01
      @mollyjane01 Рік тому

      As someone with cystic fibrosis-YES, I whole heartedly agree!! ❤

  • @deboraho6779
    @deboraho6779 Рік тому +20

    Dear Tara, I really appreciate that you do a shop my stash video. So many of us have so many wonderful forgotten beauty products. It’s always a great reminder seeing videos such as these! It can help us to really appreciate our products and put a hold on how much new we add in our products. I do hope that your sweet grandmother has a full and speedy recovery! Sending healing thoughts to her and love for you and your family! 🙏🏻♥️💐💋

  • @RachASMR
    @RachASMR Рік тому +1

    *Hi T, you know my poppa was my world too, and towards the end of his life he said, no more drs no more tests, let me rest and let be what will be in gods will. So we did. Trust your guy. Pray on it.*

  • @Catherine-ds8wp
    @Catherine-ds8wp Рік тому +20

    Tara, this video was just so precious. I can relate to so many of the things that are currently troubling you. My grandmother was my favorite person, my shopping buddy, and so much more. I knew she loved me with her whole heart. My hope is to be that person for my granddaughter and pray that she feels and knows all the love I have for her. While I was in my final year of college, both my parents went through stage IV cancer at the same time, IT WAS CRAZY.....Every Friday night after exams I would drive down to their homes (they were divorced) and then drive back up to school (hundreds of miles away) every Sunday night. It was an insane time. Looking back, I honestly do not know how I did it. My mom had a secure relationship with God and wasn't afraid of dying. She took her diagnosis and did not do chemo. My dad, on the other hand was afraid of passing. I have to say my Dad did all kinds of treatments and had a horrible quality of life during his treatment and these treatments did not extend his life. He died exactly when they say he would have had he not taken treatment. I feel for the decisions that you have ahead of you. The strain, the pain of hoping you do the right thing. You seem to be very spiritual, so I would say, just pray for the wisdom you need and then trust your heart and the love you have for your grandmother. I wish you all the best on this journey. Your grandma is extremely lucky to have such a loving granddaughter to care and look out for her. XXOO

    • @ITFDBLA
      @ITFDBLA Рік тому

      What an incredible dtr you were to them and I can relate as I’ve also had to take care of my parents these last few years but I can’t imagine doing that in college! God bless. 🙏🏻

  • @michellebloss4721
    @michellebloss4721 Рік тому +6

    We had to make the same decision for my mother-in-law with advanced MS and dementia. Quality versus quantity of life is such an important balance. We ultimately decided that with no quality of life, the extended quality is a cruelty. Good luck with everything and hopefully your family can find peace with a decision in the end ❤️

  • @poppylopez5233
    @poppylopez5233 Рік тому +5

    I loved hearing about your memories with your grandparents. Just beautiful and precious ❤

  • @sepideharfazadeh542
    @sepideharfazadeh542 Рік тому +7

    Tara, this was a fantastic video. Thank you for sharing such special, intimate moments of your life. It really can help others too. You're living such a delicate moment in life. It's extremely hard to take cold-headed decisions such as the one you and your family members have to make when it concerns one of the dearest, most loved person in your life. But alas, we all have to go through such moments in our lives. For me, the most important thing is for my loved one to not suffer from any pain. So if prolonging his/her life only for a couple of months means bugging them with exams, painful interventions, long distance trips, etc. I truly believe it's not worth it. It will spoil the short time that is left where they can still live a more or less normal life and enjoy their loved ones. I just wish you and your family the courage and strength to face this all and to make the best decision for your grandma. A huge big kiss and hug to your lovely grandma from Paris and to you. My thoughts and prayers are with her, not to suffer, not to have pain and enjoy being in company of her loved ones for as long as it is possible.🥰🤗🤗❣

  • @MaxineV
    @MaxineV Рік тому +2

    Tara, we have had a very similar childhood. My grandfather was the person I trusted most; he was a man of reason and like you, I went to him when in doubt. My grandmother was so spirited and opinionated. She also suffered from dementia before her death, unlike you we did have to make such a difficult decision but when she passed away I must admit that I was relieved to some extent because her quality of life had been deteriorating for years and it was just going to get worse. I hope that whatever choice you make, you are comfortable with it (so to speak). I will be thinking of you and your family.

  • @AngxIzzXO
    @AngxIzzXO Рік тому +12

    Love the idea of 'shop my stash'. I have around 20 palettes and decided to stop buying new makeup, just use what I have. Maybe I'm a weirdo but I enjoy hitting pan 😄

    • @TaraLynnbeauty
      @TaraLynnbeauty  Рік тому +3

      I think it's amazing 👏 That means you love what you have, and use it😁❤️

  • @RaineInKS
    @RaineInKS Рік тому +4

    Prayers for your Grandma and for the family. I too come from a small family and it's so difficult when anyone passes away. Seeing them suffer is also painful. I'm sure you and your family will make the right decision when it comes to your Grandma. ❤ Love the look you created! So SO beautiful!! I told myself "Nah, don't need the Rose Quartz palette...have too many Natasha Denona palettes." Now I'm second guessing myself. LOL

  • @angelaconley238
    @angelaconley238 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your memories of your grandparents. They seem to have definitely loved you dearly! I’ll be praying for you and your family on the tough decisions y’all will be having to make. Either way I’m sure it will be made with all the love you clearly have of her. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 XO Angela

  • @kohk79
    @kohk79 Рік тому +2

    Awww, Tara, I’m so sorry about your grandma. Those decisions are never easy… Rationally you know that quality of life is better, but that doesn’t automatically disqualify quantity. I hope that you all can find a solution that allows your grandma to spend her last days as free of suffering and pain as possible… In the end, that’s all that we can hope for. Big hugs ❤

  • @debbieotoole1072
    @debbieotoole1072 Рік тому +2

    I'm watching your video playing with makeup. Thank you for sharing about your grandmother. You and your family have a hard decision to make, but I'd like to thank your grandmother for getting you into makeup because we get your wonderful channel ❤️

  • @dogwalker97
    @dogwalker97 Рік тому +2

    Tara, thank you for sharing the news about your grandmother. One of my very favorite relatives recently passed away. During the last several years of her life she was experiencing memory issues. My mom has also been experiencing dementia after suffering a stroke a number of years ago. Making caregiving decisions is very challenging and stressful. The very best advice I ever received was from a doctor who noticed I was struggling in making a decision regarding medical treatment for a loved one in my care. He said to remember that as long as the decision was made with love and caring, there are no wrong decisions. In this case, my loved one had a terminal disease. I made my decision from the viewpoint of what I thought they would want. The doctor’s advice helped me make peace with my decision. Prayers for your grandmother, you and your family.

  • @elle5091
    @elle5091 Рік тому +5

    Sweet Tara, your vulnerability and honesty about your grandma and family touches my heart. No matter what decision you make, it will be the right one. And your grandmother will know that. 🙏❤️

  • @allisonwhisler4149
    @allisonwhisler4149 Рік тому +2

    Love videos you do like this! It helps me find my forgotten favorites. Sending prayers for your grandma ❤

  • @anna40299
    @anna40299 Рік тому +2

    Sorry about your grandma. Cancer is the worst. My family members had survived different cancers, its hard on the family. My husband's father at the age of 85 had lung cancer, the doctor and his siblings decided best not to operate, the doctor predicted 1 year but he lived 2 and 1/2 years, so make sure she eats completely healthy and just spending time with her changes her mood and the up-mood will prolong her life. At the end of the day we all have to go some time. The key is the least pain and quality of life at this stage of her life. All the best to her and my prayers are with you and your family❤

  • @krista436
    @krista436 Рік тому +7

    Something else to consider is that chemo is neurotoxic. It sped up my father in law’s dementia. I worked as a social services director at a nursing home, which let me see the end stages of dementia. It was eye-opening. The fact that you are thinking about what your grandmother wants means that you will make the right decision for her. ❤

    • @TaraLynnbeauty
      @TaraLynnbeauty  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for that information. We were not aware of that. Very helpful, thank you🩷🩷

    • @Alex-tk7gh
      @Alex-tk7gh Рік тому +1

      I've always firmly believed that chemotherapy is often times even worse than the cancer itself. I'm not taking away from all those cancer survivors who have benefited from treatment but it is brutal.

    • @TaraLynnbeauty
      @TaraLynnbeauty  Рік тому +1

      @@Alex-tk7gh I totally know where you're coming from. The side effects are some of the worst. I mean, it completely kills your cells . Good and bad cells. It has definitely saved lives, but sometimes it isn't always the answer. I pray daily for a cure of cancer🙏🙏

  • @sarahcox1805
    @sarahcox1805 Рік тому +5

    I’m so sorry about what your grandma is going through. My grandmother also had dementia and I know how difficult these decisions are. Sending good vibes to your family as you navigate this journey - I’m so glad your grandma has a caring family looking out for her. 🙏 ☮️

  • @andie599
    @andie599 Рік тому +5

    Tara! I really loved this make up look! That Huda palette is so good, one of my all time faves for sure!
    More importantly, I truly appreciate that you are having this convo about your grandmothers health. So many people don’t take the time to truly think about these things, and as a nurse I have seen so much suffering because people weren’t prepared to watch their loved ones age. I feel for your family having to make these difficult decisions but I’m glad to see you prioritizing her health and dignity more than anything. ❤

  • @anna40299
    @anna40299 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this awesome video. As mentioned before, this makeup pook is amazing fresh looking like spring time. Sorry to hear about your grandma, it's always difficult when our loved ones have issues. Best of luck 🥰

  • @anna40299
    @anna40299 Рік тому +2

    Please do more using making you already have 😊

  • @brockit79
    @brockit79 Рік тому +1

    Glad you revisited the Rose Quartz paletteI have it and I love it - I like the order you used the colours in. Thank you :)
    Also - I repurchased Angel, just today about an hour ago (as well as Fabby and Bombshell).

  • @janetp5956
    @janetp5956 Рік тому +1

    Tara, your love and compassion for your dear grandmother is beautiful. Take it one day at a time and your faith will help you to decide the next steps. You will know what to do.

  • @CCKittyKat931
    @CCKittyKat931 Рік тому +1

    Sooo sorry about your grandmother.sending love ❤️ great video love the Huda palette.

  • @sarahs3533
    @sarahs3533 Рік тому +1

    Fighting cancer to have years verses fighting for an extra 6 months is a big difference. Especially considering her current decline and dementia. End of life decisions are so hard to make for someone else. I'm sorry this is happening. Once your family gets together and weighs out the options, you will know whe correct decision. Bless you guys

  • @julietoye9872
    @julietoye9872 Рік тому +1

    Huge hugs. Much love to you and your family ❤❤❤

  • @alannaelayne4245
    @alannaelayne4245 Рік тому +2

    I’m so sorry Tara that you and you’re grandma are going through this! Same exact situation happened to my grandmother! Made it through breast cancer then came back as liver cancer. My whole heart goes out to your entire family! I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🏻❤️

  • @quietowl1246
    @quietowl1246 Рік тому +1

    You’re terrific Tara and you clearly love your grandma dearly. Listen to your heart. Quality of life really matters. 😘

  • @vickytrueman2848
    @vickytrueman2848 Рік тому +1

    Loads of love to you and your family 🙏❤️

  • @zivprof
    @zivprof Рік тому +1

    Tara I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I can't imagine the pressure that you and your family face but I know you guys will make the right decision for her. I hope you know you can take all the time you need to be with her. We will be here always. I loved the memories you shared about her and your grandfather. We all love you so much! Thinking of you always ❤️

  • @kathleenp3135
    @kathleenp3135 Рік тому +1

    Love love love this video! You’re a doll! Glad you’re feeling better. The eye shadow is INSANE! Great job❤

  • @Kathrynh246
    @Kathrynh246 Рік тому

    Yes the bk beauty 109! And I need to order the hourglass concealer again! I think you made me buy that years ago ☺️ I’m so sorry about your grandmother. Bless her heart! Prayers for her and your family. Your talk about your family was so precious and open. My aunt lived a long time with dementia and it was so so hard. Praying for y’all’s discernment. ❤️ loved getting ready with you sweet Tara! 🤗 and loveeeee the highlighter over the lipstick!🥰

  • @GlitzyFritzy
    @GlitzyFritzy Рік тому

    You know how much I’m here for you 💋💋

  • @chrissymoss514
    @chrissymoss514 Рік тому

    Oh jeez Tara, this is a situation from hell 😢😢.
    All I do know is, whatever decision you and your family make, your grandma will be happy with. I mean, if she gets more time here with you guys, she'll be happy - on the other hand, if she departed to see her beloved parents and husband, she'll be happy.
    There's honestly no wrong decision.
    I pray God and your grandpa are with you every step of this painful journey 💔 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    I love you so much Tara, 🤍🦋🤍🦋🤍🦋🤍

  • @brunom72
    @brunom72 Рік тому

    i literally (literally!!) cut my phone conversation short when i saw this notification on my cell phone !!! i loooove your GRWM's !!
    [ *EDIT* wow TL i'm so sorry that you & the entire family must make such a difficult choice about your Gram. tbh, i have ZERO words of wisdom except to say that i absolutely will pray that *Father God's wisdom* & the *Grace of our Lord* boldly guides your decisions and that what ever choice(s) you make, will bring your family nothing but *peace & serenity* ~ *hugs n love TL* ]

  • @ITFDBLA
    @ITFDBLA Рік тому

    Praying for you and your grandmother and your family. 🙏🏻 You’re such an amazing granddaughter. Love you.

  • @louisewarren6472
    @louisewarren6472 Рік тому

    Oh my god Tara!By heart bleeds for Yall!My husband has Alzheimer’s and my world has been upside down so I’m going to pray for this every night when I pray for my husband!Tara honey your Grandfather will still speak to you just get somewhere quiet by yourself honey, and he will speak to you!😥😥

  • @tonyarst2922
    @tonyarst2922 Рік тому

    Sister, I am so sorry. My Granny had dementia. I know how hard it is. I pray that Jesus will bless y'all with His wisdom, peace, guidance and love. Love you girl!👑🙏♥️💄

  • @michellecaudill7936
    @michellecaudill7936 Рік тому

    Hey sweetie I’m sorry for the situation with your grandmother. I see where your gorgeous looks come from. I’ll pray you’ll know whatever is going to give her the best quality of life for the days she is here. That’s what I would do But this isn’t about me.Stay strong; You know your grandmother inside your heart. Please pray about it. God will give you the right answer. I’ll be praying you’ll have a peace in your decision of. Which ever gives her the most comfort for the day she’s here, is what I would tend to do but this is not about me. I will continue to pray for you. May God bless you and give you a piece of mind as you make these tough decisions. In Jesus name I pray amen!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️🤣🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @annlara5688
    @annlara5688 Рік тому

    So sorry to hear about your grandma, It’s a tough place to be in. Had to make this decision for my mom, she also had dementia. It’s So hard, I wanted her around as long as possible. But I had to ask what is best for her. If I’m hearing you correct, With doing nothing she has six months, with doing all that she might get six more months. If she was my grandma I couldn’t see putting her through all that. (For 6 months) At this point in her life make her happy and comfortable! Prayers are with you and your family🙏🏼✝️ (I hope a haven’t offended you by giving you advice)

  • @cindyp5132
    @cindyp5132 Рік тому

    Wow I'm surprised how much you look like your grandfather! I look just like mine too (he was 100% Polish, where I get my blonde & blue). First, I swear using the tape is the best! I'm too lazy to use it every time & need to get that kind.😀 Your eyes look sensational with the very light shimmer & dark contrast!! I'm holding off on Spring just yet... So your grandmother. I'm so sorry, you're in a tough spot. I would say it has to be a unanimous vote between all family members. It's the only way to live settled with the decision. But keep in mind, making no decision is also indirectly making the decision, sometimes that's best.😉 I send you love & light and hope your uncle finds peace.🤍

  • @lauracorral3594
    @lauracorral3594 Рік тому

    Tara, beautiful video. I was thinking of my grandparents all the way. They left already but I know they are watching over. Your Grandma will let you know what she wants, believe me. Love the makeup 🥰🥰🥰🥰lots of hugs

  • @trinichandy3049
    @trinichandy3049 Рік тому

    Hey Tara, totally enjoyed this chit chat... thank you for sharing your grandma health. I am praying for you all to make the right decision. Love the makeup. God bless.
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  • @kellywatts6227
    @kellywatts6227 Рік тому

    I'm so sorry to hear of your Grandma🙏, life can be very sad at times and that's why we need our happy cheer up times💕 I appreciate your time, efforts and all content 🙏and love and relate to you always with your beautiful personality, lovely😘 Thank you always, sending hugs from Australia 🇦🇺 ❣️

  • @achaley4186
    @achaley4186 Рік тому

    Dear Tara, please seek nature healing for your Grandmother. All fruit diet, grapes berries and melons. I am a cancer survivor. Please look up Dr. Robert Morse in Florida. He is also on UA-cam. She can stay home, cleanse, hydrate and heal. Or at least, live in peace and feeling well. Much love 🙂🙏🏼🌹

  • @sandrad7633
    @sandrad7633 Рік тому

    I’ve watched my father-in-law and my Aunt both die long , painful deaths. Another Aunt has dementia and it is heartbreaking. Personally I found it cruel to see that . They don’t let our pets suffer, so why do they let human beings suffer? I’m sure you and your family will come to the right decision for you 🙏🏻.
    Ps, my mum got pregnant at 15 and had me at 16 and I too spent my early life with my grandparents . Unfortunately mum ( my grandmother) got hit by a car when I was 7 and died. Life is a roller coaster of emotions for sure .xx

  • @EMILYHERRERA
    @EMILYHERRERA Рік тому

    I'm not sure prolonging life, for an uncertain time period, but with certain known hardships needs to be heavily considered. It's devastating to think you'd have so much strife at the end of life, and then pass. Comfort and cwre, whatever that means for her, is what I would prioritize. It's unlikely she will "beat" this, so comfort and quality is what I'd focus on. I'm sorry that you guys are dealing with this. It's almost as if it'd be easier for medical professionals to make the most ethical decision, but then again, it's not their choice. Especially with dementia, which is cruel anyway, prolonging life for why? So many hugs to you. I'm a RN, so my choice about what is best for her would be to make her comfortable and let her go. Peace and comfort.

  • @mirnaadriano5935
    @mirnaadriano5935 Рік тому

    Preciosa 🌷, thank you so much for sharing ❤️all you in my prayers 📿!!! Arlo has grown a lot 😍🐾 precioso ❤️!!!

  • @janicecroissiert9116
    @janicecroissiert9116 Рік тому

    I’m sorry you are going through this Tara. I have been through this with my mom. 😢. Difficult, I do know. Prayers to you, and your family.

  • @algimante2097
    @algimante2097 Рік тому

    Dear, Tara, sorry to hear about your grandmother. I read a book called "A Beginner's Guide to the End: Practical advice for living life and facing death". It gave perspective on letting go. Sometimes prolonging life can give more suffering to a person and people around. But it's not for me to decide. My mom passed away after two years living "on bed" (not being able to speak, needing help with going on the toilet, sometimes weting the bed, constant decline etc.). Extremely sad situation to see your loved one suffering like that. It may be cruel for some people to hear, but death brings some sort of relief. A lot of pain, but relief too.

  • @valerievalois6263
    @valerievalois6263 Рік тому

    I knew that puppy was going to end up being yours 😂 lucky dog. ❤
    I am adding this because I commented at the beginning of the video. I am sorry for what your family is going through, it is very difficult. Thank you for sharing with us. ❤ 23:42

  • @susannehallman9305
    @susannehallman9305 Рік тому

    Hi Tara I am so sorry to hear about the struggles w your Gma and truly smiled when you mentioned snapshot. Dad passed in Nov of 2021 of dementia. I hold those silly filtered pics close to my heart now lol. Dad was a character and it was difficult for me and my 2 younger brothers. I am praying for you and your family. It will be OK. Sending love

  • @kb2816
    @kb2816 Рік тому

    Praying for you, and your grandmother, Tara. My dear husband had to say “ no” to excessive medical intervention for his father when he was critically ill. It was very difficult, as conventional thinking is to do everything medicine offers. It can quickly become a whirlwind of futile office and hospital visits.
    It is so good that you are considering your grandmother’s wishes. That is how God treats us. He respects and honors our will. He never forces anything. Peace be with you , Tara

  • @lisasexton754
    @lisasexton754 Рік тому

    Tara, thank you for sharing such a personal story. My heart breaks for you because I'd give anything to have my sweet grandparents back with me. We're selfish because we do love them so much. Get still, get quiet, pray and your answers will come to you. I think you already know, and I'm holding good thoughts for you and your family as you make this decision. You created a gorgeous look from shopping your own stash. I think many of us forget we have beautiful looks sitting in drawers or on counters waiting to be rediscovered again.

  • @rachelhelman2098
    @rachelhelman2098 Рік тому

    I feel so sad for you and your family with what's going on with your grandmother.
    She's so lucky to have such a loving family.
    I hope you and your family find the answer to the dilemma that you face.
    Stay strong. Sending love ❤️

  • @BlingyBea
    @BlingyBea Рік тому

    I’ve been using tape for years, I’ve gotten so use to them that I can’t do my eyes without it, I’m pretty sure I got that from MsMelissaM. So sorry to hear about your grandmother, dementia is such a terrible thing to see your loved ones go thru plus the cancer. My sister has dementia, she will be 73 in April, she was diagnosed when she was 69. She’s my best friend and I’m just so thankful that my husband moved us so I could live closer to her 8 years ago not knowing this would happen to her. It’s very hard seeing the changes in her, she remembers the past but the present is what she has problems with and she can’t complete a sentence. I take her with me when I have to run errands just to get her out of the house, we go to the park and take our dogs for a walk almost everyday. Heartbreaking seeing her like this. Praying for your grandma and you and your family.🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @mollyjane01
    @mollyjane01 Рік тому

    Tara, first your makeup here is just gorgeous! More importantly: your grandma. I hope after contemplation, you have come to a decision you feel good about. I had an aunt who had frontal lobe dementia and there were times that we wished she would have gotten cancer to end the suffering from the dementia. She died this past year and it’s still hard to believe, but she’s been gone for a while now. Sending you comforting hugs & loads of love ❤-Molly

  • @lesliehatch-herman9325
    @lesliehatch-herman9325 Рік тому

    I’m sorry to hear about your grandmother. I was a hospice social worker for many years, and saw quite a few families struggle with dilemmas similar to yours. While we want our loved ones to stay with us for as long as possible, we also don’t want to prolong any suffering on their part either. Many families go for quality of life over quantity of days, but it’s such a tough, individualized, decision to make for families. May you find peace as you and your family make your informed decisions. We love you and support you ❤

  • @Bdhstl95
    @Bdhstl95 Рік тому

    Stop watching TikTok it will make you do silly things.
    Best thoughts in your new challenge. I know it is extremely difficult.

  • @jocelynel-fab5214
    @jocelynel-fab5214 Рік тому

    Hi Tara - so sorry about your grandmother’s situation. Have you considered talking to your grandmother and pretending that it is happening to someone else (the grandmother of a friend, for example) - and asking her what your friend should do? Your grandmother would be able to express her opinion without being alerted to the fact that it’s her situation. I pray you find the best possible solution to your dilemma.

  • @alisummers7984
    @alisummers7984 Рік тому

    Tara, I’m so sorry you are going thru this.. I have been there with my dad.. my mom and I had to make a decision to take him off life support.. I cannot say how hard of a decision it was.. selfishly I wanted to keep him alive.. for me.. ( he had stage 4 cancer that was terminal.. and had a stroke on top of it) but I knew the right decision was to let him go.. and not be in pain.. you feel like your playing God.. no one wants to make these decisions..May God bless you and your family, you will be in my prayers.. such a tough time ❤️

  • @Loralarify
    @Loralarify Рік тому

    Hi Tara- I know you and your family will make the best decision for your dear grandma during this difficult time. ❤❤😘 makeup always makes me feel better!

  • @bogeybud1281
    @bogeybud1281 Рік тому

    Such a pretty look. Bless you and your family for caring so much for grandmother. Such a lesson for all of us to make our Advance Directives so families are not tasked with these decisions. I agree other comments quality is so much more than quantity. Bless you and your family.

  • @AllyKit
    @AllyKit Рік тому

    So terribly sorry for your loss Tara 😢 I could tell you weren’t yourself in your last video. Sending you love and healing for your health and heart ❤️‍🩹 🕊

  • @ProjectDre
    @ProjectDre Рік тому

    Hi Tara, my mother is in advanced stages of dementia and also has a history of cancer. I’m sending you so much love in whatever decision you make for her. It’s so obvious you love her so much, whatever you decide will be the right thing. ❤️

  • @robynstarkey4974
    @robynstarkey4974 Рік тому

    You are dealing with a lot with your small family; sending all the love. I haven't been on the internet for ages, and something made me log on today, and I clicked on this particular video. Really thinking of you all; xx

  • @sarahroot3650
    @sarahroot3650 Рік тому

    God I'm so sorry about your grandmother Tara. Just keep praying for guidance and God will make it very clear to you what the right decision is. Hang in there, I went through something kind of similar and to say it is rough is an understatement.

  • @crystaldragonwoman
    @crystaldragonwoman Рік тому

    I so appreciate the conversation about right action regarding your grandmother, so many of us face these kinds of decisions esp. when trying to balance out her biological needs vs. soul needs … what is your sense of what she wants now … is she as conflicted as the family is ? Sometimes only the heart knows. and sometimes it just does not make ‘sense’ to our minds.. blessings on this deep inquiry 🌹🙏🏼

  • @amyjohnson9451
    @amyjohnson9451 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing the story of your grandmother. Many of us have been there. You are a wonderful and loving granddaughter. Prayers for your whole family in managing this very challenging situation.

  • @pamelacorral1151
    @pamelacorral1151 Рік тому

    Just wanted to tell you I am thinking of you. I know you all will make the right choice. Your a amazing person. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

  • @natalochkaukrainka333
    @natalochkaukrainka333 Рік тому

    Tara, I’m so glad you and your husband are feeling better. Prayers for your family. Love Arlo and your videos 😍

  • @mamabear8373
    @mamabear8373 Рік тому

    This is just making me tear up. My grandpa told me when he was fighting cancer that whenever the Lord called him home, he was at peace with it. It's so painful watching them go but so hopefull to know we will see them again. No pain no fear.

  • @shanamamabear1226
    @shanamamabear1226 Рік тому

    Oh and btw, I bought into the hype of the Dior powder I really didn't like it on my mature skin, again prayers to you and your family!!

  • @Notperfecttonya
    @Notperfecttonya Рік тому

    Prayers for you, your grandma and your family! 🙏🏻 😢 Having so many positive happy memories is such a blessing!! My mom passed away about 5 months ago and it’s been sad. I’ve often thought of her reuniting with her parents, sister, friends and other family. That’s the piece I hold onto. When you mentioned the same in your video, I could relate so well. 🤗🥰🥲🕊️ Praying for your peace, comfort and wisdom during this time!

  • @annathomas1417
    @annathomas1417 Рік тому

    Prayers for you and your family ❤ thank you for sharing!! Stay strong !! Much love to you and your family ❤

  • @localoco1863
    @localoco1863 Рік тому

    I had a parent die of Alzheimers and it’s very sad when they don’t know anyone and they feel alone. I would allow her to die in peace. I come from a big family and we all agree in all of my mothers Medical decisions. Prayers for your family.

  • @tarasz6288
    @tarasz6288 Рік тому

    Im so sorry you are going through this. Dementia and alzheimers is an f ing b-tch to deal w. There is nothing else to say. There is no good answer here it seems but i will still pray for you that some miracle happens and she improves. One thing maybe to consider is to find out what type of cancer it is for the family history knowledge. Just a thought for the future for you and your family.

  • @stephaniecasey8557
    @stephaniecasey8557 Рік тому

    I’m so sorry about the decision you have to make - that’s a tough one. Whatever you decide, it will be the right choice. BTW on a positive note I love your eye look!

  • @cindydenton4421
    @cindydenton4421 Рік тому

    We have had a weird winter in NH mostly rain, we usually get dumped on and I think maybe a foot total this year. Which I love but the skiing and ice fishing took a hit.

  • @traciewarren1070
    @traciewarren1070 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing touch a tough decision. You all will make the best decisions for her as you all are being so thoughtful about her quality of life. You may say you’re not ready to make the decision but it sounds like you may have in your heart. ❤ You will do what is right for her. ❤

  • @Celine-ig3xh
    @Celine-ig3xh Рік тому

    Personally I dont belive that after death we exist somewere, so every second of life here is precious. You are beliving that your grandmother will see her parents after but if after death there is nothing, just the end, it seems that nobody has the courage to accept this kind of reality, everyone refugiate in a kind of illusion and stories of afterlife. I just hope that your grandmother will live the maximum possible, because even when a person has mental issues, for that person life is still beautiful, an imaginary one maybe, but better that nothing, better than the end. Just saying, nobody has the right to short the life of someone else based on his personal belivings.

  • @justpandora_x
    @justpandora_x Рік тому

    Bless, what a difficult time your family is having 😔
    You guys won’t be alone as a family in facing this dilemma and I’d consider if the treatment will make her feel awful would she really want her precious time to be spent in hospital with all that treatment entails or would she prefer to enjoy her life as it is now for however long that is. X

  • @JSSCA-lk7hl
    @JSSCA-lk7hl Рік тому

    I’d say do the biopsy bloodwork etc. i don’t know what condition she’s in at the moment though. If her body is failing then it might be best to just keep her as comfortable as possible 😢

  • @KateLB1027
    @KateLB1027 Рік тому

    I just took out my Huda Rose Quartz and the New Nudes last week. Such amazing palettes to get ready for the season of love.

  • @idiBibi
    @idiBibi Рік тому

    I’m so sorry for the hard decision your family is facing. Whatever you all decide I’m sure will be the right thing to do.

  • @Ewa_R
    @Ewa_R Рік тому +1

    I think it's important to talk with our significant others how we would like to be treated when the time comes. I'm only 36 but my partner and friends already know everything in that matter. I trust that they will take the best decisions according to my wish. Sending u best wishes and stay strong!

  • @nicolewily4846
    @nicolewily4846 Рік тому

    It sounds like you still have a testimony of The Church of JCLDS❤

  • @ebonywilkes3589
    @ebonywilkes3589 Рік тому

    If she has dementia and is struggling then she is going to get even more confused and upset. I had to do this with mom, she lived with me the last 5 years of her life because dementia, we found out she had cancer in her breast and lungs . She did not understand and became combative when we tried treatment and she was miserable . We finally said no more and she died peacefully at home with all of her kids . It was one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever made, and miss her everyday .

  • @colleenmclaughlin10
    @colleenmclaughlin10 Рік тому

    Been there Tara. You are on the right track in your thinking. Sometimes these things take on a life of their own and the situation will become clearer. Try not to stress, the decision may never be yours, in the end. Pray on it and give it a little time. Hugs Sweetie. xo

  • @staceyb3007
    @staceyb3007 Рік тому

    I've been anticipating the return of the frosted lipstick.... not sure how I feel about it lol

  • @trishamarie
    @trishamarie Рік тому

    I am so sorry about your Grandmother, Tara. I lost mine 18 years ago and it still sucks. Hugs❤

  • @shanamamabear1226
    @shanamamabear1226 Рік тому

    My dad died last year and my mom is kind of in a similar situation she had cancer and survived but since my father passed she has mentally taken a dive, can not manage to even want to get out of the house, my prayers go out to you and your family, so hard to make big decisions for the ones we love so much, anyways love this video!

  • @Bdhstl95
    @Bdhstl95 Рік тому

    We made the same type of decision for my grandma. Prolonging her life is for you when she is in this condition n you will not want to see her this way. Letting life take its course especially for such a short time is how it should be.

  • @chow3231
    @chow3231 Рік тому

    So sorry to hear the sad news about your Grandmother. Please keep us posted and we will be in prayer for your family! Bless you sweetie!

  • @CavieMom
    @CavieMom Рік тому

    Having sick aging parents or grandparents is hard. I think in all honesty you should leave her alone and let her pass without intervention.

  • @preetibhatia9795
    @preetibhatia9795 Рік тому

    Hey Tara..really sorry to hear about ur grandma..These decisions are really hard..

  • @lindajosefsson1686
    @lindajosefsson1686 Рік тому +1

    Hugs to you Tara. That’s such a difficult situation with your grandma. I would do everything I could to help her fight then let the rest be between her and God. She will let you know when she’s ready to go. But regardless of what happens it will be ok. There’s really no right or wrong in this situation. Much love to you and your family ❤

  • @mishhhii
    @mishhhii Рік тому

    Thinking of you and your family ❤ beautiful video and makeup

  • @albertamezzacapo4457
    @albertamezzacapo4457 Рік тому

    My prayers are with you and your family to take the right decision for your grandmother. 💕