為什麼我後悔進入香港大學?| My Regrets About Going to HKU

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  • Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
  • 由小學到入了香港大學,我感覺我都是跟着別人的步伐走,不是做自已喜歡的事。出發去美國前忽發其想,決定拍下這段影片。我以後會以這段影片為記,時刻提醒自己每次用心制作影片的目的。
    People love to tell you what to do. But they don't have to suffer with you if you end up not liking it.......
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  • @brendanjohnson2833
    @brendanjohnson2833 5 років тому +1696

    I like your videos, and I respect your opinions about the downsides of education in HK. However, the way I see it is that when you have a sound financial backing (e.g: a career path you can fall back on, knowing your family can support you if things go wrong, savings) you have so many more options!
    When you have options you can go and fly business class to San Francisco to chase your dreams, put uni or your job on hold to explore stuff that's not directly related to making money now, or just chill out for a bit. That's absolutely OK.
    But please realise that many other students just don't have these options. They have to invest all of their time and hard work into the one narrow path that you described, because even though that path may be constraining, it's the path that's most likely to work given the limited amount of options they have.
    I think most Hong Kong local students are in this situation, and they just can't take a break and explore other paths so readily. They are really really need their degree to work out to have any chance at a decent paying career that can pay for the high cost of living in HK, because they know that if things don't work out they don't have much to fall back on.

    • @loking4384
      @loking4384 5 років тому +117

      sad but true. btw do u live in HK? you seem quite understand our situation.

    • @ethangilmaer1552
      @ethangilmaer1552 5 років тому +54

      A college student in HK , the education system in HK is pain in the ass , so u are right , we dont have much choose to choose , striving in this narrow path you described is the only way we can do. But for me , education is not just for learning new knowledge, it is about all round development, giving us different opportunities to find out something we are interested in and would like to develop it as a future career.

    • @JasonLeungMelb
      @JasonLeungMelb 5 років тому +17

      SLY MAN It’s the same everywhere. Most university students here in Melbourne work part time so that they can go on holidays (definitely not flying business class)

    • @JasonLeungMelb
      @JasonLeungMelb 5 років тому +10

      Brendan Johnson I would be surprised if his parents paid for the business class. Honestly who’d do that?

    • @Janice9431
      @Janice9431 5 років тому +8

      Jason Leung ur right. I graduated and just worked for the first job that was available to me even though it wasn’t directly relevant to what I studied but u gotta do what u gotta do

  • @leerayson4986
    @leerayson4986 5 років тому +58

    感觉所有的困惑不是HKU给你的,只是因为在高压的教育体系下,我们没能够更早地认识自己。发现的时候,已经很难改变做出的选择了

    • @thomastse6977
      @thomastse6977 8 місяців тому +2

      我们没能够更早地认识自己。发现的时候,已经很难改变做出的选择了 so true

  • @edwink1467
    @edwink1467 5 років тому +560

    I am sure Torres is a smart and hard-working guy, but it's quite clear he came from a privileged family and is receiving a bit of financial help in one way or another. Let's take this video for example. He was flying Cathay business class to San Francisco and sat in what appears to be "The Deck" lounge. I did a quick search and found a round trip Cathay business class ticket from HKG to SFO costs $46,000+ HKD in Feb. I mean c'mon... what 22 year-old fresh college graduate with no full time job can afford to travel in such luxury? His UA-cam channel and "consulting" part time jobs definitely don't pay enough to sustain his spending.
    Don't get me wrong... I love Torres, but he is clearly biased on the topic of pursuing one's dream. Everybody wants to make a living doing something they love and chase their dream, but the reality is that not everybody has the financial support from their family to do so. I just don't get why Torres won't admit he is privileged and that his view may be biased. It's okay to be privileged and come from a wealthy family. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but it's equally as important to acknowledge where you stand socioeconomically compared to most students who barely make enough money to support themselves.
    My family isn't rich, but I know I am privileged compared to most people. I try my best to understand where others are coming from despite the fact that I may not share similar experience. I am a 20 year-old studying abroad in a private university in the US. I have never worked any job in my life and I admit I receive tremendous help from my parents. I acknowledge the small privilege I have and would NEVER tell people to drop out of college and "chase their dream." I don't enjoy all the courses I am taking, but I know I need my degree to be financially independent and stable. I also don't want to waste my parents' hard earned money. Perhaps I will chase my dream one day, too. But for now, I need to start learning to be a self-sufficient and responsible adult and chasing dreams simply isn't part of the equation. I think most young adults in school can relate.
    (P.S. okay maybe I am just jealous Torres gets to fly business class while I only fly economy class back to Hong Kong. Must be nice up there...)

    • @ylimeiust
      @ylimeiust 5 років тому +43

      You made a good point that everyone seemed to miss. He should stay true and honest even if coming from a privileged background, I mean, there's nothing really to be ashamed about. What he's doing is that he's downplaying that side of him too much to stay relatable. I'm a sub of Torres but this video is a little farfetched.

    • @kannyl08
      @kannyl08 5 років тому +12

      Thks man you just list out the reality and the real situation, even i am studying a higher diploma in hong kong, i need to support my tuition fee and living expenses for my study because i cannot receive help from my parents but adversely i have to take care themselves and many poor students like me studying in the evening class. Before you chase your dream, you need to have a stable or better financial condition to support what you are going to do because there is no free lunch.

    • @charleschen1589
      @charleschen1589 5 років тому +5

      totally agree with u

    • @FordeeHo
      @FordeeHo 5 років тому

      @@charleschen1589 i think that was supported by his sponsor like air line or tourist company.

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +67

      Apple paid for my business class.

  • @crazywinders
    @crazywinders 5 років тому +822

    無意冒犯. 你可以追你既夢, 但如果講學校生活沉悶而另擇出路, 我諗你可能只係浪費緊一個8成考生都想要既學位(每屆DSE都只有20%人入到大學), 而且我估托哥暫時無負擔或生活不成問題, 換轉另一個家庭有問題既人, 放棄專業尋夢係不負責任而唔係勇敢, 再退一萬步來講, 托哥既VLOG裡面既生活水平我諗有95%既香港人都享受唔到, 唔係話唔可以講自由, 做愛做的事, 只係如果你放你既學位同夢想響個天秤上面秤, 對於好多人睇來係一個好奢侈離地, 根本無代價既選擇.

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +615

      尋夢等於賺不了錢??你老闆比你有錢是因為你在為他的夢想拼搏。

    • @lukasZz724
      @lukasZz724 5 років тому +76

      故步自封就打死一世工...

    • @yippeter5049
      @yippeter5049 5 років тому +407

      托哥呢次堅係離地。。如果你家境無返咁上下又有後路
      邊會拍到旅行vlog,仲要幾次歐游。。
      普通香港人入到hku都死死下仲要還學債,仲邊會餘力邊有能力去反思人生

    • @msophyiscs
      @msophyiscs 5 років тому +41

      生存者偏誤。另外讀書係好有趣的。At least 我個夢係做科學家,而科學家條路就係讀書,攞好成績,上研究院,讀博士.....。對比下那些立志向一個專業尋夢的人,托哥只係選擇了一條比較輕鬆容易實現的路(夢想)。

    • @bpcsa061017
      @bpcsa061017 5 років тому +50

      你可以自己做嘢賺錢 草錢 或者林方法用錢搵錢 而唔係一直講咩離地離地 我中五開左個網站都賺左幾十萬

  • @littlesnail3328
    @littlesnail3328 5 років тому +96

    "People love to tell you what to do. But they don't have to suffer with you if you end up not liking it" 托哥講出我心底話......

  • @6yeah
    @6yeah 5 років тому +815

    其實托哥佢坐果個候機室已經證明佢本身已經好能有錢...

    • @cvnouhime
      @cvnouhime 5 років тому +8

      咩lounge黎?

    • @kleehk
      @kleehk 4 роки тому +3

      @@cvnouhime 國泰航空

    • @HKGDot
      @HKGDot 4 роки тому +13

      頭等tic入Lounge唔洗錢

    • @MagnusMas
      @MagnusMas 4 роки тому +8

      你真係見識小

    • @babycook5848
      @babycook5848 4 роки тому +4

      他确实挺有钱的

  • @hsien-chichiang274
    @hsien-chichiang274 5 років тому +164

    身為台灣的學生,完全可以明白你在說什麼,打從心裡很佩服你的勇氣,我從你的影片中也得到了許多啟發,常常提醒我這個世界比我所想的還大,加油,支持你繼續做托哥~

    • @yukchan867
      @yukchan867 5 років тому +2

      honestly all you need is rich family and study hard

    • @matthewchuang6707
      @matthewchuang6707 5 років тому

      呵呵 看看別的留言在罵什麼喔~~

    • @hsien-chichiang274
      @hsien-chichiang274 5 років тому +18

      Matthew 不管網友怎麼說也改變不了他家有錢的事實,所以他可以這樣生活,這樣看世界,我支持他並從他身上學到東西並不影響我處世的觀點,我家很窮,所以我也是拼命讀書,自己打工、學貸,試著翻身,他有他生活的方式,我有我的,我支持他不代表我要變成他,所以要其實沒什麼衝突

    • @matthewchuang6707
      @matthewchuang6707 5 років тому +1

      好喔 大家一起加油吧!!

    • @echokav
      @echokav 5 років тому +1

      @@hsien-chichiang274 我從一支他做的健身影片認識他,雖然好像很多人給他負評(香港人比較毒舌?),但我很喜歡他總是很有活力而且說到做到堅持到底的精神,不管他今天有不有錢,但總是可以從不同的人的影片學到不同的東西!

  • @caseycasey1944
    @caseycasey1944 5 років тому +30

    谢谢你托哥让我看到这段视频,我的经历和你很像,我在大陆也是念的最好的几所大学之一,学着我不喜欢的专业,不过我最终发现了我喜欢的职业,虽然我付出了很多,经历坎坷,但是遵从内心真的是最棒的选择。

  • @kkliu3658
    @kkliu3658 5 років тому +194

    以我讀大學的觀察,好多人入大學只係因為個dse夠分數入,冇咩理想或目標。話題多數圍繞GPA,邊個course好grade,或者打機﹑上莊喂威喂,根本係在浪費時間。

    • @Neiamenase
      @Neiamenase 5 років тому +6

      當年A-Level一Q樣, Especially BBA. 不是說讀BBA唔好, 不過真正為興趣讀BBA ge 人真係好少

    • @tsunyeelam9878
      @tsunyeelam9878 4 роки тому +4

      真,無意義咁讀

  • @fatcalvinlee
    @fatcalvinlee 5 років тому +19

    Yes. I agree. University education may not be necessary but you cannot deny that could be a unique journey no matter you find it useful or meaningful. As a HKU graduate, I remember I received a bag with something like "HKU is not a destination but a journey" printed during registration day. To be honest, HKU won't necessarily get you a great job. But, it gives you a wonderful journey. Someone may realise after the graduation. Someone may be enjoying while they are at HKU. From what you shared in the clip, you met the exchange students at HKU and decided to explore the world instead of continuing to be a nerd. That's exactly what university education means: to choose the way you want to live with. You may not appreciate your time at HKU but it indeed inspired you to be a person that we are watching, isn't it? That's part of your life. There are so many teenagers working so hard to get into HKU or university in general. Please encourage them to try their best instead of portraying that is cool for not being a college student. Just like you, they will not know if they want to be a college student until they really experience it. What I'm trying to say is please appreciate all failure and success in our lives because those make us better. DSEers fighting!!!!

  • @fung1234566
    @fung1234566 5 років тому +64

    其實讀書令你有權作出選擇 有選擇權。 所以都唔係話完全無用嘅

  • @ellalee9073
    @ellalee9073 5 років тому +9

    我係今年dse考生
    完全唔知自己想讀咩想做咩職業
    淨係識得諗要入到大學
    其實你講得好啱 要做自己想做嘅野
    不過我又好驚人地嘅目光
    而且喺呢個社會嘅壓迫下
    我真係唔敢😖😖😖

  • @perryiuhc690
    @perryiuhc690 5 років тому +802

    雖然托仔好有感觸 但重點恕我放係好難接受佢只係96 而且唔係外國土生土長 拎香港護照 仲考過dse :o) ?????

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +354

      我應該係接受完dse的洗禮後老左10年。sosad.

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +268

      BTW DSE不是人考的試。You can't beat the system.

    • @perryiuhc690
      @perryiuhc690 5 років тому +180

      你種口音唔係90%香港學生做到 係咪同exchange同學傾得多鍊成?btw香港專出非人性考試 al簡直宇宙級

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +73

      @@perryiuhc690 好彩唔洗考AL........

    • @antonioltc
      @antonioltc 5 років тому +26

      @@torrespit666 No disrespect, HKAL is the real big boss

  • @iamcarriet
    @iamcarriet 5 років тому +80

    But honestly, it's kinda ironic because what you have absorbed are actually offered by HKU, be grateful pls!

    • @ChenBritMi
      @ChenBritMi 4 роки тому +1

      carrie ting self entitlement 😂

  • @yonglandie
    @yonglandie 5 років тому +20

    大部份事情都是客觀的, 它好不好在於當時人如何轉化, 一件東西的用途可以超過它本身設計的原意, 比如你不喜歡大學的課程, 但是你利用了大學這個地方去認識交流生而開闢了新天地, 如果沒有進入大學你可能就沒有這個機會了. 其實你做得很好, 發揮出很好的轉化能力, 你覺得你還是不喜歡進入大學, 只是因為你還未懂得欣賞這個前因後果的關係, 也許幾年後回望你會感激曾經.

  • @boylucky3135
    @boylucky3135 5 років тому +62

    好多人想擺脫呢個考試制度,但往往因為家境,被迫接受,最後黯然無光。所以我好佩服你可以改變呢一切,因為睇你細個只不過好普通嘅香港細路。BTW,真心想知,youtube是你的正業?當初神街訪係你大學part time?

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +29

      UA-cam 是其中一個工作,我做很多consulting.
      是啊,part time ahahahah

    • @robertng138
      @robertng138 5 років тому

      @@torrespit666 dude what exactly u doing beside u tuber plus teaching hongkongese English on u tube.

    • @jonahzhang5338
      @jonahzhang5338 5 років тому +2

      怎么说呢,有考试好过没考试啦,如果像美国还要推荐信,更多家境一般的人就更难上专上教育了。

    • @royroy6714
      @royroy6714 5 років тому +1

      教育一向係比窮既人向上爬既一條梯, 並唔係人生既全部. 有錢人係唔需要呢條梯,因為佢地已係最高層

  • @annam4154
    @annam4154 5 років тому +9

    I was just accepted to HKU for a semester! Soooo excited for my exchange semester, Hong Kong, HKU, other exchange students, locals, food,... I’m from Germany 🇩🇪 btw

    • @ChenBritMi
      @ChenBritMi 4 роки тому

      Lisa A congrats! Welcome to hk!

  • @Donaldchowch
    @Donaldchowch 5 років тому +4

    你出片就係我認識外國文化的推動力!!!加油Torres!

  • @waitakchan4342
    @waitakchan4342 5 років тому +28

    今集真係feel more connected.
    感覺像托哥同大家傾心事...
    認真、嚴肅既托哥更有魅力,真的!
    希望往後托哥會再同大家傾心事...

  • @amberleung4256
    @amberleung4256 5 років тому +5

    是真的,你不走出去根本不知道外面的平台有多大,根本不知道别人的想法有多强。我和你有一样的想法,从小乖乖上学,循规蹈矩,考大学稳工作,走着大家的步伐,直到我几年前自由行去阿联酋,我先发现,自己的平台圈子有多窄,顿时感觉自己白白浪费好多年,明明我可以有更好的发展

  • @ericayu271
    @ericayu271 5 років тому +25

    university is just the place not just study but also to discover and understand yourself. HKU just let you know what u want to be and give you the platform or opportunity to do it. Dont just simply say quitting Uni or regrets about going to Uni , you should cherish it and remind yourself how extraordinary Uni life is.

  • @cupidlittle263
    @cupidlittle263 5 років тому +112

    Yes, schools only provide a foundation education. The topics or subjects are fixed. Learn by doing is much more fun! Enjoy yr videos, always entertaining ! Make a video in the States for us pls!

  • @kannyl08
    @kannyl08 5 років тому +219

    我自己個人感覺不喜勿插: 老實講你己經比人擁有很多, 令我覺得你有些與現實離地同不知足, 很多人家經濟同家景差, 連大學甚至high dip都無錢讀, 因為要養屋企同自己, 單親過D要自己狽起頭家嫁, 你自己都識講父母無俾錢你係after graduate, HOW about before graduate who support your tuition fee and living expense ? only by yourself ? 你洗唔洗煩交租, 屋企所有雜費, 我自己係過來人, 我係要出左黎做野先有錢供自己讀IVE, 宜家畢左業都唔敢讀DEGREE, 知唔知點解, POLY讀個夜校DEGREE要廿幾萬, 當然你唔理屋企, 辭左工去讀都無話唔得既, 要呀媽挨餓慳黎俾我實現夢想, 講真我做唔出
    無錢讀日頭仲要放工趕命咁返夜校大有人在, 你估有頭髮邊個想做辣哩, 好多人咩美國咩國都無去過, 你有得周圍去己經是比下有餘, 現實講, 你揾工有機會去IN靠咩, 咪你張沙紙囉, 你估個個好似你咁鐘意玩就玩咩, 係咪自己走左去唔洗俾家用理屋企呢, 我承認自己作為一個香港人視野係窄, 有錢真係可以周圍去感受文化, 而且你可以有時間去感受, 而唔係要為兩餐急住揾工

    • @wendychiu8649
      @wendychiu8649 5 років тому +51

      在我角度睇其實同唔滿足無關係,你覺得托哥唔滿足係因為你同佢價值觀唔同,而且你自身無空間追求托哥做緊嘅野,所以佢嘅行為係你眼中係奢侈。打個比喻,對窮人黎講,三餐溫飽就好滿足,但對基層黎講,可能間唔中飯後有自家糖水係好正常,而窮人覺得有糖水食仲嫌唔夠好味係唔知足。但唔好食希望屋企人煮好食D有咩問題?食野求好味好正常呀。你套用自己嘅價值觀係托哥身上係無意思。加上,比唔比家用、係咪好孝順父母,全部都係意識形態同文化影響。你可以唔做,你有你嘅選擇,不過要承受後果。每個家庭文化唔同,唔係個個都一定要比家用,唔比家用亦都唔代表唔孝順。其實感受文化唔一定要靠錢,就好似托哥year2開始接觸交流生。其實方法有好多,只係睇你諗唔諗到/知唔知。好多時香港人覺得搵唔多錢就會死,但其實好多時係自己對資訊嘅唔了解、自身變通程度同受意識形態影響先會咁諗。最後,係字裡行間感覺到你對托哥嘅'酸味'。我都希望你可以有個happy life,但首先考慮調整你嘅價值觀同令自己視野開闊D,否則你只會活係壓力同疲倦之中,生活開始變得枯燥。祝你農曆新年快樂!

    • @kahoiling8524
      @kahoiling8524 5 років тому +14

      自己唔識搵錢去讀去做,而係到埋怨家境差⋯⋯
      你呢個諗法只會使你下一代更貧窮。
      成日係到怨天尤人,失敗並非問題⋯⋯ 而問題在於你居然明知失敗卻唔去思考成功既方法⋯⋯
      而香港大部分人同你都一樣、 唉。 真係好心痛對於整個香港。
      希望你明白我係到同你講緊乜。

    • @kannyl08
      @kannyl08 5 років тому +10

      Nope in fact that the truth is My Mum was proud of me from being taken good care of the family in a tough situation. Everyone character is unique and so what makes you believe that you are the right judge in this case?

    • @kannyl08
      @kannyl08 5 років тому +5

      @@Brian-on1zo 多謝提點 我應該要揾你幫我補習喎

    • @mattlai443
      @mattlai443 5 років тому +2

      窮唔好咁大聲講啦, 醜唔醜架

  • @NoName121abc
    @NoName121abc 5 років тому +1002

    我以為你30

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +387

      法克

    • @mayitbe6606
      @mayitbe6606 5 років тому +72

      身形高大通常感覺成熟,好事

    • @cheng1210-l5p
      @cheng1210-l5p 5 років тому +49

      原本想說比我老 結果今天才知道比我年輕...

    • @margareto21
      @margareto21 5 років тому +99

      我以為30幾歲,事業穩定嘅成功人士!!

    • @felixcheung8108
      @felixcheung8108 5 років тому +25

      我以為30多

  • @TheSnappyMonster08090
    @TheSnappyMonster08090 5 років тому +115

    下年就到我考DSE 但成績一直都唔係好好 睇完依條片 突然好有動力 想搏盡無悔 多謝你😂

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +48

      搏盡無悔呢4字一直係我書桌上掛住 加油!

    • @user-po8vd5gp5w
      @user-po8vd5gp5w 5 років тому

      唔通睇完可以攞5**?

    • @et2331
      @et2331 4 роки тому

      依家應該考緊試嘅你加油吖!

  • @kelvinyuen8693
    @kelvinyuen8693 5 років тому +102

    本身有米先可以任性 無錢就要生生性性

  • @zheng3034
    @zheng3034 5 років тому +3

    我完全懂你,别管其他人怎么说🤜 follow your passion, and your life will be different.

  • @teeministry
    @teeministry 5 років тому +2

    托哥, 你d 片我由神街訪已經睇晒, 自問睇9成以上, 你呢個年紀講人生太早啦, 我年近四十, 身邊有好多叻人, 生意人, 廿幾歲創業賺幾千萬既有, 曾賺幾千萬, 意氣風發, 一下生意跌到谷底既都見過, 或者面試都見過好多出身無咁好, 或者天生比較平庸, 講句野都口窒既人, 佢地既選擇真係唔多, 你努力讀書考到港大, 好多人比你花幾倍時間精力都未必考到, 呢樣野你後天點努力都無用, 唔係人人都好似你咁多選擇。 我相信你過多十年, 接觸多d 唔同地方, 唔同階層既人, 再睇番今日你呢條片, 你就會覺得你當時(即2019年) 自己閱歷還是太少。 加油吧, 看多點書, 接觸多點人, 再笑談人生

  • @uksiu48dob37
    @uksiu48dob37 5 років тому +9

    睇得出托哥好用心同觀眾分享佢心入面既諗法 Yes, Follow your heart , because you only live once and no way to hit rewind back when your eyes were closed

  • @sjamielf
    @sjamielf 5 років тому +1

    我觉得托哥说的批评,更大程度是在diss这样应试教育的层面,而自己的学校HKU不过是这个制度下的缩影而已。的确看出来托哥家境很不错,这是他现在成功的助因,但不会是绝对性的因素。我很少看你的video,但我觉得从我看过的少数几支你的作品来看,我feel到作者对生活的热爱、对世界探索的好奇心和对职业的认真、尽心尽力,真的值得点赞 👍
    其实作为北京大学的留学生,我也曾经有过类似托哥这样的想法。但是我觉得在HKU能给你的不仅只是知识(这是大学的基本标配啊!),what makes HKU作为香港最好的大学,是这里面的资源和多元化。因为在这个平台上,所以我们能够有除了学习生活以外更多的选择,丰富的课外活动、座谈会etc都是很棒的资源,这其中择自己所爱就好。
    托哥加油!期待看你更用心在生活的每个moment!

  • @KoalaTVhk
    @KoalaTVhk 5 років тому +9

    Totally agreed with you. Love what you do is so important.
    BTW say hi from SF!!

  • @kahoiling8524
    @kahoiling8524 5 років тому +1

    人生當中的有趣現象,當一切衣食住行應有的盡有之時便會開始發掘世界。(因滿足繼而再尋找)
    但而香港有趣的現象是,無論你賺到幾多但你依然會覺得不滿。
    Torres 其實我喜歡你所拍的video,你做得到更找得到人生當中一切自己想做的事,包括追逐夢想。
    我更認同窮並非追逐夢想的枷鎖,而志在是你的心中廣闊的眼界。
    不要讓有限的生命去追逐那些無限的事物⋯⋯
    大部分人到生命結束之際回眸,便才發現原來自己的人生不外乎如此。
    生命於世,感受經歷。我才是覺得是最重要的⋯⋯
    認為自己是對的,就用力去追逐吧! 那怕粉身碎骨⋯⋯
    (希望你能見到,支持的聲音)

  • @tzuweihung6833
    @tzuweihung6833 5 років тому +11

    很喜歡這類探索內心的內容 難得看托哥這麼正經談論自己

  • @chanc6945
    @chanc6945 2 роки тому +2

    I don't think there is any wrong for expressing your feelings towards university. I watched a video earlier about transferring university twice or three times in HK. It's great that you found what you want to do in life. Not many people are brave enough to chase their dreams. So I guess that's why most of us graduated and secured a job and then worked our whole life in it. That's why I love to watch your videos.

  • @saorikimura121
    @saorikimura121 5 років тому +27

    繼續做你喜歡做的事,加油托哥💪

  • @makarov-qp6mp
    @makarov-qp6mp 5 років тому +2

    祝脱哥早日成为20万UA-camr!做你喜欢的事情

  • @krissun4271
    @krissun4271 5 років тому +6

    I think it is very similar to the situation I met when I graduated from high school in Mainland China, I didn't even know which major I should study for my uni. I think some comments below are correct that not everyone has the chance to really do as brave as you can, but I think Torres provides us a lot of motivation in this video. As he mentioned he got a very good grade in the first academic year, I believe this was not cuz he is rich or sth, just cuz he was really hard working. I love your video and I really feel the motivation and positive attitude you give us. I think, at least after this video I will also try to focus on what I really want, I can't be that decisive to kind of "quit" sth, but I think I will try to follow you like apart from the school, to leave more spaces to myself and think more about myself.

  • @user-fk7gz6oy7l
    @user-fk7gz6oy7l 5 років тому +2

    我現在是一名高中生,看你的這部影片讓我對未來填選志願有點新的想法呢~超喜歡你的影片的!

  • @Enoksvd
    @Enoksvd 5 років тому +5

    Whenever you feel like criticizing anything, just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had

  • @jabezwickens
    @jabezwickens 5 років тому +1

    I can’t describe how much I love what you are doing in your life mate. U legit nailed it

  • @danyyy4578
    @danyyy4578 5 років тому +79

    i had watched lots of video since you are working for神街訪.
    i got some much fun from your video.
    like your video much and support what you are doing.

    • @rzechs
      @rzechs 5 років тому +5

      哈哈哈,我也是自從 “神街訪“ 便追看托哥。

    • @hosannasin
      @hosannasin 5 років тому +3

      me too🙆🏻‍♀️

    • @user-th5fu4yk6q
      @user-th5fu4yk6q 5 років тому

      我也是哈哈

  • @yzz_joe
    @yzz_joe 5 років тому +1

    hey torres, i was so inspired after watching this vlog. lately, i am considering to quit my job and leave the finance area i have spent years in, because i realized that i have never loved this field. i'm gonna stop hesitating and do what i turely like, even it's hard to change and start from the beginning. respect bro!

  • @944__56
    @944__56 5 років тому +32

    Torres,請問你介不介意講下你係點樣學好英文的?我好中意英文文化同埋英文,但係,我係好似點都無法學好英文 so sad

  • @ngcheewee8132
    @ngcheewee8132 5 років тому +1

    托哥! You are such a inspiration to young ppl like me, I also fresh graduate in EE engineering from Malaysia, u speak the content of my heart, I really like your video, Torres, 我是马来西亚华人,谢谢你,继续做好的视频也希望你不要堕落成一般UA-camr,为了红只拍垃圾视频

  • @leoyukc
    @leoyukc 5 років тому +8

    Finally find u on UA-cam. I watched your vids on Tiktok all the time

  • @_trick8013
    @_trick8013 5 років тому +4

    Not sure if it's appropriate to watch this video if u are a yr1 HKU student with high expectations XD
    港大真的很多exchange students,每次向同學介紹自己來自台灣,他們的第一句都會問我是不是交換學生😂😂
    btw最後還是覺得你的影片偏正向,而且濃濃的英國腔很好聽哈哈哈

  • @SORAREED
    @SORAREED 5 років тому +12

    I was numb when u mentioned land law/contract law. Then my heart starts to beat again after you shared Steve Job words!!!! I felt passionate and wanna do something different! After 3 mins, I've decided to make my move. To go to my desk, and continue to review the supplier contract which is due tomorrow. Yeah...... back to reality.😂😂😂

  • @MyShoezies
    @MyShoezies 5 років тому +1

    明白托哥的想法,這沒有錯對,用行動做自己的認為對的事。如果你不在本科行業工作,廿年三十年後,你會忘記你本科知識,但你不會忘記這段燃燒過的日子。

  • @Thefungshow
    @Thefungshow 5 років тому +5

    this vid is very inspirational especially for HKers! keep it up Torres!

  • @ian6091
    @ian6091 5 років тому +52

    没放寒假之前刷了你的全部视频~没想到刚刚刷youtube,更新了😆第一次留言

    • @torrespit666
      @torrespit666  5 років тому +2

      keep the comments coming!!

    • @ian6091
      @ian6091 5 років тому

      @@torrespit666 😆嗯,期待下一个视频

  • @hongkonger_addoil
    @hongkonger_addoil 5 років тому +73

    其實托哥主要收入來源係咩,冇父幹,又可以成日去旅行😎

  • @helenh2442
    @helenh2442 5 років тому +1

    OMG I totally agree with you! But I also stand for the first comment by Brendan. what suprised me is that in mainland china nearly all students who attend the "Gaokao"(college entrance exam) have the same idea with you when looking for a university. Most of them don't know what they like, what kind of life they want or their career path, so it is so stressful when you are struggling on what you are studying on in uni. The cruel truth is, most families don't have a strong finance background for them to choose whatever they want and that's why "GaoKao" exists..... specifically saying, uni majors are the way student can make a living for future life, but we really need to take time to reflect what kind of life we want. I think that is the most important thing in uni life. I strongly support your deicision of quiting a uni when you finally know what you want for you life. As long as you can make a living and stick on what you love, you can have any kind of life no matter how others judge you! :)

  • @pedroarana5483
    @pedroarana5483 5 років тому +16

    Advice: Never follow the advice of rich people or people with rich parents ;)

  • @raidnight6237
    @raidnight6237 5 років тому

    莫名其妙 有種感動😹睇到眼濕濕
    你既夢想同我既夢想一樣 我都好想好似你咁環遊世界 而唔係好似宜家咁係縮係一個咁渺小既城市入面 真係好欣賞你呢種唔受固有規定限制既人 可惜我唔似你讀書咁叻然後可以隨心所欲做到自己想做既事 不過你係條片既火成為左我既動力😆 我係2019 Dser 多謝你條片 你都要好好繼續加油拍多d去其他國家既片比我地去唔到既都可以係螢幕上面望下啦XD
    加油💪托哥

  • @lesleys9817
    @lesleys9817 5 років тому +4

    Love your content So MUCH !! every books tell me to follow your heart. do what you want to do bur bur bur. I just literally don't understand. After a year of working holiday living abroad.. I finally understand and totally agree !!

  • @WILDOGNigel
    @WILDOGNigel 5 років тому

    Great Episode! thank you for this ep! and always showing us what's the world like. I have exactly the same situation, when I looked back to my uni education 14 years ago, seems nothing really related to real world, even what I ever worked for. This video makes ppl think!

  • @kaylatse6644
    @kaylatse6644 5 років тому +13

    You got the entire passion to express your true feelings and thoughts while sitting down to chat with us. I FEEL it, bro! Support you! (Actually I just subscribe you for a few months and don't know the fact that you worked with 神街坊) It's always precious that one can live and enjoy a life with enthusiasm, imagination and curiosity. ;)

  • @belleliu1639
    @belleliu1639 5 років тому +1

    啱!!!!社會對我哋geh期望真系扼殺咗我哋好多geh創意同勇氣去做我哋鍾意geh野😭

  • @simonli6865
    @simonli6865 5 років тому +19

    和HKU没关系,主要是建筑的锅…换个学校念建筑也一样…

    • @katztomhe6545
      @katztomhe6545 3 роки тому

      HAHAHAHA 真实。建筑本科在读,正在研究转行XD

  • @drewoscar8838
    @drewoscar8838 5 років тому

    原來你也是這個學院畢業的,樓下的意見所反映出來的並未能反映出托哥真正心裡想表達的感受。對比其他學院(例如醫學院或者工程學院),說句實話這個學院其實科研實力很一般,所以在research informed teaching這個部分基本就可以忽略,我十分理解你的痛苦之處,你從小到大一路過關,千辛萬苦才來到這個學院讀書,但係來到之後學的幾乎90%的課程都基本不會在工作中用到,而且這個學院設置的課程關聯性可以說很弱,所以每次上堂最想問的就是Why should I study this subject? 能說服zi試問在這樣的環境下重複又重複有誰不失望

  • @angel8918
    @angel8918 5 років тому +256

    😊😊😊很難想像你這個外表小我很多歲⋯

    • @felixcheung8108
      @felixcheung8108 5 років тому +7

      老成吸引洋女

    • @raychukk
      @raychukk 5 років тому +3

      同感

    • @RYAN_TAM
      @RYAN_TAM 5 років тому +6

      我都難以想像 托哥係考DSE,而我考 HKCE 會考。

  • @sbbk7733
    @sbbk7733 5 років тому +1

    Follow your heart and
    Do what you like to do!
    after 乖乖 graduation
    dont think too much if you are not 托哥

  • @kayanc
    @kayanc 5 років тому +33

    U are born to be a star💪

  • @yaudamien6861
    @yaudamien6861 Рік тому

    托哥2018年從香港大學建築學院城市規劃學系畢業(維基百科),我初時以為托哥是建築設計師(Architectural designer),因為托哥很有才華,思維很跳躍,總係會有獨特的視角看問題,不落俗套。經過建築學院訓練,托哥的審美眼光與眾不同,香港大學的質素其實極高,我唔覺得托哥會為「進入香港大學」感到遺憾。

  • @tonyjiajunli1605
    @tonyjiajunli1605 5 років тому +265

    嗨呀 Torres原来是学霸!

    • @aniu4346
      @aniu4346 5 років тому +25

      佢口英文就知道喇

    • @jeffrey8770
      @jeffrey8770 5 років тому +19

      ​@@aniu4346 佢口英文大把國際學校ge人都有啦

    • @yukchan867
      @yukchan867 5 років тому +2

      wait, is he first hon ? hku is easy to get into. Do you even see the requirement?

    • @yukchan867
      @yukchan867 5 років тому +1

      @锡兰的标题党 wtf, he doesnt even sound like native english speaker lmao

    • @chansally5521
      @chansally5521 5 років тому +11

      hku is easy to get into???????????

  • @user-ud3os5px4v
    @user-ud3os5px4v 5 років тому

    最開始睇神街訪知道有托哥哩個人存在,之後有幸在智華見過兩次托哥好俾心機讀書(我日日去智華,但是都是見過佢兩次咁多),不過托哥真係一個天才,vlog越來越好睇,我後悔當初冇同你selfie一張,因為我佩服你敢作敢為嘅態度。

  • @yuxinjiang2722
    @yuxinjiang2722 5 років тому +5

    托哥人生赢家 就是看上去真的是有点纵欲过度

  • @shesaringo
    @shesaringo 5 років тому

    托哥仔,起碼你返大學時揾到自己鐘意做既事,人生最重要係你有目標&有得選擇,其實好值得開心架!再大個仔啲你會感受仲深…

  • @seanliang501
    @seanliang501 5 років тому +9

    完全赞同托哥既讲法,人生好短,只能放开自己做自己心里想做既人,先会无遗憾。🤓🤓

  • @tonnilam9628
    @tonnilam9628 5 років тому

    托哥100分 so much value from this video. It really solves the problem I am having now.

  • @hohohohohoho9328
    @hohohohohoho9328 5 років тому +10

    好認同 好多人以為 Architecture(建築) 好好讀同搵好多 其實好多學生都係跟住父母既期望同其他人既壓力去讀 ~ 但好多同學讀到中途就轉學/轉科 真係覺得浪費左D學位~ 因為architecture 真係太浪費時間 同讀既野同大部份同學相像中既唔同 除左設計 藝術 仲有托哥講既好多土地法 合約呀 仲有好多環境條款數據要背同運用 重要通常要成10年先攞到資格做建築師。係一個非常長時間既路程。另外建築師係一個失業率最高既職業。 所以如果唔係真心想係依行發展,勸愉唔好讀依科或可以選讀工程師。 (利申) 外國學生讀過Architecture 同 Civil engineering. 做緊建築行業。

    • @yumingho7945
      @yumingho7945 5 років тому

      It is quite misleading for him to show the faculty of architecture title, but probably he did not study architecture as laws and regulations are not part of the curriculum. Maybe he studied urban planning or surveying.

    • @fromadistance9678
      @fromadistance9678 5 років тому

      @@yumingho7945 He studied Urban Planning。

    • @tanjiamoon1993
      @tanjiamoon1993 5 років тому

      In Malaysia, land code, building by-laws, housing act, etc... were parts of curriculum

  • @user-ch3gl9rg9f
    @user-ch3gl9rg9f 5 років тому +24

    支持深度的托哥 但又懷念神街坊狂野的托哥

  • @nnic400
    @nnic400 5 років тому +30

    👍睇得出你啲片有幾比心機

  • @ninkyleung897
    @ninkyleung897 5 років тому

    睇完你段片都想同你分享番 year one誤打誤撞去左Poland AIESEC exchange 個陣係人生第二次出國 第一次中學去台灣grad trip 後來因為呢次旅程 識左唔同國家既人 接觸到唔同既文化 令我愛上左行山同旅行 之後個幾年sem break 都用盡啲時間同努力儲錢用自己啲錢去旅行 I always describe travelling is exploring 唔係話邊度既文化特別好特別差 但開拓左自己既眼界 令自己更識去欣賞、包容同珍惜 令自己有更多既故事同人地分享 加上自己讀medical related 既科 更深感受到要活在當下 更要珍惜時光 好好把握時間去做自己中意既事 所以睇到你呢段片覺得好有共嗚啊! btw 襯機宣傳下我開左去post旅行野既ig (ninninstravelling)有興趣既話 follow please help me get 200 followers Hehehehe

  • @user-ue4st5ov7k
    @user-ue4st5ov7k 5 років тому +169

    有錢請追求夢想
    冇錢唔該打飛機 :)

  • @kepandasky
    @kepandasky 5 років тому

    Well, One things clear, this mark I have not regret to subscribed your channel. Thanks Torres, Please carry on and follow your passion.

  • @dreamgoeson
    @dreamgoeson 5 років тому +6

    其實我覺得……依個問題個個都有機會面對 因為你18歲既時候 係唔會知道你20歲 / 22歲 / 30歲 / 40歲既時候想做咩 隨住年紀增長所追求既野都會有所唔同 所以你只係係揀科既時候揀左一科你無太大興趣既科黎讀 如果你當時揀既係art and humanities既科 又或者係media and communication既科 可能會比較適合依家既你 但無可否認 係你係HKU讀書既時候 你依然有得著 就好似你所講既你發現左依個世界好大 了解到自己想同唔同人去交流 了解其他國家既文化 依d已經係得著 證明你依4年既大學生涯無白過 你比DSE既時候更加了解自己 知道自己想要咩追尋乜野 而你已經比好多人幸運 因為有好多人畢左業甚至一生人入面 都未必搵到自己既夢想自己真正想做既野 過左去既野無得改變 既然你都畢左業 唔好太執著以前既事 繼續做你自己想做既野啦~ 同時都無可否認 學位對大部分既人黎講係好重要 因為佢地support住成個社會既運作 明白你想強調叫人唔好浪費時間 應該要去做自己想做既野 但希望你都了解依個世界都有好多人係有各種因素阻礙 導致夢想只可以成為一種業餘興趣 直至有一日機會來臨業餘興趣先可以變成正職

  • @dawnhe7441
    @dawnhe7441 5 років тому

    興趣系最好的老師,托哥做你喜歡噶事情吧,支持你

  • @teemolai3482
    @teemolai3482 5 років тому +243

    托哥你啲英文好正。想問下你係點樣學英文同練到咁樣嘅口音。

    • @SFATFACL
      @SFATFACL 5 років тому +16

      这么严重的口音

    • @patrickchow1981
      @patrickchow1981 5 років тому +13

      我的感覺:主要是父母的英語都很好,在家裡也是講英文。。。

    • @YuShawStang
      @YuShawStang 5 років тому +11

      聽夠多,就聽的出口音了。

    • @robertng138
      @robertng138 5 років тому +3

      He been picking up S African accent from his girlfriend.

    • @lePendejo
      @lePendejo 5 років тому +12

      要經常聽同講。要知道正確讀音,不斷糾正自己,而且要堅持。一開始很累很辛苦,但就是正正太吃力,普通人就放棄而不理,繼續平常的香港口音。我爸媽都不會說很多英語,但如果你跟我說話你只會聽到英國口音。我提議多點閱讀書,念出口,慢慢讀,讀到自己覺得對為止。但自己練比有老師指導會慢很多,而且很難堅持下去。Anyway, I wish you good luck in mastering your English and have a fabulous CNY!

  • @20s28
    @20s28 Рік тому

    你真係好用心機拍片,好睇嘅片當然要比like👍👍

  • @ccolu123
    @ccolu123 5 років тому +4

    I also went to HKU till my sophomore year and now transferred to a college in the US. The reason why I chose to move here is that HKU broadened my horizons - that's what HKU did for you too. HKU has the highest proportion of international students compared to other universities in Hong Kong, and I believe that is why you could "meet and connect" with the exchange students. I wouldn't judge whether things you're doing are luxury to other local students, but at least I think you should not put the blame on HKU. To me, I am very grateful for what the school has given me.

  • @jamied1946
    @jamied1946 5 років тому +1

    Actually i find that every architectural student during their school days or at the graduation will just inevitably doubt themselves for learning nothing in the campus and wasting the whole career in school, but simultaneously their education or training as architect will more or less give them a unique perspective to see the world and wanna explore...i myself is in my final year, and i think it might be one of the reasons that Torres feels in this way, though we all know we could not spend too much time to make the choice, we still do want to stay in uncertainty as if we can change our mind when we like...what a hard life

    • @jamied1946
      @jamied1946 5 років тому

      that self-doubt comes directly from being an architectural student, which is such an ironic but somehow a good thing

  • @zhifeiliang2175
    @zhifeiliang2175 5 років тому +3

    无意中刷到这个视频,现在正在迷茫中,同学建筑的高中生现在面临择校问题,不知道是去英国纯建筑学校,还是去美国综合性大学,之前一直觉得自己很热爱建筑,现在有些怀疑了,觉得是不是去综合性大学会有更多的可能性,而且觉得两个国家文化也很不一样,纠结

    • @oooo-fw2gf
      @oooo-fw2gf 5 років тому +1

      请问大学排名?若差不多,建议你去美国,交义学系,纯建筑以后再念,先顾就业,在综合多学科里多了解。。

  • @karenkong4270
    @karenkong4270 5 років тому

    Super inspired! Doing what you like and put all your energy in it is really sth incredible!

  • @peterliang0620
    @peterliang0620 4 роки тому +3

    亞洲的教育模式真的讓很多人不知道自己在做什麼 讓很多人失去對人生的意義

  • @tlouis6208
    @tlouis6208 5 років тому +1

    托爺加油 繼續追夢💪🏻

  • @aggsworld
    @aggsworld 5 років тому +34

    美國海關真的很不和善,我去過裡面的小房間,航警的態度更糟,好像我欠他幾百萬XDD

    • @weizhang2834
      @weizhang2834 5 років тому +5

      KEN TEK 米国哪里和善?包括超市,商场,dmv,甚至Chinatown,一个自由很少却经常说别的国家没自由的国家。那里的好多人都没有笑脸

    • @Gryffindor.beagle
      @Gryffindor.beagle 5 років тому +6

      我不同意,我遇過的海關都很嚴肅但是沒有不禮貌⋯⋯他們不是Customer Service Ambassadors ok?? 他們只是盡忠職守。 在小社區內的店員都很親切,主要是你自己先要對人友善,面帶笑容,人家才會知道你不是那種糟糕亞洲奧客。

    • @teeministry
      @teeministry 5 років тому +1

      @@Gryffindor.beagle 難道你覺得托哥無笑容? 對海關不友善?

    • @ckt7658
      @ckt7658 3 роки тому

      @@weizhang2834 bruh

  • @zihewang6538
    @zihewang6538 5 років тому +1

    做自己总是生活中最难的事儿之一!加油 托哥

  • @user-fj3mm4st9i
    @user-fj3mm4st9i 5 років тому +4

    Following your passion and we will support you forever.🏃‍♂️

  • @mist9965
    @mist9965 8 місяців тому

    You are so right. You actually want to LEARN, unlike those who really just want to get a degree and get learning over with.

  • @jaxkhan
    @jaxkhan 5 років тому +97

    30 年前嘅 HKU 可能會好啲,嗰陣係一間大學,依家只係一間大型中學。

    • @zarmmraz5267
      @zarmmraz5267 5 років тому +27

      其實佢講30年前同佢幾時成立有咩關係? 小弟愚蠢,唔係好睇到@gochrome

    • @markchung5178
      @markchung5178 5 років тому +9

      而家D大學, 係大學嗎?

    • @kevindapoon8077
      @kevindapoon8077 5 років тому +2

      30年前,hku已經唔係唯一一間大學,因cuhk已成立

    • @YANYANYANC
      @YANYANYANC 5 років тому +16

      兩位 閱讀理解唔合格?

    • @user-rw9hy9mf2p
      @user-rw9hy9mf2p 4 роки тому

      Ka Fai CHEUNG 笑死我😂

  • @pacocheung92
    @pacocheung92 3 роки тому +1

    I am stuyding Computer Science for my first year. I picked this cuz I thought I am good at math then I think I will eventually pick it up, and after I graduate I will get a decent job. But, turns out I find out this is not what I want, I hate the major. Hence, I decided to change my major to Media screen production, which I enjoy more. The moral of this comment is that, it's very hard to learn sth you do not like and PLS PLS follow your heart and do what you like. Otherwise you will be suffering everyday, and thinking why am I even learning this for the whole time. I watched Torres video before I picked my major, I didn't believe it that much at that time. But now I really regret it that I pick sth I don't like, luckily I can still change my major.

  • @Hubert_tw
    @Hubert_tw 5 років тому +5

    華人世界的學習就只是為了學習,沒人會鼓勵你去找尋追求個人的理想,多數人都等到長大了再來後悔

  • @luckyhappy65
    @luckyhappy65 5 років тому

    Great! Happy that you are so clear about yourself now! Do what you really wish to do! Good luck and have fun!

  • @yannetta1698
    @yannetta1698 5 років тому +6

    震惊,看完评论区去查了一下dse,才知道香港的大学考试这么简单,而且内地生可以参加……后悔了后悔了,当年拼死拼活考高考,果然是信息不对称带来的啊

  • @SquirrelMama
    @SquirrelMama 5 років тому

    Not sure why people are so negative about "following your dreams". I like your message. Of course, not everyone can follow their dreams. Of course there are constraints. But if there's a chance you can, should go for it. Life is really short.

    • @SquirrelMama
      @SquirrelMama 5 років тому

      @\Levi - l\ plus /net -n/ plus /sue/ equals Ivainesu You are right, he doesn't seem to come from a poor family. Quitting is a choice that not many can afford, and there are many entrepreneur stories out there who came from an underprivileged background. Unfortunately, not everyone can follow their dreams, and strangely, not many people would follow their dreams even if they had back ups.

  • @ngivan9593
    @ngivan9593 5 років тому +229

    英文練左幾耐.... 好好聽

    • @parkerswith4875
      @parkerswith4875 5 років тому +39

      我初頭以為佢係國際學校上黎。。英文咁好。。

    • @user-nw6kn5dd1f
      @user-nw6kn5dd1f 5 років тому +2

      Paper fish紙魚 係咩?你去外國揾日本留學生,然後同佢講英文?如果你聽得明佢講乜叉I will eat my head
      And JJ

    • @chansally5521
      @chansally5521 5 років тому

      @@user-nw6kn5dd1f 其實識多少少日文就聽得明

    • @user-nw6kn5dd1f
      @user-nw6kn5dd1f 5 років тому

      Chan Sally 唔關日文事,而是佢地把r讀L音,有時候把a讀i音,而且口音極嚴重

    • @chansally5521
      @chansally5521 5 років тому

      @@user-nw6kn5dd1f 但學日文會學晒d日文嘅外來詞,學下學下就明d日式英文

  • @yifupeng5885
    @yifupeng5885 5 років тому

    托哥太棒了!!加油继续做自己想做的事。

  • @blairo4520
    @blairo4520 5 років тому +4

    原来不是我一个人觉得美国的海关人员好吓人。他们都不转头看我,只对着显示器说话,一脸严肃。