Ashley caught feelings she, she didn't expect her sneaky link will move on fast on and like Nimrat. Ashley hasn't moved on and would still choose her sneaky link over Nimrat. Ashely expects communication from both Nimrat and the dude but she shouldnt be feeling entitled to being given a heads up on a date. Nimrate panicked maybe to protect Ashley's feelings and insecurities.
What's unsaid is louder than what's being said. Lesson is, make clear boundaries that are TRUE to how you really feel and not how you want to be perceived.
The heads up wouldn't have changed shit. Would they need to inform Ash everytime they kicked it? Nimrat broke girl code or whatever but Ashley isn't being honest with herself
The guy doesn't matter, what matters here is the friendship and there's a referendum on it. Ashley has to come to terms with the reality that her "friend" isn't her friend the way she thinks she is. A value has been put on that friendship and it's below market rate, Ashley you are just an acquaintance to Nimrat
Wild that nobody is actually seeing Ashley's point, if we agree on communicating on a certain issue I expect a communication, period! And that's why Ash is mad as she should.
Kusema ukweli some of these situations will forever change a dynamic. Human beings are not built for this kind of shit no matter how much you try to philosophize and rationalize. At this point define 'friend- whether in terms of the guy or Nimrat. You are in toxic waters and it is okay to let them go. May we all evolve past this thing of 'I don't have feelings' and heal so we can let go of people who have no concept of how to be good to us.
In my opinion: Whether it’s a sneaky link or not, when two people spend time together repeatedly, it’s inevitable that they will enjoy each other’s company. Feelings will and must be caught. Ashley is justified in being frustrated, but itabidi azoee.. On the other hand, Nimrat, if you desire, go ahead; you can ki ki ki as Ash says, but pursuing a romantic relationship would be deceiving yourself and the sneaky link. Remember, easy come easy go. 🌟
Damn true work and solid friendship... "judgement Inthe eye of man will always be the fast instinct in all situations. Following this conversation of job searching and receiving 😢the behind the scene tears of how people quickly judge and summarise you in one minute is something else. Big up team I even had to search you in linked in and I got to know this are real people...who have hustled some part of life.Cheeers Tuesday to me😂
The principal here is your friend gives you green light which means you dnt have to lie about it but you do... This jeopardizes the trust and puts to question what other thing have you been lying about that you really ddnt have to but choose to do so. But still Ashley coming off as having caught feelings
I'm with Ashley on this one...girl thats not real friendship ist just cordial. The issue isnt the guy coz she'd given the go ahead but that boundary set crossed IS the problem.
@@user-zd9tl1ll4t And also the fact she knew him longer maybe she’s been wanting him for the longest time and thought sneaky linking him would make him want her but it backfired so she feels hurt
now I am back just from 38mins of Double Sided Beef and yow,,nobody prepared me for this shocker,,,G Money was the sneaky link??? I think I need to smoke some good shit today😂😂
@@FORTE-KE Watch the double sided podcast where Ahsley and Nimrat are the host,,it's a story that began on episode 39 of the pod. You should watch it then watch the latest episode they dropped I think 2 days ago. You'll relate I swear
Ash should unpack the whole situashionship with her therapist away from public opinion, she caught feelings, the sneakylink knows...maybe he did too, he is the villain... it makes me think of how some women get mad at the sidechik instead of their husband when he cheats.. She didnt answer why she wanted a heads up from nimrat n the sneaky link..
Fam....it's hard nowadays for men to borrow money from their girl. I mean they be like....my money ..is my money...but your money is ours. It's devastating that as men we'd rather suffer in that situation of having no money n struggle in getting it from somewhere else ...rather than borrowing from their significant partner
This one time I was out with my boys on Saturday night. Decided to transfer money from my account to my m-pesa since I didn't have my debit card with me. The transaction didn't go through, but my bank had been debited, meaning the funds were held in suspense and that I had to go to the bank on Monday to sort it out. It didn't bother me since I had some cash which was enough to pay the bill and I went home. I also had some eggs in the house so I knew I'd be ok. As I was just chilling indoors on Sunday, some babe calls me asking to come over, I didn't mind. When she came I told her what had happened the previous night and that I didn't have money at the moment. I ordered her food and asked her to pay then I'd refund her the following day when I go to the bank. She did, however I noticed her mood had changed. When she was done eating she said she wanted to go, and I was cool. The following day I check her status and babe had gone berserk. She had posted something in the lines of, "Kenyan men always give her reasons not to date them, like how do you go to a man's house and feed yourself!?" I just sent her a g, though her food costed about 700/-, and I apologized for what had happened
Ashley caught feelings she, she didn't expect her sneaky link will move on fast on and like Nimrat. Ashley hasn't moved on and would still choose her sneaky link over Nimrat. Ashely expects communication from both Nimrat and the dude but she shouldnt be feeling entitled to being given a heads up on a date. Nimrate panicked maybe to protect Ashley's feelings and insecurities.
What's unsaid is louder than what's being said. Lesson is, make clear boundaries that are TRUE to how you really feel and not how you want to be perceived.
At the beginning I was tensed like I'm in a real court..when G was gonna give the ruling😂😂😂😂😂I LOVED THIS POD!
Someone ask Ashley what is the meaning of 'go ahead '
I just watched one minute of the episode and when I saw Calvin get off his seat I just knew this is going to be one hell of a episode😂
Yoohh, me too 🤣🤣🤣
The intro should like a good Reality show us about to start 🤣🤣
Ashley is tripping. Let it go.
Calvin summaries were on point😅
Uuuuiiiiiiiiii, that 1st point from G maze, finding a woman who doesn't weaponize vulnerability is rarest rare earth element on earth.
The heads up wouldn't have changed shit. Would they need to inform Ash everytime they kicked it? Nimrat broke girl code or whatever but Ashley isn't being honest with herself
Is nobody gonna congratulate G Money for the baba accent!
The guy doesn't matter, what matters here is the friendship and there's a referendum on it. Ashley has to come to terms with the reality that her "friend" isn't her friend the way she thinks she is. A value has been put on that friendship and it's below market rate, Ashley you are just an acquaintance to Nimrat
Comment I was looking for 👏 that friendship will not be the same again...boundaries have been broken etc
Wild that nobody is actually seeing Ashley's point, if we agree on communicating on a certain issue I expect a communication, period! And that's why Ash is mad as she should.
This is too hot to watch at work. Paused to continue at the piece of my house on full blast🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nimrat knew what she was doing
35:20 then why get pissed off if your sneaky link is getting action on the side like you? 😂 Ash caught feelings but she's really fighting it.
Kusema ukweli some of these situations will forever change a dynamic. Human beings are not built for this kind of shit no matter how much you try to philosophize and rationalize. At this point define 'friend- whether in terms of the guy or Nimrat. You are in toxic waters and it is okay to let them go. May we all evolve past this thing of 'I don't have feelings' and heal so we can let go of people who have no concept of how to be good to us.
Thankyou
Had to pause this and go watch that DST episode. Lol!
me too😅
Calvin had it all figured out 😂
Andy you'd still be ashleys lawyer ata bila retainer🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In my opinion:
Whether it’s a sneaky link or not, when two people spend time together repeatedly, it’s inevitable that they will enjoy each other’s company. Feelings will and must be caught. Ashley is justified in being frustrated, but itabidi azoee.. On the other hand, Nimrat, if you desire, go ahead; you can ki ki ki as Ash says, but pursuing a romantic relationship would be deceiving yourself and the sneaky link. Remember, easy come easy go. 🌟
Damn true work and solid friendship... "judgement Inthe eye of man will always be the fast instinct in all situations. Following this conversation of job searching and receiving 😢the behind the scene tears of how people quickly judge and summarise you in one minute is something else. Big up team I even had to search you in linked in and I got to know this are real people...who have hustled some part of life.Cheeers Tuesday to me😂
Ashley ameharibu na hiyo maneno,,,"if it is available at a free price"
Big C cooking like his fellow big man lookalike Embiid 😂😂
The effects at the start of the episode..... perfect 💯
really interesting and refreshing conversation guys💯💯 thumbs up
This was a good episode.
Asheley: "N A I R O B I ... yule anakupea, pia ananipea, akikuletea, ananiletea..." Nyote mnashare :D
@30:11 Andy knows how to ask the right questions!! Summed up my thoughts exactly
Love the way Andy keeps Calvin in check
am with Ashley,
The sneaky link podcast
The principal here is your friend gives you green light which means you dnt have to lie about it but you do... This jeopardizes the trust and puts to question what other thing have you been lying about that you really ddnt have to but choose to do so.
But still Ashley coming off as having caught feelings
At some point Big C mentioned the comment section.Honorable😎
I'm with Ashley on this one...girl thats not real friendship ist just cordial. The issue isnt the guy coz she'd given the go ahead but that boundary set crossed IS the problem.
Eeeish now we poding I love this
Ashley proves how tiring and trivial female friendships are. They just sound exhausting.
She hesitated😂, you know what they say about he who hesitates....
Yeah, she still has feelings for her sneaky link. The dude likes Nimrat which Ashely didnt expect and now she's catching feelings.
@@user-zd9tl1ll4t And also the fact she knew him longer maybe she’s been wanting him for the longest time and thought sneaky linking him would make him want her but it backfired so she feels hurt
At this point I wonder how old G is, He talks about being 30 like it was in the colonial period bro😀
same dude😅
Grandfather G LOL@@ritahpeceki
The G is for Grandpa😂😂😂
Joked about his age on x, he blocked me immediately.
😅
now I am back just from 38mins of Double Sided Beef and yow,,nobody prepared me for this shocker,,,G Money was the sneaky link??? I think I need to smoke some good shit today😂😂
Which episode? coz I'm lost.
I think G was joking ....
@@FORTE-KE Watch the double sided podcast where Ahsley and Nimrat are the host,,it's a story that began on episode 39 of the pod. You should watch it then watch the latest episode they dropped I think 2 days ago. You'll relate I swear
@@thegoodcompanyke my bad
You new to sarcasm?😂
Big C my man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Employees wanakulana kila mahali 😆😅😅😅
BIG C😂😂
Calvin is the GOAT for sure
40 minutes of this guys pod pod pod bana we had to fast forward because someone is Jealous !!!!
I see what u guys did 😂🎉
All aboard!!!
Big C
That’s it!
Change of formation😅
Mwachane na Austin please 😅
LOCKED!!!
🤗🤗
can i be the neutral party in the dst ...hr lackin
Minute 35:30 Ashley lost it. But not the baba hat for G
Nairobi!!!
Nairobiiii🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶
Ashley is a 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩pick me kabisa and she can't see she's not even being picked
😂😂
She's giving Khloe Kardashian
@@lavynethumer6004 💯💯💯💯
Ash should unpack the whole situashionship with her therapist away from public opinion, she caught feelings, the sneakylink knows...maybe he did too, he is the villain...
it makes me think of how some women get mad at the sidechik instead of their husband when he cheats..
She didnt answer why she wanted a heads up from nimrat n the sneaky link..
Fam....it's hard nowadays for men to borrow money from their girl. I mean they be like....my money ..is my money...but your money is ours. It's devastating that as men we'd rather suffer in that situation of having no money n struggle in getting it from somewhere else ...rather than borrowing from their significant partner
Terrorism 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What an intro I feel bad I missed the premier
👌
Big C and Ash got the same pants on, diff sizes though. Including the knee rip. Ni thighs tu Big C amekosa
how old is G Money?
🤣🤣intro
I kinda suspect it may be g 'the sneaky link' coz of the first 5 min and their sitting positionss why have they changed
Hooot😂
Someone explain this in football terms.
Look at Calvin making things worse,,,eti,,''yes that is a date''🤣🤣🤣
Xs and Sneaky Links are out of bounds. How is this not common sense??
The guy is the problem. Atakukulia mabeshte wako wote
On the flip side if a chick has all these sneaky links and exes maybe its better not to be friends with them coz utakuwa single milele.
This one time I was out with my boys on Saturday night. Decided to transfer money from my account to my m-pesa since I didn't have my debit card with me. The transaction didn't go through, but my bank had been debited, meaning the funds were held in suspense and that I had to go to the bank on Monday to sort it out.
It didn't bother me since I had some cash which was enough to pay the bill and I went home. I also had some eggs in the house so I knew I'd be ok. As I was just chilling indoors on Sunday, some babe calls me asking to come over, I didn't mind.
When she came I told her what had happened the previous night and that I didn't have money at the moment. I ordered her food and asked her to pay then I'd refund her the following day when I go to the bank. She did, however I noticed her mood had changed. When she was done eating she said she wanted to go, and I was cool.
The following day I check her status and babe had gone berserk. She had posted something in the lines of, "Kenyan men always give her reasons not to date them, like how do you go to a man's house and feed yourself!?"
I just sent her a g, though her food costed about 700/-, and I apologized for what had happened
that is bold bro
😂dammmmm... maturity starts from when you decide to start talking.. ladies really have to sanitizer their mouth.