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And people never find out the reason behind someone's suicide cause the one who does suicide doesn't want to hurt their love ones wheather that person's loved ones are will be the reason of their suicide.....Their death are still mysterious cause they laugh so hard that no one can actually find out the pain behind their smiles....
I have tried telling about my depressive thoughts to my parents being 20 years old. But the typical Indian household doesn't care to think through and think that there is no stress in a 20 year old's life and my household is no different. I felt so calm when I listened to you ma'am and I wish people like you take the step by educating this knowledge somehow to the conventional mindset boomer community through national televisions somehow.
It's not that suicide is easy. It's that it's easier than dealing with your depression. A quote I often think about: "suicide doesnt end the pain it passes it on to someone else". I know it can be hard to believe that anyone would care about you but you have to understand that your life touches all sorts of people. Maybe it's not your parents or your SO or whatever but it could be you aunts and uncles, your cousins, your childhood friends that you dont see anymore. People will miss you. We have to work on other ways to handle our pain. Look up mindfulness meditation. Start exercising even if it's just a brisk walk. Get out in the sun. I know some of you reading this hate hearing it. That's your depression keeping you away from helping yourself overcome it. Push. Fight it. It dies nothing for you.
@@moafighting1597 really? When I get dark thoughts it's usually idealizing a specific method. Used to be slitting my wrists when I would cut myself. Lately it's been hanging. I have no clue why.
@@emericanchaos it's suicidal ideation and it's bad I of course had some fascination with poison as I constantly would look at dosages and such but it's a really horrible thing
9:43 All parents in general always don’t love their kids, there are exceptions. Need to know the difference between a parent loving their kid out of responsibility versus being responsible because of love or the both. Only the affected kid knows it, trust me.
When you are in depression then nobody is there to help, no one can read your eyes, no one can see the tears hiding behind your eyes, people are very good at "judging" but very very poor in "understanding".....no one can understand what is going on behind the bars....and when your depression is converted into anger and irritation ....then as I told before ...people are very good at judging
People understand everything but they really don't care what kind of trauma you are going through. It's non of there concern though they understand everything. Share with me don't worry
Death is the only option when life after all these years is nothing but a tall stack of regrets growing taller every passing day, month, year..... Regret after regret piling on and on ...... forever stuck in an unending vortex of apathy and inaction ... when all you can ever think about is death 24/7 .....
As someone who has mild autism, depression/anxiety, and has walked away from suicide attempts, I can relate to this. Building a support circle and seeking help is one of the best things I've done. It saved my life.
It is like a wave. Up and down. Worse when we are alone and at night. It is sometimes unbearable. But when it does, if you could think of 1 thing or person who you care about. Just try give it all to get to the next moment, the next 5mins, and the next 10mins. Try to distract yourself just for 5 more minutes. Tomorrow will be a new day. Give ourselves a second chance always because we deserve it. Every problem has a solution. We just need to stay strong and try our best to stay strong. Just for another 5mins and another 5mins. We will get through this stronger. ❤
Good noon 🌅 Dear How do you feel today? you are silence since a lot of time, I think you are busy or facing any difficulty. I hope you are healthy & happy.if you wish to express something,I will try my best to assist. Take care
UA-cam Frenzy Yes, she is! And definitely worth the investment. I only see her for follow-ups and medication, though. 15 mins, once a month. I see a psychologist at the same clinic (Mind Temple) for therapy.
Selassie999 I'm in support of euthanasia in extreme cases, yes. But statistics show most people who attempt suicide regret it the second they do it. (Look it up) Yes, multiple suicide attempts occur in spite of that, but you have to understand that suicidal thoughts aren't always rational. People attempt suicide because they want to feel relief from their pain. But you need to be alive to feel relief. It's only when it's too late that they realise that.
Selassie999 I'm very sorry for your loss. It's good that you've come to terms with it. I'm not judging him or anyone who's had suicidal thoughts. Suicide is not selfish or cowardly or anything of the sort, and anyone who tells me otherwise is heartless. I struggle with them myself every few months, even now, but I've learnt how to control them and look past it. However you did say "when people were not there to help him". This is why we need mental health awareness, and this is why it's important to get treatment - in whichever way possible. I know money can be a huge constraint... Healthcare is comparatively much cheaper in India, and I'm not sure where you're from. I'm really sorry if you weren't able to afford treatment. We *always* have a choice to turn things around in our lives. It doesn't have to end before its time. Yes, the world is a messed-up place. But there is still some light left in it. We need to nurture the people around us and give them the help they need so that light remains. I hope your son is in a better place now.
I am in an America, and it is like that here! The moment that I tell someone that I was filling, depressed and suicidal, they start telling me about how much I have to live for and to count on my blessings instead of all my things going wrong! They don’t even try to listen to what I am trying to say! You are so right! Thank you for your talk!
It's not a cry It's the only option for us I'm 21, I have no options to live I don't make choices in my life My life was already chosen before I was even born My whole life was planned I didn't get to choose anything Now this is the only thing I can choose So I'm choosing this
same here bro ,,,when i try to talk i get ignored by my parents,,literally they made me take pcb just because they wanted to satisfy their ego of being called as doctor's parent .i failed 2 drop they asked me to take third ,,but i don't want to do so,,but i had to ,, i wanted to be mathematics professor,,
No brother, try to look on the brighter side of life. Get treatment and change your life. share with anything else you want. I'm 48 and lost everything but I'm trying to fight hard with this
Every single person that exists has some purpose in the life ,there is no one without it ,trust me , just find your purpose and live for your dreams ,parents and most importantly for yourself , because you only get life once ,make money and help animals and poor people ,this will make you immensely happy and satisfaction ,i am of your same age my life has been difficult since childhood , i also get distracted sometimes by suicidal thoughts , but i motive my self by thinking my dreams ,life's a test, you always gets tested the most before you progressed
Her words make me feel alive and fortunate to know there are people that care and understand. I also love the visual design of this presentation. The darker background creates a peaceful contrast like moonlight that keeps the focus on the speaker. The beautiful digital logo on the giant screen also triggers gentle feelings of peace and calmness through its symmetrical feminine butterfly shape and feathery outskirts in red tones that turn into light pinks. I have crossed these stormy weathers. I am currently recovering from depression. I never fully recovered from depression since I was first diagnosed nine years ago. I am also on the 'Autism Spectrum Disorder' ASD which means I think differently than most people. I don't have any friends. I put my faith in my creator. Our minds are very deep and contain many things hidden from our awareness. The world needs more love. It prevents us delving too deep where we become lost ❤
If someone is determined, s/he will do it. My mom completed suicide after multiple attempts. She wouldn’t help herself. Let’s talk much more about those with personality disorders.
Determination doesn’t equate success in a suicide attempt. Family and friends and random people often step in and save the persons life whether they wanted it or not.
It's not that suicide is easy. It's that it's easier than dealing with your depression. A quote I often think about: "suicide doesnt end the pain it passes it on to someone else". I know it can be hard to believe that anyone would care about you but you have to understand that your life touches all sorts of people. Maybe it's not your parents or your SO or whatever but it could be you aunts and uncles, your cousins, your childhood friends that you dont see anymore. People will miss you. We have to work on other ways to handle our pain. Look up mindfulness meditation. Start exercising even if it's just a brisk walk. Get out in the sun. I know some of you reading this hate hearing it. That's your depression keeping you away from helping yourself overcome it. Push. Fight it. It dies nothing for you.
The fear of becoming a failure in life and no one including your parents understand you and sometimes talks to you like you are the only problem in their life hurts a lot . Wish i was an independent person at the age of 22 so that i can leave my home and my parents so that they dont blame me for their suffering . I wish i was not born .
Exactly! They'll tell you you have no reason to feel depressed, be grateful, do this and that as if you could magically begin to feel grateful and happy just because they said so. The problem is they're not to blame, if they're not professionally trained how are they supposed to know how to deal with a depressed person?
Sometimes death feels like ultimate truth and ultimate peace...... But no-one will carry out your responsibilities and mostly people you love will suffer your family will suffer.....life is a freakin load.....
I've done it, i was brought back, i still struggle with it every single day, if it wasn't for the act team i wouldn't b here , but I'm sadly still so soulfully struggling, it is a minute by minute n hr by hr, day by day battle, I dont no if I will win, but I'm trying every second of the day ,.... stay strong !,
It was a lot of family drama, and it was after the tornado in Joplin mo. In 2011, it would take to long to explain here, but everything changed in seconds, I was just done. BUT I'm still fighting hard every day..
@@robchambers4878 I can not say that you can handle every situation 😁 but who told you to control everything... Get your own car... Your own house... And live it like a king...... When you can't control... Leave it.... There is no other option... Many more things in the world to explore... Not only your family.... 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
The problem with me that I'm having problem with concentration and hallucination since childhood and i went undiagnosed for so long until my whole life completely destroyed It would be better if world health organization give suggestions to countries that every child should be provided with mental health doctor since childhood so that these kind of issues could be avoided
I tried to kill myself 6 times. Now I write music about pain and it makes me feel better. I put the pain into the song and it seems to heal a piece of me.
Look at the good side of dying . You can't complain about anything. Parents aren't pressuring you anymore. You can't disturb anyone none can disturb you . Will your family and close persons be sad ? Off coure and they deserve it cause where were they when you were suffering?After dying you can only Love endlessly...
i am really depressed in life.. i really needed someone who understood my condition.. when I was happy all were there.. but now no one is here.. i lost myself I lost everything.. ppl feel suiciding is a wrong decision but life turning so bad at ourselves is unbearable.. as a human i expect someone understood me as well.. I don't have supernatural powers to overcome this condition.. either they make fun of it.. or just say you are too grown up.. sometimes i just want ppl to just listen for a while.. living is also becoming too hard.. neither can i tell parents or friends or anyone.. i am just at the verge of ending all this and leave everyone.. maybe the whole world might be upset.. but everyone will forget and move on.. thank you for speaking on behalf of the ppl who feel this appreciate it😢
This is my message to the world. I am suffering and I want to end it all. I do not have the courage, I cannot die, I just am not brave enough. I have no one to talk to. I am just tired, so tired.
Let's help each other I know someone who are brave enough to do suicide can achieve a lot more than the mediocre average humans after all we don't feel pain any longer .
What happens to the soul after suicide? We don't know for sure, but the sages and main religions say it would be a mistake, but surely God would be merciful...
I failed and I'll never be able to walk ever again, I'll always have to wear a catheter for the rest of my life, I'm 18. I cried for help for 2 years but nobody helped. I'm in a situation which is way worse all I'm doing is just waiting for death to arrive as I can't run into it anymore.
I've been suicidal for three years now. Ready to commit in just a couple weeks, already planned out and everything. Though I would like to add to the title, suicide is not only a cry for help, it could also be a form of atonement for the wrong we've done, speaking from experience of course.
I so deeply hope you have not followed through with this. I know exactly what you're going through but i promise even if i cant see it yet myself, things will get better. truely hope to see a reply
Hey bro, don't do it! I too have done a lot of wrongs in my life and think about ending my life all the time too, please talk to me/us or anyone for that matter. If you can't talk to anyone you know, talk to us strangers
Thanks a lot mam! A very realistic and relevant lecture. And most importantly I have come to know that how to deal with suicidal one even without any professional efficiency
I'm 21, earn a basic income. Been in a relationship, everything was good until a year, and then he informed his parents and elder siblings about us. I don't have any friends or older siblings, my parents don't like me either. My parents don't know about him. Everytime we fight he would ask me to leave in the fights. Every night I cry thinking he would leave me, and go through bad lows, tried talking to him about it. But don't know how to manage myself.
If he doesn't care about you you should break up with him believe me you can't be live with him thinking he will leave you one day 😊 just sharing my thought
Break up wid him tf, ik it's hard but trust me you'll be thanking yourself for it. He doesn't deserve you and I don't think he even loves you. What's the point of staying when he threatens to leave you like that.Leave him before he leaves you and don't say nothin'.
I have been suicidal since two months but I couldn't gather the courage due to remembering my parents face. The thing is that I betrayed someone who meant world to me. And i am in immense after realising what I did. This is something against my morals and values. I have never ever done anything wrong till now but now I spoiled my character. This was never me I cant believe how could I do this. This feeling is not letting me in peace. The guilt of carrying the burden of what I did is so heavy that everyday I think of ending my life. It is getting difficult for me to even look at the mirror because I hate myself for doing something against my morals.
I can completely understand what you are saying. I am going through the same and have been feeling depressed for a long time. I am in so much regret that I just have not been able to forgive myself for losing two good people in my life. What I did was not at all intentional yet it ended my life, ended everything for me. I don’t want to live anymore. Can’t suffer with all this regret all my life:
I am suffering from overthinking but no one is there to understand me no one is there to reassure me that nothing will happen you will be alright if i tell my thoughts they just laugh off it .
Sometimes life feels just meaningless. Not sometime, most of the time. It happens to be good for sometimes and again it feels nothing and depressed. I think for somepeople just dying is the best option to have. I think its better to die than live the life depressed.
Same feeling, I enjoy those rare comfortable and happy moments but most of the time which means every day or hour it's only depressed thoughts. Even meditation, it works but sometimes it feels useless because it keeps coming.
If only there was someone who cared about me enough to ask those questions and show that kind of concern. Like the guy about to jump from the Golden Gate Bridge said (as stated in his suicide letter he left behind), "If only one person smiles at me I'll not jump." ...
Phil Philips Hi, how are you today? Anything you want to talk about or rant about? I haven't finished the video, so I'm not sure what questions you need. I just wanted to let you know someone cares. I care. Stay strong beautiful human! 💜
Phil Philips Ya calling me a liar? Just kidding, but seriously. When I say I care, I mean it. I want to help if I can. You should also reach out to the people around you, because there are people there who would help you. Seek help. This is someone giving you that smile.
@@jasminessomewhere The people around me? I've so socially isolated myself that there isn't anyone around me. But maybe that's for the best, not for me but for society in general. Maybe I'm the martyr that life demands so the rest may flourish, like isolating a plague victim to protect everyone else.
@@philphilips1020 I doubt it's good to isolate yourself when you're struggling like this. I don't know if you have family, or you're in school so maybe a counselor? Or there is online support. Please try to care for yourself, you are worth it. You don't have to alienate society, there really is help. I say people around you because I think that might be more helpful than some random person on UA-cam, but I'd still help if there's anything I can do.
Went to a community health clinic. Wanted to be honest, so I told them "I'm thinking suicidal thoughts, I think that's a red flag. I need help". That's why they refused to help me. "We can't see you, you need to go to the emergency room, that's our policy." I explained that the emergency room doesn't see this as an emergency because I haven't actually tried to kill myself (yet), and I can't afford a several thousand dollar emergency room visit. "That's our policy," they said. I'll never make that mistake again. Even the health professionals will alienate you for thinking about suicide. Being suicidal is like having leprosy.
In every seconds of my life I thought about suicide because of the pressure from my family, but each day I survive because of God , so what I wish to tell is keep faith in God move on don't worry about the negatives which others around says think about the blessings which god has given it will help us to live that's how I live
Yeah but what if you don’t have insurance and can’t afford treatment? If suicide wasn’t meant to happen then it wouldn’t. Some of us are marked for it in a way from the very beginning. “All blooming life you’re feeding, can’t hide sick ones you’re weeding” -God Am- Alice In Chains
I had a OK life. I graduated and went abroad & so i was earning good. But meanwhile my parents were indulged in fighting with each other over my money. Soon i was totally disturbed by the negative atmosphere they created in home. Even my brother and sister polarized towards each parent. But i was the target of every family member due to my good earnings. Situation was so worse that they blamed me & my money as the main cause of the quarrel. I had to left job to solve their problem BUT nothing solved rather my career got spoiled. I payed for their greed. I don't know what to do now??
My both parents are psychopaths. And this is just too much to bear, i can't even run away from house, I'm not financially independent yet, this seems like the only way possible
How to persuade depressed people to take clinical treatment to get rid of depression. There are people who are not ready to believe that they need psychiatric treatment. They simply refuse to visit a psychiatrist. What is the solution ?
Because of, I ve been taking treatments for last 15 years. With multiple doctors. Till now I ve not get perfect one. When I take medications I feel it become cure. Once stopped again it started. Now I'm confused.. Whether I will come out of it or not. Thank you, sir
@@9704029192 I tried Effexor for TWO years. Yawning, lack of sleep, nummed arms, sleepy on daytime. It took 90 DAYS to kick in. You need to work out, I mean panting, and let out "toxines". Give a damn -literally- about other's opinions, for a long while. T r y I t .
@@9704029192 Try yog. Do surya namaskar. This helped me a lot. I done Sadhguru inmer engineering program but i think surya namaskar helped me the most. I had depression for about 25 years. Now it is under very much control.
I have a very toxic mother. I lost my father 3 months back. When i take a stand for myself. She does emotional drama and gathers whole family and scream i want to die and all gathering all sympathy and attention. I can't even do anything. I have no one to talk to. I don't know what to do. I'm just dying inside.
Suicide is not a cry for help. It is the only option when none of the cries for help are heard or resolved,
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Hey
I'm sorry to read this message 10days late unfortunately. Please contact immediately. You And Me We both can resolve your issue Dear. Please don't be so hopeless
@@NarayanMohapatra-to6se
Where I contact you 😔 I am alive
You are correct bro.
😢 agree
Suicide doesn't just happen...it takes years to emerge the strength to end it all..the pushes from the loved one or wtv..it just takes a lot.
And people never find out the reason behind someone's suicide cause the one who does suicide doesn't want to hurt their love ones wheather that person's loved ones are will be the reason of their suicide.....Their death are still mysterious cause they laugh so hard that no one can actually find out the pain behind their smiles....
It is never a cry for help. It is the only and fastest step that can with 100% certainty, help a person end their suffering.
Death is the ultimate truth which can remove all pain nothing will help living a life is the hardest thing
Exactly it is the only truth...
Agree
Mors ultima ratio
Very true line.. 'No one is allowed to feel depressed in our country'. My parents would agree
I am not scared of suicide, I am scared of what would happen if I fail. I am such a big failure but I can't bear to fail at this.
Same here 😣😥
Same 😭
@Bhavya I feel your pain. I am going through the same.
@@rahulkambale2627 I really wish things get better for you or better yet, you make things better for yourself.
How are you‽
I have tried telling about my depressive thoughts to my parents being 20 years old. But the typical Indian household doesn't care to think through and think that there is no stress in a 20 year old's life and my household is no different. I felt so calm when I listened to you ma'am and I wish people like you take the step by educating this knowledge somehow to the conventional mindset boomer community through national televisions somehow.
Find someone who cares, doesnt have to be parents
Hey!!! Wanna vent out?? I'm here for ya!!
@abinregimon get a job
you are strong.
@@sri-6374 Hi, I would like to talk
Suicide is by no means the easy way out.Believe me it’s the hardest thing to do ending your own life.
Yeah it's way to hard to pic a way to die I tried to poison myself but that didn't really work out
Roberto Insingo agree
It's not that suicide is easy. It's that it's easier than dealing with your depression. A quote I often think about: "suicide doesnt end the pain it passes it on to someone else". I know it can be hard to believe that anyone would care about you but you have to understand that your life touches all sorts of people. Maybe it's not your parents or your SO or whatever but it could be you aunts and uncles, your cousins, your childhood friends that you dont see anymore. People will miss you. We have to work on other ways to handle our pain. Look up mindfulness meditation. Start exercising even if it's just a brisk walk. Get out in the sun. I know some of you reading this hate hearing it. That's your depression keeping you away from helping yourself overcome it. Push. Fight it. It dies nothing for you.
@@moafighting1597 really? When I get dark thoughts it's usually idealizing a specific method. Used to be slitting my wrists when I would cut myself. Lately it's been hanging. I have no clue why.
@@emericanchaos it's suicidal ideation and it's bad I of course had some fascination with poison as I constantly would look at dosages and such but it's a really horrible thing
Iam all alone now no family no friends nothing. Death is afterlife.. Atleast let us be peaceful in heaven. Never ever in need of a life.Thankyou Mam..
What happened are u alive ?????. Mee don't wanna live
Me too😭
9:43 All parents in general always don’t love their kids, there are exceptions. Need to know the difference between a parent loving their kid out of responsibility versus being responsible because of love or the both.
Only the affected kid knows it, trust me.
Can totally agree
Thank this doctor for explaining it to people who are not listening!!!
When you are in depression then nobody is there to help, no one can read your eyes, no one can see the tears hiding behind your eyes, people are very good at "judging" but very very poor in "understanding".....no one can understand what is going on behind the bars....and when your depression is converted into anger and irritation ....then as I told before ...people are very good at judging
How accurate brother
People understand everything but they really don't care what kind of trauma you are going through. It's non of there concern though they understand everything. Share with me don't worry
Right
Very true 😭
She's amazing, thank you for talking about suicide I've tried 3 times been depressed all my life.
Laura you are deserving of all the love there is ❤
Don’t my dear. I have attempted it, survived it and now I thank God that he gave me a second chance. Hang on
Laura, you can share anything with me if you feel comfortable. I'm one of you and want to share your pain and expect the same from you
It is ok to ask for help
Death is the only option when life after all these years is nothing but a tall stack of regrets growing taller every passing day, month, year..... Regret after regret piling on and on ...... forever stuck in an unending vortex of apathy and inaction ... when all you can ever think about is death 24/7 .....
I suffering from depression from last 2 years, crying every night, and worse thing is that I cannot share it with anyone
same here
@@hobbiesbobbies1830 hello you can reach out to me
are you on meds
You can share with me, I will not judge you
Same here
She’s such a seraphic speaker!!🤍😇one of the best talks on the topic, mam!✨💫
Very well said ! Thank you!! I would like to add one more think about it. Most of families they don't care. It's sad...
Gratitude 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
My heart aches more after listening to her 😔
As someone who has mild autism, depression/anxiety, and has walked away from suicide attempts, I can relate to this. Building a support circle and seeking help is one of the best things I've done. It saved my life.
It is like a wave. Up and down. Worse when we are alone and at night. It is sometimes unbearable. But when it does, if you could think of 1 thing or person who you care about. Just try give it all to get to the next moment, the next 5mins, and the next 10mins. Try to distract yourself just for 5 more minutes. Tomorrow will be a new day. Give ourselves a second chance always because we deserve it. Every problem has a solution. We just need to stay strong and try our best to stay strong. Just for another 5mins and another 5mins. We will get through this stronger. ❤
Sometimes, I envy those dying of sudden cardiac events - at least they could not blame themselves.
I keep on watching these videos to see if there is a way out. Not sure how long it's gonna last, or how long I am gonna last.
U okay?
Is there any way out?
Good noon 🌅
Dear
How do you feel today? you are silence since a lot of time, I think you are busy or facing any difficulty.
I hope you are healthy & happy.if you wish to express something,I will try my best to assist.
Take care
😢
I feel you
Brilliantly said, Dr. Anjali! I'm so glad I reached out to you and decided to seek treatment. Was one of the best decisions of my life! ❤️
UA-cam Frenzy Yes, she is! And definitely worth the investment. I only see her for follow-ups and medication, though. 15 mins, once a month. I see a psychologist at the same clinic (Mind Temple) for therapy.
UA-cam Frenzy Oh, you used to see her?
Selassie999 I feel like you're against psychiatric drugs maybe...? I've made a video on my channel about this topic. Do check it out.
Selassie999 I'm in support of euthanasia in extreme cases, yes. But statistics show most people who attempt suicide regret it the second they do it. (Look it up) Yes, multiple suicide attempts occur in spite of that, but you have to understand that suicidal thoughts aren't always rational. People attempt suicide because they want to feel relief from their pain. But you need to be alive to feel relief. It's only when it's too late that they realise that.
Selassie999 I'm very sorry for your loss. It's good that you've come to terms with it.
I'm not judging him or anyone who's had suicidal thoughts. Suicide is not selfish or cowardly or anything of the sort, and anyone who tells me otherwise is heartless. I struggle with them myself every few months, even now, but I've learnt how to control them and look past it.
However you did say "when people were not there to help him". This is why we need mental health awareness, and this is why it's important to get treatment - in whichever way possible. I know money can be a huge constraint... Healthcare is comparatively much cheaper in India, and I'm not sure where you're from. I'm really sorry if you weren't able to afford treatment.
We *always* have a choice to turn things around in our lives. It doesn't have to end before its time. Yes, the world is a messed-up place. But there is still some light left in it. We need to nurture the people around us and give them the help they need so that light remains.
I hope your son is in a better place now.
I m just holding it because of My parents i dont have brother who will take care of them
How better it would for me if anyone of my family say it to me that everything will be alright soon.... But there is nobody... Nobody 😞
This is the best video on UA-cam on how to cope up with depression and suicide.
I am in an America, and it is like that here! The moment that I tell someone that I was filling, depressed and suicidal, they start telling me about how much I have to live for and to count on my blessings instead of all my things going wrong! They don’t even try to listen to what I am trying to say! You are so right! Thank you for your talk!
I searched How to Quit from life..! And Google recommended me this video
Same
You thought this is going to be a step by step tutorial??😂
Don't die though
You can make it through
@@priyanshubaranwal363 Exactly! The Biggest regret I watched the full video 😭😅
Same for me too
It's not a cry
It's the only option for us
I'm 21, I have no options to live
I don't make choices in my life
My life was already chosen before I was even born
My whole life was planned
I didn't get to choose anything
Now this is the only thing I can choose
So I'm choosing this
same here bro ,,,when i try to talk i get ignored by my parents,,literally they made me take pcb just because they wanted to satisfy their ego of being called as doctor's parent .i failed 2 drop they asked me to take third ,,but i don't want to do so,,but i had to ,, i wanted to be mathematics professor,,
@@asm427 can feel uh pain being a neet dropper myself and worst part is to live wdh them during dropyear it sucks
No brother, try to look on the brighter side of life. Get treatment and change your life. share with anything else you want. I'm 48 and lost everything but I'm trying to fight hard with this
Every single person that exists has some purpose in the life ,there is no one without it ,trust me , just find your purpose and live for your dreams ,parents and most importantly for yourself , because you only get life once ,make money and help animals and poor people ,this will make you immensely happy and satisfaction ,i am of your same age my life has been difficult since childhood , i also get distracted sometimes by suicidal thoughts , but i motive my self by thinking my dreams ,life's a test, you always gets tested the most before you progressed
Her words make me feel alive and fortunate to know there are people that care and understand. I also love the visual design of this presentation. The darker background creates a peaceful contrast like moonlight that keeps the focus on the speaker. The beautiful digital logo on the giant screen also triggers gentle feelings of peace and calmness through its symmetrical feminine butterfly shape and feathery outskirts in red tones that turn into light pinks. I have crossed these stormy weathers. I am currently recovering from depression. I never fully recovered from depression since I was first diagnosed nine years ago. I am also on the 'Autism Spectrum Disorder' ASD which means I think differently than most people. I don't have any friends. I put my faith in my creator. Our minds are very deep and contain many things hidden from our awareness. The world needs more love. It prevents us delving too deep where we become lost ❤
Thank you so much for this session Dr. Anjali.... and TedX
Is she an angel? 🎇
She is clearly a kind and empathetic person.
You look like one
a kind of..
The most calm ful persons are doctors I have ever meet their tolerance level op 👌😊
I think about suicide everyday. I wish that I had the courage to go through with it.
Seek help
Keep surviving i promise things get better
Same
oaklandsoldier I understand you mate I really do.
Just remember who you leave behind. You can't be that selfish.
If someone is determined, s/he will do it. My mom completed suicide after multiple attempts. She wouldn’t help herself. Let’s talk much more about those with personality disorders.
Determination doesn’t equate success in a suicide attempt. Family and friends and random people often step in and save the persons life whether they wanted it or not.
i’m determined but i can’t stand pain
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It's not that suicide is easy. It's that it's easier than dealing with your depression. A quote I often think about: "suicide doesnt end the pain it passes it on to someone else". I know it can be hard to believe that anyone would care about you but you have to understand that your life touches all sorts of people. Maybe it's not your parents or your SO or whatever but it could be you aunts and uncles, your cousins, your childhood friends that you dont see anymore. People will miss you. We have to work on other ways to handle our pain. Look up mindfulness meditation. Start exercising even if it's just a brisk walk. Get out in the sun. I know some of you reading this hate hearing it. That's your depression keeping you away from helping yourself overcome it. Push. Fight it. It dies nothing for you.
I was suffering from the same problem , some one has told me to attain vipassana meditation it totally changed my perception of the world
Vipassana meditation kaise Kiya jata hai tell me please
This is indeed a wonderful talk. Simply loved the deep involvement and super perspectives
It would be much more helpful if it becomes an action.
The fear of becoming a failure in life and no one including your parents understand you and sometimes talks to you like you are the only problem in their life hurts a lot . Wish i was an independent person at the age of 22 so that i can leave my home and my parents so that they dont blame me for their suffering . I wish i was not born .
Depression can't be explain in words to people who don't have it. If I said I feel depressed, and to them is like I just said: Hey! I just farted.🤬💩
LOVE it
Exactly! They'll tell you you have no reason to feel depressed, be grateful, do this and that as if you could magically begin to feel grateful and happy just because they said so. The problem is they're not to blame, if they're not professionally trained how are they supposed to know how to deal with a depressed person?
I can't do this anymore. I don't know about anything anymore. I'm depressed. I don't wanna cry for help.
Back yourself Jaya. You can share me anything you wish I'm also going through the same. together we can
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Sometimes death feels like ultimate truth and ultimate peace......
But no-one will carry out your responsibilities and mostly people you love will suffer your family will suffer.....life is a freakin load.....
I’m literally the one crying every night locked up in my room and literally want to die
Edit: even worse cause of this damn quarantine
Mr Bob bob I’m the same want to talk
Gina Allison yea :/
Same here, bro!
Not alone
I will commit suicide soon
Depression is very dangerous illness I suffer when I was 20
Hi Hassan,
This is Avi from Israel. Bless you.
Ya its the pain no one see..
Most of our parents who don't want us to live happily... I'm enough I can't hear them I want love which they never give to me
Today I pray GOD to give me strength and courage to end my life. I am worthless and annunwanted piece.
No bro just don't give up
I've done it, i was brought back, i still struggle with it every single day, if it wasn't for the act team i wouldn't b here , but I'm sadly still so soulfully struggling, it is a minute by minute n hr by hr, day by day battle, I dont no if I will win, but I'm trying every second of the day ,.... stay strong !,
Hi rob, you’re doing it and you’re killing it!! Im happy you’re here. Keep living.
May I know the reason
It was a lot of family drama, and it was after the tornado in Joplin mo. In 2011, it would take to long to explain here, but everything changed in seconds, I was just done. BUT I'm still fighting hard every day..
@@robchambers4878 I can not say that you can handle every situation 😁 but who told you to control everything... Get your own car... Your own house... And live it like a king...... When you can't control... Leave it.... There is no other option... Many more things in the world to explore... Not only your family.... 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
The problem with me that I'm having problem with concentration and hallucination since childhood and i went undiagnosed for so long until my whole life completely destroyed It would be better if world health organization give suggestions to countries that every child should be provided with mental health doctor since childhood so that these kind of issues could be avoided
I tried to kill myself 6 times. Now I write music about pain and it makes me feel better. I put the pain into the song and it seems to heal a piece of me.
Seek help
Sideways for attention , straightway for results
Hi are u alive
Look at the good side of dying . You can't complain about anything. Parents aren't pressuring you anymore. You can't disturb anyone none can disturb you . Will your family and close persons be sad ? Off coure and they deserve it cause where were they when you were suffering?After dying you can only Love endlessly...
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Thank you, you talked so kindly. Your words are very true
I lost my only sister due to suicide. .. She was the only girl in my whole grandfather family! We need to help them instead of stigmatizing them
i am really depressed in life.. i really needed someone who understood my condition.. when I was happy all were there.. but now no one is here.. i lost myself I lost everything.. ppl feel suiciding is a wrong decision but life turning so bad at ourselves is unbearable.. as a human i expect someone understood me as well.. I don't have supernatural powers to overcome this condition.. either they make fun of it.. or just say you are too grown up.. sometimes i just want ppl to just listen for a while.. living is also becoming too hard.. neither can i tell parents or friends or anyone.. i am just at the verge of ending all this and leave everyone.. maybe the whole world might be upset.. but everyone will forget and move on.. thank you for speaking on behalf of the ppl who feel this appreciate it😢
Koi nahi sunta, koi nahi sunega. Aur marne k baad sab bolenge ki main tha ushi ne kuch kaha nahi....
Truth💯💯
Jo hum kesi se keh v nhi sakte use kaise sunaye kesi ko koie option hi nhi bacha hai jaise 😢
Truth
Facts
When I've told friends or family I've been thinking about killing myself, every one just gets mad at me. Makes it worse every time
Are you alive?
thank u so much ma'am for giving hope in finding the right path at a crucial point of trying to end things
This is my message to the world. I am suffering and I want to end it all. I do not have the courage, I cannot die, I just am not brave enough. I have no one to talk to. I am just tired, so tired.
Let's help each other I know someone who are brave enough to do suicide can achieve a lot more than the mediocre average humans after all we don't feel pain any longer .
The best thing is to talk with each other. Even I had no one to share . I am all alone.
Same feeling here😢
Same🙂😓
Same
What happens to the soul after suicide? We don't know for sure, but the sages and main religions say it would be a mistake, but surely God would be merciful...
When This Happens You understand nothing, Neither this talk could have helped. Only empathy is the way
If I die all my problems will disappear all at once 🙏🏾😭
This video is really good it talks about all sides of suicidal thought
This video is gold ❤
I failed and I'll never be able to walk ever again, I'll always have to wear a catheter for the rest of my life, I'm 18. I cried for help for 2 years but nobody helped. I'm in a situation which is way worse all I'm doing is just waiting for death to arrive as I can't run into it anymore.
I've been suicidal for three years now. Ready to commit in just a couple weeks, already planned out and everything. Though I would like to add to the title, suicide is not only a cry for help, it could also be a form of atonement for the wrong we've done, speaking from experience of course.
I so deeply hope you have not followed through with this. I know exactly what you're going through but i promise even if i cant see it yet myself, things will get better. truely hope to see a reply
Are you still alive?? Please reply if you see my message
Hey I care about you. Please please reply if you're seeing this message.
Hey bro, don't do it! I too have done a lot of wrongs in my life and think about ending my life all the time too, please talk to me/us or anyone for that matter. If you can't talk to anyone you know, talk to us strangers
I completely understand that
Thanks a lot mam! A very realistic and relevant lecture. And most importantly I have come to know that how to deal with suicidal one even without any professional efficiency
Some time it's too hard to live but it's too easy to die.
I'm 21, earn a basic income. Been in a relationship, everything was good until a year, and then he informed his parents and elder siblings about us. I don't have any friends or older siblings, my parents don't like me either. My parents don't know about him. Everytime we fight he would ask me to leave in the fights. Every night I cry thinking he would leave me, and go through bad lows, tried talking to him about it.
But don't know how to manage myself.
If he doesn't care about you you should break up with him believe me you can't be live with him thinking he will leave you one day 😊 just sharing my thought
Break up wid him tf, ik it's hard but trust me you'll be thanking yourself for it. He doesn't deserve you and I don't think he even loves you. What's the point of staying when he threatens to leave you like that.Leave him before he leaves you and don't say nothin'.
I have been suicidal since two months but I couldn't gather the courage due to remembering my parents face. The thing is that I betrayed someone who meant world to me. And i am in immense after realising what I did. This is something against my morals and values. I have never ever done anything wrong till now but now I spoiled my character. This was never me I cant believe how could I do this. This feeling is not letting me in peace. The guilt of carrying the burden of what I did is so heavy that everyday I think of ending my life. It is getting difficult for me to even look at the mirror because I hate myself for doing something against my morals.
I can completely understand what you are saying. I am going through the same and have been feeling depressed for a long time. I am in so much regret that I just have not been able to forgive myself for losing two good people in my life. What I did was not at all intentional yet it ended my life, ended everything for me. I don’t want to live anymore. Can’t suffer with all this regret all my life:
What have u done that is more precious than ur life 😢
The only thing saving me is being scared of death. After that is my kids. I would be long gone without this fear.
I am suffering from overthinking but no one is there to understand me no one is there to reassure me that nothing will happen you will be alright if i tell my thoughts they just laugh off it .
Hopefully I can end it soon and stop feeling pain. I'm tired.
Sometimes life feels just meaningless. Not sometime, most of the time. It happens to be good for sometimes and again it feels nothing and depressed. I think for somepeople just dying is the best option to have.
I think its better to die than live the life depressed.
Same feeling, I enjoy those rare comfortable and happy moments but most of the time which means every day or hour it's only depressed thoughts. Even meditation, it works but sometimes it feels useless because it keeps coming.
What about your loved ones. Your family members
There is a line in shakespeare's drama "julius ceasar" , "only cassius can free cassius from these bounds"
Very few die due to suicide while intoxicated. taking your life is hard. playing a piano concert is hard. neither is done easily under the influence.
One of the best understanding of human thought process I witnessed today.... Thank you for being there maam for those who need you....
If only there was someone who cared about me enough to ask those questions and show that kind of concern. Like the guy about to jump from the Golden Gate Bridge said (as stated in his suicide letter he left behind), "If only one person smiles at me I'll not jump." ...
Phil Philips
Hi, how are you today? Anything you want to talk about or rant about? I haven't finished the video, so I'm not sure what questions you need. I just wanted to let you know someone cares. I care. Stay strong beautiful human! 💜
@@jasminessomewhere If only that were true. Thank you for taking the time to respond.
Phil Philips
Ya calling me a liar? Just kidding, but seriously. When I say I care, I mean it. I want to help if I can. You should also reach out to the people around you, because there are people there who would help you. Seek help. This is someone giving you that smile.
@@jasminessomewhere The people around me? I've so socially isolated myself that there isn't anyone around me. But maybe that's for the best, not for me but for society in general. Maybe I'm the martyr that life demands so the rest may flourish, like isolating a plague victim to protect everyone else.
@@philphilips1020
I doubt it's good to isolate yourself when you're struggling like this. I don't know if you have family, or you're in school so maybe a counselor? Or there is online support. Please try to care for yourself, you are worth it. You don't have to alienate society, there really is help. I say people around you because I think that might be more helpful than some random person on UA-cam, but I'd still help if there's anything I can do.
The way she talks.. Wow..!!!
Suicide is NOT a cry for help. There is no point in crying for help as there is no help.
I suffer 24 hours a day I have a right to die with dignity
Me too
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Went to a community health clinic. Wanted to be honest, so I told them "I'm thinking suicidal thoughts, I think that's a red flag. I need help". That's why they refused to help me. "We can't see you, you need to go to the emergency room, that's our policy." I explained that the emergency room doesn't see this as an emergency because I haven't actually tried to kill myself (yet), and I can't afford a several thousand dollar emergency room visit. "That's our policy," they said. I'll never make that mistake again. Even the health professionals will alienate you for thinking about suicide. Being suicidal is like having leprosy.
Excellent Talk
Amazing video👌👌👌
Thank you so much for this explanation.
You told us about others who are feeling suicidal and to help them.. but how can one help their own self at this point
In every seconds of my life I thought about suicide because of the pressure from my family, but each day I survive because of God , so what I wish to tell is keep faith in God move on don't worry about the negatives which others around says think about the blessings which god has given it will help us to live that's how I live
so true an watching this with intent
Unfortunatly We are straggling because of the ignorance of others
Yeah but what if you don’t have insurance and can’t afford treatment? If suicide wasn’t meant to happen then it wouldn’t. Some of us are marked for it in a way from the very beginning. “All blooming life you’re feeding, can’t hide sick ones you’re weeding” -God Am- Alice In Chains
What if you tell everyone that you are feeling this way and everyone disregards your feeling. Is there any other reason to live anymore?
I just can't think straight.. Whenever I try to think hard , my brain hurts... I feel like I am useless and there is no use of living .......
I do have a brother to take care of my family.
Thank you 😊
I don't want to die I want to live with my people around. I want to talk to them. I want to be happy with them. I Miss Them
Alive....?
I had a OK life. I graduated and went abroad & so i was earning good. But meanwhile my parents were indulged in fighting with each other over my money. Soon i was totally disturbed by the negative atmosphere they created in home. Even my brother and sister polarized towards each parent. But i was the target of every family member due to my good earnings. Situation was so worse that they blamed me & my money as the main cause of the quarrel. I had to left job to solve their problem BUT nothing solved rather my career got spoiled. I payed for their greed. I don't know what to do now??
You should have group therapy, if they're not getting that they're ruining your life someone should explain it to them.
Really fantastic story u have narrated
At time I just feels like, me dieing willl be the best for my family..
My both parents are psychopaths. And this is just too much to bear, i can't even run away from house, I'm not financially independent yet, this seems like the only way possible
How to persuade depressed people to take clinical treatment to get rid of depression. There are people who are not ready to believe that they need psychiatric treatment. They simply refuse to visit a psychiatrist. What is the solution ?
Because of,
I ve been taking treatments for last 15 years. With multiple doctors.
Till now I ve not get perfect one.
When I take medications I feel it become cure.
Once stopped again it started.
Now I'm confused.. Whether I will come out of it or not.
Thank you, sir
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I tried Effexor for TWO years.
Yawning, lack of sleep, nummed arms, sleepy on daytime.
It took 90 DAYS to kick in.
You need to work out, I mean panting, and let out "toxines". Give a damn -literally- about other's opinions, for a long while.
T r y
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@@9704029192 Try yog. Do surya namaskar. This helped me a lot. I done Sadhguru inmer engineering program but i think surya namaskar helped me the most. I had depression for about 25 years. Now it is under very much control.
I wish somebody heard me through this.
I have a very toxic mother. I lost my father 3 months back. When i take a stand for myself. She does emotional drama and gathers whole family and scream i want to die and all gathering all sympathy and attention. I can't even do anything. I have no one to talk to. I don't know what to do. I'm just dying inside.
Depression is very very scary i suffer from 18 yrs till now 21yrs living my horrible life
I am tired...I am tired of it all...I have tried reaching out to people nobody listens..
I will say only one thing that never forgive people