Nrog koj tu siab niam tais txawm lawv tsis hlub koj los lawv twb yug tau me nyuam thiab lawv yeej yuav tau txais ntau tshaj qhov koj tau ntuj nyob qi qi lawm os
Niam tais aw!!!!! Txoj kev nywv m9v rau me nyuam no mas tsi yog qhov zoo o thaum ub peb yeej ua ib yam li koj thiab niam no peb hloov lawm o mog koj ua lawv tsi noj los txhob chim mog ua me me koj 1 leeg noj xwb txhob txawj 22 tu siab thiaj tsi muaj mob o
It’s very hard on both sides. I live with in laws all my life with my husband’s parents and auntie now is not easy but my in laws were very loving parents and grandparents to my children. I treated them well but sometime we have conflict over things too. We are human and at times we get frustrated. Please be nice and fair to both sides
Niam Ntsuab teev aw cas yuav tu tu siab ua luaj li. Cas tub ua tsi tau txiv li. Cas kuv niam pog tsi Quasius kuv li. Kuv niam pog noj tsi tag kuv tseem khaws noj kuv tsi Quas kuv niam pog li. Wb ib niam txiv nrog wb cov menyuam peb hlub peb niam pog heev li.
What a sad story for Mother's Day. May the heavens see your good heart and not let you live in vain. Why does evil keep reincarnating in every generation? Will we never overcome evil? These sons and their wives live as if their love will run out if they use it on their mother. I know this future is waiting for us all, so be mindful of how you treat your parents. We're all guilty to some extent.
Tus niam tais aw...nrog koj tu siab kawg, cas peb ua neej nyob tsis muaj tub ki los tu2 siab, muaj los thaum kawg lawv twb tsis xav hlub yus ces ho tu2 siab ib zaug thiab. Txij no mus ces ntshe yuav tau txhob hlub cov niag me nyuam no es yus mus nrhiav yus neej ua lawm xwb lau.
Tu me niam tais koj zaj neej neeg nov kuv ke mloog ke quaj os. Ua ca nim cia peb cov me niam tsev lo rau tib nkawm khau zoo li koj. Hlub tej me nyuam tshaj yu txoj sia lo tej tub nyab haj yam siab phem. Thov kom peb ib tsoom ntxhais mus yuav txiv lawm yuav tau hlub niam pog thiab txiv yawg nawv, yog tu twg tsis hlub txoj kev npam nyob ntawm txhua tu lub hauv pliaj yeej yuav khaw tau txoj kev tsim txom ib yam nkau li.
Koj tseem yuav ua niam pog ib yav li koj niam pog thiaj koj tseem yuav tau tu nyab txoj kev phem li koj ua rau koj niam pog thiaj koj lub siab phem koj yeej yuav tau qhov phem xwb. Koj niam pog twb yuav tau txoj kev Kaj siab ho koj cev twb yuav tau nyab los ua li koj ua nta
Me niam aw ua cas tu siab ua luaj yog koj cov nyab tsis hlub koj thiab qias neeg koj los nws yeej yuav npam thiab yuav Txawj laus nws yeej yuav Txawj laus taug koj txoj kev thaum lawv laus lawv cov me nyuam mas Ua li koj cov Nyab ua rau koj os peb ua neeg nyob tsis muaj ib tus neeg twg es yuav Txawj luas ib zaug
Cov nyab tim no na txhob pheej tias tej niam poj txiv yawg muaj2 kab mob txhob los nyob ze tsam kis los yog muaj mob cas khoom txiv neej nej ho noj tas mav ho tsis ntshai ma yog muab hais nej haj yaj yog cov niam pog txiv yawg ntshai hos ua neej nyob peb tsis txawj plhis lub caij laus caum koj txhua hnub txhua hmo txoj kev tsis huv nyias ev rawv nraum nyias lub nruab qaum luag thib tas hnub no koj thiab tag kis xwb koj qias luag ib lwm hnub koj cov yuav qias koj 2 no ov
@@solomoua5520 "We didn't ask to be born." From the mouths of my own kids. Lmao. They wish every day they were never born bc life is so repetitive. Same thing every dang day! Go to school, go to work, come back home. The end. Lmao
@@bchang227 that's true. You give birth you provide for them. They didn't ask to be born. I hate how hmong give birth to children to nqa quav nqa zis. If my kids love me I'm thankful but will not be a burden to them.
@@leelaiyah789 Yep!! That's exactly what I told my kids. I don't want to be a burden but if they want to pitch in money, they can. If not, I don't care.
Txhob tu siab os mog…..koj cov Nyab yeej yuav tau koj txoj kev kho siab coj mus ev os….los Ua luag ib zaug Nyab es cas yuav siab phem ua luaj li os….nej cov Nyab mas yuav khaum loj heev nawb….nim no lub ntuj nyob Qis2 kawg Ua hnub no npam tag kis os nej cov Nyab mas tseem yuav tsim nej loj tshaj nej Ua rau nej Niam os…..nawb.
Txoj kev laus qhia tsi dhau mog...Kev npam nyob ze2 peb sawv daws nawb hmoob aw...Lawv aw peb sawv daws puav leej muaj kev npam nrog peb nawb vim peb yeej muaj me tub me nyuam ib yam nkaus li yus niam thiab yus txiv lawv mog...Txiv tsev yog tsi hlub koj niam no peb xav tau koj niam los ua kuv niam os tus tsev aw.
Nrog koj tu siab os tus niam tais. Txhua yam koj hais yeej yog tas. Tshuav qhov uas lawv muab pam pua sofa rau koj zaum, qhov no ces txhob tu siab mog peb txhua tus yeej yuav ntsib tab sis muab xav tias yog yus tsis muaj tom xib lawm es ua rau tej chaw zaum tsw2 phem ces tsam muaj qhua tuaj luag tsis xav zaum yus tej sofa, yog li nej cov laus yuav tau ua siab ntev rau qhov no es txhob muab ua kev tu siab nawb.
Tus me niam tsev aw, txhob tu siab heev2 thiab os mog. Peb los ua neeg ces txhua tus yuav tau laus ib yam nkaus es ib hnub tom ntej txoj kev laus yeej yuav los txog rau koj cov nyab thiab os mog. Txiv neeg ces yeej tuag rau poj niam ob ceg li koj cov niag tub es koj cov niag nyab thiaj cem thiab saib tsis tau koj li ko. Koj kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej xwb os nawb!
Niam tais aw.. txhob tu siab mog vim u ruam u es tsi mu yuav txiv tej tub hlub u lo twj nyab yeej tsi hlub u li o niam tai tej zaum koj tu nyab yuav nplis tsi txawj laus kiag pob ua neej nyob dhiag tsi dhau txoj ke laus ib hnub twg koj tu nyab yuav tau taug ke nws ua rau koj lo ma
Don't cry alone sister! I've seen this happened where the daughter in law(s) have amazing in laws but they still treat them like poo. Shoot if I have an amazing mother in law like you I would be blessed. Your sons needs to man up for goodness sake. Would their wives like it if your sons treated their parents like poo too? I bet not. Karma is real!
It's sad hearing a story like this but there are always two sides to a story and everyone only tells their side. I will say as anything in life, when it's made into an obligation there will always be times when it's not rainbows and unicorns. I can hear how sad the mom is.
Yes there is two sides to a story but this story isn’t about the other side. This story is about the mother’s side. Let her tell her story without you wanting to bring someone else’s side into this story. One day you will tell a story looking for empathy and sympathy and someone is going to say “what about the other side?”
Yog koj tsis hlub koj tu niam pog es yog koj tu tis nyab tsis hlub koj niam yug koj no ces txhob cem koj tu tis nyab nawb...yog koj cem koj tu tis nyab es tig rov saib koj tu kheej os
Tu siab heev li os thooj kiag li kuv lub neej thiab os kv yog kv niam ib leeg ntxhais kuv cov nyab g hlub kv niam li zaj dab neeg no thiab kv txiv nim tuag ntxov2 lm 😭😭😭
Thov ua neeg hlub tej laus nawb. Yog nej Xav kom nej niam taus kev hlub li cas ces thov hlub nej tus niam pog li ntawd xwb. Vim sawv daws khiav tsis dim kev laus.
tus niam tais aw tej zaum koj tus nyab nws yuav tsis txawj laus os tej zaum nws yuav txawj plis os mog xob tu siab os mog ib hnoob twg nws yuav taug koj tus hneev taw os mog
Mus yuav txiv los lawv yuav txom nyem tsis mus Los yus ho yog tus txom nyem, tej Niag nyab no ntshe yuav tsis txawj laus es ntshe yuav phlis xwb los cas na tos luag hais tias hmoob hmoob no yog tiag Lau😄😁😁
Tej kwv tij no tseem yuav tau ntiav thiab li no es tseem suav tias yog kwv tij hmoob lub siab os yom.tej nyab no yeej yuav txawj laws nws tej yeej yuav ua rau nws tiam no lub ntuj nyob qes2 ua hnub no npam tag kws ntag hov.
Me viv ncaus aw yog tias lawv yug tsis tau tub ces lawv yuav tsis tau npam tab sis lawv twb yug tau tub ces lawv yeej yuav tau npam ib yam li koj os thiab lawv yuav muaj kab mob ib yam li koj mog peb hlub koj os .
Hais rau niam tais uas nws tham nws lub neej tu siab tias kom nws txhawb zog rau nws tus kheej es nws lub zog thiaj pab nws no nawv tej kev ntxub ntxaug ces nyuj ua nyuj thauj nées ua nées ris xwb no os mog
God bless this Mom.🙏 I’m glad that most of our younger Hmong generation is more understanding and won’t be relying on our kids to take care of us. Glad we have old home care hospitals.
I don't know about hmong parents but i already plan to stay at nursing home when I'm old. I don't want to be a burden to anyone. We want to heard both side of the story cause we don't know the truth.
Bingo!!! There are plenty of retirement homes these days. They are pricey but start saving now plus insurance covers a portion of it, too. When we get old, we can't put that responsibility on our kids. I, too, don't want to be a burden on anyone. I think you'll have a better relationship with your nyabs and vauvs if you are more independent and not rely so heavily on your sons and daughters.
Just bc you’re younger generation so of course it’s easy for you to say. This grandma is from older generation and stay a widow just to cared for her children. She deserved to be treated with love and respect.
@@xayxiong1061 well there's 2 sides to every story so we don't know the truth because we don't live with them. We all entitled to our opinion and that's my opinion.
A happy Mother’s Day to this grandma. I’m so sorry you’re going through such an emotional life. Do not blame yourself. Your sons are supposed to love you. Those daughter in-laws are just selfish pricks. They don’t even realize that they too will grow old and nasty. How could you say such a thing to an elderly!!! I hate people who claims that elderlies are nasty, sick and dirty. If it’s like that then do it for them! They raised your kids, but when they are no longer of use to you then they’re nasty??? They are sick??? Wow. I hope you eat your own feces when you’re at your mil’s age. SMH. I am so angry at stupid selfish ladies like these nyabs. I would never teach my kids to be disgusted of their own grandparents. If only we all can teach our kids to love and be fair to the elderlies, none of them will suffer like this grandma. It is because of people like those dumb nyabs who teaches their kids to discriminate against their own grandparents and stupid wives who are jealous of their husbands’ love for his family. If you can’t get yourself to love your in-laws then don’t marry their son. Don’t take their son away from his parents. You expect him to love your parents, but you hate his parents. How is that fair?
Cuag li yuav hais siab cov ntxhais. Thov kom peb ib tsoom ntxhais yuav tau xyaum ua siab loj, thiab yuav tau pab yus tus txiv hlub lawv niam thiab txiv thiab os pen ib tsoom me ntxhais.
While they mean, I hope it’s a lesson for all parents to not live with their adult children. Also, save for your own retirement instead of giving them all your money and time expecting them to automatically care for you later. Main evil is the culture/religion. To divide that sons are more important than daughters. Divide children from parents just bc is remarrying etc. if your a widow, remarry or live by yourself. Don’t be a burden to your kids. Let your children be adults to grow and care for their own families.
Such sad story, it's sad that the sons can't defend their moms and have their wives do that to their parents. The hardships that our parents goes through, they don't deserve this. Not everyone is perfect, mother in laws nor daughter inlaws. Remember everyone will get old. Karma will come get it. My kids love my mother in law so much, I will never in my mind say anything horrible about their grandma to my kids. These womans are horrible. At times I get mad at my mother in law for not letting me wash her clothes, sometimes when she cooks, I'm like why this old lady don't cook for me and my family too. Lol.
Kav liam mas, tsuav koj cov tub twb hais qhov tseeb rau koj mas, tej nyab tej vauv ces nco ntsoov hais tias lawv twb tsis yog yus yug es luag yuav ua li cas hlub yus naw
Tus niam tais txhob tu siab mog tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb, kuv niam wb twb taug txoj kev no los, es kuv niam twb tuag lawm, kuv ces nco kuv niam kawg, niaj hnub no ces kuv ua li koj cov lus hais rau koj tus me ntxhais xwb, tu siab kawg li os.
You are a good example of a good son with a good nyab. That is why they say it is the nyab's ability her willingness to take care of the in-laws. Cherish your wife for she is a good person.
Such a sad story! Your son needs to be a man. Don’t be scared if your wife can’t handle facts to treat in-laws or elders evenly. Always treat elders and in-laws like if they were your real parents under circumstances.
God bless you grandma. You're a great mother and mother in law. I don't understand why these nyab, how would they feel if their own mom was mistreated like this by their nyab
Omgosh...KARMA knows everyone's addresses. Shame on these kind of nyab and the parents that raised these kind of daughters 😡. All my sister in laws the same way.
She should have remarried, have a husband long time ago. Leave them to be orphan. That's y nowadays women rather remarried alot. The OG back them thinks different
Yog nyab thiab niam pog sib haum ces meskas teb twg g los tsim kom muaj cov tsev laus no ntau ua luaj mas .ua neej nyob ces zoo thaum yus tseem ua tau noj g muaj mob ces yus thiaj muaj nqes xwb os me niam tais aw
Ntuj aws may aws koj hais rau tus niam tsev Kom tias Kom nws tsis txhob tu soab no os mog vim kuv lub neej los zoo ib yam li Kom thiab os thaum kuv tus txiv mus yuav niam yau lawm wb sib tso. Es kuv muaj 39 xyoo xwb es kuv twb tsis mus ua lub neej tshiab li vim kuv hlub kuv 4 tug me nyuam vim kuv uug tau 2 tug tuv 2 tug ntxhais es kuv tsis xav Kom kuv cov me nyuam txom nyem no os ces niam no lawv mus muaj neej tag lawm ces zoo lawv tsis xav hlub yus lawm os vim tab sis yus twb musj 50 laem no os qhia li rau nws os mog es tsis yog nws ib leeg xwb no os mog
Cov nyab nim no mas phem tiag222 lwm hnub lawv cov mam los tsim ntau tshaj li lawv ua rau koj mog cov niag tub dev no ces hais tsis taus ib los li siab phem npaum li no xav yuav luag tej nyiaj xwb hos tsis xav hlub tsis ntshai npam li kev npam kev laus yeej yuav los ncaum cuag ib hnub xwb
A sad story. My mom lived with me to the end but I had the same issues like this mom said. Most of the sons who love their spouses have been internally suffered. Because they could not do to favor the mom kind to mom would make the wives jealous and paired the son and mom. Why most of the nyaab would be like that. They never feel appreciated of having parents live with but so selfish. Karma go around come around.
Uh oh! Time to tell that wooden bowl story! American people have such a story too. There is this son n daughter in-law did not love the father n never let him eat dinner with them. They made him eat in a wooden bowl at a separate table. So, one day, the grandson was carving a wooden bowl. And the daughter in-law asked why he was carving a wooden bowl? The grandson replied "oh, I made it for you n dad" to use when you are old. Kids watch n learned what they see.🤣 To their shocking, started from that day on, no more eating in the wooden bowl at a separate table! 🥰
Txhob tu siab os.. cia koj xeeb ntxwv mam tsim koj cov nyab li lawv tsim koj os
nej cov nyab hmoob meskas mas siab me tiag2 li
Txaus hlub kawg rxoj kev ua noj ua haus ua ua tuag kus los tseem yuav tsum ua os hmoob aw txoj kev rxom nyem cas yuav hkiav rsis dhau li os !
Wow tu siab tiag2 peb txhua tus yeej yuav tsis dim txoj kev laus no txhob ntxub koj niam mog
Txhob hlub cov tub heev2 thiab mog thov hlub peb cov ntxhai thiab tub nyab yeej 5sis hlub nej npaum li peb cov ntxhai nawb
Tus niam tsev aw txhob tus siab mog tej nyab hlub yus li cas ces lwm hnub nws yuav tau txais li ntawd rov qab thiab os mog
Agreed
Nrog koj tu siab niam tais txawm lawv tsis hlub koj los lawv twb yug tau me nyuam thiab lawv yeej yuav tau txais ntau tshaj qhov koj tau ntuj nyob qi qi lawm os
Niam tais aw!!!!! Txoj kev nywv m9v rau me nyuam no mas tsi yog qhov zoo o thaum ub peb yeej ua ib yam li koj thiab niam no peb hloov lawm o mog koj ua lawv tsi noj los txhob chim mog ua me me koj 1 leeg noj xwb txhob txawj 22 tu siab thiaj tsi muaj mob o
Ib leeg niam zoo aw ib leev niam yug tau 10 leej me nyuam hlob 10 leej me nyuam yug tsis taus ib leeg niam tuag os hmoob aw
Hmoob
Tej me nyuam tiam no ces tsi Cia siab rau li o
Peb ua neeg nyob mas tsis muaj yus tus txiv lawm tu siab tshaj plaws li os ib Tsoom Me phooj ywg aw
It’s very hard on both sides. I live with in laws all my life with my husband’s parents and auntie now is not easy but my in laws were very loving parents and grandparents to my children. I treated them well but sometime we have conflict over things too. We are human and at times we get frustrated. Please be nice and fair to both sides
Tej nyab ntawv es niam yuav tsis txawj laus cas lau siab li ntawv ces tseem yuav txom nyem tshaj pob.
Niam Ntsuab teev aw cas yuav tu tu siab ua luaj li. Cas tub ua tsi tau txiv li. Cas kuv niam pog tsi Quasius kuv li. Kuv niam pog noj tsi tag kuv tseem khaws noj kuv tsi Quas kuv niam pog li. Wb ib niam txiv nrog wb cov menyuam peb hlub peb niam pog heev li.
Zoo rau qrhov koj tus tub tseem txawj Xav os
Kuv tu siab heev vim niam txiv hlub cov tub dua tab si thaum kawg cov nyab ho tsi yuav niam thiab txiv
Pab koj tu siab kawg li thiab os tus mi vivncau aw.!!!
Peb ua nyab peb xav tau tus niam pog es hlub peb. Tau hlub cov laus thiab tau ntuj ntoos.
What a sad story for Mother's Day. May the heavens see your good heart and not let you live in vain. Why does evil keep reincarnating in every generation? Will we never overcome evil? These sons and their wives live as if their love will run out if they use it on their mother. I know this future is waiting for us all, so be mindful of how you treat your parents. We're all guilty to some extent.
Agreed 💯
Tus niam tais aw...nrog koj tu siab kawg, cas peb ua neej nyob tsis muaj tub ki los tu2 siab, muaj los thaum kawg lawv twb tsis xav hlub yus ces ho tu2 siab ib zaug thiab. Txij no mus ces ntshe yuav tau txhob hlub cov niag me nyuam no es yus mus nrhiav yus neej ua lawm xwb lau.
Tu me niam tais koj zaj neej neeg nov kuv ke mloog ke quaj os. Ua ca nim cia peb cov me niam tsev lo rau tib nkawm khau zoo li koj. Hlub tej me nyuam tshaj yu txoj sia lo tej tub nyab haj yam siab phem. Thov kom peb ib tsoom ntxhais mus yuav txiv lawm yuav tau hlub niam pog thiab txiv yawg nawv, yog tu twg tsis hlub txoj kev npam nyob ntawm txhua tu lub hauv pliaj yeej yuav khaw tau txoj kev tsim txom ib yam nkau li.
Yog niam tai yawm txiv zoo ce tub nyab zoo
Koj tseem yuav ua niam pog ib yav li koj niam pog thiaj koj tseem yuav tau tu nyab txoj kev phem li koj ua rau koj niam pog thiaj koj lub siab phem koj yeej yuav tau qhov phem xwb. Koj niam pog twb yuav tau txoj kev Kaj siab ho koj cev twb yuav tau nyab los ua li koj ua nta
Me niam aw ua cas tu siab ua luaj yog koj cov nyab tsis hlub koj thiab qias neeg koj los nws yeej yuav npam thiab yuav Txawj laus nws yeej yuav Txawj laus taug koj txoj kev thaum lawv laus lawv cov me nyuam mas Ua li koj cov Nyab ua rau koj os peb ua neeg nyob tsis muaj ib tus neeg twg es yuav Txawj luas ib zaug
Thov txhob hlub cov tub lawm nawb tig lo hlub peb cov ntxhai thiab nawb mog
Tus siab kawg li os
Cov nyab tim no na txhob pheej tias tej niam poj txiv yawg muaj2 kab mob txhob los nyob ze tsam kis los yog muaj mob cas khoom txiv neej nej ho noj tas mav ho tsis ntshai ma yog muab hais nej haj yaj yog cov niam pog txiv yawg ntshai hos ua neej nyob peb tsis txawj plhis lub caij laus caum koj txhua hnub txhua hmo txoj kev tsis huv nyias ev rawv nraum nyias lub nruab qaum luag thib tas hnub no koj thiab tag kis xwb koj qias luag ib lwm hnub koj cov yuav qias koj 2 no ov
Tu siab heev og
This is why it's ok if you don't have kids.
Talk about this new generation yes
They don’t deserve love 😞
@@solomoua5520 "We didn't ask to be born." From the mouths of my own kids. Lmao. They wish every day they were never born bc life is so repetitive. Same thing every dang day! Go to school, go to work, come back home. The end. Lmao
@@bchang227 kids these days, they don’t appreciate the freedom that they’re horned into. Sad!
@@bchang227 that's true. You give birth you provide for them. They didn't ask to be born. I hate how hmong give birth to children to nqa quav nqa zis. If my kids love me I'm thankful but will not be a burden to them.
@@leelaiyah789 Yep!! That's exactly what I told my kids. I don't want to be a burden but if they want to pitch in money, they can. If not, I don't care.
Txhob tu siab os mog…..koj cov Nyab yeej yuav tau koj txoj kev kho siab coj mus ev os….los Ua luag ib zaug Nyab es cas yuav siab phem ua luaj li os….nej cov Nyab mas yuav khaum loj heev nawb….nim no lub ntuj nyob Qis2 kawg Ua hnub no npam tag kis os nej cov Nyab mas tseem yuav tsim nej loj tshaj nej Ua rau nej Niam os…..nawb.
Txoj kev laus qhia tsi dhau mog...Kev npam nyob ze2 peb sawv daws nawb hmoob aw...Lawv aw peb sawv daws puav leej muaj kev npam nrog peb nawb vim peb yeej muaj me tub me nyuam ib yam nkaus li yus niam thiab yus txiv lawv mog...Txiv tsev yog tsi hlub koj niam no peb xav tau koj niam los ua kuv niam os tus tsev aw.
Kv niam zaj tseem tu siab tshaj lawm thiab o niam laus kv xv xa tuaj rau koj hai thiab o niam laus
Nrog koj tu siab os tus niam tais. Txhua yam koj hais yeej yog tas. Tshuav qhov uas lawv muab pam pua sofa rau koj zaum, qhov no ces txhob tu siab mog peb txhua tus yeej yuav ntsib tab sis muab xav tias yog yus tsis muaj tom xib lawm es ua rau tej chaw zaum tsw2 phem ces tsam muaj qhua tuaj luag tsis xav zaum yus tej sofa, yog li nej cov laus yuav tau ua siab ntev rau qhov no es txhob muab ua kev tu siab nawb.
Tus me niam tsev aw, txhob tu siab heev2 thiab os mog. Peb los ua neeg ces txhua tus yuav tau laus ib yam nkaus es ib hnub tom ntej txoj kev laus yeej yuav los txog rau koj cov nyab thiab os mog. Txiv neeg ces yeej tuag rau poj niam ob ceg li koj cov niag tub es koj cov niag nyab thiaj cem thiab saib tsis tau koj li ko. Koj kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej xwb os nawb!
Niam tais aw.. txhob tu siab mog vim u ruam u es tsi mu yuav txiv tej tub hlub u lo twj nyab yeej tsi hlub u li o niam tai tej zaum koj tu nyab yuav nplis tsi txawj laus kiag pob ua neej nyob dhiag tsi dhau txoj ke laus ib hnub twg koj tu nyab yuav tau taug ke nws ua rau koj lo ma
Don't cry alone sister! I've seen this happened where the daughter in law(s) have amazing in laws but they still treat them like poo. Shoot if I have an amazing mother in law like you I would be blessed. Your sons needs to man up for goodness sake. Would their wives like it if your sons treated their parents like poo too? I bet not. Karma is real!
It's sad hearing a story like this but there are always two sides to a story and everyone only tells their side. I will say as anything in life, when it's made into an obligation there will always be times when it's not rainbows and unicorns. I can hear how sad the mom is.
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Yes there is two sides to a story but this story isn’t about the other side. This story is about the mother’s side. Let her tell her story without you wanting to bring someone else’s side into this story.
One day you will tell a story looking for empathy and sympathy and someone is going to say “what about the other side?”
Ca yuav hlub tu me niam pogno ua luaj li o
Yog koj tsis hlub koj tu niam pog es yog koj tu tis nyab tsis hlub koj niam yug koj no ces txhob cem koj tu tis nyab nawb...yog koj cem koj tu tis nyab es tig rov saib koj tu kheej os
Tu siab heev li os thooj kiag li kuv lub neej thiab os kv yog kv niam ib leeg ntxhais kuv cov nyab g hlub kv niam li zaj dab neeg no thiab kv txiv nim tuag ntxov2 lm 😭😭😭
Thov ua neeg hlub tej laus nawb. Yog nej Xav kom nej niam taus kev hlub li cas ces thov hlub nej tus niam pog li ntawd xwb. Vim sawv daws khiav tsis dim kev laus.
Agreed
Happy Mother’s Day to all my Mom in the world 🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼
We are daughters and daughters-in-law and we will be grandparents one day. Please be kind and respectful to the elders.
Wow..i can not hold back my tears...it is very true sad story..
Yog yus tsis xav kom yus cov me nyuam noj Pog li ces yus yuav tsum ua kom. ntau2 ciab rau yus cov me nyuam noj es lawv thiaj tsis mu noj Pog li nawb
Kav liam niam tais muaj ib hnub koj tus nyab lawv yeej yuav tau txais xwb os
It’s sad to have a sister in law like that. You have a mom too. How would you feel if your sister-in-law treated your mom the same?
tus niam tais aw tej zaum koj tus nyab nws yuav tsis txawj laus os tej zaum nws yuav txawj plis os mog xob tu siab os mog ib hnoob twg nws yuav taug koj tus hneev taw os mog
Mus yuav txiv los lawv yuav txom nyem tsis mus Los yus ho yog tus txom nyem, tej Niag nyab no ntshe yuav tsis txawj laus es ntshe yuav phlis xwb los cas na tos luag hais tias hmoob hmoob no yog tiag Lau😄😁😁
Tej kwv tij no tseem yuav tau ntiav thiab li no es tseem suav tias yog
kwv tij hmoob lub siab os yom.tej nyab no yeej yuav txawj laws nws tej yeej yuav ua rau nws tiam no lub ntuj nyob qes2 ua hnub no npam tag kws ntag hov.
Me viv ncaus aw yog tias lawv yug tsis tau tub ces lawv yuav tsis tau npam tab sis lawv twb yug tau tub ces lawv yeej yuav tau npam ib yam li koj os thiab lawv yuav muaj kab mob ib yam li koj mog peb hlub koj os .
Hais rau niam tais uas nws tham nws lub neej tu siab tias kom nws txhawb zog rau nws tus kheej es nws lub zog thiaj pab nws no nawv tej kev ntxub ntxaug ces nyuj ua nyuj thauj nées ua nées ris xwb no os mog
Sister every sad😭😭you are a good mother to protect your children in time of your life god bless you🙏🏼🙏🏼
No matter what, your son still loves you. That’s what matter.
God bless this Mom.🙏
I’m glad that most of our younger Hmong generation is more understanding and won’t be relying on our kids to take care of us. Glad we have old home care hospitals.
😭😭😭😭😭😥😥😥😥
Tiam no peb tsis thas them nqi miv nqi hno li lawm. Nyab tiam no nkim nyiaj xwb. Thaum kawg yus cov tub twb hlub tsis taus yus thiab vim tus nyab xwb.
I don't know about hmong parents but i already plan to stay at nursing home when I'm old. I don't want to be a burden to anyone. We want to heard both side of the story cause we don't know the truth.
Bingo!!! There are plenty of retirement homes these days. They are pricey but start saving now plus insurance covers a portion of it, too. When we get old, we can't put that responsibility on our kids. I, too, don't want to be a burden on anyone. I think you'll have a better relationship with your nyabs and vauvs if you are more independent and not rely so heavily on your sons and daughters.
Just bc you’re younger generation so of course it’s easy for you to say. This grandma is from older generation and stay a widow just to cared for her children. She deserved to be treated with love and respect.
@@xayxiong1061 well there's 2 sides to every story so we don't know the truth because we don't live with them. We all entitled to our opinion and that's my opinion.
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cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os....ntshe muaj ib hnub kuv yuav tau taug txoj me kev nyuab siab li no thiab os. vim kuv tsuas muaj tub coob xwb
Dam!!!! Y these good mother in law get the mean nyab xwb n the good nyab get the evil mother in law. You don't hear much about both get along.
I’m the only girl too. So sad what the mom’s message to the daughter.
Tej xaum koj yog dev thawj e koj tiaj li cem tsi tau koj tu poj niam zoo li koj ce txhob ua txiv neej lawm nawb mog
Une bonne leçon de vie. A écouter avec tristesse.
A happy Mother’s Day to this grandma. I’m so sorry you’re going through such an emotional life. Do not blame yourself. Your sons are supposed to love you. Those daughter in-laws are just selfish pricks. They don’t even realize that they too will grow old and nasty. How could you say such a thing to an elderly!!! I hate people who claims that elderlies are nasty, sick and dirty. If it’s like that then do it for them! They raised your kids, but when they are no longer of use to you then they’re nasty??? They are sick??? Wow. I hope you eat your own feces when you’re at your mil’s age. SMH. I am so angry at stupid selfish ladies like these nyabs. I would never teach my kids to be disgusted of their own grandparents. If only we all can teach our kids to love and be fair to the elderlies, none of them will suffer like this grandma. It is because of people like those dumb nyabs who teaches their kids to discriminate against their own grandparents and stupid wives who are jealous of their husbands’ love for his family. If you can’t get yourself to love your in-laws then don’t marry their son. Don’t take their son away from his parents. You expect him to love your parents, but you hate his parents. How is that fair?
Agreed
Agreed 💯
Some tried hard to love the mil, but u recv only hatred. But I will never treat mil like this Bc I believe in karma.
That’s almost every Nyab in America nowadays
Cuag li yuav hais siab cov ntxhais. Thov kom peb ib tsoom ntxhais yuav tau xyaum ua siab loj, thiab yuav tau pab yus tus txiv hlub lawv niam thiab txiv thiab os pen ib tsoom me ntxhais.
Twb yog cov txiv kom cov pojniam tu thiab hlub niam pog thiab txiv yawg hos cov txiv nyob cem thiab saib xwb. Cov tub yuav tsum pab cov nyab thiab hos, cov nyab ib leeg tu xwb thiaj dhuav2.
While they mean, I hope it’s a lesson for all parents to not live with their adult children. Also, save for your own retirement instead of giving them all your money and time expecting them to automatically care for you later.
Main evil is the culture/religion. To divide that sons are more important than daughters. Divide children from parents just bc is remarrying etc. if your a widow, remarry or live by yourself. Don’t be a burden to your kids. Let your children be adults to grow and care for their own families.
Such sad story, it's sad that the sons can't defend their moms and have their wives do that to their parents. The hardships that our parents goes through, they don't deserve this. Not everyone is perfect, mother in laws nor daughter inlaws. Remember everyone will get old. Karma will come get it. My kids love my mother in law so much, I will never in my mind say anything horrible about their grandma to my kids. These womans are horrible. At times I get mad at my mother in law for not letting me wash her clothes, sometimes when she cooks, I'm like why this old lady don't cook for me and my family too. Lol.
Remember women and men Hmong Americans go around comes around
Kav liam mas, tsuav koj cov tub twb hais qhov tseeb rau koj mas, tej nyab tej vauv ces nco ntsoov hais tias lawv twb tsis yog yus yug es luag yuav ua li cas hlub yus naw
Tus niam tais txhob tu siab mog tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb, kuv niam wb twb taug txoj kev no los, es kuv niam twb tuag lawm, kuv ces nco kuv niam kawg, niaj hnub no ces kuv ua li koj cov lus hais rau koj tus me ntxhais xwb, tu siab kawg li os.
tos tej laus hais tias 9 leeg tub g tsis cuag ib leeg txiv no los yog tiag
Cov niag nyab xab maim Nov ces tej zaum lawv tsi txawj laus thisb lawv tsi txawj tuag li os niam tais
I'm glad my wife takes care of my mom better than I do. She reminds me to cherish my limited time with mom. These evil nyabs are beeches...
You are a good example of a good son with a good nyab. That is why they say it is the nyab's ability her willingness to take care of the in-laws. Cherish your wife for she is a good person.
So sad! I'm so glad I get to love my mother-in-law this lifetime. I wish she would of lived longer so I can still take care of her ❤
Vuag yus niam xwb es hais ab tsi li ntawv nas. Phem ua luaj
Such a sad story! Your son needs to be a man. Don’t be scared if your wife can’t handle facts to treat in-laws or elders evenly. Always treat elders and in-laws like if they were your real parents under circumstances.
God bless you grandma. You're a great mother and mother in law. I don't understand why these nyab, how would they feel if their own mom was mistreated like this by their nyab
Cov nyab phem ce tim niam tai yawm txiv xwb o
Tais koj txawm mus yuav txiv los koj cov me nyuam tshiab yeej tsi hlub koj 1 yam thiab o
Txhob tus siab koj tus tub twb tsis cem koj. Tus nyab xwb txhob tas kev cias siab mog txoj kev laus txhuas tus yeej hlas tsis dhaus lis.
Omgosh...KARMA knows everyone's addresses. Shame on these kind of nyab and the parents that raised these kind of daughters 😡. All my sister in laws the same way.
She should have remarried, have a husband long time ago. Leave them to be orphan. That's y nowadays women rather remarried alot. The OG back them thinks different
Karma is coming right up!
Ces kuv yuav hlub koj ua luaj li os
Cov nyab tam sim no ces yeej siab phem li no nawb lawv aw...
Yog koj qias qias koj tu niam pog.....koj tu tis nyab ho qias qias koj niam yug koj no koj ho xav li cas....
Mloog nawj peb cov tsis tau mus ua nyab no na... mam li xyaum mus hlub niam pog seb😂😂
Yog nyab thiab niam pog sib haum ces meskas teb twg g los tsim kom muaj cov tsev laus no ntau ua luaj mas .ua neej nyob ces zoo thaum yus tseem ua tau noj g muaj mob ces yus thiaj muaj nqes xwb os me niam tais aw
Nrog koj tu2 siab heev li os niam tias a😭😭😭❤❤❤
Koj cov nyab yog cov niag tsiaj liam liam nyob Africa los thawj thiaj li tsis txawj hlub yus niam na.
tus me niam tsev aw txhob tu siab os tiam 21 no peb cov tub muab mloog lus dhau lawm
should of gotten the new D and still raise your kid, but it is what it is now. GG
Ntuj aws may aws koj hais rau tus niam tsev Kom tias Kom nws tsis txhob tu soab no os mog vim kuv lub neej los zoo ib yam li Kom thiab os thaum kuv tus txiv mus yuav niam yau lawm wb sib tso. Es kuv muaj 39 xyoo xwb es kuv twb tsis mus ua lub neej tshiab li vim kuv hlub kuv 4 tug me nyuam vim kuv uug tau 2 tug tuv 2 tug ntxhais es kuv tsis xav Kom kuv cov me nyuam txom nyem no os ces niam no lawv mus muaj neej tag lawm ces zoo lawv tsis xav hlub yus lawm os vim tab sis yus twb musj 50 laem no os qhia li rau nws os mog es tsis yog nws ib leeg xwb no os mog
Hmoob mas ntshaw noj tshaj plaws. Kuv mas mus pab cov txhais yim neeg kuv yeej tsis yuav. Pab lub siab dawb paug xwb tiag tiag.
Nej sawm tsis taus niam txoj hmoov hlo li xav kom zoo nawj
Cov nyab nim no mas phem tiag222 lwm hnub lawv cov mam los tsim ntau tshaj li lawv ua rau koj mog cov niag tub dev no ces hais tsis taus ib los li siab phem npaum li no xav yuav luag tej nyiaj xwb hos tsis xav hlub tsis ntshai npam li kev npam kev laus yeej yuav los ncaum cuag ib hnub xwb
I hate man that can not do his job. As now i hate myself.
cov niag nyab kom yuav phem ua luaj phem npaum kom tseem yuav muaj tej niag plab raub ab tsw. yuav npam xwb mas. thov kom npam. yuav npam loj dua koj 10 npaug heev neeg muaj heev tswm
A sad story. My mom lived with me to the end but I had the same issues like this mom said. Most of the sons who love their spouses have been internally suffered. Because they could not do to favor the mom kind to mom would make the wives jealous and paired the son and mom. Why most of the nyaab would be like that. They never feel appreciated of having parents live with but so selfish. Karma go around come around.
Uh oh! Time to tell that wooden bowl story! American people have such a story too. There is this son n daughter in-law did not love the father n never let him eat dinner with them. They made him eat in a wooden bowl at a separate table. So, one day, the grandson was carving a wooden bowl. And the daughter in-law asked why he was carving a wooden bowl? The grandson replied "oh, I made it for you n dad" to use when you are old. Kids watch n learned what they see.🤣 To their shocking, started from that day on, no more eating in the wooden bowl at a separate table! 🥰