Andrew SCHOOLS a FEMINIST say Emotional TRAUMA is Worse than DЕАTH

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 177

  • @ArionNoble
    @ArionNoble 5 днів тому +63

    Pure nonsense. They just enjoy being victims.

    • @Sharkroars
      @Sharkroars 5 днів тому +1

      Look at it this way... Men and Women are two sides of the same coin *human race coin* and we are completely opposite. So if as a Men you are repolsed, opposed or hate/unlike being a victim, thn naturally as being the opposite of you... Women actualy preferred, gravitated or love/likes being a victim. It's simple as that and you can see it everyday all around you.😂

    • @kdworak4754
      @kdworak4754 4 години тому

      Right, and as soon as you realize they're all like that, you'll be able to realize that you need to train your girl. PATRICE ONEAL explains this perfectly.

  • @andremitchell5618
    @andremitchell5618 5 днів тому +32

    How are u a victim for looking after your OWN kids..... crazy!

    • @Sharkroars
      @Sharkroars 5 днів тому

      Look at it this way... Men and Women are two sides of the same coin *human race coin* and we are completely opposite. So if as a Men you are repolsed, opposed or hate/unlike being a victim, thn naturally as being the opposite of you... Women actualy preferred, gravitated or love/likes being a victim. It's simple as that and you can see it everyday all around you.😂

    • @user-uc5sn4tp3f
      @user-uc5sn4tp3f 10 годин тому

      Kind of points out an inherent hypocrisy.
      Nowadays - Single Motherhood is praised and encouraged , and they don't need no stinking men .
      Back then - They were Traumatized and devastated by having their men serving in the Millitary ( or relocated for Defense Work ) .
      Both of these can't be true at the same time .

  • @stanleysylvain4793
    @stanleysylvain4793 5 днів тому +17

    So if emotional victimization is as equal as physical victimization, then should women get arrested for victimizing their spouse emotionally?

  • @chadwickpuffington
    @chadwickpuffington 2 дні тому +11

    If everyone is a victim, then no one is a victim.

  • @kingcane5819
    @kingcane5819 5 днів тому +14

    Not being able to answer simple questions HONESTLY is proof that person won't be a good leader

  • @thetrumpnewsnetwork7503
    @thetrumpnewsnetwork7503 5 днів тому +22

    Poor Andrew. He is clearly the victim here.

    • @shanenolan5625
      @shanenolan5625 5 днів тому +4

      As are we having to listen

    • @tonyquest87
      @tonyquest87 2 дні тому

      Between these dumb bimbos and Brian's indecisive talking points, Andrew needs a purple heart.

  • @alexpate3062
    @alexpate3062 5 днів тому +28

    In war, everyone does suffer, but you can't tell me the one that lives suffered as much as the dead. Sure, the dead can't suffer, but there's a reason we say, "War is hell."

    • @joffyjoffa
      @joffyjoffa 5 днів тому +8

      EXACTLY and she doesn't want to answer or says she doesn't know everytime she gets proven wrong. If deflecting and delusion was a person smh 🤦🏽‍♂️. There is no way you can compare death to your trauma WHILE still living life. She had the nerve to ask are women less of a victim because they didn't DIE? 🤦🏽‍♂️YES

    • @manniefresh3425
      @manniefresh3425 5 днів тому +4

      But it’s only physical pain lol

    • @joffyjoffa
      @joffyjoffa 5 днів тому +1

      @@manniefresh3425 Right? 🤦🏽‍♂️🤣

    • @Sharkroars
      @Sharkroars 5 днів тому +5

      Look at it this way... Men and Women are two sides of the same coin *human race coin* and we are completely opposite. So if as a Men you are repolsed, opposed or hate/unlike being a victim, thn naturally as being the opposite of you... Women actualy preferred, gravitated or love/likes being a victim. It's simple as that and you can see it everyday all around you.😂

    • @rickpaul8012
      @rickpaul8012 4 дні тому

      Men who go to war are simps. Stop fighting for a society that hates you

  • @darkpower6406
    @darkpower6406 5 днів тому +27

    This is a telling conversation! Look at these creatures doing all these mental gymnastics to keep up the victim hood!

    • @Sharkroars
      @Sharkroars 5 днів тому

      Look at it this way... Men and Women are two sides of the same coin *human race coin* and we are completely opposite. So if as a Men you are repolsed, opposed or hate/unlike being a victim, thn naturally as being the opposite of you... Women actualy preferred, gravitated or love/likes being a victim. It's simple as that and you can see it everyday all around you.😂

  • @arcane-z8217
    @arcane-z8217 5 днів тому +18

    Tough calls are coming. This infantilized mentality will eventually have to be purged. How to proceed is the question.

    • @nickydashes
      @nickydashes 2 дні тому

      It's like having a toddler give you orders, while you gotta pretend they're smart and totally the boss...
      It's one thing when it was because the species had to continue, but now that almost all of them believe they should be able to murda all our offspring, steal , and live a life of prostitution and pornography and constant lying and hedonism and manipulation.... I dunno man.
      None of the choices in this were ever really up to them anyway, we gave them rights that they abused like spoiled toddlers, and now they need to be reined in..

  • @bfitcalendars7001
    @bfitcalendars7001 5 днів тому +13

    This is painful to watch!!
    These ppl actually vote?!

  • @tinafrompasadena3192
    @tinafrompasadena3192 5 днів тому +18

    You should ask them the definition of victim
    😂😂😂
    The blonde in pink needs help
    Now jean jacket is catching up to her.
    So if someone gets unalived by someone else, the person who is no longer breathing is not a victim because they're not feeling any pain right?
    1% of women deleting themselves due to trauma is too many yet they will delete a pregnancy in a heartbeat.
    Even though it could have been a babee girl

    • @Sharkroars
      @Sharkroars 5 днів тому

      Look at it this way... Men and Women are two sides of the same coin *human race coin* and we are completely opposite. So if as a Men you are repolsed, opposed or hate/unlike being a victim, thn naturally as being the opposite of you... Women actualy preferred, gravitated or love/likes being a victim. It's simple as that and you can see it everyday all around you.😂

  • @thetrumpnewsnetwork7503
    @thetrumpnewsnetwork7503 5 днів тому +12

    And women wonder why men aren't approaching them anymore.

    • @batmanbear
      @batmanbear 5 днів тому

      Random observation on your icon... If Trump is re-elected, he'll still be the 45th president and not simultaneously the 47th.

    • @marcfilms999
      @marcfilms999 5 днів тому

      @@batmanbear I think people get confused with the years we've had actual elections going back to Washington rather than the number of presidents we've actually had. Or people count the terms which is weird. I agree with you.

  • @JUSTISEJAY
    @JUSTISEJAY 5 днів тому +13

    This woman is a m.o.r.o.n

  • @hawaiianrussian1047
    @hawaiianrussian1047 4 дні тому +5

    The fact that she said at least the dead soldiers that sacrificed their lives for this country don’t have to deal with trauma and other grown women at the table agreed with her is just sad

  • @dflava3805
    @dflava3805 5 днів тому +8

    There are some men who debate in bad faith like her. But my goodness, almost every woman I've ever met argue in bad faith. This is one of the many reasons why men don't take women seriously.

    • @Sharkroars
      @Sharkroars 5 днів тому

      Look at it this way... Men and Women are two sides of the same coin *human race coin* and we are completely opposite. So if as a Men you are repolsed, opposed or hate/unlike being a victim, thn naturally as being the opposite of you... Women actualy preferred, gravitated or love/likes being a victim. It's simple as that and you can see it everyday all around you.😂

  • @alan71033
    @alan71033 4 дні тому +5

    Only 25% of the women lost the love of their life. The rest of them were spared having to get a divorce.

  • @Vision-dd8fl
    @Vision-dd8fl 5 днів тому +7

    I mostly watch Fresh & Fit, on the odd occasion I watch this podcast. OH boy Brian is a terrible debater & they let these 304s get away with blatant lies, blatant capping, blatant gaslighting, blatant moving the goal post & manipulation. Not to mention bratty & disrespectful behaviour. Zero testosterone on this podcast. The only person who brings an inch of accountability to these 304s is Andrew Wilson

  • @donmooney21
    @donmooney21 2 дні тому +2

    They are so pampered they think death is the only consequence men face at war.

  • @100ballster
    @100ballster День тому +3

    They should have asked, "If a woman was rap@d and murdered, who would be the primary victim? The woman, or her husband and children? That would force her to be good faith.

  • @shaggybear5927
    @shaggybear5927 2 дні тому +2

    You can get over emotional trauma. You can't come back from death.

  • @redhorse5971
    @redhorse5971 5 днів тому +7

    she doesn't know but she still keeps on spewing her opinion, just shut up..

  • @johnaleman1027
    @johnaleman1027 5 днів тому +3

    This is the modern abortion mentality - Better to be dead than to live with some element of suffering and trauma

  • @mariotrujillo4927
    @mariotrujillo4927 2 дні тому +2

    Sad part about this is that we guys had to endure 12 years of school with girls like this and nobody ever did anything about it.

  • @sumitchaturvedi7425
    @sumitchaturvedi7425 2 дні тому +2

    Women's answer to any question is '' It depends ''.

  • @RAndrewKReed
    @RAndrewKReed 5 днів тому +6

    The stupidly is beyond thunderdome

  • @garymagistrelli7507
    @garymagistrelli7507 День тому +2

    It is literally, physically, emotionally, mentally impossible for any of them to answer a question directly. This is evolution in reverse, and exhausting to listen to. Shame on us for even listening to them.

  • @LifeofDemii
    @LifeofDemii 8 годин тому +2

    I never knew it was this hard for someone to answer a question. 😪
    I have so much respect for Andrew and Brian having the patience to talk to these women.

  • @John5.56
    @John5.56 2 дні тому +2

    This is a prime example of women personalizing everything. They completely ignore the fact that words have meaning. Such as the word PRIMARY in the question of who’s the primary victim of war. They completely ignore the meaning of primary and internalize/personalize their feelings on being a victim if they were put in the situation of losing a man which is obviously the primary victim in that scenario. This entire conversation is absolutely absurd.

  • @mahksocial
    @mahksocial 5 днів тому +2

    She refused to comment on the abortion example because she knew it buried her argument about who the PRIMARY victim of war is. The person who dies is the PRIMARY victim. OBVIOUSLY.
    They argue just to argue, guys.

  • @davidt5200
    @davidt5200 4 дні тому +4

    My God, My head hurts listening to this blonde. And these people can vote.

  • @Tindo931
    @Tindo931 5 днів тому +4

    Professional Victim Syndrome!

  • @rse1113
    @rse1113 5 днів тому +4

    The ability of women to make themselves the primary victim AND ALSO the victor in every possible situation is almost impressive.
    I’ve coined the term “Taylor Swift Syndrome” to describe a woman who is somehow mistreated, abused, manipulated, etc. by all these evil men but is somehow simultaneously a strong, brave hero.
    MIMS.

    • @Call-me-Jester
      @Call-me-Jester 5 днів тому +1

      An empowered victim - Taylor Swift Syndrome, I like it. 👍

    • @rse1113
      @rse1113 5 днів тому +1

      @@Call-me-Jester Appreciate that. I’m gonna get that phrase trademarked eventually haha

  • @katerinatheleritis9658
    @katerinatheleritis9658 6 годин тому +1

    It's the men, who suffer in war.
    They are brave enough to step out and defend?
    Their injuries and post traumatic. Stress, and death?
    They go through so much

  • @OrgazmoX5
    @OrgazmoX5 5 днів тому +10

    I hate debating with people like her. So much goal post moving and needing to be right.

    • @joffyjoffa
      @joffyjoffa 5 днів тому +4

      EXACTLY and everytime she gets proven wrong she says I don't know or she doesn't want to speak on it.

    • @manniefresh3425
      @manniefresh3425 5 днів тому +1

      It’s for entertainment, no one should ever argue with a fool, they’ll just drag you down to their level

  • @sxtegt2303
    @sxtegt2303 4 дні тому +2

    The whole point was to avoid admitting man have it hard anywhere in life.

  • @user-zc5xz1oe5r
    @user-zc5xz1oe5r День тому +2

    This convo really just happened...
    I'm a man... and I choose the bear..
    End me now

  • @maynardtrendle820
    @maynardtrendle820 2 дні тому +2

    Most women seem to be absolutely disingenuous at EVERY turn. For the ladies that are reading this- I said "most".
    Not all. 🗿

  • @ricardoporter6053
    @ricardoporter6053 3 дні тому +2

    These women are professional victims

  • @IAPPLEWIZ
    @IAPPLEWIZ 15 годин тому +1

    It’s not worth to argue with children or women. They’re not equipped enough to understand anything.

  • @DanielHettich
    @DanielHettich 5 днів тому +4

    I don’t think these women understand the meaning of the word primary. You can’t say both if you’re asking, which one is the primary the whole point of the question is to find out which one is more effective or more victim you can’t say they’re both more victim. That’s a stupid shit answer.

  • @TheOkocha22
    @TheOkocha22 4 дні тому +2

    This is an outstanding display of complete lack of logic and reality. I almost couldn’t finish watching.

  • @AlonsoBrown1
    @AlonsoBrown1 5 днів тому +2

    one unknown woman can easily take on two experienced guys on a conversation
    This just goes to show that women are extremely argumentative and this is their natural battlefield
    The desire to engage in discussion to get as much attention as possible smh

  • @sim7409
    @sim7409 4 дні тому +1

    "trauma" is used way too easily now

  • @jonathanhicks5814
    @jonathanhicks5814 День тому +1

    So the woman in the pink doesn't want to speak on abortion because she knows she's wrong

  • @batzgameguru
    @batzgameguru 18 годин тому +1

    Her great grandfather must be really proud

  • @donmooney21
    @donmooney21 2 дні тому +1

    If she actually beleived the primary victim isnt the one that dies of cancer. Why would it be righteous to choose herself as the one who gets cancer? Your choosing to make your spouse the primary victim, according to your own argument. Thats the opposite of righteous.

  • @kingcane5819
    @kingcane5819 5 днів тому +2

    The children did most of the chores back then

  • @theoriginalnekodemyx8774
    @theoriginalnekodemyx8774 5 днів тому +3

    These people can vote, enough said

  • @jasonybarra8277
    @jasonybarra8277 5 днів тому +1

    Their judgement are emotionally based you can't get them to not be in a hypothetical situation where women no matter what circumstances doesn't get pity or sympathy. If you told pink shirt " you and your boyfriend are walking down the street your boyfriend gets hit by a car doesn't die but gets dragged skin peeling for miles" she expects people to say poor lady poor pink shirt girl how could that insensitive toxic male do this to HER😂😂😂

  • @stsnickerz2610
    @stsnickerz2610 5 днів тому +3

    This panel is rough man

  • @pops1221
    @pops1221 День тому +1

    I love the way Americans somehow remember 'America won WWII' without doubt, but don't know when it was, why it started, who fought, or who died. 👍

  • @stanleysylvain4793
    @stanleysylvain4793 5 днів тому +3

    I truly can’t stand to have these discussions with stupid people. Idk how Andrew does it. Even listening to this bothers me greatly.

  • @jasonybarra8277
    @jasonybarra8277 5 днів тому +6

    There was a point in Americans society where pink shirt would have been shamed by both men and women for her comments. In war men are shot, burned, blown up, dismembered and see and do horrific things. For a woman to equate her views and turn attention from the men who pay the ultimate sacrifices for this country for her to take that attention away is a selfish and shameful act and she should think about that next time she wants to take attention away from the brave military who give us freedom everyday

  • @nicolasczellecz1160
    @nicolasczellecz1160 2 дні тому

    Some peoples stupidity is very laughable

  • @katerinatheleritis9658
    @katerinatheleritis9658 6 годин тому

    A battlefield is horrendous

  • @BKChamploo
    @BKChamploo 2 дні тому +1

    HOLY I LOST BRAIN CELLS

  • @Greysmoke824
    @Greysmoke824 5 днів тому +1

    Yo I can’t stop laughing at the utter ridiculous bangers

  • @pauldryburgh6346
    @pauldryburgh6346 5 днів тому +1

    Why give airtime to those who are oxygen thieves?

    • @user-uc5sn4tp3f
      @user-uc5sn4tp3f 9 годин тому

      Think about that for a second .
      Absolutely, celebration of Free Speach , and open discussion of the issues of the day are Good Things !
      But beyond that , the other goal of endeavors like this , it to create content large numbers of viewers wish to watch/ listen , to in turn gain revenue. Nothing wrong with that . Capitalism and free market supply & demand .
      More Content is thus better than less . Guests are invited in expectations of having long two way debates . The goal isn't a Debating Society skirmish , which each side having a fixed time period , and panel of judges scoring it .
      The main goal of public forums isn't to change the mind of the specific participants , but for each side to lay out their positions to the best of their abilities, to influence the audience.

  • @amandawarren779
    @amandawarren779 17 годин тому +1

    Please watch some ww2 documentaries. That war was so brutal. I have so much respect for the men who fought for the US. Im saddened that there are almost none left.

  • @Sharkroars
    @Sharkroars 5 днів тому +1

    Look at it this way... Men and Women are two sides of the same coin *human race coin* and we are completely opposite. So if as a Men you are repolsed, opposed or hate/unlike being a victim, thn naturally as being the opposite of you... Women actualy preferred, gravitated or love/likes being a victim. It's simple as that and you can see it everyday all around you.😂

  • @jamevolve8380
    @jamevolve8380 18 годин тому

    No place to speak on abortion as a WOMAN, but can speak on war not as a MAN. That’s why those type of arguments are dumb

  • @Danielle-bb2el
    @Danielle-bb2el 4 дні тому

    When there is war in an other country men who get drafted they are the primary victim but when there is war in your country men and women are equally victims

  • @jeffreypmurphy2352
    @jeffreypmurphy2352 День тому

    Its just solipsism, and its apparently a biological trait

  • @user-uc5sn4tp3f
    @user-uc5sn4tp3f 10 годин тому

    It's not entirely favoring one side or the other in this debate , but some background on WWll Era ( quick take people weren't as young as would be later in Vietnam Era ) :
    Draft Age was 21 to 45 . Yeah , top of the age range was more likely to be exempted for cululative injuries from regular life , established careers in critical industries . By no means just " young kids " . My late FIL was drafted at 27 y.o. And he was even borderline " Exempt - Eligible " , what between his farming , and contract hauling of agricultural products . But by mid war the manpower needs were bad enough to go back and draft people previously Exempted .
    The average age overall of millitary members in WWll was 26 . This wasn't distributed equally between the then 3.5 Service Branches ( Air Froce not yet full seperated from Army , and Cost Guard as an entirity called up to Millitary Status for the duratiion ) .
    The USMC skewed a couple years younget , and highest % of Volunteers . Enough so , to probably bumped Army up a year . And people on both ends were lying about their ages , and trying to scam induction physicals to get IN , not out .
    35% of U.S. males born 1900 to 1910 served . 45 % of born 1911 to 1920 served . Plus 25% of each group worked directly in War Related employment . ( And much of that involved relocating accross the country .)
    *****************
    So much so that there are lots of not implausible conspiracy theories about it , but the Economy was Booming ! Pulled the U.S. out of the lingering Great Depression quickly into boom times never seen before . Even before the USA directly entered in December 1941 , the Industrial and Agricultural segments were significantly picking up , with increased demand from U.K. , and Allied countries generally for the two years prior .
    Between war related industries , and rapidly expanding government agencies , there weren't enough warm bodies to go around . Anyone vaguely able to work was actively recruited . Including females , and previously marginalized groups . ( Except for Japanese- Americans , they were in Camps ) . And wages were high .

  • @MaestroDotMusic
    @MaestroDotMusic 5 днів тому

    Going in!!

  • @PoetofHateSpeech
    @PoetofHateSpeech 5 днів тому

    My goldfish is a bigger victim than women in war...

  • @WNShadow814
    @WNShadow814 7 годин тому

    43:30 Andrew is off here. Trauma is not a universal thing. Take this scenario
    You are in a car accident. It is your fault. You are unharmed. But your wife and your infant children are all dead. The other car you collided with also had a man woman and baby. They too are all dead.
    Now some would possibly be able to handle that mental trauma and carry the guilt. More than a few would not

  • @BobJone-ve7ig
    @BobJone-ve7ig 4 дні тому

    Chick thinks the women got the right to vote in ww2. 😂 wow !

  • @marioizquierdo7409
    @marioizquierdo7409 День тому

    She doesn’t know what is going on. Simple there is an ongoing war, that she could careless. Why don’t you think for 5 seconds and derive that men are dying to defend their country.

  • @chadellett4696
    @chadellett4696 5 днів тому

    Watching the hatred for men in real time🤔

  • @davey508
    @davey508 2 дні тому

    Ffs zero logic! So annoying and dumb

  • @redhorse5971
    @redhorse5971 5 днів тому

    she's definitely blonde..wahahahaha

  • @oldmanoob9987
    @oldmanoob9987 2 дні тому

    Is that picture behind Andrew ash from evil dead, Henry Rollins, or someone else lol.

  • @shanenolan5625
    @shanenolan5625 5 днів тому

    The is economy boomed during and after the war , it was the greatest period of economic boom .

  • @DaveMiller007
    @DaveMiller007 5 днів тому

    Wow... I have never seen such a bunch of @%& people who will argue each and every point emagine any of them being your friend or entanglement... You better of having a blow up doll to talk to

  • @bk_knight256
    @bk_knight256 5 днів тому

    These whamens don't have any idea of what are the facts about!

  • @Tindo931
    @Tindo931 5 днів тому +1

    Beta Brian, STOP going down these rabbit holes , you let them get away with their illogical arguments every time. For instance, when she stated men and women are both primary victims of war, you have to immediately shut down that statement. Explain what “primary” and “secondary” victimhood is. Nip it in the bud. You let them go down these ridiculous rabbit holes and they drag you down to their territory every time. So frustrating. You need to make clear, concise, high level statements FIRST, then go down to the specifics of the argument. Andrew, has the same problem, he pontificates way too much. HIGH LEVEL, 60,000 foot view arguments. Take a page out of Myron’s book. For example, losing your life in a horrific way, is much worse than any emotional or financial effect on loved ones. It’s that simple, the wives have their lives, regardless of how it negatively impacts them. Comprehend? Also, “both” can’t be the primary victim. Men and women have different positions in the reality of war. One party (males), are obviously on the frontlines and they get both physical, mental and emotional ramifications as opposed just emotional ramifications for women. The mental gymnastics are absolutely insane

  • @barrettanderson2781
    @barrettanderson2781 2 дні тому

    Nahmsayin?

  • @cephas5053
    @cephas5053 5 днів тому

    She’s a bad version of Pearl Davis

  • @kirillnadtochiy5039
    @kirillnadtochiy5039 15 годин тому

    I think a shared intuition is that most women struggle with logic. Not all, but overwhelming majority.

  • @wthissthis6016
    @wthissthis6016 2 дні тому +1

    bro someone please explain how the person that watched there friends DIE around them and either made it out or died themselves aren't the primary victims. This is ridiculous and SUPER disrespectful to veterans that seen real war this girl is fucking stupid

  • @macanthony6113
    @macanthony6113 5 днів тому +1

    My head hurt again. This is feminist logic. You definitely can’t be a victim of war if you’re NOT sent to go fight in a war. This might be the dumbest shit I ever heard on this podcast.😂
    I seem to say that a lot.😂😂😂
    Andrew was like “then why aren’t you unaliving yourself then”😂😂😂

  • @Username_8886
    @Username_8886 4 дні тому +3

    You guys are literally going nowhere with that blonde girl with the urban accent