I loved this vlog, as a guy who is attracted to girls, to be honest you do look feminine even though you like pants , prefer being bare faced etc, as men we like different things unfortunately, you do not have to change how you look, dress or whatever in order to attract men, lol if you think about it how did our grand fathers got married?? I am sure they did not go for make ups and stuffs.😅Same applies to men, you do not have to stress yourself by draining yourself trying to make millions in order to impress a lady, eventually not everyone likes the same things in people, we are all different.
Hehe the red number,usasekile❤i been following you for a while and i find nothing wrong with your sense of style...do what makes you happy,makes you feel comfortable within your own skin
Hi Ntwanie thank you so much for the very insightful video you put out we are grateful, am currently doing my CTA part time , but I wanted to find out would you advise anyone to start doing articles without CTA so that we push the hours ? And my second question is would you advise people to aim for doing articles at the big 4 or at small audit firms.
Hey, I’m doing CTA whilst working at 1 of the big 4, in all honesty besides the discipline it needs, it’s the best decision I have made. Also I know I don’t have “time” so I do not waste hours. You must be mentally prepared though, I moved to another province to start articles and I was suffering to much, fortunately my partner is very reasonable and I told him I want to move back home. So he was okay with me working fully remote. I know most people don’t recommend articles and CTA but I see no point of failing CTA for eg 3 times and insisting on going back full time because you probably know the work and it’s just exam technique. Also if you can afford to, if you planning on working and doing CTA, avoid Unisa. I went to Milpark and honestly I’m doing way better than I was as a full time student. But different strokes for different folks. Wishing you the best in your journey. 🌸
not going to lie ,I hate when corporate women who have done well for themselves, get type casted into being masculine just because they don’t fit the “feminine” aesthetic. Moreso , I hate that being a segue as an explanation as to why they are not partnered. I really think boiling it down to “dressing up more” and wearing makeup is an oversimplification to the varying experiences we all have when dating. I also think there’s nothing wrong with wearing makeup etc (it can be quite fun) . However, I really hate the framework that YOU need to change yourself or your presentation in order to acclimatise to the dating pool . Which is filled with pee btw😭😭 Akitse maybe , my take will keep many single, I am too.💀 But I couldn’t let that comment pass without another perspective: You deserve romantic love and attention at all points of the aesthetic\s you choose to embody. In my eyes you are a fine gyal, and feminine .✨
You look great, I don't think you are masculine at all - even if you are if you like it that's fine. Putting on make up and wanting to change your wardrobe to appear more feminine sounds a bit too extreme. If you like how you look stick to it and slay it. I love make up cause I don't like how I look bare face. It has nothing to do with anyone. So make a decision based on your feelings of you. If this thing is about the dating thing, I just think maybe try be in different setting? Or if you don't mind dating at work then loosen up to be easily approachable, I realize that men will shela you outside of work. Go to church physically, engage, etc. But there's NOTHING wrong with how you look.
I wanted to send you a similar private message too, but I thought I'd be too forward. I don't think you have to do the most like lashes and a lot of make up etc, but knowing how to enhance your natural beauty will always set a woman apart from others, this goes with your aura and personality too. A smile, good skin, a little mascara concealer and a nice gloss with good fragrance, pressed well put together clothes and confidence go a very long way. A lot of people just jump to "why must I change myself etc" and it's not about that. Presenting your best self isn't changing yourself, it's making an effort to put yourself out there. We can't complain about not attracting whatever or whomever we want to attract but at the same time not want to put in the work. For you I think you actually have very good style and it's not masculine at all, its balanced. There's always room for improvement. I do think you can put in more effort in other areas like investing in lip liners and simple lip shades for example which will compliment your natural look. Natural will always win, but natural doesn't mean bare either. I'm a natural lady. I wear natural hair, short, long, locs, I've done it. You'll never catch me in a wig or long lashes, but I've mastered a natural make up look to wear people have assumed I just have perfect skin. I always make an effort to make an effort. I'm a married woman but I still make an effort whether I'm in the house, the gym, the mall or on a date night or girly brunch. I've worked on my posture and confidence and I still get approached all the time. So I don't think you have much to do. Just tweeks. Men are different but everyone appreciates someone who makes an effort, plus you will feel more confident in yourself too. It translates into every aspect of your life not just dating ❤. Another thing nobody ever brings up is prayer. You must pray for what you desire. Your body is gorgeous btw, so you're winning in that department. With glasses, I have different pairs. Also, try contacts
Excuse the grammar. I just noticed that some women just don't try and shut down people who actually give constructive advice. It's important to enhance your beauty as woman. Men shave, wear fragrances, accumulate wealth etc. Can we be serious
Just be comfortable in your own skin cause as they say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
Being yourself is enough 😊 do whatever makes you comfortable and feel good
I just adore your style you are beautiful
It’s worth a try-on to add on your wardrobe, try colours more and dresses and skirt. Super excited for you 🔥❤️
Thank you!
I loved this vlog, as a guy who is attracted to girls, to be honest you do look feminine even though you like pants , prefer being bare faced etc, as men we like different things unfortunately, you do not have to change how you look, dress or whatever in order to attract men, lol if you think about it how did our grand fathers got married?? I am sure they did not go for make ups and stuffs.😅Same applies to men, you do not have to stress yourself by draining yourself trying to make millions in order to impress a lady, eventually not everyone likes the same things in people, we are all different.
Appreciate your words so much 🥺 thank you
Thank you so much for this comment. #truth
Playlist Ntwanie shuuuu🔥🔥🤌🏾🤌🏾
Woow Ntwani you are beautiful and you got the point of attention as I was watching 👀. Plain simple and elegant ❤️
Hi Ntwanie, I couldn't see the CV template. Please share.
Hehe the red number,usasekile❤i been following you for a while and i find nothing wrong with your sense of style...do what makes you happy,makes you feel comfortable within your own skin
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Hi Ntwanie thank you so much for the very insightful video you put out we are grateful, am currently doing my CTA part time , but I wanted to find out would you advise anyone to start doing articles without CTA so that we push the hours ? And my second question is would you advise people to aim for doing articles at the big 4 or at small audit firms.
Hey, I’m doing CTA whilst working at 1 of the big 4, in all honesty besides the discipline it needs, it’s the best decision I have made. Also I know I don’t have “time” so I do not waste hours. You must be mentally prepared though, I moved to another province to start articles and I was suffering to much, fortunately my partner is very reasonable and I told him I want to move back home. So he was okay with me working fully remote.
I know most people don’t recommend articles and CTA but I see no point of failing CTA for eg 3 times and insisting on going back full time because you probably know the work and it’s just exam technique. Also if you can afford to, if you planning on working and doing CTA, avoid Unisa. I went to Milpark and honestly I’m doing way better than I was as a full time student.
But different strokes for different folks. Wishing you the best in your journey. 🌸
Lovely to watch🥰😍
I love you Ntwani❤️💙😅
Just be yourself, the right man will find you. There are men who love natural girls.
not going to lie ,I hate when corporate women who have done well for themselves, get type casted into being masculine just because they don’t fit the “feminine” aesthetic. Moreso , I hate that being a segue as an explanation as to why they are not partnered. I really think boiling it down to “dressing up more” and wearing makeup is an oversimplification to the varying experiences we all have when dating. I also think there’s nothing wrong with wearing makeup etc (it can be quite fun) . However, I really hate the framework that YOU need to change yourself or your presentation in order to acclimatise to the dating pool . Which is filled with pee btw😭😭 Akitse maybe , my take will keep many single, I am too.💀 But I couldn’t let that comment pass without another perspective: You deserve romantic love and attention at all points of the aesthetic\s you choose to embody. In my eyes you are a fine gyal, and feminine .✨
This is the winning comment.
This comment 🤌🏾👍..Very true I dont think she needs to change anything
Really appreciate this comment 🥺
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what's the song playing in the background?? U have taste😅
the one that says: Baby it's Youuuu
Baby it's you - Revel Day @@sandilejustice9925
Its by Revel Day- “Baby its you”
You look great, I don't think you are masculine at all - even if you are if you like it that's fine. Putting on make up and wanting to change your wardrobe to appear more feminine sounds a bit too extreme. If you like how you look stick to it and slay it. I love make up cause I don't like how I look bare face. It has nothing to do with anyone. So make a decision based on your feelings of you. If this thing is about the dating thing, I just think maybe try be in different setting? Or if you don't mind dating at work then loosen up to be easily approachable, I realize that men will shela you outside of work. Go to church physically, engage, etc. But there's NOTHING wrong with how you look.
I wanted to send you a similar private message too, but I thought I'd be too forward.
I don't think you have to do the most like lashes and a lot of make up etc, but knowing how to enhance your natural beauty will always set a woman apart from others, this goes with your aura and personality too. A smile, good skin, a little mascara concealer and a nice gloss with good fragrance, pressed well put together clothes and confidence go a very long way.
A lot of people just jump to "why must I change myself etc" and it's not about that. Presenting your best self isn't changing yourself, it's making an effort to put yourself out there. We can't complain about not attracting whatever or whomever we want to attract but at the same time not want to put in the work.
For you I think you actually have very good style and it's not masculine at all, its balanced. There's always room for improvement. I do think you can put in more effort in other areas like investing in lip liners and simple lip shades for example which will compliment your natural look. Natural will always win, but natural doesn't mean bare either.
I'm a natural lady. I wear natural hair, short, long, locs, I've done it. You'll never catch me in a wig or long lashes, but I've mastered a natural make up look to wear people have assumed I just have perfect skin. I always make an effort to make an effort. I'm a married woman but I still make an effort whether I'm in the house, the gym, the mall or on a date night or girly brunch. I've worked on my posture and confidence and I still get approached all the time.
So I don't think you have much to do. Just tweeks. Men are different but everyone appreciates someone who makes an effort, plus you will feel more confident in yourself too. It translates into every aspect of your life not just dating ❤. Another thing nobody ever brings up is prayer. You must pray for what you desire.
Your body is gorgeous btw, so you're winning in that department.
With glasses, I have different pairs. Also, try contacts
Excuse the grammar.
I just noticed that some women just don't try and shut down people who actually give constructive advice. It's important to enhance your beauty as woman. Men shave, wear fragrances, accumulate wealth etc. Can we be serious
Love this comment, I totally agree with you.
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