DENNIS PRAGER Reacts to Andrew Tate & Modern Masculinity
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- Today, we have a very special treat as Dennis Prager joins me on Unapologetic for the first time! As you know, we’ve been discussing the rise of Andrew Tate a lot on the show lately, so when Dennis agreed to come in I knew I had to get his take. What did you think about Dennis’s reaction? Let me know in the comments!
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Speaking from the POV of a 64 yr old woman who was medically unable to have children, I would trade everything I ever made to have had children, and now grandchildren.
You would love Andrew Tate, he would beat the hell out of you.
God bless you ma’am 🙏🏾
@@Nak777. Thank you!
@@honkyjesuseternal most absurd negative minded like you are the one should be kept in jail.
@@nasibmukhtarnashe9384 Thank you!
I am a 25 year old woman, grew up with 3 siblings. Every time anyone has ever asked me, “do you want kids?” I have always replied with, “yes, I want 4.” To be mostly met with shock. They’d say something like, “oh wow!” Or “oh well maybe that will change over time.” I have always wanted kids, and I loved the sibling dynamic I had growing up! I can’t imagine only having 1. To each their own but I have that deep maternal instinct on top of a career ❤️
1. Do you think you can manage both a career and raising children efficiently? Or would you let society raise them for you (day care, school, neighbourhood/Internet influences)
2. Would you give up your career if one or two of your children needed your full attention? Maybe it's extremely talented in music or sport at a very young age, and without you there 24/7 people would likely take advantage of them.
@@J040PL7 to the first question, yes :) I could manage a career and raising children efficiently. I have no intention of allowing society to raise my kids.
And I would give up my career if necessary. Say if I had a child with a disability etc.
Fortunately with my career path it’s very flexible, as am I. I don’t think having a “career” has to mean 60 hours a week away from home or traveling all the time and or all the things that could come along with over working that could affect a parent being there for their kids. I love my mother dearly, as she does me but she was definitely not home for most of my childhood, Since 3rd grade I woke myself up in the morning, made myself breakfast, walked myself to school and back home. I have a clear intent and vision as to how my children will be raised, What morals they will be taught, how much time I spend with them, etc.
Thanks for the questions 🙂
May God bless your life with the family that you want to have.
It’s good to see that there are women who still think like you👏🏾
Where are you girls ? Where do you guys live ? Do you even exist ?
@@opaarthib15 haha I live in San Diego 🤣
I’m a 60 year old widow. At 25 told my family I would never have children. At 28 got pregnant and now have 3 wonderful boys that are the light of my life and I am extremely thankful for an unexpected pregnancy that changed my life.
Wonderful for you, am happy for you that it worked out well. However, it is not right for everyone. Some women have good reason not to do this with their lives and their lives are just as important, valid and wonderful and can be amazing with other things. There is no shame in not being able to have children or marriage and children young not working out well, there are so many other things we can do. And although I think having children and getting married is wonderful, it is not the only right wat in life. Remember and realize that!
Sure, there are also many elderly women who think differently and advise to get an education first and not be dependent on a man, because they lived through it and wished to have chosen otherwise. I say plenty of elderly women on platforms but also in real life state this. There are also many elderly women who belief that marriage snd children is the best option. But you know what? It is different for everyone! And guess what? The newer generations saw their grandmothers and mothers who had less chances and opportunities as them divorced and worn out by marriage and having children, raised with scars and wounds because there parents were not able to raise them and do right by them. Gain some perspective and realize that it is not the same for everyone, remember this!
beautiful
@@dumplingflatbread1919 I absolutely agree with you. If only Dennis Pragar would open his mind and have a little empathy with what it is like to be a woman.
@dumplingflatbread1919 I agree completely! My grandmother used to encourage me to go to college and get an education. To develop myself. She was a wonderful person.
As for those who think having large families is such a blessing, this is not usually the case. This is not what I experienced in my own life. My other grandmother, my mother's mother, had 12 children, and hardly any of them get along. They form cliques. They gossip about the other siblings, they hold grudges, they moved to different states,...so much for "family love." When my maternal grandmother, the one who had the 12 children had grown old sick, her son sold her home and placed her in a nursing home.
Sometimes families stink.
When Tate mentions his Grandmother and how her true legacy wasn’t her career but all the human beings that came from her and the camera slowly starts to zoom on to the faces of these 305… priceless 😂
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If the main legacy of that woman is Andrew Tate and his his family of swindlers and con artists, then she should have stayed childless.
@@zombeaver4853 Oh little troll, let me see if I can find you a bridge to go crawl under.
I’m a guy and guys think this same way about career first nonsense. Having a child in my late 40s made me realize what my life has been missing the entire time. I’ve traveled, started businesses, had loads of fun, and I’m thankful for that, BUT none of that compares to how I feel about my daughter. I now long for as many years as I can be with her and strive to do whatever it takes to live as long as I can to see who she becomes.
What a blow from Andrew Tate!
Ha ha yeah it’s a more full life. Who doesn’t want a life that makes you more complete? Spending time having fun, that’s great.
But living too old age with no wife and no kids who grew up with you is shallow
What was it like for you from 22-30?
Do you still feel the same way for your earlier years?
@@militantwest through my 20s-30s I was all about career and really didnt want kids at all. I got married, but we both focused on our careers for so long and then started a business that we pushed the idea of kids off. I look back and am happy we did all that stuff and traveled and such, but we both say all the time we wish would have had our daughter way earlier. It was like the false hope of the career filling in that need was a scam. I would have still started a new business and all that if we had her earlier, but now that I have a kid, I have a real reason to now other than just money. Now my reason to hustle is to give her all I can and make sure we take trips and adventures as a family as often as possible. The career first life is a lie for men and women. It's just a push for more tax dollars by the government to keep you working during your earning years for them instead of yourself and family. No kids means more free time to work more and pay into the IRS / Tax matrix so politicians can fund their retirements and lavish lifestyles.
Would you have a child at 51. I am male and in the predicament of having a child at 51 but I'm not sure as I may be to old. Having said that I have high energy and Im very physically fit.
@@billybanter9573 sure I would at 51. It did envy my buddies that had kids in their 20s because back then we would have had all the energy we needed to keep up with a toddler. It'll be an energy taxing event, but well worth it. I can say that for me and other guys I talk to in my situation, that bonding with a kid at our age is a bit different. It took about 4 months for me to really hit that "wow!" moment when my daughter looked at me and I could tell she was really looking at me as "dad". I think its because we lived a longer life and expect results quickly... whereas a baby for the first few months is really just a game of keeping them alive all day, so no relationship results like we are used to for 40 or 50 years. But man when it happens, your entire reason for being on this planet suddenly makes sense.
I definitely agree with Andrew Tates take on this topic. While yes, his approach is a bit crass, at least it’s honest. I’m a married mother in my mid 20s…and I’ve never been happier in my life. Does this mean it’s easy? No, not at all. Is motherhood the only thing that “defines me”, as many leftists like to point at? No. I’m a daughter, a wife, a mother, a woman, a human, a soul. But my life is fulfilled/satisfied in many ways BY being a wife and mother…and I certainly think there’s no crime in that. I really enjoyed you having Dennis Prager on, such an intelligent man! Thank you for the show.
It's important fine women like you are speaking up!
That's something that I was looking for to describe Tate, as a bit "crass". And yes do share your stories about the joy of marriage/motherhood to others. I know my mother has since this mindset is lurking in our family.
Crass? He’s coked out of his mind and spitting hatred between his words.
@@Marshmallow_Trees No he's not. Stop the nonsense. Watch his critique on Jada and Will Smith. He's dead on.
@@Marshmallow_Trees so you get all up in your feelings and spin lies and make assumptions huh....
I think the biggest tragedy in life is looking back one day and say "I was successful in things that doesn't matters"
Wow
Heavy…
@Nel G That's kind of a stupid claim. The idea of having children can be either selfish or selfless depending on each individual's values and life path. You just happen to find it selfish, that's okay, but you are not other people.
That doesn't matters?
Bam!
I did not come here looking to agree with him, but honestly? He's really not wrong. I had the same pivotal moment as he did in my mom's funeral. I reached the same conclusion. It made me reconsider my priorities in life.
You will agree with most of what he says. You’ve probably only seen short clips with much context or heard people negative opinions of him.
Wake up before it is too late.
@@whatwasandwhatcanbe6885 😺
Good for you. There’s a moment in time everyone goes through at one point that will make you rethink your life and priorities. Don’t waste anymore time.
@@mikezero7422 😺
Saying that anything you choose do, other than having children is worthless is actually strange. Every individual has their own unique circumstances and preferences. I grew up being told that I was a mistake by my mother. It is not pretty when we take choices away from women.
To all the people here saying that they ultimately agree with him, enlighten me:
If it is wrong to suggest women about not having kids and instead focusing on their career (which I agree is wrong to suggest), shouldn't it also be wrong to tell them that they SHOULD have kids instead of focusing on their career?
Do not force them to choose career over kids (cause yes they may regret it in the future) but also do not force them to choose kids over career (cause saying that does ultimately come off as misogynistic, "you're a woman, have kids").
Do not spread either agenda cause the choice is a personal one and the question of what to prioritize can not be solved with an overarching general answer for all people's lives.
I'm surprised Amala didn't point this out at all.
I want to be a father. While I will pursue success in my career so I can provide for a family, I will find time whenever I can to be there for ballet recitals and ball games, to spend time with my kids and be a father. I'm not even going to bother dating women who wouldn't prioritize our children at least as much as I would. I want a woman that shares a strong belief that WE should raise our kids; not outsource it to the system, professionals, and society.
God will do it for you my young friend. Trust in Him. You are a solid young man and God bless you for it!
See that's what a lot of people are missing these days and why so many people don't want children. There are so many broken relationships surrounding people who are my age (early 20s) that they dont want to pursue them out of fear they will become hateful towards another and will have to breakup/divorce and if a child is involved its even messier and scarier. Honestly the relationships I see today is why i set my bar so high for men, I don't want a man who will become a deadbeat dad and never be there for his child.
Ngl your comment gave me hope there's still good quality men in this world lol
When you say WE and mention a full time job, sounds a bit hypocritical. Also you're entitled to your own life choices, so are others to their own. I would have loved to have had children, but I wasn't able to. That doesn't mean I judge others for chosing not to.
All you have to do is make 65 or higher then leave America and find your women. See first world countries are not good for finding good women. The USA, UK etc are horrible because that's the breeding ground for horrible women, hypocrites, hoes, degenerates, strong and independent etc you get the point. Countries that are poor are great because women mostly know their roles in life their natural roles so you will not have a hard time at all finding a good, decent or traditional women outside of the USA. I would say if your black go to Africa, if your white go to Brazil or Europe, if you want to mix things up a bit go to Barbados their are many amazing, and good women their also the Dominic Republic.
you got the right mindset, everything is gonna be great for you in the long run :)
He's not lying. I've been married twenty-seven years had three childern and was a full time domestic engineer. It's been a wonderful life and now I'm a grandmother. It's worth the sacrifice if you can find a way to make it with one income.
Do you believe it's a sin for women to be employed? As far as I can tell, the Bible doesn't technically list it as a sin
@@technoloverish how is that relevant? 🤔
@@technoloverish No its not
@@technoloverish how is your useless comment relevant to the topic?
@@technoloverish no I don't think it's a sin for a woman to work outside the home, that's a new one to me. I have my own sins to deal with; I'm too busy with my own demons to be worried about yours. Have a blessed week.
I can so relate to this message. when I was young and very liberal, I was determined not to bring children into this world, since we were all going to be nuked anyway. I got married at 25 and went on to have 3 children that I homeschooled exclusively. I have been married to the same wonderful man for 29 years and am so relieved to have come to my senses.
May almighty Allah bless you abundantly aameen my dearest sister and bless your marriage amen
All Glory to God
the last part.
Why do you people think that being liberal means not wanting to have children? Lots of conservatives both men and women do not want children. It’s a personal choice and not a liberal ideology. I am very very liberal and a feminist and I still believe in the sanctity of marriage and I always wanted children and a very large family. Ofcourse the reality of raising lots of children in this modern times has made me adjust my expectations to just 3 children which I have now and I’m focused on.
@@klaw1425 Please keep your psychopathic allah away from decent conversations
As a man that never wants kids, I definitely agree a life solely dedicated to career and being single is empty and will get stale quite fast. I want to be married and be devoted to my career and making money. However, being married and also having fulfilling friendships and hobbies and passions gives me and many people meaning.
Having fake friendships, no long term relationships, “passions” being partying and vacations paid by others is fun for a little and gets stale quick.
Kids are certainly not for everyone but make sure your reasoning is correct if you choose not to. Being a “boss bitch” or climate change is certainly not a good reason.
Amala, after just one episode you now have your own individual category within my UA-cam library. When my son was on the way, it was rough for me because I wasn't sure what I wanted. Now, he's my motivation for nearly everything.
If people don't want to have kids, that's their life. They may feel lonely. Some people thrive on being alone. *shrug*
It's important to warn young people though.
The thing is people who thrive on being alone is a minority. Majority needs emotional and social support. Even the introvert needs a close cirlce to stay sane.
Yeah you "thrive on being alone " until you're 40 and realize you don't
Your ancestors fought that hard to keep your bloodline alive, and all you wanna do is have a career that means nothing in the end, and kill that bloodline off once you die? It seems selfish to me.
I'm 35 now, but when I was a 20, I had my daughter from a deadbeat, was a 24 hour caretaker for my bedridden mom til I was 28, when she passed I got my first job, learned to finally drive at 30, Ive always stayed at home 24/7, taking care of multiple nieces and nephews, my daughter, and mom. Now the first batch have grown and living in America. I still have my daughter(high school), another niece(graduated this year) and nephew(middle school) living with me. I'm a single working mom, always been surrounded by people, I never thought lonliness would be something I actually enjoy and because Ive always been surrounded by people and noise at home, I left my old job in retail and sub. teaching to be a overnight security guard, I get to work alone, I dont feel miserable going to work and the pay is great. Id probably get married later on, but I still need to work on myself before making commitments. When I retire, I just want to go enjoy a cruiseship alone. I hope people dont assume were miserable because we want to be alone, for me, I stopped having goals and thinking about marriage when I decided to take care of my mom, the only goal I had was to keep her with us for as long as her body can, so Ive just been delayed for some years, but I dont regret taking care of my family first. I have no privacy for someone who enjoys lonliness. Making assumptions about people who want to be alone shouldnt even be a thing, we are not bothersome and I tend to feel like I could be a burden to others so I dont enjoy making new friends, just keep the ones already here that know me well enough. I'm even gonn pay for my own funeral expenses in advance so I dont burden anyone with funeral expenses, not my daughter, nieces or nephews, I'm the youngest, but I can die before my older siblings, no need to burden anyone when I die.
Andrew Tate is right in a lot of topics he just has an abrasive delivery and that’s what gets him attention
Right.because he is not talking about you men right?. But a man wrote about how lonely men are and some of you were up in arms lol joke
@@purplelove3666 He talks about men and defines losers, so your wrong. He explains many things which many modern woman don’t know or never thought of. We men tend to agree on all his points, you woman just don’t know shit
He is disgustinh
I just can't watch him.
@@purplelove3666he talks alot about people irrespective of the gender, u just watched some short clips that are manipulated by some TikTokers
I used to be just like those woman, and exactly like Mr. Dennis said. I’m lucky I woke up from it. And I already regret it took so long. I’m 30 this year.
You still got a few years to find a good man and start a family before it would be a geriatric pregnancy.
Good luck girl!
Me too! Thank God we still have time.
@@cleri08 I'm going to tell you first be carful because a lot of men have change, and most good, decent, high value or alpha men are either going out the state, and or they will test you to see if you are a good potential partner so for example they will test you on long termness, to see if your actually going to be with them, and care for them, they going to test you to see if you can cock, and most importantly they going to always check your pass. So in meaning it means how many people have you been with, slept with, had sex with, they also call it body count so if you ever here them bring it up just tell the the truth because if you lie, and they find out they going to have a serious problem with that. I hope that all help, and stay safe,and bless you.
@@michaelquaid4679 yeah but she already lost some of her fertility, sure it's not over, but it's gonna be harder
It's not too late. I found my guy at 32. We have 2 babies and are very happy. Date with intention and don't get distracted by useless men.
"Men have been trying to convince women of that for 4,000 years." Most definitely, Feminism and burning bras didn't liberate women, it liberated men.
I agree to the extent that woman have been set free in the sense that feminism absolved woman of all accountability, albeit to their own detriment.
It also didn't liberate men except for perhaps the few who enjoy and have access to many different women
49 and so glad I'm child free and can pursue dreams of travel, learning, sports, spirituality and yes companion animals.
When I got married and had children it was because of the strong love I felt for my wife and for the children that we had. My time in life had nothing to do with it. The all powerful feeling of true love took control of my feelings and my life. You want to wait to get married and have or not have children is your thing. More power to ya. But for me, the warmth of true love of a good woman and beautiful children is the most powerful thing in the world.
I absolutely love Dennis Prager. He's so intelligent, kind and generous!
Sent from god to lead us.
@@ondolite3789 No
Rich white guy alert! Plus, he platforms people who bragged about beating the hell out of women like Andrew Tate did.
@@newbiegain117 yes
lol
“Who am I To intervene with this great feminist message” truly one of the greatest quotes I’ve ever heard lmao
What grown man takes a selfie 🤳 like a teenage girl
A black man who hates women? Conservatives will love you, bro!
Being in a abusive relationship can be a factor for serious mental and physical health issues and lead to problems for the children in the family. It can be better to be single and out of a abusive relationship than to stay in it. Sometimes single people can find close friends, family and live happy and purposeful lives. If an individual chooses not to marry and becomes lonely then they are facing the consequences of their actions. However not all individuals should or need to be married and have children. Having a child is a serious commitment which the couple should be emotionally and mentally ready to take on. Life is complicated and there are a significant number of reasons why people choose not to marry or have kids and that’s ok.
True, it's not a choice between being single and marrying prince charming.
Exceptions dont disprove the norms we aren't going to stop having families because abuse can happen. life is tough we must keep going forward
I want to explain something about abuse and there have been many studies on this. As a matter of fact, the woman who opened the very first woman's shelter in the 60's I think, did the very first study and lost the shelter she opened and had to go into hiding because the feminist came after her.
In these studies it shows that in 68 percent of abuse cases, the women admitted to being just as abusive and physical as the men. Many times these women even admitted to starting the violence. That's just on physical abuse. Many men have learned to not raise a hand to a woman, even in self defense because they will be the one arrested. Once men started doing that, women started calling everything else abuse. Even if a woman starts a argument and the man keeps silent and walks away, women will call that emotional abuse. As strong as women claim to be but silence is abusive?
Abusive relationships predominantly occur between people who have higher body counts either both or one.
If you have relationships then you will suffer harm on some level. That’s just the nature of relationships. You could get into a fatal crash but are you going to let that stop you from driving. Relationships can be very rewarding but they are not fairytale stories. They take work.
The thing that Andrew tate doesn't realize is he's the last man on earth who should be talking on the subject.
I'm an old man now, but the happiest time of my life was working to provide for my children and my stay at home wife. Those women looked shocked and had somewhat guilty looks on their faces. Maybe he touched a heart or two.
Wonderful for you! Sure, there are also many women who think differently and advise to get an education first and not be dependent on a man, because they lived through it and wished to have chosen otherwise. I saw plenty of elderly women on platforms but also in real life state this. There are also many elderly women who belief that marriage snd children is the best option. But you know what? It is different for everyone! And guess what? The newer generations saw their grandmothers and mothers who had less chances and opportunities as them divorced and worn out by marriage and having children, raised with scars and wounds because there parents were not able to raise them and do right by them. Gain some perspective and realize that it is not the same for everyone, remember this!
@@dumplingflatbread1919 I did not say it was for everyone. I know people who haven't had children and shouldn't have any. Some people don't have kids for purely selfish reasons, some claim financial reasons, and some say the world has become too evil to raise children in. But for me it was a precious time in my life. If you haven't tried it don't knock it. As a side note, my youngest son is a candidate for U.S. Senate from WV. I'm very proud of him.
While I love that people have options ,I myself am a mother of 8 grandmother of 24 have been married since 18 and feel that that's where I personally belonged. I worked,owned several businesses but I was able to make that choice and make it work for me. Never used a daycare for any of my children or grandchildren as I'm the caregiver for the youngest not in school. I do believe that families functioned better when a parent was able to parent 24/7. I never liked the idea of someone else raising my children with their morals and values or lack thereof. It was always easy but it was always worth it. With that being said not all women and men should be parents..... 3 of my children are siblings and adopted due to child abuse. I truly miss the days of my youth but I'm glad I was able to raise my children how I was raised. Dennis is the man!! Love you and Taylor you make a great team and an even better show.......blessings from north central Wisconsin
I'm curious when you looked for a man to marry, was the most important the man making a substantial amount of money? If you didn't marry that type of man do you feel like you settled? The podcasts like F&F, Pearly things and etc always seem to push the message that most women only seek the money. I believe that is completely bogus. Is it true for some women? YES, but not all.
@@uanonymous1090 my first husband was a military man but extremely abusive. I was only 18. Money has never been an issue I was intrested in. I've been dirt poor and homeless and at times made enough just to get by. I have always searched for companionship first and foremost. I remarried a 2nd time to a food delivery truck driver again not much to scream about but we made ends meet. I actually had more money being single than ever married. So no money was never important but I also never felt like I had settled for anything less than I was searching for. Unfortunately I still dont have money to speak about 🥴
@@uanonymous1090 they say that about modern women not women in general
I didn’t want kids for a long time, and around eight years after marrying my wonderful hubby I started to have the urge and decided that maybe I did want one kid. Now we have two beautiful baby girls and are planning on growing out family ❤️ It was the best decision I’ve ever made, second to marrying my husband. I worked so hard for nine years to make money, to advance in a corporate environment, to network and get my name out there, only to be shown by my company that I was replaceable and unimportant there when I was asking for help because I was having really serious health issues. I went home on medical leave, had an epiphany about wanting to be a mom and my life has changed forever 🥰 I now think back and shake my head at my past self for being so preoccupied about working so hard for someone else to make all the money and my health kept declining…I can’t think of a better thing to do with my life than take care and raise my children 🙏🏾❤️
I truly understand why Andrew Tate was Canceled on all social media he’s telling men to be men and women to act like women and stop being side pieces and being trash and only thinking about themselves. I have been a stay at home mom for 10 years with no income and I love it I wouldn’t trade any Gucci bag or private jet or fancy vacation for anything being a mother and passing on to the next generation is everything.
yep. that's what I am picking up as well, which is ruining the "new world order".
Being a mom is your choice. Some women do not want to be moms and that is their choice too. Why should their choice be analyzed and criticized all the time. If you think they are selfish, they can say the same about you. They do not have Children and do not want children yet a portion of their income, paid as tax, goes towards your child; be it in education, health etc. who do you think should be complaining here.
@@chinezeolisah1308 what does me being a stay at home mom have to do with taxes or women not wanting to be moms?
@@foxgirl8387 firstly you are a stay at home mom, who doesn’t work yet you enjoy the benefits of living in a functioning community. Other men and women have to work to make that community/society function and provide you that benefit you enjoy. It that’s nit the point, the point is that it’s your choice and other women have made their choice too. Neither choice is wrong nor right and should not be compared nor criticized.
@@chinezeolisah1308 are you seriously telling a stay at home mom that she doesn’t work? My husband pays for everything that I get and I don’t get free health insurance neither do my kids yes people pay taxes in the city where I live for the school the streets the police officers the EMTs but I’m still confused about what taxes has to do with my original post about being a stay at home mom looks like you are attacking and shaming stay at home moms gross 🤢 I will also add that We pay over $4000 a year in property taxes that goes back into the community
Dennis Prager has just been promoted to a TOP G.
I'm glad that this message is being presented in diverse atmospheres.
Another dummy thinks unicorn and elf are real grow up
Seriously i am so happy about that
Shut up.
adults can make decisions for themselves. they shouldn’t need random people’s opinions to make them feel like what they are doing is either right or wrong.
@@ihateallyall The relativism argument all over again huh? Our general moral codes are collective. It's part of being in a culture so right or wrong/morality is generally not based on the individual but based on the group and nearly all adult decisions are made within the framework of the cultures that they either exist in or are born in to. It is juvenile to think that random people in your group/nation/culture have no say on your sense of morality. You tacitly act on the collective morality random people in your group all of the time.
I am in my late 30’s and lost my reproductive organs to cancer/chemo. As much as I would love to adopt, medical bills have left me in debt. I would not choose where I am right now… but this is the life I have. Even now it is hard to watch everyone around me have families. Seeing woman actively choose this… breaks my heart. I have pictured what my daughter would be like since I was in my teens. Dreamed of being a wife/mother. Those dreams shattered. Still grieving for what I lost right now with topics like motherhood and abortion is heart wrenching. If you are still young and reading this my advice is to listen. Look for a good man to be a good father and start as soon as possible because you never know when you won’t have the option anymore.
If you're in usa, I've heard that those bills don't affect credit. You can not pay them without consequence. I may be wrong, but that is my understanding
You're different dear,,it wasn't a choice for you,,,,I pray things would workout for u and u find a man and have children through other means,,you deserve it dear.
Look into fostering
Reading this broke my heart.
@@dapperfan44 of course it would because there are people out there who don't appreciate wot dey have by not even wanting it atall and are capable of having it while others abort on d regular so life isn't fair sometimes
As a father of three, I wholeheartedly agree. I got married late. I was 30. And my firstborn was born not long after our 1st anniversary.
Having lived the single life for a while, and having traveled the world, I can attest that life without kids is small and has less meaning than a life with a family.
Get married. Have kids. Love them and take responsibility for them. And if you can help others as well
I’m 30 with no kids. Best decision I’ve ever made in my entire life.
or, grown adults can make grown decisions to have kids or to not. some people really want to be parents and some do not or cannot afford it. and that’s okay.
Congratulations your a smart man . Knowing what you wanted from life is so fulfilling.Its great people can say these things now .whereas up until fairly recently itwas.almost.looked down on wanting to start a family and get married etc .best of luck to you.🙂
30 is not marrying late lol. I'll probably be much older if I ever get married
@@silvergirl2847 People have been starting families for eternity, it's not that big a deal.
As a man that’s had a good career and always been able to provide a comfortable life. The MOST gratifying thing I ever did. Was become a father. Life is empty, selfish and meaningless without children. Wake up to what’s important. Even my father and grandfather felt the same. Your job doesn’t define you because it could be gone in a second. Your legacy through family lives forever.
Children and marriage. you grow so much from all of it
Denis said “they are are out of touch. Maybe these women shouldn’t reproduce”. This is extremely scary.
Feminists looks in mirror
" you are not capable of raising a child. maybe you shouldnt reproduce"
*kills baby.
Out of touch mothers create out of touch kids. + Left Corrupt Public Education. HOMESCHOOL PEOPLE!
The real truth is in the middle of what everyone has said. Careers are important. Children are important. Finding a good balance of time, money and energy you will invest in both is tricky, but we should all aspire to it.
I disagree. Careers are only important so far as they serve God and family. A woman’s career is usually not important. My mom graduated from a respected university with honors. She never once used her degree to get a job. She got married and had 10 kids. You tell her her career is important and she’ll say, •Yes, my career of raising children.” Anything else and she’ll laugh. She has a legacy. She built a home with a firm foundation for 10 humans who are intelligent, capable, educated, and (at least somewhat) virtuous. She has a wonderful husband who loves, supports, and appreciates her and she is going to have so many grand babies. Very few careers are as good as, much less better/more important than that.
If women don't prioritise marrying a man and raising a child then that society/culture is doomed, there's a reason why west is in a downward spiral. Finding a suitable man AS SOON AS POSSIBLE is most important and heaving realistic expectation that comes with it for different responsibilities and sacrifices to be made on both sides. Women have more choices in your 20s than in your 30s 40s so the sooner they start seriously looking for it then the better your odfs
@@purelightapologetics4930 is it so hard for people to understand that we are all different ? I personally want children but a lot of women (and men) are not cut out for being parents, they don’t want to and will not be good at it
I agree with you Blue Robin, you can't support a family without a career. People have found good balances with them without neglecting their children or their spouses and in today's america, its hard to support a family off of only one breadwinner (this is mostly in reference to impoverished families and lower-middle class. Idk what the upper-middle class is like and i doubt i will ever know)
My grandmother is an example of what i think is good balance. When the kids were at school/daycare she would sleep, then get up and tend to them when they arrived home, and then at night would go work while everyone was asleep and come back when everyone woke up to take the kids to daycare/school before going to bed. She was able to balance her sleep, tending to the home and family, while also working to help support the family.
@@linalou1354
But now the “standard” for women is supposed to be a career care free traveler have sex with tons of dudes pro abortion type of woman . And anything related to family and motherhood is seen as oppressive. That’s the problem here . They tell you that you’ll be happi-ER alone and childless
I agree with almost everything Tate has to say about women, my problem with him is that he doesn't hold men to the same standard. He will shame women for being promiscuous, and tell them they need to stop sleeping around, settle down and raise a family. I fully agree with that, but he will actively encourage men to sleep around, different women every night, have a loyal wife at home raising the family and a couple hos on the side. I can't get behind that message.
Yep I'm in the same dilemma. He has strong points but at the same time he can be hypocritical so I feel like that's why people don't take him seriously.
He's drawing you in with those simple truths that appeal to an inner conflict young men are facing. Then he wants ur money to become a hustler like him. Munchausens/pyramid scheme/cult leader/snake oil salesman.
@@ItsSimplyAless I can show you a peer reviewed study which shows that promiscuity in men does not lead to self destruction. I can show you a video released by prager that men are hard wired to be promiscuous. That Lauren Southern herself stated that a woman sleeping with one man is equivalent (in feeling) to a man sleeping with 20 women.
Your only rebutal is an appeal to the metaphysical, which I reject on the basis of it being a system of morality which exists as a coping mechanism to justify weakness.
@@sc1424 do those studies show the effect of male promiscuity on their marriage/wives/children? It's not just before marriage, he actively encourages men to be promiscous while married.
I agree. But I personally cannot get behind anything he says or thinks
I am a 23 year old woman, the eldest of 3 siblings, my youngest sister is 10 years younger than me. When I was a child I was never really interested in the idea of having kids, all my friends at school were like "I want 6 children, I want 12" and I was like "2 is the absolute limit" because I didn't realize that none was even an option at that time. I feel like I've experienced enough of raising children through helping my Mum raise my 2 younger siblings. So for now, I still don't want kids. Maybe my mind will change when I hit 30, maybe not.
we need One childreen, but thats it.
Small truth I think you already knew it .
The older you get as a woman the more doors of nice guys in your husband age group is getting closed. And one more thing is your kids are not healthy as compared to your kids health when you give birth in your young age.
But choice is yours make your choice with intelligent and with a clear future plan :)
@legendmahi1995 Yeah, lucky for me, I already have a fiance who also doesn't want kids, so I'm not too worried about the first truth
@@tinyfreckle that's so nice :)
World need people like you to control population 😁
So many people are not happy without children but if you do it, it's great.
I’m a father of 3 and I decided not to have a fourth because it would be “too costly”. My wife wanted the fourth desperately and we finally decided to try and were unsuccessful at her getting pregnant again. We have three great kids but don’t let money determine things you can afford that you probably should do.
I was at a friends father’s 80th birthday party in April of this year. Standing around me was his wife of 55 years, 4 children and their wives/husbands, with all of their Grandchildren. There were 27 people in the house most of them all family and a few neighbourhood friends. They all sang songs, read poetry and spoke of childhood stories. There was no mention of their careers. It was beautiful to see. Meeting a partner, making a promise, having children creating a family it Life’s best kept treasures.
I don't like tate,but he is absolutely correct. I am in my 50s. I have no family parents? No
Spouse? No
Children? No
Siblings? No
Friends? No
I am alone in a way that is nearly impossible to articulate. The closest I can come is the horseman quote
Except xhange it to Noone loves you and Noone likes you and that is the loneliest feeling in the world
you need to adopt! I can hear the longing... and kids need someone like you.
"I don't like tate" no wonder you're a disaster
quit being a punk and MAN up and be LOGICAL
Watch Tate's long-form interviews to get a more accurate assessment on him
and since you're a man in your 50s, you still have time to flip your life around.
Find purpose in God, he is ALWAYS there for you to call on
Oh no, that is a very unfortunate feeling of lonliness, I actually prefer being alone because Ive been surrounded by multiple family members, I have no privacy in my life for someone who enjoys lonliness.
@@joelercoaster good grief
Amala has such a good energy about her, I love her so much!
Plus, she is platforming Andy Tate who bragged about beating women.
@@honkyjesuseternal that’s not true
You love a person you don’t know that must be tuff
I don't see the ewedu
@@emmanuelirmiya3082 my guy... 😂😂😂😂😂Been looking for someone that'll relate.
"The happiest people on earth are women with children." It's great that his mom is happy, but I beg to differ. I also notice how he isn't married himself.
That's statistically untrue
So be a mother regardless of how mentally fucked you are, or how much you don’t want them. I’m 50 and do not regret that decision. My mother was good with it. My Grandmother was extremely grateful that I had a spare 10 years to take care of her. Now my mother in law reaps the benefits of my childless life. I’ve had a full life being an artist and business owner. It’s been a fun life with less stress and less heartbreak than all of my friends 🦋
Wow. What he said about women being more promiscuous rings so true! When I grew up in High School, you'd go through a "Talking" process... you start dating in which you start kissing and sex wouldn't happen for like 6 weeks to 4-5 months AFTER you guys became boyfriend/girlfriend. In college I started to notice that the time required before sex continued to go down drastically until in my mid-20's it was fairly easy to go out and get one night stands. In my head I thought it was fantastic as it required 0 commitment on my part besides providing a fun night and I felt ok about it because I was never leading anybody on. I never understood how women didn't get that they were playing right into our hands or maybe they just didn't care.
No mother will ever say I regret being a mother, BUT they might think it. My mother sacrificed her entire life being a mother and she was a great one, but she didn’t have the time to travel, enjoy life. She regrets that deeply.
You always want what you don’t have.
Do whatever makes you happu. You don’t need children and marriage to be happy. You don’t need to be single and travel the world to be happy either. No one can promise you everlasting happiness. Stop listening to people who tell what you’re supposed to do. Follow your dreams and who knows, you may find love, marriage and children while following your dreams.
That 50 year old woman he was referring to… we don’t know her full story. Maybe she never met the one. She could have settled down with a half decent man, but what life would that be.. settling?
a better one than she has now
You can travel and enjoy life at any age, your mother still has the chance to do that now, having already had a family.
You can only start a family and have children in your younger years. Its about prioritising.
I bet your mum would enjoy going on holiday with you, more than she would enjoy being on her own at the age she is now, with no family network to show for it.
No entirely truth their is many things I don't want that I can't have it does not mean I'm not happy. Also you don't need children or marriage to be happy. But your soul purpose is to procreate for your legacy, family, bloodline, and well life, without that its nothing. If you just live base off of what men created then imaging not having everything you have now, like clothes, phones, light, beds, TVs, cars etc just think about living alone with no one to survive alone with no one.
It’s never too late to travel, it should be children goals to treat their mother with vacations anyway, that’s the whole point of striving for success in my eyes, is to help return the favor of the people that spent thousands raising you
I agree with this. Having four children added that small traumatic push for my mother to develop schizophrenia eventually. With the lack of psychiatric knowledge and treatment on this condition as well as the lack of community as well as the nature of this condition to isolate, my mother is isolated in a house of children she wasn't able to raise well, with a loving husband sure, being unable to connect to others and having given up hear dreams of becoming a lawyer to raise the children that she was unable to raise right partly because of having children... She confides that she doesn't enjoy that at all. She wanted to have contributed to society in a meaningful personal way, not in some sort of pyramid scheme of reproduction for women. If there was less individualism and more of a community, that might feel satisfactory and accomplished enough. But currently society doesn't value community much at all. It values identity and individualism, and in that mindset, raising children as your priority might not be as great as an accomplishment because children are to become their own persons and aren't something that's indicative of yourself as an individual. I'm just musing but if people want to make raising children/being a mother more attractive again, then putting more of an emphasis on community values and not expecting our women to isolate themselves in a one house one family unit where they just work around the house and raise kids all day without seeing any other adult to connect with might be an option...
The message was the same but said by two different generations. Just a different way of expressing it. I agree with both of the men. 🏴🏴🏴👍
How many kids does andrew tate have? Is he married? Did someone ask personally his wife if she is truly happy? The answers NO. Thus he cannot talk, advocate or suggest things that he personally doesn’t know, experience, and living it.
Tates delivery is passionate and aggressive,because of the group he was adressing were bad girls,and he did,nt care to be rudely cut off or interrupted,knowing the masses were listening to his message,,a very important message.I praise Dr.Praeger for contributing,and giving the issue its due respect.without hesitation.thanks to unapologetic.Good works, Sister A.
Dennis Prager reacts to Andrew Tate? This is a certified hood classic!
no it isnt. Hella cringe. Andrew is a real man, Dennis is a weirdo
Indeed. A certified banger
I love it. Dennis Prager lining up with the top G!
@@AC-mp7cx somebody didn't watch the video 🤦♀️
@@armellebiampamba4257 I did. Andrew is not even conservative, he's kind of a centrist
None of the women had an original idea too. They didn't know what their life would look like in their 50s, they never thought about it
Spot on. This cut me to my soul, as my life never turned out as I wanted. I am living proof that not having a family legacy is a wasted life.
That's a big lie..its a choice really.
@@tiktokplatinum3861 don't worry, you'd soon know. Its pointless explaining anything tou you, you'd find out yourself
@@tiktokplatinum3861 🤡 Don't worry you will soon get to that age ...
So you don’t have aunts and uncles
@@MsMookalate they have their own family ,make your own family 🤡
The problem with Andrew is not that he's saying things like this, these just facts, but the fact that he parallel talks about and advocates for cheating, grooming, ''accidentally'' breaking some girls jaw.. etc
All comes down to when women started believing that men's lives are better and so they try to emulte men's lives and find that the rewards are not what they thought they were
And yet, Tate is NOT a husband. He uses the same women he yells at for not being mothers.
He has 10 women and don't want to be tied down by government, but if you think about it by the old standard, he is an husband
Because he's a top tier men.
@Prasanth Thomas what you are saying is just shaming language without any value, a man doesn't need a piece of paper, nor be a monogamist, you are doing cultural imposition
He has never said that he would naver have kids ever....Men have no biological clock but women do. 🤦
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Both Andrew tate & Mr. Prager are absolutely right on the money on this issue
Y'all remember when all of those people spoke out about overturning Roe v. Wade and said they are basically self-sterilizing in response to the overturn? As soon as I heard that I smiled, because I learned that their insanity would end as soon as their bloodlines ended.
Having my son was the best thing i have EVER done!!
the difference between those girls and Andrew and this man you brought is respect when talking about someone else. Firstly, they simply said what they thought and felt currently, cuz they're still in college my goodness...who expects someone to already have plans for children when they haven't even finished their studies?? Of course they're gonna think about career first cuz how are you gonna raise a child if you don't even know if you'll be able to afford it yet, and this isn't like the 60s where a man could provide for everything, there's not an assurance that that will be the case, and some women maybe find joy in economical independence and don't want that either. Focusing on a career first doesn't mean you'll never want to have children. But my 1st point is that they were talking about themselves as individuals while you guys and Andrew were speaking about how they should think and act and basically infantilising them, making them seem like they don't REALLY know what they want or what they're talking about as if they were children, that's a prime example of mysoginy right there. For every woman that doesn't want to have children there will be a million more that WILL want them. That's the diversity of human nature, and simply because of that some people like you and Andrew are trying to shame those women for that and for thinking about themselves. And about who else should they think if not? A hypothetical not even yet conceived child? The human race won't go extinct cuz some ppl don't want children, and it's not only women, men too yet I don't see many people criticising them like that. In fact it's men who are usually more afraid of this type of commitment or abandon their families once they have children. Which means this is a deliberate discriminatory attack against women, sparked by a specific group of GIRLS, barely women, that had a different opinion than you, which they only shared, and didn't try to enforce on anyone unlike you guys.
And if someday humans are less and less likely to have children then let it be, maybe it's just nature or God's Plan or whatever you prefer to call it, but don't just force someone into something cuz even if it ends up being something wonderful, they will still be unhappy if they never got to CHOOSE. Cuz in the end it's all about choice. And also, you can't possibly complain about women focusing on education and on getting a job, like...what else are they supposed to do? Not even go to school? Should we go back to the 1800s?
OMG THANK YOU!!
In the rich countries the populations are going down already. And even if these are students, they are setting the direction of their lives. Many women put off the whole idea of marriage and family and spend their 20s, when they are most attractive, wasting their sex appeal on guys who aren't going to stay, and then when they start to think about family in their 30s the men are less interested, they are jaded and want a man to measure up to some amazing guy they had a short fling with and it is too late.
@@markaurelius61 it's so obvious and logical why population is going down in rich and developed countries that I don't even know why you're surprised at that or use it as an argument, do I need to explain even that to you?
@@Nick-nb2oz Please do
@@mariedumpling lol
The old saying “money and things doesn’t buy happiness” is absolutely true; all the money and things can’t fill an emotional void that exists in everyone at some point. I get it, in your early 20s, you think you have time; you do. But don’t expect to think that way forever; you won’t. Once you’ve obtained a career and money; more of it becomes hollow and unfulfilling. I was one of those people when I was 20; then in my late 30s I realized something was missing so I adopted my daughter. She’s now 16 and I’m divorced. I have full custody and couldn’t imagine life without my daughter but being single has left a void that money and things can’t fill. I laughed out loud when the one girl said she was going to be a doctor; lol; she sounds like she’d be lucky to get into beauty college. 😂
My husband's father never got married but had 3 kids with 3 different women and was very career driven his whole life. Today he is a depressed and bitter old man who has always lashed out at everyone around him. One kid committed suicide, one recently attempted by overdosing and the other (my husband) wants nothing to do with him because of how toxic he is. He told me how he has "done it all" and gets almost nothing out of life anymore. Sometimes people just have to find that peace in themselves and not rely on outside forces to fill a void.
I would like to thank you for adopting by the way. I feel like that is more selfless than having kids of your own.
Why would I have an emotional void? I am not a pathetic cry baby.
Dennis Prager is good at what he does, I'll say that. Clear and conversational.
You're becoming one of my favorite new platforms out there. Keeping things authentic and realistic. Keep up the good work
Tate just be speaking facts nothing else
Dennis's comment about the "royal couple of the work" (they should adopt that Greta brat) was really close to Tate's tone!! Loved it!!
I have had the privilege of raising my 4 children. It's the best thing I have ever done! I haven't regretted not having a job outside the home! Dennis is spot on!
So you raised them all by yourself?.
Andrew Tates delivery can be very crude but he is not wrong on many points. I don't agree with the idea that a man deserves multiple women but that is just for me personally. It's not on me to tell another women what to do if she is happy ang hurting no one.
That is a man's base desire, but its the current female dating market not the men that makes it even a possible discussion.
It’s not just a personal thing that a man doesn’t deserve multiple women-it’s a fact. And it hurts society when a man has more than one woman. Think of what that does to the women. Think of what that does to the children. It is sin, plain and simple.
@@purelightapologetics4930 I agree but if 20 women want one man its going to happen. That is with me never being a cheater.
@@purelightapologetics4930 wealthy men has always had multiple women its the oldest act, since the beginning of time, women simply respected powerful men, women are naturally hypergamous this is a fact. In many cultures that is how it is. Only the west demonize that behavior unfortunately
@@purelightapologetics4930 the entire continent of Africa practices multiple wives.
It’s just women in the west are selfish and need to make sure he doesn’t have more than one woman even though is biology states other wise
The points I would disagree on are that Tate makes it sound like that's all a woman is good for. A woman can have a healthy family and also travel, have a successful business, etc. She also doesn't always need to have children to have a fulfilling life.
Also, the fact that tate conveniently didn't put himself in there makes his take half-ass quality. If all a woman can find happiness in is having children like he's saying, then all a man can find happiness in is being a devoted husband and father. Why won't he put that in there with it? A healthy family structure requires BOTH.
Lastly, I disagree that "educated women are the problem." The *content of education* is the problem. I think we can all see the type of "education" that's leading people (both men and women) away from a healthy familial structure. Education to mislead has caused women to believe unhealthy things, *as well as men.* In their own ways, they take this "education" and use it to care less and less about the things that really matter
The problem is that today's world have women thinking of "me, myself & I" only forgetting that we all have a responsibility beyond ourselves. Our lives are too fundamental to be just about ourselves and just what we want. Procreation is beautiful
I watch a lot of your videos. I love how starstruck you are by Dennis even though you literally work for his organization. He’s a huge hero of mine.
I like that you got someone elderly to talk about this. This is something the younger generation hardly choose
thats called progress.
Sure, there are also many elderly women who think differently and advise to get an education first and not be dependent on a man, because they lived through it and wished to have chosen otherwise. I say plenty of elderly women on platforms but also in real life state this. There are also many elderly women who belief that marriage snd children is the best option. But you know what? It is different for everyone! And guess what? The newer generations saw their grandmothers and mothers who had less chances and opportunities as them divorced and worn out by marriage and having children, raised with scars and wounds because there parents were not able to raise them and do right by them. Gain some perspective and realize that it is not the same for everyone, remember this!
Absolutely!!
I am sure Dennis would love someone calling him "elderly" haha
Some people can't handle it due to childhood trauma and subconsciously choosing the same abusive partners your parents were to you. It sucks. After everything I've been through, I would choose peace over anything.
Same sis!
1) ALL people, men and women alike, need commitment and intimacy. The sex might be fun, but it leaves you feeling more and more empty over time if it does not have a relational foundation. Men just have a different response and threshold to sex and actually need sex as PART of that intimate expression, even if their sex drives and social pressures push them to pursue more sexual partners.
2) These days, women DO need the career. And it's not because they should look down on their need for male partnership/companionship. Women need at least a root of self sustainability because one income is not enough, and because there are times when their marriages fail through no fault of their own. Their husbands die or cheat or abuse them physically/emotionally, and they are ultimately left with asking the question, "how do I survive? Do I leave him even if I have nothing to my name?" This is when it is good for a woman to have her own reliable source of income and her own professional identity. It used to be women could do both. Now the "hustle culture" has created an environment that treats motherhood as a bad choice or disability.
"These days" you're absolutely wrong. Being in America and being in 2022, makes you in the top 0.0001% of all of humanity. So yes, these days.
@@AC-mp7cx have you seen the housing market and cost of living in this country right now? No family can make it on a single family income unless that person is making 2 times or more of the minimum wage in that region. Even urban settings that are supposed to be cheap, like Huntsville, Alabama for example, have a housing market that has outpaced the affordability of living on one income full time on a minimum to moderate wage. Without a second income, most families are two paychecks away from homelessness.
@@grcarie Again, you're saying "right now". What the housing market better in the 1800s? Like come on. Were they two paychecks away from homelessness?
@@AC-mp7cx at that time the size of the population did not mean they would necessarily be put out on the street as quickly. Instead they were likely to be put in a "debtor's prison" or kept in a workhouse that wouldn't necessarily feed them well, depending on where you lived. There is so much history to compare, and hard times have existed every when and every where. But for the purpose of this video, I am comparing to the prewar economy of the 30s and 40s, when women very rarely went to work, but rather kept their garden homes or took care of household if they had to find work. And then the 50s and 60s, when sometimes women would work as waitresses, but again, they would mostly stay home when their children were very young. I say "these days" because I am specifically referring to the kind of impacted housing and homelessness crisis we are currently having as a result of bad policy and crumbling economic infrastructure.
I think a big middle ground between me and “successful women” should be sought out. The world is in a crazy place and the growing of extremes doesn’t help on either side.
Andrew is blunt.. but also 100% correct
I thought he was a black African man when I first heard him on radio, he thinks like a real black genius man ♥️♥️♥️💯🎉am glad he represented real white fathers
Please have Dennis on to react more often!
The only issue I have with this argument is there are just as many men who don't want children, yet nobody comes for them. I think if it was framed more that everyone who chases their career only is more likely to be unhappy then fair play, but it just seems like an excuse to jab at women.
And I say this as someone who has children and is a stay at home mother, so the staunch feminists don't like me already lol.
As a carpenter i've worked a lot in homes where the woman is by herself and i can say that a minority of them are happy, the majority is unhappy/unfulfilled and a minority is batshit crazy, The crazy ones probably are crazy because they've never had a man so they become bitter and take it out on everything and everybody else. The same goes for men btw but in a much lower percentage. When a woman haven't had a man in a long time and are older she literally becomes the crazy cat lady.
I think I saw that movie before.
yeah there should be someone to put out your anger on right
Maybe they were not always crazy.. they were driven crazy..
Scorned into bad marriages abused and left alone as they got older so yea
Speaking as a young Christian, I would love to be able to choose to have a family and children in the future. But I also think it is fine if I cannot have this. Whatever path in life comes my way, I trust that God has good plans for me and for all of us. And I also respect other womens choices not to have children or a family and still remain content with their lives. Recent studies show that these days the happiest and most peaceful people are single women who are able to lead independent lives. Not to say that marriage and children is not good, I think it is a sacred and beautiful option(even if it is not easy), but this is certainly not for everyone. What about the women who feel mentally unfit to have a family and cannot take care of children. I would presume it would be better for the child if both parents are present and they are able to have a good job and are educated. Is it not better then to first have an education and mature more in life before you could make such a life changing decision? There is a lot of nuance to this. What is often overlooked in these conversations with conservatives claiming that marriage and children young is the best happiest option for women, is that it is too black and white and exclude women who may very well not be able to do this. It seems like they are referring to upperclass women from wealthy and good families who have the option to choose if they want to be a housewife and a mom or not. Just keep in mind that not every woman has the option to choose this. Most people (especially lower class working people) do not have this privilege to be able to choose to become a mom and a house wife. Most people have to work and it is not as easy to be a mom these days. I think this shows just how privileged these conservatives are, and how they seem to have almost no empathy to put themselves in other womens shoes to imagine how difficult it may actually be for them to do this. For these women being single or just simply not having children is the best option and makes them happier and I don’t think that conservatives seem to understand this. Gods plan for everyone is different and He has set apart a plan specifically for you individually and uniquely. No one has to follow someone else or compare themselves with others because you are not them and they are not you. I don’t think God would judge someone or demean someones life choices, I think God has much more understanding and patience and compassion for people than we ever had for others and even ourselves.
Hey I will say i am semi career type of women, I want a job which i feel passionate about and brings me economic stability but i am also quite traditional, in a way which i don t think i should throw away family or family plans to acquire self aggrandizement in career. Hence in generality I am against girl boss ideologies.But after watching andrew tate , I am now well I don t need u men. I am out of the game. Because i dont want to be a property to a man . I rather die alone and be crazy than being prideless and dependent. Andrew tate actually discourages many future relationships. Because he make men entitled to own the women, making them arrogant and not appealing to women, And berates women if she has interests, but after will actually love to have kids and happy family. But to Andrew Tate ideologies women after 23 are worthless , and only way to be worthfull is by being a gold digger bitch.
That msg on the end about woman which have that type of character is on point. They should not reproduce.
Great interview with Dennis Prager Amala. I appreciate Andrew Tate as well, andI have no problem with his delivery. Some people need to be shaken awake, when they are in mental slumber.
"Ask your own mother if she regrets having you, she's gonna say ..."
Uhhh
My mom reminded us, to put it nicely, that she was very pro abortion.
She also told me I was dead to her when I told her, "if we talk, im going to be honest and if you hit me ever again, I'm gonna hit you back"
No woman can be a feminist and a good mother at the same time.
Anyone that raises their hands against their parents especially the "mother" is an abomination and the curse of GOD and the angels is on them.
@@wegge2008 hope you differents between mothers and mom's.
Almost any woman can become mother, but do they deserve to called mom by their children!?
The respect for mom and dad should come from their performance as parents.
A child who is treated like shit by their parents will automatically build up trauma that can last the lifetime and if the that child ever hit back their parents it would be an act of saying enough, not an abomination.
Same for father's too
Fortunately, most parents wouldn't do that, and we are lucky to have a loving and caring parent.
@@nbhage2178 There's a scripture that says that children should obey their parents in the LORD for this is "right" in the sight of God.
The next point in that scripture now says:
Parents do not provoke your children to wrath...
@@FrankyDikey Bro Ur mind is too narrow by only believing one book and closing all.
Trust me not all parents deserve to be Obeyed and Respected.
Read or Watch some documentaries of orphans who were abandoned by their parents..
Should they still Obey them.. that's up to you..
@@nbhage2178 bro did you read the last part of Frank's comment?
So happy to be a SAHM. I have a college degree. I think you can have the best of both worlds. Get a practical education as inexpensively as you can. That’s what I did. If you marry a bad man, you have a way to leave and earn your own money, but if you’re blessed with a good man, you can be a mom without worrying about the career.
His delivery is exactly what is needed. Blunt, militaristic, and unforgiving.
Though I agree with the fact that Career only brings no full happiness, He comes across as trash. He has double standards and those guys with big mouths are the worst fathers and husbands
@@LeonC0704 double standards are reality. Men and women are not equal. We do not have the same instinct or requirements.
@@dobermanownerforlife3902 true. There are double standards that "benefit" men as well as those who "benefit" women. I was talking about that with a friend. I was telling her that yes, women can do some things and they will get criticize whereas a man would not. On the same token, women can have attitudes or do things that if a man does them, he will be criticize.
@@LeonC0704 please give a double standard that benefits men.
@@dobermanownerforlife3902 well, women do get shamed for things that a man would not. You have the beauty standard pressure they have that we in general do not.
A woman can have a career and children at the same time. It is challenging but it's doable.
His points are awakening! people do not understands it now... because it's bitter truth and he puts it in a harsh way! but anyways that's his style of explaining it.
Show him the clip of andrew tate where he said it’s okay to have girlfriends (sleep with other women) even though you’re married (given that you return to your wife at home)
most of the emperor in the world has more than 1 wives with even more than 200 concubines especially in asia
@@worldmotivation4732 so? It does not necessarily mean that it’s the right to do now does it? In fact I’ll bet my pet turtle that most concubines didn’t even want to become one, they were kidnapped or deceived into thinking they’ll live a better life in the palace when in reality they just became sex toys.
@@huh7056 Ah and where do you get your morality from? Christianity or Judaism, the morality of slaves. A system where strength is wrong and weakness is right. A moral system filled with copium. I do not think that it is a virtue to be meek. I dont think that a strong person should use his strength to service the weak. Stop virtue signaling. Your beliefs (which stem from Christianity, even if you dont believe in god) =/= Objective morality (which doesnt exist BTW).
Humans are polygynous. We always have been, even in the bible. It was the Catholic Church and the state (who worked together), to find monogamy in the bible (using cherry picked verses), to make society more structured and to provide incentives to incels to participate in society. That does not make it a moral good or a virtue.
It’s ok ladies. If you want to focus on your careers. That is what you want! Just do it wholeheartedly.
SMH
That’s just cope and bad advice.
Create a family or find one.
Tate is completely right!! These women are vapid, shallow and soo extremely sad.
I’m a 70-year-old man, never married. I’m a huge gun enthusiast. It would always complicate the relationships with the women I dated. In the end, I always chose my guns and it was always the right decision. My guns are everything to me something women will never understand because a gun will never betray you!
It's so awesome you got Dennis on as the guest! What a perfect comparison between him and Tate.
He is totally giving back to young people. He's an amazing man.
I think he is correct in his message... his detractors just don't like the way he delivers the message... but that doesn't make the message any less true
I disagree with Andrew. Reason being, I don’t believe your value should be placed in things like becoming a mother OR achieving your career OR becoming a wife. What if God forbid something happened to your child and this child was all you lived for? It might seem fulfilling but placing your identity in worldly things just can’t sustain.
To say that the happiest woman is one with children is inaccurate. Lots of women have a deep desire to child bear, I would even say that a majority have this desire. But there are those who were not built with this maternal need. Some women are designed to not have children. Either way it is possible to find peace and contentment with your life.
You're not wrong. But I think it's not about basing your identity on being a mother, but seeking a life of meaning and responsibility -- long term. Children are an investment into the future (among other things) and a way to extend and broaden your life's meaning and by extension you.
Now, a career can replace this kind of meaning, but the argument is that more often than not it fails as a replacement. Are there more mothers that regret having kids, or more career women who regret not having children? I honestly don't know. But I do think the reasons for not having children are not very well thought out and come from a place of indoctrination rather than introspection, in many cases.
I completely agree with Dennis. I was born in the 70's and grew up with the lies and even tried to believe them at times. I had kids a bit later in life and have somewhat experienced both sides. To Andrew's point, my kids are the best thing that has ever happened to me and I am so thankful for them. It is the hardest and best job I have ever had. I think being a parent (or at least attempting to be a good parent) forces us to be less selfish, better people.
Tate says some outlandish things that I don't always 100% agree with, but when it comes to male and female dynamics he's usually spot on.
I’m the generation that followed this gentleman. And he is absolutely correct. As I was going through my first divorce in the 90’s, it seem to be the slightly older “professional women” that my ex was gleaning information that she would get $$$$$ if we were to divorce. She regretted it when the judge laughed at her request to revive well more than I made.
"Do whatever the f I want"
And
"Become a doctor"
Are never the same person lmao
Imagine a doctor doing whatever he wants while you're opened up on a surgery table, you might walk out with 3 arms and 4 toes on each foot 🤷.
@@J040PL7 yeah she's never becoming a doctor
I guess it’s hard to understand why someone wouldn’t want a family or children… especially to those who do want a family and children. I would only hope that those who chose not to don’t regret it later in life. There is always adoption…
Its not hard to understand at all. The society beats out the family spirit in us especially for men
You can see that Amala respects Dennis so much, like a father figure
You are right. I think its beautiful to watch. I would give the world for having a daughter like her looking at me like this.
Chameleon
Whenever I listen to Dennis Prager I get excited. The world need more men like him.
Honestly. Coming from a woman who wants kids. You still have to have a job/ career to bring children into this world. At this point it's a crime to bring a child into this world and not be able to provide the bare minimum, necessities in short. Soooooo if life doesn't allow you to have children because of the part you chose. It was for a good reason. So please don't be mad at these women for saying no. Their maternal clock could start ticking after they're done with sorting their lives out. We don't know. But for now. If it's a no. Just respect that it's a no for them. Ps adoption is also a very wonderful option. You don't have to give birth to be a mother. Orphans need moms. Just as much as these women want babies.