on the preference thing, having a “preference” or “type” is only controversial/triggering/deeper than just a “preference” when u get to talking abt skin tone. it goes both ways for both men and women. but when we as black men and black women play the lil preference game w each other, we’re magnanimously gliding over a much deeper discussion. why can u only find black women of this exact specific shade attractive? why u can’t fw a man that has lighter toned skin? like wtf is wrong?? that typa “preference” comes from internalized subconscious self hatred. not saying u look in the mirror daily like damn i hate myself. but saying that there’s some things for u to unpack pertaining to what beauty is to you & it came to b that.
lol i really wish he didn’t say the darkskin comment, even though it seemed like it accidentally slipped out, colorism is a very real problem in our community, & im darkskin so that hurt a little😭
Don’t apologize this was a candid and honest conversation. There’s nothing wrong with having a preference even at the expense of ruffling a few feathers. H/U class of 07.
on the preference thing, having a “preference” or “type” is only controversial/triggering/deeper than just a “preference” when u get to talking abt skin tone. it goes both ways for both men and women. but when we as black men and black women play the lil preference game w each other, we’re magnanimously gliding over a much deeper discussion. why can u only find black women of this exact specific shade attractive? why u can’t fw a man that has lighter toned skin? like wtf is wrong?? that typa “preference” comes from internalized subconscious self hatred. not saying u look in the mirror daily like damn i hate myself. but saying that there’s some things for u to unpack pertaining to what beauty is to you & it came to b that.
*how it came to b that.
Perfectly said.
Well said!!
^ Like they said, well said lol
this prolly the deepest version of this video i seen yet 😭
"What are you doing right now.. these are the things we hate" 😂😂😂😂
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Bro yo friend group is elite
appreciate it homie 🙌🏽
I found this video very entertaining and most of the things yall were saying was true( in my opinion ) ! 😂😂😂😂 . thanks Max
Thank you for watching! 🖤
your friends>>>
lol i really wish he didn’t say the darkskin comment, even though it seemed like it accidentally slipped out, colorism is a very real problem in our community, & im darkskin so that hurt a little😭
I apologize for that, you are absolutely right
Don’t apologize this was a candid and honest conversation. There’s nothing wrong with having a preference even at the expense of ruffling a few feathers. H/U class of 07.
Watching 👀
Lol nice one 👍
Not the lashes 😂😂. What did the lashes ever do to you?? 😂 no but serious, we cool. 💜🦬💜