House M.D. | Pain Happens When You Care
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
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its been three years and im still catching flack, so let me just say this: i get it, the volume ratio is off. shut up. i heard the first 50 of you. i cant go back and change it now. stop wasting your time commenting about it.
I think the video is perfect,thank you for posting it ❤
sounded good enough to me lol
ive never thought it was off whenever I listened. Also great editing!
Okay, but can you adjust the volume ratio?
@@MrKooderna no. once a video is posted, I can’t do that.
I connected strongly to someone else, she died too young from an aggressive cancer. I stay alone now, not because it is better for me, but because it is better for others. The pain is still there. I loved her for over 20 years. She was precious. Me, not so much.
There is something wrong in staying alone because one is afraid to hurt others
Life is pain but we cannot live alone. I wish we can but that is one thing %99 of people can't do
I hear you brother
I'm sorry for your loss.
I lost my gf to cancer of 5 years. I understand what you're going through. It was too early, we never got to have a family or check off things on our to do list. I am now stuck with that and how to deal with those things alone
(Why do you value your failures, more than your successes?) Success is only last until someone screws them up. Failures are forever.
Amen
There is another part to this: When you have failed or screwed up badly enough, anyone else who knows about it will have all their long term memories about you erased, almost as reliably and effectively as reformatting a hard drive. I say almost because not every memory about you will be erased - in fact their most recent short term memories about your failure or screw up (whatever it was) will then be the only memories about you they are able to access.
@@lloydevans2900 OR, theres ANOTHER part to it, the big screw up you talk about will reveal who actually believed in you all along, only the people who believe in you will say "this is not him, this is just one big mistake, this does not define him", because thats also what you will know deep down, that this is not you
Is there a flip side?
Are failures just waiting to be fixed and made into successes? Are there not some successes that last forever?
It's not one rule or the other. It's a cycle.
Facts
"I wanted to."
"It's not enough."
"You'll always choose yourself over everyone else, because that's just who you are..."
I think in the end house proved her wrong
Id agree, but i felt he accepted the truth(logicly) but his humanity refused it.
I see it as House proving his humanity to be as bettered, as she was right. No more.. no less..
This show was a treasure. @@IronStaff7
So I always wonder, what if, only for today, only for this moment, it had been enough? What would have happened if they had this fight, and Cuddy had forgiven him. If House got a second chance here, a real one, but knew what he did wrong.
Every single day some addict out there somewhere will choose to put down their addiction, and never pick it up again, and another one will suddenly start up after 10, 20, maybe even 40 or 50 years, without any real understanding about why.
It makes me wonder, would House change, would be seriously try to fix himself if given a real reason to? The closest he ever comes to fixing his problems always happens when there's a reason to, and when he's at his worst is when he has a reason to. Maybe it's wouldn't, or couldn't happen, for story reasons, but just the fact it could be possible in real life makes me ask myself that.
Yes. I choose myself. If i don't. I can't be better. I'll be the same person that burdens all. I cant do that.
"I want to be in pain, not just be miserable. "
I totally get that. I want to hurt as badly as i used to.... now i am just sad.
when your too tired to keep feeling pain
Atleast when i hurt i felt something now its just emptyness
@@averthewin1689 I feel you, brother
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
Matthew 11:28-30
"I am better off alone or at least I convinced myself I am ... suffer alone, die alone" I relate to this from time and time again where I could be surrounded by friends but still feel alienated and alone.
After my friend abandoned me and I am surrounded by new friends or group I still feel alone; It will not be the same;
Rest in peace Captain Raymond Holt.
You will be missed Andre Braugher.
He was a brilliant and a invaluable actor
I sobbed like a child, the man & that show got me through a very dark period in my life. I'm thankful for the smiles and laughs that man distracted me with
Him and michael duncan were the friendly giants 😭
The actor is dead 😢😢😢
@@grimmrefertheJedi 10 meses atrás.
"choose yourself over everybody else over and over again" seriously was she blind he almost everytime risked his life and his career to save someone's life. And in the end he made one of the biggest sacrifice for his friend that no one can.
no, she is right. He was selfish in the way that everyone around him wanted to help him however, House in his pitiful state thought that the only way he can be is being the way he is right now, sacrificing himself for those around. That was selfish, he was not letting others help him.
@@sun_ada exactly. house is incredibly similar to harvey specter in suits, never wanting to be vulnerable, but vulnerable with those he cares about, but cannot bring himself to change.
@@saintskillerdntfkwth I love Harvey. Wonder what it'd be like, getting House in the same room as Harvey. Witty, I suppose, at the very least anyway.
When Dr House said "I'm in pain... everyday." I truly felt that. I hope some of you never have to feel like way in your life. Bc it changes you. May not happen right away but it will eventually one day. You'll look in the mirror and won't recognize the person you look at.
Yup. Definitely.
Does emotional pain count? Because I would trade mine in a heartbeat if it meant the worst physical pain imaginable
@@YOURteacher_100dont be so sure. i had constant paint for four years playing basketball, taking painkillers just so i could walk properly and function. But that physical pain made me miserable because i wasnt myself. you basically have a voice in the back of your head telling you all the time: one wrong move it will hurt, dont do this it will hurt more. it is horrible. i stopped playing basketball at 19 im now 21 not in pain anymore, no painmeds but the mental pain is still there but it is easier to deal with cause you can distract yourself with work, movies/games, friends. you cant do that with physical pain
@@loiteringrambler1268 guess on the same, don't be so sure
My mental health can't get to a much worse point
i think im beyond that point, i dont even know who i am anymore. and i dont even know what i want anymore. . .
"You'll choose yourself over everybody else over and over again because that's just who you are." But in the end, House instead ended up sacrificing his passion - his entire career - for the sake of his best friend. Not that Cuddy was wrong - House indeed was a guy who'd do just about anything to have his way. But he grew tremendously after being left by her.
house doesnt change as people dont change, so i dont think cuddy leaving made him a different person. he doesnt give up his career because he is a changed person now, he does it because he knows his priorities and this time also he chooses himse,f over anything else.. this is because house loves wilson and doesnt care if wilson loves him back or not, he loves him more than medicine because he knows that wilson will always be there for him..look at it from a different perspective: he doesnt give up his career, he just chooses wilson, thery doing what he wants to do for himself. people never change. it has become a motto of my life. its amazing that a fictional tv character can have so much impact on your life..
I can attest to this! I cannot believe that someone on a tv show mimics(ed) my life, be it good or bad! I lost my wife to another man, and found another woman who changed me but in the end she left….she left because she believed in something higher then me and my children. Funny House suffers for massive leg pain and I suffer from massive migraines, arthritis and a second knee replacement coming up…Yes pain CHANGED me as well and I pushed people away, I hurt everyday physical but mentally as well. I miss my wife I miss what we could have had I miss what was. So here I sit alone
@@sanctuspioxIm in pa1n everyday as well. Please take care of yourself. Do what makes you happy and you will find someone.
@@livewithmeterandnomeasureb1679 thanks!
He sure did a lot for other people for a selfish guy
House was the best psychology class i ever had...
House MD is the best series i have ever seen..this guy gave me so many lessons..
Lessons like?!
The show tries to be as real as it could get through House M.D the character and sequences around the. Character .
Being in pain, but being afraid to die. He thinks hes alone but he's just like everybody
People that dont live every second of everyday for decades cannot comprehend what chronic pain does to who you are. It changes everything..till you give up living
yea
Yea pain could be Mental/ emotional as. Well.
Masterpiece, I can't stop myself from watching it over and over again and again
Thank you very much!!
That is the definition of insanity... Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting shit to change... That is crazy
@@kamilslaby1725 not to be that gal but that's not the definition of insanity. Insanity is the state of being seriously mentally ill; madness.
@@thedumbone1683 not to be that guy, but "madness? THIS IS SPARTA!"
but seriously, if you haven't found the reference yet but the earlier comment, it is from a game called Farcry 3 by a character named "Vaas", pretty amazing performance.
Being in constant pain everyday changed him. He wanted to be pain free and in a happy life.
This show constantly leaves me speechless. All I can ever say is it's brilliant.
Here's what i have learned from House.
1. His authenticity was his bravery
2. People thought he was cold & needed fixing but,
3. in the end it was all of them
4. He knew his limitations he knew his strengths
5. They were all hiding in his radiance of living
6. They did what society expected House lived in a way that complemented his own standards
7. While they were all criticizing him they remained avoidant of their own issues
8. In the end he was single handedly turning them into better people whilst they continued to crucify him
9. This man was the epitome of love masked in sarcasm
10. Their lives revolved around him. They lived for him. He never ask them to they just did. House you left me with existential questions!
11. Life didn't happen to you, you allowed it too! House i Choose You!
Incredible mashup. This show is still so relatable and relevant all these years on.
That's why I liked it so much I'm not disrespectful like house but I relate to a lot of his beliefs now I can't stop watching it the only thing I don't agree with is his belief on God since I'm a Christian myself
Pain happens when you care. I don’t want to suffer anymore. I don’t want to care anymore. I’m broken, I’m alone. I do not care anymore. I had enough. Men can only take a certain amount of hits. I had enough
Don't give up brother! There will be people who will recognise and give back all the care that you are giving out. Care is pain sometimes, might be true, doesn't mean not caring is equal joy. Focus to care about yourself until you find the person who will care just as much about you as you about her.
take a break
you.just tripped over a stone in the road ,youll still live
We can always take 1 more hit my brother. We can always get back up, we can always fight one more day. It's what makes us human, what makes us men. Every loss is an opportunity to learn how to win tomorrow. Pain does happen when you care but the alternative is never feeling love, never feeling happiness, nothing is worth that. I sure hope you made it 1 year to see this.
I hope you’re doing well
@@Cosmic-Militia i am, but scars never disappear completely
“I accept the fact that there’s nothing I can do. Now... what can I do?”
“I like being alone. Because I convinced myself I was better off that way.”
This character says lines that I relate to more than anyone can ever understand. I guess that’s what stories are for. Pain isn’t so easily expressed. We can’t just list out our problems to other people. Human beings are far too narrative for that. When someone goes through pain that they know someone else out there has to feel too but no one around them gets it, they tell a story. Create a character. An archetype. Fiction, stories, imagination... the deepest secrets people have ever held have been entrusted in these. Woven into entire worlds, just to relieve the pressure inside. I guess that’s why good art always comes from a place of pain. That’s why “entertainment” is a multibillion dollar industry. Why people are so willing to spend their money on it. It’s not just television, just a movie, just a fandom... at its core, it’s communication and expression broadcasting from the core of a broken human being who doesn’t have anywhere else to put their pain and those with their antennas on the same frequency are the ones who receive the message.
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Well... that got away from me. Just thinking out loud.
Man, I have issues...
Let's be sad together on my Death Star
@@emperorpalpatine1033 😂 sounds like a plan
I'm a tetris player, I can relate to sadness.
I love this analysis and we all have our issues so you are not alone
Kinda reminds me of the song, iris by the goo goo dolls. "I don't want the world to see me cause I don't think they'd understand"
When you accept the fact that there’s nothing you can do, you are being compassionate to your limitations. A surrender to your fear that you’re stuck, a forgiveness of the limitations that there’s nothing you can do. LovingWill
This show is the only show i feel will ever truly understand me, and itll stay with me forever
Oh, I wish you'd try the BBC Sherlock series. Get all the way to the end and tell me it didn't have emotional impact. I would truly love to hear back from you whether you liked it or not. (You do know that House is based on Sherlock Holmes, yes?) And the episode with Irene Adler (Cuddy's character) will blow your socks off!
Name please?
House's character is so much more than a miserable genius.
Of course! He's Sherlock Holmes. Excellent reboot of the Conan-Doyle stories. I bought the dvds.
Which series sir?
Rest in Peace Captain Raymond Holt
Didnt he become deputy comissioner?
Some wounds don't heal. Some wounds ache every single day. Some wounds hurt year after year. And they won't get better and there's not much you can do about it other than accept the pain. Accept the failure to prevent it, whether or not it was preventable. The hope that it can be cured will always be more painful than acceptance, for acceptance is peace. Sometimes we need that hope to keep on moving. Sometimes that hope is what holding us back from changing, growing. Sometimes hope is what's keeping us from peace. Just make sure you know what that peace looks like before you let go.
Pain is crazy its makes you very broken person in life this world is cruel in ways people don't understand sometimes you see things its breaks you sometimes you your broken before your even born pain suffering when your born broken you see the world for what it really is it's 4 in the morning can't sleep some of you won't understand this but this is how some people feel everyday
Broken to the point of not caring anymore
How are you doing now?
I like this mixed video and I come back and rewatch it every once and awhile. Thank you for making it, volume ratio aside xD
I think not only the series is special to me but also your edit is😩 so many feeling for it. Love, hate, anger, relief.😭😭😭
Dr. House Charakter, Behavior, his Joy moments, his complexes from his parents, his principles to say the truth no matter what, showing Love and Care to peoples in his own way, his believes, his humor, how he deals with him problems. Everything about him makes me see the life in a very different way. DR.House is one of the best Serie ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is so good!!! I’m so happy people still make videos about this show. it’s always been my favorite 🙂🙂
I see myself more and more in this character. I screw things up time and time again and try to fix things myself, finding really difficult to accept help from anyone else. I don't open up to anyone because every time I do, they either leave or I end up hurting them. I will live alone and I will die alone. I'm not dragging anyone else into my misery.
Damn this is too relatable.
Iwill never forgive this series for not giving us a happy ending between House and Cuddy
Oh, but it can't, it's not up to them. I totally understand why you want that closure but we must remember that House is based on Sherlock Holmes and Cuddy is Irene Adler. In the original Arthur Conan Doyle stories, they do not end up together and she remains forever "The Woman." I adored the House series, I even bought the dvds, because they were so true to the stories. If you like House, I strongly recommend you watch the BBC Sherlock series. The episode with Irene is astounding!!
There are no happy endings because everybody dies. Happy is something that happens along the way and we need to learn to take it when it comes because endings are never happy. Never.
man i just miss the show so much ❤🙏
"You got hurt, which means you connected to someone else strongly enough to mess it up"
I relate, I've been in constant pain for 30 years from an accident. There were times I was ready to chew on my pistol, but I have more to live for that the pain is worth it.
What about when you don't have more to live for. Too crippled in agony to get up and eat, let alone life
@@amylee3531 I've given that a lot of thought. When I'm sick or in too much pain, there isn't much that helps. Then it passes and I just have the routine pain levels and I can handle those. Music and art keep me going. But if I was that sick all the time and there was no possibility of it getting any better, if I knew that for certain, it would be one of those situations that I cannot predict from here, now. There are some moments in life when you'll only find out your choice when you're in the situation. Impossible to predict. But I wish you peace.
He opens up to cuddy and she leaves him anyway
Truly sad
RIP Andre Braugher When I was a kid watching house I respected the hell out of your character and Holt was just perfect you will be missed
I understand House at a certain stage you have to choose yourself because at least you can't surprise yourself with painful experiences you are always able to tell from a mile away and that makes it a lot painful but other people will literally tear you a new one 😢
The curse of feeling everything, it's like a catch 22, Sum advantages and disadvantages
I can't stop watching it. Amazing and sad at the same time.
its a trick question, no one values their failures more... they just dwell on them more
long story short, be grateful, don't kick yourself
Love and pain are bedfellows, you cannot have one without the other in one form or another.
The chills , throughout the whole video. Only if it wasn't for youtube compression
UA-cam compression?
@@MultifandomMashup if you watch your own video back on the local file before uploading it the quality is much higher than watching it on youtube. And there's nothing you can do about it
@@MacH8s ohhh yeah its the worst. I stopped bothering to export them as an even bigger file because I noticed it still came out the same
8 years have taught me to never trust again
Thank you
Re watched this a few times... Thanks for the video, much love
I really liked the relationship between House and his psychiatrist.
Fictional character, but I still can feel it, this show is so well made, no matter how ridiculous it got. This shows how much pain one can take. It hurts tho
Thank-You for everything you all do 💙🐾
Why do you value your failures, more than successes?..
Success is only last until someone screws them up. Failures are forever.
Hugh Laurie is House. This is why this worked.
House is my favorite and I love this . Please make more this captured house beautifully..I miss the show so much
Thank you!
House was always a hard series to watch. It has its great moments, and it has it's bad moments... but the show deals with trauma that people try to hide. It shows a side of people that trauma MAKES us hide. And for someone with the same type of issues or addictions that he has... It was a hard show to watch.
Can't know your angels if you've not faced some demons. Keep rising!
rip andre braugher 🤍
Holy fck i didnt realize he died
The weird thing about House MD is that most of what he says applies to real life
And when we stop caring pain becomes our allie/friend rather than our enemy!
You are broken and you don’t want others to Share your burden, because it hurts even more, so you end up Alone, nothing changes
This was one of the most powerful portiona of an amazing series.
This show has changed the way I think. And I think your edits are just really really good. ❤️
Can you make one for After Life? Please
I see myself turning into Dr House little by little. Not his brilliance oh no. I am talking about his pain.
Not many shows have made me cry…
I’m not a sociopath because I’m proud of what I am. It’s just that the world is so scary that I need a shield.
There is One who breathes new life in old bones.... Find Him, rise with him in your inner crucifixion, then new life awaits
Everytime I see this it reminds me of someone. He was my best friend for awhile too before I cut him off. It’s the only friendship I genuinely regret ending. He may have been a dick to me at times, but I always learned something from him.
"You got hurt because you connected yourself to someone else"
When the therapist told house the doctor "Your Not God House" That's crazy 😅
It's why u don't expect the worst strive for the best
Trust no one
I value them to not replicate them.
Other people are better off when I'm alone, but it certainly isn't what I would call peaceful or content. Just less guilt.
I'm in need of your prayers and support. Please keep me in your thoughts for a speedy recovery.
Success is only last until someone screws them up. Failures are forever
I saw your other video, House M.D. | Pain.
I realise that I am just like House in this sense, only 14 years old..
I’m scared that I’ll be like House when I’m older.
Im not crying, im not crying, im not crying
The pillls are important to achieve greater things.
They still find you even in the bottle
It happen because we love something we care
I am understress if everything right whats the meaning of conspiracy trying to find out the real meaning.all the suffering,sorrows,grief,trouble,problems,after all i am human
A usual quiet sober man and belligerent to self if not and others in his circle so his best was as great as his worst do tonight only what you can live with remembering your next sober day ...you get what you give and if you give better than what you give you're settling if the other person is always hurtful and negative...I live to dream just enough
if you know pain adiction or depresion anxiaty anything.. for me House once was the only one who uderstood. My pain was his pain and every his painfel step every painflell echcho in his face was mine. The lonelyness was sometimes so hard.. had only my pills my myseri and my guitar. I was alwasy able to "function". Finish the coleges, get a good job.. to have a family. But I am 34 and I really tried. I did. I am ok, in subtitution program since 2012 just stable. Pain is beteer depresion went away. But I lost almost a decade of my life. I am alone. I used to konvince myself I was beteer of that way. Now I am fain. Just forgotten how not to be alone. Anyway this serie helped me to do better. To try. To grow. And I am really greatful for that. Amazing job from all making House. And Hugh is just amazing.. I still cannot get how well you can play your role. Do not tell me he never knew some of this low s**** stuff.. I just love it. I did and I will
things went emotional with broken protagonist far far earlier than bojack horseman aint that right gentelmen
The human voice can be heard from a distance
It is different than all other sounds
It can be heard over armies
Even when its not shouting, when its telling the truth
Pain suck trust I know this feeling I have live with ever day I wish it can stop
Thank you for the new House mashup. I love them
Life is pain 🔥 house knew how to appeal to an audience, i am becoming a doctor because of him.
house series has the best character development after adventure time ofc
woah, great edit
The success line got me
Of course you can and then he loves him now he can think about living to love another noun
All you people want is a GODDAM SHOW!
Narrative bs. Listen to something in you that you ignore. Sometimes it sucks. But for the few seconds of accountability, its worth it. We all go back to something else everyday anyway.
I accept
so ... don't be afraid of pain
Life's a bitch then we die we will all loss in the end
What a hurtful hateful thing for her to say to the most selfless person she knows.
Hey everyone 🥹😢😭
Sharing is caring. Sun bets the World all day, betty boy.
Oh my fucking god! thank you! you made another one and I love it again!
If thinking about my father brings you pain , good
I stayed to protect him, even from my mother
Personally I don't think House was all that bad. He is the way he is because of everything he has went through in his life. In my opinion watching the episodes he was in pain and without his vicodin were the episodes I had a hard time watching because it showed he held a lot of his anger back and that he really wasn't okay. The vicodin kept him from completely exploding in the beginning and it was hard to watch him in pain. I will state that I haven't completed the series yet Im on season three I believe but seeing him in pain was hard to watch. I think the episode that really got me was the one with the rape victim insisting on wanting House to be her doctor even though she was just raped. That showed he wasn't as bad and as selfish as everyone claimed him to be. There was a reason people liked him and respected him as a doctor it's because he was good at what he does and because he wasn't as selfish as everyone made him out to be.
I did notice that I usually do what House did to Wilson to the people I'm close to as well to see how far it would take for them to either say something to me about what I was doing or give up on me in general.
What about when you get seriously injured from a TBI in a car accident and it has nothing to do with care except carrying and fearing surgery and in virtual inability to change the circumstance without jeopardizing your life further and taking nearly impossible steps to simply recall and execute before your life drifts into old age and high risk dementia prematurely and things like cancer and diabetes risks greatly elevated
2:30 damn 😢
I find it easier to be alone