NPD Series: How to Overcome Intimacy Desire

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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
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    🌟 Are you a survivor of narcissistic abuse struggling with intimacy desire? This empowering video is here to guide you on the path to healing and reclaiming your sense of self-worth. Discover practical tips and insights to overcome the challenges that arise after narcissistic victimization.
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    Understanding Intimacy Desire Post-Narcissistic Abuse
    Rebuilding Trust in Relationships
    Self-Love Practices for Healing
    Setting Boundaries and Prioritizing Self-Care
    Connecting with Supportive Communities
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    Disclaimer: The information shared in this video is for educational purposes only. You are encouraged to seek professional help for guidance on your specific issues. This video provides general information about narcissistic personality disorder. This does not refer to any specific person or group and should not be used to refer to anyone specific to prove having narcissistic traits or related disorders. Permission is not granted to prove any allegation that a specific person is a narcissist by using this video and related videos.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 40

  • @josemathew9087
    @josemathew9087 6 місяців тому +3

    Intimate ആയവരെ പരസ്പരം കണ്ടെത്താൻ സാധിക്കുന്നത് ഭാഗ്യം മാത്രമാണ്.
    Dr. Susan വളരെ ഭംഗിയായി കാര്യങ്ങൾ അവതരിപ്പിക്കുന്നു.
    അഭിനന്ദനങ്ങൾ 👍🙏🌹

  • @sheelanair6753
    @sheelanair6753 8 місяців тому +14

    Trying hard to love myself as there is no one to do that. Self love is the best. Dont expect u will get emotional or physical intimacy from others. I tried and failed. So learning to love my own company.

  • @MN-kz2fi
    @MN-kz2fi 7 місяців тому +6

    It is painful when we are denied the essential things in life. But we realise it only after many years, mostly getting confused. Confusion itself proves that we are ill treated

  • @gratitude838
    @gratitude838 7 місяців тому +3

    Ma'am ur live videos are so helpful...u get to know that there are lot of people who are suffering...At some point these Narcs makes u think that there is something wrong with u...I started evaluvating n analysising the whole process to see if i have gone wrong ...Gosh after seeing all ur videos i realised this is a mental game they are playing with u

  • @myreply1244
    @myreply1244 8 місяців тому +4

    I watched almost all your videos. I got too much relaxation after watching your videos. I am trying to follow your tips to make my life better. Some times I fail still I feel a hope even three is no cure for this disorder.

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому +2

    Sooner or later the best solution is to leave the person, or get the person treated if they are willing.

  • @mjjose5769
    @mjjose5769 8 місяців тому +2

    Can you please make a video on the difference between a victim and a covert narcissist? Sometimes it is difficult to know if one is reacting a particular way because of the abuse suffering or if they are a narcissist themselves

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому +1

    You are all empaths, you keep on giving chances over chances and want to beleive that everyone is good like you, the narcissist or toxic person attract this, you just need to keep check on your empathy and see in future what sort of people you are attractig into your life and understand there are bad people...this sort of relevation for you from your comfort circile, to navigate the world..be thanful in a way...but dont be resentful and self loathing...enjoy life...lead life as you wanted to find empaths like you build contacts and networks...and be intimate..with the right people...observe the bad people...and keep boundaries and distance..some people can do this..they dont encounter divorce, unfortuantely we were too much surrounded by empaths who could not see it coming...so we fell for the narsscicist/toxic person..now learn your lesson and escape...no other way

  • @myreply1244
    @myreply1244 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @arifaibrahim5415
    @arifaibrahim5415 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you dr❤.I longed for this vedio.

  • @aswathyadhu2903
    @aswathyadhu2903 8 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou so much dr❤❤❤

  • @shifana12232
    @shifana12232 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you mam....

  • @babitharajeshthambi1422
    @babitharajeshthambi1422 8 місяців тому +1

    Hi Mam❤
    Thank you so much🎉🎉

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому +2

    Why should we get over intimacy desire? If someone is not giving us the intimacy due to his/her mental disorder, leave them...as simple as that...we deserve to be loved and happy....so many girls..stop the desire after divorce...become "damaged". Damaged means not capable of loving others . Why should we stop loving others? Just because of some mental guy came into our life...this is why people are not willing to marry divorced women..they carry the burden even after escaping...they cant love men anymore..and in common sense why would any many want to marry such a person?? You say after divorce you have to live yourself and love yourself..loving oneself means holding on to your dreams of family as well, holding on to needs of intimacy and respect of course...damaged women are not capable of loving onself...that the true meaning!! Why do we have to overcome the intimacy desire?? If the society does not accept us, its the problem of the society...yes marriage is a commitment you yourself to keep a single love and thats the way to peace and continuing your life across centuries, and "proper sex". It does not mean start sleeping with Random men or women..thats the way to hell as Jordan Peterson puts it..self love is realizing that I can break this promise to myself if the person is mental( abusive, whatever)...and go after the next person who is capable of providing this intimacy. Whats wrong with than?? I see so many damaged women here...complaining and whining and taking no action...suffering..life is not to suffer...you have all the laws on your side..use it escape and expose these abusers and live a life of intimacy if you wish to marry again or live like a nun if that what you prefer. Its as simple as that!!

  • @vidyahari9742
    @vidyahari9742 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank u mam 🙏🥰🥰🥰

  • @prabhar8531
    @prabhar8531 8 місяців тому

    Great message mam. Thanks🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @aswathysajin5629
    @aswathysajin5629 8 місяців тому +2

    Hi maam, നല്ല ഒരു lesson ആയിരുന്നു ആ abuse അങ്ങനെ ആണ് കാണുന്നത്. But ഇപ്പൊ ആരെയും വിശ്വാസം ഇല്ലാതെ ആയി.

  • @sreelekshmy8951
    @sreelekshmy8951 8 місяців тому +3

    Narcissistic mother inte son aanu hus.. No intimacy

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому +1

    Will you keep koodathai Jolly in your house? I saw the documentry recently..she has no remorse..." athu angane pattopoi", ...they are only a step behind koodthai jolly sisters...entianu ee vayyaveli...rakhappetokoode?? Eee vanitha commission okke entine support cheyyande?? Marriage should have a 1 year probation. Nalla rule alle??

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому +1

    Escape within the first 3 months. Actually, marriages which end in divorce after first few months cannot be considered as marriage at all. Now the 1 year waiting period is also lifted. So you can end this immediately and get divorce in six months. Escape as early as possible. Them leaving you you leaving them is all same. Just escape such people who but holes in your boat..I think marriages should also have a probationary period of 1 year...then such cheats will not even dare to come into our lives

  • @shaazworld967
    @shaazworld967 8 місяців тому +1

    മേലുദ്യോഗസ്ഥൻ NPD ആയാൽ എങ്ങിനെ overcome ചെയ്യാമെന്ന് ഒരു വീഡിയോ ചെയ്യുമോ.. Madom

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому

    Can you group human beings as emapths and narssicists? How in psycology can you divide people, how may types of personalities are there Susan?

  • @leelack806
    @leelack806 8 місяців тому

    I❤ myself practise lsetmy life

  • @nice-xy8ey
    @nice-xy8ey 8 місяців тому

    Hi ❤

  • @DileepKumar-rt3bh
    @DileepKumar-rt3bh 8 місяців тому

    ❤🙏❤

  • @waheedhavy7657
    @waheedhavy7657 8 місяців тому

    Ente molum oru nasisnte kudeanu jeevikunne

  • @Tectonictaless
    @Tectonictaless 8 місяців тому

    Mam,Borderline personality disorder engane treat cheythu maatam??

  • @ShamiSamad-rc5tc
    @ShamiSamad-rc5tc 8 місяців тому

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому

    you only have to answer to yourself...not society( full of narcissists btw), if you are the sort of person who lies to yourself, then you are a narssicist yourself and cannot be helped...

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому

    Eee stree samrakhana niyam okke polichezuthi, human being samrakhana niyama akkanam..appo kuzappam illallo...UK has clear rules of coercive control etc.etc..and updated based on modern science, Why cant Indian lawys also change? Vanitha commission??

  • @dr.manjugeorge3912
    @dr.manjugeorge3912 8 місяців тому

    FB. 😊

  • @John-v7i8f
    @John-v7i8f 8 місяців тому +2

    Getting divorced for legitimate reasons, ex. your partner is unwilling to see a psychiatrist is justified. Seek consultation. Society and men /women will support you. Why should you suffer and learn all this psychology( actually its more useful in office like scenarios), why bring this drama into your life. This stupid church and priests who are like doing swimming lessons by post and business matrmonial sites like chavara...daivam kootyojipichathiu ..polum..verum toxic..culture in Kerala...we should change this...vismaya ..poor girl they forced her to again go and live with the abuser and ultimately she felt so hopeless that she committed suicide...just leave sisters..and brothers..more women are abused than men..but some men are also abused...its gender neutral...no need of vanitha commission and ol...just human rights commission can solve it...and why cant this vanitha commission remove the divorcee , why should a person be identified as married?? Does a person has to write down somewhere they have had sex??absolute nonsensical laws that are outdated..

    • @gratitude838
      @gratitude838 7 місяців тому

      Whoever u are ..I really feel for you..think u have gone through a difficult time..May u find happiness n peace

  • @AjimoleVarghese
    @AjimoleVarghese 8 місяців тому +1

    Enthonn intimacy ? Veliyil irikkunn pambine vendathodth vach kettano?😂

    • @ranigeorge1824
      @ranigeorge1824 8 місяців тому +1

      Real intimates ilkathavarod sahathapam mathram😂

  • @jkvlogs8509
    @jkvlogs8509 8 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful words maam❤

  • @leelack806
    @leelack806 8 місяців тому

    2023 muthal

  • @basilskaria02
    @basilskaria02 8 місяців тому