The 21 Indicators 1. the child looks happy. 2. tries to do everything by him/herself. 3. have a passion to do something (kuchh karne ka jazba). 4. enjoys own company (apni hi dhun me rahta hai). 5. trust others easily unless somebody proves to be unworthy of his/her trust. 6. knows and wants to care for his/her relatives (such as parents/siblings etc). 7. doesn't change his/her opinions and decisions without any logic. 8. questions trends, doesn't accepts blindly. 9. doesn't forget his questions until he/she has found a satisfactory answer. 10. is independent of praise, doesn't require praise to do anything. 11. doesn't get impressed by others. 12. have resilience, doesn't get agitated and if get agitated then handles him/herself soon. 13. is hopeful and positive about him/herself. (apne aap se na-ummeed nahi hota). 14. can leave his rights happily if he/she wants but you can't force him/her. 15. helps and supports the weak and oppressed. *********************** espcially found in elders *********************** 16. doesn't get affected/broken by the criticism and doesn't swells up because of the praise of others. 17. doesn't let him/herself get abused. (apne upar zyadti nahi hone deta). 18. can sacrifice willingly, conveniently and happily. 19. doesn't feel himself helpless and alone. 20. to forgive and to say sorry is easy for him/her. 21. admit and feels the authority of his/her choices.
Asslkm WR WB Sir, ap jo hamare RABB ko RABB-E-KAREEM mukhatib karte hay, mujhe ye bohot acha lagta hai. Sir apkey lectures bohot helpful hotey hai. They guided me a lot. Alhamdulillah hamarey RABB-E-KAREEM ney mujhe apkaey videos dikhakey motivate karte hai kids upbringing may
Mashallah, Zabardast. I watch you video with pen and paper as you advised us for the same . After listening your lecture I feel I can write a book on it. Alhamdulillah, I started to write a book on Tarbiyat. ❤❤❤ Love you sir . Allah apko lambi zindagi de taki ham apse lambhi Zindagi tk sikhne rahen .
السلام علیکم sir Thank-you sir for such a wonderful explanation, but how can an adult who knows that he lacks some of the major indicators work on himself to increase his confidence ? I couldn't find any video lecture on increasing confidence
اسلام علیکم ،محترم استاد آپ سے بہت کچھ سیکھا ،آپکے اسباق کی روشنی میں راہنمائی درکار ہے کہ پاکستان میں بچےکو دینی و دنیاوی ،کیا پڑھایا جائے اور طیب رزق کیسے کمایاجائےکہ انسان حلال پہ رک جائے ؟ بھت شکریہ جناب
Sir excellent indicators of confidence. I have one question regarding point 17 "apnay sath ziadti nhe honay deta" How can we draw line between other points like giving sacrifice happily, not getting angry and even retaliating on forced giving up. Also, isnt it a manifestation of iman on Allah that you send the ziadti done on you towards Allah and not get bothered by the ziadti? Please clarify or guide (if i am not thinking right) if possible Thank you sir.
You are right that referring the matter of abuse to Allah and bearing it if it is abused by someone are high qualities, but it is necessary that the result of this should be a state of consent and patience, if continuous tolerance. there will come a time when the measure of patience will be exhausted, as a result of which there will be neither religious benefit nor worldly benefit. Also, giving a warning is also to prevent one's Muslim brother from oppression. A hadith of the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has the meaning of helping the oppressed and helping the oppressor. The Companions of the Prophet (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) asked that it is understandable to help the oppressed, but how should we help the oppressor? So the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said that the help of the oppressor is to stop him from doing injustice.
apne upar na khud ziyadti karna aur na dusro ko karne dena ek fitri amal hai, but aapke resist karne k baad bhi koi ziyadti karde to do hi option hai ya to Allah k raza k liye maaf karde ya to Allah k raza k liye use sabak sikhaye.
salam sir un parents k lye bhi video bnen jin k bchche ab 18 20 years k hogaye r parents ki nasmjhyo ki wjh s confidence gain nhi krsake plz guide thanks
The 21 Indicators
1. the child looks happy.
2. tries to do everything by him/herself.
3. have a passion to do something (kuchh karne ka jazba).
4. enjoys own company (apni hi dhun me rahta hai).
5. trust others easily unless somebody proves to be unworthy of his/her trust.
6. knows and wants to care for his/her relatives (such as parents/siblings etc).
7. doesn't change his/her opinions and decisions without any logic.
8. questions trends, doesn't accepts blindly.
9. doesn't forget his questions until he/she has found a satisfactory answer.
10. is independent of praise, doesn't require praise to do anything.
11. doesn't get impressed by others.
12. have resilience, doesn't get agitated and if get agitated then handles him/herself soon.
13. is hopeful and positive about him/herself. (apne aap se na-ummeed nahi hota).
14. can leave his rights happily if he/she wants but you can't force him/her.
15. helps and supports the weak and oppressed.
*********************** espcially found in elders ***********************
16. doesn't get affected/broken by the criticism and doesn't swells up because of the praise of others.
17. doesn't let him/herself get abused. (apne upar zyadti nahi hone deta).
18. can sacrifice willingly, conveniently and happily.
19. doesn't feel himself helpless and alone.
20. to forgive and to say sorry is easy for him/her.
21. admit and feels the authority of his/her choices.
Thanks a lot for this summary
اسلام علیکم
بہت بہترین کام کیا 👍
What if my child has few indicators , nagar dosre kuch indicators ka opposite hai to iska matlab kya hua?
JazakaAllah khair
السلام و علیکم سلمان صاحب ما شاءاللہ بہت خوب اللہ آپکو اور آپ کے چاہنے والوں کو سلامت رکھے آمین ثم آمین یا رببلعالمین جزاکم اللّہ
Alhamdulillah
Allah ye sb cheezy meri aulad me hamesha baki rakhe Aameen Summa Aameen
Asslkm WR WB Sir, ap jo hamare RABB ko RABB-E-KAREEM mukhatib karte hay, mujhe ye bohot acha lagta hai. Sir apkey lectures bohot helpful hotey hai. They guided me a lot. Alhamdulillah hamarey RABB-E-KAREEM ney mujhe apkaey videos dikhakey motivate karte hai kids upbringing may
ماشاءاللہ بہت ہی خوبصورت بیان
mashallah tabarakllah, very meaningfull talk.... pls keep doing such vdos sir....may allah bless with good health...
سلام سلمان بھائی ۔ جزاک اللہ ہماری رہنمائی کے لیے ۔ بہترین وڈیو تھی
ماشاءاللہ ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔بہت شکریہ
جزاک اللہ خیر آمین ۔
Assalamualaikum.Jazzak Allah o Khair Meri tashih kliye.
Deeply discribed
May Allah pleased with you
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR SIR
BarakAllah
Beautiful lecture and very enlightening, Jazakallah
Allahumma zidfazid ameen
جزاكم الله خيرا.
Mashallah, Zabardast.
I watch you video with pen and paper as you advised us for the same . After listening your lecture I feel I can write a book on it. Alhamdulillah, I started to write a book on Tarbiyat. ❤❤❤ Love you sir . Allah apko lambi zindagi de taki ham apse lambhi Zindagi tk sikhne rahen .
Alhamdulillah
ألحمد لله ❤️
Jazak Allah
Jazakallah
MASHAALLAH very informative video 💞
السلام علیکم sir
Thank-you sir for such a wonderful explanation, but how can an adult who knows that he lacks some of the major indicators work on himself to increase his confidence ?
I couldn't find any video lecture on increasing confidence
جزاک اللہ خیرا
اسلام علیکم ،محترم استاد آپ سے بہت کچھ سیکھا ،آپکے اسباق کی روشنی میں راہنمائی درکار ہے کہ پاکستان میں بچےکو دینی و دنیاوی ،کیا پڑھایا جائے اور طیب رزق کیسے کمایاجائےکہ انسان حلال پہ رک جائے ؟ بھت شکریہ جناب
Sir excellent indicators of confidence.
I have one question regarding point 17 "apnay sath ziadti nhe honay deta"
How can we draw line between other points like giving sacrifice happily, not getting angry and even retaliating on forced giving up. Also, isnt it a manifestation of iman on Allah that you send the ziadti done on you towards Allah and not get bothered by the ziadti?
Please clarify or guide (if i am not thinking right) if possible
Thank you sir.
You are right that referring the matter of abuse to Allah and bearing it if it is abused by someone are high qualities, but it is necessary that the result of this should be a state of consent and patience, if continuous tolerance. there will come a time when the measure of patience will be exhausted, as a result of which there will be neither religious benefit nor worldly benefit. Also, giving a warning is also to prevent one's Muslim brother from oppression.
A hadith of the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has the meaning of helping the oppressed and helping the oppressor. The Companions of the Prophet (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) asked that it is understandable to help the oppressed, but how should we help the oppressor? So the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said that the help of the oppressor is to stop him from doing injustice.
apne upar na khud ziyadti karna aur na dusro ko karne dena ek fitri amal hai, but aapke resist karne k baad bhi koi ziyadti karde to do hi option hai ya to Allah k raza k liye maaf karde ya to Allah k raza k liye use sabak sikhaye.
salam sir un parents k lye bhi video bnen jin k bchche ab 18 20 years k hogaye r parents ki nasmjhyo ki wjh s confidence gain nhi krsake
plz guide thanks
how to improve self confidence
Sir ab ham bary hogay hai tu ab ham kaisy ye sary indicator khod may daly
Listen to the video working on your emotional needs part 1&2
Khud pr atmaad krne ka kya mtlb hai??
Kindly give a thumb up,
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"اپنے ساتھ زیادتی نہیں ہونے دے گا" یہ point سمجھ نہیں آیا please واضح کر دیں