@@slothstudios_ here in Germany, the stork flies over your house and just randomly throws a baby in your lap. Makes it really dangerous to be outside and sunbathe…
The first one really creeped me out because it wasn't even a "haha I hate my wife", it was their very young daughters too. What a great thing to tell your impressionable children as they find their place in the world.
OT, if I have understood everything well : - you are attracted to women - you have blue hairs - you don’t have periods There’s only one logical conclusion : you’re a lesbian !
Babe don't you know you aren't complete without a pp in your life . If they have pp in their lige then they can access the one anf obly purpose of himans " make bebe"
13:07 "The Trevor project is encouraging kids to keep secrets from their parents!" The same parent, "if my kid were gay, I'd abandon and/or abuse him!" Maybe don't make your kids safety/wellbeing dependent on keeping secrets from you?
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More parents need to realize that the main responsibility of being a parent is to protect their kids. If they're the ones that the kids need protection from, that's the problem right there.
I'm glad my parents are supportive. They even wanted to provide money so I could get surgery. I declined. I prefer to earn things, even though I won't be able to afford it for another couple years.
I’m in a polymorus relationship with two girls, and I’m genderfluid, all three of us got together and literally nothing has changed from when we were best friends except for the fact that I can openly ask for cuddles now, our relationship is so chill and I honestly really love it. I don’t know how some people can have a relationship go so wrong, but I guess you really just need someone who’ll suite your personality and respect certain boundaries, at least that what I look for in a person, and it’s what I got ^^ Stay safe singles out there, don’t get yourself into a toxic relationship, you’ll end up like my parents or all the not ok straights in this video
I lucked out in having great parents, they're just super-besties who love each other and fuck. That's what I want. A life with my best friend whom I love. Hope things go great with your girlfriends for you!
Hi! i'm also genderfluid and poly so this is amazing! sadly i'm single right now but this is really the relationship I want and this is what people should think about when thinking of poly relationships, not cheating or wanting a harem. Hope your relationship stays good forever and that your all very happy w/ eachother!
I only recently came to terms with the fact that I am pansexual and would most likely be happier in a polyamorous relationship. I think it is an open and honest way of being. But I am extremely asocial so I don’t know if I will ever have a relationship or what type it will be. But it always makes me happy hearing about others’ experiences.
Check a potential partner’s hands. Training with a sword leaves distinct callouses, if they don’t have these they won’t be much help on your quest to slay the dragon. Then again if they have burns or runes on their hands, they are likely a mage, so will make a good partner for your quest.
First off, let me just say that everyone should avoid mages that specialize in memory magic. Second, let me just say that everyone should avoid mages that specialize in memory magic. Finally, let me just say that everyone should avoid mages that specialize in memory magic.
@@Stroopwafe1 Scar are usually left when a wound is healed improperly. With mundane medicine that might just means that the original wound was done by blunt or jagged weapon, or that it was deep. With most magic healing, the spell will completely fix the damaged area, unless the magician is not proficient enough or the wound is linked to the target soul (for instance, if the scars are part of the target identity). While I guess that the healer might use more regenerative spell (boost natural healing), might not be able to heal themselves (happens sometimes) or want to keep the scars (for instance, to remained them of a person they couldn't save), generally I would assume that a magical healer is less proficient if they have scars - unless I know they were in some fight where not having enough energy to fully heal themselves make sense. All of this before you consider that in most magical setting, healing can be used to simply fix physical damage later on, so scars can be removed.
"Periods are feminine and girly!" Yes. Yes the monthly all out no holds barred fist fight between my uterus and mother nature is very delicate and possessing of stereotypically female features. (Edit) Y'all I am loving this thread of comments.
No to mention the "femininity" of wanting to die because of CRAMPS ARE MOTHER FUCKING HELL! Plus the fact that one of the more (though disliked) common ways to get rid of a period is to go through one of the most PAINFUL experiences of in humanity by carrying and pushing a SMALL, LIVING BODY out of yourself. SO FUCKING FEMININE AND DELICATE! This is why I want a wife....
@@ReneeAH-2008 You probably heard about em a few times already, but I can really recommend reusable pads! My cramps virtually stopped when I started using them, the bloodbath is way less severe, and I just clean em in the shower (and throw them in the wash after the period has ended). I got mine from Cariona, but there's more suppliers out there I'm sure. Better for the environment, your wallet and your body, apparently - disposable pads seem kinda sus to me now.
I really want to know what seems feminine about a body vomiting out its own blood because you didn't get stabbed by a mans crotch snake in your axe wound.
about the "straight people joking about hating their partner infront of queer people thing" - yes. It's great. However, other straight people having the same reaction (confusion and disgust) is even funnier to me. They really think just because someone is straight they'll validate their grossness huh... Great every time
I wonder how it would play out if you just got very concerned about how they seem so unhappy, sympathetically patted them on the back and told them you can help them look for a therapist to help them get out :))
It also speaks to how many people feel forced into a traditional marriage, when it might not have been the best thing for them personally. A lot of gays or lesbians have felt forced into a straight marriage, even going so far as to raise a family, because that's what society expects, and they would face discrimination and violence otherwise. There are a lot of trans people who enter into relationships as their AGAB for the same exact reasons. When it's not about love but about obligation, marriage becomes weaponized, only these straight people don't realize or don't care that it's hurting them as well.
I remember my family pressuring me to get married before moving in with my partner. We still aren't, officially, yet my relationship with my partner has lasted 11 years (we started dating Jan 2011) and we love each other. We decided against having kids because we knew we weren't ready for them and we take our time with the big life choices that would financially impact us, yet we're always there for each other when we need to be. Measuring your relationship by someone else's yard stick is the most hurtful thing you could do. Find the person who works for you and take it at a pace that makes you happy. Ideally, you should be able to spend a lifetime with the person you love.
I don't think it matters if you're gay, straight or Optimus prime. If people think their partner talking to people, plainly talking to them, is cheating then heavens no, don't go near them!
@@Elysi4n991 It's a very bad one; statistically, men talk _and interrupt_ more than women do. The "women talk too much" jokes exist entirely because Men™ don't value women's input, so they classify women's voices as mere noise. Also, kids often pick up the message of the "joke" seriously, so even if i'M nOt SeXiSt It'S jUsT a JoKe, continuing the jokes tends to keep sexism alive.
The bride handing the bouquet to the girl for her boyfriend to propose is actually super cute. That's a great friend group anyone should be glad to be in.
The lack of self awareness by the Trevor Project poster. No, you’re child feels like they need to hide information from you because YOU have created an environment where they feel unsafe to do so. 🙄
Its sad how some parents don't realize they were the ones who created that divide. How, we feel the need to hide info from them because of their actions. Also, I thought the poster was very informative on why they have it as a secretive thing. I really respect the Trevor Project for doing absolutely everything in their power to be a safe space for lgbtq+ youths.
I'm in that exact situation lmao My mother kinda just,,, lightly emotionally abused me, mostly bc she thought that that style of parenting was a-ok (her mother tried to legitimately murder her 3 different ways on more than 8 occasions. Not joking.) and she never physically abused me, I don't think But, she has created a space in the house where I don't feel safe sharing shit with her, out of fear I might be yelled at or punished in some way. I mean, shit, I lost 8 pairs of earrings to her tantrums that got triggered by her attaining something I did or said to me being trans (she trashes my room to the point where you can't even fucking enter the damned thing). Her most recent outburst was over 3 fucking cardigans that I literally never wore. She thought I wanted to get rid of them bc masculinity shit. No, I just... didn't want them to collect dust :( They were pretty and deserved someone who'd appreciate them and wear them often ❤️❤️ But, yeah, I'm scared of actually telling her the truth since 7 and sharing information about me since I came out at 13. :/ Remember this, reader: *Be wary of how you behave and react with your children. Always make sure the child has a safe space no matter the issue, and never jump to conclusions nor immediately punish them for doing something. Hear them out and let them speak.* This is from experiencing a mother who consistently assumes shit about me because I don't tell her things because she makes me feel like I'm going to be punished for telling her about myself.
funny how they compare it to being in cults when people in cults usually openly and proudly say they're in one and other people are just blind for not following their views- oh
It wasn't even just piled on a plate. Loved the stegosaurus eating broccoli. There was time and effort to create a story out of food. I'd compliment their creativity, share it on social media, compliment their creativity and eat it with no issue.
@@harpywiththebrownfeathers These are the last hold outs of toxic masculinity.. they're so insecure, they straight up gaslight themselves. These same idiots literally whine about men's issues that are 99% created by themselves. Why are more men in prison? They were insecure violent morons duh. Why are male unaliving rates so high? Because insecure men bully anyone that won't be as insecure and pathetic as they are. I've been dealing with their crap for almost 40 years as an nonbinary pansexual, they literally perpetuate it through the dumbest of men.. like can't do basic math, read a book, or have an original thought dumb.
'omg how dare they help kids who are suicidal by allowing them a space away from people who are contributing to them being/causing them to be suicidal'
_"Do lesbians get periods?"_ 🤔 Okay, I can see that someone who doesn't understand biology is involuntary would think people who can't make a baby together (without medical intervention) would have no need for the menstrual cycle- _"And periods are a very feminine and girly thing. Not something that lesbians get I imagine."_ 🙄
Yes, my exact thoughts about this! I literally paused the video and went on a bit of a silent rationale rant to myself, aaaand then the rest of the comment ruined it. I had to laugh...
Yes, if the bride knows, the groom knows, they both are really happy and on board. And ideally both went to their “most likely to be insulted on couple’s behalf” connection and said hey, something might happen that would be inappropriate without our knowledge and consent, so check our expressions before getting mad at a fellow guest. You know, the aunt who would otherwise tell new additions to the group that Pat and Charlie just ruined a wedding, the attention hogs, because they’re sure that Sam and Morgan just *said* they knew to make peace, the poor dears. I joke that Uncle Paul is my “double uncle.” He was roommates with my dad in the military, 1970s. Great friends. Paul met Karen. As happens, group activities including Paul, his roommate, Karen, and her sister/roommate happened. Paul and Karen were married in like 6 months and my folks were not together yet, but… Grandma was routinely inviting him to dinner and he’d met at least a few of my dozen great aunt and uncle pairs. Dad is too deeply private to have done this even if they were already paired. But it’s the type of situation where I can readily see consent being given (…hopefully including the bride or groom being sure that yes, the person who is being asked was thinking marriage, and seen their reaction to public proposal vids or something!)
the one about periods being feminine and girly was making me dysphoric (since i'm a trans boy too young for HRT), but then i remembered that just a few days ago, i was able to get meds to stop my period from the gender spectrum clinic at my local children's hospital :] so now i don't have to deal with that added dysphoria and stress for a week every month, which is really great ^w^
I'm pretty sure every woman(and trans men that still has periods, maybe non-binary people that was biologically female) wished that they didn't periods, including me. To those that don't....... I salute you, Ma'am(or Mister, or Messrs. or whatever it is you want to call yourselves)
Yeesh. Possessive cis-hetero women (alongside similarly possessive cis-hetero men, of course) are proof that the problem isn't just individual sexism, it's the entire social landscape. It's like the relationship version of systemic issues.
@@SaintShion Yeah, they'd rather deflect from their inappropriate behavior than actually acknowledge it and take some of that personal responsibility they're always (generally) talking about.
The problem is patriarchy. Special groups of people. Patriarchy is a concept that has been instilled in us since birth. It's influence starts to get less each generation but it is still there. Patriarchic belief are that women and womanly things are inherently worse /weaker than men and manly things. It's the concept in peoples brains we need to fight - not the people itself.
@@CristalianaIvor The problem is human nature. Trust me, I'm no stranger to being belittled because of patriarchal ideas. Those ideas are just the way that basic human nature manifests itself through the average cis-het man. Cis-het women can manifest that nature in different ways, just look at TERFs. There are many concepts and tendencies in people's brains that need to be addressed, and if people in general don't take responsibility for bettering themselves and their behaviors toward others, the social landscape will never change, and even if people truly embrace the importance of Femininity on a grand scale, that won't be enough to heal the deep damage that lies within the human psyche, and something horrid will inevitably rise up to take the place of patriarchal oppression.
In case you haven't acquired boobs yet; -Certain estrogen-rich foods can trigger breast development. -Chest exercises can add muscle to the pectoral region which will also increase breast size. Hope this helps!
Just a story for anyone who cares: I found this nonbinary necklace that my mom got me last year for Christmas after I came out to her in October. Than i realized that ive been out for a whole year! Im honestly really proud of myself. Ever sense than, ive been working on myself ^^ Hope everyone reading this has a great day!!
Yay! So great to have a milestone like that. Ought to get yourself a cake or something to celebrate. That's what I did this year when I realized I'd been identifying as aro-ace for a full decade! It just feels so good to be unapologetically yourself in your own skin. Good for you!
If I could sign up for lesbianism to sign off my monthly period subscription I've do it in a heartbeat. I think the population of lesbians would skyrocket too.
"gingerbread person?¿? oh no how awful" well gingerbread doesn't have genitalia and apparently that's what defines gender so what do they want from us??
That puppy one is so good. He even did the right thing with getting down on the floor to the puppy's level - he's a stranger still, and nobody likes being picked up by a stranger 80x their size who they can't talk to. Good puppy-having manners. Good man. Deserves puppy.
@@angiiePaniic Honestly, me too, cause that's such a cute story for how they came to name him too. Gah, every time I remember that video I grin, I love that little cylindric floofball and the pure unadulterated joy on the guy's face.
I once had a boy tell me I wasn't allowed to complain about my period because "it's the wonder of a woman to be able to bear a child". I'm aroace and quite clear about not wanting to have adult fun time, so even if that statement wasn't so over the top, it still wouldn't apply to me ever
I hate when people talk about being pregnant like that.. just sounds dehumanising, makes me feel like i'm an apple tree that should just be happy to be there for my one purpose.
0:14 - So what I'm seeing is a bunch of men who will be sleeping on the couch or at their mothers, not too mention be denied the title of "daddy" by their daughters.
I just love how the “Girlfriend surprises boyfriend with a puppy” video has the same exact vibe as a pregnancy announcement, and I hope that accepting your animal companion as the member of the family they truly are becomes the new norm sooner rather than later.
If someone surprised me with a puppy I would act like its my wedding day/birthday/Yule all rapped into one puppys are adorable and amazing creature and I will take your intire stock. Sorry for any spelling mistakes I'm not very good with words.
But please, dont get a pet for someone as a surpise if youre not taking full responsibility for the pet. The other party may not have the resources or time to take care of it
@@Orion-ih5xl I see what you mean, but that's only if you don't know if the other person wants a pet. The guy wanted a dog, so surprising him with a dog is perfect.
JUST A CORRECTION GUYS: About the pregnancy test tiktok: she didn't pee on it, it wasn't the pee test and she tried to explain that but he cut her off multiple times. Edit: the comments are a mess but; something I failed to mention is washing the test, and with blood tests, apparently pee is a lot more sterile than blood. Lol
Ah, another example of the straights being very not okay, but not in the manner we thought. That makes me genuinely sad though, if he’s so impatient and not understanding now, how bad is he going to be later down the line. She may want to consider getting another, better partner.
@@777aarw i mean i would get the initial shock and dread that i consumed something that might have pee on it. But i wouldn't cut her off if she tried to explain.
I have to put up with my parents deadnaming me over Christmas, they know I'm trans they're just acting like I never came out to them. These videos make it a little better, thank you OT
I have the same thing with my dad and me being gay he always acts like it never happened. And a lot of times would suggest i get a gf or meet the right women
I’m so sorry you have to go through that 🥺 my SIL-to-be came out to us and she has comparable problems with her family… if it helps, I send you some warm internet-hugs from a supportive ally ❤️❤️🩹
@@o_o5210 It's not very common, I've been having issues where I bleed for up to a month at a time. I avoided going to a doctor for a while until recently (I almost passed out and a few other things happened so I went to the ER) turns out my hemoglobin levels were so low I was at risk for a major heart attack at only 19. I had to have a blood transfusion and several bags of fluid, luckily I decided to go just in time. The doctors are pretty sure that my menstrual cycle problems are definitely part of the problem, my mom has the same issues.
The only time Tom Holland had a “problem” (not even that) with Zendaya being taller was more just them laughing loads at the mishap during filming No Way Home when during a stunt she kept catching him by accident 😆 and that’s not even a mark against his masculinity or anything it’s just genuinely funny
Fun fact adult female wolves are actually the alphas. Since they are the ones that teach the kids how to hunt and how to survive etc. Edit: this is the most comments/likes I’ve ever had on a comment. I don’t know what to say-
Another fun fact to add to yours is the person who initially studied the wolf hierarchy got it wrong and stated so himself its actually a family unit no fighting to be alphas just peaceful being a fam the original experiment was a bunch of random wolves like a prison yard thing so the study was wrong. Also the oldest one walk in front to set the pace for the rest of the pack.
@@KnightDemonZZ and yet, people still say they have to beat their dogs to be the alpha since that study was Obviously Right and the person was Obviously Paid To Say It Was Wrong.
@@roxiehodges226 Hey. Psst. C'mere. What's the stereotypical advice everyone has when you go to prison? Something something find the biggest guy and kick his ass something something that's how you'll survive. The singular 'alpha' wolf only works if none of the members of the pack are related, otherwise the related members will gang up on the singular alpha jerk just trying to collect partners and proliferate because he doesn't care if any one of *the others* die in the struggle, he only cares if *he* dies because then its game over for his genes. Natural wolf packs don't need to invoke this desperate behavior because everyone is either related to each other or have children in the group that benefit from the mutual protection. Thus new mates are required to be cool or invoke the wrath of the entire family who would like to make sure their genes keep going and couldn't care less about a big burly alpha intent on murdering all the nice family babies that currently exist for the sake of desperate jerk babies. If there's no family protection though? Then its open season, capiche? This doesn't cover all circumstances, but this is the most accepted explanation of the behavior which is more nuanced and thought out than "Unga bunga am strong and so am best leader. Listen and make unga babies or I punch. This natural order" The funniest part of the whole thing is, despite how adamant people are about this BS, alpha behavior in humans probably happens for similar reasons; fear and insecurity. We're genetically closer to, and setup even more comfortably than, bonobos while we pretend we're more like chimps who developed and live in a hostile environment that breeds and requires that aggressive behavior because they're small and tasty. At best, the 'alpha' is a response to a cause (re: prison/captive wolves), not a behavior that occurs regardless. Its romanticized garbage and if that's your fetish, cool, but that's all it is. Stop pretending it has any place outside of your dreams of being the most bottomy bottom or the most toppy top and is anything more than being Pepsi to BDSM's Coke.
The last clip made me stop everything I was doing and nearly brought tears to my eyes- there’s no better feeling than making someone you care about experience so much joy.
Definitely! I never notice until OT points it out because it just feels so natural, and I hope that everyone can get to that point some day, where they are able to just be themselves without any fuss
1:42 by the text on the microphone and on the hoodie, we can see that the image is flipped. That means that OT had to write that note with mirrored letters. This also means that, irl, the “beardos and weirdos” sign is with reversed letters. OT is also right-handed
Good on that bride being the anti-bridezilla. She literally took time out of her wedding to help out on a surprise marriage proposal. I hope the two had already talk about marriage as it's not cool to put someone on the spot like that in public though.
Ah i was thinking of a similar thing about this as i recently read a story on AITA about a similar thing but as a viewer to the wedding and my main thing is: if it is ok'd by the bride and groom and you possible fiance doesnt mind a public thing then go ahead. But again thats my thoughts
it's not being a bridezilla to not want other people proposing at your wedding, especially without even being asked. it's clear that the bride and her partner okayed it in this case, but I've heard of so many stories of people who felt that their special day was ruined by someone else trying to take the spotlight - the same goes for announcing a pregnancy at someone else's baby shower.
A a very public proposal during a rather emotional event is an awful idea. All you're doing is pressuring your partner to say yes. It's like proposing in front of a crowd. Proposing during someone else's wedding isn't just hurtful, it's downright disrespectful to the person you want to be with.
@@themindfulmoron3790 I completely agree, but I'm hoping that the person in the video has asked their partner if they'd be comfortable with being proposed to publically
As a queer who remembers the 80s and 90s the condom one really pissed me off, like nobody goes though condoms like gay men, for a very good and very serious reason. Also NEVER KEEP THEM IN YOUR WALLET!
@@ashers_aether7256 If your headed out for a D appointment sure keep them where ever you need for the night but if you store them in a wallet (friction) or a glove box (really anywhere in your car heat) you may as well stick pins in them. They may seem fine for role on but they get bridal and will break. So bed side table, top of dresser, in a grab and go bowl by the front door.
17:43 I don't think of myself as totally queer, but as an asexual who is in a lovingly relationship with a respectful allo, I never understood why people say that joke about hating your partner, I love mine, like bish JUST LEAVE THEM IF YOU DON'T LIKE THEM
My grandma who was straight unknowingly encouraged me to come out as LGBTQ+ during a conversation and was the first family member to come forward and support me when I did.
"I will stalk you and send you pictures of your house cuz you triggered my insecurities about my relationship" GIRL! If you have issues in your relationship, talk to your man! Sweet Mother of Godzilla! Why don't these straights just talk??? It's not hard!!! 😂🤣
Because they're taught communicating with your partner is bad because they don't think women and men are even equal enough to have meaningful communication that isn't about sex.
I actually love men that out themselves by saying they've had tons of _adult fun time_ yet not a single one of them had _organism_ cause they make the opposite point they wanted to make,and it makes me laugh every time without fail.
to that lady who made a dinosaur diorama for dinner: I can only assume that was your way of apologizing, because I would be THRILLED if anyone served that to me.
18:09 it is ridiculous, like what do people want them to do? He can't magically get taller, she can't magically get shorter, and there no reason to anyway
It's funny how men complain that women talk too much, when they never even listen, or even let a woman finish her story uninterrupted. Love your videos OT My kids and I always watch them
Ok, lets get this straight (see what I did therer?). The proposal was absolutely sweet. If public proposals are ok for you as a couple, then this is the sweetest thing ever. Also the execution makes it absolutely clear, that this was sanctioned by the bride, and no weird thunder stealing moment.
Yes, she obviously knew of it, was a part of it, maybe even ironed out some of the details. It really was pretty clever! Working off the whole "catch the bouquet, next to get married" tradition. ☺️
It makes me so proud to hear that you've helped to raise $30,000 for the Trevor Project. Thank you for being such an amazingly supportive person for the LGBTQ+ community!
God I wish I didn't get the monthly waterfall.....lesbianism missed me with this superpower rip. ANYWAY thank you OT for being the positive light this dark period ❤️
Reasons to be trans: 1) periods 2) pregnancy 3) a pill exists purely to make you horny, but not to stop you from knocking someone up because those things cause cancer, let her take it. I am not trans. But even without society and inequality in the mix, if I'd been born a man, I'm not sure I would complain. (is joke, I know about dysmorphia)
10:43 The only thing she got right was the "cheating isn't just f*cking" part. She needs help if she thinks that is how a healthy relationship is meant to work
Yeah I agree with that. Like if you fall in love with someone else and neglect your current partner, it's still cheating, even without the sex. But unfortunately she didn't mean it like that.
10:30 I once got into a relationship with someone before discussing those types of boundaries and it resulted in a lot of fights. I’m basically the extreme opposite of those people who consider eye contact cheating. I only consider it cheating if my partner did anything without us discussing it or if they lie to me about it. She considered a lot of little things cheating. We ended up splitting because of various large issues, but those issues probably could be traced back to us not discussing those boundaries. They’re very important.
Oh yeah. ALWAYS discuss boundaries when starting any kind of long term interactions with people. Romantic relationships, physical relationships, roommates and carpool buddies, etc. It's not just adult fun time and chores that need boundaries.
I agree, but I also think you don't need to have sex/kiss for it to be cheating. Your partner is your whole world and your best friend in an ideal scenario so the part before where they become emotionally intimate with someone else behind your back is also kinda shitty. Although I see why it's a grayer line than the physical act and can be approached accidentally sometimes, at one point if you are approaching a point where kissing/having sex with someone who isnt your partner isnt totally weird you know exactly what you are doing before you even get to it? meh long story short didnt wanna be a psycho gf, didnt say anything about a friendship that made me uncomfortable, you can guess how that went for me lol
The one about your great grandparents not using emojis is hilarious to me. My 90 year old grandfather LOVES emojis. Ever since he has learned to text, he uses so many emojis.
"Have you been outside?" Actually, no, not that much these past two years... But you'd think being forced to stay inside would prompt them to, idk, learn stuff. Look stuff up.
This subreddit makes me want to write my characters under healthy relationships regardless of their sexuality. I even drew a sketch of pointing out straight stupidity.
Do it!!!! So many romance stories, like almost all of them actually, center around fundamentally toxic relationships between people who don't communicate. Please break the mold!
So many times I see toxicity and abuse in relationships as normalized and even kinks like pain stuff is normal and it makes me uncomfortable like I absolutely hate pain in all senses so when its normalized and kind of expected it just seems wrong to me.
Love the bouquet-proposal because it's also such a lovely move on the part of the bride and groom. Obviously its planned and they're happy to share the celebration with their friends rather than snotty about being upstaged on "their day".
It's unfair to associate every straight person with this. It's not that these people are straight, it's that they're bigots and/or deeply insecure, ill informed, and judgmental in a manner that's directly proportional to how vocal they are.
@@tsarfox3462 um… are you taking my comment literally? Sorry for any misconceptions but I was joking. Sorry if that didn’t come through my comment. I know not all straights are like this. Sorry if I sounded like I was actually worried about all straights not being okay lol. I worry about everyone.
@@tsarfox3462 when people say ‘the straights’ we mean ‘The Straights TM’, not all straights. The Straights TM are a groups of aggressively straight people in a horrifying way (like the photos of the families where all the girls mouths are duct taped shut, that is NOT OK). Obviously, not all straight people are this way, as the demographic is far to big to say ‘all are bad’. When people complain about The Straights TM they are not talking about the majority of wonderful straight people, just the bad ones. Hopefully that clears things up a bit :) -a cisgender heterosexual teenager
Back when me and my husband were first dating I helped him move and found a bag full of random panties. I didn't freak out I just said "nice panties" and he blushed and admitted he liked wearing them
@@RexxyRobin yeah when it was an entire bag full(like at least a dozen pairs) I didn't think he was cheating I just suspected he just had a pantie fetish and kept pairs from old girl friends. When he said he wore them and got embarrassed I simply told him "I don't blame you panties are probably more comfy than briefs" and I visibly saw him relax. I have plenty of kinks of my own so won't kink shame anyone and don't give a damn what kind of undergarments someone wears, you do you bo
Underpants are just clothes. Nothing stopping any gender from wearing any kind of underclothes. If you wanna feel pretty or masculine and want your undies to match that, then freaking GO FOR IT!! Personally i prefer boxers because snug clothes give me sensory overload. I've tried most kinds of undies tho, and they're just cloth. Cloth doesn't define you unless you want it to.
Thank you, I see your comments on this channel a lot, and it always gives me a little push to take care of myself. I hope you take care of yourself too
My bark of laughter at the Dr Pepper dad joke you threw in at the end of this video was completely inappropriate for the workplace. I can only say, thank Sappho I'm on lunch. ❤
I just love it when OT asks "Have you been outside?" It's always so appropriate and perfect. Some people really need to go outside lol. Edit: oh and I'm all for more examples of straights being ok to stoke the flames of positivity
I love that every time this subreddit is being reacted to, the straights find some way to make the lgbtqia+ community sound even more powerful than previous times.
@@devent10n homophobes like to say that they aren't homophobic, because "phobic" means to be scared of something, and they aren't scared of homosexuals. Except for the fact that they are, just not in the sense that they think.
Matt Walsh makes a living by being as completely wrong about everything as he can manage. I'm actually a little impressed at how dedicated he seems to the role.
15:38 context aside, a pretty dress + deadly weapon is *aesthetics*. It's just that the weapons these girls picked really don't work with the dresses... like the one in yellow dress would look so much cooler with a bow? Dual blades for the girl in green? A CHAIR FOR THE GIRL IN FLOWER DRESS?!
My friend surprised her husband with the positive pregnancy test in a similar way, but she put it in a plastic bag, and used a separate plate that neither of them would be eating off of.
I'm down for straights being ok. Straight people, like any other group, are mixes of great people, terrible people, and people in between. Also, the wholesomeness sounds awesome.
This! I have a couple straight friends that are super sweet and supportive, but online some people just treat em like grabage for being straight. Straights can be ok! We just gotta help em finally be okay.
@@inavela_artsy It breaks my heart to see them fight for our rights all these years only to have people throw it in their face that they're straight. If it weren't for them, we wouldn't have gotten the rights we have now!
Ok so I feel so at home here, when u went to check my fridge and found no apple juice I was about to comment, “hey OT were out of apple juice” I got as far a app- before I realized…. This just shows how much this channel makes me feel happy. Thank you so much ❤
“Do lesbians get periods?” No frank. I was born being assigned female at birth without a uterus or ovaries, so you know. I was born without reproductive organs.
I was feeling really really dysohoric, like binder in bed dysphoric, and after hours of trying, this is the video that solved this. I now truly believe that OT is God.
They have a feature to exit and erase the browser history. That is amazing that they added it. But the fact it needs to exist makes me so sad and angry. 13:18
![Minecraft But Viewers Control The Game [CHARITY EVENT]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/GHKsjtB9Q30/mqdefault.jpg)
uhm, OT... that IS where babies come from😳😳
...no way nuh uh
I'AM SHOOKITH
@@OneTopic yeah everyone knows that they come out of the fireplace screaming "feed me"
or is that just me?
@@slothstudios_ here in Germany, the stork flies over your house and just randomly throws a baby in your lap. Makes it really dangerous to be outside and sunbathe…
@@OneTopic ...what if it is 😳
Sleeping with "dozens upon dozens of women" and having _none_ of them reach a climax is _not_ the flex you think it is man
I'm not sure what he meant, based on his wording. Doesn't "cum" mean "seminate"!?
@@adrianblake8876 I mean _technically_ it does but I honestly don't know how to explain the specifics
@@owl7072 Maybe it's r/nothowgirlswork....
I mean, it goes well with the "lesbians don't get periods", those internet folks are beyond stupid...
That dude who can't pleasure a woman has failed at heterosexuality.
@@adrianblake8876 No. It's a slang for orgasm.
The first one really creeped me out because it wasn't even a "haha I hate my wife", it was their very young daughters too. What a great thing to tell your impressionable children as they find their place in the world.
If my dad knew about these he would have done it 100%, dads like that are so harmful it teaches their kids who they really respect
Yup, the sons were unmuzzled and smiling with the "paternal units" in those pics.
And then show it to the whole flipping world, too!
@@jenniferhart559 that's even more fricked up
@@jenniferhart559 I could barely bring myself to look at those so missed that detail, that just elevates it to a whole new level of disgusting.
OT, if I have understood everything well :
- you are attracted to women
- you have blue hairs
- you don’t have periods
There’s only one logical conclusion : you’re a lesbian !
(Looks at the list)
(Watching the video again)
"Yeah. It checks"
That checks out
Mmhm, checks out!
Let's not forget treating women as people because "Real Straight Men TM" don't do that as it's unmanly or some cattle-dung...
That makes complete sense.
I love the one about “do lesbians get periods” because it implies that fem gay men could also get periods
why yes we do have human seahorses amongst our species ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
@@driftingdruid this comment is so funny it oughta be a crime
Babe don't you know you aren't complete without a pp in your life . If they have pp in their lige then they can access the one anf obly purpose of himans " make bebe"
Well if they're trans, yes they can lol
Crying
13:07 "The Trevor project is encouraging kids to keep secrets from their parents!"
The same parent, "if my kid were gay, I'd abandon and/or abuse him!"
Maybe don't make your kids safety/wellbeing dependent on keeping secrets from you?
🚨 underrated comment 🚨 🚨 underrated comment 🚨
*‼️BREAKING NEWS‼️*
Crimically underrated comment at a One Topic At A Time video that makes complete sense with only 150 likes. Everyone, if you see the comment, like it.
Thank you for your time.
Kinda funny, since OT is literally fundraising for The Trevor Project
More parents need to realize that the main responsibility of being a parent is to protect their kids. If they're the ones that the kids need protection from, that's the problem right there.
I'm glad my parents are supportive. They even wanted to provide money so I could get surgery.
I declined. I prefer to earn things, even though I won't be able to afford it for another couple years.
I’m in a polymorus relationship with two girls, and I’m genderfluid, all three of us got together and literally nothing has changed from when we were best friends except for the fact that I can openly ask for cuddles now, our relationship is so chill and I honestly really love it. I don’t know how some people can have a relationship go so wrong, but I guess you really just need someone who’ll suite your personality and respect certain boundaries, at least that what I look for in a person, and it’s what I got ^^
Stay safe singles out there, don’t get yourself into a toxic relationship, you’ll end up like my parents or all the not ok straights in this video
I lucked out in having great parents, they're just super-besties who love each other and fuck. That's what I want. A life with my best friend whom I love. Hope things go great with your girlfriends for you!
Hi! i'm also genderfluid and poly so this is amazing! sadly i'm single right now but this is really the relationship I want and this is what people should think about when thinking of poly relationships, not cheating or wanting a harem. Hope your relationship stays good forever and that your all very happy w/ eachother!
I only recently came to terms with the fact that I am pansexual and would most likely be happier in a polyamorous relationship. I think it is an open and honest way of being. But I am extremely asocial so I don’t know if I will ever have a relationship or what type it will be. But it always makes me happy hearing about others’ experiences.
I was in a relationship just likke that once with my friends
this is how i am with my boyfriends, it's amazing :]
Check a potential partner’s hands. Training with a sword leaves distinct callouses, if they don’t have these they won’t be much help on your quest to slay the dragon. Then again if they have burns or runes on their hands, they are likely a mage, so will make a good partner for your quest.
What about healers? They are unlikely to have visible scars as they can magic them away.
@@zivronen9539 The wounds may heal, but scars remain, so their hands may contain signs of previous combat
First off, let me just say that everyone should avoid mages that specialize in memory magic. Second, let me just say that everyone should avoid mages that specialize in memory magic. Finally, let me just say that everyone should avoid mages that specialize in memory magic.
@@Stroopwafe1 Scar are usually left when a wound is healed improperly. With mundane medicine that might just means that the original wound was done by blunt or jagged weapon, or that it was deep. With most magic healing, the spell will completely fix the damaged area, unless the magician is not proficient enough or the wound is linked to the target soul (for instance, if the scars are part of the target identity). While I guess that the healer might use more regenerative spell (boost natural healing), might not be able to heal themselves (happens sometimes) or want to keep the scars (for instance, to remained them of a person they couldn't save), generally I would assume that a magical healer is less proficient if they have scars - unless I know they were in some fight where not having enough energy to fully heal themselves make sense.
All of this before you consider that in most magical setting, healing can be used to simply fix physical damage later on, so scars can be removed.
@@theomacer3094 i would like to personally applaud this joke. I appreciate this joke i feel the need to say it to whoever reads this
"Periods are feminine and girly!" Yes. Yes the monthly all out no holds barred fist fight between my uterus and mother nature is very delicate and possessing of stereotypically female features.
(Edit) Y'all I am loving this thread of comments.
No to mention the "femininity" of wanting to die because of CRAMPS ARE MOTHER FUCKING HELL! Plus the fact that one of the more (though disliked) common ways to get rid of a period is to go through one of the most PAINFUL experiences of in humanity by carrying and pushing a SMALL, LIVING BODY out of yourself. SO FUCKING FEMININE AND DELICATE! This is why I want a wife....
@@ReneeAH-2008 You probably heard about em a few times already, but I can really recommend reusable pads! My cramps virtually stopped when I started using them, the bloodbath is way less severe, and I just clean em in the shower (and throw them in the wash after the period has ended). I got mine from Cariona, but there's more suppliers out there I'm sure. Better for the environment, your wallet and your body, apparently - disposable pads seem kinda sus to me now.
I’m sorry about the non serious comment I’m about to make but
THIS CRAP IS FUNNIER THEN THE TIME MY DAD HIT HIS HEAD ON THE DOOR FRAME
I really want to know what seems feminine about a body vomiting out its own blood because you didn't get stabbed by a mans crotch snake in your axe wound.
I thought pain and blood were supposed to be manly things.
"periods are very feminine and girly" yea, because baisicly soaking in my own blood for about a week per month is very stereo typicaly feminine
i wanna like this but i wont ruin the 69
My defcon 1 period shits that fill the bowl with liquid hate are extremely delicate and feminine
Idk women can be pretty metal sometimes
This coming from a woman.
What? you don't want to be the origin of satan's sacrificial waterfall?
If they're a transmasc who hates themself, then they're soaking in the blood of their enemies
about the "straight people joking about hating their partner infront of queer people thing" - yes. It's great. However, other straight people having the same reaction (confusion and disgust) is even funnier to me. They really think just because someone is straight they'll validate their grossness huh... Great every time
I wonder how it would play out if you just got very concerned about how they seem so unhappy, sympathetically patted them on the back and told them you can help them look for a therapist to help them get out :))
It also speaks to how many people feel forced into a traditional marriage, when it might not have been the best thing for them personally. A lot of gays or lesbians have felt forced into a straight marriage, even going so far as to raise a family, because that's what society expects, and they would face discrimination and violence otherwise. There are a lot of trans people who enter into relationships as their AGAB for the same exact reasons. When it's not about love but about obligation, marriage becomes weaponized, only these straight people don't realize or don't care that it's hurting them as well.
I joke about being homophobic to my gay friends
I remember my family pressuring me to get married before moving in with my partner. We still aren't, officially, yet my relationship with my partner has lasted 11 years (we started dating Jan 2011) and we love each other. We decided against having kids because we knew we weren't ready for them and we take our time with the big life choices that would financially impact us, yet we're always there for each other when we need to be. Measuring your relationship by someone else's yard stick is the most hurtful thing you could do. Find the person who works for you and take it at a pace that makes you happy. Ideally, you should be able to spend a lifetime with the person you love.
I don't think it matters if you're gay, straight or Optimus prime. If people think their partner talking to people, plainly talking to them, is cheating then heavens no, don't go near them!
The true peace on Earth will be when “women talk too much” jokes cease to exist
DO👏 NOT 👏 TAPE👏 UP👏 YOUR👏 FAMILY
What in the absolute nonsense are these people THINKING?!!?
Truth.
@@OriginalCreatorSama it's just a joke... A bad one i must say..
@@Elysi4n991 It's a very bad one; statistically, men talk _and interrupt_ more than women do. The "women talk too much" jokes exist entirely because Men™ don't value women's input, so they classify women's voices as mere noise.
Also, kids often pick up the message of the "joke" seriously, so even if i'M nOt SeXiSt It'S jUsT a JoKe, continuing the jokes tends to keep sexism alive.
Yeah, and wtf is wrong with the straights?
The bride handing the bouquet to the girl for her boyfriend to propose is actually super cute. That's a great friend group anyone should be glad to be in.
I know there's gonna be a hundred comments over reiterating this but can we just appreciate the wholesome dad energy OT always has?
Of course we can
Onetopic is the wholesome dad
This is an established fact.
my bio dad is horrible but OT is like my amazing substitute dad
There are quite a few that reiterate how wonderful his laugh is, so you’re good
The lack of self awareness by the Trevor Project poster. No, you’re child feels like they need to hide information from you because YOU have created an environment where they feel unsafe to do so. 🙄
Its sad how some parents don't realize they were the ones who created that divide. How, we feel the need to hide info from them because of their actions.
Also, I thought the poster was very informative on why they have it as a secretive thing. I really respect the Trevor Project for doing absolutely everything in their power to be a safe space for lgbtq+ youths.
They just dont understand how anything can be their fault
or it's just awkward
I'm in that exact situation lmao
My mother kinda just,,, lightly emotionally abused me, mostly bc she thought that that style of parenting was a-ok (her mother tried to legitimately murder her 3 different ways on more than 8 occasions. Not joking.) and she never physically abused me, I don't think
But, she has created a space in the house where I don't feel safe sharing shit with her, out of fear I might be yelled at or punished in some way.
I mean, shit, I lost 8 pairs of earrings to her tantrums that got triggered by her attaining something I did or said to me being trans (she trashes my room to the point where you can't even fucking enter the damned thing). Her most recent outburst was over 3 fucking cardigans that I literally never wore. She thought I wanted to get rid of them bc masculinity shit. No, I just... didn't want them to collect dust :(
They were pretty and deserved someone who'd appreciate them and wear them often ❤️❤️
But, yeah, I'm scared of actually telling her the truth since 7 and sharing information about me since I came out at 13. :/
Remember this, reader:
*Be wary of how you behave and react with your children. Always make sure the child has a safe space no matter the issue, and never jump to conclusions nor immediately punish them for doing something. Hear them out and let them speak.*
This is from experiencing a mother who consistently assumes shit about me because I don't tell her things because she makes me feel like I'm going to be punished for telling her about myself.
funny how they compare it to being in cults when people in cults usually openly and proudly say they're in one and other people are just blind for not following their views- oh
Calling my boyfriend "my partner" in a cowboy accent because it makes his cowboy heart happy
Please tell me if you guys ever get married you’ll have a Western themed wedding
The person who made a ‘childish’ dinner for their SO has no clue how fun that would be to anyone who isn’t toxic
I'd be literally so happy if anyone made something like that to me no matter the intention, DINOSAUR NUGGIES ARE LIT
Even if I hated the dinner, I would be grateful.
Legit gave me a cute suprise idea for my fiance lmfao
@@mondaysinsanity8193 YESSS!!
It wasn't even just piled on a plate. Loved the stegosaurus eating broccoli. There was time and effort to create a story out of food. I'd compliment their creativity, share it on social media, compliment their creativity and eat it with no issue.
"Ladies you were designed to be with a man, not become one"
Me a Transgender ftm who likes girls: And I took that pesonally
And yet some would rather starve to death than learn how to cook
Ok, this was funny af. XD
@@aaasht2606 That's one of the dumbest things they say.
Dude.
Not being able to provide for yourself isn't as "cool" and "manly" as you think it is.
@@harpywiththebrownfeathers These are the last hold outs of toxic masculinity.. they're so insecure, they straight up gaslight themselves. These same idiots literally whine about men's issues that are 99% created by themselves. Why are more men in prison? They were insecure violent morons duh. Why are male unaliving rates so high? Because insecure men bully anyone that won't be as insecure and pathetic as they are. I've been dealing with their crap for almost 40 years as an nonbinary pansexual, they literally perpetuate it through the dumbest of men.. like can't do basic math, read a book, or have an original thought dumb.
@@aaasht2606 You realize most LEADING Chefs in the world are MEN, right? Guys? Is it _gay_ to want to feed yourself?
'omg how dare they help kids who are suicidal by allowing them a space away from people who are contributing to them being/causing them to be suicidal'
_"Do lesbians get periods?"_
🤔 Okay, I can see that someone who doesn't understand biology is involuntary would think people who can't make a baby together (without medical intervention) would have no need for the menstrual cycle-
_"And periods are a very feminine and girly thing. Not something that lesbians get I imagine."_
🙄
Yes, my exact thoughts about this! I literally paused the video and went on a bit of a silent rationale rant to myself, aaaand then the rest of the comment ruined it. I had to laugh...
Bisexuals get periods, and they hurt like a bitch.
I WISH THE ASKER WAS RIGHT WITH NOT GETTING PERIODS OUCH MY BODY IS LIQUIDATING
It makes no sense, if you have ovaries, chances are you have periods, what does sexuality have to do with it?
@@Anon-rt3fx
As I said in the original comment, lots of people just don't understand how the human body works.
18:15 THIS is how you propose at someone’s wedding. The couple were clearly okay with it since the bride gave the woman her bouquet. Very cute.
indeed 100% respect that she shared her special day to make another just as happy :)
Yes, if the bride knows, the groom knows, they both are really happy and on board. And ideally both went to their “most likely to be insulted on couple’s behalf” connection and said hey, something might happen that would be inappropriate without our knowledge and consent, so check our expressions before getting mad at a fellow guest. You know, the aunt who would otherwise tell new additions to the group that Pat and Charlie just ruined a wedding, the attention hogs, because they’re sure that Sam and Morgan just *said* they knew to make peace, the poor dears.
I joke that Uncle Paul is my “double uncle.” He was roommates with my dad in the military, 1970s. Great friends. Paul met Karen. As happens, group activities including Paul, his roommate, Karen, and her sister/roommate happened. Paul and Karen were married in like 6 months and my folks were not together yet, but… Grandma was routinely inviting him to dinner and he’d met at least a few of my dozen great aunt and uncle pairs. Dad is too deeply private to have done this even if they were already paired. But it’s the type of situation where I can readily see consent being given (…hopefully including the bride or groom being sure that yes, the person who is being asked was thinking marriage, and seen their reaction to public proposal vids or something!)
Honestly, as long as the bride and groom know and allow it, in my book it's okay 😌
the one about periods being feminine and girly was making me dysphoric (since i'm a trans boy too young for HRT), but then i remembered that just a few days ago, i was able to get meds to stop my period from the gender spectrum clinic at my local children's hospital :] so now i don't have to deal with that added dysphoria and stress for a week every month, which is really great ^w^
Wait how young can you be too get it? If you know,(I'm a trans boy too)
if you're a guy, your menstruation becomes MANstruation!! good luck with the journey bro
Let’s go, dude!!! 🎉❤
“Do lesbians get periods?” I wish we didn’t, bud.
I mean some don't!
We don’t even need the cramps and bleeding, our bodies have done us dirty >:|
@@Moetron_V2 that's the truth
Same
I'm pretty sure every woman(and trans men that still has periods, maybe non-binary people that was biologically female) wished that they didn't periods, including me.
To those that don't....... I salute you, Ma'am(or Mister, or Messrs. or whatever it is you want to call yourselves)
Yeesh. Possessive cis-hetero women (alongside similarly possessive cis-hetero men, of course) are proof that the problem isn't just individual sexism, it's the entire social landscape. It's like the relationship version of systemic issues.
My fav is when you say smthing like the straights are being weird again, they get is so mad as if LGBTQ+ ppl haven't been treated so much worse.
@@SaintShion Yeah, they'd rather deflect from their inappropriate behavior than actually acknowledge it and take some of that personal responsibility they're always (generally) talking about.
The problem is patriarchy. Special groups of people.
Patriarchy is a concept that has been instilled in us since birth.
It's influence starts to get less each generation but it is still there.
Patriarchic belief are that women and womanly things are inherently worse /weaker than men and manly things.
It's the concept in peoples brains we need to fight - not the people itself.
@@CristalianaIvor The problem is human nature. Trust me, I'm no stranger to being belittled because of patriarchal ideas. Those ideas are just the way that basic human nature manifests itself through the average cis-het man. Cis-het women can manifest that nature in different ways, just look at TERFs. There are many concepts and tendencies in people's brains that need to be addressed, and if people in general don't take responsibility for bettering themselves and their behaviors toward others, the social landscape will never change, and even if people truly embrace the importance of Femininity on a grand scale, that won't be enough to heal the deep damage that lies within the human psyche, and something horrid will inevitably rise up to take the place of patriarchal oppression.
it's called toxic monogamy
“Do people still get upset about boobs?”
Yes. Me. I get upset. Because I don’t have them.
You can have mine
In case you haven't acquired boobs yet;
-Certain estrogen-rich foods can trigger breast development.
-Chest exercises can add muscle to the pectoral region which will also increase breast size.
Hope this helps!
@@cringelord_67 Do the ol' teat yeet
Take mine
@@ManiaMac1613 please tell me this is a joke, (I can't tell, my bad)
Just a story for anyone who cares: I found this nonbinary necklace that my mom got me last year for Christmas after I came out to her in October. Than i realized that ive been out for a whole year! Im honestly really proud of myself. Ever sense than, ive been working on myself ^^
Hope everyone reading this has a great day!!
Yay! Congrats! Very cool that your mum got you that and that you had the courage to come out in the first place! Respect! Hope you're doing well!
I hope you have a great day too! Keep being proud of yourself every single day :D
Yay! So great to have a milestone like that. Ought to get yourself a cake or something to celebrate. That's what I did this year when I realized I'd been identifying as aro-ace for a full decade! It just feels so good to be unapologetically yourself in your own skin. Good for you!
That’s so sweet!
OMG CONGRATS TO YOUUUUU
I feel so bad for the little girls in the first pictures
If I could sign up for lesbianism to sign off my monthly period subscription I've do it in a heartbeat. I think the population of lesbians would skyrocket too.
Gosh I wish i was a lesbian
as a lesbian, i missed that superpower :’)
same, not a second of hesitation
As an asexual I 100% agree
Yes. Skyrocket!!
"gingerbread person?¿? oh no how awful"
well gingerbread doesn't have genitalia and apparently that's what defines gender so what do they want from us??
Don't ask me
Maybe the ones you make don't >:)
@@tsarfox3462 i make all my gingerbread men have 10 inch dingdongs
Use icing to draw tiny xy's all over them.. that should also work
@@tsarfox3462 i hate this comment so much
OT is so proud of his dad jokes, it's adorable. Also that's not a puppy, it's a potato with legs and a tail.
That puppy one is so good. He even did the right thing with getting down on the floor to the puppy's level - he's a stranger still, and nobody likes being picked up by a stranger 80x their size who they can't talk to. Good puppy-having manners. Good man. Deserves puppy.
Yes, yes he does. He also vocalized the thoughts of many - that pupper is indeed a nugget.
@@kiralonely i hope thats what they named him
@@angiiePaniic Honestly, me too, cause that's such a cute story for how they came to name him too. Gah, every time I remember that video I grin, I love that little cylindric floofball and the pure unadulterated joy on the guy's face.
I needed the pure and wholesomeness after the rest of the video
I physically couldn’t stop smiling during that
I once had a boy tell me I wasn't allowed to complain about my period because "it's the wonder of a woman to be able to bear a child". I'm aroace and quite clear about not wanting to have adult fun time, so even if that statement wasn't so over the top, it still wouldn't apply to me ever
If men were able to bear children, we wouldn't be saying that. Guaranteed.
Wow what a wonder to have an utterly useless biological function I'll never require✨anti-gremlin Ace till I die bb😤
Kick him in the balls 7 days a month an and tell him the same
I hate when people talk about being pregnant like that.. just sounds dehumanising, makes me feel like i'm an apple tree that should just be happy to be there for my one purpose.
Was this boy from the 18th century? like wtf? hahahahaha
0:14 - So what I'm seeing is a bunch of men who will be sleeping on the couch or at their mothers, not too mention be denied the title of "daddy" by their daughters.
I doubt that because the parents went along with it and probably forced they daughters to join in
I just love how the “Girlfriend surprises boyfriend with a puppy” video has the same exact vibe as a pregnancy announcement, and I hope that accepting your animal companion as the member of the family they truly are becomes the new norm sooner rather than later.
If someone surprised me with a puppy I would act like its my wedding day/birthday/Yule all rapped into one puppys are adorable and amazing creature and I will take your intire stock. Sorry for any spelling mistakes I'm not very good with words.
But please, dont get a pet for someone as a surpise if youre not taking full responsibility for the pet. The other party may not have the resources or time to take care of it
Fr 🥹
i mean i call my cat sister soo
@@Orion-ih5xl I see what you mean, but that's only if you don't know if the other person wants a pet. The guy wanted a dog, so surprising him with a dog is perfect.
JUST A CORRECTION GUYS:
About the pregnancy test tiktok: she didn't pee on it, it wasn't the pee test and she tried to explain that but he cut her off multiple times.
Edit: the comments are a mess but; something I failed to mention is washing the test, and with blood tests, apparently pee is a lot more sterile than blood. Lol
STILL. I really can't blame him, I would too
Ah, another example of the straights being very not okay, but not in the manner we thought.
That makes me genuinely sad though, if he’s so impatient and not understanding now, how bad is he going to be later down the line. She may want to consider getting another, better partner.
@@ameliasellers6396 true true
@@777aarw i mean i would get the initial shock and dread that i consumed something that might have pee on it. But i wouldn't cut her off if she tried to explain.
I'm curious which test use no urine? I looked it up a little, I only found tests using either urine or blood, or tests done by a doctor ^^'
They found a way to propose at someone else's wedding without ruining it: BECAUSE THEY PLANNED IT WITH THE COUPLE
I have to put up with my parents deadnaming me over Christmas, they know I'm trans they're just acting like I never came out to them. These videos make it a little better, thank you OT
Fun idea:
Get your friends/supportive family to give you Christmas gifts with your actual name to combat your parents weird dismissal.
Friend with a airhorn
I have the same thing with my dad and me being gay he always acts like it never happened. And a lot of times would suggest i get a gf or meet the right women
@@jonevans6446 Show up with a feminine man (whether or not you’re actually dating, it’s just funny to watch the gears turn I promise)
I’m so sorry you have to go through that 🥺 my SIL-to-be came out to us and she has comparable problems with her family… if it helps, I send you some warm internet-hugs from a supportive ally ❤️❤️🩹
"Do lesbians get periods"
Man I wish Wlw folks didn't have to, I would be in heaven
And aces too :)
@@oddbobproductions781 yes
Seeing as mine recently tried to kill me (literally) I would love not getting them.
@@jadedmist WAIT THATS A POSSIBILITY???
@@o_o5210 It's not very common, I've been having issues where I bleed for up to a month at a time. I avoided going to a doctor for a while until recently (I almost passed out and a few other things happened so I went to the ER) turns out my hemoglobin levels were so low I was at risk for a major heart attack at only 19. I had to have a blood transfusion and several bags of fluid, luckily I decided to go just in time. The doctors are pretty sure that my menstrual cycle problems are definitely part of the problem, my mom has the same issues.
The only time Tom Holland had a “problem” (not even that) with Zendaya being taller was more just them laughing loads at the mishap during filming No Way Home when during a stunt she kept catching him by accident 😆 and that’s not even a mark against his masculinity or anything it’s just genuinely funny
Fun fact adult female wolves are actually the alphas. Since they are the ones that teach the kids how to hunt and how to survive etc.
Edit: this is the most comments/likes I’ve ever had on a comment. I don’t know what to say-
Another fun fact to add to yours is the person who initially studied the wolf hierarchy got it wrong and stated so himself its actually a family unit no fighting to be alphas just peaceful being a fam the original experiment was a bunch of random wolves like a prison yard thing so the study was wrong. Also the oldest one walk in front to set the pace for the rest of the pack.
@@KnightDemonZZ and yet, people still say they have to beat their dogs to be the alpha since that study was Obviously Right and the person was Obviously Paid To Say It Was Wrong.
It’s a myth to alienate animals from humans. Ironically, there’s people who think they’re alpha but would surrender when they’re in genuine danger.
@@roxiehodges226 Hey. Psst. C'mere. What's the stereotypical advice everyone has when you go to prison? Something something find the biggest guy and kick his ass something something that's how you'll survive.
The singular 'alpha' wolf only works if none of the members of the pack are related, otherwise the related members will gang up on the singular alpha jerk just trying to collect partners and proliferate because he doesn't care if any one of *the others* die in the struggle, he only cares if *he* dies because then its game over for his genes. Natural wolf packs don't need to invoke this desperate behavior because everyone is either related to each other or have children in the group that benefit from the mutual protection. Thus new mates are required to be cool or invoke the wrath of the entire family who would like to make sure their genes keep going and couldn't care less about a big burly alpha intent on murdering all the nice family babies that currently exist for the sake of desperate jerk babies. If there's no family protection though? Then its open season, capiche? This doesn't cover all circumstances, but this is the most accepted explanation of the behavior which is more nuanced and thought out than "Unga bunga am strong and so am best leader. Listen and make unga babies or I punch. This natural order"
The funniest part of the whole thing is, despite how adamant people are about this BS, alpha behavior in humans probably happens for similar reasons; fear and insecurity. We're genetically closer to, and setup even more comfortably than, bonobos while we pretend we're more like chimps who developed and live in a hostile environment that breeds and requires that aggressive behavior because they're small and tasty.
At best, the 'alpha' is a response to a cause (re: prison/captive wolves), not a behavior that occurs regardless. Its romanticized garbage and if that's your fetish, cool, but that's all it is. Stop pretending it has any place outside of your dreams of being the most bottomy bottom or the most toppy top and is anything more than being Pepsi to BDSM's Coke.
@@PsionNexus uh.. I read the entire thing but just in case you couldn’t tell I wasn’t being serious when I say “obviously right” or any of that stuff.
That store that was selling gingerbread cookies labelled "Gingerbread Person" is in Ireland and has done it since 1983.
Wow. Voting republican sure would prevent THE IRISH from having gender neutral baked goods xD
I thought only kids would have to be told “it tastes the same”
The last clip made me stop everything I was doing and nearly brought tears to my eyes- there’s no better feeling than making someone you care about experience so much joy.
"I'm a fully adult human...technically."
Me too, OT....Me too OT
“…I paint my fingernails, I wear pink” and you look damn good in it! The colors suit you well
Definitely! I never notice until OT points it out because it just feels so natural, and I hope that everyone can get to that point some day, where they are able to just be themselves without any fuss
I think pink just looks good on anyone, just gotta pick the right tones :>
@@kate_alt yes, exactly! Colours have no gender, and it's silly that it's still believed they do
Fr!
1:42 by the text on the microphone and on the hoodie, we can see that the image is flipped. That means that OT had to write that note with mirrored letters. This also means that, irl, the “beardos and weirdos” sign is with reversed letters. OT is also right-handed
Good on that bride being the anti-bridezilla. She literally took time out of her wedding to help out on a surprise marriage proposal. I hope the two had already talk about marriage as it's not cool to put someone on the spot like that in public though.
For sure
Ah i was thinking of a similar thing about this as i recently read a story on AITA about a similar thing but as a viewer to the wedding and my main thing is: if it is ok'd by the bride and groom and you possible fiance doesnt mind a public thing then go ahead. But again thats my thoughts
it's not being a bridezilla to not want other people proposing at your wedding, especially without even being asked. it's clear that the bride and her partner okayed it in this case, but I've heard of so many stories of people who felt that their special day was ruined by someone else trying to take the spotlight - the same goes for announcing a pregnancy at someone else's baby shower.
A a very public proposal during a rather emotional event is an awful idea. All you're doing is pressuring your partner to say yes. It's like proposing in front of a crowd. Proposing during someone else's wedding isn't just hurtful, it's downright disrespectful to the person you want to be with.
@@themindfulmoron3790 I completely agree, but I'm hoping that the person in the video has asked their partner if they'd be comfortable with being proposed to publically
As a queer who remembers the 80s and 90s the condom one really pissed me off, like nobody goes though condoms like gay men, for a very good and very serious reason. Also NEVER KEEP THEM IN YOUR WALLET!
where would you keep them then???
@@ashers_aether7256 If your headed out for a D appointment sure keep them where ever you need for the night but if you store them in a wallet (friction) or a glove box (really anywhere in your car heat) you may as well stick pins in them. They may seem fine for role on but they get bridal and will break. So bed side table, top of dresser, in a grab and go bowl by the front door.
@@onnayoung7699 ooooh i see, thank you!!
@@onnayoung7699 Very good tips, just couldn't help but giggle at the thought of a bridal condom
@@therealshadykit oh wow that's a typo but it is to funny not to leave lol.
17:43 I don't think of myself as totally queer, but as an asexual who is in a lovingly relationship with a respectful allo, I never understood why people say that joke about hating your partner, I love mine, like bish JUST LEAVE THEM IF YOU DON'T LIKE THEM
My grandma who was straight unknowingly encouraged me to come out as LGBTQ+ during a conversation and was the first family member to come forward and support me when I did.
R/accidentalally
damn bro, good for you
i wish i had a grandma like yours :P
Maybe she did know but didn't want to pressure you
"I will stalk you and send you pictures of your house cuz you triggered my insecurities about my relationship" GIRL! If you have issues in your relationship, talk to your man! Sweet Mother of Godzilla! Why don't these straights just talk??? It's not hard!!! 😂🤣
Because they're taught communicating with your partner is bad because they don't think women and men are even equal enough to have meaningful communication that isn't about sex.
14:15
Bees die when they sting. That is a genuinely evil thing to do.
I actually love men that out themselves by saying they've had tons of _adult fun time_ yet not a single one of them had _organism_ cause they make the opposite point they wanted to make,and it makes me laugh every time without fail.
Yes please, the straights being ok is always a good palate cleanser after all the facepalming I do when it comes to this particular subreddit...
The Trevor project saved my life and is really the only organization I've donated to repeatedly
"If you wear a mask, you'll NEVER get my approval to marry my daughters!!"
[Sad Welder Noises through a union-approved respirator]
Oh my gods, I love this. 👍
to that lady who made a dinosaur diorama for dinner: I can only assume that was your way of apologizing, because I would be THRILLED if anyone served that to me.
Fr, I don't even like most of that food but the effort put in is just so precious
18:09 it is ridiculous, like what do people want them to do? He can't magically get taller, she can't magically get shorter, and there no reason to anyway
It's funny how men complain that women talk too much, when they never even listen, or even let a woman finish her story uninterrupted.
Love your videos OT
My kids and I always watch them
Only "The StraightsTM"
You should watch some of the christian vids. They arent complementary to women.
@@poke-talia268 unfortunately, also some gay men, though only a few
@@nonexistingvoid oof
Yeah I agree. The guys in the beginning are on to something but, they're taping the mouths of the wrong people.
Ok, lets get this straight (see what I did therer?). The proposal was absolutely sweet. If public proposals are ok for you as a couple, then this is the sweetest thing ever. Also the execution makes it absolutely clear, that this was sanctioned by the bride, and no weird thunder stealing moment.
Yes, she obviously knew of it, was a part of it, maybe even ironed out some of the details. It really was pretty clever! Working off the whole "catch the bouquet, next to get married" tradition. ☺️
I think that was part of the straights being ok subreddit, he just forgot to clarify on that one lol
the amount of masculinity it takes for someone to get offended by others calling their s/o's partners
It makes me so proud to hear that you've helped to raise $30,000 for the Trevor Project.
Thank you for being such an amazingly supportive person for the LGBTQ+ community!
God I wish I didn't get the monthly waterfall.....lesbianism missed me with this superpower rip. ANYWAY thank you OT for being the positive light this dark period ❤️
Same
Reasons to be trans:
1) periods
2) pregnancy
3) a pill exists purely to make you horny, but not to stop you from knocking someone up because those things cause cancer, let her take it.
I am not trans. But even without society and inequality in the mix, if I'd been born a man, I'm not sure I would complain. (is joke, I know about dysmorphia)
Period Period Go Away
I don't need you, I am Gay.
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Yeah, where do we file a complaint?
@@JanMaynz this is genius i love this
10:43 The only thing she got right was the "cheating isn't just f*cking" part. She needs help if she thinks that is how a healthy relationship is meant to work
Yeah I agree with that. Like if you fall in love with someone else and neglect your current partner, it's still cheating, even without the sex. But unfortunately she didn't mean it like that.
10:30 I once got into a relationship with someone before discussing those types of boundaries and it resulted in a lot of fights. I’m basically the extreme opposite of those people who consider eye contact cheating. I only consider it cheating if my partner did anything without us discussing it or if they lie to me about it. She considered a lot of little things cheating. We ended up splitting because of various large issues, but those issues probably could be traced back to us not discussing those boundaries. They’re very important.
Oh yeah. ALWAYS discuss boundaries when starting any kind of long term interactions with people. Romantic relationships, physical relationships, roommates and carpool buddies, etc. It's not just adult fun time and chores that need boundaries.
I agree, but I also think you don't need to have sex/kiss for it to be cheating. Your partner is your whole world and your best friend in an ideal scenario so the part before where they become emotionally intimate with someone else behind your back is also kinda shitty. Although I see why it's a grayer line than the physical act and can be approached accidentally sometimes, at one point if you are approaching a point where kissing/having sex with someone who isnt your partner isnt totally weird you know exactly what you are doing before you even get to it? meh long story short didnt wanna be a psycho gf, didnt say anything about a friendship that made me uncomfortable, you can guess how that went for me lol
19:10 i hope they named that dog nugget, this is so cute i love it
"Merry the ho-ho" is the best christmas line to ever exist...
It sounds like he's saying "marry the ho ho". ;)
@@Saturinus Marry the ho ho, but only if the ho ho says yes
Its brilliant!
@@Saturinus It really does.
I love how OT doesn't edit out all of the bloopers. It feels so much more genuine
Bloppers lol
I love the typo and that you didn't edit it out makes you feel more genuine. :D
Bloppers is my word of the day now. Makes me very happy on an otherwise not so good day.
The one about your great grandparents not using emojis is hilarious to me. My 90 year old grandfather LOVES emojis. Ever since he has learned to text, he uses so many emojis.
"Have you been outside?" Actually, no, not that much these past two years... But you'd think being forced to stay inside would prompt them to, idk, learn stuff. Look stuff up.
Oh they did learn to look up stuff... On Facebook...
@@jppokemaniac93 or PH...
This subreddit makes me want to write my characters under healthy relationships regardless of their sexuality. I even drew a sketch of pointing out straight stupidity.
Do it!!!! So many romance stories, like almost all of them actually, center around fundamentally toxic relationships between people who don't communicate. Please break the mold!
@@themindfulmoron3790 that’s what I did. Most of my ocs are cats, angels, demons, aliens and mythical creatures. Some of which are dating
So many times I see toxicity and abuse in relationships as normalized and even kinks like pain stuff is normal and it makes me uncomfortable like I absolutely hate pain in all senses so when its normalized and kind of expected it just seems wrong to me.
Wait i though we were all doing this
Why wouldn't you want to write them that way in the first place...
Love the bouquet-proposal because it's also such a lovely move on the part of the bride and groom. Obviously its planned and they're happy to share the celebration with their friends rather than snotty about being upstaged on "their day".
"Girl you peed in his waffles" is a new never before said statement that has now been birth into this world
r/BrandNewSentence
Wouldn't surprise me if it became a Duolingo sentence 🤣
@@andrewbols please tell me they don't get that bad on that app
I get worried about the straights sometimes. My friend gives me hope that yes, some are okay…. Sometimes.
Don't worry we straights worry about other straights too. A good bit of them are not ok.
It's unfair to associate every straight person with this. It's not that these people are straight, it's that they're bigots and/or deeply insecure, ill informed, and judgmental in a manner that's directly proportional to how vocal they are.
@@tsarfox3462 um… are you taking my comment literally? Sorry for any misconceptions but I was joking. Sorry if that didn’t come through my comment. I know not all straights are like this. Sorry if I sounded like I was actually worried about all straights not being okay lol. I worry about everyone.
@@tsarfox3462 when people say ‘the straights’ we mean ‘The Straights TM’, not all straights. The Straights TM are a groups of aggressively straight people in a horrifying way (like the photos of the families where all the girls mouths are duct taped shut, that is NOT OK). Obviously, not all straight people are this way, as the demographic is far to big to say ‘all are bad’. When people complain about The Straights TM they are not talking about the majority of wonderful straight people, just the bad ones. Hopefully that clears things up a bit :)
-a cisgender heterosexual teenager
As a straight I regret these other concerning straights
As a straight person, I can confirm that these Straight Reddit people are definitely not okay. Someone please help me I’m slowly losing it..💀
As another straight person, I direct you over to r/StraightsBeingOkay
Back when me and my husband were first dating I helped him move and found a bag full of random panties. I didn't freak out I just said "nice panties" and he blushed and admitted he liked wearing them
There's always time to freak out once you actually know something's up. :)
@@RexxyRobin yeah when it was an entire bag full(like at least a dozen pairs) I didn't think he was cheating I just suspected he just had a pantie fetish and kept pairs from old girl friends. When he said he wore them and got embarrassed I simply told him "I don't blame you panties are probably more comfy than briefs" and I visibly saw him relax. I have plenty of kinks of my own so won't kink shame anyone and don't give a damn what kind of undergarments someone wears, you do you bo
Underpants are just clothes. Nothing stopping any gender from wearing any kind of underclothes.
If you wanna feel pretty or masculine and want your undies to match that, then freaking GO FOR IT!!
Personally i prefer boxers because snug clothes give me sensory overload. I've tried most kinds of undies tho, and they're just cloth. Cloth doesn't define you unless you want it to.
This is oddly wholesome and I'm not complaining
Aww!
Reminder that all of y'all are valid and deserve to be happy. Stay safe, eat food, drink water and get sleep. Happy holidays and happy winter solstice
Thank you, I see your comments on this channel a lot, and it always gives me a little push to take care of myself. I hope you take care of yourself too
@@warrior_lainey well of course! It's important to remember to care for yourself, and i shall!
I celebrate solstice so this was so nice to see! Happy holidays
You're a sweetheart! I hope you have a wonderful new year!
(Still love your pfp, btw)
Happy Holidays!
My bark of laughter at the Dr Pepper dad joke you threw in at the end of this video was completely inappropriate for the workplace. I can only say, thank Sappho I'm on lunch.
❤
OMG THANK SAPPHO NEEDS TO BECOME MY NORMAL GRAMMAR NOW
I just love it when OT asks "Have you been outside?" It's always so appropriate and perfect. Some people really need to go outside lol.
Edit: oh and I'm all for more examples of straights being ok to stoke the flames of positivity
Seems a strange remark to me. Being outside is not an efficient way to get informed on the subjects here.
Its just another way of saying "go touch some grass" aka, take a moment, breath, and use your reasoning skills to figure out why you're being silly.
I mean cool that 3x esc button feature of the trevor project's website, but terrible that we still live in a world where that feature is needed...
BREAKING NEWS: Local wholesome man wears a sailor's hat, tapes paper to it and writes "SANTA HAT". He has created a new style of Santa hats.
I'm literally tearing up over that puppy. He's right, it is a little nugget. A precious sweet little nugget baby.
"Nut receptacle"
tryna use his SO to store food for the winter like a squirrel smh
Note to people out there: do not keep a condom and a wallet. Your body heat can destroy the latex, making it less effective.
@@samarnadra Gameboy game cases work
I love that every time this subreddit is being reacted to, the straights find some way to make the lgbtqia+ community sound even more powerful than previous times.
Yes
Honestly, it would be funny to live in a world where queerphobics’ assumptions about queer people are correct. They would be gods.
I love how scared these people are of our mere existence tbh
@@devent10n homophobes like to say that they aren't homophobic, because "phobic" means to be scared of something, and they aren't scared of homosexuals. Except for the fact that they are, just not in the sense that they think.
I think that guy just had a genuine question and I hope he found a good answer that wasn't just rude sarcasm
I want to tell the "If you call your bf/gf partner" person that one of my ex-boyfriends uses "date mate" for the people he dates.
Matt Walsh makes a living by being as completely wrong about everything as he can manage. I'm actually a little impressed at how dedicated he seems to the role.
I thought you said Matt Walst at first and I was a bit confused because he's a singer in a rock band lol
Dude should’ve been a weather reporter. He would’ve been a lot less annoying as a weather dude.
15:38 context aside, a pretty dress + deadly weapon is *aesthetics*. It's just that the weapons these girls picked really don't work with the dresses... like the one in yellow dress would look so much cooler with a bow? Dual blades for the girl in green? A CHAIR FOR THE GIRL IN FLOWER DRESS?!
Frying pan for the blonde girl in pink??
@@khadijasenghor286 Like Rapunzel from tangled?
Maybe it's just my personal taste, but *everyone* looks cooler with a bow
Here for the chair-wielding-in-a-flower-dress aesthetic. Just yes.
@Rachita Alavani Bingo
Thank you for a look into r/straightpeoplenonostopitandgoaway... Truly amazing
My friend surprised her husband with the positive pregnancy test in a similar way, but she put it in a plastic bag, and used a separate plate that neither of them would be eating off of.
I'm down for straights being ok. Straight people, like any other group, are mixes of great people, terrible people, and people in between. Also, the wholesomeness sounds awesome.
This!
I have a couple straight friends that are super sweet and supportive, but online some people just treat em like grabage for being straight. Straights can be ok! We just gotta help em finally be okay.
@@inavela_artsy It breaks my heart to see them fight for our rights all these years only to have people throw it in their face that they're straight. If it weren't for them, we wouldn't have gotten the rights we have now!
Ok so I feel so at home here, when u went to check my fridge and found no apple juice I was about to comment, “hey OT were out of apple juice” I got as far a app- before I realized…. This just shows how much this channel makes me feel happy. Thank you so much ❤
“Do lesbians get periods?” No frank. I was born being assigned female at birth without a uterus or ovaries, so you know. I was born without reproductive organs.
god i wish that were me
@@sunsetwaffle3457 same, dude, same
I wish....
One can dream
why cant that be me
0:58 - considering the subtext of the "girl being bullied by her peers" stockphoto, this is 100% OneTopic's audience
I’m not bullying OT, OT’s bullying me with his lack of wishing me and my country a merry Christmas.
@@fishHater same just wish he'd consider the moth people
i've seen that photo before on twitter and people saying it looks oddly queer
10:16 Dungeons and Dungeons... 😭
Great video!!!
Please please please PLEASE do straights being ok. They're so wholesome.
I was waiting for the twist on the last one but there was none and it was just so adorable
He has done that
Me an Australian:
“Jokes on you, OT, I’m having a great summer!”
(That’s a lie, but I won’t tell you that
I hate summer it’s so hot (but I usually stay inside all day anyways, so…)
I love summer, but then again, I'm in NZ and summer here isn't disgustingly hot. Where I am, the hottest it's been is about 25C. Very pleasant.
I was feeling really really dysohoric, like binder in bed dysphoric, and after hours of trying, this is the video that solved this. I now truly believe that OT is God.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate the fact that OT has raised *30 thousand* dollars for The Trevor Project.
They have a feature to exit and erase the browser history. That is amazing that they added it. But the fact it needs to exist makes me so sad and angry. 13:18
You’re? So cute. Instant subscribe. Your giggle is healing 🥹