We love you, FJ ♥️ Thank you for everything you’ve done for this community 💐 Just remember FJ, you have an amazing wife and adorable son 🥹 Family & Friends..and us- your fans. You’re a talented and capable person. If you need to take a break, take it. We’ll be right here waiting for you 😌
Much love to you, my dear friend. So much has happened for you and to you in the past 5 or so years. It’s a lot to process and keep up with! Your job involves putting yourself and your creative ideas out there in the world, every single week. It’s vulnerable and draining. I’m always amazed that you keep doing the darn thing, week after week and year after year. I respect your work ethic so much. I also relate because I’m creatively blocked, too. I feel like life has been insane for everyone these past few years. But I have seven lines done for my next script for you!! Help is on the way - I’m almost halfway there!! 😅💀
Not only OK, to speak clear: I am deeply thankful for this one. You cant Imagine how much I seemed this vulnerability especially from infj/p coz ITS rare and Not easy. 😭🙏🏻💚
Agreed, it’s the reason why so many people are leaving encouraging messages! I also think it’s how a lot of us enjoy his work more than other comedy channels on the platform. Obviously he’s talented, but if you look at his career on UA-cam from his first video in front of his webcam in his room, it’s like “this guy have depth and a great mind as well”
Thank you for your honesty, Frank ❤ Also, as a writer, I tend to struggle with many of the same thoughts as you do, so I have written down the points you have for your work, and I will try to follow them for my work as well to ensure that I won't focus too much on how well a story does, but on the creative process and the joy of making it. You are very talented, never doubt that ❤ I hope your videos will start doing better again, but might just be because of Covid no longer keeping people at home.
I know I’m just one person, but every time I see you’ve made a new video it brightens my day. And I watch each of your videos without ever really thinking about whether it’s my favorite or one of your best, but just enjoying whatever the joke is this time and always having a laugh or two because of your efforts. Thank you Frank🙏💙
Don't forget the masterpieces you have created/are creating relating to MBTI. Such a massive and magnificent body of work, writing and playing 16 personalities flawlessly. How are you not burned out? ❤
Okay Frank, you put A LOT of efforts into your videos and you are extremely underrated tbh. It's super discouraging when your work isn't received that well and it's easy to say to keep going, but honestly your videos really mean so much to many of your viewers, especially ones like these. You've helped MANY people in many ways. So maybe take a break ?? Let your mind have its own epiphany and figure out things. Your loved ones and your viewers will always have your back :)
Hey Frank! 👋 these are just temporary obstacles. Don't worry too much man , just take a break , trust me we all understand you, especially the infjs here including me. You'll come back more energetic and creative than ever before ! And thanks for being honest and real. Thanks for being you! 🙂
So much of what you said I go through all the time. Now, I'm definitely not even really on the map as a creator, but just hearing this from someone who I admire greatly and who is a big creator means so much. Thank you for being so vulnerable and letting us know what's going on. I'm sure we all have empathy and patience to let you work it out, Frank. The part about not feeling like you're any good? I often wonder, is it because INFJs need that feedback, so we think this when we don’t get what we hoped for? Maybe it hits us harder? I don’t know. Anyway, I appreciate all the points you listed and will be rewatching this, I'm sure. Take care. 🤗💜
Shared vulnerability is such a rare Gift and present, coz ITS even Harder to Share. The "litten funny" Side of Life seems more braced by more people. So many seem to Go for funny Entertainment, but the real and raw Entertainment of Honesty paired with Compassion and Kindness is even more brilliant and Takes more of Courage in those Times, where IT seems Humans try to BE looking "perfect" instead of real. I prefer Shadow and Light, coz that is real, but ITS Not easy to admit, coz maybe especially idealists maybe Wish for a light and funny World only. But Being Not judgemental letting Things and Feelings and thoughts unfold and that shall we observe without any judgement, but Just let those BE, seems No easy Kind of practice. ITS asking "How do you feel? What is there?" Maybe infj need more Feedback and Interactions with Others, because they can Not so clearly See/feel their FI but seem much Into FE. So what they can do is: Being Brave and reveal what they observe within, Share with external World and hoping for Connection than. "I feel this and that way, how are you Guys currently Feeling?" I am especially deeply thankful If IT comes to "DARK" Matters. Y? Coz I wished to See Males crying, in fear, in sadness, in insecurity, in Hurt. ITS neither good or Bad. I consider those more "soft" qualities as feminine. And I felt freaking lonley, coz Most acted: Happy, funny, perfect, rigid, No Feelings, No insecurities, No sadness, simply they felt Like Maschines of Perfectionism, which left me sad. I hoped to find more honest softness within more Males and females and slowly the veils of silence and hidings are Lifting. Thats why I Always enjoyed FJs Podcasts or Early Videos and those of Clay as Well, coz ITS so Brave soft human gentle and calming. Deeply thankful for such Powerful Honesty even in Comments Like yours. Thanks much for your Honest outspoken vulnerability. 🙏🏻🫂
Frank James, you are so talented, creative, intelligent, and innovative. You have so much within you and you’re in a place now where its time to grow and break past the ceiling of impossibility. I think you feel discontented because you feel the call for something more. Its time to evolve, its time to experience more peace and joy and fulfillment. YOU are a hit and what you produce reflects that, EVEN if others don’t see it. Success and your value and the value of your videos surpasses well beyond “number of views”. I can’t tell you how many times your videos brought me out of the void of depression and gave me strength to fight another day. There have been many times in the difficulties of life that I needed a laugh, and I knew I could count on you to make videos that make me feel good again. You are more than just a comedian and a UA-camr, and you and what you produce are more important than you know. Im glad that you’ve had a creative block bc it’s making you pause and be still and see the blessings that you have in your life. The 60-80k views that you get on the lower end of views for your videos are the views of human beings who have spent their time and attention on you. Think about that. You have tens of thousands of loyal fans who watch your videos without fail every week and appreciate and even love the work that you do. Frank James, don’t let what the world calls success make you forget the preciousness of having a “small” amount (60k +) of human beings follow you and the impact you have on every one of them. You have a gift and its natural for you to create amazing things, but I think once you get out of your head and into your heart, then you will exponentially flourish and reach new heights that you never thought possible (and its not a success and height that will always be dictated by #’s and money). Frank, dig deep into your heart and soul and think about the world and how much it needs light, wisdom, truth, joy, ingenuity, and realness. You are a rare gem that offers these things. I am rooting for you and I am confident you will have breakthrough. I love all your videos and watch them all the time. I enjoy the content you put on both your channels, both old and new. You got this, man!!! I believe in you and I will continue to be one of loyal fans who highly esteems you and sees the value you bring to the world.
This video reminds me of your first videos back in the day, when you used YT to chanel your thoughts and emotions as a coping mechanism for your mental health issues. Nice to keep up with the real Frank, and it feels like catching up with an old friend over a cup of coffee, dealing with similar challenges in life.
I just recently found your channel and I immediately knew I found a gem. Thank you Frank James. I appreciate you sharing this. Wish you the best on everything. 🧡🍂🍁🍎💐
It sounds to me like the solution to your creative dilemma is in the first few minutes of your video: the shed studio. You need the shed studio. Looking inward to change your thoughts and approach is great, but changing your environment is often necessary to facilitate breakthrough. The shed studio is an investment in yourself and your art. Take out a loan if need-be. Take the leap of faith. Then… make 16 personalities creating their mancave lol
I have to leave my environment to do my school work at least some of the time. Especially for creativity. I appreciate your content very much. Don't be too hard on yourself. Positive vibes coming your way. As an educator I know from experience productivity is much harder with negative feelings.
It happens to everyone! Me, as an ENTJ, when I get "down" mentally, I focus on trying to make small tasks that require little to no energy, and let my mind do the rest. There was an artist that felt that mental blockage of creativity, so he simply drew a balloon, and then started from there, he kept on adding more and more small elements, and eventually, he made a whole story. Hopefully you don't get overwhelmed by the thought of trying to do something big, just focus on getting enough rest and at some point, creativity will come back to you, little by little. ❤ We love and support you, always!
🤗 FJ, you are LITERALLY one of the most talented and creative people I have been blessed to enjoy! So educational AND satisfyingly hilarious! Sounds like you just need to close the laptop and lay down the pen. Let your brain rest, enjoy your family. And before you know it, sooner then you think, you will be back in the creative river. Also, if you listen back, you will notice how much you make a critique on if something feels like a waste of time. What I have learned is sometimes you need to embrace the very concept of wasting time. Like actually. Blessing wasting time. Give it a whirl sometime. Something magical comes out of it and it takes a certain pressure off. -ESFJ here 🤗🤗🤗
This is so spot on. I'm facing same problems. Imposter syndrome effects every single one of us. We INFJs have this problem if we got even one mistake in our content we feel bad about ourselves. We're perfectionists. What's more, I also want to be the source of all my ideas, that's the standard of genuineness I cherish. Authenticity is paramount for us INFJs
As an INFJ, I love the vulnerability of this video. It's something we have a hard time giving to the public, so that is a score within itself. It is also not rare that we run into creative blocks due to the insatiable amount of energy and information we have to process daily. Nonetheless, we mature well, and develop tools to get through these times, which you are using in this video. I have no doubt that you will recover. I understand that there could be a monetary issue, but the videos are fantastic and I have learned so much. I began watching the newer videos, but I am looking forward to going back in time to see your creative and talented transformation. No matter what you do, I will continue watching. Namaste...
Something I remembered you talking about in an older video that resonated with me, being fellow playwright, you said when you were in grad school, you were the one that people came to for advice and wrote amazing things and you were at the top. But then after that it sounded like you went through a period of not feeling inspired. And then you started your UA-cam channel and you reached literally millions of people. Maybe the ebbs and flows are feeling too extreme? Remember, this literally has nothing to do with your talents, YOU are talented and have a gift. You’re also in a very different place right now. Maybe the interest in MBTI is fading? There’s a myriad of things. My favorite vids are the “if things/concepts were people” for sure. When I look at Dear Kristin’s videos there are definitely times where I thought I would love to see your perspective on it. Like if you did your own version I think that would be pretty cool. We also just like you Frank, in a parasocial way of course, but YOU are what makes this work special. I accidentally deleted this, so take 2 :)
I give you props for making as many videos as you have. Meyer Briggs is an extremely narrow, niche topic and I would have been tapped out creatively and super bored years ago. This is the problem with UA-cam/social media over other media, it traps you in one specific niche and if you try other things, the algorithm drops you and your reach drops, and so you get stuck in that niche. So many creators seem to complain about this, and then instead of trying new things, exploring new topics and staying fresh, they just post less and less, and live off Patreons who forget they are subscribed.
Longtime viewer and fan here Frank - I'm an ENTP so I feel compelled to do the NeTi thing and brainstorm / provide solutions. Just random ideas off the cuff but I hope something below will be helpful. - Your audience loves you Frank. Fo REAL dude!!! One of the few UA-camrs who I don't think I've ever seen a hate comment under. I understand you are an INFJ who values your privacy but I wonder if there are ways you could tap more into direct audience relationship, whether it's a podcast, lives, etc. - Personality is niche but psychology is vast. Are there other areas of psychology you'd be interested in tapping into? Maybe broaden the scope a bit while still staying within a topic your audience will likely be interested in. You could cover emerging issues in the field, tried and true concepts like Internal Family Systems, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy... The psychology of big figures in the media/pop culture etc (to keep it entertaining)... Could do skits about those things or keep it more educational. - How comfortable are you with things like interviews? Going back to the podcast idea. It can be daunting to talk solo for that long but there are plenty of psychology creators in the space who I'm sure would love to either come on your show or even perhaps partner with you on a pod. You're a great soul FJ! You can figure this out. I wish you the best on your creative journey. Edit to add - you don't have to make shorts but can you/ someone on your team make shorts of longer content videos? Edit 2 - I just saw you mention you don't want other people to give you ideas. WELP! Off I go then. 😅
Frank, you (and your brain) need and deserve a break. Your talent has been proved for all of us so much... If I can give you an example, in Spain we have a sucess comicians "Pantomima full". They've been without unploading here for 2 months... Recently they came back and it has been a massive success. You have even a more loyal audience, you can have a rest. I know you're in other things, but it's a shame for us you quitted your "school" for starting youtubers. You would be so great mentor. Take care 💫🖐
Just go easy on yourself. You don't need to be always creative, just relax. Maybe you need just time for yourself. Being creative sometimes means we get ourselves too involved in it, and we lose other aspects of our life.
Hey FJ, thank you for your candor. Please accept my humble observations/opinions/feedback (also apologies for the lateness of the response to this video). First, you are NOT a failure. FJ, you have come so far, be proud of this fact. Understand that your life dynamic has been wonderfully changed and this will affect your creativity. Also, know that you have saturated the space with your fantastic works and now face a transition… Now you are transitioning to creating content that will contribute to your cross-generational legacy of works. These works are for future generations and their successes may not be witnessed now. Take a break, pause, live life, have fun and know that no matter what, the “views” will always be there. Franklin Jamerson, Frank James, Herder of Frisky Ponies…FJ…whatever, wherever, however you apply your many talents and creativity…you will be successful…trust this…& know that all will be well. Stay cool & attractive.
I watch your other channel because umm.. YOU are hilarious! You know I love your videos because I am an INTJ and took the time to pay you a compliment. 😝So…this vid came up in my feed today. So I watched it. Look out, here comes some unsolicited advice. Lol. Don’t beat yourself up. You have a real creative talent and sometimes artists need to take a short break from what they love doing and come back to it later with fresh eyes after they have taken a time out for themselves. Question.. have you ever taken a break? Take a vacation bud you deserve it. And another thing, while you’re away - poll your audience. why you doing all the work bro? It’s their job to tell you want they want. All you have to do is ask them. You’ll get endless ideas from your viewers that you can pick and choose from and put your own spin on. so what if someone else thought of the idea first. it’s your take and flavour that makes people watch your unique style of content. All that being said please make more INTJ videos. You should make exclusively INTJ content going forward lol 😜 Jk, It’s great when you stereotype this shit out of us because it’s true! Btw, love your normal vs mbti video series they crack me tf up ❤ take care
You are one of the few people who can talk about anything and I'm engaged immediately. This is really a talent. Your use of language is quite beautiful too. It's good to see one of your old self-deprecatory philosophical rambles 😂
You know the people who watch this channel, where you are just being your vulnerable true self, will watch whatever you make. Have you considered broadening your niche to more like psychology in general? A lot of your viewers are into all things psychology. We love your 16 personalities comedy videos and your educational videos. Keep going. You’ve set some great guidelines for future videos. I’d rather watch unedited authentic FJ on here and want to say thanks for trusting us with your innermost thoughts. That wasn’t easy for an INFJ to do. It’s the hardest to fix your own problems and you did some deep soul searching and shared it with others not only to share where you are, but to encourage others as well. If you are proud of what you make it will do well. We are here to support you and I don’t think anyone thought you sounded egotistical.
I couldn't agree more. People crave this authentic connection and here you can feel it. Besides all he says really has some meat on it. (Or whatever the expression is 😄)
just found you recently, and have enjoyed your channel so much! Love when your face pops up with a new video - Makes my day. You really are a very talented writer, comedian, actor, producer - all that. There are times an artist can use a soft break to clear the gray matter. Take it, we will wait for you; you're worth it to us ⭐ (side note: eat a burger or two)
As I watch this 2 weeks after it was posted I see this hasn't gotten many views. It has to be hard to make this level of content for a long time. It must also be hard to make a living with your passion. I have a family with 4 kids, you have to pay the bills somehow. I actually didn't get into your 16 personalities until much later. My whole family has loved your "if things were people" sketches. I hope you can find a way to keep producing your amazing sketches. I can't imagine how hard it is to be in the limelight and deal with public opinion, I have a hard enough time dealing with the criticism of a few let alone 1,000s of people. This is a bit of a ramble, but know that we appreciate your work. There is a family of 6 in Hawaii that loves your work and appreciates your efforts. It sounds like you may be holding onto too many chords at the same time. Consider you can't be perfect at all things at all times. Praying you can find your balance. ❤
I watch you're stuff because you're a very talented comedian and are funny AF! Regardless of the "16 personalities" or not I'd watch it either way. To me your strength is your ability to be funny, your comedy. That's what draws me to your channel rather than me actually trying to learn about personality types. Sometimes you just need to take a break to recharge man. I know it's a drag when you wanna keep cranking out videos but it applies to almost everything in life.
You are talented! You are good enough, you are smart enough, and gosh darn it, people like you! Don’t focus on views. Also, remember that sometimes there is more than one person behind a single view (my son and I often watch your videos together). Your 16 personalities in various situations and if X were people videos are fantastically creative. I believe that trying to make “a hit” will only stifle your creativity. I am equally impressed with how often you post completely original content. If you’re stuck for ideas, go out in public places and to events and observe people around you. By “living” you can then hold up the mirror to life.
Also, every artist needs inspiration. Here are some ideas that come from you: - collaborating on your main channel? - Shakespeare inspired videos? You always have Shakespeare references! - Mini-series with reccuring characters? - Satire on your life? You already do these :)
Hi Frank. So I watched this video and I have some thoughts to share with you. Much like any other creative project and the creator behind it, it's good to remember the following (the examples I included are just that, examples): 1) Say you write a script, an assignment, a book, a poem, anything. What sends your mind spinning (mouse+wheel) is the awful tautology of people-pleasing creation or ANY other reason that is NOT directly related to fruitful, juicy, real creation. What's more, it will have you a prisoner of mental looping. Forget about the views/word count, whatever it is. Just DO the thing; for example some of the best fun, life changing pictures/conversations/food etc. I've experienced have all been impromptu. 2) Unique creation usually implies risk, it's what any entrepreneur will tell you (things you already know). Take the risk and go on a creative exploration. Sure, you can have an idea of a theme (be it abstract or concrete), but still proceed with the pure joy of free-reign creation. You have actually answered your own question/meandering (on this video) when you toyed with the idea of creating because YOU LIKED THE IDEA. That's it! There's your flame! There's the bridge! Forget the conditions. We only live once, so you might as well have fun being yourself and simply manifest your visions, without much external interference. 3) Creativity, passion, knowledge, artistry; you've got them in abundance. And the fact alone that this video exists, speaks volumes to your authenticity as a creator, Frank. Physical exhaustion is a very real thing, and it can mess with your cognitive abilities in no time flat. Everything I'm writing now, you are aware of. I'm happy to be your mirror and help you see your creative flame in all its glory. If only you put down the "analysis paralysis" (I'm quoting YOU) and your idea that the UA-cam views are related proportionately to YOUR value or talent, then you'll be well on your way PAST the block. 4) Future video ideas for 16 Personalities: a. 16 Personalities at an amusement park. What would each personality choose to do? b. 16 Personalities as funeral directors (or sth else, equally extreme). c. 16 Personalities as characters in Hollywood movies. d. 16 Personalities being creatively blocked 😉 e. 16 Personalities as flora & fauna 😄 f. 16 Personalities as fortune tellers. g. 16 Personalities having a day off & HOW they spend it. You really, really have got this, Frank. Here's a 🧡 to keep you going 😊👋👋
I think that because of that amazing video of 16 personalities Buried Alive You have set the bar pretty high and would like to do the next one to be better than the last one. Sometimes, you just need to relax and find some inspiration without forcing it. Reading a book, listening music, going for a walk to a place you love enjoying by yourself, or like some people were saying, changing scenery (you don’t necessarily have to move). I work as a UA-cam Manager for a UA-cam channel (no shit Sherlock) and I know it can be draining to find the right ideas or topics to do sometimes, but eventually you’ll find them. And if time is what you need, then take it. You will be alright. We’ll be here
I already know the pain of wanting to make hits and I'm just a tiktok user with 2500 followers 😭 whatever you post, your own unique personality and love for MBTI shines through and brightens my day as a fellow INF type. I have been binge watching your videos lately and they bring me a lot of happiness :) it just feels good to see someone with a similar personality to myself get to have a meaningful creative job
I actually really love your channel and always look forward to seeing what’s next. I only discovered your channel a couple months ago, purely by chance and it’s now it’s quickly become one of my favourites. Your comedy sketches just seem to get better and better, and you really are absolutely at the top of your game. Please don’t be afraid to back yourself and your work. Your work is really, really good and you’re a talented story teller (I think most INFJ’s are!) In terms of the view count, I often wont see your videos for about 12 hours or more after posting due to the time difference being on the other end of the planet and just life getting in the way. It’s easier said than done, but please try not to worry so much about the view count especially so quickly after posting. I think the more you worry about it, the more it’ll add to the creative block. Maybe ease up on the pressure on yourself to find something new to create and go relax and spend some time with your family or set your mind on something else if you can. Everyone needs a break from their job to recharge now and then. Your mind will start feeling more innovative and creative if you can try to let go of worrying about what everyone thinks and what is coming up next. Rest assured, we’ll all still be here when you come back if you need a break. Thanks FJ for keeping us laughing every day 💛😁
As someone who only uses creative endeavors as a relief valve from everyday life, I know I’m well down the path to burnout when the creativity dries up. You’ve given a blueprint here that provides a way back from everything on the spectrum of being so depressed you’re hospitalized (which I’ve experienced) to just having a bad day- find something positive to see, do or accomplish each day that isn’t tied to financial gain but is for enjoyment sake alone. I really appreciate that you put it that advice in video form. I liked the superhero support video btw. I actually thought to myself that it was a blend of an old school FJ woven into a comedy sketch. I was a bit surprised by that which made it even more entertaining.
Well stated and hear hear! That first part is exactly what I was thinking while watching. It’s comforting not only to empathize while I go through similarly-timed burnout, but also to have something of a map with which to guide myself out of it. Thank you much for this, Frank!
Frank, I appreciate your vulnerability when you show it over the years. I know the desire to dwell on the metrics is strong emotionally and that also drives your income. I resonate with your feelings in my own profession. There are so many others just like me that have grown so much through much needed existential crises inspired by your videos. You’ve made such an immense impact. Thank you for everything you publish. Thank you for entertaining, educating, inspiring, and sharing. -INFJ & big fan on multiple platforms
Frank, three questions: 1) Have you done any auditions for movies/tv-shows? You really should! 2) Have you considered writing a book? I really enjoy your Word of the week. 3) What about stand-up? EXTRA TIP: Take a break - two weeks without thinking about UA-cam videos. Find out what brings you joy and relax. It`s really important. XOXO :)
«Don’t do it» Would be my advice. «Give up». Be open for «it» to come back to you as sudden as the block appeared. Just have the set up ready to go for when things loosen up. Then when it comes treat it like a starving cat that is scared of you, but you are trying to feed it. Approach it with caution and build trust over time. Accept that creativity comes in waves. So you might as well do something else when the water is still. Doing something else «out there» in the world will serve the creative spark as well. Now you are in a good cycle.
I could tell that video you made with 16 personalities buried alive was the most you had out into a video! Well done! My boyfriend and I enjoyed it haha we are both INFJ and INTJ. Also I think it's he funny to see the 16 personalities deal with a door to door sales person or something haha. Just an idea! You're not alone. I felt very validated watching this video. I am also INFJ and it was funny to see someone struggle the way I do in my own head haha. You're great! Love your videos
You don't lack creativity or talent. You just need a break to recharge your creativity battery. You've been producing three creatively made videos every week for three years now, and that's a lot of work and effort for one man. Making the 16 personalities sketches as a series is really a smart move. It encourages binge watching. The same thing goes for "if things were people" series. You are smart and talented, Frank. I love your work and your sense of humour and how you approach things. You have a unique perspective, whether it's in your comedy sketches or your educational ones. And I really hope to see a short film made by you one day. I think you should branch out in your niche, you can add another topics that are intrested to you and related to the personality, self discovery and psychology, if you like to, even philosophical topics, you can make some funny skeches around that, too. I think you lean towards making comedy more. Whatever you do, you have to like it really and be pleased with it so you can keep doing it. I know youtube can cause frustration with it rules and algorithms and all that, but you played its game very well so far, so keep playing it player. And give shorts a chance, I know you dont like them that much, but youtube do, and people do, so use it for your advantage to attract new viewers to your channel. You can use them for jokes, especially relatable jokes, or you can make them for a short dose of inspiration. That's just a suggestion. It's up to you. And consider having a team to help you out. It's your business, and you need a team. I know you get some help from your friends, but I think having a team that works for you and with you to creat skeches and brain storming ideas well help you keep going and make things easier for you. You know that all the great shows have many writers, not only one. So consider it. Thank you for being one of the people who make this crazy world a better place. Thank you for entertaining us and educating us about the 16 personalities. especially during quarantine time. Thank you for all the funny characters that you made. Timmy, Hank, Chuck, galaxathor, and many more, keep making them you're good at this.Thank you for the beautiful community you made. And thank you for your courage and for sharing your vulnerability and your innermost with us. Thank you for being humble. Enjoy the holiday season with your wife and your baby and your loved ones, and take a rest. Don't worry, you got this. Wish you all the best.
Frank: @12:34 "I have to get to a place [...] where I'm doing it for myself, for the art, for the creative expression and fulfillment." Full stop. That is the only metric to focus on
Frank. Your authenticity is always present. It’s no surprise, there would be times when you work required must be compared to the “value” you seek. You’ve been working so hard and creating incredible “plays” for years. Thank you. You made it look so effortless. I’ve been appreciating your “talent “ since the beginning. I know you will push through this. One very long term fan here. Best to you. You are sharing something most would hide. Be proud. You’ve given so much to so many. I hope you find your balance. Cheers, Frank.
What is your favourite thing to produce, what are you most passionate about? If you lose your passion for the job it gets tougher. When you first start out its like a hobby becomes a job so it's great, but when the job becomes mostly pressure it's stressful, do the things you enjoy but also try things that challenge too. Is it the routine? People don't mind waiting to watch in general, most of that pressure is you perhaps or you vs technology. I can so relate to many of your videos, also the comedy ones are super funny. I saw a quote from someone who studies psychology and they said use "nobody cares" because apparently if you start thinking that nobody cares you kind of let go of the feeling judged.... Release the pressure, face the fears, see the changes and change the goals if necessary? When in a sticky patch I always think to myself if I went to the moon and looked back to earth at myself and the world what would I think, feel or do? It's so easy to pick ourselves apart during growth or change.
We’ve watched you as a family since 2020 and it’s still a moment of excitement to say, “Did you see that Frank James posted a new one?!” We love you, FJ! Forget the Shins; G.K. Chesterton has the line that saves my fallen hide from discouragement: “if a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly.”
These are my FAVORITE FJ videos! You just being authentic. BTW, you’re the only person I will watch/listen to talk about themselves. Everyone else better teach me something in 30 seconds or I’m out 😂
FJ, you have made so many amazing videos. Please don't be too harsh on yourself. I guess it's time for a bigger change now. But try to enjoy this period. Keep exploring what makes you enjoy the process of creating your videos even more and try new approaches to achieving your goals. You can simplify whatever takes too much time and effort and find out what can be improved/changed while enjoying it. Of course, don't be too radical right away and give yourself enough time to figure it all out. 💜
Hey, as an INFJ, some of my favourite videos are the ones that don't get the most views. Then I'm like, why?! Then I remember, INFJs are often loners and find company in others like them
I like the criteria. It's easy to get caught up in negative self talk and crazy standards that don't let you be inspired. Good to have objective things that will overcome the insecurity. I've always admired UA-camrs for posting. Fear of failure and fear of success are each side of the same coin. What you said I think makes sense to a lot of creatives. I love your vids. A couple of my favorites are the grocery store and Willy Wonka. I have no idea how you edit so many characters so seamlessly. Not sure if you're asking for suggestions but I think a few things would be fun: Wedding speech Superhero sidekick Substitute teacher Being Arrested/Booked Maury paternity test At the airport Getting a new haircut Picking out a pet On Zillow Pet peeves Handling a jerk coworker Decorating a cake Picking a restaurant As a spy At paint night At Prom At a surprise party Winning the lottery Making a UA-cam video 😉 In a fictional world: Harry Potter, Jurassic Park, Godzilla, Scream, etc. It would be cool to see some behind the scenes, bloopers, guest stars, grwm, and day in the life vids sprinkled in to give you a break. Have fun!
First of all, thanks for being so open about your creative block. One of the most difficult things as human beings is to accept our failures and then look for possible outcomes, your conclusions were eye opening. I'm on a similar stuck phase as you, not just creatively but on a personal level too and your approach to figure things out could be useful for many people, including me. I hope you'll find a voice that's creatively challenging and thought provoking that could have resonance within your audience. Best regards!
Exhaustion is a creativeness killer. Also let down expectations. Surround yourself with encouraging people and brainstormers. What about 16 personalities as fruit? Or 16 personalities in the fellowship of the ring…or make a16 personalities as grandparents? Or utensils. Or 16 personalities reacting to bad music or drivers? Hang in there. Have courage! I think the video editing style adds to the “hit” factor. There were a few that didn’t even have your song at the end. Those ones made me sad. Keep your iconic song 😊
Really appreciate this 😊 I've tried getting my thoughts into a comment and I'm not happy with it 😅 I care about the topic too much to write something I'm not satisfied with! So I'll find my way back here when I have more energy/clarity! But it's important to me to put something here, I appreciate these chat type videos, they really do help 😊
Oh Frank, I feel with you. Thank you for your openness. Creativity and expectations cannot work in the long term. You know that yourself and as an creative myself, I had to learn that too. Which isn't that easy. In my job, among other things, I am responsible for designing stamps for scrapbooking and cardmaking. That's enormous pressure because I have to think about whether it will sell and if they will like it. My job basically depends on these sales. And I love my job. But it's also the case when I write my novels that I think about whether it would be well received by readers and then I get stuck. Most of the time it's not even the expectations of the reader or the buyer, but rather of myself, that I have to keep up with everyone else. Above all, various social media algorithms. This stresses me out immensely. Now I'm in the middle of Julia Cameron's 12-week program "The Artists Way" (do you know that?) and I'm learning to love the process of creativity again and falling in love with what I do every day. And the morning pages helped me with that. Just like you said. Just write and the stream of consciousness does the rest. That was very eye-opening. “It’s two o’clock in the afternoon and I feel like I haven’t accomplished anything…” I feel the same way. That annoys me immensely. Then I'm in a bad mood. At the moment it always ends the same way: I crash on UA-cam and watch FJ's videos. ... and manage even less. Vicious circle. But that's how it is. I need this to shut down my system. To restart. Frank, I understand the pressure that lies on your shoulders and I wish you that you find a way that makes you happy and inspired again.
I love working with talent. When they burn out, it's a challenge to get them back, but I love that process. When they push through, their work evolves into something greater. Then rinse, repeat. It's never ending 😄
I love you and I think you are amazing! Dont underestimate yourself. You put a lot of work into your videos and you have worked consistently for many years. I am veery thankful for you sharing this and I loved watching this video. I am a writer so I very much could relate. (I am a german writer if you wondered how that would be possible with my type of english skills) You really build such a beautiful place with your work. If I am totally honest I used to watch your videos a lot during 2019/2020. Beginning of 2019 I found out about MBTI and you are very gifted with having such a natural and deep grasp of that whole concept. I never imagined your channel developing the way it did. You really are a master mind that you came this far with it and brought so much happiness to so many people. These days I occasionally stumble upon your channel and then I just watch your sketches for hours while laughing my ass off. I really can only thank you in the name of soo many people for providing so much content that brings us joy and also a feeling of being understood. Your viewers like you very much. I am impressed with the detail of your work and personally I just like you as the person you are (like many of your viewers do). This video rn had so much value for me. I am at a place in my life right now, where I dont care too much about entertainment anymore. When I perceive art my deepest wish is to connect through it with the being of the creator. My rambling about this topic: These days its very difficult for artist to walk the thin line of living your inspiration by expressing yourself (creating art) and presenting it then in a way that is appealing to the audience (entertaining). With that I can only say the audience will constantly change and sometimes you will do the greatest thing and it goes unnoticed cause nobody could grasp it yet. Was it then a waste of effort? Well if your work of art has no other value for you - its only about gaining attention. Then it might be still of value for others, but for you personally it is not. You lost your connection to being an artist and made yourself an entertainer, therefore the value of your work solely depends on the reaction of your audience. If the only joy and excitement of your creation is what you may receive in return, then you havent found the right thing to create yet. If you are enjoying the process of creation until you present it to the audience - then you are giving your audience way too much power. In the moment of presenting the value of the work shifts cause you are giving it into the hands of the viewers as if it was never for yourself to begin with. In that case you REALLY gotta embrace more the genius that you naturally are. Your ego is not a bad thing. It is the king of your kingdom - the path to a life that is as much to your liking as possible, filled with fun, joy and peace - since that is what you deserve. In astrology the ego is literally the sun. It shines brightly and is the source of your energy and the enjoyment you have by just being yourself. It literally doesnt care about your success. It thinks it is the coolest regardless. And it wants you to recognize it so you can thrive and have a good time together. - rambling end cause I cant think anymore Ok so if your still reading this, FJ, thank you so much for your honesty. I am very excited for what will come next in your journey here. Maybe it might not even be mbti related…?? I will keep sticking around, cause you are just very talented and I think many topics would benefit from you making videos about them. Also like I already said - I just like you personally. I feel spiritually connected to you and you remind me of my dad lol also I wish the best for your family!! You are a very great and cool human being with abundance of ideas, creativity and talent. I lowkey wish you were a teacher at my school, cause you would be a blessing to the kids there. I know you probably received many messages like this and if you hear something over and over again, it kinda loses its meaning and also you are getting used to it and it always needs to be greater and more meaningful to feed into the feeling of everything going up up up. (Which I dont wanna assume is the case with you. But its something I experienced on my journey) BUT I genuinely mean this from the bottom of my heart as a person who just spend an hour writing this, cause she couldnt believe that you are not partying everyday in honor of the incredible human being that you are. And I know you are not perfect, omg who is? But you are just the way you need to be to make this world a little bit better. So huge credits to you! For now I just wish you to find something so exciting and fascinating that this itself will make every effort worth it. And maybe it wont even be effort. Maybe it will be more effort to not do it, cause it just belongs to you. I am sure there is plenty of that within yourself. So just let yourself be and enjoy everything you build for yourself already :) And no matter what you choose to experiment with and create in the future, your audience will always find its way to you
ENFP here: I just recently discovered your channel after my INFP friend introduced me to the 16 personalities. I usually recommend your videos to people who are learning about the 16 personalities because of the way your content is just so easy to follow. I am shocked you're an N type not S. Anyways... I saw some advices scrolling down here. And i just want to say that not a lot of people can break down difficult content and make it easy. And that if you explored any other psychology concept.. I would still watch your content and am sure many other viewers would watch too.
ur videos made me smile n learn how to accept myself as an intj. it has been tough being misunderstood and getting treated like someone who needs help or attention. I hate being me but ur videos helped me to laugh at myself and am learning to hate myself less. Thank you ❤
This doesn't surprise me at all being an INFJ myself. Totally understand. But need to say this Frank.... This too.....shall pass. Give yourself all the time you need and you'll be right back with something new!. Frankly, I'm looking for an acting opportunity to come you way. That wouldn't surprise me either. 😊
I never watch more than a five minute video, ten minutes max. I watched this in its entirety, no problem whatsoever. You are an incredibly compelling person. Comedy, the more serious stuff - it hits. Honestly, your videos have consistently connected with me for 5+ years. And still, I would much rather you take a step back to live the life you want to live than the alternative. I hope you've gotten to a better place. If nothing else, I hope you've gotten a chance to catch your breath. Best of happiness to you, my dude. You don't have to believe me - because life be like that- but you deserve happiness, personal satisfaction, the whole kit and caboodle. Truly.
Man, you should try creating short films. You're an awesome actor, I sometimes spend hours watching you. Can't wait to see you as director and screenplayer as well. Oh and I remember an ISFP singing such a cool song in one of your videos, you definitely should try songwriting
Thanks for sharing this Frank. Being outcome focused comes with many burn outs, we as ni users need to balance it. Self reflection helps a lot to let out hidden fears. Once you face it, its easier to deal with 😊
FJ, you look GREAT in the fuscia pink you have on....OWN it, baby! And I've had 2 INFJ best friends who were incredible people, full of ideas and talent and projects, one after another, because you all have so much going on up there. I wonder if, now that you're married with a baby, this is a plateau that you have to endure until you stumble on the way of moving past it. You know, as musicians, when we are developing our technique and we hit those plateaus, and what did our teachers always tell us? It means we're moving up, so it's coming!
I feeled the same so many times and continue to feel it. I'm glad that I found your video now, when I need it, thank you. I always expirience that thing watching your videos like you talk about my thoughts, but formulate it in more understandable form. And that's why I like watch them. Please continue, you're amazing❤🔥
See, even this video where you feel creatively blocked is - creative and it just keeps flowing! I appreciate how open you are about creativity and I find your videos on this topic really authentic and helpful. Also I think you are miracolously courageos for doing this work, letting so many people see your videos. Nobody wants to look dumb or worse yet - dilusional. I have never seen any dumb video from you Frank. So I hope you already feel better. We find you very funny and interesting!❤
Self analysis is definitely higher in your video here, that's such a lot to contend with! A fair few people on UA-cam are calling this situation different things, people change platforms a lot. Technology is advancing faster and algorithms change fast, dont forget you are human. So the rapid increase in views at the beginning was unexpected and then becomes addictive....yes face the fears and like any addiction face that too. Accept that change is natural or beyond control often and try to let go and rebalance the reasons of why you choose any job and what it means to you, your role can change through life at the drop of a hat. Don't fear change at all 🤞👌 nobody knows what's really around the corner we just guess... hopefully the guess is good. Rollercoaster 🎉
Well, i have come to conclude that perfectionism and creative thinking might be similar if not the same thing. It's never enough. Since the mind can picture more, better. Creations of a creative person will always be second best to their abstractions. For me, i just wanted to have an online representation of me in my creations regardless of how they are but my inner critic couldn't allow me do anything. Whenever i think of doing it, i think about it the whole day and not do it. But hearing you, the great Frank talking about this. Well, i think its a constant feeling then or something
I'm still finding "new" old videos from your primary channel; some from five years and four years ago that are relevant to me at the present moment. Maybe one of the criterion to consider can be: "Will some INFP consider this a 'timeless' topic of realization?" I feel that many of the early videos have high rewatch value. The deeper "real" videos are allowing for a different voice; a different affirmation of humans going through integrity struggles. Mind you, I do enjoy laughing... INFP🥧 INFP Yes, INFJ. Allow yourself the new flow. Energy is going in new directions these passed years. Release and honor what came before. Embrace the new pace. (Yeah, this is as generic as I can make it!) So, Be strong and courageous ✒️INFP
This got me worried and I wrote a long email on kofi about what could be causing to get so tied up with view counts and equating that with success.I hope it wasn't over stepping, the bit in here about parasocial relationships has made me question why I felt the need to do that 😂 If you're reading these comments from all your fans whom you have made such a profound impact on, id say thats pretty successful in itself. Changes, shifts in creativity and moving in different directions always causes temporary turbulence. Its hard and very real when its your living, it creates a sense of urgency. It will be ok.
Thank you for this video, Frank. I know it's your bread and butter, but sometimes I wonder if you are tired of, or feel limited by, doing MBTI/16 personality videos. I was thinking it again while watching this. Someone posted earlier that investing in the shed is a good idea, and I agree. And, it would be just that: an investment and money well spent. You know yourself that it's beneficial to separate your private space from your work space. Having it off-site in your backyard can help in so many ways.
I respect your vulnerability. As an artist, I can empathize. I have been there myself. I hope you're able to find your way forward. Until then, I'll still be there, watching whatever you do decide to make.
Expectations. They tourment us so much (especially Ni users?). My INFJ sister says letting go of them is always mind-blowing for her, so freeing, even if it's difficult. Anyway, you deserve to be proud of everything you've done, FJ. You're great at analyzing yourself so you'll find peace sooner rather than later. And for what it's worth, I loved the buried alive 16 personalities video! It was hilarious, well written, original and perfectly edited! Sometimes, it's just the UA-cam game and has nothing to do with you. Sometimes, success depends on criteria completely outside of your power, too. Why so harsh on yourself? If you're interested in a new theory that helps people understand themselves🧡 I'd recommend the book by Lise Bourbeau "Heal Your Wounds and Find Your True Self". Maybe afterwards you can make "People with the 5 psychological wounds buried alive" videos 😄I'd watch that! Hehehe! C'mon, 100.000 views is INCREDIBLE!!!
I miss the book club! Be one sided and pick something that seems totally self indulgent and fun just to you, use us for unpacking your impressions... reading something you enjoy fully will help your ideas flow. You just gotta spoil yourself more more more
This video is so relatable and helpful, and the fact that you are acknowledging all these factors out loud is itself pretty impressive to me. I am certain that this has already solved half of the creative block problem of yours. Related to writing not able to cope with fast running ideas in mind. I also face this, so I generally record audio notes to deal with that. Being harsh on oneself is also relatable. 🙂 Nowadays I try to divert my mind by saying - whatever 😏😁 I made a video based on drinking game- never have I ever. And I kind of used game basics wrong and people noticed it.. but yeah Whatever 😏 People will understand my feelings 🙂
Thanks for sharing what's going on with us. I think sometimes we need to take time to integrate when there are a lot of new things in one's life. You've had a lot of changes. Take all the time you need. Thanks for all the help you've given me. You honestly helped me get through the pandemic and I'll always be grateful
It’s you that people are drawn to. If you’re not having fun and are feeling desperate to entertain, people are going to see and feel it. They want to see you enjoying yourself ♥️ you’re still cool and attractive, lol. Let that shine, no matter what the content may become.
OK Frank, I'm literally just responding to the title ATM but promise to watch fully and amend later as appropriate.... firstly, are you putting too much pressure on yourself to produce for others.. ? From watching a lot of your content recently, your Fe preference may be at play here? 2) taking time out to just 'be' helps me.. nature time, intimate family unit time, self-care time 3) what else is going on that's stressing you out? Stress is a major block of creativity 4) try out a little #neurographic art to address all of the above .... love n light from your friendly neighbourhood ENFP💜 (and yes, Spiderman was my favourite superhero as a younger version of myself!😂)
I've been watching your videos for a few years now, so I feel confident saying this: Whatever you create next "bombed" or not there are still going to be many people who loved that video, even if that video itself didn't met your "threshold". Also, take the well-deserved time you need to get back into the flow of things, no rush. Looking at these comments it shows you great community that supports you and whatever decision that you make. Stay blessed FJ
Creating content is hard - especially for years on end. Even the most creative people aren't designed to endlessly churn out content. The UA-cam system asks of you to endlessly supply something that is meant to be supplied naturally. When money and livelihood is on the line, you have to play the game a little bit and that sucks. Just want to say you are doing great Frank. Your ideas here show that you have thought a lot about this and you recognize that creativity transcends the metrics. Remember that your skillset, knowledge, humor, charm, and everything else brought you to where you are today and the creator you are today is 10x the creator you were 5 years ago. The system and the views may ebb and flow, but if you remain authentic and true to what you think you will do just fine in the long run.
Thank you, for being Frank.
We love you, FJ ♥️ Thank you for everything you’ve done for this community 💐 Just remember FJ, you have an amazing wife and adorable son 🥹 Family & Friends..and us- your fans. You’re a talented and capable person. If you need to take a break, take it. We’ll be right here waiting for you 😌
I’ve only just seen this FJ. Take all the time you need to refresh your creativity. No need to rush. Take care of yourself hun. ❤
Much love to you, my dear friend. So much has happened for you and to you in the past 5 or so years. It’s a lot to process and keep up with! Your job involves putting yourself and your creative ideas out there in the world, every single week. It’s vulnerable and draining. I’m always amazed that you keep doing the darn thing, week after week and year after year. I respect your work ethic so much.
I also relate because I’m creatively blocked, too. I feel like life has been insane for everyone these past few years. But I have seven lines done for my next script for you!! Help is on the way - I’m almost halfway there!! 😅💀
hahaha thanks, Holly 👼🏼
Ditto to all the comments.
Vulnerable FJ is ok :)
Most of us would watch a 35 minute video of you talking about lint.
We are on your side.
Not only OK, to speak clear: I am deeply thankful for this one. You cant Imagine how much I seemed this vulnerability especially from infj/p coz ITS rare and Not easy. 😭🙏🏻💚
FJ's vulnerability has always been a big part of his appeal.
Agreed, it’s the reason why so many people are leaving encouraging messages!
I also think it’s how a lot of us enjoy his work more than other comedy channels on the platform.
Obviously he’s talented, but if you look at his career on UA-cam from his first video in front of his webcam in his room, it’s like “this guy have depth and a great mind as well”
Thank you for your honesty, Frank ❤ Also, as a writer, I tend to struggle with many of the same thoughts as you do, so I have written down the points you have for your work, and I will try to follow them for my work as well to ensure that I won't focus too much on how well a story does, but on the creative process and the joy of making it. You are very talented, never doubt that ❤ I hope your videos will start doing better again, but might just be because of Covid no longer keeping people at home.
I know I’m just one person, but every time I see you’ve made a new video it brightens my day. And I watch each of your videos without ever really thinking about whether it’s my favorite or one of your best, but just enjoying whatever the joke is this time and always having a laugh or two because of your efforts. Thank you Frank🙏💙
Don't forget the masterpieces you have created/are creating relating to MBTI. Such a massive and magnificent body of work, writing and playing 16 personalities flawlessly. How are you not burned out? ❤
Okay Frank, you put A LOT of efforts into your videos and you are extremely underrated tbh.
It's super discouraging when your work isn't received that well and it's easy to say to keep going, but honestly your videos really mean so much to many of your viewers, especially ones like these. You've helped MANY people in many ways.
So maybe take a break ?? Let your mind have its own epiphany and figure out things.
Your loved ones and your viewers will always have your back :)
Hey Frank! 👋 these are just temporary obstacles. Don't worry too much man , just take a break , trust me we all understand you, especially the infjs here including me. You'll come back more energetic and creative than ever before ! And thanks for being honest and real. Thanks for being you! 🙂
So much of what you said I go through all the time. Now, I'm definitely not even really on the map as a creator, but just hearing this from someone who I admire greatly and who is a big creator means so much. Thank you for being so vulnerable and letting us know what's going on. I'm sure we all have empathy and patience to let you work it out, Frank.
The part about not feeling like you're any good? I often wonder, is it because INFJs need that feedback, so we think this when we don’t get what we hoped for? Maybe it hits us harder? I don’t know. Anyway, I appreciate all the points you listed and will be rewatching this, I'm sure. Take care. 🤗💜
Shared vulnerability is such a rare Gift and present, coz ITS even Harder to Share. The "litten funny" Side of Life seems more braced by more people. So many seem to Go for funny Entertainment, but the real and raw Entertainment of Honesty paired with Compassion and Kindness is even more brilliant and Takes more of Courage in those Times, where IT seems Humans try to BE looking "perfect" instead of real. I prefer Shadow and Light, coz that is real, but ITS Not easy to admit, coz maybe especially idealists maybe Wish for a light and funny World only. But Being Not judgemental letting Things and Feelings and thoughts unfold and that shall we observe without any judgement, but Just let those BE, seems No easy Kind of practice. ITS asking "How do you feel? What is there?"
Maybe infj need more Feedback and Interactions with Others, because they can Not so clearly See/feel their FI but seem much Into FE. So what they can do is: Being Brave and reveal what they observe within, Share with external World and hoping for Connection than. "I feel this and that way, how are you Guys currently Feeling?" I am especially deeply thankful If IT comes to "DARK" Matters. Y? Coz I wished to See Males crying, in fear, in sadness, in insecurity, in Hurt. ITS neither good or Bad. I consider those more "soft" qualities as feminine. And I felt freaking lonley, coz Most acted: Happy, funny, perfect, rigid, No Feelings, No insecurities, No sadness, simply they felt Like Maschines of Perfectionism, which left me sad. I hoped to find more honest softness within more Males and females and slowly the veils of silence and hidings are Lifting. Thats why I Always enjoyed FJs Podcasts or Early Videos and those of Clay as Well, coz ITS so Brave soft human gentle and calming. Deeply thankful for such Powerful Honesty even in Comments Like yours. Thanks much for your Honest outspoken vulnerability. 🙏🏻🫂
Frank James, you are so talented, creative, intelligent, and innovative. You have so much within you and you’re in a place now where its time to grow and break past the ceiling of impossibility. I think you feel discontented because you feel the call for something more. Its time to evolve, its time to experience more peace and joy and fulfillment. YOU are a hit and what you produce reflects that, EVEN if others don’t see it. Success and your value and the value of your videos surpasses well beyond “number of views”. I can’t tell you how many times your videos brought me out of the void of depression and gave me strength to fight another day. There have been many times in the difficulties of life that I needed a laugh, and I knew I could count on you to make videos that make me feel good again. You are more than just a comedian and a UA-camr, and you and what you produce are more important than you know. Im glad that you’ve had a creative block bc it’s making you pause and be still and see the blessings that you have in your life. The 60-80k views that you get on the lower end of views for your videos are the views of human beings who have spent their time and attention on you. Think about that. You have tens of thousands of loyal fans who watch your videos without fail every week and appreciate and even love the work that you do. Frank James, don’t let what the world calls success make you forget the preciousness of having a “small” amount (60k +) of human beings follow you and the impact you have on every one of them. You have a gift and its natural for you to create amazing things, but I think once you get out of your head and into your heart, then you will exponentially flourish and reach new heights that you never thought possible (and its not a success and height that will always be dictated by #’s and money). Frank, dig deep into your heart and soul and think about the world and how much it needs light, wisdom, truth, joy, ingenuity, and realness. You are a rare gem that offers these things.
I am rooting for you and I am confident you will have breakthrough. I love all your videos and watch them all the time. I enjoy the content you put on both your channels, both old and new.
You got this, man!!! I believe in you and I will continue to be one of loyal fans who highly esteems you and sees the value you bring to the world.
This video reminds me of your first videos back in the day, when you used YT to chanel your thoughts and emotions as a coping mechanism for your mental health issues. Nice to keep up with the real Frank, and it feels like catching up with an old friend over a cup of coffee, dealing with similar challenges in life.
I just recently found your channel and I immediately knew I found a gem. Thank you Frank James. I appreciate you sharing this. Wish you the best on everything. 🧡🍂🍁🍎💐
It sounds to me like the solution to your creative dilemma is in the first few minutes of your video: the shed studio. You need the shed studio. Looking inward to change your thoughts and approach is great, but changing your environment is often necessary to facilitate breakthrough. The shed studio is an investment in yourself and your art. Take out a loan if need-be. Take the leap of faith. Then… make 16 personalities creating their mancave lol
I have to leave my environment to do my school work at least some of the time. Especially for creativity. I appreciate your content very much. Don't be too hard on yourself. Positive vibes coming your way. As an educator I know from experience productivity is much harder with negative feelings.
"Done is better than good.
Done is better than passable."
-Frank James 2018
It happens to everyone! Me, as an ENTJ, when I get "down" mentally, I focus on trying to make small tasks that require little to no energy, and let my mind do the rest. There was an artist that felt that mental blockage of creativity, so he simply drew a balloon, and then started from there, he kept on adding more and more small elements, and eventually, he made a whole story. Hopefully you don't get overwhelmed by the thought of trying to do something big, just focus on getting enough rest and at some point, creativity will come back to you, little by little. ❤
We love and support you, always!
🤗 FJ, you are LITERALLY one of the most talented and creative people I have been blessed to enjoy! So educational AND satisfyingly hilarious!
Sounds like you just need to close the laptop and lay down the pen. Let your brain rest, enjoy your family. And before you know it, sooner then you think, you will be back in the creative river.
Also, if you listen back, you will notice how much you make a critique on if something feels like a waste of time. What I have learned is sometimes you need to embrace the very concept of wasting time. Like actually. Blessing wasting time. Give it a whirl sometime. Something magical comes out of it and it takes a certain pressure off. -ESFJ here 🤗🤗🤗
Look at the seasons Frank. Winter comes for a reason
This is so spot on. I'm facing same problems. Imposter syndrome effects every single one of us. We INFJs have this problem if we got even one mistake in our content we feel bad about ourselves. We're perfectionists. What's more, I also want to be the source of all my ideas, that's the standard of genuineness I cherish. Authenticity is paramount for us INFJs
As an INFJ, I love the vulnerability of this video. It's something we have a hard time giving to the public, so that is a score within itself. It is also not rare that we run into creative blocks due to the insatiable amount of energy and information we have to process daily. Nonetheless, we mature well, and develop tools to get through these times, which you are using in this video. I have no doubt that you will recover. I understand that there could be a monetary issue, but the videos are fantastic and I have learned so much. I began watching the newer videos, but I am looking forward to going back in time to see your creative and talented transformation. No matter what you do, I will continue watching. Namaste...
Something I remembered you talking about in an older video that resonated with me, being fellow playwright, you said when you were in grad school, you were the one that people came to for advice and wrote amazing things and you were at the top. But then after that it sounded like you went through a period of not feeling inspired. And then you started your UA-cam channel and you reached literally millions of people. Maybe the ebbs and flows are feeling too extreme?
Remember, this literally has nothing to do with your talents, YOU are talented and have a gift. You’re also in a very different place right now. Maybe the interest in MBTI is fading? There’s a myriad of things.
My favorite vids are the “if things/concepts were people” for sure.
When I look at Dear Kristin’s videos there are definitely times where I thought I would love to see your perspective on it. Like if you did your own version I think that would be pretty cool.
We also just like you Frank, in a parasocial way of course, but YOU are what makes this work special.
I accidentally deleted this, so take 2 :)
I give you props for making as many videos as you have. Meyer Briggs is an extremely narrow, niche topic and I would have been tapped out creatively and super bored years ago. This is the problem with UA-cam/social media over other media, it traps you in one specific niche and if you try other things, the algorithm drops you and your reach drops, and so you get stuck in that niche. So many creators seem to complain about this, and then instead of trying new things, exploring new topics and staying fresh, they just post less and less, and live off Patreons who forget they are subscribed.
Longtime viewer and fan here Frank - I'm an ENTP so I feel compelled to do the NeTi thing and brainstorm / provide solutions. Just random ideas off the cuff but I hope something below will be helpful.
- Your audience loves you Frank. Fo REAL dude!!! One of the few UA-camrs who I don't think I've ever seen a hate comment under. I understand you are an INFJ who values your privacy but I wonder if there are ways you could tap more into direct audience relationship, whether it's a podcast, lives, etc.
- Personality is niche but psychology is vast. Are there other areas of psychology you'd be interested in tapping into? Maybe broaden the scope a bit while still staying within a topic your audience will likely be interested in. You could cover emerging issues in the field, tried and true concepts like Internal Family Systems, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy... The psychology of big figures in the media/pop culture etc (to keep it entertaining)... Could do skits about those things or keep it more educational.
- How comfortable are you with things like interviews? Going back to the podcast idea. It can be daunting to talk solo for that long but there are plenty of psychology creators in the space who I'm sure would love to either come on your show or even perhaps partner with you on a pod.
You're a great soul FJ! You can figure this out. I wish you the best on your creative journey.
Edit to add - you don't have to make shorts but can you/ someone on your team make shorts of longer content videos?
Edit 2 - I just saw you mention you don't want other people to give you ideas. WELP! Off I go then. 😅
Frank, you (and your brain) need and deserve a break. Your talent has been proved for all of us so much...
If I can give you an example, in Spain we have a sucess comicians "Pantomima full". They've been without unploading here for 2 months... Recently they came back and it has been a massive success. You have even a more loyal audience, you can have a rest.
I know you're in other things, but it's a shame for us you quitted your "school" for starting youtubers. You would be so great mentor.
Take care 💫🖐
I wish i could be as open minded as you as an INFJ. Thank you Frank for calming my nerves.
Just go easy on yourself. You don't need to be always creative, just relax. Maybe you need just time for yourself. Being creative sometimes means we get ourselves too involved in it, and we lose other aspects of our life.
Hey FJ, thank you for your candor. Please accept my humble observations/opinions/feedback (also apologies for the lateness of the response to this video). First, you are NOT a failure. FJ, you have come so far, be proud of this fact.
Understand that your life dynamic has been wonderfully changed and this will affect your creativity.
Also, know that you have saturated the space with your fantastic works and now face a transition…
Now you are transitioning to creating content that will contribute to your cross-generational legacy of works. These works are for future generations and their successes may not be witnessed now.
Take a break, pause, live life, have fun and know that no matter what, the “views” will always be there.
Franklin Jamerson, Frank James, Herder of Frisky Ponies…FJ…whatever, wherever, however you apply your many talents and creativity…you will be successful…trust this…& know that all will be well.
Stay cool & attractive.
I think you're incredibly talented, and have a lot to offer. Thank you for everything. Just never give up. You are amazing.
I watch your other channel because umm.. YOU are hilarious! You know I love your videos because I am an INTJ and took the time to pay you a compliment. 😝So…this vid came up in my feed today. So I watched it. Look out, here comes some unsolicited advice. Lol. Don’t beat yourself up. You have a real creative talent and sometimes artists need to take a short break from what they love doing and come back to it later with fresh eyes after they have taken a time out for themselves. Question.. have you ever taken a break? Take a vacation bud you deserve it. And another thing, while you’re away - poll your audience. why you doing all the work bro? It’s their job to tell you want they want. All you have to do is ask them. You’ll get endless ideas from your viewers that you can pick and choose from and put your own spin on. so what if someone else thought of the idea first. it’s your take and flavour that makes people watch your unique style of content. All that being said please make more INTJ videos. You should make exclusively INTJ content going forward lol 😜 Jk, It’s great when you stereotype this shit out of us because it’s true! Btw, love your normal vs mbti video series they crack me tf up ❤ take care
"I am an INTJ and took the time to pay you a compliment." haha! spot on! 😆
You are one of the few people who can talk about anything and I'm engaged immediately. This is really a talent. Your use of language is quite beautiful too. It's good to see one of your old self-deprecatory philosophical rambles 😂
These rambles are why I subscribed years ago 😅
You know the people who watch this channel, where you are just being your vulnerable true self, will watch whatever you make. Have you considered broadening your niche to more like psychology in general? A lot of your viewers are into all things psychology. We love your 16 personalities comedy videos and your educational videos. Keep going. You’ve set some great guidelines for future videos. I’d rather watch unedited authentic FJ on here and want to say thanks for trusting us with your innermost thoughts. That wasn’t easy for an INFJ to do. It’s the hardest to fix your own problems and you did some deep soul searching and shared it with others not only to share where you are, but to encourage others as well. If you are proud of what you make it will do well. We are here to support you and I don’t think anyone thought you sounded egotistical.
I couldn't agree more. People crave this authentic connection and here you can feel it. Besides all he says really has some meat on it. (Or whatever the expression is 😄)
just found you recently, and have enjoyed your channel so much! Love when your face pops up with a new video - Makes my day. You really are a very talented writer, comedian, actor, producer - all that. There are times an artist can use a soft break to clear the gray matter. Take it, we will wait for you; you're worth it to us ⭐ (side note: eat a burger or two)
As I watch this 2 weeks after it was posted I see this hasn't gotten many views. It has to be hard to make this level of content for a long time. It must also be hard to make a living with your passion. I have a family with 4 kids, you have to pay the bills somehow.
I actually didn't get into your 16 personalities until much later. My whole family has loved your "if things were people" sketches. I hope you can find a way to keep producing your amazing sketches. I can't imagine how hard it is to be in the limelight and deal with public opinion, I have a hard enough time dealing with the criticism of a few let alone 1,000s of people. This is a bit of a ramble, but know that we appreciate your work. There is a family of 6 in Hawaii that loves your work and appreciates your efforts. It sounds like you may be holding onto too many chords at the same time. Consider you can't be perfect at all things at all times. Praying you can find your balance. ❤
I watch you're stuff because you're a very talented comedian and are funny AF! Regardless of the "16 personalities" or not I'd watch it either way. To me your strength is your ability to be funny, your comedy. That's what draws me to your channel rather than me actually trying to learn about personality types.
Sometimes you just need to take a break to recharge man. I know it's a drag when you wanna keep cranking out videos but it applies to almost everything in life.
You are talented! You are good enough, you are smart enough, and gosh darn it, people like you!
Don’t focus on views. Also, remember that sometimes there is more than one person behind a single view (my son and I often watch your videos together). Your 16 personalities in various situations and if X were people videos are fantastically creative.
I believe that trying to make “a hit” will only stifle your creativity. I am equally impressed with how often you post completely original content. If you’re stuck for ideas, go out in public places and to events and observe people around you. By “living” you can then hold up the mirror to life.
Also, every artist needs inspiration. Here are some ideas that come from you:
- collaborating on your main channel?
- Shakespeare inspired videos? You always have Shakespeare references!
- Mini-series with reccuring characters?
- Satire on your life?
You already do these :)
Hi Frank. So I watched this video and I have some thoughts to share with you.
Much like any other creative project and the creator behind it, it's good to remember the following (the examples I included are just that, examples):
1) Say you write a script, an assignment, a book, a poem, anything. What sends your mind spinning (mouse+wheel) is the awful tautology of people-pleasing creation or ANY other reason that is NOT directly related to fruitful, juicy, real creation. What's more, it will have you a prisoner of mental looping. Forget about the views/word count, whatever it is. Just DO the thing; for example some of the best fun, life changing pictures/conversations/food etc. I've experienced have all been impromptu.
2) Unique creation usually implies risk, it's what any entrepreneur will tell you (things you already know). Take the risk and go on a creative exploration. Sure, you can have an idea of a theme (be it abstract or concrete), but still proceed with the pure joy of free-reign creation. You have actually answered your own question/meandering (on this video) when you toyed with the idea of creating because YOU LIKED THE IDEA. That's it! There's your flame! There's the bridge! Forget the conditions. We only live once, so you might as well have fun being yourself and simply manifest your visions, without much external interference.
3) Creativity, passion, knowledge, artistry; you've got them in abundance. And the fact alone that this video exists, speaks volumes to your authenticity as a creator, Frank. Physical exhaustion is a very real thing, and it can mess with your cognitive abilities in no time flat. Everything I'm writing now, you are aware of. I'm happy to be your mirror and help you see your creative flame in all its glory. If only you put down the "analysis paralysis" (I'm quoting YOU) and your idea that the UA-cam views are related proportionately to YOUR value or talent, then you'll be well on your way PAST the block.
4) Future video ideas for 16 Personalities:
a. 16 Personalities at an amusement park. What would each personality choose to do?
b. 16 Personalities as funeral directors (or sth else, equally extreme).
c. 16 Personalities as characters in Hollywood movies.
d. 16 Personalities being creatively blocked 😉
e. 16 Personalities as flora & fauna 😄
f. 16 Personalities as fortune tellers.
g. 16 Personalities having a day off & HOW they spend it.
You really, really have got this, Frank. Here's a 🧡 to keep you going 😊👋👋
My favorite was the grocery store skit. How about a gift exchange between types? The ISTP needs a new shirt; maybe green plaid?
We go through this a lot, or writers block❤ massive hugs, it'll be ok!😎🤘👌
I think that because of that amazing video of 16 personalities Buried Alive You have set the bar pretty high and would like to do the next one to be better than the last one. Sometimes, you just need to relax and find some inspiration without forcing it.
Reading a book, listening music, going for a walk to a place you love enjoying by yourself, or like some people were saying, changing scenery (you don’t necessarily have to move).
I work as a UA-cam Manager for a UA-cam channel (no shit Sherlock) and I know it can be draining to find the right ideas or topics to do sometimes, but eventually you’ll find them. And if time is what you need, then take it.
You will be alright. We’ll be here
I already know the pain of wanting to make hits and I'm just a tiktok user with 2500 followers 😭 whatever you post, your own unique personality and love for MBTI shines through and brightens my day as a fellow INF type. I have been binge watching your videos lately and they bring me a lot of happiness :) it just feels good to see someone with a similar personality to myself get to have a meaningful creative job
I actually really love your channel and always look forward to seeing what’s next. I only discovered your channel a couple months ago, purely by chance and it’s now it’s quickly become one of my favourites. Your comedy sketches just seem to get better and better, and you really are absolutely at the top of your game. Please don’t be afraid to back yourself and your work. Your work is really, really good and you’re a talented story teller (I think most INFJ’s are!) In terms of the view count, I often wont see your videos for about 12 hours or more after posting due to the time difference being on the other end of the planet and just life getting in the way. It’s easier said than done, but please try not to worry so much about the view count especially so quickly after posting. I think the more you worry about it, the more it’ll add to the creative block. Maybe ease up on the pressure on yourself to find something new to create and go relax and spend some time with your family or set your mind on something else if you can. Everyone needs a break from their job to recharge now and then. Your mind will start feeling more innovative and creative if you can try to let go of worrying about what everyone thinks and what is coming up next. Rest assured, we’ll all still be here when you come back if you need a break. Thanks FJ for keeping us laughing every day 💛😁
Your the one that showed me what I am INFJ. Thanks for that it was an eye opening experiance.
As someone who only uses creative endeavors as a relief valve from everyday life, I know I’m well down the path to burnout when the creativity dries up.
You’ve given a blueprint here that provides a way back from everything on the spectrum of being so depressed you’re hospitalized (which I’ve experienced) to just having a bad day- find something positive to see, do or accomplish each day that isn’t tied to financial gain but is for enjoyment sake alone. I really appreciate that you put it that advice in video form.
I liked the superhero support video btw. I actually thought to myself that it was a blend of an old school FJ woven into a comedy sketch. I was a bit surprised by that which made it even more entertaining.
Well stated and hear hear! That first part is exactly what I was thinking while watching. It’s comforting not only to empathize while I go through similarly-timed burnout, but also to have something of a map with which to guide myself out of it. Thank you much for this, Frank!
Frank, I appreciate your vulnerability when you show it over the years. I know the desire to dwell on the metrics is strong emotionally and that also drives your income. I resonate with your feelings in my own profession. There are so many others just like me that have grown so much through much needed existential crises inspired by your videos. You’ve made such an immense impact. Thank you for everything you publish. Thank you for entertaining, educating, inspiring, and sharing. -INFJ & big fan on multiple platforms
Frank, three questions: 1) Have you done any auditions for movies/tv-shows? You really should! 2) Have you considered writing a book? I really enjoy your Word of the week. 3) What about stand-up? EXTRA TIP: Take a break - two weeks without thinking about UA-cam videos. Find out what brings you joy and relax. It`s really important. XOXO :)
You have put out so much content in the last couple of years. It is ok to take break and recharge.
«Don’t do it» Would be my advice. «Give up». Be open for «it» to come back to you as sudden as the block appeared. Just have the set up ready to go for when things loosen up. Then when it comes treat it like a starving cat that is scared of you, but you are trying to feed it. Approach it with caution and build trust over time.
Accept that creativity comes in waves. So you might as well do something else when the water is still. Doing something else «out there» in the world will serve the creative spark as well. Now you are in a good cycle.
I could tell that video you made with 16 personalities buried alive was the most you had out into a video! Well done! My boyfriend and I enjoyed it haha we are both INFJ and INTJ. Also I think it's he funny to see the 16 personalities deal with a door to door sales person or something haha. Just an idea! You're not alone. I felt very validated watching this video. I am also INFJ and it was funny to see someone struggle the way I do in my own head haha. You're great! Love your videos
You don't lack creativity or talent. You just need a break to recharge your creativity battery. You've been producing three creatively made videos every week for three years now, and that's a lot of work and effort for one man.
Making the 16 personalities sketches as a series is really a smart move. It encourages binge watching. The same thing goes for "if things were people" series. You are smart and talented, Frank. I love your work and your sense of humour and how you approach things. You have a unique perspective, whether it's in your comedy sketches or your educational ones. And I really hope to see a short film made by you one day.
I think you should branch out in your niche, you can add another topics that are intrested to you and related to the personality, self discovery and psychology, if you like to, even philosophical topics, you can make some funny skeches around that, too. I think you lean towards making comedy more. Whatever you do, you have to like it really and be pleased with it so you can keep doing it. I know youtube can cause frustration with it rules and algorithms and all that, but you played its game very well so far, so keep playing it player.
And give shorts a chance, I know you dont like them that much, but youtube do, and people do, so use it for your advantage to attract new viewers to your channel. You can use them for jokes, especially relatable jokes, or you can make them for a short dose of inspiration. That's just a suggestion. It's up to you.
And consider having a team to help you out. It's your business, and you need a team. I know you get some help from your friends, but I think having a team that works for you and with you to creat skeches and brain storming ideas well help you keep going and make things easier for you. You know that all the great shows have many writers, not only one. So consider it.
Thank you for being one of the people who make this crazy world a better place. Thank you for entertaining us and educating us about the 16 personalities. especially during quarantine time.
Thank you for all the funny characters that you made. Timmy, Hank, Chuck, galaxathor, and many more, keep making them you're good at this.Thank you for the beautiful community you made. And thank you for your courage and for sharing your vulnerability and your innermost with us. Thank you for being humble.
Enjoy the holiday season with your wife and your baby and your loved ones, and take a rest. Don't worry, you got this. Wish you all the best.
Frank: @12:34 "I have to get to a place [...] where I'm doing it for myself, for the art, for the creative expression and fulfillment." Full stop. That is the only metric to focus on
Frank. Your authenticity is always present. It’s no surprise, there would be times when you work required must be compared to the “value” you seek. You’ve been working so hard and creating incredible “plays” for years. Thank you. You made it look so effortless. I’ve been appreciating your “talent “ since the beginning. I know you will push through this. One very long term fan here. Best to you. You are sharing something most would hide. Be proud. You’ve given so much to so many. I hope you find your balance. Cheers, Frank.
What is your favourite thing to produce, what are you most passionate about? If you lose your passion for the job it gets tougher. When you first start out its like a hobby becomes a job so it's great, but when the job becomes mostly pressure it's stressful, do the things you enjoy but also try things that challenge too. Is it the routine? People don't mind waiting to watch in general, most of that pressure is you perhaps or you vs technology. I can so relate to many of your videos, also the comedy ones are super funny. I saw a quote from someone who studies psychology and they said use "nobody cares" because apparently if you start thinking that nobody cares you kind of let go of the feeling judged....
Release the pressure, face the fears, see the changes and change the goals if necessary?
When in a sticky patch I always think to myself if I went to the moon and looked back to earth at myself and the world what would I think, feel or do?
It's so easy to pick ourselves apart during growth or change.
the difference between your self confidence in this video and your very first video ever is insane
We’ve watched you as a family since 2020 and it’s still a moment of excitement to say, “Did you see that Frank James posted a new one?!” We love you, FJ! Forget the Shins; G.K. Chesterton has the line that saves my fallen hide from discouragement: “if a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly.”
These are my FAVORITE FJ videos! You just being authentic. BTW, you’re the only person I will watch/listen to talk about themselves. Everyone else better teach me something in 30 seconds or I’m out 😂
FJ, you have made so many amazing videos. Please don't be too harsh on yourself. I guess it's time for a bigger change now. But try to enjoy this period. Keep exploring what makes you enjoy the process of creating your videos even more and try new approaches to achieving your goals. You can simplify whatever takes too much time and effort and find out what can be improved/changed while enjoying it. Of course, don't be too radical right away and give yourself enough time to figure it all out. 💜
Hey, as an INFJ, some of my favourite videos are the ones that don't get the most views. Then I'm like, why?! Then I remember, INFJs are often loners and find company in others like them
Omg "if I can't do this without edits" is me writing essays, then I still do the edits
I like the criteria. It's easy to get caught up in negative self talk and crazy standards that don't let you be inspired. Good to have objective things that will overcome the insecurity. I've always admired UA-camrs for posting. Fear of failure and fear of success are each side of the same coin. What you said I think makes sense to a lot of creatives.
I love your vids. A couple of my favorites are the grocery store and Willy Wonka. I have no idea how you edit so many characters so seamlessly.
Not sure if you're asking for suggestions but I think a few things would be fun:
Wedding speech
Superhero sidekick
Substitute teacher
Being Arrested/Booked
Maury paternity test
At the airport
Getting a new haircut
Picking out a pet
On Zillow
Pet peeves
Handling a jerk coworker
Decorating a cake
Picking a restaurant
As a spy
At paint night
At Prom
At a surprise party
Winning the lottery
Making a UA-cam video 😉
In a fictional world: Harry Potter, Jurassic Park, Godzilla, Scream, etc.
It would be cool to see some behind the scenes, bloopers, guest stars, grwm, and day in the life vids sprinkled in to give you a break.
Have fun!
First of all, thanks for being so open about your creative block. One of the most difficult things as human beings is to accept our failures and then look for possible outcomes, your conclusions were eye opening.
I'm on a similar stuck phase as you, not just creatively but on a personal level too and your approach to figure things out could be useful for many people, including me.
I hope you'll find a voice that's creatively challenging and thought provoking that could have resonance within your audience.
Best regards!
Exhaustion is a creativeness killer. Also let down expectations.
Surround yourself with encouraging people and brainstormers.
What about 16 personalities as fruit? Or 16 personalities in the fellowship of the ring…or make a16 personalities as grandparents? Or utensils.
Or 16 personalities reacting to bad music or drivers?
Hang in there. Have courage!
I think the video editing style adds to the “hit” factor. There were a few that didn’t even have your song at the end. Those ones made me sad. Keep your iconic song 😊
Really appreciate this 😊 I've tried getting my thoughts into a comment and I'm not happy with it 😅 I care about the topic too much to write something I'm not satisfied with! So I'll find my way back here when I have more energy/clarity! But it's important to me to put something here, I appreciate these chat type videos, they really do help 😊
Frank mate, it’s fine to lean on your fans/viewers. Do a video asking us for ideas - I can think of tons I’d love you to do!
Oh Frank, I feel with you. Thank you for your openness.
Creativity and expectations cannot work in the long term. You know that yourself and as an creative myself, I had to learn that too. Which isn't that easy. In my job, among other things, I am responsible for designing stamps for scrapbooking and cardmaking. That's enormous pressure because I have to think about whether it will sell and if they will like it. My job basically depends on these sales. And I love my job. But it's also the case when I write my novels that I think about whether it would be well received by readers and then I get stuck. Most of the time it's not even the expectations of the reader or the buyer, but rather of myself, that I have to keep up with everyone else. Above all, various social media algorithms. This stresses me out immensely.
Now I'm in the middle of Julia Cameron's 12-week program "The Artists Way" (do you know that?) and I'm learning to love the process of creativity again and falling in love with what I do every day. And the morning pages helped me with that. Just like you said. Just write and the stream of consciousness does the rest. That was very eye-opening.
“It’s two o’clock in the afternoon and I feel like I haven’t accomplished anything…” I feel the same way. That annoys me immensely. Then I'm in a bad mood. At the moment it always ends the same way: I crash on UA-cam and watch FJ's videos. ... and manage even less. Vicious circle.
But that's how it is. I need this to shut down my system. To restart.
Frank, I understand the pressure that lies on your shoulders and I wish you that you find a way that makes you happy and inspired again.
I love working with talent. When they burn out, it's a challenge to get them back, but I love that process. When they push through, their work evolves into something greater. Then rinse, repeat. It's never ending 😄
I love you and I think you are amazing! Dont underestimate yourself. You put a lot of work into your videos and you have worked consistently for many years. I am veery thankful for you sharing this and I loved watching this video. I am a writer so I very much could relate. (I am a german writer if you wondered how that would be possible with my type of english skills) You really build such a beautiful place with your work. If I am totally honest I used to watch your videos a lot during 2019/2020. Beginning of 2019 I found out about MBTI and you are very gifted with having such a natural and deep grasp of that whole concept. I never imagined your channel developing the way it did. You really are a master mind that you came this far with it and brought so much happiness to so many people. These days I occasionally stumble upon your channel and then I just watch your sketches for hours while laughing my ass off. I really can only thank you in the name of soo many people for providing so much content that brings us joy and also a feeling of being understood. Your viewers like you very much. I am impressed with the detail of your work and personally I just like you as the person you are (like many of your viewers do). This video rn had so much value for me. I am at a place in my life right now, where I dont care too much about entertainment anymore. When I perceive art my deepest wish is to connect through it with the being of the creator.
My rambling about this topic:
These days its very difficult for artist to walk the thin line of living your inspiration by expressing yourself (creating art) and presenting it then in a way that is appealing to the audience (entertaining). With that I can only say the audience will constantly change and sometimes you will do the greatest thing and it goes unnoticed cause nobody could grasp it yet. Was it then a waste of effort? Well if your work of art has no other value for you - its only about gaining attention. Then it might be still of value for others, but for you personally it is not. You lost your connection to being an artist and made yourself an entertainer, therefore the value of your work solely depends on the reaction of your audience. If the only joy and excitement of your creation is what you may receive in return, then you havent found the right thing to create yet. If you are enjoying the process of creation until you present it to the audience - then you are giving your audience way too much power. In the moment of presenting the value of the work shifts cause you are giving it into the hands of the viewers as if it was never for yourself to begin with. In that case you REALLY gotta embrace more the genius that you naturally are. Your ego is not a bad thing. It is the king of your kingdom - the path to a life that is as much to your liking as possible, filled with fun, joy and peace - since that is what you deserve. In astrology the ego is literally the sun. It shines brightly and is the source of your energy and the enjoyment you have by just being yourself. It literally doesnt care about your success. It thinks it is the coolest regardless. And it wants you to recognize it so you can thrive and have a good time together.
- rambling end cause I cant think anymore
Ok so if your still reading this, FJ, thank you so much for your honesty. I am very excited for what will come next in your journey here. Maybe it might not even be mbti related…?? I will keep sticking around, cause you are just very talented and I think many topics would benefit from you making videos about them. Also like I already said - I just like you personally. I feel spiritually connected to you and you remind me of my dad lol also I wish the best for your family!! You are a very great and cool human being with abundance of ideas, creativity and talent. I lowkey wish you were a teacher at my school, cause you would be a blessing to the kids there.
I know you probably received many messages like this and if you hear something over and over again, it kinda loses its meaning and also you are getting used to it and it always needs to be greater and more meaningful to feed into the feeling of everything going up up up. (Which I dont wanna assume is the case with you. But its something I experienced on my journey) BUT I genuinely mean this from the bottom of my heart as a person who just spend an hour writing this, cause she couldnt believe that you are not partying everyday in honor of the incredible human being that you are. And I know you are not perfect, omg who is? But you are just the way you need to be to make this world a little bit better. So huge credits to you! For now I just wish you to find something so exciting and fascinating that this itself will make every effort worth it. And maybe it wont even be effort. Maybe it will be more effort to not do it, cause it just belongs to you. I am sure there is plenty of that within yourself. So just let yourself be and enjoy everything you build for yourself already :) And no matter what you choose to experiment with and create in the future, your audience will always find its way to you
ENFP here: I just recently discovered your channel after my INFP friend introduced me to the 16 personalities. I usually recommend your videos to people who are learning about the 16 personalities because of the way your content is just so easy to follow. I am shocked you're an N type not S.
Anyways... I saw some advices scrolling down here. And i just want to say that not a lot of people can break down difficult content and make it easy. And that if you explored any other psychology concept.. I would still watch your content and am sure many other viewers would watch too.
This has the feel of a chapter turn and I'm looking forward to seeing what you make. Also I love when you call us frisky ponies.
ur videos made me smile n learn how to accept myself as an intj. it has been tough being misunderstood and getting treated like someone who needs help or attention. I hate being me but ur videos helped me to laugh at myself and am learning to hate myself less. Thank you ❤
This doesn't surprise me at all being an INFJ myself. Totally understand.
But need to say this Frank....
This too.....shall pass.
Give yourself all the time you need and you'll be right back with something new!.
Frankly, I'm looking for an acting opportunity to come you way. That wouldn't surprise me either. 😊
OMG. My scariest subject-creative blocks.
I never watch more than a five minute video, ten minutes max.
I watched this in its entirety, no problem whatsoever.
You are an incredibly compelling person. Comedy, the more serious stuff - it hits. Honestly, your videos have consistently connected with me for 5+ years.
And still, I would much rather you take a step back to live the life you want to live than the alternative.
I hope you've gotten to a better place. If nothing else, I hope you've gotten a chance to catch your breath.
Best of happiness to you, my dude. You don't have to believe me - because life be like that- but you deserve happiness, personal satisfaction, the whole kit and caboodle. Truly.
Man, you should try creating short films. You're an awesome actor, I sometimes spend hours watching you. Can't wait to see you as director and screenplayer as well.
Oh and I remember an ISFP singing such a cool song in one of your videos, you definitely should try songwriting
Thanks for sharing this Frank. Being outcome focused comes with many burn outs, we as ni users need to balance it. Self reflection helps a lot to let out hidden fears. Once you face it, its easier to deal with 😊
Love you frank, thanks for everything, do what you love to do
We Are with you❣️😽♥️
FJ, you look GREAT in the fuscia pink you have on....OWN it, baby! And I've had 2 INFJ best friends who were incredible people, full of ideas and talent and projects, one after another, because you all have so much going on up there. I wonder if, now that you're married with a baby, this is a plateau that you have to endure until you stumble on the way of moving past it. You know, as musicians, when we are developing our technique and we hit those plateaus, and what did our teachers always tell us? It means we're moving up, so it's coming!
I feeled the same so many times and continue to feel it. I'm glad that I found your video now, when I need it, thank you. I always expirience that thing watching your videos like you talk about my thoughts, but formulate it in more understandable form. And that's why I like watch them. Please continue, you're amazing❤🔥
See, even this video where you feel creatively blocked is - creative and it just keeps flowing!
I appreciate how open you are about creativity and I find your videos on this topic really authentic and helpful.
Also I think you are miracolously courageos for doing this work, letting so many people see your videos.
Nobody wants to look dumb or worse yet - dilusional.
I have never seen any dumb video from you Frank.
So I hope you already feel better. We find you very funny and interesting!❤
Hugs and kisses 💕
Hope you will be ok and
back to old funny Frank 🤟🏻
Self analysis is definitely higher in your video here, that's such a lot to contend with! A fair few people on UA-cam are calling this situation different things, people change platforms a lot. Technology is advancing faster and algorithms change fast, dont forget you are human.
So the rapid increase in views at the beginning was unexpected and then becomes addictive....yes face the fears and like any addiction face that too. Accept that change is natural or beyond control often and try to let go and rebalance the reasons of why you choose any job and what it means to you, your role can change through life at the drop of a hat. Don't fear change at all 🤞👌 nobody knows what's really around the corner we just guess... hopefully the guess is good. Rollercoaster 🎉
hi FJ! you are amazing!
Well, i have come to conclude that perfectionism and creative thinking might be similar if not the same thing. It's never enough. Since the mind can picture more, better. Creations of a creative person will always be second best to their abstractions. For me, i just wanted to have an online representation of me in my creations regardless of how they are but my inner critic couldn't allow me do anything. Whenever i think of doing it, i think about it the whole day and not do it. But hearing you, the great Frank talking about this. Well, i think its a constant feeling then or something
I'm still finding "new" old videos from your primary channel; some from five years and four years ago that are relevant to me at the present moment.
Maybe one of the criterion to consider can be: "Will some INFP consider this a 'timeless' topic of realization?"
I feel that many of the early videos have high rewatch value.
The deeper "real" videos are allowing for a different voice; a different affirmation of humans going through integrity struggles.
Mind you, I do enjoy laughing...
INFP🥧 INFP
Yes, INFJ. Allow yourself the new flow. Energy is going in new directions these passed years. Release and honor what came before. Embrace the new pace. (Yeah, this is as generic as I can make it!) So,
Be strong and courageous
✒️INFP
This got me worried and I wrote a long email on kofi about what could be causing to get so tied up with view counts and equating that with success.I hope it wasn't over stepping, the bit in here about parasocial relationships has made me question why I felt the need to do that 😂
If you're reading these comments from all your fans whom you have made such a profound impact on, id say thats pretty successful in itself. Changes, shifts in creativity and moving in different directions always causes temporary turbulence. Its hard and very real when its your living, it creates a sense of urgency. It will be ok.
Thank you for this video, Frank.
I know it's your bread and butter, but sometimes I wonder if you are tired of, or feel limited by, doing MBTI/16 personality videos. I was thinking it again while watching this.
Someone posted earlier that investing in the shed is a good idea, and I agree. And, it would be just that: an investment and money well spent. You know yourself that it's beneficial to separate your private space from your work space. Having it off-site in your backyard can help in so many ways.
I respect your vulnerability. As an artist, I can empathize. I have been there myself. I hope you're able to find your way forward. Until then, I'll still be there, watching whatever you do decide to make.
Expectations. They tourment us so much (especially Ni users?). My INFJ sister says letting go of them is always mind-blowing for her, so freeing, even if it's difficult. Anyway, you deserve to be proud of everything you've done, FJ. You're great at analyzing yourself so you'll find peace sooner rather than later. And for what it's worth, I loved the buried alive 16 personalities video! It was hilarious, well written, original and perfectly edited! Sometimes, it's just the UA-cam game and has nothing to do with you. Sometimes, success depends on criteria completely outside of your power, too. Why so harsh on yourself?
If you're interested in a new theory that helps people understand themselves🧡 I'd recommend the book by Lise Bourbeau "Heal Your Wounds and Find Your True Self". Maybe afterwards you can make "People with the 5 psychological wounds buried alive" videos 😄I'd watch that! Hehehe! C'mon, 100.000 views is INCREDIBLE!!!
remember that some great artists were not known at all during their lifetime ;)
I miss the book club! Be one sided and pick something that seems totally self indulgent and fun just to you, use us for unpacking your impressions... reading something you enjoy fully will help your ideas flow. You just gotta spoil yourself more more more
Im about to start Siddhartha with my friend, shes waiting for her copy to arrive in the mail lol
This video is so relatable and helpful, and the fact that you are acknowledging all these factors out loud is itself pretty impressive to me. I am certain that this has already solved half of the creative block problem of yours.
Related to writing not able to cope with fast running ideas in mind. I also face this, so I generally record audio notes to deal with that.
Being harsh on oneself is also relatable. 🙂 Nowadays I try to divert my mind by saying - whatever 😏😁
I made a video based on drinking game- never have I ever. And I kind of used game basics wrong and people noticed it.. but yeah Whatever 😏
People will understand my feelings 🙂
Thanks for sharing what's going on with us. I think sometimes we need to take time to integrate when there are a lot of new things in one's life. You've had a lot of changes. Take all the time you need. Thanks for all the help you've given me. You honestly helped me get through the pandemic and I'll always be grateful
It’s you that people are drawn to. If you’re not having fun and are feeling desperate to entertain, people are going to see and feel it. They want to see you enjoying yourself ♥️ you’re still cool and attractive, lol. Let that shine, no matter what the content may become.
OK Frank, I'm literally just responding to the title ATM but promise to watch fully and amend later as appropriate.... firstly, are you putting too much pressure on yourself to produce for others.. ? From watching a lot of your content recently, your Fe preference may be at play here? 2) taking time out to just 'be' helps me.. nature time, intimate family unit time, self-care time 3) what else is going on that's stressing you out? Stress is a major block of creativity 4) try out a little #neurographic art to address all of the above ....
love n light from your friendly neighbourhood ENFP💜 (and yes, Spiderman was my favourite superhero as a younger version of myself!😂)
I really appreciate you sharing this. Thank you, and good luck
I've been watching your videos for a few years now, so I feel confident saying this:
Whatever you create next "bombed" or not there are still going to be many people who loved that video, even if that video itself didn't met your "threshold". Also, take the well-deserved time you need to get back into the flow of things, no rush.
Looking at these comments it shows you great community that supports you and whatever decision that you make. Stay blessed FJ
I really like these videos where you’re just talking.
Thanks for sharing.
Creating content is hard - especially for years on end. Even the most creative people aren't designed to endlessly churn out content. The UA-cam system asks of you to endlessly supply something that is meant to be supplied naturally. When money and livelihood is on the line, you have to play the game a little bit and that sucks.
Just want to say you are doing great Frank. Your ideas here show that you have thought a lot about this and you recognize that creativity transcends the metrics. Remember that your skillset, knowledge, humor, charm, and everything else brought you to where you are today and the creator you are today is 10x the creator you were 5 years ago. The system and the views may ebb and flow, but if you remain authentic and true to what you think you will do just fine in the long run.