This was honestly upsetting. The kid who had to pay his parent's bills while still in school just broke my heart. No kid should have to go through that.
@•☆•Khu-Shee•☆• Yes I get your point if the parents asked him to help with the bills or get a part time job to maybe pay for his own stuff, clothes ,entertainment etc that would be fine, but they expect him to work a full time job to pay THEIR BILLS. I don't think they know how to manage their own money let alone try to teach him financial responsibility , he already seems more responsible then them.
This I get. My mother wasn't working when I was 13 or so and I was worried about food, utilities, a roof over the head, school, cleaning the house, and faking that everything was okay. I was too young to get a job, though. At one point, and I never told anyone till now, I thought of selling myself since I was a victim of a child predator before and no one did anything about it so why not do it? I didn't though, thank God. I was always lying about how I really felt and became numb. Still do as a protection method or maybe it's just a reflex, don't know anymore.
God, laziness is such a hurtful word. It should be said really really carefully, because you NEVER KNOW what the person you said was lazy is experiencing. I (and a shit ton of other people) have ADHD, so being "lazy" was a normal label. Lazy for studies, lazy for friends, lazy for sleep even (yes, this is possible for them apparently.)
When I was 4 a teacher called me lazy because I wouldn't clean up. The truth is I didn't know how. My mom didn't make me clean up at home. My mom said the reason was because she felt guilty due to my near death experiences. That teacher got in trouble with my mom. Had she just calmly asked my mom about the situation, it would've avoided conflict.
I don’t have ADHD but I had to get an open heart surgery over the summer. Complications happened and I caught infections. Had to go home with a PICC line (basically like an IV), and take antibiotics and didn’t stop until November. Then I had an auto immune issue I was dealing with… I didn’t go back to school in person till march but I’m a senior so I still had to keep up. I couldn’t slip and I was homeschooled virtually… I overheard a student in my class call me lazy behind my back after I asked the teacher last month for a small extension on two assignments (I was just having a hard time being motivated and emotionally was not doing well… and I even medically was dealing with stuff). they didn’t know what I had been through but it doesn’t give them the right to judge. I do my best and I get good scores… people like that make me put so much pressure on myself and hurt myself mentally trying to be perfect. Because it’s not the first time I heard that… Everyone goes through their own shit… so nobody should judge other’s. You have no idea what the other person is going through once they exit school, what they are coming home too or what problems they have.
I might have ADHD and I tried talking to my family about but they think I am just self diagnosing myself and label me as a lazy person instead of actually doing some check ups to make sure
I went through a depression episode for about 2-ish months, and one morning I realized that I didn't have to argue with myself to get out of bed. My mom took no notice, of course. When my teacher Mr.Bluff asked "Is today a good day?" to the class I excitedly called out "I didn't have to argue with myself for 10 minutes to get out of bed, so yes!". I swear he died a little inside.
Aww....that's awesome. So great you pulled out of it! I know exactly how that feels, I have to make myself roll out of bed every morning for many reasons.
That parent favoritism thing is super toxic to both the children. One gets spoiled OR is held up at really high expectations which could break her. She could also develop the fear of disappointing her parents. While the brother is neglected and deprived of care and love. He could feel worthless to everyone (since he seemed worthless to the parents), even if everyone else treats him as an equal. Plus these siblings could have no love to each other, its just so heartbreaking.
"Could break her" That hit really hard and also I really hate that a child is deemed worthless to parents just because they haven't excelled in the areas "parents" want them to excel. Not all kids are the same and they all have their own strengths that should be embraced, what their daughter is good at could be totally different from what their boy is good at. Anyhow, it is a round world and one way or other people pay for their mistakes, I just hope they realize it.
I know how it feels. I’m the favorite of my parents, but me and my sister are VERY close, so she tells me about how jealous she is of how lucky I am, and that plus me not wanting to disappoint my parents, just makes my life not fun…
When i was 9 , one of my classmates pulled my pants down in front of everyone. I ran and hid in the bushes outside in the school playground , when my teacher found me she told me off for running away and said to me “stop crying and just deal with it”. Since that day i never told anyone when i was struggling, not even my family because i was told to “deal with it” by my teachers all the time and I thought it was normal. I was in a 5 year abusive relationship and my family never knew because i just dealt with it on my own so i wont become a bother again. It took me years to understand that you don’t have to deal with everything and its not shameful or bothersome to ask for help.
That is horrible....no one should ever tell a child to just "deal with it." People really don't understand that that stuff sticks with you for *years*. Just like one Billie Eilish song says: "If they knew what they said went straight to my head, what would they say instead?"
One kid did the same to me. He literally took a dive to do so. Thankfully my story didn't end like yours because I had this Guy classmate who instead of laughing with everyone practically yelled at me (like the good kind of yelling) to go straight to the teacher since school was out. So I did and my teacher Just caught the boy yelling (not the good kind) to get back in there ASAP. Never happened again or other forms of bullying. Years later I see this boy just tried to be this cool daring dude to impress others and probably make them a litlte afraid of him too so he himself would not be bullied. Edit: typo
That is an example of why elementary teachers have to be careful about what they say to kids. My math teachet yelled a lot and at the time my parents at home yelled a lot during those years so that didn't help. Im still a little sensitive to someone raising their voice at me
WTFM WHY WOULD THE TEACHER TELL YOU TO "JUST DEAL WITH IT" INSTEAD OF TELLING OFF THE STUDENT WHO PANTSED YOU THAT TEACHER IS INSANE AND NEEDS PSYCHIATRIC HELP
My son was in kindergarten and I did some volunteering in his class and also in his sister's 3rd grade class. There was a little boy in my son's class who was struggling, yes in kindergarten. My friend knew the family and said mom worked while dad was the home parent. Those children were only allowed to sit on the couch all day long. They had never had even a crayon, a pencil, or a pair of scissors before starting school. I stayed in during recess one day to help him color and cut out a picture he had tried over and over to do. He got it done, not good but the best he had ever accomplished. That little boy ran out of the classroom screaming for his teacher to see. He had the biggest smile I ever saw on a child. It was sad as my kindergarten son was already learning to read.
That sounds like my son. Both of my kids are from the same biological family, and their development was SO stunted because those POS adults wouldn't let them outside, or play, or color, anything like that. My son has poor fine motor skills because he was with them for so many more years than my daughter.
@@Heather-xm9ul that's sad. It really stunts a child's development. When I found out I was pregnant with my first child I didn't go looking for clothed or toys. I bought books. After birth I read to her. I did this with all of my four children. I read to my daycare children, the little ones. In my middle school to high school years I attended school in California and realized just how many in high school could not read. I didn't want that to happen to my children. I took an active role in their learning. They got tested at home by me. The first teacher in a child's life is their parents. Always has been. I left California for a couple of reasons, mainly how they were actively destroyed a child's ability to learn.
@@marypettit5523 fortunately, they are both very smart kids! They learn fast! The resistance we're getting is because they've both been conditioned to be lazy, they think if they just sit there, they won't be forced to think or work, but now that we're their parents, it just doesn't work that way! It's hard for them to change their habits (and hard for us to be patient after so many years of never having kids) but they advance very quickly when we push them to engage! I have every confidence that they'll both turn out to be successful, independent adults! According to their case workers, now that they feel loved and get individual attention, they are far more motivated to progress than when they were in foster care.
These stories were honestly heartbreaking. We gotta let kids be kids and play around, fulfilling a happy childhood. They don't deserve to face reality's hardships this early ):
The saddest thing I ever heard was a story about a kid asking another kid: “Which superpower would you rather have? To fly or be invisible?” The kid replied “To fly because you don’t need a superpower to feel invisible.” 😞
Wow, the stuff some people, especially kids, have to go through is so heart-wrenching. It makes me so much more grateful for what I have. My parents are amazing and do everything they possibly can for me. To anyone out there who's going through a hard time, I wish you luck. There will be someone out there who'll love you and help you out when you really need it, even if it's just encouraging words. Much love ❤
Yup. Here in NYC, public schools gave out free meals/lunches to those in need bc a lot of kids don't have much. And one day for a volunteer, it breaks my heart that something that costs cheap is a luxury for those.
@@conniedoesexist1807 that’s what really upset me about the lockdowns. Kids that couldn’t go to school, it broke my heart. Abuse went up exponentially as well as kids going hungry. I can’t stand that people just don’t get that, or even care.
Yeah, that's true. I always feel bad for just eating a bite of pizza but having to throw it out despite hungry people not having that privilege. We waste so much food smh
I still remember how one of my friends was really depressed coz of studies, on the verge of giving up everything. I wish students will be able to enjoy other parts of their age than studies :(( I hope they can find happiness. I wish people would understand, trauma doesn't see age, you can be young and can have it really hard yk, it's not that only adults have problems. My heart goes out to everyone struggling and still going on. To all my fellow students, prioritise your happiness.
I once had a highschool classmate who missed 4 months of school straight. His parents kicked him out of the house so he stayed with the only friend he was able to stay with. They fed him and made sure he could get to school as well. They eventually kicked him out over something stupid. He was tasked with putting away the leftovers from the dinner that night and didn't because he was so tired. He just fell asleep and the next day he was kicked out. He told me that he was living under a bridge for 4 months and using the gas station restrooms to get cleaned up. He even found a clean river and would hand wash his clothes in it. He would've loved out his car but it was parked at his parents house. He didn't have time to get his keys to the car when he was kicked out the first time. He went back and asked to use his parents shower and they let him back inside to live with them again. He had to walk from place to place to get anywhere and it was too far from the school to walk there. I gave him some of the work I had gotten good grades on so he could cheat on the last 2 weeks of school. I tried my best to help him with any classwork he had so he wouldn't have 4 months worth of work to do in a short time. I only had one class with him so I could only help him with that class. He was nice and just had things going on at home that messed with school. If we had a way to contact eachother at the time he wouldn't have missed school and would've had a place to stay during that time.
@@LizA-fx4oi I don't know. He didn't have a job and his parents weren't really the best parents, still good parents but not the best ones out there. I don't know if they had something going on that caused them to do that or what all I know is that they did it. They could've been drunk or have problems of their own and just didn't handle it all properly or something else. I don't know and didn't ask him at the time. I didn't want to ask about something if he wasn't going to say it to begin with because I don't know how he'd react to a question about it or if something else was going on that he didn't want to talk about. He only told what he wanted to.
Parents shouldn’t have favorites… love both of your children… everyone is good at a specific thing and shouldn’t be shamed for being poor at another subject… And never throw the word lazy around. You don’t know what people go through the second they leave school property… you don’t know the inner battles they face inside
my cousin lost her dad to cancer at 9. lost her mom to cancer at 12. somehow she still maintained a smile after her dad’s cousin and his wife adopted her even though she had lost both her biological parents in 5/6th grade. will forever be proud of her for becoming happy again
He didn't hear it, but my teacher once asked what was something we wanted that others had. I was going through a pretty intense depressive spell, so I just whispered to myself, "Happiness..." My gym teacher, bless her loving soul, has had to hear me say some pretty bad things about myself, especially about how I'm so anxious all the time and how I had to ask if I could bring my fidget and stress toys to her class because I get panic attacks during gym easily.
That always reminds me of the time that I graduated high school and instead of a handshake I got a hug, I was crying of course because I was emotional I couldn't help it!
When I was in second grade, it was time to do a Father's Day project. Everyone else was working on some card, picture, or something else. I started work on a card for my mom and was stopped by my teacher. "Honey, no. It's not Mother's Day! It's Father's Day! Why don't you work on something for Daddy?" I stared at her and shrugged, confused why I had to make something for my dad. "I just wanna make something for Mom" The teacher sighed and took me out into the hall, making me feel like I was in trouble. "Sweety, I just want you to participate like the other kids... Why don't you want to make something for Daddy?" Another shrug "Cause I don't wanna" "Well what does Daddy do for work?" "I dunno" "Well what does he like?" "I dunno" She looked disappointed and sighed again. "How come you don't know? Why don't you talk to him Dear?" "I dunno.. I don't know where my dad is" I remember she looked as though that was the worst thing a kid had ever told her, even though it was an innocent statement. Got similar reactions over the years, but I wonder if was an awful thing for my teachers to know my father had left me.
It is infact awful since you're not able to feel fatherly love and the fun of having one to be with you when your mom is not around and the times they joke around. It's very sad how you ended up with a bad father that left you which was why your teacher looked sad after knowing and everybody else too. Trust me it's sad not having a complete family because a parent left you and it's not even because they passed away which makes it tragic. But I salute you for (hopefully) not feeling that emptiness whenever you see others with their dad's and atleast you live with your mom! Anyway hope you have a nice day!
This goes to show you that you never know what someone is going through.😢I'm so sorry for those who are going through a lot, but it will get better. I promise✨💖
These remind me of something that happened back in 1st grade. It was for a mother's day project, basically a booklet about you mother and what everyone's mom liked and things like that. One of the questions was, "What is your mom's favorite thing to do?" and there was one kid in my class who I saw the paper of. While everyone was writing that their mom loved them and being with them, the kid wrote: "Drinking special juice and being on her phone", implying the mother was an alcoholic who rarely spent time with her kid, based on the rest of their booklet.
I find this channel delightfully complex,..... Grim stories or sad stories , it doesn't seem to matter you handle them all well. you're such a sweet innocent wholesome nature to you, whenever you get kind of teary-eyed I do too. I can just tell you just the kindest, sweetest person ever💜💜💜
I love how you have genuine emotional reactions to theses, unlike most UA-camrs who just read the whole thing and just go like « well that’s sad ». We need more people like you 💕
I was always the dumbest one in the family. Up until now my family still says the same thing. I grew up with the lowest self esteem. I was constantly told I was useless and dumb and I believed them. I'm an adult now but the damage was already done. I still have low self esteem. I'm the one that also makes the least amount of money and still renting while all my siblings are married and own houses. I was so bad in school too bc I believed them when they told me and still tell me I'm dumb and lazy. It's hard to undo the damages.
My husband was conditioned to feel like he was the dumbest one in his family. He has a learning disability, and was bullied endlessly by his family. Yet here he is as an adult, one of the ONLY ones in his family without massive debts, addictions, or multiple baby mamas. His brothers still treat him like he's stupid, but he's literally the most successful out of all 7 boys.
hi Ellen!! I used to watch ur videos all the time, but stopped for a long while. I recently got back into them!! your voice is so calming and I think you're really pretty and wholesome. have an awesome day! -Rainbow
Sharing the saddest thing I ever heard a student say ,in the morning the teacher took all of our names and yet again my friend was not there for the past week everything had been feeling off (btw this was when COVID started) anyways at lunch I asked my friend if she knew anything and she said you didn’t know? Turns out her dad got stuck in another country and since of the COVID out break they couldn’t see each other and her dad passed away while he was there he never got to come back home. He was there for around 6 months beforehand too so that was really sad that friend rarely messages me anymore and I don’t know how she is currently doing since I left the school November of last year. Hope she’s good Also me and this girl were quite close. And were together most days.
About the two children :(( man I am never gonna have two kids if I decide to have them anyways, I feel like I can't love two people the same, and I can never live knowing I am depriving someone of the love they deserve. So better to have one, and love them.
Welcome to KFOTD (Kyutie Fact of the Day) Today’s Fact: Although Ellen started her YT account in 2010, she didn’t start posting until March 2016! Her first video was a spicy Korean noodle challenge😁
you might have unlocked a memory- because i joined youtube in 2015- and might have subscribed her since then (unsure but ik it's been a long time..and that she's been with me since i was in middle school and now im an uni student-)
@@mal6989 same here 😭 I remember I was in middle school when I first saw her now here I am stressing about university, &Kyutie is one of my stress relief source 🤍🥰
@@wawasya106 SAMEEE, I remember being a middle school student and now I'm very stressed over university, my finals are tomorrow and Tuesday ;-;, she's also my stress reliever source, i admire and appreciate her for that 🥰
@Ba Gawk i really love curry ^^ , my mom's thai curry, chef's kiss and i haven't seen it because they don't have it at my supermarkets D: and once i do, ill definitely check that out because i love creamy curry
Her reaction to the first one! RESPECT! I honestly relate to the girl who lost both her parents within a few weeks. I lost my grandma last year and my mom this year. Both were the only people I could come to for hugs and kisses, both loved me with all their heart. I have no one but online friends and one real life friend who I rarely ever see. I pray to God for my life to get better but it's not there yet.
I have depression and very bad social anxiety sometimes it’s hard to do anything bc I have no energy at all and my body just feels to heavy to move it sucks when my parents call me lazy when I get like this and say I never help or do anything I’m always in bed. Yes I stay in bed most days but I also have babysit my 5 younger siblings and do chores and all that but somedays I just don’t have the energy to do anything
We need more humans like you in the world. You recognize the more we have in common than the more that divides us. Empathy is a gift you give freely. It is well recieved. Please keep showing us how to be kind. - not your job, but the more followers you have, the better place this world is. Welcome to the 21stC. You belong here. Stay and . . . . just be you.
8:24 that story, my mentor/Afrikaans teacher gives every student that walks into his class a high five literally one of the reasons why I enjoy doing Afrikaans and can’t wait for homework class because then I get two high fives except on Tuesdays and Thursdays where my Afrikaans and homework classes are right after each other but I still get at least one high five.🥺🤩literally idolise my teacher.😁✨
2:26: There's nothing worse than parents who play favorites with their kids. Parents should love their children equally. 7:39: She'd only get a fist bump from me.
From a young age, I didn't know how to handle my emotions properly, I would cry and get angry at everything. Then, growing up, I was taught that crying was a form of weakness and that I wasn't allowed to be angry, so I learned how to hide my emotions. But the effect of that is now, as an adult, I feel that I'm not allowed to cry or get angry at things that I'm allowed to be mad at, so I tend to keep it to myself and not express it. But, I'm slowly learning how to express my emotions the right way. No child or adolescent should have to go through not having friends, not receiving hugs from a parent, or even working to pay bills, they should enjoy their childhoods and adolescence. It's absolutely heartbreaking hearing these stories. At the same time, even though I have my own issues, I'm grateful of the things I have and what my family has done for me because there are others who are less fortunate than I am.
I remember having to live in a hotel room with over 10 people when I was in 3rd grade lmao; it was dreadful but also one of my most vivid memories to date
I give my 18months-3years classes hugs whichever class I'm in that day. Some of them you can really tell they needed it and they all end up beaming afterwards!
Some kids are good at hiding shit because they feel like they need to.... they feel either alone or the need to keep their guard up. This is happening much more often than you think and it is really depressing. One GOOD small act can help a child and we aren't even doing that. The adults in these stories are very kind and that's really all you need to help a child. So please, be kind. Help others if they need it and even if they look happy they might just be keeping up an act. What I'm saying is sometimes just asking "Are you okay?" is enough to help because that shows you care.🙂❤ Children and Adults alike I want you to know that I'm here and I care.❤
I honestly always pretend to be happy n the so called good and ideal kid. But I honestly wished I had a normal childhood & a normal family. My dad was always abusive from the beginning of my mom’s marriage. From childhood I suffered & had to behave a certain way in front of him. Still to this day he hasn’t changed his behaviour & on top of that his behaviour worsened. I honestly wish my parents get a divorce so that my mom, my granny & I can lead a normal life ahead. Am I wrong? What should I do?
The one of the kid with the migraine, I sleep a lot, I never got in trouble or called lazy for it, and I sleep when I'm sick, my mum just tells me it's cause I stay up late, I mean she's not wrong, but I also sleep a lot when I feel sick or hurting, I love my mum for not telling me I'm lazy for this, and I hope that in the end the girl finally realized and her parents stopped what they were doing in time
One summer, when I was like 19, I was tasked with watching a family friends cat. No big deal. But just before the family friend left, I came down with a really bad strep infection. I still took care of the cat. But it took a *month* of me having no energy for anything, not even eating, for anybody in my family to notice and get me to a doctor.
There was a girl in my school who was the grade ahead of me. She got pregnant in June of her eighth grade year, and ended up giving birth in February of her ninth grade year when she was only 14 years old. She wanted to keep it so bad but, she realized she couldn’t and had to give the baby up for adoption. About a month later, her mother passed away due to cancer.
When I was a kid in school there were a couple of kids that would ask in the lunch room, "You're not going to eat your ____?" Not asking just me, but asking other kids, too. These kids would literally eat your leavings right off your plate. I found out the (for them) free school lunch was the only food they got each day. Sad. You never know what some people go through.
The first story hit me hard. After my dad passed away last year, I was so scared of losing my mom, too. (Luckily I didn't!! However, my dad passed away of heart failure very suddenly one Tuesday morning, it came as a shock and made me realise that someone's life could be over in an instant.) But now, my grandma is in the hospital and not doing well, so I'm worried again :(
@@jesuschrististheanswer4546 I'm sorry to hear that :( It's always heartbreaking to lose a loved one. But I hope the thought that they're in a better place now and don't have to suffer anymore can console you a little bit🙏🏻
My parents chose me as their favorite (I guess because I’m the only girl and most well behaved?) but at least they don’t try to show it, never show if one kid is the favorite and the other isn’t, it’s just plain rude and can really damage someone, it’s okay to have favorites but don’t try to show it
Day before yesterday my tutor's friend's entire family died it was so sad. They had a family trip but she couldn't go because of her exams her family went on a trip and even sent us photos of them traveling 2 hours later her family died in a car crash no one survived. She is going through a really tough time and is slipping into depression. I feel bad for her what will she do now?
Honestly, I never had friends or real freinds until 4th. This one best friend is 💖💖💖. I'm almost a senior and we are still best friends. I kind of got teased and bullied from 2nd through 7th grade. I transferred in the 3rd quarter. Don't regret it and now I'm more insecure and it makes me sad because school wasn't fun. It's disappointing
That child looking forward to having his own bed to sleep in probably has had to share a bed with one of his siblings. That's why he is looking forward to having his own bed that he didn't have to share with anyone.
Testing, testing, 123. Every comment I've... commented on a Kyutie video for the past few weeks has been hearted by her, is it a UA-cam glitch or are my comments just really good? (Please excuse the slight insensitivity of commenting this on a sad video by the way.)
I feel like your sign off could have been different this time. All these stories were heartbreaking and I know you empathize with them. I just feel your regular sign off didn't match the content. Still love you and your big heart. ❤
As a child, I had to deal with a lot growing up. for example, I love pokemon and would often get made fun of in middle school due to my favorite pokemon being Eevee and its evolutions. People would come up to me and say "oh why do you like Eevee so much she is so weak" and things like that. Another time I was in elementary school and we were doing a bathroom break and this one kid let's call him Lenny told me that he was going to bury me alive (I have a ton more examples but I don't feel like posting them here). These experiences pathed the way I entered adulthood (I'm currently 18) and they made me struggle with my mental and physical self "am I stupid" "am I dumb" I would often think to myself and I have had many close to successful attempts at Suicide. But now I have an emotional support cat who I can share things like this with and he often cuddles with me (he's a black cat with yellow eyes named Nightshade). So please remember if you are struggling with stuff like this find someone you trust (and someone who has always been there for you) and talk about it.
I'm an American, living in SE Asia, and Ellen might be able to back me up on this: Having your own bed to sleep in. Here, it's a custom for the whole family to sleep together, in a great big giant bed together, and the kids wouldn't have it any other way. The day a girl gets her own bed, is usually the day she goes shopping for he first bras. I'm a dad, and I don't make the rules, but there's many a night that I wish I had my own bed to sleep in.
The girl with the migraines I relate to I can't fall asleep till 1-3:30 am and so on the weekends I want to sleep in. My mom lets me sleep till noon because she understands my dad says we can sleep in till 9 but never lets us on week days when I do fall asleep early he will make tons of noise at four when he leaves the house.
Ellen im.super sorry that I am soo late late like almost a day late but something happened with my great grandma so i couldn't click on the video on time but this video was sad too I wouldn't wish any of this upon the worst person In the world because what happend to these people was awful but stay happy and healthy ellen and coco love yall 💜💜💜
My dad has a better relationship with me than my brother 😅 it's because I'm literally the reincarnation of my dad and hang out with him more, my brother just stays in his room. my dad would love to hangout with him. I feel bad for my dad because he didn't get to have a bond with us when we were baby's. He is trying to make up for it and I have a amazing bond with him. I feel bad for my brother too he doesn't get to have the bond that I share with our dad. I grew up feeling I was Brother's mom figure even though I am the younger sibling. I also feel bad because if you were a stranger to my family you would think I'm the favorite but my dad doesn't have one... My mom on the other hand has a fav and it's my brother. I don't really care because he needs it. She doesn't care about anyone but herself, she barely cares about my brother and he's her favorite. I would tell more but that would be to much information.
This was honestly upsetting. The kid who had to pay his parent's bills while still in school just broke my heart. No kid should have to go through that.
Right!! That’s so sad!!! 😢😢
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Right??? Children their age should be more carefree then eat, shit and sleep on their entire day! Not having to pay bills and more bills while young!
@•☆•Khu-Shee•☆• Yes I get your point if the parents asked him to help with the bills or get a part time job to maybe pay for his own stuff, clothes ,entertainment etc that would be fine, but they expect him to work a full time job to pay THEIR BILLS. I don't think they know how to manage their own money let alone try to teach him financial responsibility , he already seems more responsible then them.
This I get. My mother wasn't working when I was 13 or so and I was worried about food, utilities, a roof over the head, school, cleaning the house, and faking that everything was okay. I was too young to get a job, though. At one point, and I never told anyone till now, I thought of selling myself since I was a victim of a child predator before and no one did anything about it so why not do it? I didn't though, thank God. I was always lying about how I really felt and became numb. Still do as a protection method or maybe it's just a reflex, don't know anymore.
God, laziness is such a hurtful word. It should be said really really carefully, because you NEVER KNOW what the person you said was lazy is experiencing. I (and a shit ton of other people) have ADHD, so being "lazy" was a normal label. Lazy for studies, lazy for friends, lazy for sleep even (yes, this is possible for them apparently.)
When I was 4 a teacher called me lazy because I wouldn't clean up. The truth is I didn't know how. My mom didn't make me clean up at home. My mom said the reason was because she felt guilty due to my near death experiences. That teacher got in trouble with my mom. Had she just calmly asked my mom about the situation, it would've avoided conflict.
I don’t have ADHD but I had to get an open heart surgery over the summer. Complications happened and I caught infections. Had to go home with a PICC line (basically like an IV), and take antibiotics and didn’t stop until November. Then I had an auto immune issue I was dealing with…
I didn’t go back to school in person till march but I’m a senior so I still had to keep up. I couldn’t slip and I was homeschooled virtually…
I overheard a student in my class call me lazy behind my back after I asked the teacher last month for a small extension on two assignments (I was just having a hard time being motivated and emotionally was not doing well… and I even medically was dealing with stuff). they didn’t know what I had been through but it doesn’t give them the right to judge. I do my best and I get good scores… people like that make me put so much pressure on myself and hurt myself mentally trying to be perfect. Because it’s not the first time I heard that…
Everyone goes through their own shit… so nobody should judge other’s. You have no idea what the other person is going through once they exit school, what they are coming home too or what problems they have.
I might have ADHD and I tried talking to my family about but they think I am just self diagnosing myself and label me as a lazy person instead of actually doing some check ups to make sure
ey ADHD gang
I relate and sympathize with y'all
@@namanh_69 hello fellow adhd sisters and brothers or whatever gender u are:)
I went through a depression episode for about 2-ish months, and one morning I realized that I didn't have to argue with myself to get out of bed. My mom took no notice, of course. When my teacher Mr.Bluff asked "Is today a good day?" to the class I excitedly called out "I didn't have to argue with myself for 10 minutes to get out of bed, so yes!". I swear he died a little inside.
Aww....that's awesome. So great you pulled out of it! I know exactly how that feels, I have to make myself roll out of bed every morning for many reasons.
It's a phase, and it shall pass too. I am glad you were able to cope and get back on track. I hope you find lots of comfort and love in your life.
That parent favoritism thing is super toxic to both the children.
One gets spoiled OR is held up at really high expectations which could break her. She could also develop the fear of disappointing her parents.
While the brother is neglected and deprived of care and love. He could feel worthless to everyone (since he seemed worthless to the parents), even if everyone else treats him as an equal.
Plus these siblings could have no love to each other, its just so heartbreaking.
"Could break her" That hit really hard and also I really hate that a child is deemed worthless to parents just because they haven't excelled in the areas "parents" want them to excel. Not all kids are the same and they all have their own strengths that should be embraced, what their daughter is good at could be totally different from what their boy is good at. Anyhow, it is a round world and one way or other people pay for their mistakes, I just hope they realize it.
@@misachitachibana7214 EXACTLY
I have a lil brother and he and I are literally opposites. So ik how hard it can be.
it can also cause the children to be very competitive with each other, which isn't good most of the time.
I know how it feels. I’m the favorite of my parents, but me and my sister are VERY close, so she tells me about how jealous she is of how lucky I am, and that plus me not wanting to disappoint my parents, just makes my life not fun…
When i was 9 , one of my classmates pulled my pants down in front of everyone.
I ran and hid in the bushes outside in the school playground , when my teacher found me she told me off for running away and said to me “stop crying and just deal with it”.
Since that day i never told anyone when i was struggling, not even my family because i was told to “deal with it” by my teachers all the time and I thought it was normal.
I was in a 5 year abusive relationship and my family never knew because i just dealt with it on my own so i wont become a bother again.
It took me years to understand that you don’t have to deal with everything and its not shameful or bothersome to ask for help.
That is horrible....no one should ever tell a child to just "deal with it." People really don't understand that that stuff sticks with you for *years*. Just like one Billie Eilish song says: "If they knew what they said went straight to my head, what would they say instead?"
One kid did the same to me. He literally took a dive to do so. Thankfully my story didn't end like yours because I had this Guy classmate who instead of laughing with everyone practically yelled at me (like the good kind of yelling) to go straight to the teacher since school was out. So I did and my teacher Just caught the boy yelling (not the good kind) to get back in there ASAP. Never happened again or other forms of bullying. Years later I see this boy just tried to be this cool daring dude to impress others and probably make them a litlte afraid of him too so he himself would not be bullied.
Edit: typo
That is an example of why elementary teachers have to be careful about what they say to kids. My math teachet yelled a lot and at the time my parents at home yelled a lot during those years so that didn't help. Im still a little sensitive to someone raising their voice at me
WTFM WHY WOULD THE TEACHER TELL YOU TO "JUST DEAL WITH IT" INSTEAD OF TELLING OFF THE STUDENT WHO PANTSED YOU THAT TEACHER IS INSANE AND NEEDS PSYCHIATRIC HELP
she gets it. everyone has problems and it takes a great deal of courage to say "help" when you need it.
My son was in kindergarten and I did some volunteering in his class and also in his sister's 3rd grade class.
There was a little boy in my son's class who was struggling, yes in kindergarten. My friend knew the family and said mom worked while dad was the home parent. Those children were only allowed to sit on the couch all day long. They had never had even a crayon, a pencil, or a pair of scissors before starting school.
I stayed in during recess one day to help him color and cut out a picture he had tried over and over to do. He got it done, not good but the best he had ever accomplished. That little boy ran out of the classroom screaming for his teacher to see. He had the biggest smile I ever saw on a child.
It was sad as my kindergarten son was already learning to read.
That sounds like my son. Both of my kids are from the same biological family, and their development was SO stunted because those POS adults wouldn't let them outside, or play, or color, anything like that. My son has poor fine motor skills because he was with them for so many more years than my daughter.
@@Heather-xm9ul that's sad. It really stunts a child's development. When I found out I was pregnant with my first child I didn't go looking for clothed or toys. I bought books. After birth I read to her. I did this with all of my four children. I read to my daycare children, the little ones.
In my middle school to high school years I attended school in California and realized just how many in high school could not read. I didn't want that to happen to my children. I took an active role in their learning. They got tested at home by me. The first teacher in a child's life is their parents. Always has been. I left California for a couple of reasons, mainly how they were actively destroyed a child's ability to learn.
@@Heather-xm9ul you know with lots of love, some work, and plenty of patience you can turn this around.
@@marypettit5523 fortunately, they are both very smart kids! They learn fast! The resistance we're getting is because they've both been conditioned to be lazy, they think if they just sit there, they won't be forced to think or work, but now that we're their parents, it just doesn't work that way! It's hard for them to change their habits (and hard for us to be patient after so many years of never having kids) but they advance very quickly when we push them to engage! I have every confidence that they'll both turn out to be successful, independent adults! According to their case workers, now that they feel loved and get individual attention, they are far more motivated to progress than when they were in foster care.
@@Heather-xm9ul that is awesome.
These stories were honestly heartbreaking. We gotta let kids be kids and play around, fulfilling a happy childhood. They don't deserve to face reality's hardships this early ):
The saddest thing I ever heard was a story about a kid asking another kid: “Which superpower would you rather have? To fly or be invisible?” The kid replied “To fly because you don’t need a superpower to feel invisible.” 😞
That kid was speaking facts. Poor kiddo
Wow, the stuff some people, especially kids, have to go through is so heart-wrenching. It makes me so much more grateful for what I have. My parents are amazing and do everything they possibly can for me. To anyone out there who's going through a hard time, I wish you luck. There will be someone out there who'll love you and help you out when you really need it, even if it's just encouraging words. Much love ❤
Many people don’t realize that for a lot of kids eating lunch at school is the only meal they get or that school is their safety.
Yup. Here in NYC, public schools gave out free meals/lunches to those in need bc a lot of kids don't have much.
And one day for a volunteer, it breaks my heart that something that costs cheap is a luxury for those.
@@conniedoesexist1807 that’s what really upset me about the lockdowns. Kids that couldn’t go to school, it broke my heart.
Abuse went up exponentially as well as kids going hungry. I can’t stand that people just don’t get that, or even care.
Yeah, that's true. I always feel bad for just eating a bite of pizza but having to throw it out despite hungry people not having that privilege. We waste so much food smh
I still remember how one of my friends was really depressed coz of studies, on the verge of giving up everything. I wish students will be able to enjoy other parts of their age than studies :(( I hope they can find happiness. I wish people would understand, trauma doesn't see age, you can be young and can have it really hard yk, it's not that only adults have problems. My heart goes out to everyone struggling and still going on. To all my fellow students, prioritise your happiness.
I once had a highschool classmate who missed 4 months of school straight. His parents kicked him out of the house so he stayed with the only friend he was able to stay with. They fed him and made sure he could get to school as well. They eventually kicked him out over something stupid. He was tasked with putting away the leftovers from the dinner that night and didn't because he was so tired. He just fell asleep and the next day he was kicked out. He told me that he was living under a bridge for 4 months and using the gas station restrooms to get cleaned up.
He even found a clean river and would hand wash his clothes in it. He would've loved out his car but it was parked at his parents house. He didn't have time to get his keys to the car when he was kicked out the first time.
He went back and asked to use his parents shower and they let him back inside to live with them again.
He had to walk from place to place to get anywhere and it was too far from the school to walk there.
I gave him some of the work I had gotten good grades on so he could cheat on the last 2 weeks of school. I tried my best to help him with any classwork he had so he wouldn't have 4 months worth of work to do in a short time. I only had one class with him so I could only help him with that class.
He was nice and just had things going on at home that messed with school.
If we had a way to contact eachother at the time he wouldn't have missed school and would've had a place to stay during that time.
OMFG WTH?????????? how can his parents do that????????
@@LizA-fx4oi I don't know but he was on his last year of highschool and was technically 18 so.
@@izoraiza7169 Oh, but still how did they have the heart to do that
@@LizA-fx4oi I don't know. He didn't have a job and his parents weren't really the best parents, still good parents but not the best ones out there. I don't know if they had something going on that caused them to do that or what all I know is that they did it. They could've been drunk or have problems of their own and just didn't handle it all properly or something else. I don't know and didn't ask him at the time. I didn't want to ask about something if he wasn't going to say it to begin with because I don't know how he'd react to a question about it or if something else was going on that he didn't want to talk about. He only told what he wanted to.
@@izoraiza7169 I understand, but it's still not right to do that, geez
Parents shouldn’t have favorites… love both of your children… everyone is good at a specific thing and shouldn’t be shamed for being poor at another subject…
And never throw the word lazy around. You don’t know what people go through the second they leave school property… you don’t know the inner battles they face inside
my cousin lost her dad to cancer at 9. lost her mom to cancer at 12. somehow she still maintained a smile after her dad’s cousin and his wife adopted her even though she had lost both her biological parents in 5/6th grade. will forever be proud of her for becoming happy again
He didn't hear it, but my teacher once asked what was something we wanted that others had. I was going through a pretty intense depressive spell, so I just whispered to myself, "Happiness..."
My gym teacher, bless her loving soul, has had to hear me say some pretty bad things about myself, especially about how I'm so anxious all the time and how I had to ask if I could bring my fidget and stress toys to her class because I get panic attacks during gym easily.
Best wishes to you, you’ll get through this ❤️
@@fal4thought Thank you so much, that means a lot
That always reminds me of the time that I graduated high school and instead of a handshake I got a hug, I was crying of course because I was emotional I couldn't help it!
When I was in second grade, it was time to do a Father's Day project. Everyone else was working on some card, picture, or something else. I started work on a card for my mom and was stopped by my teacher.
"Honey, no. It's not Mother's Day! It's Father's Day! Why don't you work on something for Daddy?"
I stared at her and shrugged, confused why I had to make something for my dad.
"I just wanna make something for Mom"
The teacher sighed and took me out into the hall, making me feel like I was in trouble.
"Sweety, I just want you to participate like the other kids... Why don't you want to make something for Daddy?"
Another shrug "Cause I don't wanna"
"Well what does Daddy do for work?"
"I dunno"
"Well what does he like?"
"I dunno"
She looked disappointed and sighed again. "How come you don't know? Why don't you talk to him Dear?"
"I dunno.. I don't know where my dad is"
I remember she looked as though that was the worst thing a kid had ever told her, even though it was an innocent statement. Got similar reactions over the years, but I wonder if was an awful thing for my teachers to know my father had left me.
It is infact awful since you're not able to feel fatherly love and the fun of having one to be with you when your mom is not around and the times they joke around. It's very sad how you ended up with a bad father that left you which was why your teacher looked sad after knowing and everybody else too. Trust me it's sad not having a complete family because a parent left you and it's not even because they passed away which makes it tragic. But I salute you for (hopefully) not feeling that emptiness whenever you see others with their dad's and atleast you live with your mom! Anyway hope you have a nice day!
This goes to show you that you never know what someone is going through.😢I'm so sorry for those who are going through a lot, but it will get better. I promise✨💖
These remind me of something that happened back in 1st grade. It was for a mother's day project, basically a booklet about you mother and what everyone's mom liked and things like that.
One of the questions was, "What is your mom's favorite thing to do?" and there was one kid in my class who I saw the paper of. While everyone was writing that their mom loved them and being with them, the kid wrote: "Drinking special juice and being on her phone", implying the mother was an alcoholic who rarely spent time with her kid, based on the rest of their booklet.
I find this channel delightfully complex,..... Grim stories or sad stories , it doesn't seem to matter you handle them all well.
you're such a sweet innocent wholesome nature to you, whenever you get kind of teary-eyed I do too. I can just tell you just the kindest, sweetest person ever💜💜💜
I love how you have genuine emotional reactions to theses, unlike most UA-camrs who just read the whole thing and just go like « well that’s sad ». We need more people like you 💕
I was always the dumbest one in the family. Up until now my family still says the same thing. I grew up with the lowest self esteem. I was constantly told I was useless and dumb and I believed them. I'm an adult now but the damage was already done. I still have low self esteem. I'm the one that also makes the least amount of money and still renting while all my siblings are married and own houses. I was so bad in school too bc I believed them when they told me and still tell me I'm dumb and lazy. It's hard to undo the damages.
My husband was conditioned to feel like he was the dumbest one in his family. He has a learning disability, and was bullied endlessly by his family. Yet here he is as an adult, one of the ONLY ones in his family without massive debts, addictions, or multiple baby mamas. His brothers still treat him like he's stupid, but he's literally the most successful out of all 7 boys.
@@Heather-xm9ul good for him! I'm glad he also has u too to boost his esteem and happiness!
@@katherinelok7689 and I hope that you'll have a boost self esteem and happiness someday.
These poor kids
How sad you get from these makes me want to cry. Your so wholesome. You cant be saddddd
hi Ellen!! I used to watch ur videos all the time, but stopped for a long while. I recently got back into them!! your voice is so calming and I think you're really pretty and wholesome. have an awesome day! -Rainbow
yay welcome back!!
@@Kyutie. :00 thank you for replying!!
coincidentally my great aunt passed recently and it struck us hard and the videos have been helping me. thank you for all that you do for us.
AWH this is sad :( I wish these people get the better treatment and some help or something :’)
Sharing the saddest thing I ever heard a student say ,in the morning the teacher took all of our names and yet again my friend was not there for the past week everything had been feeling off (btw this was when COVID started) anyways at lunch I asked my friend if she knew anything and she said you didn’t know?
Turns out her dad got stuck in another country and since of the COVID out break they couldn’t see each other and her dad passed away while he was there he never got to come back home.
He was there for around 6 months beforehand too so that was really sad that friend rarely messages me anymore and I don’t know how she is currently doing since I left the school November of last year.
Hope she’s good
Also me and this girl were quite close. And were together most days.
Hearing Kyutie's voice crack whole her eyes got watery as she read these heartwrenching stories made me shed tears. 🥺🥺🥺😭🥺🥺🥺
About the two children :(( man I am never gonna have two kids if I decide to have them anyways, I feel like I can't love two people the same, and I can never live knowing I am depriving someone of the love they deserve. So better to have one, and love them.
Omg, Kyutie, your outfit today is so on fleek! 😍
Welcome to KFOTD (Kyutie Fact of the Day) Today’s Fact: Although Ellen started her YT account in 2010, she didn’t start posting until March 2016! Her first video was a
spicy Korean noodle challenge😁
you might have unlocked a memory- because i joined youtube in 2015- and might have subscribed her since then (unsure but ik it's been a long time..and that she's been with me since i was in middle school and now im an uni student-)
@Ba Gawk I heard the curry one is good! I've always wanted to try the curry one as my friend has said it's his go to;-!
@@mal6989 same here 😭 I remember I was in middle school when I first saw her now here I am stressing about university, &Kyutie is one of my stress relief source 🤍🥰
@@wawasya106 SAMEEE, I remember being a middle school student and now I'm very stressed over university, my finals are tomorrow and Tuesday ;-;, she's also my stress reliever source, i admire and appreciate her for that 🥰
@Ba Gawk i really love curry ^^ , my mom's thai curry, chef's kiss and i haven't seen it because they don't have it at my supermarkets D: and once i do, ill definitely check that out because i love creamy curry
Her reaction to the first one! RESPECT! I honestly relate to the girl who lost both her parents within a few weeks. I lost my grandma last year and my mom this year. Both were the only people I could come to for hugs and kisses, both loved me with all their heart. I have no one but online friends and one real life friend who I rarely ever see. I pray to God for my life to get better but it's not there yet.
Time to start my day off with Ellen's video's ,have a great day everyone
Yay you posted! I was just binge watching your vids! 🥰
yay!!
I just want to hug each and every one of them
same
Heartbreaking stories but an important reminder that some people go through a living hell and don't have a childhood.
My face is a mess right now cuz these stories are so sad, remind me of my students who struggle to study as well 😢
This resonates with me bc i was a sad kid. My parents weren’t abusive or anything, they’re great parents, but i was always isolated at school so
I love your videos so much you're such a freakin legend kyutie. Keep up the awesome work 🔥🙏🌸
Haha relate to the lack of hugs, I haven't experienced a hug since I was 10.
8:09 I don't even get hugs, honestly, I can feel my arms physically ache (and I am NOT kidding about that) for some physical contact...
I have depression and very bad social anxiety sometimes it’s hard to do anything bc I have no energy at all and my body just feels to heavy to move it sucks when my parents call me lazy when I get like this and say I never help or do anything I’m always in bed. Yes I stay in bed most days but I also have babysit my 5 younger siblings and do chores and all that but somedays I just don’t have the energy to do anything
I really hope the first kid doesn’t have no one I hope they have like grandparents or aunts or uncles who can help take care of them
Omg Kyutie I was looking at your eyes they were looking watery 🥺
It's so painful to even exist when you have a migraine
The kid who’s dad left and he couldn’t write his paper was too relatable
Hi Kyutie, I love your videos so much and you make me happy, hope you have amazing day 💗💗
We need more humans like you in the world. You recognize the more we have in common than the more that divides us. Empathy is a gift you give freely. It is well recieved. Please keep showing us how to be kind. - not your job, but the more followers you have, the better place this world is. Welcome to the 21stC. You belong here. Stay and . . . . just be you.
8:24 that story, my mentor/Afrikaans teacher gives every student that walks into his class a high five literally one of the reasons why I enjoy doing Afrikaans and can’t wait for homework class because then I get two high fives except on Tuesdays and Thursdays where my Afrikaans and homework classes are right after each other but I still get at least one high five.🥺🤩literally idolise my teacher.😁✨
Ur hair looks absolutely gorgeous
4:28 The parents might not be ABLE to pack him any food. they could be jobless, homeless, and having to get fed at the community soup kitchen.
I thought that too
Not me tearing up in class
I keep being early because I discovered ur channel after ages 😭
yay! thank u!
These stories are the other thing that will prevent me from becoming a teacher. (First thing is my temper.)
2:26: There's nothing worse than parents who play favorites with their kids. Parents should love their children equally.
7:39: She'd only get a fist bump from me.
well, shi- this is gonna be hard to watch.
:(
From a young age, I didn't know how to handle my emotions properly, I would cry and get angry at everything. Then, growing up, I was taught that crying was a form of weakness and that I wasn't allowed to be angry, so I learned how to hide my emotions. But the effect of that is now, as an adult, I feel that I'm not allowed to cry or get angry at things that I'm allowed to be mad at, so I tend to keep it to myself and not express it. But, I'm slowly learning how to express my emotions the right way.
No child or adolescent should have to go through not having friends, not receiving hugs from a parent, or even working to pay bills, they should enjoy their childhoods and adolescence. It's absolutely heartbreaking hearing these stories. At the same time, even though I have my own issues, I'm grateful of the things I have and what my family has done for me because there are others who are less fortunate than I am.
I remember having to live in a hotel room with over 10 people when I was in 3rd grade lmao; it was dreadful but also one of my most vivid memories to date
Ellen sacrificing her emotions to read these to us 😭🥺☹️
NOOOOO I'm LATEEEE! I still love you, Kyutie!!
I give my 18months-3years classes hugs whichever class I'm in that day. Some of them you can really tell they needed it and they all end up beaming afterwards!
Some kids are good at hiding shit because they feel like they need to.... they feel either alone or the need to keep their guard up. This is happening much more often than you think and it is really depressing. One GOOD small act can help a child and we aren't even doing that. The adults in these stories are very kind and that's really all you need to help a child. So please, be kind. Help others if they need it and even if they look happy they might just be keeping up an act. What I'm saying is sometimes just asking "Are you okay?" is enough to help because that shows you care.🙂❤ Children and Adults alike I want you to know that I'm here and I care.❤
I want cry , this poor kid, i want to give him so many hug. I’m kind of a cuddlebug so.
We need to turn these frowns upside down!
I honestly always pretend to be happy n the so called good and ideal kid. But I honestly wished I had a normal childhood & a normal family. My dad was always abusive from the beginning of my mom’s marriage. From childhood I suffered & had to behave a certain way in front of him. Still to this day he hasn’t changed his behaviour & on top of that his behaviour worsened. I honestly wish my parents get a divorce so that my mom, my granny & I can lead a normal life ahead.
Am I wrong? What should I do?
The one of the kid with the migraine, I sleep a lot, I never got in trouble or called lazy for it, and I sleep when I'm sick, my mum just tells me it's cause I stay up late, I mean she's not wrong, but I also sleep a lot when I feel sick or hurting, I love my mum for not telling me I'm lazy for this, and I hope that in the end the girl finally realized and her parents stopped what they were doing in time
This is all so sad, idk how you got through it :(
One summer, when I was like 19, I was tasked with watching a family friends cat. No big deal. But just before the family friend left, I came down with a really bad strep infection. I still took care of the cat. But it took a *month* of me having no energy for anything, not even eating, for anybody in my family to notice and get me to a doctor.
There was a girl in my school who was the grade ahead of me. She got pregnant in June of her eighth grade year, and ended up giving birth in February of her ninth grade year when she was only 14 years old. She wanted to keep it so bad but, she realized she couldn’t and had to give the baby up for adoption. About a month later, her mother passed away due to cancer.
When I was a kid in school there were a couple of kids that would ask in the lunch room, "You're not going to eat your ____?" Not asking just me, but asking other kids, too. These kids would literally eat your leavings right off your plate. I found out the (for them) free school lunch was the only food they got each day. Sad. You never know what some people go through.
The first story hit me hard. After my dad passed away last year, I was so scared of losing my mom, too. (Luckily I didn't!! However, my dad passed away of heart failure very suddenly one Tuesday morning, it came as a shock and made me realise that someone's life could be over in an instant.) But now, my grandma is in the hospital and not doing well, so I'm worried again :(
My mom's uncle passed yesterday morning but they're in better places😢
@@jesuschrististheanswer4546 I'm sorry to hear that :( It's always heartbreaking to lose a loved one. But I hope the thought that they're in a better place now and don't have to suffer anymore can console you a little bit🙏🏻
@@Lalalein Yes thank u❤️
@@jesuschrististheanswer4546 ❤❤
Kyutieeee hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Ive been watching u since 5 yrs noww
I could relate to the hug situation 🥺
the urge to vent my life was shit.heh
My parents chose me as their favorite (I guess because I’m the only girl and most well behaved?) but at least they don’t try to show it, never show if one kid is the favorite and the other isn’t, it’s just plain rude and can really damage someone, it’s okay to have favorites but don’t try to show it
Hiii! Luv ur vids!
I hated primary , it was the worst, always got made fun off
Day before yesterday my tutor's friend's entire family died it was so sad. They had a family trip but she couldn't go because of her exams her family went on a trip and even sent us photos of them traveling 2 hours later her family died in a car crash no one survived. She is going through a really tough time and is slipping into depression. I feel bad for her what will she do now?
Honestly, I never had friends or real freinds until 4th. This one best friend is 💖💖💖. I'm almost a senior and we are still best friends. I kind of got teased and bullied from 2nd through 7th grade. I transferred in the 3rd quarter. Don't regret it and now I'm more insecure and it makes me sad because school wasn't fun. It's disappointing
The filed trip one sounded like they were poor sadly
That child looking forward to having his own bed to sleep in probably has had to share a bed with one of his siblings. That's why he is looking forward to having his own bed that he didn't have to share with anyone.
Being a child is hard.
I never get hugs..
Testing, testing, 123. Every comment I've... commented on a Kyutie video for the past few weeks has been hearted by her, is it a UA-cam glitch or are my comments just really good?
(Please excuse the slight insensitivity of commenting this on a sad video by the way.)
When I was younger I would always get bullied now I have friend's
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Third!
Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉
*me watching this and reading people comments about how those stories made them cry, while having no reaction whatsoever* What is wrong with me?!
Probably nothing. But I never cry about anything, and I blame that on my depression. This is not a complaint, it's just the way things are.
I feel like your sign off could have been different this time. All these stories were heartbreaking and I know you empathize with them. I just feel your regular sign off didn't match the content. Still love you and your big heart. ❤
As a child, I had to deal with a lot growing up. for example, I love pokemon and would often get made fun of in middle school due to my favorite pokemon being Eevee and its evolutions. People would come up to me and say "oh why do you like Eevee so much she is so weak" and things like that. Another time I was in elementary school and we were doing a bathroom break and this one kid let's call him Lenny told me that he was going to bury me alive (I have a ton more examples but I don't feel like posting them here). These experiences pathed the way I entered adulthood (I'm currently 18) and they made me struggle with my mental and physical self "am I stupid" "am I dumb" I would often think to myself and I have had many close to successful attempts at Suicide. But now I have an emotional support cat who I can share things like this with and he often cuddles with me (he's a black cat with yellow eyes named Nightshade). So please remember if you are struggling with stuff like this find someone you trust (and someone who has always been there for you) and talk about it.
I'm an American, living in SE Asia, and Ellen might be able to back me up on this: Having your own bed to sleep in. Here, it's a custom for the whole family to sleep together, in a great big giant bed together, and the kids wouldn't have it any other way. The day a girl gets her own bed, is usually the day she goes shopping for he first bras. I'm a dad, and I don't make the rules, but there's many a night that I wish I had my own bed to sleep in.
The girl with the migraines I relate to I can't fall asleep till 1-3:30 am and so on the weekends I want to sleep in. My mom lets me sleep till noon because she understands my dad says we can sleep in till 9 but never lets us on week days when I do fall asleep early he will make tons of noise at four when he leaves the house.
Day 9 of saying yuh:
Yuh♥️✨♥️♥️✨✨✨
Your videos are so amazing slay queen 👑
Question what site are you reading these stories from
Ellen im.super sorry that I am soo late late like almost a day late but something happened with my great grandma so i couldn't click on the video on time but this video was sad too I wouldn't wish any of this upon the worst person In the world because what happend to these people was awful but stay happy and healthy ellen and coco love yall 💜💜💜
My dad has a better relationship with me than my brother 😅 it's because I'm literally the reincarnation of my dad and hang out with him more, my brother just stays in his room. my dad would love to hangout with him. I feel bad for my dad because he didn't get to have a bond with us when we were baby's. He is trying to make up for it and I have a amazing bond with him. I feel bad for my brother too he doesn't get to have the bond that I share with our dad. I grew up feeling I was Brother's mom figure even though I am the younger sibling. I also feel bad because if you were a stranger to my family you would think I'm the favorite but my dad doesn't have one... My mom on the other hand has a fav and it's my brother. I don't really care because he needs it. She doesn't care about anyone but herself, she barely cares about my brother and he's her favorite. I would tell more but that would be to much information.
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