Decluttering Life: Choosing What to Keep

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  • Own less. Do less. Declutter. Simplify.
    And you might be surprised at how much more you will accomplish.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 84

  • @TheArtofImprovement
    @TheArtofImprovement  6 років тому +54

    "Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." *- Leonardo da Vinci*
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    The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo
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    • @karenwaters1926
      @karenwaters1926 6 років тому +4

      Said the man who created some of the most intricate and complicated drawings and designs ever.

    • @pathtoknowledge6847
      @pathtoknowledge6847 6 років тому

      Super video

  • @Musika1220
    @Musika1220 5 років тому +64

    I am not asking myself : does that bring me joy? but instead I ask myself : if my house burns down, would I buy that thing again?

  • @MosesEmmet
    @MosesEmmet 6 років тому +93

    Sometimes you have to remove toxic people from your life too!

    • @zbynekcodykolacek
      @zbynekcodykolacek 6 років тому +2

      Moses Emmet Exactly... but that is easy!

    • @domobran23r
      @domobran23r 6 років тому

      @@zbynekcodykolacek How is that easy?

    • @Reelbuzz247
      @Reelbuzz247 6 років тому +5

      @@domobran23r always speak truth, soon they'll vanish

    • @domobran23r
      @domobran23r 6 років тому +5

      @@Reelbuzz247 Haven't tryed that before, but dam i think ill sound like asshole, but then.. They deserve it.

    • @77777aol
      @77777aol 5 років тому +2

      @@Reelbuzz247 : Yes, 'honesty is a relative virtue' !

  • @JakeBauman
    @JakeBauman 6 років тому +84

    But when we really delve into the reasons for why we can't let something go, there are only two: an attachment to the past or a fear for the future

    • @May570
      @May570 6 років тому +9

      We keep a thing to trigger the memory. Take a picture of the thing. Create a photo album of picture memories and let the 'thing' go. :-)

    • @Anthroid9
      @Anthroid9 5 років тому +3

      May570 very good idea... but at the same time, trying to let go of the past or trying to overcome your fear can make you stronger in the end

    • @rodeogirl8459
      @rodeogirl8459 4 роки тому

      Attachment to the future as well :)

  • @BeOz3
    @BeOz3 6 років тому +11

    We need minimalism and simplicity in digital/virtual world, too. Material design is an example.

  • @kayleeryann6182
    @kayleeryann6182 5 років тому +3

    Thank you so much for ensuring your captions are correct for any HOH/ deaf viewers or just those that prefer to use captions!

  • @doverbeachcomber
    @doverbeachcomber 5 років тому +15

    “If you want a golden rule that will fit everybody, this is it: Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful.” (William Morris, 1880)
    Morris’ Arts &Crafts movement was a reaction to the fussy clutter that had begun to dominate Victorian home interiors. Our contemporary clutter looks different, but the remedy’s the same.

  • @close-upwithkamalika1461
    @close-upwithkamalika1461 3 роки тому +1

    This is so good! Thank you thank you. This evening I felt like crying, because I keep moving things around and have reached a place where I'm in limbo.
    This video has given me light. I've made a list and will work on it. Thank you again.

  • @TheLifeFormulaa
    @TheLifeFormulaa 6 років тому +15

    Decluttering your life makes you more stress free

  • @TheIllerX
    @TheIllerX 6 років тому +31

    Simple, but powerful advice and something one can start doing immediately.
    However, one cannot think too black and white here. Even if you don't love anything specifically, it can still be necessary to keep, like your toothbrush.

    • @BurgundyandBlue1111
      @BurgundyandBlue1111 6 років тому +8

      Great point. There is a lot of stuff that I don't love that are just necessary. For example, I don't like a lot of my furniture anymore, but I am not in a position financially to replace them and I need places to sit/sleep/work. Most of the time you won't be able to pawn off your undesirable work tasks onto others because they don't like those tasks either.
      This is wonderful in theory but more challenging to implement fully in reality.

  • @ArturoCabello
    @ArturoCabello 6 років тому +6

    Love your quotes!
    "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change!"
    It’s all about perspective! And you are right. Simplicity is the way to go. We begin to soar when things don’t weigh us down.

  • @lindaharrison3240
    @lindaharrison3240 5 років тому +6

    Getting a colonoscopy does not spark joy. But it could save my life. Having a root canal absolutely does not spark joy, but if I need one, I had better get it or I'll be miserable and incapacitated. Paying taxes does not spark joy, but if I don;t want to go to jail, I must "render unto Ceasar what is Ceasar's." The idea that we should discard everything from our lives that does not spark joy is absurd, even childish in some ways. Marie Kondo has a few good ideas, but this one has pulled the wool over a lot of folks' eyes.

    • @harrietcraig7817
      @harrietcraig7817 3 роки тому

      God I wish that chick never would have used the word “joy.”
      It’s ridiculous and basically meaningless if you think about it. Even minimalists have utilitarian things that wouldn’t make it on the “joy” list.

  • @ResourceTalks
    @ResourceTalks 6 років тому +9

    *Choosing the minimalist lifestyle was one of the best decisions that I made in 2018.*
    *That made me over 5000 dollars (from decluttering) and freed up space in my house that I now can use to make the quality of life even better.*
    *The money is invested in safe and secure stocks that should be growing over the next few years and when they reach my goal amount I am planning on using that money to buy myself some extra time in which I don't HAVE to work and can enjoy life the way I want.*

  • @handcraftedconstruction438
    @handcraftedconstruction438 4 роки тому +2

    I had finally reached part of this conclusion, but this verbalized what I have intuitively been feeling and leaning towards. Thank you!!

  • @sbenderli6931
    @sbenderli6931 6 років тому +9

    U have one of the best channels on youtube thank u indeed

  • @Zenas521
    @Zenas521 5 років тому +7

    I know of a parent that could benefit greatly from this advice. Unfortunately, they don't think hording is a problem.

  • @Heavy2deep
    @Heavy2deep 6 років тому +1

    Thank you! Your ability to simply complex ideas in to digestible information is unmatched!

  • @mindsetmastery9022
    @mindsetmastery9022 6 років тому +18

    This is the real problem with people these days. Modern day media and quests for extravagant lifestyles have made life very complicated. Minimalism is probably the solution.

  • @luftballonproducciones3067
    @luftballonproducciones3067 5 років тому

    I just randomly selected one of your videos to comment this: I watch one of your videos everyday since I found your channel. It inspires, makes you feel powerful, it helps you learn about yourself and the things you’re doing wrong, and the advices are endless. Thank you for sharing!!!

  • @swaguilar_
    @swaguilar_ 6 років тому +23

    I forgot to add the microwave to the list. I guess I don't need it. 😭

  • @Lance54689
    @Lance54689 5 років тому +2

    I've never found this works for me, I come at it the opposite direction. I find it easier to remove the worst thing than determine the best thing. This may be more gradual, but over time I get to a similar place.

  • @mannyjeanpierre4062
    @mannyjeanpierre4062 6 років тому +2

    dont know how i found this channel but I thank God I did. Great vid man

  • @JoinMrSmart
    @JoinMrSmart 6 років тому +1

    Your video is simple, yet very effective.

  • @GeekyMino
    @GeekyMino 6 років тому +4

    Great message. I totally agree. Simple is best and the minimalism lifestyle works great for me :)

  • @findvoltage
    @findvoltage 2 роки тому

    Ill give it a bash. Thank you!

  • @zbynekcodykolacek
    @zbynekcodykolacek 6 років тому +11

    Minimalism, the ultimate way, how to safe the planet... I work on it, my goal is to be able, to pack my life in Toyota 4 runner. (Maybe small U-Haul behind it).

  • @lMiniD2
    @lMiniD2 2 роки тому

    I don't love my vacuum cleaner, but I need it!

  • @steadyprogress4563
    @steadyprogress4563 3 роки тому

    I like the lil music at the end 😂 great advice! I think I’m realizing that visuals help me understand myself and other things much more than a bunch of organized words. Plus the English language is already confusing as it is. I really appreciate your content.

  • @Kermit1479Clips
    @Kermit1479Clips 4 роки тому

    Another great you tube video. Definitely will try it. Thank you sir.

  • @mustardseed123
    @mustardseed123 3 роки тому

    I love lamp

  • @arielvagus1618
    @arielvagus1618 6 років тому +2

    Once you develop strong boundaries, then it's very easy to declutter.

  • @Yakone
    @Yakone 5 років тому

    Beyond love this video!

  • @AnneDreux
    @AnneDreux 4 роки тому

    Buena capacidad de síntesis!

  • @marcusbystrom8462
    @marcusbystrom8462 5 років тому

    This is great!!

  • @maestrodehabitos8691
    @maestrodehabitos8691 6 років тому

    Very good book and video. Thank you very much for sharing

  • @reytheon486
    @reytheon486 6 років тому

    Great content as always mate!

  • @ReadAndGrow
    @ReadAndGrow 6 років тому

    Great work! Thanks for the video :)

  • @motivationalstories7712
    @motivationalstories7712 6 років тому

    awesome video..learning a lot from you

  • @Jaqaroo
    @Jaqaroo 4 роки тому

    Very useful video. Also I thought not having music with the chapter titles works much better.

  • @HarrietShearsmith
    @HarrietShearsmith 6 років тому +1

    Oh this is so helpful, I'm terrible!

  • @muzzey63
    @muzzey63 6 років тому

    Pill cool man
    Wow
    Life is simple
    With less
    And you feel more free
    Wow I watched it 5 times
    I'm one row

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 6 років тому +5

    Simplicity is the best way to live.

  • @thedeepend4419
    @thedeepend4419 5 років тому +24

    I personally hated that book, its so repetitive and over-hyped, there are way better books out there on minimalism and simple living. Also, just because you don't love something it doesn't mean that you won't need it. My fork or spoon may not directly bring joy to my life but they are certainly useful when needed.

    • @davidforrest1665
      @davidforrest1665 5 років тому +4

      danny d
      Exactly. And I’m not going to list every useful thing I own, whether it brings me joy or not.

    • @unsane604
      @unsane604 5 років тому +2

      @bubblez Don't they though? My fork, spoon, knife and plate bring me immense joy through nourishment.

    • @blondego56
      @blondego56 4 роки тому +1

      ... then apparently weren't paying complete attention and missed certain points...😒

  • @JustHereToHear
    @JustHereToHear 5 років тому +3

    Suppose I didn't put something like my bed on the list, do I get rid of it?

  • @judymartin5031
    @judymartin5031 6 років тому

    Great

  • @MikeAnn193
    @MikeAnn193 5 років тому +7

    2:50 - "Everything that you didn't write down on any of those lists doesn't bring you joy.... They do not bring you happiness. If they did they would be on your list.... And these are the things that you should remove from your life." I'm sorry, but _that's ridiculous._ This video suggests that I can sit for ten, thirty or however-many minutes and think of every thing, task, place, co-worker and leisure activity that brings me joy. That seems to assume I have a perfect computer-like memory of everything in my house and a very limited set of interests OR that every other thing that brings me joy is going to come to me in the time it takes to do that exercise. COME ON. You specifically say "don't go around looking for things to love, just write down what comes to mind." If I haven't had a good night's sleep or I'm distracted or feeling depressed or irritated or anxious or under the weather there's a good chance I'm going to miss even some important items for the list!
    On top of that, life can't be neatly reduced to just three areas: things, work, and leisure. What about relationships? What about health? What about dreams & goals? I readily admit that I tend to overthink things and to collect things -- hence my attraction to this video -- but the proposed solution seems oversimplified and even reckless. I'm not going to remove everything from my life that didn't pop into my head during that one thought session!
    Having said that, I agree with the basic premise of reducing in many ways so that I can focus on what I love, and I've had that attitude for several years.

    • @donnymartn
      @donnymartn 5 років тому

      MikeAnn193 and that’s why your life sucks.

    • @theemperor129
      @theemperor129 4 роки тому

      MikeAnn193 and this is why you do more than one thought session.

  • @rolandosierra2289
    @rolandosierra2289 6 років тому

    I love my life

  • @letgo1064
    @letgo1064 5 років тому

    🌹

  • @TausifRaza7
    @TausifRaza7 5 років тому

    How can I learn to make such sketches

  • @TausifRaza7
    @TausifRaza7 5 років тому

    Can anyone help me know how to make such sketches

  • @unclecharlie7881
    @unclecharlie7881 5 років тому

    I threw out my trash can...now what do I do?

  • @thisisbob1001
    @thisisbob1001 5 років тому +1

    Chuck anything not used in 12 mohths

  • @indiansoftwareengineer4899
    @indiansoftwareengineer4899 6 років тому +2

    I wanted to be like Elon Musk,
    Please tell me how to...
    I am 21 now.

    • @BenHauMusic
      @BenHauMusic 5 років тому

      Do what you love. He's a monster when it comes to doing what he's good at (i.e. programming and engineering), he spends every minute awake thinking about his work - coupled with a naive vision/mission of saving humanity - he's doing great things. Read his biography written by Ashlee Vance. You'll be surprised what a hard-working and kind man he is.

  • @trudyward2135
    @trudyward2135 6 років тому

    B

  • @hondacr250hrc4
    @hondacr250hrc4 6 років тому +8

    The way of jesus its the good life