story one: congrats op. you did the right thing... for Luke. YOU were wasting HIS time, he wasn't wasting yours. There are so many red flags with you, i'm surprised it took an ultimatum from you for him to see them. smh Story two: you weren't making her trauma about you; you had no idea why she was doing it. You wanted to know. She told you. You're working on things together, which is the point.
Why OP is the problem but not Luke? He doesn't have the balls to tell her that he doesn't want to get marry with her, she lost 3 years in that relationship for nothing, Luke is the AH for not being honest and give her hope of a wedding and a formal family.
@@ValeriaValentinaMarvalSa-ol5vb Right, because she suddenly forfeits any responsibility by assuming he was on the same page before finding out via an ultimatum brought on by her A-type friend? (We don't know how long THAT relationship is going to last, but i can't imagine someone that obsessed with a timeline is going to stick around if something bad happens to Rick. "Paraplegic interrupting timeline, time to find another guy". ) All we get is her perspective, and she's trying SO. HARD. to make herself not sound like the bad guy. If a guy said he expects to get married, own a house, and have kids within a set period of time, What would you do?
Elise and Rick they are in the same page, I doubt that they have a break up because they have something that OP and Luke don't have, that is communication. For your knowledge, the relationships also have a expire date, because you and the other person are losing time fouling around instead to find out somebody else that could fill yours expectations. I like a person who is completely honest with me, instead a guy like Luke that give false hope of things that are completely normal especially in the years they have in a relationship, they don't have 1 year of relationship, it's 3, I don't know what it's your "perfect time" to get marry, have a house and kids but OP it's the last person to be blame. Luke is a manipulator and narcissist btch.
Luke wanted to break up for ages and didn't have the balls to do it.
Op is such a jerk in this case I’m sorry..
story one: congrats op. you did the right thing... for Luke. YOU were wasting HIS time, he wasn't wasting yours. There are so many red flags with you, i'm surprised it took an ultimatum from you for him to see them. smh
Story two: you weren't making her trauma about you; you had no idea why she was doing it. You wanted to know. She told you. You're working on things together, which is the point.
Why OP is the problem but not Luke? He doesn't have the balls to tell her that he doesn't want to get marry with her, she lost 3 years in that relationship for nothing, Luke is the AH for not being honest and give her hope of a wedding and a formal family.
@@ValeriaValentinaMarvalSa-ol5vb Right, because she suddenly forfeits any responsibility by assuming he was on the same page before finding out via an ultimatum brought on by her A-type friend? (We don't know how long THAT relationship is going to last, but i can't imagine someone that obsessed with a timeline is going to stick around if something bad happens to Rick. "Paraplegic interrupting timeline, time to find another guy". )
All we get is her perspective, and she's trying SO. HARD. to make herself not sound like the bad guy.
If a guy said he expects to get married, own a house, and have kids within a set period of time, What would you do?
Elise and Rick they are in the same page, I doubt that they have a break up because they have something that OP and Luke don't have, that is communication.
For your knowledge, the relationships also have a expire date, because you and the other person are losing time fouling around instead to find out somebody else that could fill yours expectations.
I like a person who is completely honest with me, instead a guy like Luke that give false hope of things that are completely normal especially in the years they have in a relationship, they don't have 1 year of relationship, it's 3, I don't know what it's your "perfect time" to get marry, have a house and kids but OP it's the last person to be blame.
Luke is a manipulator and narcissist btch.