Dating Expert Reacts to BIG ED and ROSE on 90 DAY FIANCÉ

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  • @MyName-bw1kz
    @MyName-bw1kz 4 роки тому +951

    Regarding the whole planning thing, I'm a bit confused. Should I still plan dates or dinner nights?

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +240

      Yes

    • @MyName-bw1kz
      @MyName-bw1kz 4 роки тому +98

      @@AnthonyRecenello Wait so like, do I for example plan: taking a walk, having lunch and then maybe sit by the ocean but not plan what happens within those situations? Still a bit confused hahaha

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +367

      My Name Are you in a committed relationship with this person? Plan everything if you want. Are you “courting” someone? I’d keep planning to a minimum. Focus on the friendship and not on the romance.

    • @MyName-bw1kz
      @MyName-bw1kz 4 роки тому +125

      @@AnthonyRecenello Ooh gotcha! Makes sense ngl. Thank you!!

    • @priskennedy9751
      @priskennedy9751 4 роки тому +3

      OMG

  • @butterflygirl141
    @butterflygirl141 4 роки тому +5154

    He’s not focused on building a relationship with her, he’s trying to see if she fits into the fantasy he’s imagined for himself.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +451

      Boom!

    • @awetistic5295
      @awetistic5295 4 роки тому +251

      Sadly, she was too intelligent, both cognitive and emotionally.

    • @lovarols5161
      @lovarols5161 4 роки тому +86

      @@AnthonyRecenello sadly I see this from some Foreigners like him coming to my country, Philippines

    • @intrigue8664
      @intrigue8664 4 роки тому +21

      @@awetistic5295 Yeah... *sadly* lol

    • @LtZerge
      @LtZerge 4 роки тому +39

      @@lovarols5161 Some cultures adapt around it. Girls get trained in how to seduce wealthy foreigners so they can help get resources for their families, but it almost always breeds unhealthy relationships. A lot of the time the women eventually crack and try to leave, at some point no amount of money is worth that loss of dignity

  • @mehergill8567
    @mehergill8567 4 роки тому +4365

    Quite horrible of him to use, manipulate and attempt to groom her into some fantasy of his. Glad she knows her worth.

    • @anthonyc1377
      @anthonyc1377 4 роки тому +25

      daniel jackson fucking weak 😂

    • @mehergill8567
      @mehergill8567 4 роки тому +213

      @@danieljackson4965 If petty remarks minimising the millions of women exploited or forced into sex work and human trafficking for 2 minutes of internet fame is enough validation for your inflated ego, go for it :)

    • @BoboFattt
      @BoboFattt 4 роки тому +6

      Hes not some god of love. Hes a loser whose finally had a chance. Leave him alone

    • @AhmedKhan-dv6kf
      @AhmedKhan-dv6kf 4 роки тому +1

      Meher Gill as bad as it is, he’s right

    • @justwatching5617
      @justwatching5617 4 роки тому +11

      @@BoboFattt yea, he gets hit with charges in the US. That's why he went to another country

  • @BluKittenExtensions
    @BluKittenExtensions 4 роки тому +3349

    Ed wanted a naive, desperate woman who he could manipulate, control, and show off. He treats her like a pet. Ed has the emotional maturity of a rock.

    • @galaxyglitterlatte4664
      @galaxyglitterlatte4664 4 роки тому +106

      Yeah. And she's just supposed to be grateful that he was going to "rescue" her so much so that he thinks he can get away with lying to her and insulting her time and time again in front of millions of people.

    • @stephaniemckay6654
      @stephaniemckay6654 4 роки тому +59

      He doesn't want a wife he wants a pretty pet.

    • @sarahkubat305
      @sarahkubat305 4 роки тому +8

      Bombolurina and the body 💀

    • @rachel4235
      @rachel4235 4 роки тому +22

      Bombolurina, i agree with you for 1000%
      What a big manipulator he treats her like she come from other planet, what a little child this man. 😂😂😂

    • @roxannamonhollen4133
      @roxannamonhollen4133 4 роки тому +5

      God knows what hes doing to poor Teddy his little dog LOL

  • @moznis
    @moznis 4 роки тому +1368

    doesnt ur back hurt... from carrying the dating industry's back.... and maybe from that awkward position ure sitting....

  • @tinaha7510
    @tinaha7510 4 роки тому +3664

    Your cringe face during the kiss was HILARIOUS. lmfaooO

  • @broebert
    @broebert 4 роки тому +4995

    Waiiiiiiit, she has to take a bath for sexy time but he doesn’t?

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 4 роки тому +523

      And he self admittedly smells like an egg sandwich

    • @Mezaph
      @Mezaph 4 роки тому +86

      Just like in American Psycho

    • @megankassa3633
      @megankassa3633 4 роки тому +217

      he doesnt take baths cuz he refuses to use conditioner like a normal person and uses mayo

    • @amstevens23
      @amstevens23 4 роки тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @sashypooh409
      @sashypooh409 4 роки тому +7

      @@megankassa3633 🤪😂🤣ew

  • @garnet9788
    @garnet9788 4 роки тому +530

    What pissed me off the most is that he told her he didn’t want anymore kids AFTER he has sex with her 🤬🤬🤬

    • @mikaylaj-w16
      @mikaylaj-w16 4 роки тому +8

      Garnet97 fr tho! UHGGG!!!!

    • @dreaming4ffr
      @dreaming4ffr 4 роки тому +17

      I mean... he deflects anything he did onto her... if you see him or hear him speaking about it right now, it's discusting. Ed is a fcking joke, as a human being, not because he looks funny

    • @TheNuyorker
      @TheNuyorker 4 роки тому +1

      Me tooooo

    • @erentheyeagerist7174
      @erentheyeagerist7174 4 роки тому

      Your not alone @Garnet97

    • @pissant959
      @pissant959 4 роки тому +1

      The worst thing is, he might've nutted in her while she's not on the pill.

  • @KM-mw3jp
    @KM-mw3jp 4 роки тому +460

    “I’ve been coaching people for the last 15 years”
    Dude I thought you were like 20-25.

  • @23magneta
    @23magneta 4 роки тому +2766

    The sad thing is Rose actually had sex with him. I have no idea how she was able to do this without throwing up. Give this girl a Green Card already! She really earned it!

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 4 роки тому +446

      I think he lied about it.
      She denies it happened and I mean she could just be saying so because she's embarrassed BUT Ed has a history of lying and Rose doesn't so 🤷

    • @lovemyanimals7433
      @lovemyanimals7433 4 роки тому +226

      I know right? The thought of kissing this human toe makes me throw up in my mouth. I really hope she didn’t have sex with him. I feel SO BAD for her if they did.

    • @mayarigames7631
      @mayarigames7631 4 роки тому +99

      Well he did get her drunk, so.....

    • @monam.5923
      @monam.5923 4 роки тому +48

      Anneed Milk Tea
      All the booze and drugs wouldn’t erase that night.

    • @eyezodiotic3197
      @eyezodiotic3197 4 роки тому +119

      He kinda manipulated her while she's intoxicated...
      So I'm not surprised but still disgusted by him

  • @trianautamii
    @trianautamii 4 роки тому +2517

    He is grooming. Like old pervs grooming a child

    • @maszamap3888
      @maszamap3888 4 роки тому +41

      Triana - i heard he just got onto the show to get famous

    • @qwaasa85
      @qwaasa85 4 роки тому +4

      Your jelly its not you with big ed :)

    • @antoinetteTVset
      @antoinetteTVset 4 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/ODbh7S0tqI4/v-deo.html

    • @trianautamii
      @trianautamii 4 роки тому +10

      @@qwaasa85 huh?

    • @zoemongeau8704
      @zoemongeau8704 4 роки тому +40

      @@qwaasa85
      😂 You're a true joker. The only thing I'm jelly about is his excess supply of mayonaise. Boy was ready for the quarantine before it popped up. 😉

  • @lukagregory4174
    @lukagregory4174 4 роки тому +152

    The poor girl had sex with him, that’s 7 seconds of her life she’s never getting back

  • @DaniBearrrr
    @DaniBearrrr 4 роки тому +435

    ed: “sit down right here. yea, on your butt.” ....👁👄👁 was she supposed to sit on her head or something?

  • @chocokat97
    @chocokat97 4 роки тому +1446

    Ed wasn’t expecting rose to be a smart, emotionally mature woman that he couldn’t fool lol that wasn’t part of his plan. Rosemarie can do sooo much better than that dude I hope she gets a modeling contract or something

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +257

      FUCKING EXACTLY

    • @arago90
      @arago90 4 роки тому +9

      Let me tell you i dated a filipino girl for two years we where both 24 and they are not the nicest people i met their family and ive worked a lot with them and i know theres a lot of different people but young pretty girls are usually just thinking about money and getting out of that country to a point its FUCKING SCARY

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +158

      And somehow Rose opted out of “getting out of that country”.

    • @chocokat97
      @chocokat97 4 роки тому +127

      arago90 roses family seemed so nice tho. I feel like she chose to keep her dignity when she chose to not stay w that man. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @arago90
      @arago90 4 роки тому +2

      Of course they hate being the center of attention they always like to stay lowkey but believe me I’ve seen it with my own eyes that they just stay outside and how the law works to get a visa for the us they need to put a house as a collateral if they stay in the us I know at least five girls that they stayed in the us and their families either lost their home or almost lost it this is completely true

  • @ramayanaroxas5457
    @ramayanaroxas5457 4 роки тому +974

    Him cringing and gagging... was me the whole time

  • @JosephineTakahashi
    @JosephineTakahashi 4 роки тому +434

    First I'm binge watching therapist reacts to 90 days, and now here I am.... Binge watching dating expert reacting to Rose and ed

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +52

      Which one did you like more? Don’t worry you can tell the truth it’s me right

    • @JosephineTakahashi
      @JosephineTakahashi 4 роки тому +64

      @@AnthonyRecenello I like this one better 😂 because your reactions are so much relatable 😂

    • @itskaybe6348
      @itskaybe6348 4 роки тому +25

      I honestly prefer Dr. Honda. These are definitely entertaining and relatable but I feel like Dr. Honda has taught me so much about how I interact in my own relationships.

    • @stephanieroylance5033
      @stephanieroylance5033 4 роки тому +7

      @@itskaybe6348 same , we can learn different points from both people . Dr Honda teaches us ways to identity signs that we can benefit from deeper therapy sessions .

    • @julesedwards4495
      @julesedwards4495 4 роки тому +9

      @@itskaybe6348 ditto. I appreciate Anthony's I put, but I feel Dr Honda has helped me see the people on the show as more of PEOPLE, trying to date with their traumas, coping mechanisms, communication styles, etc. He's seriously like a free psychology course and I feel like a better person from watching his channel. ♥️

  • @kirikakirikakirika
    @kirikakirikakirika 4 роки тому +468

    Of course he talks to her like she's a child. She's younger than his own freakin' daughter!

  • @ethellochrose6531
    @ethellochrose6531 4 роки тому +1390

    The worst part about this ordeal is that Ed is making money off of his negative publicity, getting sponsored, creating merch while Rosemary is still where she was before. She deserves better man, I'm so pissed

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +112

      Good point

    • @JoseSanchez-ro4nf
      @JoseSanchez-ro4nf 4 роки тому +10

      Ethel Lochrose omg really wtf

    • @fedditpiccolo1642
      @fedditpiccolo1642 4 роки тому +49

      Chill out for a sec there are thousands of people from around the world donating to rose. she does cameos her UA-cam channel got 200k + subscribers her IG got 300k followers rose is going to be making$$$

    • @umbreondark7837
      @umbreondark7837 4 роки тому +23

      She have her own youtube channel now. :)

    • @wendellx2021
      @wendellx2021 4 роки тому +39

      She has a UA-cam page and Instagram account go show her support and love

  • @tokyomootsie
    @tokyomootsie 4 роки тому +1694

    This whole exchange is so childish and transactional. Yikes. He's treating her like a doll... you go here. you do this. you feel this way. if I do this then you will do/feel that. Bleh.

    • @antoniamonet8497
      @antoniamonet8497 4 роки тому

      M FH transactional ? He never paid her

    • @LtZerge
      @LtZerge 4 роки тому +26

      It's the Ikea furniture approach to relationship building. So very forced. Obviously both partners should want each other to be happy, but this is that old school PUA tactic of calculated results. Then if things don't go exactly as you pre-planned, you get mad, instead of understanding the real human you're dealing with.
      Especially in Ed's case, he is incredibly goal oriented all the time. This obsession with producing specific results turns into manipulation too easily.

    • @b52270
      @b52270 4 роки тому +4

      Yes yet she submitted to this ugly man she wasn't even attracted to. She knew what was happening. All for the hopes of marrying for a green card.

    • @gaylesmith898
      @gaylesmith898 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah Makes me think that he has done some "transactions" with professionals. 😉

    • @ChessyMcCutcheon
      @ChessyMcCutcheon 4 роки тому +1

      he treats her like a narcist treats his golden person

  • @caramel_rxse3951
    @caramel_rxse3951 4 роки тому +241

    Notice how when he asked for a kiss on he lips she didn't say anything she didn't even say Yes she said "sure" and not even in a happy way kinda like "If your not going to leave me alone until I say yes then I guess so"

  • @Max_Jordan
    @Max_Jordan 4 роки тому +390

    Guys, stop writing mean comments 😠
    Anthony can't ❤ them all

  • @aniyacooper6094
    @aniyacooper6094 4 роки тому +1267

    I hate how he talks to her like shes a young child

    • @LtZerge
      @LtZerge 4 роки тому +94

      At first I thought maybe he's just trying to get through the language barrier but it's not entirely it. It's in his pitch and tone, it's creepy

    • @amandaandrew6169
      @amandaandrew6169 4 роки тому +7

      Pat Samson right?!

    • @o1_99k
      @o1_99k 4 роки тому +36

      The fact Rose is younger than his own daughter though 👁👄👁

    • @hairbeauty8083
      @hairbeauty8083 4 роки тому +14

      I mean she is younger than his daughter so in a way she is a child compared to him. When he asks about her past I think dude you got 30 years on her like how much more past u got

    • @kiera6326
      @kiera6326 4 роки тому +2

      He speaks to his daughter in pretty much the same tone.

  • @lovarols5161
    @lovarols5161 4 роки тому +735

    Things I would like to point out:
    *If he was genuinely in love with her, he would show respect to her family. How he acted while he was inside their home showed major disrespect.
    *He never researched about the culture, language, customaries. He had major White Saviour complex thinking he is above all this. And that she is the one that needs to adjust to him and his "culture"
    *He's always worried about her being a golddiger, and that she might be in cahoots with her sister. But you know what, he never even had the compassion to spare a dollar to help repair their roof, take her to the doctor to have her ulcer treated. And Rose never asked money from him, nor asked him to spend money to buy materialistic things.
    *He never bonded with her son. Yes It was wrong of Rose to teach her son to call him "daddy". But she saw a future with him. He didn't unfortunately.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +143

      He wanted to leave her family as fast as he got there. You’re so right.

    • @lovarols5161
      @lovarols5161 4 роки тому +17

      @@AnthonyRecenello yes. And he was being "polite" for the camera asking her dad's permission for respect. 😒

    • @justwatching5617
      @justwatching5617 4 роки тому +22

      He's from San Diego. Less than 10 miles from Mexico. He knows what to expect. He's seen conditions like that before. He's pretending for the cameras

    • @mechadoggy
      @mechadoggy 4 роки тому +2

      Wait, Big Ed is white? I thought he was Hispanic.

    • @taeminislove
      @taeminislove 4 роки тому +18

      Another thing to note is if rose was a golddigger, she would've taken him to the mall when he offered to buy her pajamas. Instead she just took him to cheap stores aroud the sidewalks.

  • @la_gobba_di_aigor
    @la_gobba_di_aigor 4 роки тому +133

    In all this sad situation what I find deeply satisfiying is how smart and emotionally intelligent she is. I hope someone will notice her and give her an opportunity to use her intelligence to make something useful and also profitable for her because she deserves it so much and it would be a pity for everybody otherwise

  • @stevendunkley8890
    @stevendunkley8890 4 роки тому +105

    Another point to make is that a room service champagne dinner is only truly romantic and meaningful if you actually pay for it yourself rather than getting your reality TV show to cover the costs. According to Rose, TLC footed the bill for all their dates.

  • @hannahfromkentucky3864
    @hannahfromkentucky3864 4 роки тому +427

    “You’re the queen and I am the....who am I?”
    Making her say he’s the King - um - RED FLAG.
    And I love your advice about never acting or saying anything in order to get something from someone else. Great thing for people to remember when they are accustomed to being inauthentic or manipulating others for gain.

  • @Roman_Adrian
    @Roman_Adrian 4 роки тому +717

    He scheduled their "first kiss". The anticipation, the moment is suppose to take your breath away but he just took all the magic out of it and made it clinical. Robotic. Transactional.

    • @plipplop1769
      @plipplop1769 4 роки тому +6

      I agree that in his case, yes. There wasn't any tension in it and he obviously planned for it to happen on this night. However I don't agree with what Anthony said in this video, I would like to be asked during my first kiss, it shows consideration. There will be tension, yes, but before the action actually takes place I don't see the problem with asking, it shows consideration as me or the other person may be reading the situation wrong. It's hard to really know whether the other person wants it or not.

    • @Roman_Adrian
      @Roman_Adrian 4 роки тому +8

      @@plipplop1769 Absolutely, I couldn't agree more on that point. Just, the way he went about it felt tense, pushed or pressuring; rather than polite, after reading her. It was as if he didn't need her for this moment at all, just clearing a romantic checklist. But yes, a soft "May I Kiss You?", "Would You Mind, If I Kissed You?", "Is It Okay To Kiss You?", "Would It Be Alright..." and so on are gentle ways to carefully consider someone while keeping things romantic. Just the act alone, shows how much you respect them. I absolutely agree.

    • @eroccha
      @eroccha 4 роки тому +1

      @@plipplop1769 You may like to be asked but most want it to be fluid. When it is fluid it is asked without words. You don't just pounce and kiss. You lean in slowly for a kiss. The leaning in is the question. If she pulls back she is saying no and you completely misread the moment.

    • @plipplop1769
      @plipplop1769 4 роки тому

      @@eroccha But I think it's wrong to say never do it, or it is completely a wrong move to do so. I may have gotten the wrong impression, but from the way he described it as, it didn't even feel as if it was looking for permission without words as you said, but just going for it.

    • @eroccha
      @eroccha 4 роки тому

      @@plipplop1769 I see what you mean. Yeah I would not just go for it. To me that is not romantic but just kind of awkward. I'm a straight male so this may seem weird to some but I want that first kiss to be romantic. I love that nervous feeling just before the kiss. Wondering does she like me this way? Then the feeling as we kiss knowing now she does like me this way. That's why for me I don't want to learn it through a verbal yes because I like that knowledge and feeling of her liking me mixed in with the actual kiss. But that is just my preference. I will say I have never misread the moment luckily I usually am slow to realize when I am kiss her. Usually I hear after "I have been wondering when you would get around to that?".

  • @twinklestar1744
    @twinklestar1744 4 роки тому +49

    “Romance is not planed, romance should be a feeling” So good said but not many people understands it

  • @isabellahaz
    @isabellahaz 4 роки тому +108

    All the gifts he gives her are really just gifts for himself

  • @helenmcconnell643
    @helenmcconnell643 4 роки тому +732

    The horrifying thing is, is that nobody is that much of an idiot. He must have know that she was uncomfortable and he just continued pushing for what he wanted. So manipulative!

    • @insomniacspillowfortarmy5776
      @insomniacspillowfortarmy5776 4 роки тому +30

      He probably thought she's super young(so not as smart and maybe desperate), wants a green card, wants a better life with money so I can say, do and treat her however I want hell even treat her so badly and she will just take my shit because she wants a better life with all that. She will have to accept not having kids to have this life with me. And then nope not with you Ed! She breaks up with him and he's all *shocked Pikachu face* and annoyingly doesn't understand why and plays the "victim"

    • @carljacobson7156
      @carljacobson7156 4 роки тому +31

      I'd read that Ed's daughter and friends were against Ed going to the Philippines to see Rose - they thought that she was a possible scammer or prostitute. This is probably why Ed kept pressuring Rose to reveal her sex history and take an STD test.
      The problem is that Ed has HORRIBLE people skills, has no empathy, is a manipulative passive-aggressive jerk and then paints himself as the victim afterwards.

    • @37thraven
      @37thraven 4 роки тому +14

      @Helen McConnell It's not idiocy, just obliviousness. It's closer to what@@carljacobson7156 said. He's lonely, and admitted to being desperate for long enough, that he's already imagine and pre-planned everything for years. He's not actually seeing her reactions for what they are, but rather desperately trying anything hoping to get a positive reaction, and self-centered /self-deluded enough, to assume that sex is a likelihood, based on their online chats. i.e. self aware but absolutely social-unaware. And not aware enough to realize that acting this way will make sure that anyone that could be interested will be put off.
      I haven't watched the whole episode - just enough to know that someone like him doesn't pursue international dating without a reason...

    • @eroccha
      @eroccha 4 роки тому +4

      @@carljacobson7156 Yeah but in 10 minutes most people could tell she is not a scammer or prostitute. The sex history and STD thing is just flat out insecurity because he knows what his sex appeal is. His daughter and friends did not need to say anything and he would have thought that. Did she choose an American for a green card? Probably. If it was me I wouldn't care if American was 1 of her qualifications for a man. I would want to know if she loved me. Was she a prostitute? Doubtful. I would not care. What she is now with me is all the matters. The sex history and STD test made no sense. She can just lie about her history. You can have sex with only 1 person and get an STD or 1000 people and never get one and never have sex and still get one. He still would have been insecure. All he did was hurt her feelings and push her away.

  • @Katie-yb5lx
    @Katie-yb5lx 4 роки тому +205

    I feel so much secondhand embarrassment listening to Ed force Rose to call him "her king" 🤢

    • @LtZerge
      @LtZerge 4 роки тому +10

      "SAY THE LINE!!"

  • @cassieminton6150
    @cassieminton6150 4 роки тому +77

    This is my first time seeing this scene and the whole time it gave me chills. You can obviously tell by her body language she was very uncomfortable and he completely ignored it. I realize some people aren't good at reading emotions in others but hers are so obvious that there's literally no way you couldn't tell she wasn't comfortable. He brought in champagne, maybe to even try to get her drunk/tipsy? He stated from the very beginning he was hoping for sex even though they hadn't even had their first kiss yet. He was telling her what to do, even instructing her to bath and what to wear was very weird, especially since they had just met in person. He seemed so predatory. I feel really bad for her after seeing this scene. She probably only slept with him because of the champagne honestly, he even said the next morning the champagne probably helped, which is another huge red flag. Trying to get someone to sleep with you by giving them alchohol is not okay. There's just so many things wrong here. He's truly a disgusting person

  • @handarule
    @handarule 4 роки тому +83

    I think every time someone watches the clip of Ed asking "Can I HALEEK you?" they should be required to venmo Rose $10.

  • @charlotte-zw9hb
    @charlotte-zw9hb 4 роки тому +332

    ed disgusts me like one of the episodes he said how it’s not feminine that she has hair on her legs which is just stupid when he’s putting mayonnaise in his hair and has no neck while he’s complaining about her breath and how she looks

    • @LtZerge
      @LtZerge 4 роки тому +46

      Ironically looks are all he seems to care about. I don't remember him ever sharing a genuine moment with rose or appreciating her personality.

    • @jessicamarie6448
      @jessicamarie6448 4 роки тому +19

      Pat Samson that’s because he was only there for his fantasy not to actually get to meet rose. He’s a horrible person smh

    • @carljacobson7156
      @carljacobson7156 4 роки тому +12

      @@LtZerge Fat Ed is a Sex Tourist

    • @turtlepetal
      @turtlepetal 4 роки тому +12

      I watched that episode he made her shave her legs it was after he slept with her. Everything about him makes me want to puke. I hope Rosemary didn't go through with it she can do so much better.

  • @sweetlullaby5156
    @sweetlullaby5156 4 роки тому +358

    I don't think he's treating her like a kid.. more he treats her like she's dumb, thinking she's poor so he belittles her all the time

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +59

      Yes

    • @cosmicrae
      @cosmicrae 4 роки тому +8

      Yes

    • @pupukah
      @pupukah 3 роки тому +15

      1:27 when he says "Can you do that?" Like wtf, she KNOWS how to put on a robe and slippers 😡 👊👊

    • @atomseve9858
      @atomseve9858 3 роки тому +10

      His behavior is riddled with racism.

  • @ash12317
    @ash12317 4 роки тому +76

    Why can't older men date women their age. Society treats women like they are pretty little accessories. Since I was a child I unconsciously felt a pressure to be "beautiful" so that I could be a good "girl ." Someone who is admired and praised. I felt like it was part of the role I was supposed to fulfill.

  • @MayNguyen
    @MayNguyen 4 роки тому +44

    Ok so, now I have Tristan Paredes for vocal coaching, Robert Welsh for makeup tips and Anthony Recenello for dating advices

    • @stella5926
      @stella5926 4 роки тому +6

      Brad Mondo for hairstyling tips

  • @regcla6667
    @regcla6667 4 роки тому +511

    Finally someone who sees how messed up that foot massage is scene is! Most people cringe because Ed is just a simply full cringe creature, but what made me uncomfortable is how he acts totally clueless to Rose's facial expressions because he feels entitled to having her...he is a creep, he's pushing himself onto her and it is predatory to me, it didn't matter that he asked permission because Rose Marie wasn't in a place where she could say no, I've been in that situation and it's awful, you feel like you have to even if you don't want to! I'm glad there is someone out there who would call this situation what it is, the manipulation behind it... Because some guys do this without even realizing it

    • @kailyns8159
      @kailyns8159 4 роки тому +28

      My friend put me in this situation too. He perused me for three years until I agreed to a first date. And that date was so much like this scene. He had a plan. He had his moves. He knew my boundaries. And he ignored them. I consented to a kiss. And he wouldn’t let me stop after that. He made me so uncomfortable, so scared. I was able to convince him not to have sex because I wasn’t ready. But he didn’t listen to any other protest. And when I didn’t react the way he expected, he got upset. It was a nightmare.

    • @regcla6667
      @regcla6667 4 роки тому +16

      @@kailyns8159 I'm so sorry this happened to you sweetheart, it does leave an open scar! I hope you're doing well! Stay strong❤️

    • @Pudding--_--
      @Pudding--_-- 4 роки тому

      @@kailyns8159 okay but like what about that second date? im still waiting

    • @emersonbrown3792
      @emersonbrown3792 4 роки тому +7

      Sebastian Harrison that’s really messed up man

    • @Pudding--_--
      @Pudding--_-- 4 роки тому

      @@emersonbrown3792 Aye you gotta do what you gotta do

  • @50updumpling
    @50updumpling 4 роки тому +384

    Big Ed is such a pitiful guy because he’s so desperate for affection and love. I adore Rose because Ed underestimated her intellect and worldly understanding. He expected her to be dumb and just go along with his “ideas” of romance and a “better” life. He’s trying to mould her into someone who only loves him and will only live for him. He can’t even see past her obvious fake smiles and reluctance to be “loveydovey” with him because he CHOOSES not to see it.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +16

      Exactly.

    • @marylynnneill1958
      @marylynnneill1958 4 роки тому +4

      carry-on-my-wayward-son He is just so pathetic & desperate! Looks like a fire plug....sheesh. Odious little fart.

    • @carljacobson7156
      @carljacobson7156 4 роки тому +2

      And that is exactly why Fat Ed has not had a relationship in over 20 years. Once he lost his boyish good looks (yes, Ed was actually good looking when he young!), no woman wanted to put up with his manipulative behaviors. Ed admits to cheating on his ex-wife after only being married for less than 2 years. For any normal healthy relationship, the 'Honeymoon' phase is 5-7 years. That indicates that Ed has a problem with honesty, trust and connecting with another person.

  • @MegaVegetableJuice
    @MegaVegetableJuice 4 роки тому +84

    When a man says ‘you are gonna get the best whatever you ever had’, probably it will be the worst you ever had. 😂

    • @ellajulia162
      @ellajulia162 4 роки тому +6

      The only time I will except it is if it is something that he is cooking! Like “I will make you the best Lasagna that you have ever had” 🤣 I love food ☺️

    • @MegaVegetableJuice
      @MegaVegetableJuice 4 роки тому

      Ella Julia I feel ya sis 🙌🏻

  • @ryleesrandomchannel4193
    @ryleesrandomchannel4193 4 роки тому +106

    Anthony: “...that having sex especially with women, it’s about the emotion. It’s about the experience between eachother...”
    Me: PERIODDTTTT!!!! ANTHONY REALLY OUT HERE UNDERSTANDING WOMENS WANTS AND NEEDS!!!! YASSSS!!!!!!💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️😎😎😎😎😎

  • @jacobortega2435
    @jacobortega2435 4 роки тому +391

    I was so happy not knowing this exchange ever happened.

  • @jonnyn9163
    @jonnyn9163 4 роки тому +261

    It's hard to believe that this guy was married and had a child.

    • @basilbooks
      @basilbooks 4 роки тому +41

      Not only that but he cheated on his ex wife too

    • @chrysanna8896
      @chrysanna8896 4 роки тому +8

      @@basilbooks like how did that happen?

    • @Vtech1459
      @Vtech1459 4 роки тому +3

      Chrysanna Smirneou he was unfaithful and always lying.

    • @chrysanna8896
      @chrysanna8896 4 роки тому +23

      @@Vtech1459 that's not what I meant, I meant how did someone like him not only get a mate but also be the one who cheats like..... Somebody got a calculator because this shit does not ADD UP!!

    • @edw2607
      @edw2607 4 роки тому +4

      If you look at his old picture, he wasn't always that big and unkempt. It's like army guys who are fit in their 20s, get out of the service, then pack on 30 pounds.

  • @cwest8010
    @cwest8010 4 роки тому +129

    "can I halik you?" Is the new worst pick up line.😂

  • @walkintruth4him
    @walkintruth4him 4 роки тому +294

    Ed is so disgusting. So many people see right through his intentions.

  • @arianagomez6523
    @arianagomez6523 4 роки тому +372

    If there’s one thing I learned from this video, it’s to never fake smile at Anthony...

  • @thebovineavenger
    @thebovineavenger 4 роки тому +38

    My first video of yours I watched. You did great. The way you were describing what SHOULD happen was word for word my husband and I first night together. We had been friends, close friends for 7 years then one night BAM. 19 years later and 2 kids. My husband and I are still sickly sweet with eachother.

  • @riag9880
    @riag9880 4 роки тому +35

    Came here to laugh at Ed, came out with some solid advice.👌

  • @Ayzlxn
    @Ayzlxn 4 роки тому +250

    He’s so disgusting. The points that you mentioned are so good! He was so manipulative.

  • @jbee5024
    @jbee5024 4 роки тому +264

    You explained it exactly how you should have. That’s exactly how I feel but I couldn’t put into words why he creeps me out so much. It’s the way he has a MOTIVE to get laid!! Eeewwwwwww

    • @skyex13
      @skyex13 4 роки тому +10

      exactly - after they made up - he should have taken her out on a date - instead he invites her bck to the hotel room, asks her to take a shower - get her undressed and intoxicated? he wanted to get laid - everything he does "for" Rose is for his benefit - he tells her to get an STD test when he just met her - instead of getting to know her - she's poor but he brings her underwear instead of something useful - he's a sex tourist

    • @biancajade728
      @biancajade728 4 роки тому +3

      A woman also just came out he sexually harrassed and assaulted her years ago. She signed an NDA but seeing him on the show triggered her.

  • @Tazzopardi1971
    @Tazzopardi1971 4 роки тому +19

    Healty Chemistry and Connection happens between two consenting adults who have mutual interest and attraction.. It's does happen between a Preditor and a disadvantaged person who is being prayed upon. Love this segment and you are bang on!!!!!!! Great Job! Your reactions are amazing as well

  • @LL-vj5yp
    @LL-vj5yp 4 роки тому +18

    His look says “ is this working “. Slimy little toad

  • @smitha5022
    @smitha5022 4 роки тому +238

    Everyone needs to leave Ed alone. This maybe his 2nd and LAST chance to ever get laid again. Then he goes back to the garden where he lives...as a GNOME.

    • @rociozain
      @rociozain 4 роки тому +51

      Don't insult the gnomes hahahahaha 😝🤣

    • @smitha5022
      @smitha5022 4 роки тому +3

      @@rociozain HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

    • @megankassa3633
      @megankassa3633 4 роки тому +2

      dr doofenschmirtz type beat

    • @raesmith2164
      @raesmith2164 4 роки тому +12

      @@megankassa3633 Except doofenshmirtz is actually a good dad and isn't a dick to his ex wife.

    • @rsm1129
      @rsm1129 4 роки тому +9

      Not gonna lie, you had us on the first half😂

  • @namelessgrace6319
    @namelessgrace6319 4 роки тому +65

    "Romance is a feeling, not an act."
    Love that! 👍🌻🦋

  • @jenyal8320
    @jenyal8320 4 роки тому +22

    5:50
    Ed: “Can you just sit right here. On your butt”
    No Ed mate I was going to do a handstand. Darn it :(

  • @miiilkshamke7171
    @miiilkshamke7171 4 роки тому +83

    Ed asked God to give him a necklace, but God gave him *neck less*

    • @jroyals_
      @jroyals_ 4 роки тому +2

      😭😭😭

    • @pupukah
      @pupukah 3 роки тому +1

      Savage! 🤣🤣

  • @uwotm8
    @uwotm8 4 роки тому +353

    That ain't a massage, he's just stroking 😂

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +23

      Hahahahah

    • @sabrinaclifford834
      @sabrinaclifford834 4 роки тому +9

      Lol probably because that's the motion hes used to 😭🤣

    • @LtZerge
      @LtZerge 4 роки тому +8

      "I want to give you a stroke" is a decidedly less romantic sounding statement

    • @justwatching5617
      @justwatching5617 4 роки тому +4

      @@AnthonyRecenello that ain't romance. He's not doing anything for her

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 4 роки тому +9

      He just wanted an excuse to touch her

  • @anabanana9032
    @anabanana9032 4 роки тому +85

    Me criticising 90 day fiancé quarantined at 3 am be like:

  • @rahla53
    @rahla53 4 роки тому +12

    Ed wanted her to put the robe without anything under, LOL, then she grabs her pjs. :>)

  • @ashleyclutinger4295
    @ashleyclutinger4295 4 роки тому +9

    Between psychology in Seattle and him are providing great point of views

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +3

      Thanks ash! What did you learn from Psychology In Seattle’s vid so far? 👍🏻

    • @ashleyclutinger4295
      @ashleyclutinger4295 4 роки тому +3

      @@AnthonyRecenello actually that Ed was like some of my past partner. And the money thing is okay. And rose is very mature for age.

  • @camcamii45691
    @camcamii45691 4 роки тому +63

    Your react is literally how all of us reacted.

  • @thechosenonesosaystheprophecy
    @thechosenonesosaystheprophecy 4 роки тому +98

    Can’t be very romantic having a whole ass camera crew 😂

  • @50hellkat2
    @50hellkat2 3 роки тому +1

    You need to do more of these 90 day fiance reaction videos. You are a funny dude. This was excellent.

  • @rosadecastro8037
    @rosadecastro8037 3 роки тому

    Commentary was so great. Thoroughly enjoyed it!

  • @maef7026
    @maef7026 4 роки тому +93

    Everything you said is so on point! You're so right when you say he's treating her like a child, that's why it's so gross. He is so controlling. Maybe he does see all those signals she's giving him when she's feeling uncomfortable but if he acknowledged them it would interfere with his plan. For him it's a small price to pay if she's feeling uncomfortable, as long as he gets what he wants. When he signals her like a dog to 'come here' before the kiss, it's like he's treating her like an animal. That little nod he does after he say "on the lips"... uuuugh.

  • @zlatkajupe
    @zlatkajupe 4 роки тому +82

    She kisses him the way you kiss your grandparent on the cheek lololol

    • @drea409
      @drea409 4 роки тому +10

      Well he's almost 60 isn't he? Not far off....

    • @zlatkajupe
      @zlatkajupe 4 роки тому +1

      ​@@drea409 true

  • @fashionfirst_
    @fashionfirst_ 4 роки тому +10

    His face when they kissed I’m dead 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

  • @yasi.joon.13
    @yasi.joon.13 4 роки тому +4

    I’ve appreciated when a guy has asked for consent prior to a first kiss. It’s a nice and respectful gesture.

  • @0Demiyah0
    @0Demiyah0 4 роки тому +97

    Big Ed is an obnoxious character. He is so insecure and obsessed with himself, that he tries to manipulate situations to his interest. Besides his creepy old man behavior, let's not forget he neglected to be truthful with Rose on many accounts. Like the fact he cheated on his ex-wife, but is obsessed with Rose's dating history. Apparently his own daughter doesn't want to talk to him (he mentioned it in an IG post). Fathers usually have special relationships with their daughters. If a daughter is disgusted with her father, that really says a lot.

    • @carljacobson7156
      @carljacobson7156 4 роки тому +8

      I'd read that Ed's daughter and friends were against Ed going to the Philippines to see Rose - they thought that she was a possible scammer or prostitute. This is probably why Ed kept pressuring Rose to reveal her sex history and take an STD test.
      The problem is that Ed has HORRIBLE people skills, has no empathy, is a manipulative passive-aggressive jerk and then paints himself as the victim afterwards.

  • @AnthonyRecenello
    @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +609

    10K LIKES GETS YOU A PART TWO! Hit the like button and subscribe with the bell notifications so you know when it's released!

    • @florapetal811
      @florapetal811 4 роки тому +2

      I know its weird but dose anyone know when Anthonys birthday is

    • @Thejadyn
      @Thejadyn 4 роки тому +3

      React to Liza and David's relationship!

    • @sarahapple5844
      @sarahapple5844 4 роки тому +9

      Anthony Recenello please react to Avery and ash. He is a train wreck

    • @itsjustkassy5313
      @itsjustkassy5313 4 роки тому

      Liza Koshy and David Dobrik vs David’s new gf and David Dobrik or Kiera Bridget and Morgz pls

    • @qwaasa85
      @qwaasa85 4 роки тому

      Big Ed is smooth, Rose is totally into him you cant see it yet.

  • @smileycat5788
    @smileycat5788 4 роки тому +12

    when i saw you calling yourself an expert i admit to some eye rolling but having listened to your very clever analysis i am very impressed.

  • @luizadiasferraz3662
    @luizadiasferraz3662 4 роки тому +9

    His neck really said: nope

  • @galwayparker2517
    @galwayparker2517 4 роки тому +56

    Ed made my stomach churn anyway but now an expert has talked us through it and pointed things out my stomach is churning even more...Ewwwwww

  • @ps1hagrid27
    @ps1hagrid27 4 роки тому +54

    Mad respect to Anthony . It seems like yesterday he was at 30k subs.
    Edit : And he actually just replied within 30 seconds even more props

  • @claudianuncio9925
    @claudianuncio9925 4 роки тому +1

    I actually really enjoyed your video. A lot of what you said makes sense in my current relationship. Thank you so much and keep up the good work!

  • @jacintotrevino6067
    @jacintotrevino6067 4 роки тому

    This is awesome on so many levels thank you for the post brother

  • @shellbeanz
    @shellbeanz 4 роки тому +23

    I hope a lot of clueless guys out there come across this content to see what not to do and why they are always unlucky in love.

  • @Itszahia
    @Itszahia 4 роки тому +31

    6:40 “there’s no happiness In those eyes, there’s no happiness in that face”
    *me*

  • @lilmzcreole9085
    @lilmzcreole9085 4 роки тому +11

    😂 your reaction to the kisses! 😂 spat out my tea lmao
    ps: as funny as u are, there really need to be more men like u 😊
    Subscribed!

  • @lailaaesthetically3694
    @lailaaesthetically3694 4 роки тому +12

    He also made her sorta drunk when they were making “love “ ,
    Ed:” I think the wine made her exited “ 🤢

  • @patrykkuffel2679
    @patrykkuffel2679 4 роки тому +44

    This is so hard to watch but at the same time I can't stop 😂

  • @lilevelyn2877
    @lilevelyn2877 4 роки тому +253

    Even if you don’t get 10k likes, you’re still gonna make that part two, right?

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +107

      Nah I need the validation.

    • @cannonfod1346
      @cannonfod1346 4 роки тому +11

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @rmj2821
      @rmj2821 4 роки тому +9

      @@AnthonyRecenello please make part 2.

    • @ophelia8543
      @ophelia8543 4 роки тому +3

      @@AnthonyRecenello honestly, me sometimes

    • @juliev3263
      @juliev3263 4 роки тому +2

      hlutei lol me all the time 🤣😂

  • @dokterbruinbeer5710
    @dokterbruinbeer5710 4 роки тому

    Today watched ur first vid and i gotta admit that im kinda addicted to your vids

  • @sherrygenovese1
    @sherrygenovese1 4 роки тому

    Omg how did I not stumble across this channel sooner? I’m loving this guy Anthony!!!!!!!

  • @TheWipal
    @TheWipal 4 роки тому +18

    god, the way u talk about romance be making me blush a bit, jeaz dude

  • @milliesansoye6560
    @milliesansoye6560 4 роки тому +57

    This is the relationship coach Ash wishes he was haha

  • @EvelinaMay1999
    @EvelinaMay1999 4 роки тому +1

    Love your commentary on this episode! Thank you for all the analysis and advice👍🏼

  • @elianazuniga6541
    @elianazuniga6541 4 роки тому +2

    I loved this. Especially your genuine reaction. Too funny and so true. Subscribed

  • @deedee2698
    @deedee2698 4 роки тому +16

    This is the most honest review I have seen.. and echos EVERYTHING I was thinking...Ed is such a CREEP.. thank you Anthony for being so honest..😊😊😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @RustomH
    @RustomH 4 роки тому +102

    Uploaded 5 minutes ago & on the recommended page already, how sway.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  4 роки тому +6

      NOW SWAY

    • @AndyJarrin
      @AndyJarrin 4 роки тому

      Rustom H your avi really brings me back lmao YFM

    • @RustomH
      @RustomH 4 роки тому

      Scottie Belaneaux Back to the true rap days of UA-cam ha.

  • @sonjalam3843
    @sonjalam3843 4 роки тому +9

    I see the thumbnail and I know Anthony's gonna be in for a wild ride
    Anthony: A show that's something so pristine
    Also Anthony: *instant regret*

  • @mangopassionguavapapaya
    @mangopassionguavapapaya 4 роки тому +3

    I’m learning so much from this! So happy to find this channel 🥰😅😇

  • @gardener5857
    @gardener5857 4 роки тому +33

    This guy would be just as happy, no happier with a sex robot. Sickening. He wants chattel not a relationship.

  • @florapetal811
    @florapetal811 4 роки тому +20

    Murder hornets are just real life trackerjackers from the hunger games

  • @janetDT1904
    @janetDT1904 3 роки тому +2

    "A smile happens to the entire face, not just the mouth"
    Wow that's so true! Loved this video. You've won me over. I shall subscribe.

  • @ellestrange9827
    @ellestrange9827 4 роки тому

    I just subscribed! I love how you explain every details of expressions they actually have.

  • @shannonbowling7215
    @shannonbowling7215 4 роки тому +33

    Only could watch half. Grossed out. You have a great point. Totally agree. Can't plan romance. That ruins it.

  • @skyex13
    @skyex13 4 роки тому +7

    your analysis is spot on in very way - you seriously know your stuff - I really hope you make more videos..Thanks a million Anthony

  • @meryj3525
    @meryj3525 4 роки тому

    Hands down this is my new favourite channel!

  • @kaylaknapp2157
    @kaylaknapp2157 4 роки тому +1

    This was a great one!