He was switching with those hips in the video. He was angry, hateful, and a leach. His own family didn't care for him. He was jealous of the love she received from her family.
I had to learn this the hard way myself ! I’m a living witness it’s not ! I was dropped off naked and left in the middle of the road once before constantly going back to what I thought was love
Massive!!!! But does anyone think that putting your children out too early is a red flag, also?! Bc, it’s the parents responsibility to make sure that their children are good, before they are out in this world in their own! I think that parents are sending their kids out too early and don’t mind that they’re on someone else’s dime, as long as they don’t have to do it! In this case,” they shouldn’t have had kids!” Ijs…😩 Giving kids the tools to be young/ dependent adults start at home… And I’m sure, “It’s oh, he had mental issues!” But clearly so many young boys have no idea what to do! It’s disheartening to say the least and disgusting for what he did!
@@sashaclarke2749it's not always the parents fault, young men tend to want to go out in the street with friends and do whatever. No matter how the parents raised them up even in a Godly household. Just saying.
@@blacksilverchair3315. Yep Pookie comes in all forms. A police officer, business owner, pastor, educator, lawyer, military officer etc. DV not limited to thugs. So called good dudes stay complaining about women chasing Pookie, but they turning down the nice average looking girl for the instagram model “10” exotic chick who don’t want them and thus becomes bitter. Goes both ways
He shot her in the head and multiple times in the body damn. She was just 18yrs old.😢 he was jealous as hell young lady please becareful who you date.🤬they broke up she let him stay there with her because he didn’t have nowhere to go BIG RED FLAG 😢
I noticed these women are just extremely naive and truly believe every man they meet wants to care for them , and then you got some that are excited by the danger which makes sense lookin at her music videos
I agree. I don’t want to victim blame because he is a monster and this is all on him, but it’s about teaching your children to want more. If he has to move in with you and your Mama, then he isn’t the one… or the 2 or 3!
Whew you said that!! I be looking at all these beautiful couples on social media that end up like this one makes be ok with being single until the right man comes.
This is why, I will not let a boy move in with me or my daughter. I’m not playing around with it!!!!! Then the coward gonna shoot himself because he didn’t wanna deal with the consequences!!!Thats why I don’t look at these social media relationships as GOALS because you never know what is going on!!
You telling me she didn’t have at least one other man in her life that would’ve produced better results for her? She chose that man and the results were self-evident. We have to quit with the victim mindset.
Him proposing to her without him having a job or still having nothing to offer her was a huge red flag it should of been clear that he was just using her
Sounds like she HAD EVERYTHING TO OFFER...and HE had NOTHING...some people get a ONCE IN A LIFETIME relationship, and their foolishness mess it up Big Time, and then become threatened bcuz they KNOW you're done. My deepest condolences to her Love Ones.♥️
Exactly! But in this case they were both teenagers and just now starting life. They both had nothing to offer each other but encouragement to find their place in this world. That's ridiculous. They both should have been just getting to know each other and hanging out. He should not have been living with her. This is not the traditional back in the day type of world. Where people court each other properly and get married as teens.
Bingo. At the age of 18 this little girl was so talented so beautiful we're not even gonna talk about her basketball skills, We're not even gonna talk about her wrapping skill, Let's just talk about the fact she would probably be successful in everything she touched And she most likely realized she had a line of men with her stuff together willing to take her under their wing.
She had a friend who texted her and warned her this could happen. I’m sad that she had such a big heart that she was able to vouch for him with her parents to where they let him stay. The fact he did this and to folks who looked out for him. Horrible. Just horrible.
I also had a boyfriend when I was 19 yrs old he was 21. One day after a big fight(he strangled me and almost killed me)😢bcuz of his jealous, I broke up with him! He went outside and came back while I was parking my stuff he got poison and he threatened to kill himself if I leave him 😮 I called the Police they came and helped me vacate I was so glad I grabbed my stuffs and left with the Police 🚔 I moved to a new location but 3 weeks later my ex just appeared to my work place and screamed " you are my wife "😳 My boss came and tried to intervene he attacked her with a chair 💺 and a burning cigarette it was so unreal 😳 I couldn't believe my eyes! My boss threatened to call the police on him! My ex left and never came back again. But I was afraid for my safety so few weeks later I quit my job and relocate again to another place and my ex stopped stalking me.
Huh corpse wuz pretty 😍 2 for about a week. She's doing hair in heaven now and yes day r back 2gether. Sweet zombie 🧟♂️ jesus had a meeting wit dem and commanded 4giveness. 😳
These stories are becoming too common Every DAY and needs to be shared on ALL SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS!!!!!! Ladies, if your guy tells you, he will kill you, you live to get away, please be quiet and #GET #OUT and take that threat more seriously! So sad and tragic.
@penelopeparks5052 I don't understand why she thought enough to take it to Social Media but still in the house chilling after he broke out her car window and threatened her I would have left town 💨💨 If he was living with her parents he would have had to leave and I still would have be gone Apparently her Dad wasn't a threat to him , they probably were ' cool' SMH
I tell my daughter all the time 18 just have fun, no settling down. Too young for relationships, definitely don’t move in with a boy. And never ever date a guy who ain’t got shit. No job, no car, no education, no place to stay- no attention from you. Because he can’t even take care of himself.
So you want your daughter to date grown azz men huh? Cause boys her age to really have much yet . They are just starting their life. SMH. You expect a 18 yr old boy to have a nice car and a house and career already? I feel sorry for your daughter
They weren’t too young. My parents were married at 19. It’s how the children are raised & what they expose themselves to. Being toxic is something to brag about now for young ppl. Her rap was telling
I'm 48 seconds in & heard the part "she let him move in with her because he had nowhere else to go" & I instantly got irritated. That was all I needed to hear. Please teach your young daughters that they are not these young mens mommas & that it's not your responsibility to move a man into your home & take care of him. Teach them the warning signs of a controlling, narcissistic person. If they come with nothing, they literally have nothing to lose. They will switch up on you & take you out as soon as you do something that they don't like. Stop babying & coddling these men-children. Watch how he treats the women in his life as well. This is coming from a mom of a 28 year old young black man. My son has his own everything and had it before proposing to my daughter in law. He didn't even feel comfortable proposing until he had himself together. Y'all be letting men propose to y'all and y'all paid for your own ring or he's sleeping on your momma's couch. I said all of that to say, please learn early on in life & dating that you need to find someone that is on the same page as you & not someone that you have to stoop low to prove your love for them. Do not settle!!! Smh! Just a bummmmmm!
The parents should never allowed a boyfriend/fiance to live under their roof and if she didn’t like it, she could have gone, too. When it’s over, don’t entertain them and go live for views. Finally, take threats seriously. That means go into hiding, get protection and stay off social media.
It's this thing of being their kids' friends and forgetting to parent them. There is no way our old school parents would have allowed that. I mean, we were never allowed to have boyfriends. We got beat up for talking to them on the road, even a phone call from a boy, they did not care whatever that was hell fire.
So you're telling me that he lived with her family, they saw him becoming increasingly violent & vandalizing her property...& did nothing.... Chile... Rest in peace to the young lady.
Why was he so comfortable to walk in there house like that anyway. After all he had done to her, as a parent I would've been waiting with my gun.. Parents major fail.
I think she lived with her mom and she was in a different room and heard when the gun went off and ran in there is what it sounds like from the 911 call
There are a lot of people in this world that are not happy with themselves/their lives and will latch on to others who have a lot going for them in order to destroy them.
6:42 How he propose to her and he don't have a pot to piss in? Somebody please make that make sense. He doesn't even have a place to live. How is he going to provide for a wife? I think a lot of people don't understand what a man is supposed to do as a husband. Nor do I believe people understand what marriage is or what it means. SMH...let me not get on the lack of morals, standards, and etc society is missing nowadays.
People be doing shit for show; them lil likes and follows don’t mean sh!t people priorities be in the wrong place , he shoulda been somewhere working and praying .
Her body language spoke volumes during that marriage proposal. She seemed more regretful, rather than shocked or excited 6:15... In that moment, she spared his feelings, sadly he didn't spare her life😔
She was young and got caught up in the ring and the moment, but her parents are old enough to know better. You gotta watch these guys closely and then watch them again and then again NEVER TRUST THEM UNCONDITIONALLY!
Omg! This just happened last week. This is happening to often. Ladies, learn to be by yourself and stay out of these relationship with these emotional men. RIP and condolences to the loved ones.😢😢
Tired of hearing women say, "Learn to be by yourself." She was a teenager. It's natural to want to be in a relationship. These women need to teach their sons emotional intelligence, and when it's over its over. These men are often controlling, inadequate, and leaches.
That was a weak emotional unstable undisciplined lil boy she got involved with...many bw are losing their life to those type, thugs & criminals...sorry to say but the parents failed to protect her
Was that a real gun they were waving around in that video? That was a crazy gesture too! Why did the parents allow the two of them to shack up in THEIR house?
The elephant in the room! There should have already been, boundaries! If I was her father, he would have never moved in! If she couldn’t handle my rules, then she can leave and be homeless with him!
19 years old . Is not that far away from High school . So it's a little disturbing that at that age . He couldn't go and live with his mom . Or his own family . He had to live with her . Because he didn't have anywhere else to live . Makes me wonder what was going on . In his home life . That nobody in his own family . Wanted to take on the burden . Of letting him live with them 😠😡😤🤬‼️
Thank you so much for highlighting these stories and speaking for the victims. These stories should be highlighted and talked about more than they are. I wasn’t aware of how often this was happening and it’s heartbreaking. Even if you google some of these women the only thing that pops up is maybe one or two news stories and social media posts about their deaths that’s it. No updates or anything. Their stories shouldn’t be forgotten, their names shouldn’t be forgotten. I appreciate you and this channel for speaking for them and their families and keeping their names alive. ❤❤❤
If the father allowed his daughter to have a fiance at that age & allow her to date a thug & stay at home with them, both parents failed to protect her.
@@aigami7928 my point is people want to make fun of and talk mess on other people ... Whole time they got worse going on.."that's why God say MIND YA BIZNESS ..Talking about all he does is whoop your ass... Where is your dad
This sickens me how many of us girls & women laid down w literally a enemy!!! This is so common & i speak so passionately about this... we really need to do things God's way in order to avoid being w these type of ppl. I MYSELF AM GUILTY of sleeping w the enemy, we make mistakes but at times my soul is sorrowful for not making the best decisions. Kelvi was absolutely beautiful, & so young... this dude had sum sas to him too w that walk !!!, definitely jealous of this baby !!. God be w her family & may her soul rest 🤍
Why does the 911 dispatchers always make me cringe.. How many times you have to ask if she been shot for you to understand she’s been shot.. She ask well what do you mean you think so???
When I say that pissed me clean off.. like what is up with these dispatchers nowadays?? The woman is obviuosly in shock and said her daughter got shot. Why are u questioning her like u the police??
This is the first story that I’m speechless 😦 I wasn’t expecting the ending . I know that the 911 operators have to do better 😩 it was obvious that someone should be sent immediately
same thing happened to my sister when she was 19. After he shot her her put the gun in his mouth and blew his brains out..My sister survived but she is blind becaus he shot her in the head. She is doing so good though. This saddens me to watch....May God have Mercy on their souls.
Her living with him was a No-No in the first place. He didn't have do ANYTHING to earn her Love or Respect. Sge gave it to him freely. He had a taste of living off of her by being allowed to live WITH her and he didn't want to lose that Freeloading Lifestyle. Her Dad should've let him know early on that he'd better do right by his Daughter. And who takes Gunplay as Joking??? That Boyfriend was a Pure Coward.
if his own family dont want to take him in dont yall girls take him in niether! he is obviously a problem that you dont need i can relate because i was her i just made it out alive im so sorry yall lost yall baby girl 😢
The heart is treacherous...who can know it? Perception isn't Reality Bw have moved up in many ways in America regarding higher education, holding down a variety of jobs amd careers, many have started a small business and I'm also seeing more of us traveling and most importantly EXERCISING ....and KUDOS to us for all of that❤ However, many of us are still lagging waaay behind on noving in REALITY when it comes to dealing with these men. Tbc this woman is young and thats when most mistakes of this nature occur. Hence my advice for parents to brainwash their daughters from like 5 years old. I say daughters because men often speak as if the dynamics of a relationship....good or bad...is ALL on the female so ....wield that power.@@tealx8462
She was definitely out of his league and he knew that, she wasn’t going to stick around for much longer because other men were going to offer her wayyyyy more than an engagement ring. Ladies let’s not ever settle for less❤
He honestly probably couldn’t believe that she actually loved him because deep down he knew he didn’t deserve her. His insecurities probably made his mind go crazy with made up scenarios.
So sorry baby girl this is why my daughter who works and has here own car place and job at 18 had to understand despite thinking she’s grown wasn’t NOBODY son laying up under her this made me sick to my stomach
My sister had a stalker like this. It was really stressful because we worried about her 24/7. The stalking really affected our parents. One day me and my 4 brothers turned the tables, and started stalking him. We made it a point to make this coward fear for his life. He pulled a gun on my sister, so we made a point to do the same to him. He hit our sister once, so we tried to stomp him out wherever we saw him. We stalked him 10 times worse than he did our sister. My parents sent our sister away, but we continued making that “140 pound, skinny Jean wearing coward” fearfull of how far family will go to protect one of the on. It wasn’t right, and I am not endorsing what we did, because t desperate times call for desperate measures!
Why would y’all still allow him to live in the same home as her after they broke up? After he was displaying all these signs of abuse, stalking and wreckless behavior behind her.. mental actions of not wanting to let her go after the break up? Why wasn’t the police called? Instead y’all call the police after she gets killed.. C’mon now, make it make sense, y’all gotta start taking accountability. There’s no way he still woulda been living with my daughter after they break up.. all because y’all feel sorry he has no other place to go??? I’m not going for it.
yess i’m not understanding because even her friend knew that he was going to kill her🤦♀️there’s so many things that could’ve been done to prevent this even happening
I commend you for telling these people's stories. Their life & it hits home for me bc I was raised in the hood. A place where monsters protect monsters ! You are unbiased in your stories and show sympathy ❤ Thank you 🙏
The fact that her friend literally called how the situation would go is crazy! Poor beautiful young girl had her whole life ahead of her. It’s getting scarier and more unhinged out here, y’all please be careful!
Same happened to me climbing on my car bust my windshield and shot gun... but the by the grace and mercy of God I escaped.. You Got to have Jesus in this world He is your life line
If a so called man is down.. leave him down just where he is. It’s *NOT* a woman’s job to help a man. He is a *MAN* that’s his job to do. I had to learn the hard way myself. I’m very happy with or without a man. I’ve learned to pour into me everything God has given me to *LOVE* myself💜💪🏾😊
Sending hugs and prayers to the family of this young lady. I know first hand how you'll feel. My sister was with a controlling and jealous man who beat her constantly and took her life while she was at work and then killed himself. Her mother is raising the three kids. Its so sad that these men feel like they own someone that they didn't bring in this world. These kind of men don't care who they are hurting they only care about themselves. Rip Erica "Bookie" lashae Holt 😢 you are truly missed babygirl ❤🫂
@@blacksilverchair3315 what?? 😂 you think he was like this at the beginning of the relationship? Stop using this as a way to bash women for being killed and abused. Men need to take accountability.
Fathers get in your daughters lives and stay there! How is she 18 and was allowed to move her boyfriend into her mamas home ?!!! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ These modern day aged moms need to hear this mothers scream to understand that this too can be them and their daughters one day if they don't shape up and start parenting for real. Bet her mother wishes she never allowed her underage daughter to date or move her boyfriend into her home! Poor parenting and choices.
When will people learn God don’t p,at about all this vanity and love of money! In this video it was said she would do ANYTHING for money. We saw all the attention seeking behavior as well. All these women ignore the RED FLAGS just so they can show the world they have a man. Sickening! Do better. No one deserves to lose their life, but we also must be vigilant in protecting it by being selective who we allow around us. She was 18, much too young to be worrying about a relationship.
Facts 💯 sometimes it’s Better to love people from a distance ; it was a hard lesson for me to learn but it’s just me GOD and my son now and that’s all I need ♥️, people Will take and leave u with nothing and look.. may she rest peacefully 💯🙏🏽🔐
Exactly, arrogance, pride and vanity . She was not the person she portrayed to be in her rap lyrics she spoke death into her life with her own tongue. Vanity. She was masculine so he came with all he had to end her. He came as if he was destroying a man.
The operator need to be fired...the way she acted like that call was not significant....shame on her...who is going to be calm finding their 18 year old unalived. Prayers for this baby girl family ❤
My daughter lived with her boyfriend for 7 years and we all liked him he was sweet and funny and had a good job. She decided to leave him because he didn't want to get married or have children but she did. One evening at an office party she met a guy she really liked and they just did a little kissing. She is very honest and wanted to tell him and that it was over. I told her not to talk about the guy and wait to tell him she was leaving him. I had no reason at all to be afraid of him but I was very afraid. When she finally had found a new place to live he suddenly wanted them to get married and have kids but she said no. After she had moved the stalking began and the letters begging her to come back. She lost most of the things she loved because he wouldn't let anyone else come and get it and she was not going to go there. Even when she had a new boyfriend it continued. It is now more than 7 years ago she saw him the last timeon the street but a few days ago someone called and it really couldn't be anyone else than him not saying his name but knew things about her. She changed her number the same day and had it made secret so he can't call her again. Now nothing happened in this instance but it shows how you can never know who a person truly is and always go with your gut feeling like she thankfully did with mine when I explained I just felt it in my gut that he wouldn't take it nicely and listen to others as they may know something you don't.She is married now and has the child she so wanted but I'm still afraid of him. I have seen so many crazy men in my life time that I never got married and I'm happy with my little family!! I want all of you young women to be safe so please be smart!!
We have to teach our young daughters that self love comes FIRST! When you love YOURSELF you’re extremely cautious and aware of who you choose as a mate!
STOP SETTLING for just anybody! This was so SENSELESS! A beautiful young life taken by an insecure boy who clearly didn’t even know his own self worth 😢
No job no money no car no place to live but proposing to a young woman? Huge red flag! He had nothing to offer her.
Literally nothing..how do you even THINK to propose to a woman and you have nothing…smh..he saw her light and took it away.
right
Yeahhh... he have couple loose screws up there in that brain... cause ain't no way
They were both under 20..statement doesnt really pack a punch on a 19 year old..none of them have anything to offer each other at that age lol
Nothing at all!😞
Ladies, stop picking up stray dogs..there’s no one more dangerous than people with nothing to lose. RIP Princess
Seriously? Did you hear her rap? See the weapons her and her friends showed in the video, etc..?? We attract what we are (good or bad).
True! This is a high school thing,and jealousy was the problem! It could of been a young sucessful relationship! Sad
@@LC_Hso what? Having a gun is not a crime. Did she kill anyone??? You’re victim blaming!
@@timekarenee ❤️Please stop. Accountability is key Love✊🏽
Why put that part in here, saying “ She was not a Lazy Person “ WTF!!!?
When a person doesn't have anything to lose...they will make you lose EVERYTHING!!! Smh😢
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Yes!!! Always date a man that has something to lose, but not a man with a family, wife, etc…ofcourse!
Exactly
He was mad cuz he couldn't hook his broke wagon to her.
I swear 😢
He was switching with those hips in the video. He was angry, hateful, and a leach. His own family didn't care for him. He was jealous of the love she received from her family.
I said he was walking gay
He look like he got some sugar in his tank acting like a female
And that is the kind of man she chose to be with 😐😐
@@blacksilverchair3315arr u slow? It clearly says he wouldn't let go he was hurt
@@OtherPhone-dd9xk are you slow? Wasn't she in a relationship with him? Your sistas love to fall in love with crazy men with red flags.
I hate that “if I cant have you, nobody else can” mindset that some people have. smh
POOKIE STRIKES AGAIN!!! And will continue to strike.
I see that crap in a lot of dudes!
@@carpediem4512 😳😆😆
That's what happened to my sister. I miss her so much. Rip" Erica lashae Holt" 😢❤️❤️
It's rooted in insecurity, alot of insecure ppl out here.
The cries,of her mom on that 911 call🥺😭straight chills. Rip Kelvi Mccray🕊️❤️.
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Broke my heart
Same here 😔🙏🏽
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Obsession is not love, no matter how passionate.
Exactly
You are so on point
I had to learn this the hard way myself ! I’m a living witness it’s not ! I was dropped off naked and left in the middle of the road once before constantly going back to what I thought was love
@@Erika-EJ It be like that. You escaped though.
Exactly
When you are 19 yrs old and your family has disowned you, MASSIVE RED FLAG.
Massive!!!! But does anyone think that putting your children out too early is a red flag, also?!
Bc, it’s the parents responsibility to make sure that their children are good, before they are out in this world in their own!
I think that parents are sending their kids out too early and don’t mind that they’re on someone else’s dime, as long as they don’t have to do it!
In this case,” they shouldn’t have had kids!” Ijs…😩
Giving kids the tools to be young/ dependent adults start at home…
And I’m sure, “It’s oh, he had mental issues!”
But clearly so many young boys have no idea what to do!
It’s disheartening to say the least and disgusting for what he did!
@@sashaclarke2749it's not always the parents fault, young men tend to want to go out in the street with friends and do whatever. No matter how the parents raised them up even in a Godly household. Just saying.
@rosettejdca9073 and those "Godly households " tend to be the worse ones. Abusive, intolerant, & toxic.
@@lateishajones9898 again not all.
Not always massive.
The video with the dad in the car was everything. You could feel the love in the moment. Rest well.
Sadly he failed to protect his daughter
Too bad his daughter decided to choose a Pookie.
@@blacksilverchair3315I disagree it's called personal agendas 😞
@@blacksilverchair3315. Yep Pookie comes in all forms. A police officer, business owner, pastor, educator, lawyer, military officer etc. DV not limited to thugs. So called good dudes stay complaining about women chasing Pookie, but they turning down the nice average looking girl for the instagram model “10” exotic chick who don’t want them and thus becomes bitter. Goes both ways
All I kept saying was I know he hurt
He shot her in the head and multiple times in the body damn. She was just 18yrs old.😢 he was jealous as hell young lady please becareful who you date.🤬they broke up she let him stay there with her because he didn’t have nowhere to go BIG RED FLAG 😢
Day luv ❤️ is eternal now.
Thug passion! 😳
@@alphaomega1351that part exactly
She got Pookyfied!!!
I noticed these women are just extremely naive and truly believe every man they meet wants to care for them , and then you got some that are excited by the danger which makes sense lookin at her music videos
She didn't just let him stay there after their breakup. It's most likely, he was STILL SEXING HER DOWN! 🤦🏾♀️
My 18 year old daughter would not have no boy living in my house, she is still a child in my eyes.
Amen
I agree. I don’t want to victim blame because he is a monster and this is all on him, but it’s about teaching your children to want more. If he has to move in with you and your Mama, then he isn’t the one… or the 2 or 3!
She must’ve been his first piece cause clearly he was fighting them demons and urges to be with men switching like that
that's how we was raised ..not in mamas house !!
Too much too soon 😪
Most public proposals tend to be manipulative behavior unnoticed.
Most? Your saying the majority of public proposals are manipulative tactics. This is not true.
Whew you said that!! I be looking at all these beautiful couples on social media that end up like this one makes be ok with being single until the right man comes.
All proposals aren't a flex to me anymore
I agree with this 100% most times it is a manipulation tactic!
100% I’ve always been against public proposals it gives off social coercion
As a father, with a 10 year old daughter😢, this is one of my worst fears
Don't let her date. Dusty men.
Well you have a chance being in her life,... 99 % of killers and victims are raised by single queens...
Well, at least you got about 3 more years before she starts lusting after dah Pookies and Ray Rays.
Enjoy! 😳
Yes be fearful, I lost my 17yr old daughter in 2022 like this
In about tree years she's gonna want da Pookie and Ray Rays.
Enjoy before the change! 😳
This is why, I will not let a boy move in with me or my daughter. I’m not playing around with it!!!!! Then the coward gonna shoot himself because he didn’t wanna deal with the consequences!!!Thats why I don’t look at these social media relationships as GOALS because you never know what is going on!!
And husband 😮
He was the true definition of A DUSTY‼️ He had nothing to offer her but unfortunately she didn’t figure that out until it was too late🥀
She knew from the beginning. If his own family wouldn’t take him in…he’s obviously a menace
She chose a dusty. Of all the men or women in this world, she chose that dusty. Low standards as usual.
You telling me she didn’t have at least one other man in her life that would’ve produced better results for her? She chose that man and the results were self-evident. We have to quit with the victim mindset.
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She knew she was attracted to dangerous dudes , like alot of little girls,
He had burned all his bridges. That's why he was with her. Rip. Leave these bums alone
That mother's scream was... 😔
Heart breaking
Devastating
Discombobulated!
She had to do that cuz that 911 operator is high or something
@@jaybrown7811them 911 operators most times are slow asf, my daughter just got killed and you sound like you have an attitude.
WOW he was jealous of her.that’s why you never really know who you think you know period 😡😡
Even the ones that’s been married for 20, 30 years don’t know who they are married too
No 👎! He luved ❤huh 2 def! 😳
That’s not jealously that’s just a mentality Ill kid who shouldn’t have been living with them in the first place .. thats a dam shame
You right jealous is horrible
🤔 rise this 👻 that took her life I 👀 why he was homeless he was a psychopath.🤨🤨🧐🧐☹️
The 911 dispatcher pissed me off..
Okay so it wasn’t just me?
Me too...she sucks at her job
Usually its Fruck 12, but when there’s problems y’all call 911 and cry like babies!
Right! She was being a smart asshole.
@@carpediem4512... 👮♂️.. thanks for sharing.. officer 'friendly'.. go play in traffic
Him proposing to her without him having a job or still having nothing to offer her was a huge red flag it should of been clear that he was just using her
She probably paid for the ring to or a fake ring cause he don’t have any money
I said that same exact thing, 🤦♀️ hell he probably stole it.@@Spiceluvj
Sounds like she HAD EVERYTHING TO OFFER...and HE had NOTHING...some people get a ONCE IN A LIFETIME relationship, and their foolishness mess it up Big Time, and then become threatened bcuz they KNOW you're done.
My deepest condolences to her Love Ones.♥️
Exactly! But in this case they were both teenagers and just now starting life. They both had nothing to offer each other but encouragement to find their place in this world. That's ridiculous. They both should have been just getting to know each other and hanging out. He should not have been living with her. This is not the traditional back in the day type of world. Where people court each other properly and get married as teens.
Bingo. At the age of 18 this little girl was so talented so beautiful we're not even gonna talk about her basketball skills, We're not even gonna talk about her wrapping skill, Let's just talk about the fact she would probably be successful in everything she touched And she most likely realized she had a line of men with her stuff together willing to take her under their wing.
@@ekbanks
Shouldn’t date or marry til about 50yrs old! That should be enough time to get the foolishness out of their minds!
This is it
She had a friend who texted her and warned her this could happen. I’m sad that she had such a big heart that she was able to vouch for him with her parents to where they let him stay. The fact he did this and to folks who looked out for him. Horrible. Just horrible.
It's not a big heart, it's a small brain.
Whoever those folks was should’ve let him stay with them
I also had a boyfriend when I was 19 yrs old he was 21.
One day after a big fight(he strangled me and almost killed me)😢bcuz of his jealous, I broke up with him!
He went outside and came back while I was parking my stuff he got poison and he threatened to kill himself if I leave him 😮
I called the Police they came and helped me vacate I was so glad I grabbed my stuffs and left with the Police 🚔
I moved to a new location but 3 weeks later my ex just appeared to my work place and screamed " you are my wife "😳
My boss came and tried to intervene he attacked her with a chair 💺 and a burning cigarette it was so unreal 😳 I couldn't believe my eyes! My boss threatened to call the police on him! My ex left and never came back again.
But I was afraid for my safety so few weeks later I quit my job and relocate again to another place and my ex stopped stalking me.
IM SOOOO HAPPY U DIDNT ALLOW HIM BACK INNNNN !!!! once it's done, IT IS DONEEEE. I hope u share this testimony often to help others🤍.
@PrettyGirlRockk Thank you Ma'am I will 🙏
BLESSED!!! HEe probably would have eventually took your life. I THANK GOD FOR YOUR LIFE! ❤
I went through the same thing I understand this so well
@alexisdykes5634 He certainly would have,God is Almighty 🙏
This is not right! She was sooooo freakin beautiful man! I hate that demon. 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Would you care if she was ugly?
Calm down, man!
This Makes me angry 💔🤬🤬
Huh corpse wuz pretty 😍 2 for about a week.
She's doing hair in heaven now and yes day r back 2gether. Sweet zombie 🧟♂️ jesus had a meeting wit dem and commanded 4giveness. 😳
She was gorgeous 💔
These stories are becoming too common Every DAY and needs to be shared on ALL SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS!!!!!! Ladies, if your guy tells you, he will kill you, you live to get away, please be quiet and #GET #OUT and take that threat more seriously! So sad and tragic.
How about stand your ground & protect yourself from the threat instead of running running & hiding isn't going to solve nothing
@penelopeparks5052 I don't understand why she thought enough to take it to Social Media but still in the house chilling after he broke out her car window and threatened her I would have left town 💨💨 If he was living with her parents he would have had to leave and I still would have be gone Apparently her Dad wasn't a threat to him , they probably were ' cool' SMH
I tell my daughter all the time 18 just have fun, no settling down. Too young for relationships, definitely don’t move in with a boy. And never ever date a guy who ain’t got shit. No job, no car, no education, no place to stay- no attention from you. Because he can’t even take care of himself.
Having “fun” is what got this woman in this situation. Instead, tell your daughter not to jump around having “soul ties” with ppl
@@missjoy6685Sounds like she wants her daughter to thot it up out here. 10 years from now she’ll be another one saying body count doesn’t matter.
Having fun is why these lil girls be so naive in the first place and end up in uncontrollable situations "cuz she just wanted to have fun" smh
So you want your daughter to date grown azz men huh? Cause boys her age to really have much yet . They are just starting their life. SMH. You expect a 18 yr old boy to have a nice car and a house and career already? I feel sorry for your daughter
@@missjoy6685yall took having fun to another level. Girls are going to talk to boys regardless.
What a goofy.. who jumps on a car? she made a mistake and realized that
Datz dat thug passion! 😳
They weren’t too young. My parents were married at 19. It’s how the children are raised & what they expose themselves to. Being toxic is something to brag about now for young ppl. Her rap was telling
She should never have got with a thug, & her father failed to protect her
@@aigami7928how you blaming the father? Kids will do what they want
@@xoangelicaf0523 He shouldn't have been allowed 2 live there.
I'm 48 seconds in & heard the part "she let him move in with her because he had nowhere else to go" & I instantly got irritated. That was all I needed to hear. Please teach your young daughters that they are not these young mens mommas & that it's not your responsibility to move a man into your home & take care of him. Teach them the warning signs of a controlling, narcissistic person. If they come with nothing, they literally have nothing to lose. They will switch up on you & take you out as soon as you do something that they don't like. Stop babying & coddling these men-children. Watch how he treats the women in his life as well. This is coming from a mom of a 28 year old young black man. My son has his own everything and had it before proposing to my daughter in law. He didn't even feel comfortable proposing until he had himself together. Y'all be letting men propose to y'all and y'all paid for your own ring or he's sleeping on your momma's couch. I said all of that to say, please learn early on in life & dating that you need to find someone that is on the same page as you & not someone that you have to stoop low to prove your love for them. Do not settle!!! Smh! Just a bummmmmm!
This is exactly why fathers need to be in the homes because momma is too soft & kind & don't know hoe to protect themselves & their kids
Well said
DAMN RIGHT!!!!
It’s even worse it was the parents house and they allowed it
@@dejc1903 that's a darn shame! Smh!
This is so sad, condolences to her family and friends
Well, at least day with sweet zombie 🧟♂️ jesus in da clouds ⛅️ now. 😳
The parents should never allowed a boyfriend/fiance to live under their roof and if she didn’t like it, she could have gone, too. When it’s over, don’t entertain them and go live for views. Finally, take threats seriously. That means go into hiding, get protection and stay off social media.
My parents would have never
Amen to alllll THIS!!
Exactly and the mama called 911 saying "somebody" shot her daughter. She knew exactly who it was bc he pointed a gun at her earlier the same day.
Exactly. I see this a lot now and I can’t understand why it’s being normalized
It's this thing of being their kids' friends and forgetting to parent them. There is no way our old school parents would have allowed that. I mean, we were never allowed to have boyfriends. We got beat up for talking to them on the road, even a phone call from a boy, they did not care whatever that was hell fire.
First mistake, living together. Please raise your children to know this is not God’s way. Condolences to her family and friends.
And her parents let him stay after the break up .. threats and assault…..I would be disheartened for life‼️🙏🏾
The Dad seemed more concerned with showing off on Social Media than protecting his Baby Girl from Toxic dudes like that one.
You peeped that too?
Riiiiight!
All of that from seconds. Sheesh
Dad didnt have nothing to do with that crazy man. Wtf the dad got to fo with dude insecurities. Not his fault at all.
Nah you sound mad your dad probably wasn’t around blessings you with love and gifts
So you're telling me that he lived with her family, they saw him becoming increasingly violent & vandalizing her property...& did nothing.... Chile... Rest in peace to the young lady.
Ikr! 😢
That text message was so chilling
Why was he so comfortable to walk in there house like that anyway. After all he had done to her, as a parent I would've been waiting with my gun.. Parents major fail.
Parents definitely failed her, especially the father..
He was living in their home
My exact 💯 thoughts
I wonder did she tell her parents what was even going on?
@@yodae6672 That's even worse.. knowing what he had done to they're daughter already.
Men find balls and get control over your emotions.
emotional men raised by emotional mothers. We see it ALLL the time now.
The new Pookie can’t handle anything!
@@liviaforeign6630 Funny but I don’t see all these “emotional” women in these stories killing their partners....
@@11thLevelit’s plenty
@@tealx8462
i can't😂
If he was living with her and she lived with her parents why did they allow this
Cause day luved each odda brudda. 😳
Allowing him to stay and killing her is like comparing apples with oranges
They didn’t allow it they was probably not home or in their room things happen Come on now you know damn well Her parents not allowed to do this
I think she lived with her mom and she was in a different room and heard when the gun went off and ran in there is what it sounds like from the 911 call
They were living together
There are a lot of people in this world that are not happy with themselves/their lives and will latch on to others who have a lot going for them in order to destroy them.
You just never know how people are really feeling . or what they’re willing to do to get even.!
6:42 How he propose to her and he don't have a pot to piss in? Somebody please make that make sense. He doesn't even have a place to live. How is he going to provide for a wife? I think a lot of people don't understand what a man is supposed to do as a husband. Nor do I believe people understand what marriage is or what it means. SMH...let me not get on the lack of morals, standards, and etc society is missing nowadays.
She wasn't even feeling it. Facial expressions, body language 😢
The Savage probably stole it!
It's the parents fault for allowing that
People be doing shit for show; them lil likes and follows don’t mean sh!t people priorities be in the wrong place , he shoulda been somewhere working and praying .
Alot of boys don't have role models
She didn’t even want to say yes at the proposal. Her body language and expression said it all.
Her body language spoke volumes during that marriage proposal. She seemed more regretful, rather than shocked or excited 6:15... In that moment, she spared his feelings, sadly he didn't spare her life😔
Yes I noticed that. The body language was that of I'll go through the motions because I don't want to hurt his feelings.
They were sooooo young.😢😢😢
Too young!
I saw that too.
Bingo , even he had to nudge her arm to give him a hug and he gave her that quick kiss…she ain’t wanna marry him cause she knew how he was fr
We need to do better raising our kids😢
Too late now!!!
But... but... itz impossible 2 stop ✋🏻 thug passion! 😳
True. especially young boy..more morals and value are needed.
What kids? These boys?
@@Brianesha& girls! Don't be foolish. 😏
Hearing her mother scream just stings my heart 😢😢😢 My God cover and comfort 🙏🏾 her family. SIP BEAUTIFUL 🕊️🌷🪽
She was young and got caught up in the ring and the moment, but her parents are old enough to know better. You gotta watch these guys closely and then watch them again and then again NEVER TRUST THEM UNCONDITIONALLY!
Why would she let him stay there? I swear I saw another case where the guy would be homeless if she kicked him out. He killed her too 🤦🏽♀️
Ladies stop trusting homeless people. I know I don't.
Romeo & Juliet, the hood version! It ended like it was already written!
That's sad. The mom's cry/scream was heartbreaking. Kelvi seemed to be on a good path and that roadblock of a boyfriend ended that journey. RIP
Omg! This just happened last week. This is happening to often. Ladies, learn to be by yourself and stay out of these relationship with these emotional men. RIP and condolences to the loved ones.😢😢
Day finally 2gether 4ever. 😳
Tired of hearing women say, "Learn to be by yourself." She was a teenager. It's natural to want to be in a relationship. These women need to teach their sons emotional intelligence, and when it's over its over. These men are often controlling, inadequate, and leaches.
Shouldn’t be dating until 50!
@@tealx8462even then you gotta be careful
That was a weak emotional unstable undisciplined lil boy she got involved with...many bw are losing their life to those type, thugs & criminals...sorry to say but the parents failed to protect her
Was that a real gun they were waving around in that video? That was a crazy gesture too! Why did the parents allow the two of them to shack up in THEIR house?
The elephant in the room! There should have already been, boundaries! If I was her father, he would have never moved in! If she couldn’t handle my rules, then she can leave and be homeless with him!
Because her parents were most likely teen parents and unequipped to be parents. They failed her
19 years old . Is not that far away from High school . So it's a little disturbing that at that age . He couldn't go and live with his mom . Or his own family . He had to live with her . Because he didn't have anywhere else to live . Makes me wonder what was going on . In his home life . That nobody in his own family . Wanted to take on the burden . Of letting him live with them 😠😡😤🤬‼️
Exactly
He just wanted to control her every move I think he was lying
He was probably raising hell in his mom’s house, not far fetched since he’s the type to unalive 2 people including himself.
They were too young to handle their emotions..May her soul rest in peace 🙏
Old heads are out hear killing their wives and or girlfriend. The problem are the bm
Thug passion! She's worm 🪱 food now. 😳
Absolutely not! He knew exactly what he was doing! He could control himself! He is not a toddler!
Your to dam grown to say ignorant shyt like this. What u trying to get a laugh O something 🙄we all have to go it's life g@@alphaomega1351
And she was definitely too young to move in a bum.
So sad you never know who you're dating
Dis is beautiful. Now day luv ❤️ iz eternal. 😳
That’s the problem! You should already have known who you were dating!!!!
Everyone should know who they’re dating. WTH
She was only 18 dating a young pooky thug that look like he got a lil sugar in his tank..& him proposing at that age & was a red 🚩
At that age they don't really care too much to actually find out who they're dating
To see her crying getting into the car she had no idea he would go that far. This is SAD!
Thank you so much for highlighting these stories and speaking for the victims. These stories should be highlighted and talked about more than they are. I wasn’t aware of how often this was happening and it’s heartbreaking. Even if you google some of these women the only thing that pops up is maybe one or two news stories and social media posts about their deaths that’s it. No updates or anything. Their stories shouldn’t be forgotten, their names shouldn’t be forgotten. I appreciate you and this channel for speaking for them and their families and keeping their names alive. ❤❤❤
How he got that RING..I wouldn't even want that and he is living off me. AND WHERE WAS HER DAD??? Those words didn't age well
Obviously not around when it happened. That's not the point though
@@kenolpierre6595 it's my point... Go make your own comment..
If the father allowed his daughter to have a fiance at that age & allow her to date a thug & stay at home with them, both parents failed to protect her.
@@kenolpierre6595point is he shouldve been around! Knowing what was going on he should’ve been waiting for that nigga at the door
@@aigami7928 my point is people want to make fun of and talk mess on other people ... Whole time they got worse going on.."that's why God say MIND YA BIZNESS ..Talking about all he does is whoop your ass... Where is your dad
thank you for raising awareness on my cousins case, she was such a wonderful woman, god bless you
That poor mother
This sickens me how many of us girls & women laid down w literally a enemy!!! This is so common & i speak so passionately about this... we really need to do things God's way in order to avoid being w these type of ppl. I MYSELF AM GUILTY of sleeping w the enemy, we make mistakes but at times my soul is sorrowful for not making the best decisions. Kelvi was absolutely beautiful, & so young... this dude had sum sas to him too w that walk !!!, definitely jealous of this baby !!. God be w her family & may her soul rest 🤍
It was too late she was definitely fed the right information on that text it was just too late...RIP Young Lady condolences to the family.
💯🍯😢🙏🏽
Why does the 911 dispatchers always make me cringe.. How many times you have to ask if she been shot for you to understand she’s been shot.. She ask well what do you mean you think so???
When I say that pissed me clean off.. like what is up with these dispatchers nowadays?? The woman is obviuosly in shock and said her daughter got shot. Why are u questioning her like u the police??
@@brimonique4169 She had an attitude and that just kill’s me.. The fact that we in 2024 and they can’t track were you calling from with GPS is wild
Teenagers need to stop dating their not emotionally stable enough nor stable enough in other areas sending prayers I see these stories all the time
50yrs old, she be old enough!
Especially the guys, they not financially stable
The way her Dad treated and spoiled her…this guy could never..smh
I can't believe this happened THIS year and we're barely 90 days into 2024! I can't even imagine what the rest of the year is going to look like! 😱😱😱
The heartbreak of a crying, distraught mom 💔
This is the first story that I’m speechless 😦 I wasn’t expecting the ending .
I know that the 911 operators have to do better 😩 it was obvious that someone should be sent immediately
Me too like Make it Make Sense 😢
same thing happened to my sister when she was 19. After he shot her her put the gun in his mouth and blew his brains out..My sister survived but she is blind becaus he shot her in the head. She is doing so good though. This saddens me to watch....May God have Mercy on their souls.
I am glad your sister survived and is doing well.
No matter the age or gender, please do not ignore the red flags!
Her living with him was a No-No in the first place. He didn't have do ANYTHING to earn her Love or Respect. Sge gave it to him freely. He had a taste of living off of her by being allowed to live WITH her and he didn't want to lose that Freeloading Lifestyle. Her Dad should've let him know early on that he'd better do right by his Daughter. And who takes Gunplay as Joking??? That Boyfriend was a Pure Coward.
The dad was prolly just like him at his age so he gave him.a pass. It is sad!.
if his own family dont want to take him in dont yall girls take him in niether! he is obviously a problem that you dont need i can relate because i was her i just made it out alive im so sorry yall lost yall baby girl 😢
Never settle for less..if only she took her own advice. Beautiful girl I hate this happened to her🙏
He wasn’t less! She thought the world of him!
The heart is treacherous...who can know it?
Perception isn't Reality
Bw have moved up in many ways in America regarding higher education, holding down a variety of jobs amd careers, many have started a small business and I'm also seeing more of us traveling and most importantly EXERCISING ....and KUDOS to us for all of that❤
However, many of us are still lagging waaay behind on noving in REALITY when it comes to dealing with these men.
Tbc this woman is young and thats when most mistakes of this nature occur. Hence my advice for parents to brainwash their daughters from like 5 years old. I say daughters because men often speak as if the dynamics of a relationship....good or bad...is ALL on the female so ....wield that power.@@tealx8462
She playing bad ass bitch and allow a low life to take her life and could not beat the shit out of him and leave him I think she was obsessed with him
@@tealx8462 ohhh boyyy🤦♀️
This the comment I was looking 4 smh
She was definitely out of his league and he knew that, she wasn’t going to stick around for much longer because other men were going to offer her wayyyyy more than an engagement ring. Ladies let’s not ever settle for less❤
Ok, calm down. She was average looking.
@@azazello1784 who said she was talking about looks… she had WAY more going than just her looks. If you didn’t hear it in the video already.
He honestly probably couldn’t believe that she actually loved him because deep down he knew he didn’t deserve her. His insecurities probably made his mind go crazy with made up scenarios.
So sorry baby girl this is why my daughter who works and has here own car place and job at 18 had to understand despite thinking she’s grown wasn’t NOBODY son laying up under her this made me sick to my stomach
Wow he jumped on her moving car😮, I had to watch that again, this guy is gone...rip BBY girl.
"Fix things with her boo" the narrator could of left that out
My sister had a stalker like this. It was really stressful because we worried about her 24/7. The stalking really affected our parents. One day me and my 4 brothers turned the tables, and started stalking him. We made it a point to make this coward fear for his life.
He pulled a gun on my sister, so we made a point to do the same to him. He hit our sister once, so we tried to stomp him out wherever we saw him. We stalked him 10 times worse than he did our sister.
My parents sent our sister away, but we continued making that “140 pound, skinny Jean wearing coward” fearfull of how far family will go to protect one of the on. It wasn’t right, and I am not endorsing what we did, because t desperate times call for desperate measures!
Why would y’all still allow him to live in the same home as her after they broke up? After he was displaying all these signs of abuse, stalking and wreckless behavior behind her.. mental actions of not wanting to let her go after the break up? Why wasn’t the police called? Instead y’all call the police after she gets killed.. C’mon now, make it make sense, y’all gotta start taking accountability. There’s no way he still woulda been living with my daughter after they break up.. all because y’all feel sorry he has no other place to go???
I’m not going for it.
yess i’m not understanding because even her friend knew that he was going to kill her🤦♀️there’s so many things that could’ve been done to prevent this even happening
I commend you for telling these people's stories. Their life & it hits home for me bc I was raised in the hood. A place where monsters protect monsters ! You are unbiased in your stories and show sympathy ❤ Thank you 🙏
First of all you not proposing to my young daughter without talking to the dad first.
Never take a BAN into your home. Jealousy will become ripe and out of hand.
WOW I'M speechless ‼️ Condolences to her family and friends and his. THIS is really Tragic on ALL levels.✝️🙏🏽
The fact that her friend literally called how the situation would go is crazy! Poor beautiful young girl had her whole life ahead of her. It’s getting scarier and more unhinged out here, y’all please be careful!
Same happened to me climbing on my car bust my windshield and shot gun... but the by the grace and mercy of God I escaped.. You Got to have Jesus in this world He is your life line
Amen
Amen
That was sad!!!
If a so called man is down.. leave him down just where he is. It’s *NOT* a woman’s job to help a man. He is a *MAN* that’s his job to do. I had to learn the hard way myself. I’m very happy with or without a man. I’ve learned to pour into me everything God has given me to *LOVE* myself💜💪🏾😊
Sending hugs and prayers to the family of this young lady. I know first hand how you'll feel. My sister was with a controlling and jealous man who beat her constantly and took her life while she was at work and then killed himself. Her mother is raising the three kids. Its so sad that these men feel like they own someone that they didn't bring in this world. These kind of men don't care who they are hurting they only care about themselves. Rip Erica "Bookie" lashae Holt 😢 you are truly missed babygirl ❤🫂
This is so sad he knew once she find someone else he was gonna be homeless and he didn’t wanna be homeless
She was so beautiful!! She was definitely going places!! It’s amazing everything she has accomplished in her short life!! R.I.P. BEAUTIFUL ANGEL 🥰❤️
Jealousy don’t get you nowhere but 6 feet under or Jail
Pure envy , he was seething with envy over her life and family. He unfortunately had no one and I wonder why
She chose him out of all the good men in this world. That was her choice.
@@blacksilverchair3315facts
@@blacksilverchair3315 what?? 😂 you think he was like this at the beginning of the relationship? Stop using this as a way to bash women for being killed and abused. Men need to take accountability.
@@samariathornton9110exactly, what is he talking about
Sorry for your loss OMG young lady gone to soon praying for family thanks for sharing 😙❤️
Fathers get in your daughters lives and stay there! How is she 18 and was allowed to move her boyfriend into her mamas home ?!!! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ These modern day aged moms need to hear this mothers scream to understand that this too can be them and their daughters one day if they don't shape up and start parenting for real. Bet her mother wishes she never allowed her underage daughter to date or move her boyfriend into her home! Poor parenting and choices.
18 is not underaged
A lot of these men be struggling with their sexuality taking their anger out on women that they secretly want to be.😢😢
When will people learn God don’t p,at about all this vanity and love of money! In this video it was said she would do ANYTHING for money. We saw all the attention seeking behavior as well. All these women ignore the RED FLAGS just so they can show the world they have a man. Sickening! Do better. No one deserves to lose their life, but we also must be vigilant in protecting it by being selective who we allow around us. She was 18, much too young to be worrying about a relationship.
You nailed it. Not living righteous leads to death . Jesus is the way. He meant that. Now we learning the hard way. 🤦🏿♀️😞
Facts 💯 sometimes it’s Better to love people from a distance ; it was a hard lesson for me to learn but it’s just me GOD and my son now and that’s all I need ♥️, people Will take and leave u with nothing and look.. may she rest peacefully 💯🙏🏽🔐
Exactly, arrogance, pride and vanity . She was not the person she portrayed to be in her rap lyrics she spoke death into her life with her own tongue. Vanity. She was masculine so he came with all he had to end her. He came as if he was destroying a man.
@@Latorya-ho9nz Yup. 🤦🏿♀️😞
He was jealous of her. You can't be with someone who is jealous of you. Not friends, not family, not anybody.
So true
The operator need to be fired...the way she acted like that call was not significant....shame on her...who is going to be calm finding their 18 year old unalived. Prayers for this baby girl family ❤
My daughter lived with her boyfriend for 7 years and we all liked him he was sweet and funny and had a good job. She decided to leave him because he didn't want to get married or have children but she did. One evening at an office party she met a guy she really liked and they just did a little kissing. She is very honest and wanted to tell him and that it was over. I told her not to talk about the guy and wait to tell him she was leaving him. I had no reason at all to be afraid of him but I was very afraid. When she finally had found a new place to live he suddenly wanted them to get married and have kids but she said no. After she had moved the stalking began and the letters begging her to come back. She lost most of the things she loved because he wouldn't let anyone else come and get it and she was not going to go there. Even when she had a new boyfriend it continued. It is now more than 7 years ago she saw him the last timeon the street but a few days ago someone called and it really couldn't be anyone else than him not saying his name but knew things about her. She changed her number the same day and had it made secret so he can't call her again. Now nothing happened in this instance but it shows how you can never know who a person truly is and always go with your gut feeling like she thankfully did with mine when I explained I just felt it in my gut that he wouldn't take it nicely and listen to others as they may know something you don't.She is married now and has the child she so wanted but I'm still afraid of him. I have seen so many crazy men in my life time that I never got married and I'm happy with my little family!! I want all of you young women to be safe so please be smart!!
Yes let this be a lesson for other women. No need to live with a man before marriage. It does not get them closer to marriage.
We have to teach our young daughters that self love comes FIRST! When you love YOURSELF you’re extremely cautious and aware of who you choose as a mate!
STOP SETTLING for just anybody! This was so SENSELESS! A beautiful young life taken by an insecure boy who clearly didn’t even know his own self worth 😢
As women, we need to date in our tax brackets! These broke men have nothing to lose! I beg yall, PLEASE LEAVE THEM WHERE THEY AT!
This so sad, his crazy ass. Ain't no way I'm talking to no dude who doesn't deal with his family
I got chills ….
She got frills ……