Carly Pearce - What He Didn't Do (Lyric Video)

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2021
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    Music video by Carly Pearce performing What He Didn't Do (Lyric Video). © 2021 Big Machine Label Group, LLC
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  • @kelly8438
    @kelly8438 2 роки тому +2610

    I know this is supposed to be a song about a break up, but for a lot of us these lyrics hit the nail on the head when it comes to our fathers too.

    • @serenity2655
      @serenity2655 2 роки тому +54

      Oh Sweet!, What a comment! You said it alllll. Wonderful comment.

    • @ayvashreffler3911
      @ayvashreffler3911 2 роки тому +18

      yessss😕

    • @brandyrogers4078
      @brandyrogers4078 2 роки тому +63

      Yes yes yes. I've tried time and time again just for my dad to hurt me over and over. Sometimes you gotta push all that aside and worry about you and your feelings. It's hard but getting hurt time and time again gets old.

    • @d3adly727
      @d3adly727 2 роки тому +39

      And brothers/guy best friends too. Basically any guys that are close to you

    • @celiacruz1981
      @celiacruz1981 2 роки тому +10

      Yesssss!! 😢

  • @quatiec9987
    @quatiec9987 2 роки тому +2500

    This is the classiest song I've ever heard about being with a narcissist. She is so classy about it. She seems to be past the hurt and anger and is basically at the point where she realized she's worth more than that. And it is what it is or better yet, it was what it was kinda mindset

    • @elizebotha2420
      @elizebotha2420 2 роки тому +21

      So true ❤️❤️❤️

    • @emma23cat
      @emma23cat 2 роки тому +11

      @@elizebotha2420 amen

    • @maelentrewela2395
      @maelentrewela2395 2 роки тому +53

      Sorry if you've faced one too. I just escaped mine 13 weeks ago.

    • @erinkeen3425
      @erinkeen3425 2 роки тому +7

      So true.

    • @tiffanijenkins4501
      @tiffanijenkins4501 2 роки тому +1

      Dudu sh shriek red geudueuesutisitudifdfbhdhdudfjdjdi oh yeah cafécnghgicg

  • @rosecarman9684
    @rosecarman9684 2 роки тому +210

    “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”-Philippians 4:13

  • @R1Kyle
    @R1Kyle 2 роки тому +977

    When you’re happy you enjoy the music; when you’re heartbroken you understand the lyrics.

  • @countrychick61
    @countrychick61 2 роки тому +830

    And it usually is.. we were just taught to keep trying and maybe he’ll change. NO!! Any man who doesn’t cherish your heart and respect you and your boundaries is not worth your time. This song is superbly written and beautifully emoted. My favorite from her.

    • @catherinetodd
      @catherinetodd 2 роки тому +19

      countrychick61 wrote: "we were just taught to keep trying and maybe he’ll change." YES, and I'm still going through this after being with him 43 years later! When will I ever learn? Love this song and need MORE statements like this!

    • @countrychick61
      @countrychick61 2 роки тому +3

      @@catherinetodd I endured my own destructive relationship, though not as long as you have. Are you familiar with Leslie Vernick?

    • @dianelang7923
      @dianelang7923 2 роки тому +14

      Many wasted years because I didn't value myself

    • @karmenletourneau9574
      @karmenletourneau9574 Рік тому +17

      This is so true. The stigma these days is nobody makes it work anymore and the divorce rate is at an all time high.
      The problem is us wives who do stay and try to make it work end up wasting years of our lives, I am now 43 and so disappointed with my life, grateful for my adopted child as my Husband refused to try for a child after we adopted even though he knew I wanted multiple children and shows me no love/effecting other than a peck goodbye here and there and he just recently started doing this when I made it happen again.
      Idk anymore, it sucks feeling like your not good enough because of the way someone else treats you and I'm at a point in my life where I need to make some serious changes for my own mental and physical health that I've let go over all of this.
      Not fair to me or my child and I want her to grow up knowing what real love looks like.
      Thankfully my Husband is a good man (not abusive at all) but feeling unloved is such a lonely feeling and no matter how much I've talked/begged him to change, things stay the same and I cannot keep living this way, I'd rather be alone than feel alone. 🙏 💔

    • @sandraherl6067
      @sandraherl6067 Рік тому +6

      Perfect concept of this song y all men. What they forget to do

  • @rachhyakarki7268
    @rachhyakarki7268 2 роки тому +536

    On point.
    Them lyrics hit hard.

    • @jdglen24
      @jdglen24 2 роки тому +4

      💯💯💯

    • @LuvMaBabe17
      @LuvMaBabe17 2 роки тому +3

      💯 I really felt this

    • @WhitFyffe
      @WhitFyffe 2 роки тому +3

      Hit very hard

    • @jenniferdijames1671
      @jenniferdijames1671 2 роки тому +3

      Be good Carly. Good advice.

    • @Mary-ho3nh
      @Mary-ho3nh 2 роки тому +3

      Omg they are so hitting me hard. It's as if she was talking from straight out of my heart. Something I've been telling the man I've been with for almost 5 years.. Sadly it ending and the pain is real, but there is relief because its always what he didn't do 😥

  • @mfunk50
    @mfunk50 2 роки тому +195

    Wow! This song is spot on when getting away from a covert narcissist.....never obvious to the outside world so it's pointless to try to explain your side. Love this song:)

  • @sylviamarenger6962
    @sylviamarenger6962 Рік тому +74

    I love everything about this song. The melody, the lyrics, she’s a strong, smart woman. Strong enough to leave him, but classy enough not to say anything bad about him.

  • @laceydingus3060
    @laceydingus3060 2 роки тому +501

    OMG.. this song right here is exactly how i feel about my ex. Not everything was bad but when it was, it was because "what he didn't do". If you have a good girl, you should really treat her like a queen. treat her the way you'd want someone to treat your daughter!!

    • @lisawilliams5458
      @lisawilliams5458 2 роки тому +9

      Amen to all this

    • @Autumnraeoliver
      @Autumnraeoliver 2 роки тому +10

      Yes amen you dont need a boy the only thing important it to shine

    • @laceydingus3060
      @laceydingus3060 2 роки тому +13

      @@Autumnraeoliver that is all i will ever focus on from here on out. My 3 daughters dont need that kind of influence in their life. they need to know it is not okay for a man to treat you the way some have treated me.

    • @Ashley-yr7yq
      @Ashley-yr7yq 2 роки тому +6

      Amen!

    • @helentillery1402
      @helentillery1402 2 роки тому +11

      Omg..
      My granddaughter showed me this song and I listen to it like every day at least three times

  • @IEATOSI
    @IEATOSI 2 роки тому +443

    This is one of her best songs ever and should be released as a single after Never Wanted To Be That Girl!

  • @MrsWhite_Kayla
    @MrsWhite_Kayla 2 роки тому +155

    I think most women can relate to this, wow. Putting every emotion and thought of millions of women into words. Such talent and such truth. Love this.

  • @karissakaywilfong1807
    @karissakaywilfong1807 2 роки тому +93

    This song really speaks words.I left my narcissistic relationship 5 months ago after being in it for 3.5 years.He put me through so much and yet he blames me for the whole relationship going wrong.He tells everyone I was the crazy one and that I cheated on him etc.When he did all of that.He’s got his side of the story and I’ve got mine.In the end,I found the confidence to leave and now I’m in a better place in my life.

    • @nicoleguillen2200
      @nicoleguillen2200 Рік тому +2

      Good. And I hope you never looked back. ❤

    • @annbonan
      @annbonan Рік тому +3

      That's what I'm here for too ❤ Finally stood up for myself after 3 years and he kicked me out but in a way, I just didn't come crawling back for once. But.. he's telling everyone I was crazy, all kinds of stuff. Trouble is, people saw him sometimes. He hid it good but not that good. I know better now. So much better.

    • @saxymev
      @saxymev Рік тому +1

      You were brave for leaving. I'm still stuck here , in thinking let the holidays end and I'll leave.

    • @conniesteffey4129
      @conniesteffey4129 Рік тому

      Yeah according to men we are all crazy

    • @conniesteffey4129
      @conniesteffey4129 Рік тому

      Yes according to men we are all crazy

  • @samijune7290
    @samijune7290 2 роки тому +207

    I hope he hears this song. I hope it stops him in his tracks and it hits him. Everything he did to me and how he didn’t just abuse me and break my heart over and over again but he broke our little girl’s heart too. He laughs and says none of it ever happened……tired of his lies. I left almost 10 months ago and I’m still finding the strength to go on after the abuse. It’s something we carry everyday.

    • @leahsmith2078
      @leahsmith2078 2 роки тому +6

      Same thing, girl!!!

    • @maya-xf3vl
      @maya-xf3vl 2 роки тому +3

      You are so strong, my ex was toxic but not this toxic I'll pray for you

    • @kelleyduong
      @kelleyduong 2 роки тому +5

      Ofcourse, he's going to deny it and gaslight you to make you feel crazy...so many guys like that are out there. The most dangerous are the ones who comes off as a good guy at first. I know a girl who went through the same and her boyfriend would do the same.. he is distant, always upset when you would call questioning why he wasn't answering, saying he was busy working, sleeping, phone off, etc... until one day when he was not answering his calls...she caught him in his lies.. he was talking to and flirting seeing another girl. He was quiet after that and even tries to blame you. Unless you catch them in the act or have hard evidence.. to prove them wrong... they will continue to lie to your face and tell you you are crazy and make you feel like something is wrong with you. For years, she had struggled with anxiety thinking she was crazy, paranoid.. but when she saw the truth.. she realized her gut intuition was right and she was not crazy. She miraculously didn't need the medications anymore. Although she still struggled with anxiety and trust issues in people.. it was not as bad anymore. The saddest part of your story is there is a little girl involved.. and that breaks my heart. But hopefully you find a good guy, hopefully all us good women and men find a match of good people. Sometimes it's hard because the bad guys will be in disguise as good guys.. so take your time next time to read the guy... make sure you know his patterns.. and follows through with his commitments and words... give it time to see if he really does... because they change after some time....and if you give your heart too soon... you will just get another 2nd heartbreak just when you think you met the good guy.. guys who prey on the vulnerable and promise the world.. only to never really mean it. Alot of fakes out there... unfortunately. :(

    • @maya-xf3vl
      @maya-xf3vl 2 роки тому +3

      @@kelleyduong this is very similar to my ex I hope we all find great people who treat us right.

    • @kelleyduong
      @kelleyduong 2 роки тому +2

      @@maya-xf3vl I hope so too.

  • @user-oy1yi5ug5o
    @user-oy1yi5ug5o 10 місяців тому +18

    I think anyone who has lived with a narcissist can relate! Very powerful song! My life in a song 😢

    • @angelahudson2560
      @angelahudson2560 9 місяців тому

      Mine too sadly. I’ve lived this story all of my adult life and would have stayed because I was taught marriage was for life and you just get over things our look the other way. My ex was so classy that he texted me the day his grandma passed to tell me our marriage was over and to get my things out of his house! We were together 36 years and I took care of his grandma for 15 years with the last 10 living with us. He ran around and I discovered after the divorce he even has children with hookers in other states!! I’ve even lived her song “I never wanted to be that girl”. I’ve been on both sides of that fence and it’s not a fun place to be!

    • @Blazewoman84
      @Blazewoman84 Місяць тому

      ​@angelahudson2560 It's obvious that he only saw you as a cheap employee who took care of his grandma. That was your sole purpose in his life. He's not worthy of you. He's just a piece of rotted garbage devoid of feelings. I hope you find everything you've ever hoped for the next time you try...if you try again. As someone who has only ever dated and or married were abusive narcissists, it's really hard to pick up the pieces every time and try again. I get it if you just can't do that. I know I can't. I miss companionship but I don't miss being treated like absolute garbage. I've never actually been loved but I always wanted and needed to be. I was married for 21 years to a man who verbally, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically abused me. He was nothing but a narcissist. He cheated at least twice a year for every year we were married and even brought me home a "gift" when I was 7 months pregnant. He said he had a "sinus infection" to get antibiotics for it and then when my OB doctor said he was cheating on me he gaslit me and said he didn't have it so I must have either cheated or got it from a toilet seat. He knew that I never cheated because I don't believe in doing something like that to someone you love. The toilet seat was ludicrous because you CAN'T get it that way. He took Chemistry and Biology in college (although I'm the one who got him through it because he's damn near illiterate because his teachers taught him to spell phonetically). I did his term papers for him because he made them into an unintelligible mess that made no sense. He doesn't even utilize the associates degree he got back then but it was of upmost importance at the time to spend as much time away from me and our kids as possible. He also met women in school so he wasn't giving that up. I always knew I was a replacement for his first love but I thought he at least loved me. He didn't. In the end, when he finally found her again, they picked up where they left off. She refused to marry him back then even though she was pregnant. She chose to marry his best friend instead and even named the baby after him. She cheated on the best friend for her next husband and on him for the next one eventually making her way back to my now ex-husband. She tried to befriend me and tell me how much she loved her husband and couldn't think about ever leaving him (then why are you talking to another man who you know damn well isn't your kid's father). They spent two weekends together before I busted them and kicked him out. I told him he needed to get a paternity for the child of the "love of his life" because she wasn't his. He said she already said she'd do one "if he wanted her to." That translates to, "I'll do it but just know that if I do then we're over because you didn't trust me." To this day, they never did the test. He ended up marrying her after our divorce. My ex-BIL spilled the tea on how their relationship really is instead of the one he tries to portray on social media. They both chronically cheat on each other and rarely speak to each other except for abusive remarks. This "the love of his life." He gets on social media and says how much he loves his wifey and can't imagine his life without his wife. When the actual truth is that they can't stand one another. I guess I wasn't the shrew he told everyone I was. At least, I never cheated, treated him the way I wanted to be treated and did everything i could to make him happy at the expense of my self-esteem and self-worth. He still claims to this day that he never cheated on me but STDs don't lie and neither does being caught in the act numerous times. He had this abusive habit of calling me every time he cheated and described everything in detail except for saying he actually did the deed just to hurt me. Karma is a bi**h isn't it? Oh and the daughter that he made our kids call sister, ex-BIL knew the best friend back in the day. He says she's a carbon copy of the best friend. He even told him to get a DNA test. Her parents came to his after she refused to marry him and demanded $50,000 for the baby. His Mom being the smart woman she was, told them to get a paternity test and they'd talk. They never got their money and now that his Mom is gone they deny it ever happened. What possible reason would she have to lie about it for all those years? My ex still can't hold a job. He gets bored easily. If it hadn't been for me forcing him to stay in the Reserves, I wouldn't be getting half of his retirement today. He was a very abusive narcissist with a chronic cheating problem and he hasn't changed. Only he's her problem now. I bet she regrets being a total homewrecker many times over now. She had loving and loyal husbands but she threw them away for him. You reap what you sow. BTW I got everything I asked for in my divorce. He lied to our judge saying he never cheated on me while he was currently living with her in another state. The judge awarded me everything I asked for and begged me to ask for more. In the end the only way he knew he could hurt me was to take his Mom away from me. She supported me in the divorce until he made up lies about me to turn her against me. It hurt me deeply because she was like a Mom to me. I tried to tell her the truth and get a transcript of our divorce but they didn't makene some reason. The fact that karma has finally come for him, makes me dance with glee. I hope he gets all that's coming to him and more. He essentially traded our family for hers and the kid wasn't even his. Hope it was all worth it.

  • @jessicamarie7564
    @jessicamarie7564 Рік тому +44

    This song is felt in the ❤️ for sure. At the end of a toxic relationship, you always remember the times you felt alone when you shouldn't have way more than any of the abuse.

  • @hiddenfire539
    @hiddenfire539 2 роки тому +67

    I love this song......it wasn't what he did but what he didn't do.....he couldn't be what I needed. He couldn't apologize. He couldn't keep promises. He couldn't lift me up. He couldn't support me. He couldn't say I was strong. He couldn't love me for me.....

    • @annecurry6010
      @annecurry6010 Рік тому +4

      I know exactly how you feel...

    • @NatalieScanlon
      @NatalieScanlon Рік тому +3

      Hey!! Are we married to the same guy

    • @aprilmanttari-see5341
      @aprilmanttari-see5341 Рік тому

      ​@@NatalieScanlon - I might have been married to that guy too. Then I was stupid enough to try a BOYfriend that did the same.

    • @FrankyCpunishmentSTYLE
      @FrankyCpunishmentSTYLE Рік тому

      @@aprilmanttari-see5341 😂

  • @jdglen24
    @jdglen24 2 роки тому +65

    This explains my last relationship...you hear about cheating and ppl intentionally hurting their partners but someone shutting down and always choosing other people ( his friends) hurts equally as much...in the end he did choose someone other than me but way before that i was alone while being in a relationship..i never felt that kind of pain in my heart before...i dont want someone who finds the beauty in being around everyone but me...

    • @CaitiJoB
      @CaitiJoB 2 роки тому +1

      All of that plus having a 3 year affair with a mutual "friend"...but now all of a sudden Im the one he wants to be after 17 years and 4 kids

    • @winniedepow8156
      @winniedepow8156 2 роки тому

      ,

    • @jenniferschutz9100
      @jenniferschutz9100 3 місяці тому

      My ex always chose his DOG over me! What the fuck!?

  • @cherylevans4401
    @cherylevans4401 2 роки тому +341

    Her new album is prob my fav, too bad she had to go through so much pain , but she’ll never know how much I relate and it’s speaks to me 😍😍

  • @PinkSunshine25
    @PinkSunshine25 2 роки тому +58

    This song hits home for several men I’ve had in my life. Luckily my husband is everything this song says he should be, and more ❤️

  • @amandawoodson5602
    @amandawoodson5602 Рік тому +28

    I was with a narcissist for 12 yrs and I love this song . And after 4 yrs of being apart people still ask what happened we was a forever thing.

    • @crystalhill9430
      @crystalhill9430 Рік тому

      Amazing

    • @lindahamilton3234
      @lindahamilton3234 Рік тому

      That's the thing about being in a narcissistic relationship. We don't stop thinking that something went wrong. The problem is we want to fix something that was never right in the 1st place.

  • @AperEight
    @AperEight 2 роки тому +44

    Very well written lyrics ….. she ain’t hanging up on the line and having spite . She’s just saying what he didn’t do right… beautiful work sister

  • @l9878
    @l9878 2 роки тому +79

    My divorce hearing is tomorrow...39+ years, 6 kids, been with him since I was 16. He did a lot, but just what this song says, it's what he didn't do.

    • @pajhawj5289
      @pajhawj5289 2 роки тому +2

      I’m sorry to hear but glad ur moving on .

    • @gogosupinsky7534
      @gogosupinsky7534 2 роки тому +5

      Would like to hear his side of the story.

    • @l9878
      @l9878 2 роки тому

      @@gogosupinsky7534 Good point, there certainly always 2 sides to every story.

    • @advancingarchives
      @advancingarchives 2 роки тому +1

      Since you have apparently been out of the dating market for so long ... I suggest you listen to no less than 20 hours of Kevin Samuels shows ( not the 5 or 6 minute clips -- lacking all context -- ... the actual 2 hr programs ). He may not be of your ethnic group ... but the facts he shares are common across the board.

    • @l9878
      @l9878 2 роки тому +5

      @@advancingarchives thanks for the advice, I will do that. I don't plan on dating anytime soon. My 14 year old son is my focus. And myself. I need to figure what my part in this failed relationship is before I jump into another one.

  • @jaredcrimmins6040
    @jaredcrimmins6040 2 роки тому +18

    I feel like this is my kid's mom talking to me right now hands down this is how I really was and I feel sorry about this now

  • @carolinemostrom6842
    @carolinemostrom6842 2 роки тому +163

    This song just randomly popped up. I'm going through this so hard right now. I just left my husband because he could never be the man I wanted and needed. He took me for granted every single day. 💔

    • @terrytschoepe6132
      @terrytschoepe6132 2 роки тому +11

      Hey I'm glad u realized this now just remember this a woman should be treated with the highest respect and know what she is worth. Yet maybe God was just giving u a lesson at the time for something more deserving out there waiting as u r hang in there I'm very sorry ur ex couldn't be the man for u there r some good ones out there. Prayers and hugs keep ur head held up and know ur worth it all still ma'am have a blessed day

    • @gogosupinsky7534
      @gogosupinsky7534 2 роки тому +4

      I'd like to hear his side of the story.

    • @DMarie-qg4jp
      @DMarie-qg4jp 2 роки тому +2

      Same same 😭

    • @terrytschoepe6132
      @terrytschoepe6132 2 роки тому +1

      Hugs

    • @almanaylor2586
      @almanaylor2586 2 роки тому +8

      Caroline, I was 16 when I got married and I thought he was the love of my life, and I was right, it was a roller coaster ride from the start, but never gave up, 4 boys, 14 grand kids, 26 great grand kids and 54 years later it was still going strong when I lost him after 54 years. my best friend and love of my life.

  • @KP-62
    @KP-62 2 роки тому +326

    I can relate to this song so much right now. I’m married but yet he still does nothing he needs to do. How and why does a man treat a woman so bad now a days…. And then they say I love you just to make them feel better…. Love these lyrics… just what I needed to hear…. Thank you Carly!!

    • @heathercollis9688
      @heathercollis9688 2 роки тому +40

      Going through same thing. It's hard to leave because you always hope he'll change but deep down you know he won't. And It hurts

    • @bethclark8867
      @bethclark8867 2 роки тому +14

      My husband loves to hurt my feelings and make me feel bad and he has no reason most of the time why he talks to me the way he does.

    • @Roadrash429
      @Roadrash429 2 роки тому +19

      Truth be told,
      It happens because you let it..

    • @KP-62
      @KP-62 2 роки тому +4

      @@Roadrash429 this is true....

    • @kelleyduong
      @kelleyduong 2 роки тому +52

      ​@@Roadrash429 No, it's not because you let it. Most women I guarantee would walk away if these men showed this side of them in the beginning. Many times women fall in love with an imposter, who was supposed to be the good guy who loves her then shows his true colors. A woman don't just let a man in her life if she thought he was this way in the beginning. Obviously most women don't let a man treat them that way, that's why they end up in break ups and divorce. And when they stay, it's because of love, family, kids, financial, shelter, etc.... and they want to keep it together ... many times are very loving, forgiving, loyal, committed, kind and giving person who doesn't want to quit on their love and make it work. Also, some don't have the financial means or support to walk away. It's more complex. So to say because they let it, is insensitive and ignorant.

  • @rosecarman9684
    @rosecarman9684 2 роки тому +29

    “I waited patiently for the LORD;
    he inclined to me and heard my cry.
    He drew me up from the pit of destruction,
    out of the miry bog,
    and set my feet upon a rock,
    making my steps secure.
    He put a new song in my mouth,
    a song of praise to our God.
    Many will see and fear,
    and put their trust in the LORD.”-psalm 40:1-3

  • @lisasmith7474
    @lisasmith7474 Рік тому +9

    Dammit I'm tearing up, okay why am I leaking. She nailed this. I've never heard this song before but she hit a lot of the problems women have with men in relationships.

  • @alexpratt8533
    @alexpratt8533 2 роки тому +19

    This song is flawless, from the first note to the last.

    • @chriss8970
      @chriss8970 Рік тому

      Very well said. My new favorite! It has it all.

  • @anitakeegan7950
    @anitakeegan7950 10 місяців тому +6

    This song says what my married life was. After 22 yrs. I finally left. I was still in love w/ him the day I left. I moved to a different state (my son & his daughters are here) w/ me. I thank God every day. They are my world. ☮️

  • @Alexander010209
    @Alexander010209 2 роки тому +88

    This is the first time I've ever heard of her and I'm so glad I listened to this song. This is the anthem of my life right now. I am just praying for the strength to get out... This song is everything.

    • @rachelb2224
      @rachelb2224 2 роки тому +3

      That's exactly where I'm at as well!

    • @chalycelee2823
      @chalycelee2823 2 роки тому +4

      I’ve experienced this. Never lose your faith, God has a plan. It’s not our plan but HIS! God will restore your entire life as long as you let him and look for him for guidance. Prayers for those out there. I promise there is a way out….God

    • @sandralittle2138
      @sandralittle2138 2 роки тому +3

      You find your strength one step at a time in the right direction! Godspeed!

    • @spadeishere5267
      @spadeishere5267 2 роки тому

      @@chalycelee2823 vvvv

    • @mistygannon2479
      @mistygannon2479 2 роки тому +2

      Get out beautiful

  • @kayedredfield9102
    @kayedredfield9102 2 роки тому +27

    I don't think I've heard a song that I can relate to so much besides this one. A few months ago I was in a relationship that was toxic and I was forced to love him by so many people when I shouldn't have. Now 5 months later I am doing so much better and in a relationship with my best friend. Carly you have no idea how much this song means to me. It has inspired me to give up on toxic men and find the right ones and I know when I will find that right man, he will treat me right, put me first, and be a man of his words. ❤

  • @catherinetodd
    @catherinetodd 2 роки тому +45

    "I won't tell the hell that he put me through..." Don't we know the feeling! You keep saying it girl! Buying your whole album right now!

    • @catherinetodd
      @catherinetodd Рік тому

      @Scott Williams : thank you and it did!

  • @heatherlynsey3092
    @heatherlynsey3092 2 роки тому +39

    I feel like ive waited lifetimes for this one 🤣🤣😭😭 I love it so much

  • @linusquandras9853
    @linusquandras9853 2 роки тому +30

    Girl you are a girl's girl who looks after other women and isn't shy about singing what you feel.I think that and you are amazing. You tried so hard to make it in this crazy industry and you made it. You did not just make it you are a member of the grand ole Opry and have a duet with Ashley McBryde. Keep going girl reach for those stars because you absolutely deserve them.

  • @kim2007fun
    @kim2007fun 2 роки тому +32

    To which he repiles..." you are never happy" ..insert tears here.

  • @livelovegrow96
    @livelovegrow96 2 роки тому +10

    I have never reacted like this to a song before. I was shaking and crying. This just hits too hard for me. I felt like my heart was going to explode.

  • @bre702
    @bre702 2 роки тому +17

    This hits the heart heard because I was in an abusive and mintpultive relationship and the line " I won't tell the hell he put me through hits extremely hard

    • @Melissa-kl9li
      @Melissa-kl9li 2 роки тому +1

      I have also been in these situations and I just want to say you dont deserve to be treated that way ever.You deserve a partner who will treat you with respect and kindness. I have learnt and am still learning to value myself more so I never put up with this sort of treatment ever again. I wish you well on your Journey and just know you deserve better

  • @lanceshuman7189
    @lanceshuman7189 2 роки тому +14

    This is one heck of a good song. The emotion in her voice and intensity of the lyrics are absolutely amazing, beautiful and heartbreaking 💔

  • @Shindler39
    @Shindler39 Рік тому +5

    Another outstanding Country song by you Carly, you have an amazing voice. May God Bless You.

  • @erikpearson6244
    @erikpearson6244 2 роки тому +29

    Is it crazy that this is exactly how I felt/feel about her? I wish there was a male version of this. But I'll sacrifice that for the beauty of this song

    • @kaitlinclipper3535
      @kaitlinclipper3535 2 роки тому +2

      I immediately thought this applies to both gender so please know that men's silent suffering is not forgotten.

    • @erikpearson6244
      @erikpearson6244 2 роки тому

      @@kaitlinclipper3535 idk how other men feel about it but I absolutely adore it and thank you

  • @alexiamendoza4169
    @alexiamendoza4169 2 роки тому +59

    Brought tears to my eyes made me remember my ex husband, and that I would never let another man treat me wrong again great job with this song it's very emotional ❤️❤️ 🇹🇹🇹🇹

    • @tiffanyvanarsdal4559
      @tiffanyvanarsdal4559 2 роки тому +1

      We learn sometimes from what we go through.. that I have such high standards I believe I never find someone in my league ever but I just worry more Abt raising my kids right then getting with another man for now..

    • @serenity2655
      @serenity2655 2 роки тому +2

      Never again! Movin onnnnn

    • @copymathew5372
      @copymathew5372 2 роки тому +2

      Oh no, I will never appreciate any man not treating his paternal like shit. Am sorry about your ex husband. Yea move on .. we’re you from?

    • @alexiamendoza4169
      @alexiamendoza4169 2 роки тому

      @@copymathew5372 Am from Trinidad and Tobago the Caribbean

    • @copymathew5372
      @copymathew5372 2 роки тому

      Wow, will love to visit some day, am in Texas. Will love to get to know you, probably become friends if you don’t mind, how can I contact you please?

  • @deborah3941
    @deborah3941 2 роки тому +15

    Her new songs literally are my life's story!😭🙏❤️

  • @davidragusa2200
    @davidragusa2200 2 роки тому +6

    great song. Very talented young woman. Her duet with Ashley McBride and this song seems to me to be a sign she is about to hit it big.

  • @jeng1594
    @jeng1594 2 роки тому +18

    Damn, Carly. It's like you are looking right into the window of my home and heart. Feeling every word of these lyrics at this time of my life. Thank you.

  • @Lilybug-m3k
    @Lilybug-m3k 10 місяців тому +5

    This song is about my husband,from the day I met him. I have been with him going on 49 years now knowing he will never change,but now I am old and no place to go.

    • @36skittle
      @36skittle 5 місяців тому +1

      Never too old. I divorced at 64. Last 6 years have been the happiest of my life.

  • @snipesgaming94
    @snipesgaming94 Рік тому +3

    I threw away a beautiful and amazing family because I didn't do these things... I would give everything to have another chance to do these things now. 😢 How was I so stupid to not do these things for my family...

  • @ladjamavila556
    @ladjamavila556 Рік тому +28

    Lyrics for us😍
    Everybody's asking what the hell happened
    Wondering why it all went wrong
    Mama always said, "if you can't say something nice
    Then don't say anything at all"
    And I've got my side of the story and he's got his side, too
    So I ain't gonna go and tell you what he did
    But I'll tell you what he didn't do
    Treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word
    Stay home 'cause he wanted to
    Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something
    That he couldn't stand to lose
    The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through
    All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did, no
    It was what he didn't do
    I'm already halfway over him and I ain't taking time to turn around
    So I'ma take the high road, even though we both know
    I could run him out of this town
    That's just dirty laundry, I don't need to wear the truth
    So I ain't gonna tell you everything he did
    But I'll tell you what he didn't do
    Treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word
    Stay home 'cause he wanted to
    Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something
    That he couldn't stand to lose
    The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through
    All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did, no
    It was what he didn't do
    I ain't met the right one yet but I know when I do
    He'll treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word
    Stay home 'cause he wanted to
    Always fight for my love, hold on tight like it's something
    That he can't stand to lose
    The devil's in the details, I won't tell the hell that he put me through
    All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did, no
    It was what he didn't do
    All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did, no
    It was what he didn't do

  • @shirinmarie5236
    @shirinmarie5236 2 роки тому +16

    Omg just when I think I couldn’t love another song more from her but this is so lyrically amazing!!!!

    • @copymathew5372
      @copymathew5372 2 роки тому

      Exactly how I feel about country music cause it heals and brings strength when am down, am attracted to your comment and it got me asking, we’re you from?

  • @geraldinemitchell1324
    @geraldinemitchell1324 2 роки тому +22

    She knows how to say it all, great song as usual Carly, I hate to admit I can relate to so many of her songs and that makes me a fool ☘☘☘🇮🇪

  • @ILoveYouAlejandra
    @ILoveYouAlejandra Рік тому +2

    Literally Crying..
    😢🍃😭
    Please God...
    🍃🙏🏼🍃

  • @Pmelissa95
    @Pmelissa95 2 роки тому +3

    it's hard to believe the right one will naturally do these things when you've been told by the wrong one that you're expecting too much 🥺🥺

  • @matthewh.8717
    @matthewh.8717 2 роки тому +14

    The dislikes are from people realizing that it was what they didn't do that cost them the relationship. Love this song!

  • @scorpiosunmoon4665
    @scorpiosunmoon4665 2 роки тому +4

    This captures it all … it’s the absence of actions that tell you where you stand with someone

  • @victoriaboydsweethang6556
    @victoriaboydsweethang6556 Рік тому +3

    Once you've been heart broken and cut deep. It changes a woman. When a woman gives her all to be burned is the most painful experience to go through. I can 100% relate to this song!!!! Thank you for writing and singing my hearts feelings....

  • @robertajones6311
    @robertajones6311 2 роки тому +9

    I needed this song tonight. Facing this truth right now. It helped hearing it. ❤

  • @russhernandez2516
    @russhernandez2516 2 роки тому +3

    Damn! Carly and Ashley are two of my favorites on radio right now. Hella singers/song writers....their duet and this right here...🔥🔥🔥

  • @dobroplayer7
    @dobroplayer7 2 роки тому +5

    Really great song! Vocals are haunting (as always) and you know I love how the Dobro and your vocals play off each other. You and your player do that really well in a ton of your tunes.

  • @latrishavanover5529
    @latrishavanover5529 2 роки тому

    I love this song, she couldn't have said it any better. I love all of her songs. She must've been through alot I've been through and she inspires me. I love her

  • @Harley_Vampy_Sis_Quinn
    @Harley_Vampy_Sis_Quinn 2 роки тому +9

    This absolutely speaks volumes.. my ex bf, was verbally, mentally, emotionally abusive, and is narcissist, amongst some other things. Never easy going through a breakup, but worth it, when you distance yourself from something not meant to be.

  • @dezritter1552
    @dezritter1552 2 роки тому +4

    This. Girl. Yes. There is no other words. Absolutely perfect!

  • @Lady-in-the-wrinkled-wrangler
    @Lady-in-the-wrinkled-wrangler 2 роки тому +15

    This is officially the best song you've come out with. I absolutely love it 💙

  • @thattrokguy9623
    @thattrokguy9623 Рік тому +12

    i know this song is from a womans perspective about a guy but even just reversing the lyrics from a he to she, it still hits just as deep.. the pain that was caused, no matter the amount, pain was still caused. the past is the past for a reason but at some point that past was the future and it still makes us who we are today and we have to live with it, we can either hide it and carry on or use it to our advantage and make a more positive and better outcome for ourselves. no one will ever understand that pain you’ve been through with however many looks, however many conversations. no one will truly understand..

  • @redneck1st555
    @redneck1st555 2 роки тому

    One of the Best and most truthful songs for which I've heard in awhile. Men we can all learn something from the words of this song here. Thank You Carly Pearce.

  • @sqkaczmarek
    @sqkaczmarek 2 роки тому +6

    Broken hearts make great lyrics and you are KILLING IT sharing your heart with us. It's a beautiful journey back to an open heart that loves again. You're on your way. GREAT vocals, this is an absolute treasure. Thank you, Carly.

  • @ericayorks4874
    @ericayorks4874 Рік тому +3

    Her voice is like honey. Its so beautiful. Lyrics are amazing to. 👏

  • @Slayallday975
    @Slayallday975 Рік тому +2

    I saw her in concert and all I was at that moment was happy and with a few tears because she is so strong and I listen to her songs everyday!!

  • @sheilasmith2394
    @sheilasmith2394 2 роки тому +1

    I love her! This 29 album is so touching and honest

  • @neannlove8066
    @neannlove8066 2 роки тому +7

    Mannnnn.. I got no words for these golden lyrics... 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

    • @tiffanijenkins4501
      @tiffanijenkins4501 2 роки тому +1

      I mean I hashbrowns call me or does my mom‘s name is Tiffany I want you Qatar when you call me I love you byep

  • @crystal_sm
    @crystal_sm 2 роки тому +6

    You’re spot on with this song ! Going through this right now ! Thank you for my new anthem !

  • @rukurhetso7551
    @rukurhetso7551 2 роки тому

    Relate so Much... Felt every words of the songs... Well written.. Sung beautifully ❤.

  • @bdagmar11
    @bdagmar11 2 роки тому +4

    This one is so accurate for what I experienced… I kept waiting for him to change and I finally got tired of waiting and hoping. I thought my love was enough but it’s hard to be in a relationship when only one person tries.

    • @Melissa-kl9li
      @Melissa-kl9li Рік тому

      So true . If your partner is not willing to work at it you cant solve the issues.Its so hard. I have been in the same position and its difficult. Sometimes you just wish they would work on it but you cant make them and sometimes you have to walk away.

  • @Kelly-ne9yw
    @Kelly-ne9yw 2 роки тому +4

    Wow. This song is absolutely amazing and how true!!! Her voice is beautiful 💖

  • @ashleycotton137
    @ashleycotton137 2 роки тому +14

    Thank you for this song. I know many of us needed it. It’s so hard to process everything they did and put us through. But this explains it so perfectly

  • @evaday5390
    @evaday5390 2 роки тому +9

    This song tells a story. Thank you Carly you explained me without me having to say anything abt my ex 😭❤️

  • @jenniferfoster8029
    @jenniferfoster8029 Рік тому

    Wow! Such an amazing song. Absolutely love it. Completely hits home❤

  • @aurelamedulaj7605
    @aurelamedulaj7605 2 роки тому +49

    This song describes how it is being in a relationship with a covert narcissist.👌🏻

  • @linleyprestidge8484
    @linleyprestidge8484 2 роки тому +5

    I relate to this song so much. Such a talented woman.

  • @joymbugua6135
    @joymbugua6135 2 роки тому +1

    One of the best songwriters...I dont even know where to start.....perfect word to word

  • @melaniethompson2676
    @melaniethompson2676 2 роки тому +2

    Carly is a musical genius! I would love to meet her . She has the purest heart I’ve ever seen. 🥺💕

  • @user-zw2jd7ln9s
    @user-zw2jd7ln9s 2 роки тому +4

    This song reminds of my father. I love this song, and will forever thank her for it. It helps me get all my emotions out about my father.

  • @Itsher_1210
    @Itsher_1210 2 роки тому +6

    - I love this .. 🤍🤍 I felt every word!!

  • @jkookjeon8114
    @jkookjeon8114 2 роки тому +1

    such a beautiful song. the lyrics are just on point.

  • @melissagorley8293
    @melissagorley8293 2 роки тому +4

    I'm going threw a divorce from a narcissist man. This song is on repeat and helps me Alittle every time I hear it❤️

  • @dobazajr
    @dobazajr 2 роки тому +36

    I love how this sounds like from early 2000s country. Nice!

    • @dr3w399
      @dr3w399 Рік тому

      This is good country.

  • @SarahElainePippin1990
    @SarahElainePippin1990 2 роки тому +5

    I'm in love with this song...I swear! She's the best

  • @berndschulze8450
    @berndschulze8450 Рік тому

    Really big talent with a fantastic song text about a severe problem ... more than we can imagine!
    I like this voice so damn much!!

  • @MJ4EVER68
    @MJ4EVER68 Рік тому +2

    wow, gave me goosebumps. I learned all this the hard way 20 years ago about my narcissist, drunk, abusive ex. Thank God, I raised my boundaries and standards and found someone I deserved and have never regretted it!

  • @gillianmackin
    @gillianmackin 2 роки тому +6

    Love this one!!! Amazing as always, Carly!!!

  • @mpblack2127
    @mpblack2127 2 роки тому +6

    Amazing lyrics and voice. I love Carly's music.

  • @veronican3927
    @veronican3927 2 роки тому +5

    Wow! This song totally hits home right now, the words speak truth and what better voice than that of Carly Pearce. Very beautiful song, thank you!

  • @travisbartholomay
    @travisbartholomay Рік тому +4

    Your voice triggers the words to flow from my heart.
    Where I get to meet my true self.
    Like a kid With excitement
    Running around all over social media
    Creating my own playground
    whether they want to here or not
    Miles of heart spreading
    Imagination fire

  • @karimorris5150
    @karimorris5150 Рік тому +3

    Carly is on point with her songs! Love them!

  • @carlastanley2301
    @carlastanley2301 2 роки тому +4

    I was in this kind of marriage 22 yrs when I left. He was a wonderful provider but he never put me and the boys first. I wish things could have been different but they weren't. He is remarried and happy. I'm happy for him. I'm just struggling with what he didn't do.

  • @popmusiclover1000
    @popmusiclover1000 2 роки тому +1

    I never had a break up but this song is perfect.. Her diplomatic approach to heartbreak with the lyrics here is truly beautiful. ❤️

  • @jocelynsmith1510
    @jocelynsmith1510 2 роки тому +1

    This is perfect for what I am going through. Thank you for this beautiful song.💔

  • @markisabsolutelyfullycapable
    @markisabsolutelyfullycapable 2 роки тому +6

    Been listening to this on repeat since like last week, and boom, I am now a fan. I can't believe I never knew her before. Like, what I have been doing in my life?

  • @luianese
    @luianese 2 роки тому +4

    Amazing!! This is a masterpiece!! LOVE LOVE LOVE

  • @mya6191
    @mya6191 Рік тому

    I love this song! Such powerful lyrics.

  • @ALEXAPATINOAFORALEXA
    @ALEXAPATINOAFORALEXA 2 роки тому +3

    She made one hell of a song right here!!!!! Go Carly

  • @jenerlendson5911
    @jenerlendson5911 2 роки тому +6

    Great song! Thanks for saying what we all need to see