If a woman invites you over to her place, but says that she's not going to sleep with you, do not go. Tell her thanks, but you don't want any mixed signals complicating the evening. And if she immediately changes her mind, and says it might happen, immediately walk away. That's a clear-cut "I felt pressured and coerced" situation. And you absolutely don't want to ever be in this situation.
I F em up when I invite a woman over and the first thing she says is we're not having sex. I instantly reply with oh ok goodnight! Lol when u make them feel like their only needed or wanted for sex, it makes them work harder to show you they're much more! If as men we only let women think their sex is payment or all she has to do for u then that's all you'll ever get
when I invite a woman over and the first thing she says is we're not having Zex. I instantly reply with oh ok goodnight! Lol when u make them feel like their only needed or wanted for Zex, it makes them work harder to show you they're much more! If as men we only let women think their Zex is payment or all she has to do for u then that's all you'll ever get. Make them work it.
Grandma here. This young man is a pleasure to hear! He's so right. Never allow a woman to disrespect you. Decide where your "line in the sand" is, and never allow anyone to cross it. Body counts matter. They just do.
The thing is some goofy women like this allow their emotions to dictate their intelligence. Bottom line: she is trying to send you to jail. Know those signs and block their number immediately.😂😂😂
Someone did this to me. Stormed out after her nap then ended up in another man's bed that night. She posted on Snapchat. A week later she stops by and kid you not on the phone talking about dude told her to get tested and she was waiting on the results. I was just amazed she was having this conversation in my house 😂😂😂. Just stupid.
A lot of females do that. Tryna play like she ain't easy but be easy the whole time. Put that bird on the air mattress in the living room and then she'll end up in the bed anyway.
That's cap. The first woman is the real woman right or wrong this is how sick in the head they are. They actually want you to try so they can reject you and control their access for when they want to give it. I STOPPED a woman in her tracks after a 3rd fail at the innards, and she didn't speak with me over 3months than literally gave it to me on a random call to come over and rearrange her furniture.
@@Ali-zv1yk that’s a dangerous game you’re playing. You need to record everything, all interactions (get permission first). don’t be surprised when you catch a case. A lot of these women are psychos for Internet attention. If a woman really wants you, she will make it extremely easy to get that “access”
My ex was literally like her. We are both grown (both in our 30s). She invited me over to spend the night. I came over and brought rubbers, but she said she didn't want to have sex because we just met. I respected her and cuddled. The next time she invited me over to spend the night, I told her I wasn't comfortable spending the night if we weren’t being active, so Ill pass. I explained how I felt that we should just go on dates until she was ready. She flipped out and said I was clearly cheating with someone else and at that point, I realized she was crazy and broke it off... After about a month of no contact she randomly called me over to smash--I still hit a few times... 🤷🏾♂️
If donot like you then your gay !!!! Why donot you put shoe on the other foot ,,,if does not like she must be gay!!!!!! Women talk through there goldplate VEGna(most talk crap of not ots a teat) 😠😠😠😊
WTF is wrong with this chick? She said he cuddle her and had an issue with that? After she said I'm not gonna do anything with him?? WOW she is horrible
Never play those games. He shouldn't have even taken her to his place. She said no sex. No reason to take her home. Call a different chick after she's in the Uber if you have to get laid.
Nose rings dont equal attitude... i have a septum and i dont have a attitude problem... tired of seeing just because i have something that i like doesnt mean i have a problem with attitude.
No its people without Christ. I didn't grow up with my father in my life and knowing Jesus is what gave me a different mentality than most people (women specifically) have today.
What I learned from my dad is the silent treatment. When a argument goes from talking to each other like adults to a school yard fight I go silent as the fight has regressed to a level of a child. There is no point in the argument anymore plus at that point I am about to say something I will not be able to take back.
My wife used to get mad at me for not "arguing fair" because I would just nod and smile. I told her why would I argue with you when I know I'm right and you just want to argue? Got a week of silent treatment, which I titled BFB, break from bitching. She didn't like that either.
Shout out to the dude who stood on business and didn't compromise his boundaries. Calling him a B**** shows she didn't have any respect for him, and if he let it slide, she really wouldn't have any respect and would've said or done worse.
There are a lot of parents out there that allow their kids to steal or don’t even care, that dad is a real dad, that’s what every parent should be doing, kudos to that man.
My parents did something similar with me when I was in middle school, they made me walk up to the customer service and tell them what I did and give it back
70 yo man who was raised in the country when i was just a little boy I stole a toy from a country store. My mom made me take it back and confess my deed. I was so ashamed and it stuck with me my whole life.
I did a similar thing to my son when he was like 6 years old. I made him give it back and tell the store employee what he did. It was only a package of gum, but he learned about "the principle of the thing" on that day. He never stole anything again. He is now 25.
It was the right thing to do, but not the right way to do it. That woman was at the register and he just inserted himself into the interaction aggressively. He could have also shown his children patience, courtesy and respect for other people's boundaries while he was at it, but instead imposed himself on other people, one of which is just a customer of the business. I don't like the clip myself. It smacks of a well intentioned man who does not realize that he is exhibiting patterns of behavior that conflict with what he is trying to teach.
@kevg1617 You make a fair point. I didn't find him aggressive personally but he did interrupt others. I'd add he was acting on a bit of adrenaline given how visceral our children can make us feel. I only watched the clip once. Perhaps he apologized to others for the interruption.
@@louissavoy4832 yeah, I understand why he acted as he did, but it will appear contradictory to his kids, as if it's only a question of perspective whether or not ypu can impose yourself on others. As though his anger makes it righteous. I'm thinking that it's possible he lets his anger control him at times under other circumstances, which is demonstrating behavior to his kids which could well be the reason they felt entitled to steal in the first place, despite a father figure whonis clearly setting rules and boundaries. We just don't have enough info anyway to make a judgment on anything outside of the video, which is just another reason I don't like it, despite, as I said, the fact that I agree with what he did and his intentions in doing it.
with that one clip with the group of females discussing that he should like you more than you like him, each and every one of them had the same stereotypical look about them that screams " *_I'm drama, please keep away_* ".
Agreed. They're only cognizant enough to deal with the guys who wear pants under their behinds anyway. None of them like law abiding productive black men. Their stupidity is quickly revealed when they attempt to place all black men in the same category. Those women are not qualified to weigh in on the conversation with that mindset.
My husband and I got hot and heavy at his mom’s house (he just moved back from Chicago and was temporarily living with his mom) and we were ready to do the thang. We LEFT and got a room. We ended up staying up talking all night instead of intimacy. We really loved being together. We wouldn’t disrespect his mom’s house doing things. We got married after dating for 2 months. We spent every night together for those months after work. Never regretted anything. We’ve been married for 34 years. I knew he was my person. He’s 8 years older than me. I was 19 when we married and he was 27. He’s the BEST husband. Some might think that’s a big age gap, but I have never liked men my age. So it definitely worked for us for a number of reasons. We are actually born the same day, just 8 years apart. I wouldn’t trade him for anything.
@@kingdolladp369 and that's exactly what I mean. It might seem like a big gap to some, but it really isn't. My grandma Money married her husband when she was 14 and grandpa was 25. That's how it was back then. They had 21 children. I tell folks that we couldn't date anyone in Youngstown Ohio because we are probably related. When she died she had 96 grandchildren.
@@Californiawest862 you missed the point of what was said. It wasn't even about money. It was about love and respect. This is the exact problem with this generation. Everything is about money. Not once did i mention money. Sadly, y'all are lead by material worth. You won't understand what REAL love and respect for one another is. If that's the driving force for you I'm sorry and I will pray that you find understanding that everything doesn't come with a price tag attached to it. SMHH.
Yeah as a man I noticed that I was getting out of sight of myself and I started acting a little thirsty because I hadn't been in a relationship in a minute and so I had to pull back and think about it and say hey. What are you doing this ain't you. This ain't how you act. This ain't how you let women act towards you that let women treat you. Women don't control you. You don't chase them down either. They want to be bothered or they don't so I had to get back in into my regular form and frame. And thanks fellas for always keeping me on my toes
13:04 I was in second grade and I stole some candy from the bottom rack of a mama pop convenience store. After my mom got done rearranging the skin cells on my bottom end. She made me walk all the way back to the store. Hand the candy back to the man. Tell him I was sorry. And then I had to work off what candy I ate by sweeping his parking lot. This Dad should get dad of the year.
That’s my race. Not just black women. Cool it tf down with that narrative. Why put all black women in a category? Ur part of the problem. Other races of women are starting to see how ALL black men are…creating broken homes and ALL. See how that sounds? Majority of black women act out but that’s majority of all races. Not just one.
My Dad made me do the walk of shame at the dime store when I was a kid. I learned a lesson. Fast forward 20 years I had to take all my three kids to the convenience store to do the walk of shame. They learned their lesson also. I'm thankful for my Dad. RIP
Woman here, RUN, from women who play with you, are loud, think they are the prize or a princess, curse every other word. Bring back shame. Disrespectful women should be called out. Say what you mean, and mean what you sat.
All jokes aside Charles you put out great content that young and old can learn from. These life lessons that you are showing, will hopefully teach, influence and model the next generation of solid men! I salute you Charles N Charge!🙏
More parents need to do that with their kids. Believe me, this was a life lesson for them. They wont ever forget it. Thats what you want. Keep up the good work bruh
❤❤❤ I am glad he stood on his word regarding his deal-breaker. As for me we wouldn't have a conversation after we get home. There is no we. There is no home. Ghost and block. Not another word
Embarrassed them kids early. Let them know that shame feeling first hand. I hope they do better. Good job to the father there big up yourself boss man.
3:00 - Including the guys... all trash. No control, just entertaining nonsense. 5:00 - Maybe I'm crazy but profanity is off limits. Dude was trying to make exceptions for how the disrespect is delivered. They entertaining some wild women. Turned up a bit but not violent is still a no no. Before it got that far, remove yourself. Never argue with a woman. Smh. Pathetic.
She's a poster child for a college degree being overrated (as someone that has one from a pretty prestigious institution). It's clear that intelligence and college are not necessarily correlated
Single is the best way right now. I am not kiss no ground that any woman walk on that shiiii is out of the question. I give out what I get in respect love loyalty and all around relationship.
@@NobleTyrant so I married a woman, not on my level. I put her through school, and she seemed to love me more. After about 5 years, I softened towards her. I spent more time with her. I complimented her more. Trying to make up for being hard early on. As soon as I started doing that, she changed. She ended up cheating and we divorced. I made her feel so good about herself, that she thought she could do better. The streets ate her alive. She didn't realize that I was nice, because I loved her. She tried to come back, but no.
@@YeniuOjiak thank you, but I'm good. After about a year of grieving my failure, I moved on. I laughed at myself, because I realized that I didn't really like her that much. I had made a commitment though. Which brings us back to where we started. Be blessed.
Wow honestly it seems like there are going to be a lot of lonely, single, miserable ladies in the world whose toxicity is being catered to by other women. It’s sad but hey it is what it is.
With women these days it's never about an equal playing field or reciprocation it's about what they can get from you my man. It's about what they can use you for and have that control. As Sun Tzu said "know thy enemy, know thyself, and then a thousand battles you shall never be defeated" Know your enemy in this case Women.
Why do folks keep saying “flewed out”? Are they trying to show off how ignorant they are or is that a new slang word? I know back in my day Bloods would say someone was “flewed out” when referring to crips or someone dressed in all blue but nowadays folks keep saying “flewed out” referring to being flown out… and they sound stupid as hell speaking like that (IMO).
signs of a high body count, 10:37's reaction to said question...... like once we ask and we hear that, we know it's in the high double digits... maybe triple digits. and we also know that these chicks are low key ashamed of their lack of discretion and discernment and also self control....
In the first example, I don't think women who do that are typically trying to control. I think they are just playing games because women, in general, like playing games. The other reason is she could see herself in a relationship with the guy and didn't want to look like a 304.
Don't risk it, the moment she no longer loves you she could use that to destroy you. I have a girl like that on my DM but I told her no and that is it. You complicate issues I leave you. Very simple.
The first lame just wanted the POWER to reject and THEN tell her friends about it! He took it away from her by being respectful...........................W 's are pathetic.
"I told him I'll come over but we aren't gonna have sex" "I don't get it, why didn't he even TRY to sleep with me???" The woman hurt herself in confusion
7:59 Brothas it is important to set your boundaries and stand 10 toes down on it. Some things are non negotiable and disrespect is one of those things. Women have to learn how to be intentional and considerate on how they communicate with us, the same way we need to be with them. When we are violated, we dont have to tolerate it.
If I were to use the logic of the girl with the black and green on, that would be like a car seller saying "That's a dumb question to ask if the car has been in any wrecks. Why don't you stop living in the past, and just go catch the bus and walk like you were doing before".
Some Women are so easy, nowadays, They do not have to work for you. Your actual sets the possibility of developing a relationship. If you go on a date, he feeds you, then sleeps with you and you do not even know him; you will do that with anybody. You are nothing special. He is not going to invest too much into you.
Yep this is a lesson i was taugh by my mom when i was younger. She said i dont care if your about to park the "car" in the "garage," if she sounds one bit hesitant put it in reverse and take her home. I had to do it twice. Both times they insisted no they were ready i told them get up put your clothes on and we could talk avout it next time.!!!
13:25 this right here is why children need both parents. If you don’t teach a child right vs wrong then they will fail in life. We shouldn’t have to teach ourselves our own life lessons all the time. Some lessons are meant to come from the parent, in this case a great father. ❤
😂😂 LOLL! Why are these women talking to Social Media??? They need serious professional help. Anyway, Gentlemen, it's Passport Time! Happy Independence day to all the strong and independent!!!
Good info! "now I feel ugly" she says.. Only person who made her feel ugly is her. She set her self up. Setting boundaries is good, but accept it once you said it.
“That’s sassy!” Why don’t they know the definition of the words they use? Don’t they realize that sassy is a compliment?! Smh 🤦🏽♂️ just like how they don’t even know the definition of misogyny!! lol 😂
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If a woman invites you over to her place, but says that she's not going to sleep with you, do not go.
Tell her thanks, but you don't want any mixed signals complicating the evening.
And if she immediately changes her mind, and says it might happen, immediately walk away. That's a clear-cut "I felt pressured and coerced" situation. And you absolutely don't want to ever be in this situation.
She would probably swoon if a Chad or Ray Ray said.. I ain't got sleep in mind b.
It,s a sure red flag
@@christianbenn316 black flag...lol
I F em up when I invite a woman over and the first thing she says is we're not having sex. I instantly reply with oh ok goodnight! Lol when u make them feel like their only needed or wanted for sex, it makes them work harder to show you they're much more! If as men we only let women think their sex is payment or all she has to do for u then that's all you'll ever get
when I invite a woman over and the first thing she says is we're not having Zex. I instantly reply with oh ok goodnight! Lol when u make them feel like their only needed or wanted for Zex, it makes them work harder to show you they're much more! If as men we only let women think their Zex is payment or all she has to do for u then that's all you'll ever get. Make them work it.
Grandma here. This young man is a pleasure to hear! He's so right. Never allow a woman to disrespect you. Decide where your "line in the sand" is, and never allow anyone to cross it.
Body counts matter. They just do.
Hey Gram! Quick question, why do you think modern women have no boundaries and/or why modern men don’t set them?
If a woman agrees to come over after a date and then complains her date didn’t try anything is a super large Red Flag. 😂
The thing is some goofy women like this allow their emotions to dictate their intelligence. Bottom line: she is trying to send you to jail. Know those signs and block their number immediately.😂😂😂
WOW
Someone did this to me. Stormed out after her nap then ended up in another man's bed that night. She posted on Snapchat. A week later she stops by and kid you not on the phone talking about dude told her to get tested and she was waiting on the results. I was just amazed she was having this conversation in my house 😂😂😂. Just stupid.
@@ElevenAce I'm amazed you let her in your house.
if I ask a woman over and she says she is not sleeping with me, I revoke my invite immediately. no second chances. done. bye.
I showed this to my female coworkers, and they said the first woman is trying to send you to jail.
They’re exactly correct. That dude better block that disgusting bird ASAP😂
A lot of females do that. Tryna play like she ain't easy but be easy the whole time. Put that bird on the air mattress in the living room and then she'll end up in the bed anyway.
That's cap. The first woman is the real woman right or wrong this is how sick in the head they are. They actually want you to try so they can reject you and control their access for when they want to give it. I STOPPED a woman in her tracks after a 3rd fail at the innards, and she didn't speak with me over 3months than literally gave it to me on a random call to come over and rearrange her furniture.
@@Ali-zv1yk that’s a dangerous game you’re playing. You need to record everything, all interactions (get permission first). don’t be surprised when you catch a case. A lot of these women are psychos for Internet attention. If a woman really wants you, she will make it extremely easy to get that “access”
I was thinking the same thing!
According to the first girl, even if a girl says no, keep trying, or else you'll make her feel ugly?
Her advice was just dangerous.
And SUPER risky.
Tyson and Tupac went to jail for this
But sadly it works
My ex was literally like her. We are both grown (both in our 30s). She invited me over to spend the night. I came over and brought rubbers, but she said she didn't want to have sex because we just met. I respected her and cuddled. The next time she invited me over to spend the night, I told her I wasn't comfortable spending the night if we weren’t being active, so Ill pass. I explained how I felt that we should just go on dates until she was ready. She flipped out and said I was clearly cheating with someone else and at that point, I realized she was crazy and broke it off... After about a month of no contact she randomly called me over to smash--I still hit a few times... 🤷🏾♂️
No she deadass said she was wrong for feeling like this. She initiated with saying. "I am the problem." She was NOT giving you advice.
Women that grew up WITHOUT a father giving loud, unsolicited, incorrect opinions on what a “real man” is/acts is HILARIOUS!
its a trap for young players
Most masculine women try and apologize with sex instead of words. I don't respect that
that's so true
Yeah it's like hey, let me just do this guy, and then I'll just deal with that post nut clarity of thought.
If donot like you then your gay !!!!
Why donot you put shoe on the other foot ,,,if does not like she must be gay!!!!!!
Women talk through there goldplate VEGna(most talk crap of not ots a teat)
😠😠😠😊
just look at them and say “ you think thats going to work”
Neither do i
WTF is wrong with this chick? She said he cuddle her and had an issue with that? After she said I'm not gonna do anything with him?? WOW she is horrible
Guys aren't taking those chances anymore
Never play those games. He shouldn't have even taken her to his place. She said no sex. No reason to take her home. Call a different chick after she's in the Uber if you have to get laid.
Very dangerous
Very dangerous. She could say anything after the fact.
She didn't want him she just wanted to be wanted.
She wanted her ego stroking
"A boundary without a hard consequence, is just a suggestion."
Spittin 🔥🔥🔥
Won't answer the body count question? Bye, you aren't worth my time. Nose rings and attitude. Red flags.
She seemed a nightmare.
You forgot to mention the cheap wigs, fake eyelashes and cheap makeup.
Nose rings always make me think water buffalo. You can lead them by the ring. Very bright red flag.
Every WM that I messed with that had them, trashy, brash and almost always disrespectful!
Nose rings dont equal attitude... i have a septum and i dont have a attitude problem... tired of seeing just because i have something that i like doesnt mean i have a problem with attitude.
"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other."
-Al Bundy
Women without fathers in their lives is very visible once you listen to them.
No its people without Christ. I didn't grow up with my father in my life and knowing Jesus is what gave me a different mentality than most people (women specifically) have today.
@@princessnena4941 So strong male role model then🤔💯
Lol, I did not even think of it like that, but you are absolutely right ❤...@no.1spidey-fan182
Doesn’t matter! Society is more influential!
What I learned from my dad is the silent treatment. When a argument goes from talking to each other like adults to a school yard fight I go silent as the fight has regressed to a level of a child. There is no point in the argument anymore plus at that point I am about to say something I will not be able to take back.
They hate that 😂.
Facts and mean it every bit!!!😂😂😂
My wife used to get mad at me for not "arguing fair" because I would just nod and smile. I told her why would I argue with you when I know I'm right and you just want to argue? Got a week of silent treatment, which I titled BFB, break from bitching. She didn't like that either.
@ReneMiller-si3py lol my my wife has told me that she doesn't like that I do not argue back. I just do not see the point.
Shout out to the dude who stood on business and didn't compromise his boundaries. Calling him a B**** shows she didn't have any respect for him, and if he let it slide, she really wouldn't have any respect and would've said or done worse.
There are a lot of parents out there that allow their kids to steal or don’t even care, that dad is a real dad, that’s what every parent should be doing, kudos to that man.
My parents did something similar with me when I was in middle school, they made me walk up to the customer service and tell them what I did and give it back
This is how shame should be utilized
That first girl is a ME TOO waiting to happen.
70 yo man who was raised in the country when i was just a little boy I stole a toy from a country store. My mom made me take it back and confess my deed. I was so ashamed and it stuck with me my whole life.
I did a similar thing to my son when he was like 6 years old. I made him give it back and tell the store employee what he did. It was only a package of gum, but he learned about "the principle of the thing" on that day. He never stole anything again. He is now 25.
I LOVE how women feel like they have the entitlement to tell a man how they should act. HOW DO YOU KNOW HOW A MAN SHOULD BE UNLESS YOU ARE ONE??
That father deserves an award. As a fellow father, well done sir.
It was the right thing to do, but not the right way to do it.
That woman was at the register and he just inserted himself into the interaction aggressively.
He could have also shown his children patience, courtesy and respect for other people's boundaries while he was at it, but instead imposed himself on other people, one of which is just a customer of the business.
I don't like the clip myself. It smacks of a well intentioned man who does not realize that he is exhibiting patterns of behavior that conflict with what he is trying to teach.
@kevg1617 You make a fair point. I didn't find him aggressive personally but he did interrupt others.
I'd add he was acting on a bit of adrenaline given how visceral our children can make us feel. I only watched the clip once. Perhaps he apologized to others for the interruption.
@@louissavoy4832 yeah, I understand why he acted as he did, but it will appear contradictory to his kids, as if it's only a question of perspective whether or not ypu can impose yourself on others.
As though his anger makes it righteous. I'm thinking that it's possible he lets his anger control him at times under other circumstances, which is demonstrating behavior to his kids which could well be the reason they felt entitled to steal in the first place, despite a father figure whonis clearly setting rules and boundaries.
We just don't have enough info anyway to make a judgment on anything outside of the video, which is just another reason I don't like it, despite, as I said, the fact that I agree with what he did and his intentions in doing it.
3:34 that black girl said “you supposed to be in your Mac-a-cline energy”. What the Hell is “Mac-a-cline energy”?????🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bro I wonder if she knows that’s not English or a word 💀
🤣🤣🤣
She dont even act " femmanim..".so what she even talking bout?
😂😂😂
It is the energy a man has who is better-educated and more articulate than she is.
Idk why but I’m crying from
Michael saying “stop it, get some help.”
with that one clip with the group of females discussing that he should like you more than you like him, each and every one of them had the same stereotypical look about them that screams " *_I'm drama, please keep away_* ".
They were not raised to be wives.
Agreed. They're only cognizant enough to deal with the guys who wear pants under their behinds anyway.
None of them like law abiding productive black men. Their stupidity is quickly revealed when they attempt to place all black men in the same category.
Those women are not qualified to weigh in on the conversation with that mindset.
Being too thirsty leads to ALCOHOLISM.
And one thing that gets on my nerves is women who talk too much and never STFU or always want to talk over me.
Agreed
1:16 Of course she's got to question that man's sexuality because he respected her wishes. 🤔
I know, right!🙄🙄🙄🙄
A tale as old as time
Except, the story isn’t real. She’s a comedian who made this up for laughs. The whole thing was stupid from the start.
My husband and I got hot and heavy at his mom’s house (he just moved back from Chicago and was temporarily living with his mom) and we were ready to do the thang. We LEFT and got a room. We ended up staying up talking all night instead of intimacy. We really loved being together. We wouldn’t disrespect his mom’s house doing things. We got married after dating for 2 months. We spent every night together for those months after work. Never regretted anything. We’ve been married for 34 years. I knew he was my person. He’s 8 years older than me. I was 19 when we married and he was 27. He’s the BEST husband. Some might think that’s a big age gap, but I have never liked men my age. So it definitely worked for us for a number of reasons. We are actually born the same day, just 8 years apart. I wouldn’t trade him for anything.
It's not a big gap my grandpa was 14 years in front of my grandma and they had 70 years of marriage together.
@@kingdolladp369 and that's exactly what I mean. It might seem like a big gap to some, but it really isn't. My grandma Money married her husband when she was 14 and grandpa was 25. That's how it was back then. They had 21 children. I tell folks that we couldn't date anyone in Youngstown Ohio because we are probably related. When she died she had 96 grandchildren.
@@monicaking7793 she had blessings on blessings
I dont mind a woman spending money
@@Californiawest862 you missed the point of what was said. It wasn't even about money. It was about love and respect. This is the exact problem with this generation. Everything is about money. Not once did i mention money. Sadly, y'all are lead by material worth. You won't understand what REAL love and respect for one another is. If that's the driving force for you I'm sorry and I will pray that you find understanding that everything doesn't come with a price tag attached to it. SMHH.
Yeah as a man I noticed that I was getting out of sight of myself and I started acting a little thirsty because I hadn't been in a relationship in a minute and so I had to pull back and think about it and say hey. What are you doing this ain't you. This ain't how you act. This ain't how you let women act towards you that let women treat you. Women don't control you. You don't chase them down either. They want to be bothered or they don't so I had to get back in into my regular form and frame. And thanks fellas for always keeping me on my toes
Patrice O'Neal said you have to act like you don't even care if she leaves. You gotta act like it wouldn't phase you one bit.
That’s why men get confused and then there’s a siren of S A. I’m not excusing when it is truly S A . What’s this world coming to???
Fellas hear me out .. STOP
CRASHING OUT ova “ looks “ and find a RESPECTFUL woman that will LISTEN.. fk everything else. 💯
1,000,000 %
Find both, I did 😂😂.
Well done to that Father. It must be mortifying for an honest Man like him.
Women today are so confusing AF.
They've always been confusing😂 Idk what you call today's women tho
@litobrigante1413 can we say out of touch with reality?
@@Ravenfanatic5 think thats the one
They just as confused as they are confusing...
Stupid****
That's a great Dad making his children accountable for stealing. Dad cut them off going down the wrong path. 100% give that Dad a shout out
The more women talk, the worst things get.....
That’s an understatement
Yep, they all think they’re interesting and that men want to hear what they have to say/think🤣🤣
And the more they contradict and tell on themselves too. Avoiding accountability until they flew too close to the sun.
@@LykanPrototype No doubt...
10:48 Future cat lady. Then again, with that voice, I doubt the cats would stay.
Yup.
Those nose rings alone spoke volumes for me.
She didn’t have to say anything at all.
The best words ever! " A hard boudery without consequences is a suggestion". Real talk!
First woman will tell everyone, “Stay away from him. I told him no and he took me back to his place and tried anyway”. She’s dangerous.
*her place but yes, she absolutely would-the first time he hurts her feelings. It’s over. NDAs and Recordings necessary. No rest for the weary.
13:04 I was in second grade and I stole some candy from the bottom rack of a mama pop convenience store. After my mom got done rearranging the skin cells on my bottom end. She made me walk all the way back to the store. Hand the candy back to the man. Tell him I was sorry. And then I had to work off what candy I ate by sweeping his parking lot.
This Dad should get dad of the year.
You mama is mother of the year, first off bro. 👊
Men, check your woman's drama. If she doesn't respect you, she will make your life miserable.
And they can't comprehend why black men don't marry them?
Lool sometimes its best to say nothing then let people find out how stupid you are by saying something dumb like that 😂
That’s my race. Not just black women. Cool it tf down with that narrative. Why put all black women in a category? Ur part of the problem.
Other races of women are starting to see how ALL black men are…creating broken homes and ALL. See how that sounds? Majority of black women act out but that’s majority of all races. Not just one.
Who is “them”?
@@elbowroomsldI guess he meant y'all 🤷🏿♂️
White guy here, I don't want her either
The women at 3:15 seconds are crazy. No wonder they aren’t married
My Dad made me do the walk of shame at the dime store when I was a kid. I learned a lesson. Fast forward 20 years I had to take all my three kids to the convenience store to do the walk of shame. They learned their lesson also. I'm thankful for my Dad. RIP
Woman here, RUN, from women who play with you, are loud, think they are the prize or a princess, curse every other word.
Bring back shame. Disrespectful women should be called out.
Say what you mean, and mean what you sat.
Is the western society culture of American women
All jokes aside Charles you put out great content that young and old can learn from.
These life lessons that you are showing, will hopefully teach, influence and model the next generation of solid men!
I salute you Charles N Charge!🙏
Women want to control a man so badly, but all they have to offer is Cap and Gown.
Roast beef
lol - cap and gown... what does that mean? Head and Tail ?
Cap and gown... I like that
@@SB-tc2jr 💯✔️
@@3ShadesBlack5 LMAO... okay... that's a new one! I like it! LOL
More parents need to do that with their kids. Believe me, this was a life lesson for them. They wont ever forget it. Thats what you want. Keep up the good work bruh
So she created this whole problem in her head, God bless her
When you apply for a loan tell the bank my past doesn't matter live in the future. 🤣🤣🤣
They all look like DORY in Finding Nemo!
❤❤❤ I am glad he stood on his word regarding his deal-breaker. As for me we wouldn't have a conversation after we get home. There is no we. There is no home. Ghost and block. Not another word
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 props to that father in the end, that’s real parenting 💪🏽
That is a good father. Making sure they learn their lesson and shame them to correct their behavior.
10:36 if you are a smoothbrain, you live without any care to the past😂
Embarrassed them kids early. Let them know that shame feeling first hand. I hope they do better. Good job to the father there big up yourself boss man.
That dad don't play...
3:00 - Including the guys... all trash. No control, just entertaining nonsense.
5:00 - Maybe I'm crazy but profanity is off limits. Dude was trying to make exceptions for how the disrespect is delivered. They entertaining some wild women. Turned up a bit but not violent is still a no no. Before it got that far, remove yourself. Never argue with a woman. Smh.
Pathetic.
i wish people would stop saying that ignorant bs... wtf is flewd out? it's flown out.
Slang.
All the girls at 3:00 got ugly spirits what man is gon love that?? No way
Word, the time is gone where man needs to try too hard, let her make an effort if she doesn't then leave. Evolution
That podcast is the blind leading the blind! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Coach walking out is 😂😂😂😂😂
These women are nutz!
Planters certified
@@DavidGarcia-qs5ng lmao 🤣
Contrary to what men say, this seems to be what they like !!!
If you make it to bedroom/lights out, we both know what’s going down… if she says “no”, immediately get her out and end contact; she playing with you
@3:02 I went to college with that girl, never liked her because of that energy. Just nasty
She's a poster child for a college degree being overrated (as someone that has one from a pretty prestigious institution). It's clear that intelligence and college are not necessarily correlated
@@TheTwinkiefoot 💯
They don't know the definition of sassy😂😂
My women flew me out once at the last minute, I was shocked but yet felt so appreciated
All of them?😅
1:38, Yeah she trying to play games.. He played it right.
That first woman is delusional 😑
10:11 she definitely ran through instant attitude says a lot about one question
Spot on analysis as always brother.
Excellent content!
So many levels to the chick saying her favorite book is Frankenstein. I'll just say one. Bodies..
Single is the best way right now. I am not kiss no ground that any woman walk on that shiiii is out of the question. I give out what I get in respect love loyalty and all around relationship.
They are wrong about the nan wanting the woman more. Men will stay even when the love is gone, because they understand duty.
and women use that sense of duty against Men. This is why you have to be able to risk taking a loss and walking away.
@@NobleTyrant so I married a woman, not on my level. I put her through school, and she seemed to love me more. After about 5 years, I softened towards her. I spent more time with her. I complimented her more. Trying to make up for being hard early on. As soon as I started doing that, she changed. She ended up cheating and we divorced. I made her feel so good about herself, that she thought she could do better. The streets ate her alive. She didn't realize that I was nice, because I loved her. She tried to come back, but no.
@@YeniuOjiak thank you, but I'm good. After about a year of grieving my failure, I moved on. I laughed at myself, because I realized that I didn't really like her that much. I had made a commitment though. Which brings us back to where we started. Be blessed.
A body count is how many times you failed finding the one that makes you happy.
A high body count means it's probably you that needs to change.
Listening to these women talk has broken my brain.
That DRIZZLE DRIZZLE gets me every time!
😂😂😂😂😂
Wow honestly it seems like there are going to be a lot of lonely, single, miserable ladies in the world whose toxicity is being catered to by other women. It’s sad but hey it is what it is.
So glad that man was not a SIMP!
Damn I didn't know the girl flying dudes out played for Dallas. Let me see if BM will let me try and get some bread off her. I'm in the neighborhood 😂
With women these days it's never about an equal playing field or reciprocation it's about what they can get from you my man. It's about what they can use you for and have that control. As Sun Tzu said "know thy enemy, know thyself, and then a thousand battles you shall never be defeated" Know your enemy in this case Women.
Why do folks keep saying “flewed out”? Are they trying to show off how ignorant they are or is that a new slang word? I know back in my day Bloods would say someone was “flewed out” when referring to crips or someone dressed in all blue but nowadays folks keep saying “flewed out” referring to being flown out… and they sound stupid as hell speaking like that (IMO).
I'm stuck on They Their being interchangeable
Same as “Lemme axe you a question”. Just sounds lazy
signs of a high body count, 10:37's reaction to said question...... like once we ask and we hear that, we know it's in the high double digits... maybe triple digits. and we also know that these chicks are low key ashamed of their lack of discretion and discernment and also self control....
In the first example, I don't think women who do that are typically trying to control. I think they are just playing games because women, in general, like playing games. The other reason is she could see herself in a relationship with the guy and didn't want to look like a 304.
Either way dude did exactly what he needed to do. Cause she dont really reapect him anyway
@@dariuswilliams7509 Yep.
Don't risk it, the moment she no longer loves you she could use that to destroy you. I have a girl like that on my DM but I told her no and that is it. You complicate issues I leave you. Very simple.
@@Benchmark243 If all men had your policy on leaving chaotic women, there wouldn't be a gender war.
They're funnier than a small car full of clowns !!
Maybe if you like sick humor...
The first lame just wanted the POWER to reject and THEN tell her friends about it! He took it away from her by being respectful...........................W 's are pathetic.
@1:33
Girl you are INSANE!
There is a place for you, the ditch.
I stopped bringing chicks to my crib. No ty, I’m good.
Tom Lykes 101 never bring women to your house.
"I told him I'll come over but we aren't gonna have sex"
"I don't get it, why didn't he even TRY to sleep with me???"
The woman hurt herself in confusion
🔥🔥
7:59 Brothas it is important to set your boundaries and stand 10 toes down on it. Some things are non negotiable and disrespect is one of those things. Women have to learn how to be intentional and considerate on how they communicate with us, the same way we need to be with them. When we are violated, we dont have to tolerate it.
What? First Chick . Make your mind up. Im so glad to have a Wife nowadays, smh
If I were to use the logic of the girl with the black and green on, that would be like a car seller saying "That's a dumb question to ask if the car has been in any wrecks. Why don't you stop living in the past, and just go catch the bus and walk like you were doing before".
Some Women are so easy, nowadays, They do not have to work for you. Your actual sets the possibility of developing a relationship. If you go on a date, he feeds you, then sleeps with you and you do not even know him; you will do that with anybody. You are nothing special. He is not going to invest too much into you.
Yep this is a lesson i was taugh by my mom when i was younger. She said i dont care if your about to park the "car" in the "garage," if she sounds one bit hesitant put it in reverse and take her home. I had to do it twice. Both times they insisted no they were ready i told them get up put your clothes on and we could talk avout it next time.!!!
13:25 this right here is why children need both parents. If you don’t teach a child right vs wrong then they will fail in life. We shouldn’t have to teach ourselves our own life lessons all the time. Some lessons are meant to come from the parent, in this case a great father. ❤
😂😂 LOLL! Why are these women talking to Social Media??? They need serious professional help.
Anyway, Gentlemen, it's Passport Time!
Happy Independence day to all the strong and independent!!!
Getting called "Sassy" for self respect and a healthy sense of self worth is crazy work.
Good info! "now I feel ugly" she says.. Only person who made her feel ugly is her. She set her self up. Setting boundaries is good, but accept it once you said it.
Great Segment. That guy who was called the B word was exactly on point. The only thing I would have done differently was leave her on the trip alone.
“That’s sassy!” Why don’t they know the definition of the words they use? Don’t they realize that sassy is a compliment?! Smh 🤦🏽♂️ just like how they don’t even know the definition of misogyny!! lol 😂
4:47 is the top tier example of: hurt people, hurt people. Be thankful that happened, and true colors were seen when they were. Bless 🙏
If she said she ain’t gonna sleep with her when she agrees to take you back to her place don’t even go over lol