I regret hurting my ex, meeting new people, and Ross haul! | vlog

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  • @user-rq8tc5qh3e
    @user-rq8tc5qh3e 4 місяці тому +1102

    “It’s called love, folks.”
    No. It’s absolutely not. It’s the height of selfishness to blatantly violate Faline’s boundaries because you can’t cope with the consequences of your own behavior. It’s childish and narcissistic and abusive. Stop it.

    • @Secretsauce431
      @Secretsauce431 4 місяці тому +67

      In ambers own words…”sometimes love just isn’t enough”

    • @jasmineleopard7593
      @jasmineleopard7593 4 місяці тому +21

      Bingo!!! Hope she reads that

    • @LMarie_414
      @LMarie_414 4 місяці тому +14

      This!! 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @YennaAvyeon
      @YennaAvyeon 4 місяці тому +14

      Couldn't have said it better myself.

    • @applejacs
      @applejacs 4 місяці тому +7

      She doesn’t care. Next vlog we are going to hear how so many people are sympathetic to her cause and it’s normal behavior, when clearly the comments indicate otherwise. She jokes at being DeluluLynn but it’s in fact the actual truth. Grow up, gorl.

  • @Tc92430
    @Tc92430 4 місяці тому +584

    Amber, this isn’t a movie. She’s not going to be watching your videos, see how “heartbroken” you are, realise how much she misses you and come running back. She’s asked you to STOP

    • @pappysheart6710
      @pappysheart6710 4 місяці тому +9

      faline doesn't exist

    • @bonsaibaby8257
      @bonsaibaby8257 4 місяці тому +1

      @@pappysheart6710what do you mean?

    • @TheKcupholder
      @TheKcupholder 4 місяці тому +32

      I literally think this is what she thinks is going to happen.

    • @marilyn8225
      @marilyn8225 4 місяці тому +11

      and if she does watch the video's it would only creep her out.

    • @asjalaji
      @asjalaji 4 місяці тому +5

      @@pappysheart6710she does exist, and we know she does because she makes her own decisions and doesn't play by ambers story

  • @Itsmimisopinion
    @Itsmimisopinion 4 місяці тому +457

    Amber still crying over Faline is actually wild. You were smitten chatting to a new girl while she was still living with you. Now that neither of them want you, you wanna cry?? Gorl please, leave that woman alone.

    • @vicki_v1006
      @vicki_v1006 4 місяці тому +21

      I don’t believe for a sec that was real

    • @abbie-1215
      @abbie-1215 4 місяці тому +18

      she deffo lied about the new girl to make faline jealous, and it backfired lmao

  • @allyson18
    @allyson18 4 місяці тому +734

    Move on, Amber. I hope she never speaks to you again.

  • @bridgetspaulding9261
    @bridgetspaulding9261 4 місяці тому +586

    This isn’t about you amber. It’s not about what you want. A part of love is respecting people’s boundaries

    • @user-gk7kg2kw2i
      @user-gk7kg2kw2i 4 місяці тому +11

      Wait! WHOA?! WHAT???? That's way too much responsibility for our Gorl 🫣

  • @tina8493
    @tina8493 4 місяці тому +246

    Girl when someone tells you no, you don't keep doing what they told you to not do.
    You're 33, respect people's boundaries

    • @monk4ever
      @monk4ever 4 місяці тому +11

      Gorl can't even respect her own body. Doubt she has respect for anyone's boundaries.

    • @doriancaudal1070
      @doriancaudal1070 4 місяці тому

      And you, do you respect her boundaries? No. Don't tell people what to do if you're not even able to do it youself

    • @tina8493
      @tina8493 4 місяці тому +24

      @@doriancaudal1070 what made up boundary did I cross by explaining how consent works to someone that clearly doesn't understand it?

    • @DanaMedic77
      @DanaMedic77 4 місяці тому +17

      @@doriancaudal1070 She puts her business on the internet for the whole world to see. We're free to comment.

  • @candycane7307
    @candycane7307 4 місяці тому +143

    She dropped you off at your mama's and ran away as far away as she could from you blocked you. It wasn't because you were in love with someone else. She saw her exit and took it

    • @mariah6608
      @mariah6608 4 місяці тому +15

      Imagine how much relief she must of felt

  • @pissyspacek3531
    @pissyspacek3531 4 місяці тому +227

    She wants nothing to do with you leave her alone. You don’t miss her. You just don’t like to be alone.

  • @ellaa3776
    @ellaa3776 4 місяці тому +200

    this is embarrassing, you chose someone else over her..... yet you're single.... you chose someone else who didn't even like you over her ? the "lover you wanted to spend your life with?" you cheated on her with someone who didn't even want you.... and now you're crying about it

    • @deniseparker7039
      @deniseparker7039 4 місяці тому +7

      Exactly!

    • @obvlit2560
      @obvlit2560 4 місяці тому +37

      And she didn't even cheat. They were fully broken up. As if "Faline" gave a single fk that Amber was DMing with someone new, let alone gave so many fks that she refuses to speak to her to this day because she's that deeply hurt. The delusion is painful.

  • @yevinoraa
    @yevinoraa 4 місяці тому +265

    Amberlynn's inflated ego loves the idea of someone being hurt by her because she "fell in love with someone else." She's so special in her own mind she can't fathom that Faline couldn't care less about her and has already moved on.

    • @thecrapartistx
      @thecrapartistx 4 місяці тому +23

      Imagine being a 500 pound toddler on purpose and thinking anyone would willingly attach themselves to you.

    • @allergictohumansnotanimals5671
      @allergictohumansnotanimals5671 4 місяці тому +3

      It was most probably a rebound anyway. Once you suddenly cut off all contact with the person you’ve loved (or were attached to) for awhile, your mind will desperately try to find the next person to latch onto.

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes 4 місяці тому +569

    No no no no no!!!! If she said she doesn't want to talk to you and she isn't responding to you, your attempts to contacting her is HURTING HER. STOP IT. There is nothing nice about what you are doing. Stop lying to yourself. You are doing it to fulfill an need for yourself and disregarding HER NEEDS. PLEASE GET A THERAPIST

    • @Pixilixx
      @Pixilixx 4 місяці тому +42

      Exactly this. Shes being selfish as always to fill her needs and can’t possibly comprehend that she’s doing more harm than good!

    • @thereturnofveronicasawyer9998
      @thereturnofveronicasawyer9998 4 місяці тому +35

      It’s not hurting Faline it’s just ANNOYING HER

    • @oneseeker2
      @oneseeker2 4 місяці тому +7

      Time for an Atty, or The DA, C&D order!

    • @colineeeeee
      @colineeeeee 4 місяці тому +22

      Bet if Amber could drive and ride an airplane, she would be knocking at Faline's door by now.

    • @bonsaibaby8257
      @bonsaibaby8257 4 місяці тому +9

      @@thereturnofveronicasawyer9998well, if Faline silently blocked her she didn’t get the message anyway.😂

  • @glooper1401
    @glooper1401 4 місяці тому +391

    I can only imagine how uncomfortable that 12 hour drive from KY was, in more ways than one.

    • @twister4790
      @twister4790 4 місяці тому +71

      I dont understand why Fleeen drove her. I would have never done it.

    • @SynxItax
      @SynxItax 4 місяці тому +56

      I think it was actually closer to 15 hours. That sounds nightmarish without a massive toddler in the car.

    • @NatashaIvanova-hy5ft
      @NatashaIvanova-hy5ft 4 місяці тому +18

      According to Amber, they kept hooking up almost the whole time! Faline could have easily just left right after breakup, why stay and give false hope!

    • @julieseymour6452
      @julieseymour6452 4 місяці тому +22

      We shouldn't be surprised by the actions of Amberlynns ex's. We all know to date her they all have their own serious problems and are also losers who deserve what they get because they all tolerate and stay in the relationship far too long.

    • @ceraselaluca5669
      @ceraselaluca5669 4 місяці тому +24

      Because she was not hurt and she is not hurt. She felt sory for her and helped her and now she wants to be free for real. She planned this all along.

  • @Kizmetttt
    @Kizmetttt 4 місяці тому +184

    It really messes with narcissists when they cant control someone. LEAVE HER ALONE.

    • @bunnykinssmile
      @bunnykinssmile 4 місяці тому +14

      Narcs need supply and if they don’t have it. They always refer back to who an what they no and go after ex’s.

  • @Karwritter
    @Karwritter 4 місяці тому +238

    Normalize calling out creep behavior, Amber you are exhibiting creep behavior violating clear boundaries.

    • @stormyalice
      @stormyalice 4 місяці тому +11

      This has BEEN Amber and haydurrs have been saying and showing proof she's been like this forever.

  • @mleeeem
    @mleeeem 4 місяці тому +100

    gorl it's been 6 months. move on. she doesn't want to talk to you.

  • @marieforsberg8091
    @marieforsberg8091 4 місяці тому +314

    No matter how many times you profess to have “”hurt” Faline, it all comes back to that she hurt you by dumping you. You didn’t fall in love with someone else and hurt Faline. RUBBISH! Get serious. Don’t u hear how dumb that sounds? Leave her alone.

  • @user-rq8tc5qh3e
    @user-rq8tc5qh3e 4 місяці тому +179

    There’s nothing cute, quirky or caring about stomping all over someone else’s boundaries. Your emotions are your own to deal with. Not hers. Grow up.

  • @whitway12
    @whitway12 4 місяці тому +85

    What fairytale world are you living in thinking after she broke up with you there was ever a chance she wanted to give it another try and that you ‘hurt her’. She found a way out, and she left. She went along with saying you’d be friends and still talk etc to appease you but the very second she dropped you off she wanted nothing to do with you. You can spin the narrative any way you want to your more naive supporters but that’s what happened.

  • @xjustxjustinex
    @xjustxjustinex 4 місяці тому +71

    Just be honest. You knew it was over with Faline and thought you had secured a new caretaker. When that didn’t work out you tried to get Faline back and she wasn’t having it. Now you’re SOL in Oklahoma with no one to drive you around except your mom. You don’t miss her, you miss having a servant.

  • @Secretsauce431
    @Secretsauce431 4 місяці тому +345

    I love how only now when amber is alone and without a caretaker does she regret hurting faline.

    • @zoilalulu3798
      @zoilalulu3798 4 місяці тому +30

      Exactly! I bet that person she fell in "love" with on Instagram was just a troll and ended up ghosting her and that's when she realized that she can't just change her mind like nothing happened.

    • @colineeeeee
      @colineeeeee 4 місяці тому +33

      She doesn't miss Faline, she just misses the idea of having someone around. That's not love.

    • @xxooarabella
      @xxooarabella 4 місяці тому +12

      LITERALLLYYYYYYY

    • @topanga5759
      @topanga5759 4 місяці тому +3

      Exactly!

  • @shaxx94
    @shaxx94 4 місяці тому +349

    Girl! Delete her number. Forget her. It is over! If she wants to talk, she'll reach out to you. You being able to contact her is part of the problem that is keeping you from moving on, and it's also keeping you from boring us. It's annoying to see you so whiny about stuff that happened almost a year ago and stuff that you were at fault. Go get a therapist and let them tell you how it is.
    If you ever cared and loved her, then respect her wishes and stop contacting her, bothering her, taking about her.
    So annoying that you even monetize videos like this one. Keep this shit between you two. All we got to see was her hand, and you are giving us the whole body.

    • @discopumps
      @discopumps 4 місяці тому +25

      the only reason she hasnt moved on is because shes been exposed for being an abuser in every single relationship shes ever been in and im sure thats making it more difficult to get someone else hook line and sinker. oh yea and not being able to leave her house without her mum.......

    • @feralkitty57
      @feralkitty57 4 місяці тому +4

      ​@@discopumps🎯

    • @DanaMedic77
      @DanaMedic77 4 місяці тому +5

      @@discopumps Another reason she can't move on is because she hasn't found a new caretaker yet. It's never taken this long; usually the new one moves in the day after the old one moves out.

    • @discopumps
      @discopumps 4 місяці тому

      my comment is explaining why she hasnt been able to find a new care taker..... @@DanaMedic77

  • @chloevictoria2129
    @chloevictoria2129 4 місяці тому +59

    Amber , I think it’s crazy that you think you actually held that much value in feline’s life.

  • @sparkle-sims
    @sparkle-sims 4 місяці тому +83

    Why are we still talking about the same things in 2024? Move on already! You violated Faline’s boundaries hoping she’d stay with you and when she left, it hit you harder than a freight train.

  • @slightlyvintage4629
    @slightlyvintage4629 4 місяці тому +80

    It’s interesting that you say she was your BEST FRIEND and lover, but you were still able to “fall in love with someone else “. I’m sure Faline has moved on with someone new. It’s been half a year since y’all split. Stop being obsessed with her. She is probably giving hickeys to her new girl.

    • @pearlsonaplate5543
      @pearlsonaplate5543 4 місяці тому +18

      Has it been 6 months already? Dang. That went by fast.

    • @DayLee10
      @DayLee10 4 місяці тому +6

      @@pearlsonaplate5543
      Right? Probably because Amber dragged it on for so long.

    • @user-hj6zi8sn5e
      @user-hj6zi8sn5e 4 місяці тому

      It is possible to be in love with two people at the same time

    • @MrBibi86
      @MrBibi86 4 місяці тому

      but in love with them after talking for a week? that is just obsession and co-dependency. not love @@user-hj6zi8sn5e

  • @charmikaparker0917
    @charmikaparker0917 4 місяці тому +161

    If she asked you not to contact her then don’t. It does more harm than good. It’s selfish to do so if she asked you not to.

  • @rebekahk5782
    @rebekahk5782 4 місяці тому +34

    You deserve for her to never talk to you again. Finally someone who cut ties so you can no longer be manipulative to her. And even still you’re trying to manipulate the situation so YOU can talk to her again. Never stopped to consider and respect what she wants which is for you to never contact her again. It’s giving desperate

  • @jtj1383
    @jtj1383 4 місяці тому +47

    Call Frank from the FBI he'll take care of it

    • @LeyLeyPisces
      @LeyLeyPisces 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@fbi_frank💀💀💀💀💀

  • @marie_es
    @marie_es 4 місяці тому +48

    Someone needs to make a compilation of all the times "so many people have been asking me about....." She juat uses that line to bring up whatever it is she wants to talk about 😂😂

  • @cassiopeia444
    @cassiopeia444 4 місяці тому +135

    "Some people said they are dealing with it too, some people asked if Id message her again"....i LOVE how you ignore the MAJORITY of messages that say you're being selfish, that you should absolutely LEAVE FALINE ALONE. Good grief you're insufferable.

    • @user-xq1ic7jh4v
      @user-xq1ic7jh4v 4 місяці тому +21

      EVERYTHING starts with someone asked her.Yet we never see these questions anywhere. And I agree she fails to address the things most people are asking.

    • @saigonleigh
      @saigonleigh 4 місяці тому +12

      If it doesn’t align with her bullshit it might as well not exist.

    • @KensCounselingCouch
      @KensCounselingCouch 4 місяці тому +1

      @@user-xq1ic7jh4v the excuse likely is she gets these questions in her DMs and that's why we don't see them. But I agree with you.

  • @Saftey1992
    @Saftey1992 4 місяці тому +47

    You couldn’t have loved her that much if you choose someone else so fast and “fell in love” with someone else that fast.
    I genuinely don’t think you know the difference between love and lust/codependency

    • @Schrodingers_Kat
      @Schrodingers_Kat 4 місяці тому +6

      No lust really. Amber just pretends to be lustful when she’s hunting for a partner.

  • @mar1216
    @mar1216 4 місяці тому +61

    You don't love her, you chose someone you knew for two weeks over someone you were with for years. That is not called love.

  • @StaceyHeathxoxo
    @StaceyHeathxoxo 4 місяці тому +153

    You have to move on and leave her alone. It’s the most loving thing to do for her.

    • @Gaibreel
      @Gaibreel 4 місяці тому +12

      Amber doesn't know love or boundaries

    • @cardiflea
      @cardiflea 4 місяці тому +6

      Buh buh buh I luf hur!

    • @Schrodingers_Kat
      @Schrodingers_Kat 4 місяці тому +6

      Which is why she doesn’t. Love is never a variable for her. What she wants and what she needs, is. Nothing concerning the other person matters, she needs help at home and in her life but doesn’t want to pay a professional.

  • @haileyaucoin153
    @haileyaucoin153 4 місяці тому +32

    I ignored the pronunciation of “occurred” the first time bc I thought it may’ve been an accident..but NAH. NEVER HAVE I HEARD SOMEONE SAY IT THAT WAY?!?

  • @weenfain2321
    @weenfain2321 4 місяці тому +38

    You’re not a “Lego girlie” you take them to goodwill after very rare expensive ones are built. You throw them to the side like you do people.

  • @lunarblake
    @lunarblake 4 місяці тому +45

    you didn’t love her if you chose another person over her. we all know you’re only doing this because you haven’t been able find another victim. leave her alone and just stop with this foolishness amber.

  • @ImReadyDepression
    @ImReadyDepression 4 місяці тому +43

    You're crazy obsessive leave her alone damn

  • @Ana.Banana.77
    @Ana.Banana.77 4 місяці тому +117

    Amber you need to respect your ex’s boundaries and leave her alone. Including mentioning her in your videos

  • @CarlyJOne
    @CarlyJOne 4 місяці тому +39

    Read the book “I hate you don’t leave me”. Love has a different meaning to people with BPD. You don’t love Faline in the pure sense of the word, you need her to love you. You need her to want you. Rejection and abandonment are someone with a BPD diagnoses kryptonite.

    • @angussneef
      @angussneef 4 місяці тому +9

      That would require Amber to pick up a book, and she has a very busy life of reorganizing her perfume shrine, the closest she gets to cleanliness, and activities at the retirement community that she tells us about after the fact. Oh, and don’t forget her fame on tiktok. When would she ever have time to read?

    • @monk4ever
      @monk4ever 4 місяці тому +5

      I would never be in a relationship with someone who has BPD.

    • @southernbelle8920
      @southernbelle8920 4 місяці тому +1

      Those people can never maintain a healthy relationship with anyone.​@@monk4ever

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 4 місяці тому +1

      Very good advice. Of course she will never 👎 do it because then she'd have to admit she has a problem she needs to fix. She just wants to collect diagnoses , not actually work on them

  • @MilkToBread
    @MilkToBread 4 місяці тому +34

    When you need to explain (to yourself) 0.2 lb YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. 🙄

  • @amandahernandez8243
    @amandahernandez8243 4 місяці тому +31

    It’s fascinating how EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. you do something stupid af, you try and normalize by saying “everyone does it!” “I have a friend who did it not so long ago!” Like girl admit you’re fucking careless and keep it moving.

  • @fbi_frank
    @fbi_frank 4 місяці тому +44

    She asked you not to contact her and you continue thats really abusive, if you cared about her at all you would stop and respect her wishes.

    • @aichohvee
      @aichohvee 4 місяці тому +5

      Frank, thank goodness you're here talking some sense into our gorl. Remember when you were an Ambaby and congratulated her on her following? No more, you're on our side now.

  • @LeyLeyPisces
    @LeyLeyPisces 4 місяці тому +45

    AMBER WAKE UP!!!! You regret hurting her yet you continue to contact her when she want absolutely NOTHING to do with you... Thats continuing to hurt her. Do you have a brain? AT ALL?!

    • @thecrapartistx
      @thecrapartistx 4 місяці тому +5

      regrets but isn't sorry.

    • @LeyLeyPisces
      @LeyLeyPisces 4 місяці тому +3

      @@thecrapartistx That part. That's so true, that didn't even cross my mind!!!

    • @thecrapartistx
      @thecrapartistx 4 місяці тому +3

      @@LeyLeyPisces I had to watch the whole segment over again because i thought I might have missed the sorry.. but nope.. no sorry at all just regret..

  • @kaylaschannell
    @kaylaschannell 4 місяці тому +64

    you regret it? why in tf world did you do it in the first place?? you think cheating is okay regardless if it's physical or emotional? or "moving on" as quick as you do? please be so fcking fr, Amber.

  • @millers3888
    @millers3888 4 місяці тому +51

    What does being “on track” mean? If you’re maintaining 500+ pounds, “on track” is “off track” to anyone else…

  • @Stopinthenameoflove
    @Stopinthenameoflove 4 місяці тому +32

    Her contacting faline is called hoovering" its a term in the naarsasistic world

  • @angelina6832
    @angelina6832 4 місяці тому +47

    I bet Faline didn't care about her and the perfect excuse was using Amber's new love affair to completely cut her off. I don't honestly think she ever wanted Amber back she just needed a viable excuse to never talk to her again.

    • @phreakzilla8514
      @phreakzilla8514 4 місяці тому +8

      Bingo

    • @MamaLinz123
      @MamaLinz123 4 місяці тому +5

      💯

    • @MrBibi86
      @MrBibi86 4 місяці тому +2

      I agree. AL's story doesn't make any sense! Why dump someone then get mad when they "move on"?

  • @xoCrybaby
    @xoCrybaby 4 місяці тому +26

    Dude. If she thought you were a good person, she'd be your friend. You're not, so she's not.

  • @LJ-dv2wl
    @LJ-dv2wl 4 місяці тому +38

    This is the woman who use to film her ex's in the toilet and shower...she doesn't care for boundaries whatsoever.

    • @stormyalice
      @stormyalice 4 місяці тому +4

      And completely doped up on medication, driving; or filmed one that has clearly said they don't want to be filmed at all.

  • @kollingraham1353
    @kollingraham1353 4 місяці тому +50

    I am so proud of all the women who escaped and I’m proud of them for standing their ground when you try to manipulate your way back into their lives. It’s a good reality check for you Amber. It reminds you that you no longer have any control over their lives and you never will again

  • @ColdbrewNet
    @ColdbrewNet 4 місяці тому +64

    Why would the weekend be any different in regards to “staying on track”?

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 4 місяці тому +24

      Her mom/new caretaker is free to pick her up and take her to food

    • @deniseparker7039
      @deniseparker7039 4 місяці тому +12

      More potential excuses.

    • @user-xq1ic7jh4v
      @user-xq1ic7jh4v 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@thewrongshoesshe gets take out delivered in the regular

    • @songohan511
      @songohan511 4 місяці тому +1

      Our gorl loves them excuses

  • @beccak8016
    @beccak8016 4 місяці тому +25

    The clapping after losing 1lb is wild

  • @pookyclown1111
    @pookyclown1111 4 місяці тому +20

    You said in the beginning , it was mutual on the breakup. It’s clear that she left you.

  • @PrairieChickenCO
    @PrairieChickenCO 4 місяці тому +44

    It's been seven months. You messed up. Period. Move on and get it together for God's sake. What is this, middle school?

  • @SonarTheBat
    @SonarTheBat 4 місяці тому +28

    You were willing to ditch and replace Faline like she was nothing. You don't get to cry about the breakup and beg for her back.

  • @LMarie_414
    @LMarie_414 4 місяці тому +47

    If she hasn’t replied the last time you contacted her, that’s your answer right there! Leave her alone already! 🙄

  • @Rose-kj7rz
    @Rose-kj7rz 4 місяці тому +117

    I like this new regular character!
    Hello ceiling!
    Riveting!

    • @KOOP1978
      @KOOP1978 4 місяці тому +22

      HELLO NEW NAILS LOL

    • @PrairieChickenCO
      @PrairieChickenCO 4 місяці тому +15

      Better than the coat and sunglasses.

    • @11amanie
      @11amanie 4 місяці тому +3

      😂😂

    • @kdani4777
      @kdani4777 4 місяці тому +1

      😂

  • @lballerina6725
    @lballerina6725 4 місяці тому +82

    Everyone always says how immature she acts. I got curious and was looking up traits of a narcissist. This is what I found, which explains so much. " They may look like adults, but they are not capable of operating like adults. Typically, narcissists operate in the emotional range of a middle-schooler, 13 years or so."

    • @user-xq1ic7jh4v
      @user-xq1ic7jh4v 4 місяці тому +8

      Describes her and Foodie beauty to a T

    • @DayLee10
      @DayLee10 4 місяці тому +14

      In Amber's case she's intellectually 13 too.

    • @KensCounselingCouch
      @KensCounselingCouch 4 місяці тому +8

      I'm a therapist, and Amber better fits the criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder & Dependent Personality Disorder in my opinion (this is not a formal diagnosis nor am I her therapist).
      I've been reconsidering again if she might actually meet the criteria for Antisocial Personality Disorder (sociopathy/psychopathy, but the former, not the latter).

    • @DayLee10
      @DayLee10 4 місяці тому +7

      @@KensCounselingCouch Well narcissism could be co morbid then because she definitely fits the criteria for that as well

    • @ximar0ckstrx
      @ximar0ckstrx 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@DayLee10Borderline Narcissists are a thing. It's mind blowing how people seen to forget that people CAN have multiple personality disorders concurrently. Look at Amber Heard. She has both BPD and Histrionic PD. I am diagnosed with BPD and while I see similarities with Amber, I also see alarming differences. There are also 4 different classifications of BPD. So that also makes a difference

  • @discopumps
    @discopumps 4 місяці тому +40

    Amberlynn being “off track” means eating enough for a family of 4 in one day.

    • @eldavanzyl7131
      @eldavanzyl7131 4 місяці тому

      The Binge monster still exist .

    • @princessmolskiii
      @princessmolskiii 4 місяці тому +1

      Bizarre to think how much she actually has to eat just to maintain, let alone GAIN 💀

  • @jflsdknf
    @jflsdknf 4 місяці тому +28

    516 to 514 in a week and she thinks progress is happening?

    • @susanrenee1657
      @susanrenee1657 4 місяці тому +1

      She could crap that...probably what happened 😂

  • @jenniferfrankenfield18
    @jenniferfrankenfield18 4 місяці тому +20

    Still proud of maintaining 515 pounds. Think about that for a minute.

  • @veil693
    @veil693 4 місяці тому +40

    It’s not called love, it’s called regret/guilt

  • @mscellophane1850
    @mscellophane1850 4 місяці тому +25

    9:15 Literally no one can't believe Wipey hasn't replied to you. Gorl, we know why she doesn't. You are a narc. You're only harassing her because you haven't found a new caretaker.

  • @michellelee6029
    @michellelee6029 4 місяці тому +17

    Totally mutual ending of their relationship people 🤥

  • @Windows96_
    @Windows96_ 4 місяці тому +17

    I hope faline finds a better partner and never speaks to you again Hamber

  • @dancergal56
    @dancergal56 4 місяці тому +31

    She has made it clear that she wants you to leave her alone. Respect her wishes and leave her alone. Stop talking about her and talk about this with a therapist

  • @ColdbrewNet
    @ColdbrewNet 4 місяці тому +24

    “A problem o-cured”???

  • @Freespirit777_
    @Freespirit777_ 4 місяці тому +21

    You need friends your own age, you can’t hang around with your mum forever

  • @wordup9300
    @wordup9300 4 місяці тому +27

    faline probably chillin reading amberlynn’s messages laughing cause she dgaf or she has amberlynn blocked 😂

  • @DanaMedic77
    @DanaMedic77 4 місяці тому +24

    LEAVE HER ALONE. Jesus Christ she doesn't want anything to do with you.

  • @user-by2bu3pv4e
    @user-by2bu3pv4e 4 місяці тому +31

    Good god leave her ALONE

  • @WESAFYGE5
    @WESAFYGE5 4 місяці тому +15

    I cant believe youre 11 years older than me and still this immature. LEAVE HER ALONE!

  • @DrPistachio
    @DrPistachio 4 місяці тому +21

    OCQURRED?

  • @ladydiana004
    @ladydiana004 4 місяці тому +18

    Maybe you should start wondering why none of your exs want anything to do with you... do some self reflection. Get a therapist.

  • @fuzzysox
    @fuzzysox 4 місяці тому +15

    She clearly wasn’t everything to you if you chose someone else over her…..

  • @danielledimeo4660
    @danielledimeo4660 4 місяці тому +36

    i cannot imagine playing cards against humanity w someone else’s BOSS 😭😭

  • @lisatharp3100
    @lisatharp3100 4 місяці тому +24

    Narcissists want the people that push them away

  • @xxooarabella
    @xxooarabella 4 місяці тому +13

    leave that poor lady alone …..

  • @PoppySeed47
    @PoppySeed47 4 місяці тому +18

    Where are all these friends you keep mentioning? Why cant you make plans with them? Ask them to be in your vlogs. The only person you go out with since moving to Oklahoma is your mum.

    • @lballerina6725
      @lballerina6725 4 місяці тому +3

      she's talking about the friends in the mirror.

    • @stormyalice
      @stormyalice 4 місяці тому

      She doesn't have any real friends. The ones in the past all have gone no contact.

  • @KatD56
    @KatD56 4 місяці тому +21

    You’re only sad because you no longer have a live in caretaker

  • @Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer
    @Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer 4 місяці тому +18

    You don't regret anything amber. Regret would show in a change of behavior and you haven't changed in over 10 years.
    It's still all about your narcissistic self.

  • @rebeccazimmerman870
    @rebeccazimmerman870 4 місяці тому +54

    You were not busy. busy is working nine to five busy is going to appointments busy is doing everything but shopping and playing cards games!!!!

    • @ellaa3776
      @ellaa3776 4 місяці тому +12

      her busy = ordering fast food, going to target, watching tv, sitting in the car while her mom drives her to the store across the street. such a hard busy day

    • @orsitheawesome
      @orsitheawesome 4 місяці тому +2

      Actually it’s 7:00-3:00, then 4:00-00:00
      Yay adulting!! ❤❤

  • @Xoxopikmin
    @Xoxopikmin 4 місяці тому +23

    Amber there’s still no excuse for someone your size to be dropping only 2 lbs a week.
    Your daily walks with Twinkie alone would be enough for you to at least lose 5 lbs with healthy eating. It looks like your “on-track” days are not really on-track at all.
    I hope you continue to remain consistent this year ❤️

    • @user-xq1ic7jh4v
      @user-xq1ic7jh4v 4 місяці тому +5

      She has managed to gain hundreds since starting YT.Dont see that changing anytime soon

    • @Xoxopikmin
      @Xoxopikmin 4 місяці тому

      @@user-xq1ic7jh4v agreed! One can definitely hope, but the likelihood of her succeeding is so small.

    • @stormyalice
      @stormyalice 4 місяці тому +2

      Dr Now gets people to drop about 10 a week. It's incredibly do-able at that size. 2lbs a week is for someone who is around 200lbs.

  • @BeccaTrysGames
    @BeccaTrysGames 4 місяці тому +34

    She doesn’t want to speak to you, so stop it. If she changes her mind, she’ll reach out.

  • @Hannahleigh_
    @Hannahleigh_ 4 місяці тому +14

    Toddlerlynn is back at it

  • @Im_just_saying00
    @Im_just_saying00 4 місяці тому +82

    Just watch. She’s gonna remake rain and pedals evedrop on feline pretty soon.

    • @DayLee10
      @DayLee10 4 місяці тому +29

      Once it FINALLY sets in that Flea used her the entire relationship and bounced once she got her debt paid off and a few goodies she's going to be SO pissed she'll go scorched earth

    • @Bebedollie
      @Bebedollie 4 місяці тому +4

      Lol

    • @mscellophane1850
      @mscellophane1850 4 місяці тому +1

      I doubt ALR would accuse Wipey of grape but who knows.

    • @stormyalice
      @stormyalice 4 місяці тому +2

      "Raisins And Peaches Eaten, I physically can't get back to her."

  • @jexxica_28
    @jexxica_28 4 місяці тому +62

    I hope Faline receives the love that she truly deserves. Leave her alone.

  • @MadMax-dp2bb
    @MadMax-dp2bb 4 місяці тому +19

    I just know if the tables were reversed, you would want nothing to do with her. God, you're so self-centered

  • @oddodium3048
    @oddodium3048 4 місяці тому +31

    is progress she talks about with us in the room?

    • @KensCounselingCouch
      @KensCounselingCouch 4 місяці тому +7

      Not even on the same planet, solar system, or galaxy.

    • @feralkitty57
      @feralkitty57 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@KensCounselingCouch *Came here to say that 😁*

  • @SandraW6988
    @SandraW6988 4 місяці тому +13

    It’s occurred not ACCURED ffs. Basic English is not your thing is it?. Do you think you can say “like” one more time?. I don’t think you said it enough.

    • @whitway12
      @whitway12 4 місяці тому +2

      Remember, she wants to publish a book of poetry this year! 😂

    • @SandraW6988
      @SandraW6988 4 місяці тому

      @@whitway12 I can’t even imagine how awful it’d be.

  • @nml4112
    @nml4112 4 місяці тому +15

    you’re still eating upwards of 4000/5000 calories a day to just lose 2lbs in a week… 😢

    • @begpar
      @begpar 4 місяці тому +2

      She doesn't care. She's got an easy life. Doesn't worry about money. She's not going to change a thing if it involves any effort. It's all just content for her at this point.

  • @rebeccazimmerman870
    @rebeccazimmerman870 4 місяці тому +76

    Let it go! She does not want anything to do with you!

  • @Hannahleigh_
    @Hannahleigh_ 4 місяці тому +15

    You have no idea what love is. You just go through people and use them for your advantage

  • @ranya_mm
    @ranya_mm 4 місяці тому +22

    I hate how you pronounce “occured” 🥴

  • @sportsbob
    @sportsbob 4 місяці тому +9

    not amberlynn "writing is my passion" reid not knowing how to pronounce the word "occurred" at the age of 33

  • @ashleyhowell4057
    @ashleyhowell4057 4 місяці тому +16

    You weren’t in love that with other person and you are only trying to get Wifi to talk to you again because the other one dumped you. I wouldn’t speak to you either .

  • @ChunkyKitKat87
    @ChunkyKitKat87 4 місяці тому +28

    Gorl. She's trying to move on with her polygamous lifestyle. Stop getting in her way and let her live her life.

  • @jourdanwinters7644
    @jourdanwinters7644 4 місяці тому +15

    You only miss her bc you didn’t get your immediate replacement on lock down. She knows you would have moved on immediately if you didn’t get dumped.

  • @lucylu3193
    @lucylu3193 4 місяці тому +38

    Amber, I imagine F watches these videos, she is seeing nothing but the same as when and why she left. That’s why there’s nothing to “catch up” on. Maybe if she saw you actually taking steps (think about Tammy here) she would be interested in talking to you and telling you she’s proud to see you improving your life.
    Otherwise it’s just depressing for her to engage with you.

    • @DanaMedic77
      @DanaMedic77 4 місяці тому +5

      I'm sure she's like "thank God I'm outta there!". All the manipulation tactics and screaming she put up with for 2 years.

    • @wickedphantommisgirl
      @wickedphantommisgirl 4 місяці тому +2

      I can't imagine a single reason why she'd watch these videos. I think she's made it clear she's done with ALR.

    • @MrBibi86
      @MrBibi86 4 місяці тому +1

      she is not watching these videos. I would put money on it.

  • @emapples202
    @emapples202 4 місяці тому +26

    if you love her leave her alone

    • @BlameLoki
      @BlameLoki 4 місяці тому +6

      Amber doesn't know what love is

  • @mariah6608
    @mariah6608 4 місяці тому +14

    #JusticeForBecky