Life After Korea: Regrets, Lessons, & what's next

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2024

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  • @makgabomahopo
    @makgabomahopo 2 місяці тому +4

    🫠not me hearing my name here🙏🏾. I’m so happy to see you back 🕺🕺🎊🎊some really good points indeed. I never had a permanent job in 🇿🇦 so I don’t know what decisions I would’ve made if I had that opportunity. I think having a permanent job really provides stability. Maybe one can save for vacations abroad?Going abroad should also be a long term goal when you’re older 😭and indeed sometimes we go out there and things don’t work out as we wished they would. Also about coming back home 💯💯💯I’m definitely not trying to settle in anywhere BUT my home, despite the drama we face in 🇿🇦😂I cannot imagine SETTLING anywhere else, but for now, I won’t be around. I love how you’re approaching things as a process, nothing is rushed, just taking it one day at a time! You’re more responsible than me 😂paying your own everything and surviving in this economy, it’s not something to take for granted. Keep healthy and well in every aspect ❤️❤️❤️you look amazing too! 🎉

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому +1

      Hey sis! Lol you dropped some pearls of wisdom in your recent uploads (as you always do), so I had to mention them here 😂 Thanks so much for your constantly encouraging words, and the lovely compliment ❤

  • @bluesky1685
    @bluesky1685 2 місяці тому +3

    it not trauma dumping, i think sharing your experiences, good or bad is an amazing thing... it helps a lot of people.

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому +2

      Awww, thank you for holding space for me. Ningadinwa 🙏🥺

  • @rewindthelesson
    @rewindthelesson 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for sharing.
    Very insightful

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  25 днів тому

      My pleasure! Thanks for tuning in ❤️🤗

  • @palesasera5621
    @palesasera5621 28 днів тому +2

    Its good to see you back. Im really appreciating the point on a safety need and how working abroad doesnt guarantee you employment when you go bacn home as the job market is extremely hard to infiltrate.
    Are you only looking into working in public schools in SA or you would also work in private schools?

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  26 днів тому

      Hey Ms P! Congratulations on your move to Korea, been seeing you adjusting ❤️ Yes I think creating a solid exit strategy and having savings as a safety net is really important when teaching abroad. I am applying for positions in both private and public schools 🥹

    • @palesasera5621
      @palesasera5621 26 днів тому

      It's really something else hey. But I'm definitely seeing and learning things I do not like and will not hang around for. But I told myself that for as long as I'm here I'm going to take it a day at a time and I always need to check in with myself. I'm glad you applying for both and hope you get something soon. And have you ever considered teaching at international schools elsewhere where you will be subject focused or you wanting to be at home for now?

    • @palesasera5621
      @palesasera5621 26 днів тому

      ​@zizojikizinto we finally made it after so long. And adjusting is definitely a process.

  • @zamazikode678
    @zamazikode678 2 місяці тому

    So very proud of you Mtase. That time in Korea was meant to happen, and we grow. You’re courageous and that’s always a recipe for success.

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      Well said mntase! There is no wasted experience, only lessons and growth. Phambili! 🙌🙏

  • @TJonathan391
    @TJonathan391 2 місяці тому

    Another insightful piece. 🙂Thank you so much, Ruth. Things will continue to improve with time and I look forward to when you look back and reflect on the journey. Love and light! ♥

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely 💯 Dilo di tlo fetoga 🥹♥️

  • @XolisaNomtshibe
    @XolisaNomtshibe 2 місяці тому

    Very insightful Sisi. This is a true definition of zizojikizinto. Exercising grace, patience and planning is the way to go. I know you can do it.
    Welcome back!

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      Enkosi kakhulu bhuti. I think 2021 - 2023 were character development years for me. Everything that happens from now on will be divinely guided and intentional. Makwande ❤🙏🥹

  • @KgothatsoMokitle
    @KgothatsoMokitle 2 місяці тому

    Loving the quality of the content Ruthie. We'll always be supporting you. Life still has a lot of reat things in store for you.

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      Amen and amen Friend! Thanks so much ❤🙏
      I sent you an email, hope you got it :)

  • @entervalhalla8484
    @entervalhalla8484 2 місяці тому

    You've been through a lot it seems but on the other side of that you've learnt a lot more then most of us ever will. Thank you for the upload, great as always, good to have you back. 😁

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому +1

      It feels good to be back! Thank you watching 🥰

  • @leratoshikwambana582
    @leratoshikwambana582 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for the video, it’s very insightful. Glad to have you back Sesi ❤️

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      I believe in transparency with everything in me 🥹 Thanks for watching sis ❤️

  • @thandekandlovu5555
    @thandekandlovu5555 2 місяці тому +1

    loving your content

  • @SheronMacanza
    @SheronMacanza 2 місяці тому

    Navigating adulthood is challenging,you want to go out there and live life but we also want to have some form of stability.
    Give yourself some grace💗.
    You got this Sis.
    Phillipians 4:7 "The peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and mental powers".
    God is going to go through this journey with you.
    A lovely video Sis Ruth
    Much appreciated💗

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      I couldn't agree more! There is a desire for adventure and exploration, while stability and progress is also super important. I guess adulting is constantly trying to balance all these elements 🥹 Thank you so much for the scripture as well, it's one of my faves ❤️ 🙏

  • @thapelokhambule7806
    @thapelokhambule7806 2 місяці тому

    Glad to have you back Zanele 😝
    We missed your content 😇

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      Thanks Thaps! It feels good to be back ❤❤

  • @k_hearthstones
    @k_hearthstones 2 місяці тому

    I'm so proud of you in everything you have did for yourself🙌

  • @mojabengmofolo5883
    @mojabengmofolo5883 2 місяці тому

    Welcome back Sis sending hugs❤

  • @mokhadibuthane2615
    @mokhadibuthane2615 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your true experiences. People as not as open

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  25 днів тому

      Very true. We need to be open and transparent about the experience, show all sides to the story

  • @connyconstance6157
    @connyconstance6157 2 місяці тому

    Welcome back sis❤❤❤

    • @connyconstance6157
      @connyconstance6157 2 місяці тому

      You mentioned that you are currently working, which platform are you on? I also majored in economics and business studies and just started teaching online because of unemployment.

  • @nomangwanemokhothu4017
    @nomangwanemokhothu4017 2 місяці тому

    I really love how you articulate yourself it is honestly enjoyable to watch❤...I remember we use to take the Same bus to campus from Molapo😂I'm really rooting for you sis🎉

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      Awww the bus trips bathong 🤣 Siphuma kude and sisaya kude. Thanks for watching, I appreciate the best wishes 🥰

  • @khayounwind1601
    @khayounwind1601 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this, i returned from korea in may 2023 i can really relate

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for affirming the experience 🥹🥺 Love and light to you, it gets worse before it gets better ❤❤

  • @bthescientist
    @bthescientist 2 місяці тому

    We’ve missed you so much😊❤

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      Worry no more, I am back sis 🥹♥️

  • @zolisanongqunga3951
    @zolisanongqunga3951 14 днів тому

    I love you more ❤

  • @amandamabena8503
    @amandamabena8503 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this.❤

  • @sesethusofute1728
    @sesethusofute1728 Місяць тому

    You're me I resigned and now I'm going through the most😭😭 I'm thinking of coming back that time I'm so broke

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  Місяць тому +1

      I am so sorry 🤣😅 We will be okay sis. It's time to go back to the drawing board

  • @zizipomtyobile3657
    @zizipomtyobile3657 2 місяці тому

    Ziizoooojiiiiiik’iiiiziiintoooo, thulaaaa mntanaaaam ❤️

  • @eulendaramoshaba8005
    @eulendaramoshaba8005 2 місяці тому +2

    you are so beautiful ❤

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  2 місяці тому

      Awwww thank you so much 🥹❤️

  • @gugumabona_
    @gugumabona_ 2 місяці тому

    Cute! ❤

  • @Nokuphila214
    @Nokuphila214 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @tumelomkwayi
    @tumelomkwayi 26 днів тому

    Zanele😊

    • @zizojikizinto
      @zizojikizinto  26 днів тому

      Tumelo 🥰

    • @tumelomkwayi
      @tumelomkwayi 26 днів тому

      @@zizojikizinto How much is Lobola😁♥️? Please get the quotation from aboMalume

  • @DjNjabz_SA
    @DjNjabz_SA 2 місяці тому

    UA-cam connoisseur 😌

  • @user-ci6xs4by9c
    @user-ci6xs4by9c 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤