It was actually, trust me if it was still alive and going, so many would go there, i lived & worked there before 10 years ago for about 7 years, and it was the best time of my life. The whole country was alive, learned so many new things and people cultures, well thats what usa and Israel want to get rid of now. Their way of life is stress free 100% back in the days, not now
You know, people who complain complain no matter where they go. People who are unhappy are unhappy no matter where they are. People who are happy are happy no matter where they are. You are your own limitation.
Isn't he from San Francisco? I'm not sure, but if he complains about Japan being so expensive, imagine what he'd think getting back to San Francisco being able to afford little more than a shoe box. Or by "real home" did you just mean the states in general?
Hi Ryan: I have been interested in the truth about Thailand for quite some time and have done my own research. I lived in Thailand with my wife for 5 weeks. While this is absolutely no qualification to be an expert on Thailand, it's culture, or it's people, I interacted with a good number of expats while I was there. My general impression was exactly as you put it. These are people (expats living there) who have stopped growing and are basically living in la-la land. There is a recent video about how to spend an inexpensive day at a new mall in Hua HIn. Really? Is that what you want to move to Thailand to do? The bottom line is that there is a reason things cost less in Thailand and as a retired expat living in Thailand, you are basically gaining from others losses. No one vlogs about the police shake-downs. No one expresses their opinion about the King or about religious beliefs. They say they do it out of respect for the culture; but, in reality, I believe they live in fear. I was in Thailand the month after the king's death. It was suggested that I wear a black ribbon to show my sorrow and sympathy towards the Thai people for their loss. I am sorry, but the truth is, I do not believe in mourning. While it could be argued that I am wrong for taking such a position, I'm sorry, that's just who I am. These are cultural rituals that belong to the people of the country and while I appreciate their customs and culture, I am certainly not a part of it. The one consistent thing I have picked up with vloggers is the frequency with which they get ill; yet, no one vlogs about the unsanitary conditions found all over Thailand. Or that certain whiff of Eau-de-open sewage you get while you are walking down the street. You see videos about the beautiful beaches but hear little of the jellyfish invasions or garbage washing up on the shore. You are very correct that people are showing Thailand through rose colored glasses. The average Thai very possibly resents the average farang because of the economic reality that they must serve the farang to survive. Some may live in the fantasy world where they believe they fit into the Thai culture and are genuinely accepted as part of the culture, but I believe you are spot on in your observation that you will always be an outsider viewed primarily as a source of revenue. While I found Thailand to be a charming place and it's people generally kind, I have no urge to return for any extended period of time; been there done that. Best of luck to you in your future adventures.
I personally would not be accepted, or fit in as part of the culture in many parts of the city I grew up in. Los Angeles, California. We had Black sections, Latino sections, Asian sections (Vietnamese, Japanese, Chinese, Korean) and Middle Eastern sections. Within 10 miles you could feel quite out of place, and also right at home if you didn't worry about fitting in. I'm sure New York City is similar, and Chicago. I also have 5 weeks experience in Thailand. Bangkok, Cha Am, Phuket, and Chaing Mai. The first thing I noticed was the lack of fear I felt in Thailand, The helpfulness of the Thai people. They are kind, forgiving, and tolerant of our often intolerant nature. You can always find an exception to the norm, but overall they respect the rule of "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you", and the rule of Karma.I love the beauty of the land, the climate, the people, the respect and love of their late King, and the reverence of family, I could quite easily find myself "at home" in Thailand.
Ryan, your expectation of Thailand is just too high. There is no such thing as perfect place. People are just people. No matter which country is not much different.
It's easier to shame old, lonely Japanese men who are looking for to speak English to someone they see as a gaijin. In Thailand he runs the risk of being attacked with Muay Thai being kicked by three girls in broad daylight. But the Japanese, despite their history, are very benevolent and will avoid confrontation.
Pedro faba he's lucky Japan is not a woman who would have slapped him around then call the police to have him take his stuff that she dumps out for garbage pick up.
I follow a lot of vloggers in thailand, they are not saying often it's the paradise, it can happen, but some of them really live better than in their own countries (no winter, cost of life, cool people)
Since when is winter a problem? Since never. Only because you can't handle it, doesn't me that people are running away from it. It seems like the heat is the same if not worse...
Maybe what Ryan is searching for in his travels is a place that will also fully accept him. He didnt find that in Japan and he didnt find that in Thailand and it might be something that's really hard to find. I think wherever you go there will always be an Us Compared To Them attitude no matter how shallow it may be. Thats why we have the saying Theres no place like home.
I think that you made some good points. Geographical cures will not work until one looks at the problem(s) within. If something is broken within no matter where one goes they are who they are. Look within. Peace
John Smith Mr. Smith スミスさん Thank you for sharing this with us. I found that living in Japan helped me to find out more about myself. I train in 武道(ぶどう) Budo or the Way of the Martial Arts and the 心身(しんしん) Shin Shin or the unification of the mind, body and spirit through the practice of Budo was very helpful for me. Peace
Interesting post John Smith. Does traveling and living abroad do much to combat shyness? I've been fighting it all my life. Example, I would rather face a firing squad than public speaking. Thanks much for any insight.
***** Gman, your comment intruigued me, but I don't know what you mean by Communists. What is the situation in Canada? I have to confess, we're pretty ignorant in America about other situations.
Ryan, came back to see your videos after a long hiatus. You've got some serious inner torment that doesn't seem to let up, and I doubt traveling to all these different places is what's going to help you.
I lived in Thailand for years, taught in S. Korea and Japan as well, am in the US now. One thing that Ryan is definitely right about is that of all the people you meet there, only a few will ever stick out and hold on as friends. I have heard others talk about this as well. To me it is peculiar when I think back on all the people I befriended in Thailand over the years, yet I can only truly count one or two as friends. Maybe three at the most. It is actually something I think about from time to time. Maybe it is because Thailand is a transitional place, always in a constant flux. With people coming in search of their own "something", the people they meet there just systematically becoming interwoven into the background tapestry of the greater Thai experience as a whole. Peculiar.
This is true about anywhere you go, it depends on the people you meet, thats no way to judge a county. Thats the same problem Ryan has, he over judges places he's been and does not feel happy there. He had a great thing going in Japan with that girl and then just left it.
I spent time in Hanoi..... Now I love Bangkok ! Even though I lived in Bangkok for five years. Comparing Bangkok to Hanoi..... Bangkok is like heaven on earth !
Glad I stumbled upon this video and thanks for the great info! Ive been googling the hell out of Thailand recently, with hopes of moving next year before summer. 32, would live off my VA disability checks and not have to worry about working, perhaps even go to college full time as well but man this video woke me up a bit!
He left because he has no money, no work permit, and can't afford a Thai Elite Visa. His big savings he boasted about in his other video is gone. Such a croc poster
You and I are pretty similar in our adventures in Asia, and i think youd really like China. Chinese people are fun, full of personality, and they dont have the work obsession of Japan either. China also has way more work options than Japan does, for the average foreigner that is. First tier cities in China also pay more on average than first Japan. Lastly, Chinese people dont treat you like an outsider, gaijin, in China they treat foreigners actually better than they treat their own, usually. These may be generalizations, but for me, they all rang true.
Love the honesty on your channel. I subscribed! I've been to the philippines plenty, but stay away from the big city like Manila. Big cities are too busy.
I agree with you on so many points, Although I miss it there, I've been back in England after spending 5 months there and I have to admit I miss that life, but I'm definitely kicking myself for not going to Japan whilst I was in Asia
i feel your pain---my families have relocated from China long long time ago to Thailand. now, Thailand is exactly as you described. 90% of my families are now in laos or America doing businesses. most of my friends that grew up there have moved to chiang mai or somewhere in the countryside.
Honest as always. If you come back to visit Thailand try Chiang Mai. December-Jan. Season, and cool weather (comfortable), and completely different scene.
What camera do use for your videos? I know, it's the nth time you are asked this question, but please answer me. As to your videos, a big "BRAVO!", I regard them as a new form of art.
Always liked your videos no matter in which country you were. Many people still don´t understand that this is a life journey channel and you just happend to be in Japan. I get the jokes and I know how the more "sarcasitc" videos are meant. Even though you will not agree on this but Japan sort of suits you well and I always had the feeling you were going back some time. i really miss the great old videos, you just walking down the streets and in the towns and just talking about topics or showing how the areas look like. My fav vids are the ones where you made trips with Rie to the hot springs or her home town
I've been to Thailand for 6 months. The heat can be hard to deal with, but everything else is great. People are helpful and honest, and just generally have a positive attitude. I have never had a concern for my safety either. I avoid the big tourist traps like Bangkok, Phuket and Pattaya. If you expect Thailand to be like America, you may find it culturally challenging though.
I like your videos because it’s all just the truth and nothing fake. You are real! ;) But one question I have: “Why traveling all the time? Why all the time in another country? I think you are maybe running away from something? Maybe it is hard for you to connect with people? Therefore, you never feel home anywhere?” Maybe you want to make a video about that topic, too!? Anyway, may God bless you! You are 100 percent real - and I like that. Cheers
I lived in the Dominican Republic por 7 years and it was HELL. I wish I had thought about vlogging my experience. Anyways, thanks for the series, your thoughts resonate with me in many levels.
Ryan, I agree with many of your comments and observations (throughout your videos) but at other times wonder how you can be so negative! You have a life that many dream of! I admire that you're a free spirit, and by taking chances, you've enriched your life beyond what most people will ever experience! I used to travel to Japan often, during the years I was a flight attendant, and I loved Japan for many of the reasons you don't! Lol. I loved the order, the cleanliness, the polite interaction from the Japanese people, the beautiful temples and mystery surrounding much of Japanese culture. When you described appearance requirements for getting/keeping a job there, it reminded me of how the airlines were years ago. I'm ok with that. You obviously did what you wanted to do in life but do you see yourself moving on, either in location or profession? What is your dream job and destination? I'm not sure if you're happy where you're at. You seem like a great guy, and you deserve to be happy!
This guy is so far off beam, did not go up North, please do not believe 90% of what he said, he is a loner, not too many friends, no wonder, with his negative attitude, Thailand is a great place, good riddance
Yeah as a Thai,he's doing it wrong,why live in Bangkok and Pattaya we got much better places than that. I suspect this guy just go there to bitch on someone else's country pointing fingers and leave the damn place when he bored of it,he always came back to Japan because his gf still there. We don't have the money to hopping around the world like you,be grateful.
Thanks for getting to the point. I hear ya about Bangers. Never considered living in Pattaya. Chiang Mai was less friendly IMHO than Bangkok even. Samui has areas that may suit guys like us. My Thai wife and I may try Cambodia and Vietnam for 6 months and Thailand 6 months. Rent is so cheap, why own and be stuck? - especially if a bad neighbor moves in.
I kind of had the sensation you liked your trip to Cambodia. Of course a 'holiday' is different than a daily routine and doesn't allow you to evaluate and point out the pros and cons of living in a country, but I was wondering wether you might be thinking of moving to Cambodia next. Isn't tourism different there? Isn't it less polluted and crowded? Also, it is quite funny to hear you praise cool Japan weather as one of the things you said you could no longer stand was the greyish tone and rigid temperatures,...but I guess hot hot weather can be exhausting too (for me it would be unbearable on the medium and long run!)...I'm not criticizing :), I just find funny and ultimately interesting how sometimes things in life can be very relative yet we base our decisions and even opinions on such things. As you say, it's ok to be in search, coherence in many cases is overestimated in my opinion, and changing mind, contradicting ourselves, learning from experience, seeking and finding and losing and finding again our balance is very important. For whatever reason, by whatever means. I like "where" you are right now. I think I am the same age as you and I understand it, even though I haven't learned to act according to these feelings. But that's another story. Hope you are fine during this period in Japan. Take care.
Kool man...i wish I had the $ to do wat ur doing. You're actually living your life; I envy you man (positively😊), thanx for the post. Question:how much $$$ did u leave the USA with? I ask so I have some kind of reference as to how much one would need if they're willing to or want to work at the destinations (Thailand,Japan in ur case so far) .
I think you may want to give US another try. I grew up in san francisco and live in korea now but will definitely move back. I need to be able to speak to people and so many opportunities are missed if I cant speak fluently a language or feel accepted. SF is changing and gentrified now.. but the US is such a huge place with so many diff communities.. you should explore the US.
I agree with your comment, I live in Bangkok 5 years, and I could not live to Pattaya, even if there is less car traffic it's too much of everything in a small town, that's true Jomtien is more quiet, but arround Chiang Mai it's even better and less expensive, if you avoid Patong, Phuket is also interresting to live. There are also many town in the country less known but they are interresting, less tourists, cheaper prices, more authentic
Ryan, did you think of Taiwan ???. very clean, nice people, cheap food and very good food you can teach English here, visa is 90 day then u can extend to 180 days then its 90 day till the following year ( you can only do 90 to 180 once a year) flights for visa are cheap, Kaohsiung (where i live) to Macao is about 4000 NT$ Return. u can get morning flight then return but 12noon, rooms with AirBnB are cheap and u can rent for a month for about 6000NT$, Kaohsiung is a nice city. good shopping for clothes and food. i live on about 2000NT$ a week my rent is 6000NT$ a month no electric but i pay for gas.
Ryan, no country is perfect. An to expect perfection just isn't logical. Thailand has figured out a niche in the world. It's not for everyone. Some advise, Rei helps you grow, don't let her slip away.
Ryan if you like beaches try the Riviera Maya in Mexico or I hear good things about Portugal too. Even places like Croatia has a nice vibe. If Asia is your thing the Phillipines might be good for you. Personally I spent some time in South Korea and if you can deal with living in Japan I think Korea is nicer in terms of meeting people. Your skils in teaching english definitely can work there and its a pretty good gig, people make good money in cash for private tutoring if you had to do it just to make some pocket change. I assume that your investing takes care of the basic living. Plus its something to do. A lot of people think just going somewhere to chill is the dream lifestyle but people need a purpose in life beyond just chilling out.
Its important for us all, that we don't mistake a yearning for inner growth, for an unresolved problem we may have carried from some point earlier in our lives. The need to move on, the constant searching for something, this may never be satisfied if we don't identify the real reason we feel like this. Its fine when its a reasoned thought out decision with a clear goal at the end, but when its a yearning from within, it usually means there is something far deeper going on. When we find out what it is, we can be happy, settled and at peace with ourselves.
I love and respect the people of Japan even though I have never been there. I have lived in in countries where I should respect their culture but after having lived there I don't !
Pretty interesting video, Ryan. I hadn't thought much about Thailand personally but now that you mention it, there are some true points of interest. Shuddering over the mention of millipedes, ugh! Is it a cliché that they eat dogs and cats there? That bothers me a lot.. Take care, fella.
Hi, I felt like this after the second trip, and still do after 17 years. I see it from different places. Backpackers, Single men. I think you need to go back Ryan again, and check out Krabi Town, Chiang Rai, Udon Thani. I have been 26 times and I am off back next week. Because it is a Paradise after all this time. You will see eventually.
I miss ny. I need to get out of missouri. Where we lived in the Catskills there was an Asian retreat and they taught yoga and Thai chi. Not like there I'm sure but it beats being here!
Ryan, I'm in agreement with you about the heat. Yea, people say you will acclimate to it but even the Thais are affected by the heat, just ask them. The high rise areas of Bangkok seem to simply amplify the sun and heat. Man, I fucking died there most every day for the 3 weeks I visited.
If Canada is so bad and the Czech Republic is so great why not get off your ass and travel back to the Czech Republic to rejoin the rest of your fascist buddies and stop complaining about moving to a country you can't stand? Seriously, if you don't like it then GTFO. Nobody will miss your endless bitching and moaning as a guest in a country you can't stand.
If you hate Canadians so much why are you still living in Canada? You're like the village idiot who complains all day but can't take a hint that it's time to shut up and go back home.
i think ur very informative and very real i was drawn to you in this video why not try Kamala in Phuket away from Patong not like Pattaya check it out its beautiful i will enjoy watching more of ur videos
Hi Ryan, it seems you feel stuck right now. I don't know you at all, other than watching your videos, and I don't want to sound condescending, but I think you could get something interesting from a journey that is more than just another apartment in another town in Asia. I think you seek something deeper. Have you heard of the great Himalaya Trail for example? That is an extraordinary journey, and a very spiritual experience. You can decide the length, rhythm and level of difficulty yourself. The higher route leads through the mountains and is hard, but the lower route goes through beautiful valleys and towns. More here: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Himalaya_Trail
You are correct in everything you say. You may like Chiang Mai. I have not been to Hua Hin, I heard there are many British there. Jomtien is south of Pattaya. Much more relaxed, no heavy bar girl scene. I am interested in Vietnam. I would like to see you visit there and get your impressions. Also, your impressions of: Burma, Laos, and Cambodia. Did you break up with your Japanese girlfriend? She seemed to be in love with you.
Im sorry Ryan but moving to Pattaya is your issue that is not Thailand ?Have you been to the South of Thailand ? I have been regularly visiting for the last 2 decades and have been all over Thailand , in recent years my British family has invested in land and have built unexpectedly a holiday resort on an island near Samui , they have experienced nothing but an excellent reception from the Thai and have been shown nothing but respect during their stay ,i myself have decided to join them this June and say goodbye to my life in the UK for good ! , for me i can only say Thailand is a beautiful country and a place full of opportunity
That's not true. Mr Boundless has responded to my comment on a number of occasions. That being said. Throwing positive vibes your way brother. Keep on keeping on is all you have to do. The world has a way of alignment. Bless
Syria is nice this time of year.
had a good laugh reading that
Only telling the truth
Say hello to "Senri Kawaguchi" for me before you go!
I thought that sounded hilarious too!
You may be correct, but do you have to dodge any bullets when sunbathing?
It was actually, trust me if it was still alive and going, so many would go there, i lived & worked there before 10 years ago for about 7 years, and it was the best time of my life. The whole country was alive, learned so many new things and people cultures, well thats what usa and Israel want to get rid of now. Their way of life is stress free 100% back in the days, not now
You know, people who complain complain no matter where they go. People who are unhappy are unhappy no matter where they are. People who are happy are happy no matter where they are. You are your own limitation.
Yeah me
He’s complained about Mexico, Japan and now Thailand ??!! Lol
Strip Ria on a live-cast
Let the thumbing up commence, lol.
Why is this comment all the way down here ?!?
Rie needs to dump this ZERO and get with a HERO.
George Pop She is with him for his looks
Why not come back to your real home? It's a good time. Didn't you hear? America is about to become great again.
Thank God for Trump!
you mean thank Trump for god!
Trump gave us God ?
God gave us Trump! ;) Btw, you look cute. :)
Isn't he from San Francisco? I'm not sure, but if he complains about Japan being so expensive, imagine what he'd think getting back to San Francisco being able to afford little more than a shoe box.
Or by "real home" did you just mean the states in general?
The "us and them mentality" will be everywhere if you are a foreigner thats just how it is. Even if youre from a neighbouring country etc
Hi Ryan: I have been interested in the truth about Thailand for quite some time and have done my own research. I lived in Thailand with my wife for 5 weeks. While this is absolutely no qualification to be an expert on Thailand, it's culture, or it's people, I interacted with a good number of expats while I was there. My general impression was exactly as you put it. These are people (expats living there) who have stopped growing and are basically living in la-la land. There is a recent video about how to spend an inexpensive day at a new mall in Hua HIn. Really? Is that what you want to move to Thailand to do? The bottom line is that there is a reason things cost less in Thailand and as a retired expat living in Thailand, you are basically gaining from others losses. No one vlogs about the police shake-downs. No one expresses their opinion about the King or about religious beliefs. They say they do it out of respect for the culture; but, in reality, I believe they live in fear. I was in Thailand the month after the king's death. It was suggested that I wear a black ribbon to show my sorrow and sympathy towards the Thai people for their loss. I am sorry, but the truth is, I do not believe in mourning. While it could be argued that I am wrong for taking such a position, I'm sorry, that's just who I am. These are cultural rituals that belong to the people of the country and while I appreciate their customs and culture, I am certainly not a part of it. The one consistent thing I have picked up with vloggers is the frequency with which they get ill; yet, no one vlogs about the unsanitary conditions found all over Thailand. Or that certain whiff of Eau-de-open sewage you get while you are walking down the street. You see videos about the beautiful beaches but hear little of the jellyfish invasions or garbage washing up on the shore. You are very correct that people are showing Thailand through rose colored glasses. The average Thai very possibly resents the average farang because of the economic reality that they must serve the farang to survive. Some may live in the fantasy world where they believe they fit into the Thai culture and are genuinely accepted as part of the culture, but I believe you are spot on in your observation that you will always be an outsider viewed primarily as a source of revenue. While I found Thailand to be a charming place and it's people generally kind, I have no urge to return for any extended period of time; been there done that. Best of luck to you in your future adventures.
good reply.
I personally would not be accepted, or fit in as part of the culture in many parts of the city I grew up in. Los Angeles, California. We had Black sections, Latino sections, Asian sections (Vietnamese, Japanese, Chinese, Korean) and Middle Eastern sections. Within 10 miles you could feel quite out of place, and also right at home if you didn't worry about fitting in. I'm sure New York City is similar, and Chicago. I also have 5 weeks experience in Thailand. Bangkok, Cha Am, Phuket, and Chaing Mai. The first thing I noticed was the lack of fear I felt in Thailand, The helpfulness of the Thai people. They are kind, forgiving, and tolerant of our often intolerant nature. You can always find an exception to the norm, but overall they respect the rule of "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you", and the rule of Karma.I love the beauty of the land, the climate, the people, the respect and love of their late King, and the reverence of family, I could quite easily find myself "at home" in Thailand.
5 weeks is a holiday...
Yes it is, And I'm going to triple it beginning in February 2017 :)
You spent 5 weeks in the country as a tourist. And you are making such harsh statements. Extremely ignorent,sad person !
Ryan, your expectation of Thailand is just too high. There is no such thing as perfect place. People are just people. No matter which country is not much different.
Ryan bro just go back to the USA and be happy.
He's not gonna be happy no matter where he is.
I have to agree. Maybe time to seek help.
Hein Bence Amen. I live in Raleigh, NC after 6 years in Belgium. Yay!!!! One thing I've learned: Know who your people are.
i start to thinking that he can not come back to US for some legal issues ...
what do you mean " know who your people are."??
My question is: after spending that time in Thailand and coming back to Japan, do you APPRECIATE Japan now??
Steve Rey lol
Steve Rey probably not
I doubt he does considering he was never going to leave permanently.
It's easier to shame old, lonely Japanese men who are looking for to speak English to someone they see as a gaijin. In Thailand he runs the risk of being attacked with Muay Thai being kicked by three girls in broad daylight. But the Japanese, despite their history, are very benevolent and will avoid confrontation.
Pedro faba he's lucky Japan is not a woman who would have slapped him around then call the police to have him take his stuff that she dumps out for garbage pick up.
sounds similar to Japan. With that superficial front they display and the foreign vloggers painting it as a paradise
I follow a lot of vloggers in thailand, they are not saying often it's the paradise, it can happen, but some of them really live better than in their own countries (no winter, cost of life, cool people)
Since when is winter a problem? Since never. Only because you can't handle it, doesn't me that people are running away from it. It seems like the heat is the same if not worse...
yes there are people who like winter and cold wheather, but many people choose to live here because they don't like winter, I am in that case
@Mage- It's a problem for the people in the 50 car crash in mid Michigan yesterday. Also, the one a couple days before.
Maybe what Ryan is searching for in his travels is a place that will also fully accept him. He didnt find that in Japan and he didnt find that in Thailand and it might be something that's really hard to find. I think wherever you go there will always be an Us Compared To Them attitude no matter how shallow it may be. Thats why we have the saying Theres no place like home.
I think that you made some good points. Geographical cures will not work until one looks at the problem(s) within. If something is broken within no matter where one goes they are who they are. Look within. Peace
John Smith
Mr. Smith スミスさん
Thank you for sharing this with us. I found that living in Japan helped me to find out more about myself. I train in 武道(ぶどう) Budo or the Way of the Martial Arts and the 心身(しんしん) Shin Shin or the unification of the mind, body and spirit through the practice of Budo was very helpful for me. Peace
Interesting post John Smith. Does traveling and living abroad do much to combat shyness? I've been fighting it all my life. Example, I would rather face a firing squad than public speaking. Thanks much for any insight.
Ok, sounds reasonable..thank you :)
***** Gman, your comment intruigued me, but I don't know what you mean by Communists. What is the situation in Canada? I have to confess, we're pretty ignorant in America about other situations.
Ryan, came back to see your videos after a long hiatus. You've got some serious inner torment that doesn't seem to let up, and I doubt traveling to all these different places is what's going to help you.
One of the first video's I have watched that gets to the point, introduces the topic, then gives you more details and gives a brief conclusion.
NICE !
I lived in Thailand for years, taught in S. Korea and Japan as well, am in the US now. One thing that Ryan is definitely right about is that of all the people you meet there, only a few will ever stick out and hold on as friends.
I have heard others talk about this as well. To me it is peculiar when I think back on all the people I befriended in Thailand over the years, yet I can only truly count one or two as friends. Maybe three at the most.
It is actually something I think about from time to time. Maybe it is because Thailand is a transitional place, always in a constant flux. With people coming in search of their own "something", the people they meet there just systematically becoming interwoven into the background tapestry of the greater Thai experience as a whole. Peculiar.
This is true about anywhere you go, it depends on the people you meet, thats no way to judge a county. Thats the same problem Ryan has, he over judges places he's been and does not feel happy there. He had a great thing going in Japan with that girl and then just left it.
Okay, so he failed in America, he failed in Japan, he failed in Thailand...where next?
Trying new things is far from failing. What kind of box do you live in?
That's not failing, that's living.
Probably experienced more than you
Love this video...really like the honesty and candidness.
Thanks for making videos! Welcome back!
I spent time in Hanoi.....
Now I love Bangkok !
Even though I lived in Bangkok for five years.
Comparing Bangkok to Hanoi.....
Bangkok is like heaven on earth !
I love how your videos are to the point and you do not mislead your viewers, keep it up
Thank you! Your words towards the end are timely for me.
Glad I stumbled upon this video and thanks for the great info! Ive been googling the hell out of Thailand recently, with hopes of moving next year before summer. 32, would live off my VA disability checks and not have to worry about working, perhaps even go to college full time as well but man this video woke me up a bit!
I agree with you, the heat in Thailand is more than I could deal with, it zapped my energy every day. Best of luck to you Ryan.
Awesome video as always Ryan!
I love watching your videos. It's eyeopening.
I appreciate your sincerity and truth. Just subbed.
I say you try Korea next. My brother lives in Seoul and when I visited it was AMAZING!! But expensive as well.
Well said. Thanks for your honest and concise thoughts.
I really like listening to your honesty.
Excellent post, real honesty in that!
Excellent video. You are 100% right. I am thinking of moving on myself. But I will be leaving two people behind.
Saw this coming it's not where you're at, it's who you're with, happy for you both, you look good on each other !
Hey Ryan, what about Okinawa? I heard Ríe commenting about that tropical Japanese place in one of your previous videos . Buena suerte amigo :)
Whatever, Merry Christmas & enjoy ur life. Good Luck.
He left because he has no money, no work permit, and can't afford a Thai Elite Visa. His big savings he boasted about in his other video is gone. Such a croc poster
gk10002000 You don't need a 'Thai Elite Visa' duh. You new there?
Why do you say you have hundreds of thousands of dollars and are constantly e-begging? (give this a thumbs up, everyone)
Anon Ymous oh look someone who can't tell between his troll videos and his real ones
what does he do for a living?
You and I are pretty similar in our adventures in Asia, and i think youd really like China. Chinese people are fun, full of personality, and they dont have the work obsession of Japan either. China also has way more work options than Japan does, for the average foreigner that is. First tier cities in China also pay more on average than first Japan. Lastly, Chinese people dont treat you like an outsider, gaijin, in China they treat foreigners actually better than they treat their own, usually. These may be generalizations, but for me, they all rang true.
Love the honesty on your channel.
I subscribed!
I've been to the philippines plenty, but stay away from the big city like Manila.
Big cities are too busy.
I resubscribed. I agree with you, Ryan. I did the same thing moving to China and then subsequently returning home.
Yesss!!! I've been waitin for this moment! Fuck yeah ready for the j-vlogs again
You should get out more.
I agree with you on so many points, Although I miss it there, I've been back in England after spending 5 months there and I have to admit I miss that life, but I'm definitely kicking myself for not going to Japan whilst I was in Asia
Nice !
You have great narrative !
i feel your pain---my families have relocated from China long long time ago to Thailand. now, Thailand is exactly as you described. 90% of my families are now in laos or America doing businesses. most of my friends that grew up there have moved to chiang mai or somewhere in the countryside.
Going to watch some more !
Honest as always. If you come back to visit Thailand try Chiang Mai. December-Jan. Season, and cool weather (comfortable), and completely different scene.
What camera do use for your videos? I know, it's the nth time you are asked this question, but please answer me. As to your videos, a big "BRAVO!", I regard them as a new form of art.
Good video, and good story!
Always liked your videos no matter in which country you were. Many people still don´t understand that this is a life journey channel and you just happend to be in Japan. I get the jokes and I know how the more "sarcasitc" videos are meant. Even though you will not agree on this but Japan sort of suits you well and I always had the feeling you were going back some time. i really miss the great old videos, you just walking down the streets and in the towns and just talking about topics or showing how the areas look like. My fav vids are the ones where you made trips with Rie to the hot springs or her home town
Hey Ryan what kind of videos are you gonna make now that you are back in japan?
yes. I felt the same way. personal development was put on hold. ya bangkok is crazy. i enjoyed chaingmi and still need to post some of my videos
I've been to Thailand for 6 months. The heat can be hard to deal with, but everything else is great.
People are helpful and honest, and just generally have a positive attitude. I have never had a concern for my safety either.
I avoid the big tourist traps like Bangkok, Phuket and Pattaya.
If you expect Thailand to be like America, you may find it culturally challenging though.
thanks for the insight
Great vid thankyou
I like your videos because it’s all just the truth and nothing fake. You are real! ;) But one question I have: “Why traveling all the time? Why all the time in another country? I think you are maybe running away from something? Maybe it is hard for you to connect with people? Therefore, you never feel home anywhere?” Maybe you want to make a video about that topic, too!? Anyway, may God bless you! You are 100 percent real - and I like that. Cheers
I lived in the Dominican Republic por 7 years and it was HELL. I wish I had thought about vlogging my experience. Anyways, thanks for the series, your thoughts resonate with me in many levels.
What about it was hell?
Ryan, I agree with many of your comments and observations (throughout your videos) but at other times wonder how you can be so negative! You have a life that many dream of! I admire that you're a free spirit, and by taking chances, you've enriched your life beyond what most people will ever experience! I used to travel to Japan often, during the years I was a flight attendant, and I loved Japan for many of the reasons you don't! Lol. I loved the order, the cleanliness, the polite interaction from the Japanese people, the beautiful temples and mystery surrounding much of Japanese culture. When you described appearance requirements for getting/keeping a job there, it reminded me of how the airlines were years ago. I'm ok with that. You obviously did what you wanted to do in life but do you see yourself moving on, either in location or profession? What is your dream job and destination? I'm not sure if you're happy where you're at. You seem like a great guy, and you deserve to be happy!
I lived 6 years in south east Asia and I fully agree!! I think maybe you should try the Philippines or Vietnam next time.
This guy is so far off beam, did not go up North, please do not believe 90% of what he said, he is a loner, not too many friends, no wonder, with his negative attitude, Thailand is a great place, good riddance
Yeah as a Thai,he's doing it wrong,why live in Bangkok and Pattaya we got much better places than that.
I suspect this guy just go there to bitch on someone else's country pointing fingers and leave the damn place when he bored of it,he always came back to Japan because his gf still there.
We don't have the money to hopping around the world like you,be grateful.
Thanks for getting to the point.
I hear ya about Bangers. Never considered living in Pattaya. Chiang Mai was less friendly IMHO than Bangkok even. Samui has areas that may suit guys like us. My Thai wife and I may try Cambodia and Vietnam for 6 months and Thailand 6 months.
Rent is so cheap, why own and be stuck? - especially if a bad neighbor moves in.
Maybe give Rie's suggestion of Okinawa a shot? Might have the climate you are looking for and be more in her comfort zone
sure Ryan. problem is u in Nippon now and it's 2 western. But thanx for enlightenment along the way. was FUN. Vaya con dios, man...:-)
Holy shit Ryan, good video mate. Appreciate you sharing. Troll videos are boring tbh.
ahhhh dreamcrusher: thailand edition. I came all over the screen.
very good observations about Thailand and the Thai .. agree 100%..
You are a wanderer, a vagabond, you won't call any place home, you aren't going to change, so relax and enjoy your wanderlust.
have you tried Hua Hin or Chiangmai? Pattaya is way too crowded with tourists
Where were you in this vlog at the time ? I couldn't stand the weather there as you described it .
I kind of had the sensation you liked your trip to Cambodia. Of course a 'holiday' is different than a daily routine and doesn't allow you to evaluate and point out the pros and cons of living in a country, but I was wondering wether you might be thinking of moving to Cambodia next. Isn't tourism different there? Isn't it less polluted and crowded? Also, it is quite funny to hear you praise cool Japan weather as one of the things you said you could no longer stand was the greyish tone and rigid temperatures,...but I guess hot hot weather can be exhausting too (for me it would be unbearable on the medium and long run!)...I'm not criticizing :), I just find funny and ultimately interesting how sometimes things in life can be very relative yet we base our decisions and even opinions on such things. As you say, it's ok to be in search, coherence in many cases is overestimated in my opinion, and changing mind, contradicting ourselves, learning from experience, seeking and finding and losing and finding again our balance is very important. For whatever reason, by whatever means. I like "where" you are right now. I think I am the same age as you and I understand it, even though I haven't learned to act according to these feelings. But that's another story. Hope you are fine during this period in Japan. Take care.
Kool man...i wish I had the $ to do wat ur doing. You're actually living your life; I envy you man (positively😊), thanx for the post. Question:how much $$$ did u leave the USA with? I ask so I have some kind of reference as to how much one would need if they're willing to or want to work at the destinations (Thailand,Japan in ur case so far) .
When is the wedding?
Thanks bro!
I think you may want to give US another try. I grew up in san francisco and live in korea now but will definitely move back. I need to be able to speak to people and so many opportunities are missed if I cant speak fluently a language or feel accepted. SF is changing and gentrified now.. but the US is such a huge place with so many diff communities.. you should explore the US.
Why didn't you try living in Chiang Mai?
I agree with your comment, I live in Bangkok 5 years, and I could not live to Pattaya, even if there is less car traffic it's too much of everything in a small town, that's true Jomtien is more quiet, but arround Chiang Mai it's even better and less expensive, if you avoid Patong, Phuket is also interresting to live. There are also many town in the country less known but they are interresting, less tourists, cheaper prices, more authentic
chiang mai just like bangkok i think buriram
Ryan, did you think of Taiwan ???. very clean, nice people, cheap food and very good food you can teach English here,
visa is 90 day then u can extend to 180 days then its 90 day till the following year ( you can only do 90 to 180 once a year) flights for visa are cheap, Kaohsiung (where i live) to Macao is about 4000 NT$ Return. u can get morning flight then return but 12noon, rooms with AirBnB are cheap and u can rent for a month for about 6000NT$, Kaohsiung is a nice city. good shopping for clothes and food. i live on about 2000NT$ a week my rent is 6000NT$ a month no electric but i pay for gas.
Ryan, no country is perfect. An to expect perfection just isn't logical. Thailand has figured out a niche in the world. It's not for everyone. Some advise, Rei helps you grow, don't let her slip away.
Ryan if you like beaches try the Riviera Maya in Mexico or I hear good things about Portugal too. Even places like Croatia has a nice vibe. If Asia is your thing the Phillipines might be good for you. Personally I spent some time in South Korea and if you can deal with living in Japan I think Korea is nicer in terms of meeting people. Your skils in teaching english definitely can work there and its a pretty good gig, people make good money in cash for private tutoring if you had to do it just to make some pocket change. I assume that your investing takes care of the basic living. Plus its something to do. A lot of people think just going somewhere to chill is the dream lifestyle but people need a purpose in life beyond just chilling out.
Its important for us all, that we don't mistake a yearning for inner growth, for an unresolved problem we may have carried from some point earlier in our lives. The need to move on, the constant searching for something, this may never be satisfied if we don't identify the real reason we feel like this. Its fine when its a reasoned thought out decision with a clear goal at the end, but when its a yearning from within, it usually means there is something far deeper going on. When we find out what it is, we can be happy, settled and at peace with ourselves.
I still say one word...りえ!!! Great video!
i felt exactlylike you Ryan in Pattaya.. but i was omly there 2 months before i was sick of the place
I love and respect the people of Japan even though I have never been there.
I have lived in in countries where I should respect their culture but after having lived there I don't !
Pretty interesting video, Ryan. I hadn't thought much about Thailand personally but now that you mention it, there are some true points of interest. Shuddering over the mention of millipedes, ugh! Is it a cliché that they eat dogs and cats there? That bothers me a lot.. Take care, fella.
Hi, I felt like this after the second trip, and still do after 17 years. I see it from different places. Backpackers, Single men. I think you need to go back Ryan again, and check out Krabi Town, Chiang Rai, Udon Thani. I have been 26 times and I am off back next week. Because it is a Paradise after all this time. You will see eventually.
I could almost feel how he feels: a sense of unsettleness. You just keep looking until you find something and then move on again.
go Kabul man, coffee shops and culture, the bombings are exaggerated just like them bloggers paining Thailand as paradise
I'd like to go there. Afghanistan's awesome.
I miss ny. I need to get out of missouri. Where we lived in the Catskills there was an Asian retreat and they taught yoga and Thai chi. Not like there I'm sure but it beats being here!
I really like your logics
So you working as english teacher again?
Ryan, I'm in agreement with you about the heat. Yea, people say you will acclimate to it but even the Thais are affected by the heat, just ask them. The high rise areas of Bangkok seem to simply amplify the sun and heat. Man, I fucking died there most every day for the 3 weeks I visited.
i dont get why you hate living in the US.... just curious
Feminist shithole.
BornAgain happyfriday he already appointed his rich buddies into his cabinate what greatness you are talking about?
Is Canada a little to liberal for you? Feel free to head back to the Czech Republic and bask in the wonder of your own meaningless shit hole.
If Canada is so bad and the Czech Republic is so great why not get off your ass and travel back to the Czech Republic to rejoin the rest of your fascist buddies and stop complaining about moving to a country you can't stand? Seriously, if you don't like it then GTFO. Nobody will miss your endless bitching and moaning as a guest in a country you can't stand.
If you hate Canadians so much why are you still living in Canada? You're like the village idiot who complains all day but can't take a hint that it's time to shut up and go back home.
i think ur very informative and very real i was drawn to you in this video why not try Kamala in Phuket away from Patong not like Pattaya check it out its beautiful i will enjoy watching more of ur videos
Hi Ryan, it seems you feel stuck right now. I don't know you at all, other than watching your videos, and I don't want to sound condescending, but I think you could get something interesting from a journey that is more than just another apartment in another town in Asia. I think you seek something deeper. Have you heard of the great Himalaya Trail for example? That is an extraordinary journey, and a very spiritual experience. You can decide the length, rhythm and level of difficulty yourself. The higher route leads through the mountains and is hard, but the lower route goes through beautiful valleys and towns. More here: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Himalaya_Trail
I like this a lot more than the last two. honesty is always better but I still don't what going on. very confusing.
So where are you now and what is your next step?
I like it when you keep the camera focused on the scenery instead of your face.
Mate try the Philippines it's amazing! ;)
You are correct in everything you say. You may like Chiang Mai. I have not been to Hua Hin, I heard there are many British there. Jomtien is south of Pattaya. Much more relaxed, no heavy bar girl scene. I am interested in Vietnam. I would like to see you visit there and get your impressions. Also, your impressions of: Burma, Laos, and Cambodia. Did you break up with your Japanese girlfriend? She seemed to be in love with you.
courageous man
Im sorry Ryan but moving to Pattaya is your issue that is not Thailand ?Have you been to the South of Thailand ? I have been regularly visiting for the last 2 decades and have been all over Thailand , in recent years my British family has invested in land and have built unexpectedly a holiday resort on an island near Samui , they have experienced nothing but an excellent reception from the Thai and have been shown nothing but respect during their stay ,i myself have decided to join them this June and say goodbye to my life in the UK for good ! , for me i can only say Thailand is a beautiful country and a place full of opportunity
The grass ain't always greener on the other side, huh? Now you realise there's some truth in every stereotype.
That's not true. Mr Boundless has responded to my comment on a number of occasions. That being said. Throwing positive vibes your way brother. Keep on keeping on is all you have to do. The world has a way of alignment. Bless