3 habits for better work-life balance

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  • @Thomasfrank
    @Thomasfrank  4 роки тому +28

    Learn how to build strong habits that actually stick - take my FREE habit-building course: collegeinfogeek.com/go/habit-course/ (this is an affiliate link, so using it also supports my channel 😀 )

  • @BattlefieldSailor
    @BattlefieldSailor 4 роки тому +667

    “You can do ANYthing, but you can’t do EVERYthing.”
    “Choose what you want to grow.”
    Prioritize and execute, get out there and do the work!

    • @alexgubar4798
      @alexgubar4798 4 роки тому +6

      Essentialism gang

    • @BattlefieldSailor
      @BattlefieldSailor 4 роки тому +12

      Alex Gubar start with the big things or you’ll never fit them in. Life is far too short for only doing what is essential. Take breaks, turn up the burner on hobbies, creativity, and vacation. Start with work though, and focus to get in and get out. Money is a tool to do the rest, and work and service is the rent we pay to others for our time here.

    • @armorsmith43
      @armorsmith43 4 роки тому +6

      Your discipline is a garden.
      Build the discipline that feeds you what you need whatever the weather.

  • @Speckles143
    @Speckles143 4 роки тому +608

    The acceleration addiction is so real!
    🔆 Notes
    1. Create obligations
    2. Identify negative external factors and figure out what truly makes you happy and focus on the latter
    3. Work intensely. Cut out low value activities

    • @vechnijdvizok3392
      @vechnijdvizok3392 4 роки тому +3

      Thank you

    • @baltaza
      @baltaza 4 роки тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your notes!

    • @maxdrvn
      @maxdrvn 4 роки тому +1

      why the hell don't they make time stamps!?

  • @97LifeMelody
    @97LifeMelody 4 роки тому +607

    Thomas: 1% improvements, small steps
    Also thomas: video quality already exceeds that of some hollywood feature films and gets 100% better each time.

    • @chrisbackstage
      @chrisbackstage 4 роки тому +16

      Sara Jamous 1% a day makes 365% a year, means 1000% in less than 3 years 😅 Consistence. Especially in filmmaking and creative fields. 😄

    • @axeman567
      @axeman567 4 роки тому +9

      @@chrisbackstage not 351%
      1% more today is actually 1% of 101% yesterday.

    • @albericponcedeleon2696
      @albericponcedeleon2696 4 роки тому +12

      @@chrisbackstage I don't think that's how percentages work but at least the idea comes across clearly.

    • @A-Wa
      @A-Wa 4 роки тому +1

      his skills improved extremely! but in this topic, idk felt like he rushed through the topic. it was too fast for me ^^‘

    • @rubaiyatasnim8796
      @rubaiyatasnim8796 4 роки тому

      It's actually somewhere around 33% each year, read that in atomic habits

  • @codeandcurious
    @codeandcurious 4 роки тому +207

    3 habits for better work-life balance
    1. create obligations to improve after your every work
    give time for your hobbies to release stress (1:38)
    2. list out what you truly enjoy doing (7:29)

    3. work intensely with purpose (9:46)

  • @aliabdaal
    @aliabdaal 4 роки тому +473

    Illegitimate sources of pressure are the worst :P

  • @ChasingObstacles
    @ChasingObstacles 4 роки тому +1332

    Thomas’s mom: Thomas go play outside.
    Thomas: takes Xbox outside.

  • @JoskoKraken
    @JoskoKraken 4 роки тому +276

    You've definitely improved a lot since I started watching you a few years back. Love your content!

  • @Thomasfrank
    @Thomasfrank  4 роки тому +20

    Here's my 1% Rule log for this video:
    - Lots of effort put into the thumbnail's composition; it stitches multiple pictures together (see the process in the Production highlight reel on my Instagram profile: instagram.com/tomfrankly/ )
    - Heavy, heavy sound design - made use of a lot of panning, reverb, and clip-specific EQ to achieve a better mix
    - Learned how to create a rising number counter in After Effects, along with a manually-created LCD screen effect
    - First use of a 360 camera
    What is the 1% Rule? Essentially, it's the idea that you should aim to get 1% better with each piece of work you do, instead of pressuring yourself to create "perfect" work. Over time, these 1% improvements add up as long as you're consistent. More info, along with my journal for all videos, here: thomasjfrank.com/my-1-rule-journal/
    P.S. - how balanced does your life feel to you right now?

    • @rusinsr
      @rusinsr 4 роки тому

      You have an extra parenthesis at the end of your instagram URL ;)
      I'm a pretty new viewer, so take this following criticism with a grain of salt, but your videos are better at 1.25x speed or more. (i.e., feel slow at normal speed) Great stuff though!

    • @Thomasfrank
      @Thomasfrank  4 роки тому +4

      @@rusinsr Whoops - thank for letting me know!
      Speed is probably the area where I'll never be able to please everyone; some people want it faster, some are non-native English speakers who would prefer me to speak even more slowly than I do.

  • @the_gobbo
    @the_gobbo 4 роки тому +26

    This video actually helped me realise my acceleration addiction, I was trying to study in advance my college material and realised i was getting depressed when my pace wasn't as fast as I wanted it to be, thanks Thomas, you really helped me🥰

    • @zeeshanjanjua
      @zeeshanjanjua 4 роки тому +1

      @Eduardo Gobbo
      Sometimes just doing something is enough to feel satisfaction because, with satisfaction comes open mindedness!!!

  • @brunocalcagno1256
    @brunocalcagno1256 4 роки тому +6

    Just an appreciation comment for all of your support into my life all these years with your videos. I started watching you when I was a freshman in 2017. Now I'm a graduate on my 2nd job and currently starting my own company, but specially a productivity machine always learning new things and trying to be my best self. Keep up the good work Thomas

  • @ajwaldsouza8812
    @ajwaldsouza8812 4 роки тому +5

    This is exactly what I needed. An unknown fear of losing has made me push myself too hard for the past couple of weeks and I have hit a stone wall, a burnout. I should start worrying about my work alone and try to keep all the burners on in a balanced way. Thanks Tom!

  • @KelciDComics
    @KelciDComics 4 роки тому +151

    That metaphor though: mindlessly scrolling on social media doesn't fall into one of the burners (work, health, relationships, hobbies), it's more like poking a hole in the gasline.
    I mean there's a LOT of things that are the equivalent of poking holes in the gasline. But the wording of that just made my brain pull an AHA moment.

  • @tullyparker
    @tullyparker 4 роки тому +30

    Sweet shot at 7:55. I just ordered some inline skates (used to skate as a kid). Pretty excited!

  • @patrickgervacio5100
    @patrickgervacio5100 4 роки тому +22

    Am i the only one who noticed that he was watching Nathaniel Drew's video? I love both of your channels @Thomas Frank and @Nathaniel Drew! Keep it up!

  • @Einsteinnr2
    @Einsteinnr2 4 роки тому +75

    This editing is sick to be honest! :D

  • @jesse3441
    @jesse3441 4 роки тому +610

    Is no one going to mention Thomas’ haircut? Looks great on him.

    • @darKMasterPy
      @darKMasterPy 4 роки тому +13

      That is what I was about to say. Haha. Really elegant and professional but really cool though.

    • @jovi_way
      @jovi_way 4 роки тому +18

      Tom obviously mastered the new skill of haircutting during quarantine, guys

    • @Cauldron6
      @Cauldron6 4 роки тому +10

      I liked this comment before he even came on screen. I had faith in Thomas’s haircut choice, and in his viewer’s ability to know good taste.

    • @DaniaReyes0512
      @DaniaReyes0512 4 роки тому +3

      Oh my....yes...looks awesome!!

    • @elishahferrera3045
      @elishahferrera3045 4 роки тому +2

      Omg. Yea!! Noticed it when I saw your comment. 😄

  • @ersimn
    @ersimn 4 роки тому +13

    I really like what you said about the fact that we have so many possibilities nowadays. I'm very thankful to live in an age with access to so many content and be privileged enough to be able to go after what interests me, but sometimes I do feel absolutely overwhelmed by the number of things I'd like to do. And even when I'm doing a lot of these things - things that I enjoy - it often feels like I did not do enough.
    Thank you so much for this video, great content as usual.

  • @vmizobuti
    @vmizobuti 4 роки тому +2

    I am amazed by how your videos got a lot better for the past 6 months (and started noticing it mostly after your burnout video). As someone that has watched your stuff for the past 5 years, I really appreciate that you're putting a lot of care in presenting your ideas more deeply and beautifully. And by the way, nice haircut!

  • @victorgabrielmoreleduarte5999
    @victorgabrielmoreleduarte5999 4 роки тому +137

    lovin this "I'm not your dad" new phase

    • @igor-yp1xv
      @igor-yp1xv 4 роки тому +10

      he could be my daddy tho

    • @DaniaReyes0512
      @DaniaReyes0512 4 роки тому +1

      @@igor-yp1xv LOL....I feel the same way!

  • @DavyYap
    @DavyYap 4 роки тому +4

    Wow the 1% rule is no joke. I've been a subscriber for 3+ years now and your content has improved by HUGE margins. So happy to see your progress!

  • @riverraines270
    @riverraines270 4 роки тому +30

    I'm proud of myself for absolutely quitting Instagram, I've never been this productive. And obviously Thomas's videos help heaps.

  • @darKMasterPy
    @darKMasterPy 4 роки тому +2

    Thomas, I followed your videos like 2 or 3 years ago and there is so much improvement I can say I applied to my college life, now that I finished most of it just waiting for finishing my thesis!
    I like your videos because they are simple, well scripted and you can see you are almost always pursuing getting better in your contents, and also for me, not a native English speaker, it is really good to hear you, because I am practicing all the time at the same time, I learn new vocabulary, phonetics, you are really good at intonation and you make yourself clear when you speak.
    Just thank you, great man!

  • @julie9136
    @julie9136 4 роки тому

    the qualities of your videos just keep getting better it’s insane

  • @BenettGraezer
    @BenettGraezer 4 роки тому

    Great video! Really got a lot out of this! Thanks Thomas!

  • @AntiParallali
    @AntiParallali 4 роки тому

    Tom has a sense of insight like no other 10/10

  • @josie5056
    @josie5056 4 роки тому +2

    The quality of this video is amazing...I've watched a lot of your videos and over time you can definitely see how much you have improved film-making wise. The colour grading of this is beautiful

  • @shariqkhan8656
    @shariqkhan8656 4 роки тому

    Much respect to you talking about the vulnerabilities that you (and almost everyone) faced - jealousy, acceleration addiction, and attaching materialistic parameters to succes

  • @krispy777
    @krispy777 4 роки тому +2

    Your videos are becoming more professional and mature looking over time. Additionally, it’s nice to see parts of your humour appear in B roll clips. I’m glad you were able to find an editor that understands and shares the same vision for each video. You allowed yourself to focus on research and script writing without a major concern for the editing of the final product. It is really tough to trust others, even with simple things, when one has perfectionist tendencies. Be proud :) And finally, thank you for sharing the process of how you made this thumbnail on Instagram.

  • @VeaceslavBARBARII
    @VeaceslavBARBARII 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you for a piece of wisdom.
    I'm 25 and I'm glad I found it out not in old age.

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 4 роки тому +5

    Love that you focus on improving one thing in each video you create. This process will give marginal gains, which in the long term show huge results. I think I'll try and apply the same with my videos.

  • @studykendrick2029
    @studykendrick2029 4 роки тому +1

    Narrowing down your craft is a good one. I feel like I've been branching out too much and not really focusing much on what I'm already good at. Thanks for this video!

  • @MichelePandini
    @MichelePandini 4 роки тому

    I appreciate you doing a written version of this video. Since I am studying English and try to improve the language, have the written is not only another way for me to practice reading, but also to understand even more the message. I hope to see this more often.

  • @gakorothyt9768
    @gakorothyt9768 4 роки тому +2

    Dude that transition to ad was real smooth. Took me a while to realise it.

  • @aleng7030
    @aleng7030 4 роки тому +9

    It's essential to keep a work-life balance! People have an inner drive to achieve and be productive but also have social needs a s well. Learning to balance the two ensures a more enriching and fulfilling life.

  • @sirbelacolony7492
    @sirbelacolony7492 4 роки тому

    He is such a relatable person.

  • @Matildacona
    @Matildacona 4 роки тому

    This comments section is the complete opposite of most of youtube's comments sections and I'm living for it. You are really creating an awesome community here

  • @YashBhatter
    @YashBhatter 4 роки тому +15

    *This is the need of the hour. Thomas, you're always perfect! Thanks for everything!*

    • @mzashtiker
      @mzashtiker 4 роки тому +1

      You telling that to a perfectionist 💀

  • @emilywelsh1072
    @emilywelsh1072 28 днів тому

    This video was super helpful - I loved the stove analogy. Thank you!!

  • @DaytonLawton
    @DaytonLawton 4 роки тому

    Great practical advice.
    1. Define the activities that truly make you happy.
    2. Do whatever you need to do to remove lethargy from your activities.
    3. Remove low impact activities that drain time (mindless surfing, binge watching)

  • @SantiagoHernandez-pv3xy
    @SantiagoHernandez-pv3xy 4 роки тому +2

    This is a fantastic video. I love how you talk about the importance of emotional health & being able to identify the things that come from external validation. Ur productivity tips have always been helpful but this is on a different level.

  • @kasramikaili6593
    @kasramikaili6593 4 роки тому

    WOW! Every single video is making me productive by so much! Not to mention the production value makes it fun to watch... Your amazing! Thank you for helping others

  • @sophiejackson4748
    @sophiejackson4748 4 роки тому

    Such cinematography, such metaphor, such fabulousness!

  • @마사렛M
    @마사렛M 2 роки тому

    i love your editing and comparison to make it more understandable

  • @carorox
    @carorox 2 роки тому

    Thank you much Thomas. These tips really helped. I’ve been struggling so much trying to a balance full time work 40 hours a week along with trying to have a social life and professional learning on top of that. I need to prioritise my health and do what I love. Thank you

  • @EarthStory
    @EarthStory 4 роки тому

    Thanks for the wisdom Thomas!

  • @dingdon24
    @dingdon24 4 роки тому +1

    The increased production value on Thomas’ videos now compared to even a year ago is insane-absolutely impressive quality jump and doesn’t go unnoticed. Congratulations and keep it up!

  • @JohnIvess
    @JohnIvess 4 роки тому

    It is an incredible video. When we get at least little bit conscious, we watch people, who encourage us to hard work (and only hard work). Later you realize that life is not only about work itself, and such videos are like gold since there are not so many of them compared to the motivational ones.

  • @lucasgauci
    @lucasgauci 4 роки тому +1

    Wow. Best video to date. You really hit the nail on the head with so many points that are often obvious or already said but rarely tied together and connected in a way that helps change a mindset rather than just a helpful tip. Super motivating and empowering dude, all the examples made me think of my own examples in my life which help me to care and understand even further. Been watching your channel for quite some time now and the constant improvements and reminders to be the best I can be and live the happiest life I can have really been my 1%s. Thank you so much.
    Also great soundtrack, it really added to the experience.

  • @kiritivundavilli7654
    @kiritivundavilli7654 4 роки тому

    TOM THIS IS ONE OF YOUR MOST PROFOUND VIDS

  • @joshuaso5777
    @joshuaso5777 4 роки тому

    Without going into detail, this video is genuinely what I need right now. Thank you

  • @seankingston8091
    @seankingston8091 4 роки тому

    thank you for putting words to the key issues and giving methods for solving the problem that I did not even know I had.

  • @briantimbal8711
    @briantimbal8711 2 роки тому

    Great content. The discussions are clear and it's not imposing. More of educational rather than coercive approach. Thanks for this 😎🤟

  • @MrMarshEnglishClass
    @MrMarshEnglishClass 4 місяці тому

    You are so good at this. Thank you for your insight.

  • @cpkthompson
    @cpkthompson 4 роки тому

    Wow Frank. This was very good. Thanks sharing the knowledge!

  • @rinthederp9075
    @rinthederp9075 4 роки тому +1

    I love the editing you did for this video. Specifically the '80's era decor.

  • @RanDom-bk8tt
    @RanDom-bk8tt 4 роки тому

    Nice haircut! And thank you as always! Realistic, practical and useful information.

  • @JasbirSingh-fk4wj
    @JasbirSingh-fk4wj 4 роки тому

    The quality of the content is good!
    And the actual quality (resolutions) is good too..
    Love it.. 😃

  • @gabriellewilkie6634
    @gabriellewilkie6634 4 роки тому

    The video was great. The outtro was spectacular.

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 4 роки тому +69

    The irony of getting notifications from videos about not being distracted.

  • @paperheartzz
    @paperheartzz 4 роки тому

    The *very light* ticker sound on the number ticker is a nice touch.

  • @parooweu
    @parooweu 4 роки тому

    I've been watching your channel for couple years now and this is the single best advice I have ever seen here. Good job!

  • @MA-th4ts
    @MA-th4ts 4 роки тому +2

    Wow, that transition into the promotion for brilliant was impressive.

  • @JacobPatrick1
    @JacobPatrick1 3 роки тому

    This is QUALITY.
    Like all your vehicles are.
    Which is why I subscribed.

  • @vivianhir3930
    @vivianhir3930 4 роки тому

    I found your channel 5 years ago and let me just say it has introduced me to so many awesome and inspirational people. Thank you so much for motivating me to keep improving. Keep it up!

  • @jorgevaladez6795
    @jorgevaladez6795 4 роки тому

    This is the type of video I need to re-watch and take notes. Excellent vid!

  • @raregodcards
    @raregodcards 4 роки тому +2

    Acceleration addiction. Wow, I didn’t know that weird thing that keeps me from really going hard on my goals right now IS REAL! It’s like a mental distraction you said it best; We can do ANYTHING so we fee like we’re even more pressured lol. This is very informative👍🏾. Thanks man!

  • @DavidAlizadeh
    @DavidAlizadeh 4 роки тому

    Thank you for the great video Thomas! 😊

  • @MephistosEyes
    @MephistosEyes 4 роки тому

    You've come a long man good to see your videos are improving more and more.

  • @boikanyontsimane8641
    @boikanyontsimane8641 4 роки тому

    I love your videos and they just keep getting better and better, the editing on this one is insane! Had to watch it more than once

  • @ahmedlootah484
    @ahmedlootah484 4 роки тому

    Useful , Thanks Thomas on your efforts to make this video

  • @loverosecandy
    @loverosecandy 4 роки тому +1

    I feel productive just by watching your videos! Altho that may be counter productive i actually do learn a lot and feel more motivated! So thank youuu

  • @myname_isblaine
    @myname_isblaine 4 роки тому +6

    9:50 "The value of time isn’t determined solely by the amount of time itself, but also by the intensity and the strategic value of the effort that you exert during it."
    Brilliant. Sometimes I already know what I should be doing, but I can't bring myself to commit to it. The way you word things brings a new way of thinking about common and consistent problems. This sort of mental trickery is exactly why I susbcribed.

  • @alves7926
    @alves7926 4 роки тому

    This is by far your best video, so congratulations!

  • @crnbts
    @crnbts 4 роки тому

    yes inline skating is such a great way to relieve stress! especially learning ways to slide

  • @njrom
    @njrom 4 роки тому

    I love how the burner is sunk up with when the burner turns on. Your 1% improvements are really showing!

  • @sumahuma6054
    @sumahuma6054 4 роки тому

    This is great. I'm going to watch it multiple times. Thank you Thomas.

  • @IndianMOMInAustralia
    @IndianMOMInAustralia 2 роки тому

    Thankyou .. loved the video.. particularly the example of burners

  • @TheHappilyDistressed
    @TheHappilyDistressed 4 роки тому

    This video was so motivating and beautiful. I love the burner example

  • @reubenvarghese4857
    @reubenvarghese4857 4 роки тому

    Love the transitions!

  • @ashshashidaran1512
    @ashshashidaran1512 4 роки тому +57

    I’m just sitting here watching Netflix, while you are being hella productive 😂

  • @Rangazee
    @Rangazee 4 роки тому

    The lighting on your videos is awesome. It takes effort to make the picture look THAT good. Make a video on how you do your lighting! Please 😁

  • @tonatiuhislas8006
    @tonatiuhislas8006 4 роки тому

    I love the intro. Great video as always Thomas. As usual, your videos are in the most important time of the day for me.

  • @ChrisBarnardCB
    @ChrisBarnardCB 4 роки тому

    Super helpful metaphor! Thanks Frank!

  • @serin238
    @serin238 4 роки тому

    Thomas, you keep on levelling up!

  • @CassadyAlberico
    @CassadyAlberico 4 роки тому

    I totally understand the Nathaniel reference. That man is wholly unique and I have to remind myself that I should approach that feeling with open appreciation instead of jealousy.

  • @brianochieng5904
    @brianochieng5904 4 роки тому

    Thank You, Frank, Amazing video.

  • @edsonrocks
    @edsonrocks 4 роки тому

    Thank you. I'm watching this video in loop, it's mind blowing how the points listed are inner inserted in my daily routine.
    Thank you

  • @businessguide6219
    @businessguide6219 3 роки тому

    Glad I found this channel! Your videos are so good!

  • @justinlagman7754
    @justinlagman7754 4 роки тому

    Video editing's on fire!

  • @noel9232
    @noel9232 4 роки тому

    Really great and helpful video :D Also those 3 different shots of you skating took me by complete surprise! I've never seen those kinds of shots before and it looks so incredible !

  • @chandrikashanmugam4333
    @chandrikashanmugam4333 4 роки тому

    Script of this video is awsum Tom!.. Great work!

  • @beardedgladiator8576
    @beardedgladiator8576 4 роки тому

    Love the points you make here! I am working towards allowing myself the time I need to improve and it is making a huge difference.

  • @nathanielblake1816
    @nathanielblake1816 4 роки тому

    This is God Level Work Brother! Disciple!

  • @scarlettr8823
    @scarlettr8823 4 роки тому

    Thanks as always for this. As a fan for 4 years now I often know the right habits already but I tend to fall short. And I think because they do not address the things underneath -- lack of boundaries, fomo and self-worth. This video hits those things and hits the issues deeply as well. Thank you so much!

  • @bmxshow
    @bmxshow 4 роки тому

    Bro!!! Props and respect for going in inch wide and a mile deep. So many want to be personal development groups preaching insights at a macro level only.
    your presentation is both macro and micro level insights and execution technique.
    U = dope 🔥🙋‍♂️

  • @Heneggsboss
    @Heneggsboss 3 роки тому

    Omg, this is the algorythm at finest. Great, helpful, memorable video. Thank you

  • @farzad_tahamtani
    @farzad_tahamtani 4 роки тому

    Maybe of your best videos, loved it 👌🏻👌🏻

  • @valentina7193
    @valentina7193 4 роки тому +1

    Sometimes I feel like I impose myself too many obligations I can't seem to ever catch up on them. Anyway thank you for this Tom... much needed reminders

  • @ronniepatel6088
    @ronniepatel6088 4 роки тому

    Very interesting concept. Never really thought about it. Cool vid.